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ABOUT THIS CHANNEL | I am a wife to an exceptional man, a mother to beloved daughters, a diligent homemaker, and a businesswoman. But before all these roles I am a woman who belongs to The Lord. A daughter to the God of The Bible through the work of my savior Jesus Christ. On this channel, you will enjoy content designed to cultivate a rich experience of biblical womanhood. You will be encouraged to place your true hope and faith in the Lord. You will also hear hard discussions about accountability and personal responsibility for your life and what it produces. We embrace real character and integrity as much as we do physical beauty and femininity. We are called to be women of our Father's Kingdom and to honor Him with our speech, actions, and modest yet feminine dress. I would love to have you along for the ride as we embrace a manner of life that brings honor to the name of our Father and get to the work of accomplishing our mission.
00:00 Teaser
00:40 Please Advise Letter
06:23 Overview
13:30 The Father Wound
17:05 Temptation, Remorse, & Adultery
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[@Bindi_Marc]

1:11:35 *A CORRECTION* | When I said, "Right now he's [the enemy] has you on his ticket..." I really should have said, "It *_appears_* he has you on his ticket." One word difference, but that one word makes a world of difference as it is not my place to posture like I know with certainty where anyone is going when it is the Lord, and the Lord alone, that determines our final destination. Forgive me for misspeaking! DAVID & BATHSHEBA | kzbin.info/www/bejne/g5K1lKZqqs2chbc WHY YOU DONT BASH YOUR MAN | kzbin.info/www/bejne/qXrOi3priqd5eM0 DIVORCE & REMARRIAGE | kzbin.info/www/bejne/e6HNf42ro7WLqsU

[@user-rc7rn8zr3s]

Did you know every person knows if he's a sinner, or lukewarm or he or she is striving to be Holy. Set a difference between a sinner from lukewarm and from lukewarm to living Holy. What is different in your life since you believed, except Jesus Christ as Lord, after yo confessed your sins, and was baptize in water in the name of Jesus Christ then he forgave you if all your sins and gave you the gift of the Holy Spirit and the gift of speaking in tougues. If you are a new creation, what difference in your life now! This don't take a lot of thinking! You know weather you living a Holy life or not! Living Holy is a continue commitment in living free from sins bondage as we do no give in to lusts, nor yield our members to temptation nor keep our minds on worldly passions! Continue to pray, fast, fellowship, foot washing, study, meditate, and read by following in obedience to the Holy Bible and the Holy Scriptures. Keeping on the Armor of God, put within us the Fruits of the Spirit and memorizing the Promises of God. Always keep Jesus Christ 2 Commandments as our lead: Our God is One, we must love the Lord our God with all of our mind, heart, body, Soul and Spirit and we are to love our neighbors as we love ourselves, on these 2 Commandments hangs all the teachings of the Holy Prophets and Holy Apostles!

[@jasminegold6890]

I love your channel!

[@Goe007]

You can't speak like that in Our nowadays churches... they gonna say you're making members run away from church! This Language used on Men (women and Men) are usually from God only... God never put honey to is word when addressing to us Human. as a Human vessel you are even struggling to let it out as it is...

[@deec3561]

Not having sex before marriage is a safeguard especially for women. It will reveal the true nature of man and his heart’s true intent.

[@conversationswithcay]

This is soo true because I was with a guy for some time and the minute I decided to get closer to God and take sex off the table he left.

[@JescaMug]

​@@conversationswithcay happened to me as well

[@annaspeaksout2964]

Amen

[@normansindana4366]

It is a safeguard more for men as well. There are people who the walking altars and are dedicated to sexual captivity of destinies and most promiscuous men and women fall for these traps for eternity 😌😌😌

[@chidinwabueze]

So true!

[@xbriannaxbananax]

I learned the hard way that God doesn't give us commandments to take away our fun or control us, but rather to protect us from getting our heart broken😐.

[@taraowens8039]

Every unmarried Christian woman needs to listen to this!

[@Flinabin]

I did😊!!

[@fuzbcuz7613]

I clicked on this so fast; adultery tore my life, as I knew it, to pieces but God, in his mercy built a life for me that was even better than I had planned for myself.

[@stephthecreative6312]

Me too sis! I though we couldn’t do anything without him, but GOD reminded me that it’s been him taking care of us all along. Now I’m learning who he really is.

[@fuzbcuz7613]

@@stephthecreative6312 I've decided to stop struggling with Him every step of the way. He knows what's best.

[@noxolondlela8843]

I'm a single mom of 2 . Got saved and now born again by the blood of Christ . . I'm learning to be a woman of God And God is helping me day by day .

[@bailey9642]

God bless you and keep on your walk. Don't get discouraged or weary in well doing. Have faith and rest in Him through everything. Jude 1:24❤

[@terristrange]

The Devil’s lies sound so comforting. He tells you everything you want to hear.

[@Lemonbr316]

Yes! And the word of God does the exact opposite but brings life in abundance and devils lies brings death and destruction

[@Unorthodox_bri]

Im in here punching the air. You hit every nail on the head. I love how you break down each point and almost force people to pick up a mirror when we try to blame everyone else for our situations.

[@mrs.murphy2611]

!!

[@nicoobrowner59]

My African mother used to tell me that if you engage in fornication or promiscuity, you will be promiscuite even when you don't want to 😢. I took this as a warning and I am thankful. She said once you engage in fornication, it will be a sin that keeps on calling you and you will engage in it even when you know it makes you loath yourself afterwards. Time and time again, it enslaves you. 💔 I see how fornication has gripped this young woman from an early age and when it gets you young, it's very hard to break loose. It's not impossible, but it's hard. So just don't start! 🤌🏽🤌🏽 Wait for marriage.

[@TwiFiveGirls101]

I agree with everything you said. It was a hard sin for me to shake off.

[@maryalazo5964]

Great advise!

[@blessedbeyondmeasure3265]

False humility is a dangerous way to deceive ones self, narcissist love no one only themselves. Your biblical honesty is much needed in this generation for young women and men.

[@UntotheLord]

The difference in the way the Biblical words hit compared to the worldly words was amazing! I’m officially changing my vocabulary thanks Bindi

[@normansindana4366]

I've changed mine Drastically. This is Mind opening to what was supposed to be obvious but isn't

[@moitah01]

You know! So true. Biblical vs worldview.

[@kirky3051]

I’m getting ready for marriage. Sisters in Christ please pray for me ❤

[@NazranaKhan04]

Just prayed for you. 🙏🏽

[@zeenkosis]

Praying for you 🙏🏽 if you haven’t yet I hope you go to pre marital counselling/class. It’s helped us so much ❤

[@FeminineFaithWalk]

Where are you from

[@kimberlymaya4733]

I'm 18 yrs old, and I'm really grateful for your videos and advice ❤, I'm learning so much, like my eyes are opening, I'm grateful to God for this, thank you so much ❤

[@ayomidebalogun2500]

I'm 18 too and I've watched her videos for a year now There's nothing like living in the counsel of God ✨

[@Matthew.7-7]

@@ayomidebalogun2500you do well to protect your Godly womanhood, I pray that the Lord brings before you a Biblical Husband that Leads by Gods Holy Law. I beseech you sister my sisters in Christ to spread the message to your peers!! So they do not fall into the traps of these demonic men and their schemes to use young women. I try my very best to reach out to the young men about Self control and saving themselves for a Godly marriage. God bless y’all

[@godistheanswer123ify]

Keep on the right path yall! I’m 25 and I’m so glad I kept the path. Of course it wasn’t perfect and still isn’t. But I’m glad I followed the opposite of this worlds advice. It gets better loving Christ. Don’t ever give up. Much love to you both! 🤗

[@mayperez1420]

Wow this is a good one. Never ever entertain the pursuit of a married man. Even if the man is separated. God will never send you a person that is not free. I speak from experience. You will suffer immensely. He will betray you. God will allow him to betray you so you can understand that he doesn’t approve. He is our father and he has to correct our bad behavior. Don’t entertain this any longer. Wait on God.

[@normansindana4366]

Very sound advice and talking from painful experience that echoed over generations. It has to stop somewhere and I say it stops with me. My children are important to me and my God, the least I can do is come clean and help the next generation not to fall where I fell 🎉🎉🎉

[@normansindana4366]

A good one indeed 🎉🎉🎉

[@ChristIsK1ng]

Sister Bindi, you are wise beyond your years! God bless you and your family!

[@trudy-annclarke3617]

I was looking for this comment. This is her gift from God. I love to see when young people are wise.

[@jessicaalvarado208]

This hit home…I too was in a one year relationship with a narcissist. I was not close to GOD at the time. This man knew exactly what to say and ask about me, to use it for his deceptive tactics….and I fell. 7 months in, I found out he was separated from his wife’, he had told me he was divorced. Sweetie, GOD WILL NEVER SEND YOU A MARRIED MAN!

[@BazookaDoe]

when you said the butterflies of temptation, that struck me. I learned a few years ago that " butterflies" are actually red flags. You should feel safe and calm around your partner, not a nervous jolt of energy in your stomach. That usually means you're going towards person who behaves similarly to someone you dealt with before, but those wires are usually crossed to equate negative emotions with love. I learned that, and when I met my husband I felt no butterflies. I felt relaxed and safe first time meeting him and every time since. Butterflies are not to be romanticized. They are a sign.

[@toomuchinformation]

Great comment.

[@sofiabravo1994]

Really? I feel like the term flutters is normal it’s exciting and new but when it dims down over time it doesn’t mean love died it just means that we become confident with each other. I only felt flutters when certain life experiences brought excitement and joy.

[@BazookaDoe]

That's different than what we're talking about, hun. Excited and in love is one thing, but the butterflies of temptation are a different breed altogether. I am happy though, that you have had those joyous experiences, Sister. :)

[@ChristIsrealLife]

I 100% agree. I always felt “butterflies” when I would date the “bad boy” or someone I shouldn’t be with… because with the flesh, it’s always exciting doing something you shouldn’t, or being with someone you shouldn’t … after being burned with fire, hears later I met my righteous husband and I felt NO butterflies… comfort, relaxed, he was the right one for me ❤️

[@zivaughn]

I’ve never heard this before. But when I think about it, every guy I had butterflies for turned out to be an absolute jerk. Wow!

[@ebonymitchell6963]

When we live in the gray, that's when things are confusing but if we trust God enough to live according to His rules and principles things become crystal clear. I pray that this young lady come to both know and TRUST the Lord.

[@ChristIsK1ng]

Well said. And God is certainly not the author of “the gray”.

[@FionaMcCoy290]

💯💯💯

[@effortlesslynj]

And God isn’t a God of confusion. Only the devil is. The lady and I are the same age, but I learned to take more accountability for my actions. I pray God can guide her to take accountability for her actions as well.

[@keahharrison4765]

🎯

[@cierrashewrites]

I was this girl outside of actually sleeping around (for fear of my mother, not that I was better or more holy). I can say from experience that getting married even to a Godly man will not stop you from having desires for a new man when the one isn't giving you what you want. That's a character flaw. You MUST let Holy Spirit work this thing out of you, and heal the things that cause this behavior otherwise you'll end up hurting yourself and any man that chooses to love you. Thank you Bindi for this video. It spoke directly to my heart and right on time. God bless you baby sister. Don't end up like me with the man of your dreams yet don't know how to treat him, or have grace for him. There is no justification for adultery married or not. And no man will be good enough to make you not want to be unfaithful. And this is coming from a wife with a wonderful Godly husband.

[@_beatrijs]

By worldly standards, this would not be considered as a loving approach but it also would not be seen as a life and death situation. For believers in Jesus Christ, we know it is. So thank you sis - the house is on fire and you’ve done an amazing job by the Spirit of God to try to save this woman’s life 🙏🏼

[@ambertorres4444]

I don't think this would be seen as unloving by the world in any way. There are lots of people in the world who are truth tellers and appreciate the truth.

[@_beatrijs]

@@ambertorres4444 I agree with you in the sense that the people in the world who are truth-tellers and would appreciate the truth are demonstrating standards that aren’t worldly. Worldly standards or ‘worldliness’ based on the Bible is the opposite of godliness and therefore the opposite of truth.

[@rebeccamars5931]

Unfortunately that young lady is looking for a father in these wicked men , I understand her pain. This is why you need to know God the father and God the husband. Ask God to encounter Jesus.

[@BQ900]

Bindi has tremendously godly advice. Yes it would be interesting to see her husband’s take on this “situation ship”.😮

[@PrettiBelle]

I think you're right but part of the problem is, she doesn't realize that she is also wicked. She's not a victim but she does need to repent.

[@Dayspring77]

I was practicing fornication with my boyfriend for 5 years and then we broke up and came to Christ . I choose to wait until marriage after that and that time of preparation was the best thing that I am so grateful to the Lord for. After 7 years of celibacy the Lord finally brought my husband into my life and we both wanted to honor God and we waited to be intimate until our wedding day night and we have been blessed with the best baby boy (2 years later not that night lol😂) But anyways I loved watching this ! You remind me of myself with your bluntness . Thanks for your videos !

[@BethRichLife]

I’ve been in this situation and he did leave his wife. He married me. We had children and he’s had affairs. He had a child from one of the affairs. I’ve filed for divorce, but it hasn’t been finalized yet. I wish I had someone be this honest with me. It would be hard to hear but it would saved so much pain. I’m grateful for my children and I pray for God’s will.

[@christellen3077]

All will be well. God is doing a new thing in your life. Be at peace in Jesus Name, don't turn back to old ways and lean on the Holy SPirit!

[@jenealeverett2269]

Why were you ok with dating a married man?

[@MiracleDeniece]

So you were okay with helping him hurt his first wife but only drew the line when he hurt you?

[@kellenkenlyn]

I agree with you on how fatherlessness in a home can put little girls in a risky situation of being prone to choosing older predatory men.

[@Melaann]

I really think i needed this video. A friend sent it. I was a wife of 14 yrs. My ex hus left for his coworker and im still in pain from it after almost 2 yrs. Leaving me with our kids at the same time my ex and his new partner play house together and altho they have a toxic relationship now. I feel upset they are still making it work while I'm left to pick up the pieces left behind. Hearing this makes me sad for my kids future because their dad may be there for them and sees them but hes not very present in their lives. Doesnt know their teachers names are.. ect.. im very glad i have a present father and their other granddad too along with my brother but nothing will replace ur actual biological father. 😢 pray for my kids! 🙏

[@TwiFiveGirls101]

I pray your husband repents and stops sinning. I'm sorry for your loss.❤

[@TheCorala]

you have to draw on the strength the Lord will give you and not feel guilt. your children receive your love. it is your ex and his partner that have the bigger problem. Just be wise, sensitive and discerning regarding your children... many single women doing a mammoth job. You are getting help from on high. Pls remember that. Our Father is committed to us and HE is the Head of your home.. brother, father, husband. God bless you and those wonderful children.

[@ruthyrosa3588]

Theres a Father wound in this girl that needs to healed . Unclean sexual spirits that result in bond age relationships can result from these wounds . They become magnets for narcissistic men who are very aware of their desperation to be loved but these girls are unfamiliar with wholesome pure love like the love of Jesus , because they have never received it . She needs Inter healing and deliverance . It’s a viscous cycle , she hears the Lord she just needs to submit to the process which is very difficult , but the Lord can do it perfectly! Let’s keep her in prayer 🙏🏼

[@karinteeples9715]

I absolutely feel this as well in my spirit! I hope she receives correction and chooses obedience and healing.

[@TLG2211]

The sis needs to find a community of believers too ✨

[@TwiFiveGirls101]

The opening is already so good. The way you grabbed your locs. 😆💁🏾‍♀️

[@meganp8766]

I hope the writer can receive this without a spirit of offense as a loving rebuke. I know I did, and honestly I’m kind of jealous that someone is able to speak into this young woman’s situation from a place of boldness, addressing the issue from a Biblical perspective and wants her to flourish from the looks of it. I think there is a generational curse of adultery in my family, so I appreciate this message and find it very timely as I feel the Holy Spirit brought this to my attention recently. If you allow Him, the Holy Spirit will correct you. When I have had moments where I feel like I am talking in an emotionally unguarded way with someone’s husband, the Holy Spirit has let me know. Kind of internally embarrassing. It’s not fun, but comforting that He is always willing to correct. If the writer won’t receive this rebuke, I will. Shout-out to the Holy Spirit because this right here is gold, in my personal opinion or at the very least it reminded me to be honest with myself. Thank you for sharing Bindi and God bless!

[@jenealeverett2269]

Why do you feel comfortable having any level of personal Conversations with married men?

[@Sekhere]

⁠@@jenealeverett2269she just admitted her convictions so no need to come for her and she’s taking responsibility for her actions and prayerfully taking heed to Holyspirit. That’s enough for her to break away from the generational curse so encourage instead of rubbing her sin against her. That’s not godly like at all. Also, tell husbands to stop entertaining single woman while they are married….

[@dahliaherrod4301]

God is very good! He's an excellent father who loves His daughters enough to rebuke them. I'm happy to hear you got some wisdom from this wisdom. I did too. My prayer for you is that you will walk by faith in Christ and live out His Godly wisdom. Amen!

[@CherylrhondaMoreland-wv2fj]

Self deception is very dangerous. Thanks Bindi for being raw. Lack of affection is no reason to commit adultry . Its selfish !! None of it is valid justification.

[@johnbchawang]

Dear sister in Christ, many pastors and church leaders are consciously refusing to tell the true teaching of the words of God on Women/Wife, Marriage, Sex etc for fear of losing their church members or rejection. I truly appreciate your courage and touching vital elements on woman as taught by the lord. Thank you

[@davidmwilliams7052]

if there is no father ELOHIM can only lead you now marriage is this exodus 22(16-17) deuronomy 22(16-17) the man of the house can only legally according to scriptures give you away don't except that is old testament look for self you find no scripture approving him and don't except he is your father either

[@Faithandhome5500]

You rebuke so well friend.. so thankful you speak the truth in love and with boldness!

[@Shangri-LaGrange]

Yes! I was so moved by her honesty and wisdom, yet she showed gentleness and compassion. ❤ She is such a blessing to listen to!

[@alinabrito8576]

She's only reconsidering being this guy's mistress because she wants out to get with the new guy. God has been faithful to convict me of my sin, and I pray he does it for her too.

[@danief929]

But to some extent, by my understanding of her email, the Lord is convicting her. I would say she needs to be more trusting and faith to accepts the conviction and allow God to lead her life.

[@marketa4074]

This video has helped me to see some of my own unholy behavior and repent. I have felt convicted and took some actions to set myself on the right track (end some conversations, delete some things from my instagram). You have given me clarity on some things. This girl is trapped and I would just encourage her to choose God and trust him to do the work. You are right that a healing like that usually takes time and it doesn't happen by itself, it happens by choosing God every day, to give Him our attention, time, heart, willingnes to listen and to be changed. I wish one day I can speak the truth as boldy as you, especially to my own friends and people that confide in me. Because I tend to be very empathetic and not wanting to hurt anybodys feelings.

[@vardaainur-michaelmas5462]

Just absolutely love your exasperated expressions so much Bindi 🤣🤣!

[@breneew6566]

Ditto🤣🤣👏🏾

[@user-mc7vz6tj7d]

Thank you sister for not compromising the word of God 🙌🏾 Mark 10:9 let no man splits apart what God has joined together 11: “He told them, “Whoever divorces his wife and marries someone else commits adultery against her. And if a woman divorces her husband and marries someone else, she commits adultery.”

[@malenat8812]

Bindi.....these are the BEST "bible studies" on the internet. I joke, but seriously, you are helping to change lives. Thank you for this🙏🏽 these lessons are simply not taught to our youth. This knowledge that you wrap up and serve so well is essential.

[@samtv6659]

"is that the only thing your spirit has been telling you"? i HOLLERED lol this really is great counsel

[@audrianaforeman2013]

Let the church say Amen. I am a married woman with a 3 kids and I loved everything you said. You are on it. I agree with you 100% I love how the Lord allowed you to corrected her when she wanted to use the word cheating you can back correct her use the correct word which is adultery because that’s what it is! God is so good. I pray that the Lord continues to bless you and your union. 😇😇😇🥰🥰🥰

[@jessejules2092]

I love that you added the interruption of your child and show just how certain you are of your parenting so as to keep a calm disposition in carrying out your instruction. And, it made me laugh how your child felt free to respond with a groan because it knew it was pointless to argue with a mum who knows her authority 🤣.

[@kJ-wd9wk]

We need these teachings more often👏🏾🙌🏾

[@jordanruth0809]

To the person who sent this letter, please hear with a ear of understanding and repent. For scripture also says warning comes before destruction and that you are no longer ignorant to satan’s devices once you get an understanding. This here hit home to me as a child of God. Not to scold you, but know when you ask for light, it won’t be as she said, words to cover wrongdoing but rather bringing light to it. I won’t even limit this to adultery but sin period. This message can be applied to whatever temptation anyone wrestles with! God bless you!

[@therealsubaekhyang]

I think you should post these videos in podcast form as well

[@shyshalewis6851]

Bindi! You are Calling a thing a thing today! Love it

[@Jennyzcool8787]

This situation is so transparent. He's fighting demons and his mother is an enabler. Healing and diving deeper into why we attract what we do is the real issue. The holy spirit was trying to warn you through his own lips. I hope we can all find healing and stray Way from folks with the jezebel spirit.

[@jmunroe]

This was such a great watch! Although it doesn't apply to me at all, I hope that the recipient sees this, and will recieve revelation and healing. Your honest nature is so refreshing.

[@conversationswithcay]

I’m soo glad I came across Bindi’s channel her channel is helping many women including myself!!

[@MamaJanenk]

God bless you Bindi. To the young womàn who wrote to you Bindi. If you know the Lord, and in your heart, have a desire to get married one day, know that you are someone's wife. Keeping yourself pure is not a law, it is love. God is a loving Father, we are His daughters. He tells us not to have sex outside marriage, because he loves us. You have to be blind not to see what sexual sin is doing to the beautiful world He created. Water and fire are good, when handled properly, but deadly when not. Laws gorvening water and fire are not to be messed with, they are there for our protection. Fire keeps you warm, it cooks your food and gives light. Handle it with care though -- the same fire can destroy a whole city. Water, gives life to the earth, but it must be kept pure and clean, or it can wipe out an entire nation. We do not play with drinking water, we respect it. We do not play with fire, we respect fire. Sex is the same. If you are serious about your walk with the Lord find a Bible teaching, Holy spirit lead church. You need a community of believers to support and encourage you. A young woman does not study the Bible with older men , she studies the Bible with older women who teach young woman what it means to be a godly young woman. Stay away from fire you will get burned. Stay away from deep waters, you will drown. Go to church, get involved with young women your age and have fun. There is so much to do for a young person like you in the kingdom of God, than allowing goats turn your water to mud. Wait in the Lord. Here is some Bible study verses for you. Where it says, 'a man' put yourself there. "Can a man take fire to his bosom, And his clothes not be burned? Can one walk on hot coals, And his feet not be seared? So is he who goes in to his neighbor’s wife; Whoever touches her shall not be innocent." Proverbs 6:27‭-‬29 NKJV "Drink water from your own cistern, And running water from your own well. Should your fountains be dispersed abroad, Streams of water in the streets? Let them be only your own, And not for strangers with you. Let your fountain be blessed, And rejoice with the wife of your youth." Proverbs 5:15‭-‬18 NKJV You are someone's wife, keep yourself for him until he comes, at the right time. Stop giving your water away, you will run dry. Stop playing with fire. Love yourself and allow Father God to heal and restore you, but start with repentance. ❤

[@carrydobbs1663]

You're my favorite, i love how blunt you can be and you have great advice. I listen to you when im cleaning or corcheting. Ty!

[@jgodfrey7283]

Whew! Great commentary. She needed some tough love and you gave it with firm words and God’s Word. Huge respect. Beautiful prayer also. Bless you.

[@koko3_me]

That was awesome ! ❤🙏 we all need to hear this straight forward type of talk! God Bless you!

[@m.miresh1384]

This is great, Bindi. Praying the young sis will be delivered from these patterns of dysfunction.

[@kel.insight303]

I absolutely love the resent content you’ve put out, keep it coming! I pray the most high continue to use you to be a voice of wise reasoning, understanding and clarity for those seeking after God. 💜💜

[@normansindana4366]

You heal me in many levels and through two marriages I've gone through 😢😢😢 Thank You 💕💕💕

[@kundaimazarura3412]

Stumbled upon your channel a few weeks ago, I believe it was divinely orchestrated given my present desires 💍😇. I have learnt so much already of which I am grateful to you and God, I am Officially In My Bindi Marc Era, getting prep'd🥰

[@whawangwhawah2591]

Please do an entire show on self deception. This one is textbook on adultery and other foolishness between the sexes

[@mrs.a4564]

You showed grace and love while still being honest and wise. It was beautifully said. Great message! Thank you for sharing.

[@theparttimehomemaker]

Your advice is biblically sound and always spot on!! ❤

[@AliceInWonderlandWasHigh2020]

This convicted me so much, even though I haven’t experienced what the author has. God bless you Joyce!!

[@taki1255]

God has truly blessed you with spiritual discernment and the gift of teaching! May he continue to bless you and your family for your faithfulness to his word!

[@Listening_2_Still_Small_Voice]

Bindi, you are blessed with wisdom and discernment. Your biblical based advice is simply excellent.

[@tamjames3997]

I love it!! I am “team, obedience”! Thank you for having a heart for women, to tell women the truth!

[@sandracosgrove8970]

You speak the truth in a nice but powerfull way we all have to accept that we let the bad into our life

[@normansindana4366]

"You are asking me questions but you are not asking the right questions" Wow Wow Wow Wow. Loving this even if it puts me on the spot I am very very greatful 🙏scales are falling generationally before The LORD 🙏🙏🙏 I'm humbled and I need The LORD Wr All need Him Diligently generationally

[@JaySmith.]

I appreciate this video. I learned this perspective but from a male relationship coach I follow (TG). He said everything you said Bindi which lets me know that we really have to do the work on ourselves and stop lying to ourself due to our own delusions.

[@fabhairwithbritt980]

This was so good. Praying with you that the Lord would use the truth you shared in love to reach this young woman.

[@TwiFiveGirls101]

51:15 I loved that you quoted Paul Washer. I just started listening to his sermons and lectures and he is such a powerful sound teacher.

[@kirky3051]

I love listening to him as well as Voddie Baucham

[@HaleyisAppy]

Yes! Me too! I recently finished Paul Washers Clouds without Water series and Voddie Bauchams “Why I Believe the Bible” teaching (for evangelization) and they were both phenomenal!!💕I highly recommend if you haven’t watched them yet.

[@TwiFiveGirls101]

​@kirky3051 LOVE Voddie Baucham I've been listening to him since I was in college almost 10 years ago.

[@duhchrissy1887]

This actually lead me to come upon this playlist of sermons kzbin.info/aero/PLbSQo4t30ckP3Vw_euLHgKPil-YFmzuvL&si=xUT2xQu21E7a4BZb

[@flowersandlace]

i love Paul Washer!! true man of God.

[@jeneeskinner7481]

This is how many ppl get bitter over time. Being entangled w toxic ppl we shouldn't be with just to avoid loneliness. Romanticizing pleasure, memory, happy endings. Getting used up and numb over time. You the capacity to love, feel, trust, respect a potential partner after a while. It's dangerous to follow emotions. It often leads to feeding the demons we deal with and makes it harder to walk away. You get so accustomed to drama, that normal life becomes boring. I thought of David/Bathsheba too, but also Samson/Delilah, and Solomon. It's good to sometimes feel shame and confusion because that shows our conscience is in tact and the Holy Spirit is still able to work with us. Unfortunately, if you give a man a playbook of how to win you over, many will just use it as a mating strategy. Time tells the truth on us all. If he, or you, suggest going to private spaces to spend time together esp early on, that's a red flag. Be honest about if you're putting yourself in a position to be tempted to sexually sin. Both parties' actions were in contradiction with their words. Bringing religion into the picture just made things more seductive because there's the hope of redemption and feigning of spiritual goodness. There shouldn't be space held for intimate talks like this except with therapists, pastors, and God.

[@dorenapetty8696]

Thank you for speaking boldly and truthfully out of love.

[@zeenkosis]

I wish I had Bindi I’m my youth😢 so many of us are coddled in our sin. Yes sometimes the source is a broken place and pain BUT I did not repent and turn or confess my sin. I regret not confessing my sin because I know God would’ve healed me sooner.❤

[@3unhy3]

Sooo much wisdom! I’m so keen to study from God and also from this sister in Christ how to counsel other people. I love ppl and to counsel them :) Lord pls gift me with this!

[@Working4God]

Sounds like a generational curse of adultery. It will dog your steps until the Father sets you free.

[@happyhomeinholland]

Wow Bindy you are so clear, consise, considerate and Biblical! Telling the truth is an act of love although it may be hard to hear. Calling sin as it is something I will definitely try to do from this day forward! You really have a way of waking us up! Please keep doing the work that you do. God bless you and your family

[@faithchi8729]

Like another poster said stop living in a grey area. Take Gods word for what he says. It sounds like this young women will take any attention she can get from any guy. She unknowingly makes herself vulnerable to this so much so these old men are confident enough to approach her with all their baggage and lies. It’s no brainer they are twisting things and suddenly love God, what worldly man at that age would pass on a young 23 yr old woman. She needs to seek some other counsel (preferably an older woman) because soon the guy friend will be trying on her soon and she’ll May end up in a situation like the last video you discussed. I’m not hating on this young lady I’m 22 myself. I’ve never had a boyfriend, dated, am a square ect. but just conversing to men is exhausting I’ve decided to just ask then questions about their faith from meeting (many claim to be christian). They want one thing. Men tend disgust and disappoint me on how they’ll pretend (bait and switch) with women who are obviously practicing their faith (in their heart, how they dress and conduct themselves), it feels like wolves coming after you. It’s like you could have gotten to meet women who align with you at a bar or other events but you target us. But I’ll continue to stick to the bible, I think these men have experiences with other “christian women” in which they think we are just faking & if they keep poking hard enough we will give in (which I interpret to be predatory behaviour). God help us.

[@nydiawilliams4422]

Girrrlllll...Womaann of GOD..MINDIE you got me all the way together. This is my life in a KZbin video wrapped up in one hour. My God, what a great reality check!!! 🙌🏾🙏🏾 praying for Holy Spirit to guide me as to what to do about it. 🙏🏾

[@LemonLimeJuiceBarrell]

Bindi is cooking today! Thank you so much for keeping it real with this young woman. Hopefully this will be the wake up call she needs. The delusion of this situation is so twisted. It reminds me of situations I was in when I was young before I was saved. What you said about our capacity for self deception is so true and is something that all Christians need to be on guard for. We love to believe our own lies. Praise God for giving me a new heart and eyes to see the truth!

[@whenyouwishuponastar6643]

Whew Bindi you laid this out!!! But you’re right we need to call a spade a spade and a sin a sin! That’s the only way we can repent and sin no more! This advice can change this woman’s life for the better if she chooses to hear it

[@ezekielnwajiaku5032]

You're full of pure wisdom. May God's grace continue to abound towards you ❤

[@SarahHannah91]

Amen to this. I would definitely the writer of this seeks Christian counsel around why it is particularly older men she is pursuing. As Bindi mentioned there could be an issue with her father figure. I would also recommend doing some very time occupying kingdom work to keep herself busy, volunteering with the homeless etc. I do detect some self-centredness there, which I’ve dealt with personally and found Christian resources on the topic very helpful.

[@belight1521]

Love these new videos! Responding to real time issues

[@sarahlowry9633]

Bindi, thank you for being my sister In Christ. This is such good content and you covered it soo well. I have also sinned in this way in my past. I have repented and established a relationship with the Lord as my Father. ❤

[@claireyoung2334]

I can definitely see a calling for you to help women. I love this and appreciate your videos

[@zeenkosis]

Bindi! It would actually w awesome if you did a marriage prep series!

[@MamaBasics101]

Wow such balanced perspective… very valuable commentary 🙌🙌🙌

[@francisquist141]

Thank you for analyzing this letter and redirecting her and us on a righteous path to GOD.

[@mariafotopoulos]

May the Lord preserve you. Forgive me for praising you, but you are an AMAZING young lady. And even though I have white hair and am probably over twice you age, I have learned a lot from you, and you have helped me in my life.

[@InfallibleGrace]

The language in this video is absolutely crucial It’s truth & it sets people free !

[@lakeishaatkins9110]

I love this Message!!! It definitely hit home❤

[@patricelucio4088]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥Bindi is on fire. The discernment that the Word provides is insane.

[@sashanoel167]

Oh my, Bindi!!!!! This had my wrapped attention as you spoke the straight biblical truth to our baby sister. You spoke it to us, to me. I had to examine my own relationship and own my part in the malfunction I'm experiencing. I'm looking forward to hearing more.

[@msstacey777]

Bindi Marc…girl you came correct!!! ❤

[@kristinaherrejon7181]

Great response Bindi Marc.

[@gokeogunremi7575]

Thank you @Bindi_Marc for being truthful without throwing stones. I want to believe the lady is in fact a believer, that it will show in her eagerness to heed good counsel. She needs to hold herself accountable, preferably to an older woman; I hope she will make the effort and preferably with you. I have learnt a lot from this channel, and am still learning. Thank you!

[@hannahdewinter5515]

I loved how you held the writer accountable. So many people dont do that but it doesnt do anyone any favors unless you are honest with them.

[@AariannaGonzo]

I want to like this 1000 times! Thank you for speaking truth 🙏🏼

[@bellenicks3879]

Bindi you are on a roll with this one!

[@thestorytellersdiary]

I've been nodding my head like a bottle head this entire video. Wonderful biblical advice.

[@josephyurush4801]

After my wife died I tried to date 3 times . I also find that women can be just as toxic.

[@danilaroche1156]

Pray God leads you to your wife. Avoid sexual sin because it will harm you.

[@Truemercy703]

Phenomenal advice! But I would add this for this young woman. The godly sorrow passage from second Corinthians 7 continues with Paul, describing what godly sorrow actually looks like when it’s walked out. The person who has true repentance has a deep desire to prove they are no longer the same person… I personally can testify that this is true for I have walked out true repentance for my past sins. “For observe this very thing, that you sorrowed in a godly manner: What diligence it produced in you, what clearing of yourselves, what indignation, what fear, what vehement desire, what zeal, what vindication! In all things you proved yourselves to be clear in this matter.” 2 corinthians 7:11. And one more thing. This young woman needs to know that she is playing with fire, literally. The Bible is very clear that those who “practice“ sexual sins of any kind do not inherit the kingdom of God. “Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals,fn nor sodomites, 10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God. 1 corinthians 6:9 Young lady, run from all temptation. And let Jesus change you so that you will begin desiring what a godly man really is for you are tragically deceived. May God open your eyes and cause you to be prudent and sober minded. 🙏🏻

[@soniamugeni9195]

May God continue to give you wisdom!