How to get into a relationship

[@memmem0011]

Love your videos and love your backdrops, makes me feel so peaceful 🥰

[@thejackbutler]

Yay for more peacefulness!

[@oldworldwildona550]

Develop relationship with your creator. This avatar/animalistic breeding is 3D. Time to grow up and find LOVE within yourself. Nobody is a better company than yourself. Respect your soul, not your brain/software.

[@zenawarrior7442]

Good points Jack, except no way on dating apps for me. Lovely background with the sun & 🦎☀️🌲Thanks Jack😊💚

[@thejackbutler]

Thanks. And I honor your choice/knowing on that

[@user-dr6vj8ez9q]

Excellent points & observations! Thank you for sharing🙏🎉

[@thejackbutler]

You're welcome!

[@lauradriscoll4607]

Thank you for the great content. Got some thinking juices flowing! Glad I came across this. I'd like to find a relationship, and I'm 56, never married, 2 years out from a nasty narcissistic abuse situation that was followed by an almost fatal emergency health issue a year ago. Both of which have left me with PTSD. Am in therapy and am healing physically and emotionally, however, not sure I can trust myself to know a good man when I see one - or a bad one for that matter. For someone my age, where to begin - again?

[@thejackbutler]

I hear you. I think slowness is your friend. Maybe you focus on getting out there slowly, one date at a time. And your frame initially could just be tracking what's true for you (vs trying to making something happen) to get you back trusting yourself

[@Naturehealingperspectives33]

Great points. Thanks for the onfo Jack!

[@thejackbutler]

You're welcome :)

[@LibertyCairde]

I needed this one today! Question: for those of us that tend to be seen as only good for that 1 thing, how do we get them to see our potential as partners without making ourselves look unattractive? Like you said, that’s part of a healthy relationship, yet only 1 part of the relationship overall.

[@idbountyhunter]

One thing that’s important is that you never put your dreams aside for someone else’s dreams. Everyday strive to be the best vision of yourself. Work on those things that bring you the most satisfaction and take that one thing and stay in it until you can’t take it any further. If you give up on you then you have lost everything.

[@LibertyCairde]

@@idbountyhunter that’s really solid advice! Thanks for sharing

[@thejackbutler]

I would start by practising how to see yourself fully. The more you do, the less likely when someone who doesn't will you keep them in your world

[@sara_sofia_1984]

I love these videos! It feels like having a conversation with a good friend 😊

[@thejackbutler]

I like that feedback :)

[@danielahoxha28]

Thank you for your valuable input ❤

[@lightl287]

Thank you, Jack for sharing your ideas and perspective 🤗🥰 It's helpful and a good food for thought ❣️☝️👏😊

[@thejackbutler]

Happy to hear that :)

[@micalabiaga]

Amazing advices. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, Jack. I'm glad to have found your channel. You've made several great points on seeking a partner.

[@thejackbutler]

Thank you - glad you found your way here

[@kristinalewis2425]

I was in a 19 year marriage that I lost myself in. I divorced him. I’ve only had two dating relationships. One lasted two years and the other one month. it’s been a decade since I’ve dated. I’m terrified to put myself back out there.

[@lindajessica6612]

I feel this

[@thejackbutler]

I hear you. Are you more afraid of rejection or attracting the wrong person or something else?

[@perrismccracken]

Jack this was sooo good! Thank you!!

[@thejackbutler]

Aw thanks!

[@Donna-m3z5s]

Love you Jack, thank you, love Donna Sydney Australia xx

[@thejackbutler]

Hey Donna - thanks for continuing to tune in!

[@user-bj2lu9qt3o]

Valuable content as always.

[@elsagrace3893]

Why is this video popping up in my feed?

[@thejackbutler]

Because the algorithm has a hunch

[@michelehlozek2341]

Thanks so much for your video, Jack! Great thoughts and ideas as always! I've been following you for sometime now and want you to know your thoughts, ideas and advice ... that I really value them... and have used them to help build much more authenticity into my experience of being me and I feel the growth of so much more happiness, self acceptance and peace that comes with that! I appreciate you so much! Thank you so much for your work you put out there for me (and everyone) to have access to!!

[@thejackbutler]

Thanks Michele - glad my work has been part of your journey, that's great. Noted re Cape Town - no plans but I always hear how beautiful it is!