How To Get A Girlfriend/12 Simple Steps And Tips

[@nasattatsakhamtatnadjartat6892]

I have my 15 and 16 year old sons watching your videos. Great insights for young men who may not be fortunate enough to have a positive, classy male role model. You're much appreciated!

[@TheStyleOG]

glad to be of service!

[@katrinasmith1464]

AWESOME!!!

[@joeruth4262]

they gonna be simps!!!

[@renee2641]

@@joeruth4262 🤣🤣

[@brianholt8575]

Watch Darius he’s by far the best way better than this

[@savvylifestrategies9445]

Excellent, as always, Jeff. Getting a woman is one thing, keeping her is another. I'm married for 51 years. My secret is to always engage in conversation and talk things out. There are always bumps in any relationship, but talking helps immensely.

[@TheStyleOG]

appreciate your perspective Lou!

[@katrinasmith1464]

EXACTLY!

[@lwrncjms]

Is that Dr. Phil?

[@ohiorichkidbeats]

your sooo right..that was very well said

[@marvinspencer7858]

Okay that so cool, thanks

[@Candle_of_Yanni]

Summary guy here! 1. Become as successful as you can be. 2. Get in the best shape of your life. 3. Accentuate and develop your personality strengths. 4. Improve your style. 5. Have structure. 6. Get offline, and get into the real world. 7. Approach with confidence. 8. Invite her out on a date. 9. Make sure you’re on time. 10. Listen twice as much as you talk. 11. Call the next day, let her know you had a good time, let her know you enjoyed getting to know her, and you hope to do so more in the future. 12. Don’t be overbearing, and rush her to be your girlfriend.

[@senister14]

Appreciate it man.

[@nikki90100]

He is a real life “Hitch”🔥🔥🔥

[@Midori_270]

Being “the best version of yourself” does wonders not only with the women, but other men as well. People want to be around someone capable of holding themselves. And just like you said Jeff, the merely *striving* to be that version puts you on the right way. Salute!

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Alejandro!

[@zyairebenson185]

You prolly dont care but does anybody know of a method to log back into an instagram account?? I was stupid forgot my login password. I would appreciate any assistance you can offer me

[@Wonderwoman79G]

It is refreshing to see a classy take on an old subject. You have been respectful towards women about the way men can approach them. It is a rare thing to see on the internet.

[@TheStyleOG]

appreciate the input!

[@MarieAmicalola]

I'm a lady and I approve these methods.

[@TheStyleOG]

Why thank you Marie !

[@presleecarson532]

Marie The Alchemist you’re awesome

[@pr0adam]

nobody cares

[@ladyempire5921]

Absolutely love the gems you're dropping for the men. It's such a breath of fresh air to see this positive role in our society. Keep up the excellent work. Btw...you've opened my eyes to a wealth of knowledge pertaining to the male pov.

[@TheStyleOG]

Appreciate you Lady!

[@dwaneasley9119]

@@TheStyleOG word. U really helped me to see what's right/wrong with me as a man! Peace big bruh✌🏾✊🏾💪🏾

[@houseofallena5953]

Confidence, being himself, well groomed, down to earth, good conversationalist and a beautiful smile will catch me!

[@TheStyleOG]

Appreciate the input!

[@Davviid43]

Salute OG and Salute to everyone in the comments section

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute David!

[@monsieurmike2072]

Salute David!..😎🤙

[@carlosthomas802]

Salute..

[@monsieurmike2072]

@@carlosthomas802 Salute!

[@thomasleongeorgerobertglad7560]

Salute amigo been seeing you around lately, you're a good man, friendly, respectful and charisma that seeps through into the written word, I can tell personality wise you are a man of style, keep being you amigo

[@gary6514]

OG is correct. Confidence is EVERYTHING. By dressing well your confidence will increase. If you look good and you know it you will feel more relaxed and you will be checked out by women. Trust me it does happen...a lot. Listen to my favourite OG.....salute.

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Gary!

[@mikeandmars2345]

True

[@dan_4531]

@Corey Pack same big dawg

[@sunsetnwaves]

I’m Loving this Shirt and Jacket combo

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks!

[@queenofthesouth4205]

This is Queen approved👑. Thanks Jeff....Men we prefer you to call us, you can not build a relationship on texting .

[@TheStyleOG]

Appreciate it Queen!

[@TA-ht4jo]

And we prefer that you don’t flake and play games. You cannot build a relationship on games.

[@lukeniwollo7680]

This is so good. A lot of guys ignore these tips because they are so caught up into manipulating, tricking and trying to be someone they are not. Focus on women who respond to your energy.

[@ah5721]

My husband invited me to do stuff with him. Let me tell you it worked, I enjoyed his company because he planned things and we had an enjoyable time! I never had to think about anything except what I was going to wear. It was refreshing! SALUTE to you Mr Jeff!

[@user-nq8nl4wh9w]

I really like this. Your assertive friendly confident and taking the lead. Women love this. Plus you come in not playing games and telling us what you want.

[@TheStyleOG]

appreciate the feedback S C!

[@tramaynemanor2267]

You on point O.G. the same rules I live by. You hit it on the nose about listening more then speaking on the first date. Simple convo works the best. Salute Style OG.

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute!

[@timberhills1778]

Married 23 years,but I still dress to impress and try to be my best,the women will still take notice,my wife will say only with me ❤️

[@TheStyleOG]

Yes Sir!

[@dmvnation595]

Hey OG, few things I invested in thanks to watching your videos. 1- Camel Overcoat 2- Tweed blazer 3-Dress boots from Allen Edmonds (30% off right now btw) 4- million dollar collar and Wurkin stiffs collar stays 👈🏼 should definitely check this out. It’s amazing Thanks OG for your style wisdom... Salute!!!!

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Marvin !

[@LuchadorMasque]

Dress boots?

[@dmvnation595]

Kyle Miller you’ll thank the OG later... check some of his past videos on dress boots

[@MauricXe]

Thanks for breaking down how to talk to women and including a sample of what to say. No cheesy pickup lines needed. And for the love of gawd...CALL and don't text. "God gave you two ears and one mouth. Listen twice as much as you talk". I love that!

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute!

[@Chefjoe63]

Jeff spoken like a true OG, i have been married for the last 25 years but these are the some of the things that i used to get my wife, when i met her i was scruffy and unshaven because i was not looking for anyone at the time so she didn't realize that my career was what it was and she liked me for me and we became friends first but your suggestions are spot on . SALUTE BROTHER

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute JT!

[@Nonetomuch]

Great video. I want to leave some advice for the fellas. Always be yourself. This may sound simple but I have seen it first hand that a lot of us try to imitate people we think are cooler than we are or better with the ladies than we are. This never works. Women can smell real confidence. You being yourself will bring out that confidence naturally believe me. I learned this about 20 years ago and it has never failed me. I'm married now, but when I was single I never had a problem approaching women. I realized that I'm just as interesting as the women I wanted to meet....if not more lol. Own all your "flaws" and realize they make you who you are. Laugh at yourself, then no one can really laugh at you, they can only laugh with you. Dont take yourself too seriously, and dont beat yourself up when you make a mistake. You're human it's ok. Mistakes are lessons that teach us how to do something the right way. Remeber the saying "never make the same mistake twice"...lesson. And lastly remember fellas women are humans too. They aren't mythical creatures who sometimes come down off their pedestals and play with us when they're bored. She has flaws and insecurities as well. It's not for us to exploit them but to understand and appreciate them once you get to know her. Keep this in mind when you want to approach a beautiful woman. Even she has something she may not like about herself or wants to change. That's it thanks for these videos. It helps a lot of fellas out.

[@TheStyleOG]

thanks for the input!

[@Nonetomuch]

@Blessed Rivers & Streams Salute

[@rebeccademosthene5798]

I nearly passed out after tip number 1...I think it's sad that so many good brother's don't understand this 🤦🏾.... great tips Jeff! 😉

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks Rebecca!

[@sergioquintanilla3746]

OG, your the man! I have been struggling with girls and the online dating site thing. I feel like my confidence is low enough though I have a lot going on for me. If you can post more videos like this that would be great! Thanks OG and Salute!

[@TheStyleOG]

More to come !

[@treanthony9831]

Sergio quintanilla if things are not going well with dating in your state or online , try another state. If it’s not going well in another state, there is always overseas. There are plenty women overseas looking for a partner or husband.

[@dragosavo]

You did a very good job in this video. My additional counsel to others is don't try to like someone just because you want a girlfriend. I think a lot of people do that when dating. Give them a chance but as Jeff said really listen to them. Is the conversation something that draws you in or are you drifting off hoping they will stop talking. .You are not doing them or yourself a favor if you are not honest.

[@TheStyleOG]

appreciate the input!

[@Bronzyglow]

Your tips are on point. Thank you for helping your brothers! 💫

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Rita!

[@md.shaban639]

Jeff : 12 tips to get a girlfriend. Wife : This could be your last video. 😈

[@TheStyleOG]

Hilarious!

[@wutevrgoez.wr0ng]

The first step is thee most significant that all young men should hear; you don’t have to be rich you just have to be motivated.

[@ivychurch8247]

You are that guy! I told my 24 year old son to watch all of your videos. You dress very well and I really want some those styling tips to rub off on my son. He is a nurse in the military and he's very handsome and young. But your styling tips will help inhance what he already has. Bless you and keep the videos coming we really enjoy watching you Mr. Jeff. Thank you!

[@TheStyleOG]

Blessings Ivy!

[@GGaming321]

Just broke up couple of hours ago, so will have this video for later. Keep it up style og (will watch it later)

[@TheStyleOG]

Best wishes!

[@jjshbk]

I like the first date tips. I have been married for 26 years and my wife love when I invite her out more so the me suggesting that we go somewhere. That is a major tip you handed out.

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Eddie!

[@glenngray6859]

What’s up my bro Og. AKA the love doctor. Everything you said was on point my G . Great information for the single guy . Salute my friend.

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute my friend!

[@myway73100]

Thank you OG now this is the information I’ve been looking for . Like you I don’t believe in playing games or Manipulating the truth . I will be putting all of your useful information together real soon THX AGAIN

[@TheStyleOG]

No problem James!

[@presleecarson532]

james demarchet you’re awesome ☺️

[@kennethhasuik8042]

Also make sure you get rid of that GPS ankle bracelet before that first date.

[@TheStyleOG]

Haha!

[@davidtaylor8787]

Go ahead Brother Jeff! I love these steps and tips to get a girlfriend. 👍 No man can go wrong with these steps and tips. Great advice bro! Love that you gave examples on how to achieve the goal on getting a girlfriend. Salute!!! 👍

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute David !

[@MrROCKMUZK]

Finally a channel dedicated to the absolute growth of a man & new platforms that men must know how to engage on levels of how society challenges men....i was fortunate to fine tune a few things in my own experience & thru your reconnection to many true facts you state in numerous presentations(i dont call them videos/i personally feel its a insult to your content)... bottom line..."salute!"

[@msdjones30]

Provide and protect 🙏🏾💋🌷🤞🏽absolutely! 💯💯💯

[@TheStyleOG]

Indeed!

[@Migz2023]

Where was this video when I was in high school.

[@TheStyleOG]

Haha!

[@habeebhussain535]

OG: “only 5’10” Me: *standing at 5’9*

[@theblackknight9783]

5'8 here

[@firebrightinferno1018]

You guys are 5 foot?

[@301larussomusic]

Im 5'9" i think thats average height for men

[@jacquesvi9231]

5’9” here as the brother says it is the average height for the the rest of the world. In America the bro’s are damn too tall.

[@chillydawgg4354]

man i wish someone had told me this stuff before my early 40s...thanks, subbed

[@TheStyleOG]

Welcome to the channel!

[@booksonomy]

My GUY!💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾 Stay up. I support all the vids, no matter the topic! SALUTE!

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Books!

[@tiggi5602]

my man looking sharp as always!

[@TheStyleOG]

appreciate it Tiggi!

[@broussi]

The OG dropping alot of game for the single fellas in this video. Salute to you my brother.

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Brent!

[@chriskragel6451]

Not gonna lie, bro. Your stuff is informative and quite chilled. Thank you for the advice

[@TheStyleOG]

No problem Chris !

[@asmodeus9944]

Absolutely, women like to talk about what's happening in their lives. Your ears and showing interest in what she's saying is paramount! Superb segment!

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks Calvin !

[@asmodeus9944]

@@TheStyleOG Sure thing...

[@marvinspencer7858]

I enjoy the tips and example of how to say , and set up a date sounds so cool that you showed neutral situation of a invitation rather than asking.

[@thedraconianviking1185]

Can you do a "how to stop being a slave to my ex's every whim" video?

[@realdarrenparis1476]

Just don't give in to her whims. (This is someone with experience) She will either chase you or you'll eventually realize no one's coming to save you but yourself. Become the man you always wanted to be, start slow - take baby steps.

[@thedraconianviking1185]

@@realdarrenparis1476 Ironic because I always wanted to be the kind of man who is there for others.

[@katrinasmith1464]

Bruh you're just gonna have to CALL A SPADE...A SPADE and do what you gotta do to be happy. My mother always said if he don't hear what I'm saying. Well I will show him better than I can tell him. She did just that. Kept it moving.

[@TheStyleOG]

block her number then delete it..

[@Nightwing300]

The Style O.G. My man

[@DenaliKid93]

Thank You so much for this, Jeff!!! By the way, I love the music beat playing in the background!!! You had me bobbing my head to it!! What’s the name of the beat?!

[@fredrickwillis6767]

Listen twice as much as you talk!!!!!! Love that👍👍👍👍

[@TheStyleOG]

Yes Sir!

[@frederickhoward5598]

In these upside down days, things of success has whole other meaning, you will get got if you're not about your business and not hers!

[@mikew742]

Another excellent video Jeff, top drawer content, delivered in a very professional way - you should be on mainstream tv!! I’m not the best looking fella, but have gone out with some good looking women along the way, I’ve learnt that being complementary without being smarmy, humorous without taking the piss and confident without being dogmatic are all positives. Oh yeah, the listening skills piece....one million percent!

[@TheStyleOG]

Love it Mike!

[@kbrett2004]

I didn't want to watch this at first, but man, you never disappoint. Great advice as always. I'll throw a tip out that I messed up many first dates with after my divorce - don't talk about your ex! Especially in a negative light. That's a sure fire way to kill a date. Lesson learned for me. BTW, I'm loving that plaid jacket man. Is that Glen Plaid? Sharp.

[@TheStyleOG]

Yes it is! Never talk negatively about the ex. if asked, it just did not work out..

[@tineshiabobbitt62]

I love the knowledge you're giving the men it's great to see a positive role model in our society. I'm learning new things about men too continued success Jeff!

[@marybois-byrne2039]

Queen approved. Looking for my king. Gentlemen, a real woman wants and needs your best kindness, ethics, humor, and warmth. "Handsome is as handsome does."

[@TheStyleOG]

Appreciate the input!

[@smoothoperator3739]

Good job as usual and my friends thought so as well!

[@Jebro439]

The 12 step to the lay of your dreams by the Style O.G. Great video for all the single men out there. Keep up the good work

[@thehermit761]

wow this is really good advice man thank you for the knowledge! will try this this week at a singles party.

[@donalddavenport7516]

What's up Jeff Donald from Cincinnati checking in great advice Merry Christmas to you and your family and Salute

[@timjones2610]

Have you guys ever noticed how much work men have to do to get women attention yet they have to do little to nothing? It's waaaaay too many cons dealing with women these days. I gave up on that shit years ago.

[@TheStyleOG]

men are supposed to work hard Tim. is your job hard? do you just give up on things in life that are hard?

[@joec4334]

Life is way too hard for men to do this journey by ourselves at all times some companionship is good for the soul, if it takes a little hustle so be it

[@mona-lisa1187]

and this is what seperates the boys from the MEN.💅

[@tylewis89]

Great tips OG, keep doing ya thing bul!

[@hammerhands1774]

Sir! Thanks for the video! Informative, motivational. Thank you!

[@TheStyleOG]

no problem Anand!

[@MrHav1k]

It's that time of year for these videos again...

[@erdincoktay3554]

Saaaaaalute Style OG Jeff. Well done my Brethren. Dressier version of our selves never goes out of style. Unfortunately,lot of fellas fall into the casual ( team jersey/sport shirts sneakers and baseball caps) trap.

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Erdinc!

[@johngregory4410]

I don't comment that much because I'm always watching KZbin on Roku. But I watch you and now I got my son watching you to learn. Thx bro. Shout me out next time bruh!

[@TheStyleOG]

I appreciate that!

[@canelake34]

This Is One Of Your Top 5 Videos You Have Done Style OG. Salute. Thanks for the Tips Man.

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Terrance !

[@Chokkan]

I watched this video backwards and my wife left me.

[@TheStyleOG]

good one!

[@Katkayz]

Amen, great content as always

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks k k!

[@jermainejones1560]

Realist advice i ever heard, 👏👏👏bring out your strongest points about you when dealing with women 👍...

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Jermaine !

[@presleecarson532]

Jermaine Jones you’re awesome 🙂

[@monsieurmike2072]

Salute!.. Keep Shinin' my brother...exceptional content always from start to finish...Brilliant!.. Cheers!😎👍

[@TheStyleOG]

Cheers Mike !

[@monsieurmike2072]

@@TheStyleOG 😎🤙

[@abedimond2091]

Gems 💯 Fellas take heed.

[@gnmorales1]

#2 kills me everytime.... and everybody tells me being fat dont mean anything to women and clearly it does....

[@FemininitywithMommaGail]

Hey this was nice, smooth,and creative. Getting the number and the invite out. Smooth!!!!!!!! HQOG, Clever and smooth!! Much respect!

[@LuchadorMasque]

I see you with that Windowpane jacket my dude. Sahhhhhlute!

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Kyle!

[@CLOWNBOT00]

No woman wants a Bad Breath Alert, or someone slouching. Clean yourself up!

[@TheStyleOG]

Indeed!

[@HarrisPilton789]

Facts!

[@presleecarson532]

Agreed

[@shikanyota]

Well!! hello there

[@queenofthesouth4205]

💯

[@mickyfingaz]

I think a point that needs to be made as well is that a man should always be gracious in rejection. If the woman politely tells you that she's not interested then tell her that you're sorry to have bothered her and wish her the best and keep it moving. I can tell you that sometimes women will reject a man's advances immediately because they've had a bad week and just wanted to get out and have a drink and hear some music or whatever they need to do to relax their mind. If you're gracious in your rejection you may run into her at a different time or event and she may be receptive to a "Hello" or may even initiate conversation. I've had women give me an initial "not interested" who've approached me at another time and sparked conversations and even friendships. I know it may be disappointing to be "friend-zoned" by a woman but a single woman that you're friends with will have single friends are are just as fine, if not finer than her who may find you attractive. Being gracious, even in rejection can be a win.

[@decreativeprofits5469]

That's a nice beat in the background. Is there a name to that track.

[@fablife6236]

I like being asked out instead of invited. It feels more personal.

[@TheStyleOG]

if you really like the guy, you will say yes either way😉 appreciate your input!

[@fablife6236]

@@TheStyleOG Didnt say I would say no. But little things make a difference.

[@cliftonsledge962]

Salute !! Don’t have to look for a woman 👀 got a wifey. But the advice you’re giving out O.G. is the way I got her. 👍🏾

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Clifton!

[@egor.kuznetsov]

Thanks a lot man, love your videos

[@TheStyleOG]

Glad you like them!

[@egor.kuznetsov]

@@TheStyleOGI’m glad you respond to comments, keep it up

[@ebaocihc7085]

Next video boss! How to win arguments against your wife, I swear on everything even when I have the true and right facts a wife can tell you why you’re wrong 😂

[@TheStyleOG]

let me get back to you on that..lol

[@andrewhenley2161]

eba ocihc Rule is, you may win the battle but lose the war. If you win that argument, it means she loses. What kind of man wants his wife to lose? If it happens enough, it will make her feel like a loser and wreck her self esteem and feeling of self worth. And you are the reason for that. At that point, either she turns into the kind of person you don’t want to be around, or she realizes you are the kind of person she doesn’t want to be around because of how you make her feel. Either way, it ends badly. You can win the argument but lose her love. Is it worth it? Or can you man up and tell her she’s right and move on?

[@ebaocihc7085]

Andrew Henley you’re right, I’d rather man up

[@joeyyoung1979]

Genesis 3:16 [16]Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.

[@ebaocihc7085]

@@joeyyoung1979 can you simplify that for my dumb ass please 😏

[@johnmooresr2318]

Preach to em Jeff ✊🏿😎

[@danielsantana540]

You remind me of Roy Jones Jr

[@victor-xf6hf]

Damn man you’re still saying you’re not funny and definitely you ain’t no player? None of my player fellas could ever tell me such good tips on this topic! Great video keep it up!

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks Victor!

[@Beyourself_dope]

Nice suit color choice 👏🏽

[@fb1473]

On point information again. Thanks and keep up the good work.

[@jerry624]

Thanks for the advice some need the advice. Thanks

[@TheStyleOG]

Any time!

[@jaenice7066]

Great content again Jeff. I showed my youngest your video... ever been called Unc Jeff ? Lol . I never heard of the term suited and booted but it’s certainly on point and a catchy phrase. Your points are great for young men adulting and in the dating game. Great content Style OG. Salute

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Jae!

[@MrSecondchancebro]

Style OG I came in here for some laughs I though this was gonna be cheesy but, damn near everything you stated is on point my wife mentions my cologne, my ear and nostril hair or if I am on the couch complaining ROFL. Young bucks the OG giving out game for free.....

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute!

[@ericg4568]

Getting a girlfriend, is never the problem for anyone, its getting the one you want, is when feelings and ego's get hurt! Now excuse me I am almost to the roof! 😂😂😂😂

[@tobe8236]

Useful tips Jeff...salute to you sir🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Tobe!

[@iluvcoffee346]

Jeff is a true O.G. He stay hooking us up. Salute !!

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Alec!

[@mngkyouGoD]

This gives me hope that one day I may get a girlfriend. Though I'm not the most attractive, I can definitely try my best. Thank you sir💯💯

[@beelong7287]

I like the modification

[@austinjohnson7746]

Always with the golden nuggets keep doing what you do best brother

[@TheStyleOG]

Respect Austin!

[@luvernshepherd9844]

That's what's up!💯💯💯

[@sfn-life]

Would love to see a video about how to meet women when you have a disability - and need to wear things like compression stockings - and cannot wear socks and shoes due to neuropathy..... I'm a funny guy - average looking - decent shape - but have some obstacles in my way. I was married for 13 years - now divorced....

[@MrTcoe30]

I like your videos. You cool, laid back, and very easy to listen to. I had discovered your videos through other styling channels. Watch 5 videos of yours and subscribed. Definitely getting free game.

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute!

[@bigq1977]

Thank you O.G💯

[@TheStyleOG]

No doubt!

[@himswol]

Well Done Sir.

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks Robert!

[@oramishygone8463]

Og i like bothering my G.. BUT TRUST ME.. YOU DO HELP ALOT OF MAN THAT NEED IT.. GOD BLESS OG

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute!