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00:00 Teaser
01:11 Please Advise Letter Reading
03:20 Purity, Marriage Desire, & Disappointment
07:00 Overlooked, Invisible, & Inferior
12:50 She Who Finds a Husband
14:50 Dont be strung along
20:00 He chose another -- GOOD.
23:25 IM HER.
27:00 Is he eligible?
29:10 General Advice
34:20 How to be Attractive?
42:50 Closing Remarks
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[@TaylorNGordon]

This was me! 28 year old virgin, no previous boyfriends or prospects, I felt like a freak. The Lord allowed me to meet my husband at 26. We were married at 28. We now have 3 beautiful daughters. I will be 36 in May. Don't let anyone tell you you're weird or that you should settle! There are still men out there (my husband included) who value these things!!

[@prodigaldaughter5978]

Congratulations! Praise the Lord!

[@nanostar7660]

Wait, so you had no prospects at 28 or 26?

[@timibolu]

Thank you for this comment

[@essie5262]

Congs Taylor ❤❤

[@serendipitouscomet]

How did you two meet if you don’t mind my asking?

[@Truth-is-power]

I am proud of you ladies. As a guy in this crazy world, you ladies are doing the right thing and will be a blessing for any guy that marries you. Stay peaceful

[@prodigaldaughter5978]

Aww thank you for that encouragement ❤

[@Truth-is-power]

@@prodigaldaughter5978 No problem, I am just telling the truth..If you ever need a guys point of view, let me know.

[@Sacredmysticz]

Thankyou 😊

[@newtrollaccount384]

I hope they are able to find men that are uncomplicated like they are. Good luck.

[@TellyTingz1000]

Thanks ❤

[@libfuzzy4629]

Tbh singleness is also a blessing. If youve never had a boyfriend count it as a blessing!!!! Better to be single then with the wrong person many people are filled with demons and need deliverance and are going through hell in their marriges!! Wait on God for your spouse and ask him if it's his will for you he will reveal these things

[@PreciousdaughterofChrist]

As a 24 year old virgin I will definitely continue to wait on God♥️♥️ I desire marriage so deeply & I know the Lord has a husband for me Amen

[@Inabundanse]

Yes He does sis!! Yes He does and you're going to find someone who loves you unconditionallly!! - a 22 yr old virgin

[@KFontLab]

Please do … you are so young. Please live your life , pursue your purpose, don’t focus on that. I finally got what my Mom said years later. She said “Kim marriage is a beautiful thing, but so is singlehood”. It’s great that you have a desire to be married but please fully enjoy your singlehood as well.

[@Eliza-ij9eq]

God bless you beautiful ❤️

[@bronz7053]

You are a precious pearl.. always protect your peace and follow HIS voice. God be with you

[@1231dre]

Are you guys in America

[@TRAE341]

As a man I want to applaud everyone out there that is keeping themselves. Sometimes you go overlooked because the Lord is hiding you😎. You are not a freak, you are beautiful and uncomparible, be blessed.

[@Dontbelievemejuswatch]

A woman is NOT supposed to FIND a husband!! She is supposed to live, carry and present herself in such a way TO BE FOUND of the man GOD created her to be with.

[@eluededieub.5453]

A woman can desire marriage though, and that is a God-given desire, women should not be shamed for wanting to marry.

[@Dontbelievemejuswatch]

@@eluededieub.5453 That’s exactly correct!!

[@tajayatomlinson5298]

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[@tajayatomlinson5298]

@@eluededieub.5453that’s not what the original comment is saying. I’m pretty sure they are talking about us as women throwing ourselves at men to get married (I’ve even heard of women who were proposing to men which I think is preposterous). Desiring marriage and pursuing men are not correlated

[@sadelorraine8437]

@@eluededieub.5453the original commenter is not shaming women for desiring marriage. She’s saying some women actively go seeking for a husband rather than positioning themselves to be found by one.

[@eluededieub.5453]

To this young lady and any other ladies out there who feel like she does - I want to encourage you - I got married at the age of 36. I had had a desire to marry for over 10 years, and I waited and waited, and kept the faith. A man I was not interested in had called me spinster when I was not even 30. You can (maybe) only imagine how I must have felt with the years passing by. Hold on to your faith and trust God.

[@ClaudetteDuPont7]

Same, met my husband at 34 almost 35 and married at 36. He started talking about marriage very early on and it threw me off a bit bc I felt we didn’t know each other well enough. He was patient with me and pursued me consistently. He’s unlike any other man I’ve met and absolutely 100% worth the wait and everything that transpired before I met him. Trust in God and let Him do the matchmaking! He does not fail us!

[@Busi_Ncube]

Thank you for posting this! It's such an encouragement 🙏

[@simplyroyalty7458]

As someone who is in her mid thirties, a virgin, and waiting for marriage , this video was very encouraging and helpful. Thank you.

[@Supernaturalseamoss]

Hi

[@prrophetjonathandzugba9246]

You're a virtuous woman

[@asdfdc1946]

so you're not actively doing anything? you're just sitting there letting time & life pass you by, hoping & wishing that your super rare lottery ticket of a man just falls into your lap with zero effort & that no other women will be gunning for that position in his life?

[@prrophetjonathandzugba9246]

@@asdfdc1946 What should she do? Why dont you Gove her counsel? We all want to learn please

[@newempire158]

@@prrophetjonathandzugba9246Attend more social and family functions and make formal and informal inquiries about the gentleman she finds interesting. Step 2: Involve her brother(s), father, or any fatherly figure to probe and substantiate whether or not the man is suitable for her. Is this rocket science for you

[@Bev4Drawing]

As a Christian who is single, a virgin, and not married, I think it's okay to be comfortable not getting married. Would I like to get married? Yes. Do I want to have kids? Yes. But am I okay without these things? Yes. I think we should start normalizing being okay where God has us. I hate the pressure that comes from family friends and well-meaning brothers and sisters, who keep asking about marriage and saying let me pray for you to get married etc. because without their comments I don't feel left out or left over I feel content. I'm in no rush to get married because I know I want to get married but with the right man and at the right time. And while I am where I am I'm just going to focus on getting closer to the Lord.

[@leaellas8400]

Thank you 😊!

[@leaellas8400]

As I also stated in another separate comment ... Marriage is not a Biblical promise. It's sad that we all treat it as if it is. Do many of us desire it? Yes! Will all of us have it? I don't know, but I rather be matched than mated; I don't want the wrong kind of husband in my life so I rather do without. A miserable life alone is much more fulfilling than being around another who contributes to your misery and subsequent downfall.

[@Bev4Drawing]

@@leaellas8400 Completely agree and I like how you worded that! "I'd rather be matched than mated"

[@psychattack3381]

This was the comment I was looking for before I wrote one. I complete agree with virtually all of the sentiments expressed in the video, but as a 45 year old unmarried Christian woman who has practiced purity, it is important for women to realize that marriage is not a guarantee or a “reward” for following God’s commands. I have come to a place of peace (for the most part) about the fact that I’ll probably never be married, and I think it’s important for women to focus on trusting God no matter what happens or doesn’t happen, because marriage might never happen. Build a life you can be happy with alone, and if a good man comes along, it will be the icing on the cake.

[@Bev4Drawing]

Thank you for sharing! I'm in my mid-30s now and this is encouraging to hear/see!@@psychattack3381

[@tamikofung3310]

If a man is not pursuing you but you are pursuing him, he is not interested and is running away from you. Thanks for the insight!

[@asdfdc1946]

its 2024, not 1954. a man that is good looking, has a great career & is in high demand doesn't have time to be chasing women. american women have this "i am the prize" ego thing where they won't approach a man they want to the point where they will let another woman take him & then they'll say "he didn't approach me, it wasn't meant for me" & then they wonder why they can't find the right man. a man of value is not going to chase you. especially with the metoo movement popping off. men of value aren't doing that anymore.

[@rockon8174]

????? Works the other way too. If the interest is not mutual, part ways and move on to someone who shares the mutual attraction.

[@JUSTICE720p]

@tamikofung3310 Who told you that ?

[@dumfriesspearhead7398]

​@@JUSTICE720pIt doesn't really matter because it's true. Women should NEVER pursue a man; it smacks of desperation.

[@JUSTICE720p]

@@dumfriesspearhead7398 No it don't it shows how bad you really want something or someone. Most women (BW) have no problem doing that when it comes to her education job or carrer she go hard . but with a man its a problem. When a woman is young and fertile she can play the game of having all types of men chase and fall after her but that don't stay the same forever. (Don't forget that ) The tides changes once she gets older you have to show him how much you want him . After the age of 35 for most women (BW) if she is not in a stable marriage or relationship by that point it's mostly downhill from there (Look around you ) It don't matter how good she may think she looks in her own head Prospects (men) dwindle she will have to show that man how much she wants him. go look at what the rapper camron had to say He basically said a woman damm near have to attack him sort of speak. He wants to know how serious the woman is .

[@yanni_]

Looking forward to this video. 25 virgin currently no prospects. I feel called to be a homemaker. Praying for a man that shares my values.❤️

[@thegenzcompass2526]

God bless, you're not alone sis 🙏🏿

[@bronz7053]

God bless you

[@Forever_Bond]

Great topic! I was in a similar situation except the “no boyfriend ever” or “not having dated” part. My relationships didn’t work out because the guys I were with weren’t looking for a wife and I refused to dishonor God and my commitment to save myself for my husband. After going to God about my desire and being mentored by some amazing women (Titus 2), I shortly met and married my husband at 26. We’ve been married 6 years and had our first child last year. ♥️

[@AH-cw9dq]

This was me. I’m currently married to the man I knew God had for me with our first child on the way. There’s a lot of advice I could give but one is to study God’s word about what He requires out of a godly woman and wife as well as a godly man and husband. Doing that made it easy to know who my husband wasn’t. And even though I knew exactly who God was going to give me to, I continued to pray and let him pursue me even though I knew he was more on the shy side. If he wants you, he will pursue you.

[@Search4Cherise]

Amén! 🙌🏿 I got married at 29 years old. God did this on purpose lol. I was a hot mess! It so important to be deeply rooted in Him BEFORE marriage! Or you will make marriage/your spouse your idol!

[@siphiwendlovu3804]

Siiiis!!! I felt that the hot mess!!! Thank God that he’s a loving father!

[@thankmelater90210]

Wheww this the 1 I just turned 29 waiting on marriage this sounds about me I mean right lol

[@antoinettemoore976]

You are on point! 💯👏👏👏 I met my husband, and within 1 month, he knew that I was to be his wife. We dated for a couple of months and discussed everything from small to big, and then shortly after that, we were married! 15 years going on 16 this year. 🙏

[@vinorasmith478]

Love this❤

[@julianakitinde4805]

Glory to God

[@comfiik2856]

Wow ! Amazing

[@HarmoniousHome]

Have hope in God! He’s a miracle worker, I was 34 never dated anyone in my life, in church I met a man we courted and got married this past Aug when I was 35. God can do anything, I also know God wouldn’t give you that desire of marriage for no reason, focus on God, read His word and He will make miracles happen.

[@zoetsahai]

Wow this gives me hope. 32 never dated ever. However, i still don't like how long this is taking

[@HarmoniousHome]

@@WindyPoplars As you see from my wording I didn’t say that, I said God wouldn’t give you that desire for no reason, because God will give us desires and if we are in line with His will than the desires He gives us wouldn’t be without a purpose behind it. It’s like an infertile married couple having a desire for children, they can have that desire fulfilled in God’s timing through different means, such as working with children in the church, becoming foster parents, working with children’s orphanages, or encouraging others who are experiencing infertility. Also if we do have desires that are from God and we are truly seeking His will over our lives, than I believe He does fulfill those desires that He gives us. I’m not talking about a person wanting money/material things or placing things above God like a relationship, I’m talking about truly following God no matter where He leads you, be steadfast and in His Word every day, and desiring to please God above all else. When you choose God He puts new desires in our hearts. I’m so blessed to know God and pray you seek His will above anything else.

[@zoetsahai]

@WindyPoplars but God tells us to be holy even as He is holy so your example doesn't really make sense. The second point is what constitutes "false hope"? Have you actually thought of what it is you're saying ? The bible says against all hope, Abraham in hope, believed God , concerning Isaac. So what is your idea of God?

[@TellyTingz1000]

@@zoetsahai I’m also 32 however I’m divorced and was married to wrong man I feel this will be my year have hope and praise God sis❤❤❤

[@user-pt9ul5zv3l]

That was me at 24, by 25 I was married. Now 31 I have a toddler and one on the way.

[@israeliana]

Wow this is amazing

[@jmkalinzuki4849]

I actually believe a man knows a woman will be his wife from DAY ONE! Adam knew it, Boaz Knew it, David knew it, Jacob knew it, Isaac knew it...God knew it! He loved us from the word go. Thank you Bindi . This is so valuable !

[@futurelane3377]

Do u really count Adam? Eve was the only woman. And god literally presented her to him. U can’t relly get more obvious than that. But I do agree with everybody else.

[@vivienetiu7935]

@@futurelane3377😂😂😂 good point

[@jackline8808]

​@@futurelane3377😂you make a good point buut,I think he counts as well.. As you said God presented Eve to Adam so it may seem like he didn't have a choice, but technically speaking even for the other ones, God had ordained those women to be their wives..they knew, but they also didn't have a queue of women to choose from. God presented their wives too.

[@futurelane3377]

@@jackline8808 well I wasn’t saying Adam had no choice. Im saying Adam and Eve were the only ones. Adam didn’t have to look thru other women, she was literally made for him. It’s not the same when Adam and Eve were the only options where later on in the Bible they had other people to get thru before they saw the woman they wanted.

[@joyjoy4696]

​Truee, another perspective to look at regarding Adam is that God brought so many animals before him but he did not name any of them as his help meet, which is why God made him Eve from his rib and he saw her and called her the bone of his bones and flesh of his flesh. If Adam had called a lion his help meet it'll be a whole different reality😂😂

[@law11school11girly]

I’m a 22 year old virgin ❤❤❤ waiting for my husband ❤❤❤ “cloak of protection” so true

[@paskaziatumwesigye1534]

May God keep you until yr D-day. 22 is such a young age and to my surprise God made wait much longerrrrrrrr that ehh i even forgot the value of keeping myself apart from Simply being Chaste as a requirement for my salvation, spiritual growth etc

[@israeliana]

Amen

[@liorajimenez3085]

My advice; 1) Learn to cook, well, from SCRATCH 2) Learn how to live frugally - don't be a spendthrift. 3) Review your things - are you closets crowded (tags on unworn clothes), hundreds of pairs of shoes? 4) Get. Out. Of. DEBT Learn to be a good steward of all you've been given.

[@sweetsiren8841]

Girls are doing all this and still single. There are women who do none of these who are married. Sometimes it seems there’s no rhyme or reason to how to get married. 8billion ppl on earth and every type of man or woman can get married. Not all 8 billion are doing these things but still finding someone. It’s all subjective

[@talltalllady]

I was 35 when I married my wonderful husband and a virgin and I have no regrets. I always knew I would save my body for the one man who marries me. And not let people run through me and use my body.

[@julianakitinde4805]

It's my desire

[@sewwithore3618]

This is my desire also , waiting is so hard sometimes

[@lapaloozala]

This is me at 36. Haven't date since my 20s it's been 15 years of celibacy. I will pray for God to put that husband on my path soon

[@prrophetjonathandzugba9246]

Gpd is faithful, he is able

[@asdfdc1946]

you're aware that men of value tend to prefer younger women right?

[@pink1237480]

​@asdfdc1946 No they prefer WOMEN! Men of value love older women because they understand that woman's value.

[@asdfdc1946]

​@@pink1237480 "Men of value love older women because they understand that woman's value." --- what is an older woman's value to a man in your opinion?

[@tstone9151]

⁠@@asdfdc1946 dude relax, what is your purpose for mentioning age? At least they aren’t being promiscuous, it’s commendable given todays world

[@mlmj1994]

Oh wow. I’m 29.5, never have had a boyfriend, and I have no prospective clients either. I requested a custom order from the Lord, so my purpose partner will arrive… eventually… I do doubt sometimes but I know God is faithful. 22:45 - I do think I’ve allowed my mind many times to make a mess. I am constantly working on guarding my heart from internal thoughts.

[@KB-jo8ld]

Im 34, same 😅

[@Lealea883]

Custom order is sending me 😂

[@valeryme007]

"Seek ye first the kingdom of God and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you". One thing i've learned during my wait journey is that marriage is not the goal but one mean to fullfil the goals of God for my life. I remember The Holy Spirit keep asking me through the years : why do you want to get married? I was able to give the correct answer when i understood the reason why God created me and this i found by spending quality time with God... Understanding the purpose of God for me helpped me to figure out the type of men i was meant to marry and this makes the rest of the wait season a peacefull journey. So yes, seek God first and the rest will come.

[@j2cute4u4eva]

I was 25 and a virgin when I got married. We’re celebrating 10 yrs together Sept 2024 and he knew he wanted to marry me very early. Definitely make sure that you work on yourself during this time. How are you in relationships with family and friends? Are you passive aggressive or direct? Are you able to resolve conflict or do you shy away from it? How do you handle money? Are you a good steward of your finances? Working on yourself will help you be a better partner in marriage when the time comes. And when you have yourself together you’ll see red flags more easily too!

[@TheHippieHomemaker]

This is exactly me, single, virgin, and I’ll be 30 in a little over 3 months…I’m still waiting. It’s hurts some days and others I’m fulfilled. So ready for the Lord to allow me to live out my dream of being a wife and mother.

[@asdfdc1946]

why are you waiting as opposed to being proactive? no one is going to give you anything in life. if its something of value, you're going to have to go get it.

[@thankmelater90210]

I'm 29 and I'm single and a virgin waiting in my husband! Your not alone and it's sometimes rough as well but The Lord is strengthen us the wait about to be over!

[@asdfdc1946]

@@thankmelater90210 religion has brainwashed you into wasting your precious biological clock time. by age 33 most women are disregarded by men of value & by age 35 most women are cooked. by age 40 women become completely invisible to men outside of sex. this is a harsh truth nobody in the church will tell you.

[@BlackFrostQueen]

I'm 36 years old and am still waiting. It is frustrating but I know God's timing is best and He will bring along the man He wants me to marry when it's time.

[@lizabethblue1087]

I think some people take not chasing down a man as not doing anything and just waiting. And potentially view putting yourself out there (going places where you can meet people, going on dates, putting yourself in places where people are interested in relationships) as a sin. think there is a huge difference between chasing down a man and getting yourself out there to meet men. I think it's a heart posture. What is the intention behind the action? I think a lot of Christians go one way or the other: they either throw away wisdom, patience, and God's guidance and try to do it themselves completely or they sit waiting on God and take no steps toward being in a relationship. It is really hard to get to know people who could be a mate if you don't take steps to get to know people. And what works for one person may not work for another.

[@abby010684]

I love this!!

[@Lightgeneration6446]

Me regretting losing my Virginity to an abusive ex. Y’all stay pure and holy onces y’all get into darkness it’s not worth losing a virginity to a person who doesn’t deserve it or care sickening…

[@pink1237480]

I lost my virginity to a person I loved and he loved me. We were very young and I don't regret it. Just because you lose your virginity doesn't mean you're not pure or whatever. You do deserve love and to be treated well.

[@julianakitinde4805]

Sorry

[@sxtaos]

If it was really love, you would still be together.. so this comment not making sense. Once you loose your virginity, it’s not something you can get back and you do change, that’s were that deflowering term came from. You see relationships and the world differently going forward, you will subconsciously have someone to compare your future husband to. It’s never worth it. There’s nothing God can’t fix & can certainly be pure giving your life to Christ. There’s a reason for Gods order & the Bible is very clear how God feels about sexual Immorality/fornications, it damages our relationship with him, order he has set, broken families, the list goes on. Let’s not take this lightly, speak the truth & encourage those who are still virgins x

[@iyalana]

@@sxtaos Hi there, I’m someone who also gave their virginity at 18. I don’t regret it but I did repent for it. Reason why I don’t regret is because it gave me an incredible testimony. I now teach younger women the do’s and donts of dating. God delivered/restored me in such a beautiful way that I get to work in the education system with high schoolers and share his ways with them. I encourage them to abstain from sexual immorality before marriage and share what I went through with my first relationship. Since my first relationship I have been celibate and will continue doing so. I don’t think people touch on the topic of why people give their virgnity and I think that is equally important. For example, I wasn’t raised in a family that modeled God’s laws and what he expects from his followers. Therefore, I did not know better. Most people usually don’t know better because they know of God but do not know him or his commands/statutes. Or they simply do not not God at all and follow the patterns of the world. Anyhow, yes we should encourage people to stay virgins but we should also encourage those who aren’t to be celibate. I also believe we should shed light on the reasons behind people falling into fornication and how to avoid it. There is nothing God cannot fix or restore even if we mess up. Much love ❤

[@Shiboys]

10000 % a man does know! My brother is prime example! He used to say “I will never ever get married EVER “. He would tease my husband as we were about to get married saying “hay man that is my sis and all, but I can get you out of this” 😉😉 wink, wink! This same brother of mine called me a year later & said “ I found a girl that I love ❤️ please go with me to get a ring 💍! I trust you! & don’t worry about money 💰!!! I got my future sis in law a 10K beautiful diamond 💎 ring! 💍 16 years later and 5 kids later they are still married & so happy! Took my brother literally 3 months for ring 3 more months for wedding 💒!!

[@Shiboys]

This is awesome advice you are giving this young woman ! She has a lot to bring to the table & just needs to cling to the Lord & he will take care of the rest

[@Debora.14]

Just turned 29, I'm a virgin and praying for my Godly man too. Thank you for this!

[@clintonchineduchukwukelu4051]

Debora, you're one in a million. It's not easy. Please can we connect

[@feelinit213]

Same!

[@TheHarmonicHour]

I’ve decided to wait for God. I wasn’t raised in a home where Christian womanhood was openly discussed nor was the Bible taught clearly. As a 22 year old woman I’ve left my past life behind, as I’ve committed fornication and conviction came immediately after even without knowing God at the time. I’ve always desired marriage and children. I started dating because I wanted a long lasting relationship. I wish I had the guidance that I needed at 18 but as I build this relationship with God I see that he was always there protecting me despite sin. I would love some sisterly input as I continue this walk and want to preserve my purity for God.

[@MySaviorAndMe]

Very relatable. I wish I knew more about the meaning of sex growing up. This is the longest I’ve been without a man and it’s been hard but I know this season is what God had planned & there’s a husband out there for both of us! Patience and trust ❤

[@terrazalea]

Hello Sister, you no longer need to carry that shame. Through Jesus Christ you can be forgiven of your impurity and become a new creature. God bless you!

[@Jamestown5667]

Wait on the Lord, sis God definitely has better plan for you

[@israeliana]

Pray daily! When you feel tempted, pull out your Bible or put on Gospel or Christian music. For me this has worked! Although my perfect. Also, don't settle for any man who is a practicing Christian, a man of God who is also practicing purity and chastity. Don't settle This helped me a lot. Seek friendships and closeness to God. Don't chase a man *lesson learned* and Stay busy and you won't give temptation the space to work in your life.

[@israeliana]

Definitely wish I would have heard about the *Theology of the Body* when i was younger. ​@@MySaviorAndMe

[@antonia5546]

I agree with all the advice and I’d say please stay close to the Lord and don’t stray away from him. It’s not easy being married when one is on fire or trying to be on fire for the Lord and the other isn’t. Don’t become a carnal or worldly Christian and then find a man that’s the same. You may one day listen to the Lord and come back to Him and rededicate your life back to him and then your husband doesn’t want to or isn’t interested in working on getting close to the Lord despite being a saved man. That’s affects your marriage and if you have kids, kids as well. So please stay close to the Lord and work on growing closer and closer to him and make sure the man you marry is just as much if not more in love with the Lord. He’s suppose to help you grow closer to the Lord and be there for answers and guide you, when you don’t have that, it’s a whole other struggle that you don’t want to have to go through. So please, again, stay close to the Lord and just be patient and let the Lord Jesus do the work and he’ll give you the best husband you could ever ask for!

[@Waveydebbieee]

Thank you so much for the advice. After making a mistake in pursuing a guy, this time I choose to trust in God that He will bring the right man who pursues me and not the other way around. In the meantime, I will take much better care of myself and spend more time with God while waiting

[@sophoniejean3002]

When I was a preteen, I prayed one boyfriend who would be my husband and the father of my children and boy God took me up on that. I didn't want to wander and avoid heartbreak. Now almost 30 no prospects and virgin, never dated as well, everyone I know is either married and or have a boyfriend. I know Mr right is coming, but sometimes I get impatient. This can ruin your confidence as well, but I cast those thoughts about not feeling pretty down real quick. God is faithful

[@imanijefferson8900]

I prayed the same thing when I was younger! I didn’t know what I was really asking. Had I known it was going to take longer than hoped for, I might have prayed a little differently 😂 But as painful as the wait can be sometimes, I really am thankful for his protection. As you said God is faithful and He truly does know what’s best!

[@sophoniejean3002]

@imanijefferson8900 it can be hard as if there is something wrong with me, but his protection is the best. I know whenever I'm married, I'm bringing myself and the Holy Spirit, no baggage, no soul ties, no ex story, none of that, and that's a blessing. Later, I will reap all the benefits

[@Sriver14]

My prayer was similar. Ever since I was a child, i would pray and ask the Most High to withhold any type of romantic feelings I could have for a man until I meet my husband. I have no wish to date around, I want to preserve my heart and any first anything for my husband. To this day, I've had no real interest in being with anyone. Sometimes I feel undesirable because of the lack of prospects. Like you, I also feel impatient as I am nearing my 30's, but let's keep waiting, hoping, and praying. He's getting us ready to meet our intended!

[@sophoniejean3002]

@@Sriver14 amen well said. He's faithful 🙌

[@dvrkclouds3243]

I fit everything in this description…will definitely tune in.

[@Julia-cn5th]

Same with me. I look forward to it!

[@whenyouwishuponastar6643]

This was me as well. I had never dated for more than a few dates. I felt rejected. One thing I did was honestly I put a bit more effort into my style and appearance and the way I want to be perceived. I met my husband at 24, got married at 26. Please keep in mind that it’s really hard to date when you have standards and are a Christian because not everyone will be suitable. When you find your husband you will be able to appreciate eachother because you know it’s a rare find. ❤️

[@blessedbeyondmeasure3265]

Solid biblical advice, wish I had anyone giving this advice when i was 21 and feeling the same exact way.....dont listen to FAMILY or Friends that make it seem like your the last virgin out there ( people say these things because they are jealous that you have the thing they lost and cant get back that is of value to the right man, and they want you to be miserable and deflowered like them- misery loves company)....listen to this and most of all listen to the Lord and let him show you how much he LOVES you...

[@leaellas8400]

That narrative is hurtful and disgusting in its own way. A woman is not valuable because of her virginity; that is not a Biblical standard. Both men and women have been virgins, so it cannot be the inly aspect of a person that makes them pure; purity is of both mind and body.

[@kimberlyturner820]

​@@leaellas8400 Idk...virginity is very valuable.

[@sxtaos]

Well it is when you think about how serious sexual immorality is coming from the Bible. I know it hurts because you will never get that back however I’ve seen people look sideways at virgins and make these same comments that I’ve defended my best friend. I’m not a virgin however why would I want someone to experience the same pain and confusion that comes with sleeping with someone who’s not your husband. There’s nothing that Jesus can not fix, however we don’t all have to go through pain to learn Gods order is best. When people are sleeping around it’s called liberation or they are hyped up, or a Pat on a back. Look at society today because of how many lost their virginity and sleep with who they please, broken homes, damaged souls, lost people, divorce, straight up perversion etc. Although-out the Bible we are called to live pure, his will is definitely perfect & orderly.

[@christellen3077]

HE has not chosen you yet he not your husband I NEEDED THAT 😢😢🎉❤

[@yzma6142]

I get what you mean about about the male gaze and long hair, but I have to say you look more youthful and so pretty/feminine with your short afro. my sister recently shaved her entire head bald and she looks like a model literally. I think men who value natural beauty wouldn't be repelled by short hair if you have the bone structure for it.

[@StrawberryJamJam29]

I got more attention with my short 3C/4A hair than when it was long and relaxed. A lot of Black men complimented my short hair. People are always telling me to cut my hair now that it’s getting longer.

[@kkblue2828]

Don't cut it

[@MsRugrats12]

I needed to hear this. I agree with most of what was said. Even with the weight situation. I wouldn't even want to be in a relationship because there are times I'm uncomfortable with my body and health. If I'm uncomfortable, I know i would try to seek validation from my partner, which isn't healthy. I love how practical and direct you are. I do believe that not all God's children are called to be married, and that singleness will be given to some people. At the end of the day, it's all about finding contentment within the Lord, married or single.

[@elizabethkonadu6210]

Wow your right. My husband told me he knew he was going to merry me within 3 months. he said he was just preparing financially for the actual wedding ceremony so he would not tap into the money he had saved for our future the first 5 years of our marriage. This advice is very needed in the church I don't believe is being taught and if it is not enough. God bless you.

[@fredgravil2142]

Seek ye first the kingdom of God all things shall be added unto you.

[@lakeishadean4298]

Ma'am! You better be on here edifying lol. I and so many other women need to hear the unfiltered truth. I love how you just speak. You're not pulling any punches or sugar-coating anything, and you're not leaving yourself out of it to make people feel judged, which is also how I speak since coming back to Christ. You are the internet friend we all need in real life. Unfortunately, I am not one of the ladies that remained a virgin, and I deeply regret that. My father played a huge roll in enabling me to be sexually active and after I was of age I didn't stop because it was my norm and I was getting satisfaction from it. I saved this video in my playlist to help me have this conversation with my daughter. The last thing I want for her is to live the life I did. Thank you for this.

[@monabrown101]

This topic makes me abit depressed because here I am.. 30 years old...no boyfriend...no kids.... I have been a good woman and have been wounded by some men. I have gone through counselling already as well. All my friends are married and have at least a kid or two... starting over making new friends is hard at 30 as well.... as u realise u are either too old in certain social groups... or too young in older social groups...u just don't fit anywhere. It is hard and it does get really lonely. I wish people could understand how it feels😢

[@Truth-is-power]

God has his will for you, everything happens in his time.

[@jmunroe]

Sis, I feel and understand you. I'm 36, single for years who have friends in relationships. Most of my friends are several years younger than me, I think its bc I look fairly younger than my age and women older than me don't gravitate towards ne vice versa. I truly believe that when you pray for god to send the right people, he will and you would never have to run or beg for it. Pray for God to also keep the wrong people away from you to spare you from unnecessary connections. Enjoy this time by yourself as well, sometimes God isolates us to draw us near to him. Sending you 💕

[@cierra9520]

My encouragement to you.. God is the same God yesterday, today and forever more.. what's for you will be..#Faith.. Don't allow fear or doubt to settling in.. keep the faith, fall more in love with Jesus, trust his way and his time because your path is different from your friends and that's ok, allow God to direct your path because he knows what's best for you.. Don't rush the process but trust in it..Don't focus on what's not happening, because it makes the time go by slow, but focus on Jesus, keep building a stronger relationship with the lord..Dont give up on God because he's never going to give up on you he's able..GOD BLESS❤

[@caribbeankpoplover]

I’m feeling this right now. I’m turning 28 this year and I just feel like I don’t fit in anywhere as a Christian woman. I feel like God wants me here but it can get really lonely… In the youth group, I’m the oldest and one of the only ones who doesn’t speak the country’s language…

[@cierra9520]

@caribbeankpoplover Remember everything is going to be OK sister even when it feels like it's not because Jesus christ is the comforter he will comfort you in a time of need, keep seeking him daily don't worry about what's not happening in your life but just focuse on being faithful in everything he has given you.. This journey with the Lord is a journey not a race..You stay encourage because endurance builds character/strength..GOD BLESS😇

[@eyannaanais]

Listen one day I was out. The presence of the Lord was all over me. A store owner that I knew insisted I take his son’s phone number and told me I need to talk to his son (romantically). I left his shop and a few seconds later as I was walking down the street a strange woman STOPPED HER CAR in the middle of the road and said please take my son’s number you need to talk to my son. If I remember correctly she said marry my son. I didn’t contact them because I already had a prospect who I’m now married to for 5 years but the Holy Spirit draws people to you. When my husband first saw me I was highlighted in his spirit.

[@emmylewis2164]

I was thinking this same thing! While the spirit of God on a woman can attract a Godly man, I also believe that it can draw others as well. Even if they don't have a relationship with the Father.

[@caribbeankpoplover]

Wow this comment is amazing 🙌🏾Amen ❤

[@thankmelater90210]

When you said" you didn't contact her son because you had a prospect of who your married to" what do you mean?

[@eyannaanais]

@@thankmelater90210 at the time these things happened I was dating someone with the intent of marriage and today we’re married

[@eyannaanais]

@@thankmelater90210 at the time these things happened I was dating someone with the intent of marriage who I’m now married to

[@FIRE4JESUS]

I really love you. I found you before spring of 2023 , i was homeless in my car. I asked God to show me how to be a wife , what love is , what marriage is to reshow me and reteach me all these things by renewing of my mind. It is now January 2024. I learned more in one year than ive ever known about marriage love sex self God in 22 years of my life. Even if before i had really good morals or pure intentions. It was still from a familiar mindset God has set me free and shown me everything from GODS VIEW not out of emotions , feelings , societys standards, the norms , environmental ideas , from what we learn from everything weve seen and been taught. Even if it SEEMS right and good. Doesnt mean its God. It takes alot of work and looking at yourself and at everything else from a new lens.

[@keke4realw]

Thank you, These chats are a slap in the face(saying gurl you knowed better). Things I took away; dating is for investigating not investing, reiterating guard your heart, a man knows if your his wife within 3 mth, Be modest and take care of yourself- look attractive and presentable, don't make up scenarios in your head, he's a friend until your married, know who your father is and walk in that authority with confidence. God bless Sis. I hope to exemplify your character in training the younger.

[@prodigaldaughter5978]

Ok a couple that met in the 70s and got married within two weeks. They're still married 50 yrs later

[@babyp8432]

Thank you. I’ve really struggled with finding my self worth in the people around me and it’s left me feeling overlooked, inferior, like there’s something wrong with me or I’m ugly. The closer I get with Jesus the more I find my value in Him. I really needed to hear this video I think it’s going to help me a lot. God bless you sister in Jesus name, I always love your videos ❤

[@marymendy8891]

That's WELL said for those who FEAR, LOVE and OBEY GOD would do. I'm having pretty Daughters who are WAITING on for their GOD FEARING missing RIB husband. My youngest Sister is still on the WAIT cause there's NO turning BACK in the CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE HOME. ALL I know is still wait on GOD. Thank you Bindi for such a great TOPIC on WAITING, stay bless. From The Gambia West Africa always watching your KZbin. Shalom

[@j.j2846]

Thank you Bindi for another wonderful video. I almost didn't watch this. I was in a similar situation. I met a guy at 26/27 it turned out that he pretending to be Christian as well as many other things. I left but it was so difficult as he was my first boyfiend he was planning to marry me. I decided to focus on healing and drawing closer to the Lord before entertaining another relationship. For the last 4 years I have been looking after my unwell family members and it's as if my own life has been put on hold. Still a virgin and unmarried. It can be very disheartening as I truly desire a husband and children. But I understand that everything will happen it's appointed time and I'm blessed in many other ways. I'm glad I watched this video! I wish had this solid biblical advice when I was younger. It's also really encouraging reading all of the comments from the women who met their husbands in their 30s. I pray love, joy, and peace for all the future brides and current wives. May your homes and families be blessed 🌻

[@leegaleaglenombo9430]

Hi, I just turned 32, still a virgin and this feels like a safe haven for Christ-like; feminine believers who choose to follow the Lord's orders. It's not easy, I myself have had moments of feeling like an outcast however, I'm so proud of you (virgin or not)! God will reward your discipline.

[@bobfisher-zd2lt]

As a man I find this blog very informative and educational. Starting from the oldest I’ve watched everything that has pertained to relationships.

[@beybladegal]

This is me, 31 about to be 32 I've had zero experience and zero prospects. For a while it was fine, it helped when I fed into the 'im an independent woman's monologue. But once I seen how unbiblical that was I began to change my mind. And somehow there was always still this expectation that I would probably be married by 30 anyway. 30 has come and gone and as far as I can tell no one has ever even looked my way. This video is encouraging but I'm worried about being too encouraged if a life of singleness is what I'm meant to have from the Lord. I heard someone else say, that marriage while good and esteemed is a gift, but not a promise of God. So while I want to encourage others and myself to wait on the Lord's timing, I also don't won't to shut down God if his purpose and plan for me is to be content in celibacy even if it's against what I may want.

[@zoetsahai]

I really understand that 30 has come and gone. I really thought somehow by 30 but yes God's grace to keep waiting with joy

[@losmit2194]

​@@zoetsahaivirgins?

[@prrophetjonathandzugba9246]

May the Holy Spirit strengthen and comfort you until the Lord blessed you with a God fearing man. Blessings to you

[@aishalove513]

25 yrs is still young omg

[@doll.ov.poetrii4682]

It's not too young though. I got married the same month I turned 24 and everything was, and still is fine. It's about principles and values.

[@kylieking8163]

@@doll.ov.poetrii4682it is young

[@krissit1874]

The worldly men are making women think 25 is old it’s a trick to make women settle

[@sagemae2993]

Yes but in the mind of someone who has never dated in her mind she’s like I’ll take maybe years to find someone plus some more time to get to know him . After 25 you become less confident about it BUT you need to be patient and hidden until God puts the husband on your way

[@prodigaldaughter5978]

A mans rejection is gods protection

[@Ariana_Tahor]

Why is the thumbnail eating me up like that? 😂😂

[@anissa2361]

Girl I just turned 25 and the thumbnail is me. I've been on a few dates but that's about it.

[@theparttimehomemaker]

Solid advice as always, Bindi. She also needs to put herself in a position to be found- join teams at church, volunteer, be visible!

[@jmunroe]

This makes me feel like it won't ever happen for me due to my age. I'm 36 and I've been celibate for over a decade, haven't dated, nothing. I left a really bad cult-like church 2 yrs ago after being there for nearly 9 years. So no I didnt meet anyone in my “youth years” bc I was consumed with serving God as incorrectly instructed. So I've just given up the idea. I really try not to think about it and just move forward and continue to work on myself and live my life but seeing videos like this makes me feel a bit 😢. But I hope any woman who truly wants love and marriage will have that.

[@awadia999]

I hear what you are saying it's difficult to leave a toxic church culture, which attempts to take our whole youth away to use us in such young ages. I want to encourage you to get out there, and be seen, you are far from being sentenced. Keep your eyes on Christ and someone will see those eyes, you will have kingdom children in Jesus name!

[@jmunroe]

​@@awadia999 Thank you so much for your kind words. This made me almost cry to be honest. Feels like a direct word from God 🙏🏽

[@kerrymena]

Be encouraged

[@a.dlamini]

Same here I am, 35 in a month

[@clintonchineduchukwukelu4051]

Please have faith in God.

[@user-ef5qc1cb9q]

Advice: don't tell anyone you're a virgin. It's none of their business. And it's a great way to attract creeps and even rapists.

[@bellebeaute]

Exactly

[@moee_thyself]

💯💯💯

[@jessicathomas1185]

Glad I’m not the only single who was feeling this way. This advice confirmed what people have already been telling me. #ImGoingtotrustGod🙏🏽

[@sista_comfy]

You were really spitting fire on this one! 🔥 💯 My additional comments to this sister would be: 1. Serve God, serve others, get busy with church activities, serving friends, etc. This will help to build your level of commitment to things and build your character. 2. Be approachable and friendly. Sometimes the way we present ourselves as women, can throw men off. 3. Pray about and work towards the kind of wife you would like to be. There may be character flaws that you need to work on. This is a great time to do it. 4. Befriend real married people. It will help you to see the challenges in marriage too. Sometimes when we desire things so much, they can become idols to us.

[@haryetta]

I love that the Lord puts a cloak of protection round me too. And it is beautiful to know how loved i am loved by the Lord. Thank you for your encouragement. ❤ 39 this year and i shall keep waiting for His Will. 😊

[@lucyaudrey733]

overlooked, ignored and unnoticed lol, tell me about it! That's my current experience.Thank you for sharing!

[@lindasoya1192]

🤣🤣🤣 You are so funny and straight forward. Most people when giving advice online usually are softer and more gentle, but you are hard and to the point. It's different but i believe helpful.

[@RakhelRose]

This is so precious. I'm 34 almost 35. A virgin, never have had any boyfriend or intimate relationship, and...still waiting! You my sisters who have and are keeping yourselves pure for your husbands are like very rare precious pearls that I believe is highly pleasing to The Lord. While yes, many, many times I feel that longing for a loving romance and a wonderful godly marriage, Yahushua encourages me...He loves me. Fully Man and fully God Who loves and cherishes me more than any man ever could. So in this, I find, in Him I am truly complete and I've got it all. God bless you sisters❤

[@ellona3645]

This is me right now. 25 years old, still praying that I will get married one day.

[@roseebud]

This is really insightful. You're like a big sister with good advice. God bless you 💛

[@hespeaksinourdreams3060]

I just want to take a second sis to say you look GORGEOUS in this video. I currently cannot afford to buy one of your dresses but normally my husband lets me splurge a bit during tax season. I’ll be keeping an eye on your website. These messages are SO needed btw… I got married at 22 and some of this stuff is still new to me even though I’ve been married bc I haven’t had those wise women in faith to turn too but I’m learning and praying I can teach my little sister some of this stuff bc she’s 26 already very lukewarm and giving herself away to allllll the wrong men. She probably needs therapy tbh I really worry about her. God bless you and your family and the content you put out! I love it all

[@ANGELFANIA9]

nice video very helpful. i’m a single mother 52 and living faithfully for the Lord i waiting patiently for my God man. any suggestion being at my middle age , love you channel. it’s such a Blessing thank you

[@cygnetlake8017]

this needs to go viral!

[@expresshon1]

I don't know why you were in my algorithm but, sistaaaa this video was so perfect for me right now. Thank you. I'm subbing.

[@francesca-jr4vw]

Girl you have hit the nail on the head with this video!

[@BasedZillenial]

The thumbnail is literally me. I feel this so much. Thank you for this video. ♥️

[@user-oe6vg9np6s]

I 100% am in the same boat. I really needed this right now. Thank you 'letter girl.'

[@3unhy3]

💛💛 thank you. best advice for my season rn

[@ab-gail]

Needed to hear this! 🙌

[@aishalove513]

The gems you drop, i really appreciate your advice

[@ShellysEncouragingWords]

PERFECTLY SAID ! Thank You to the sister that wrote this letter ! And thank you @bindi so much for how you executed the answer ! I was sent this video by a homegirl of mine and you really encouraged me and spoke in a way where I was able to HEAR and receive everything you said. I thank you for being lead by Christ to help other women, and I pray this video reaches millions one ! Starting with me, I will be sharing this ! God Bless ! ❤

[@CrownedDiaries]

This video was like a sit down sister to sister with some sound and biblical advice. This did my heart so much good ❤ this did my perspective so much good

[@roxannemarie]

This was really good!! Great advice.

[@gabrielleperez6548]

Wow! This is EXACTLY what I needed to hear right now. It feels like you’re speaking to my soul! I have to change my attitude in dating.

[@AyanaInChrist]

This is good stuff! ❤

[@ohteejay._]

This was encouraging and gave me the strength to continue to wait and do so well. I had the same thoughts as our sister here and being that I’m also 25 it really hit home for me. I bless God for covering me and seeing fit to only reveal me to the man He has for me. Thank you for this video.

[@gabrielleeskridge533]

This is so good and I wish I had had such good counsel in my 20s. I met my husband right after I turned 20. We dated for a while and were engaged for a while before we married right before I turned 26. I am now 31 and we have 2 toddlers. I also felt unattractive and that I had very few men trying to pursue me in throughout my life. I remember asking God to let the next man who pursued me be my husband at 20 and He honored that. It was not a perfect or easy road but my husband knew I was his wife and I knew he was my husband. Ladies please, wait on the Lord! He will bring you exactly what you need in His perfect timing!

[@marjannebie]

Thank you Bindi, this video meant so much to me. To be reminded that I am not alone, that my Father is watching over me. You cannot imagine the value of your video for me. To keep calm faith, to know I am her, because I am His daughter. Thank you. I truly love the calm, down to earth, clear yet soft feminine, creative and lighthearted sweet way you bring your message across. Thank you from my heart 🙏

[@aliceandappetizers]

Thank you for this video. You freed me sister!

[@ediblecrayons2382]

you're so beautiful with your hair like that!

[@deec3561]

So many cool ppl in the comments! Virginity is beautiful ❤️❤️. Sex without a godly spouse brings despair

[@monicalouis8333]

Oh how I wish I had this advice when I was younger! Pearls of wisdom!!!!!!!

[@careenwasonga]

that 16:00 mark made me chuckle😆... sis, thank you! you literally just gained a new subscriber

[@daddysgirl2823]

This is a timely word for me. God bless you!! It’s beautiful to be a virgin and wait on the Lord to gift you with a husband. Isaiah 60:22 “When the time is right, I, THE LORD, will make it happen.” Well many say why wait? Many men and women now a days have “countless body counts” that doesn’t make them more mature or “experienced”. That persons actions state a lot of the immaturity and ignorance they have within. That eventually causes problems in the nearby future when they get married (promiscuity, lust, masturbation, pornography, adultery e.t.c). You may not see it now but you’ll find out later that marriage is a lifetime investment.

[@elizabethblanco4088]

To God be the Glory indeed, I'm so glad that there are some ladies who think the same like I do and we sincerely thank God that even in this generation, we are living in there are still ladies that keep their bodies.❤ Let's continue ladies and congratulations 👏

[@thankyou1741]

I have a feeling this is a black woman issue I’ve seen a lot of white Conservative woman not struggle with this. I remember since I was a teenager, I prioritised being married and did everything to put this first, and I’m still in the same situation as the girl that made the letter… I’ve seen white Conservative woman put the same effort and energy I have but they and get married by 21, 22 & found favour from men. We have to keep it real being black is a disadvantage in this society it’s heart crushing

[@newtrollaccount384]

I agree. Black women with conservative morals have a difficult time on the dating market. Other women don't even need to be all that reserved there is just a double standard.

[@caribbeankpoplover]

I’ve also realized this… but I also know God is bigger than the disadvantages that are thrown at us in this life. Though I’m still not married as yet, with no prospects and in a foreign country where I don’t speak the language, I still try to keep the faith. He’s done miracles for me in other areas of my life and I know He will do the same with my love life. 🙏🏾

[@MsLotusBlooms]

True. A lot BW (not all) tend to have some different experiences. But you have to be clever about it and figure out the type of men who would be open to you. There are men who aren't black and who may like that you would be a hidden treasure that they can feel safe with. There are lots of men out there with the same issues.

[@CakesDontLie]

Hm. I don’t think it’s about narrowing it down to skin colour. It’s actually a whole lot easier now to be black than white. The amount of racism towards white people now is ridiculous. It doesn’t matter what skin colour you are. God is sovereign and He decides on marriage for us irregardless of circumstances.

[@brittneyb6247]

I don’t think so it’s more of a women self esteem issue there’s some white conservatives who feel the same way

[@newtrollaccount384]

I'm glad this young woman reached out to you and I'm glad you shared her story. There are many women in her situation. These Manosphere men are liars. They don't value or respect chastity like they claim they do. I've known this for years.

[@Infrazale]

The "Red Pill" guys are largely secular. They are simply looking to be as promiscuos as the women they complain about.

[@AshlynArrrow]

I’m literally in the same boat, this video is so affirming.💛

[@allystachowiak5769]

Thank you so much for making the kind of videos that you make

[@Melanie-bi4pp]

Hi Bindi I love so much what you've said !! I am 15 so I don't look for a husband but what y'ouve said about waiting season spoke to me because I look for christian friends for a while. It's so funny when you've talk about La La Land it's me too when I was younger I love you 😂❤ I love that you only wear skirts and dresses and no makeup because I think it is the right thing to do so you're are really a good example and you're very beautiful 🥰 However I encourage you to no say anymore things like "oh my God/gosh" because the name of God is not to take like an idiom, it's not for expressing disappointment or surprise but I prayer or something like that otherwise it is disrespectful. I think it is what Gid meant by saying don't say my Name in vain. God guide you in the total truth my dear❤❤