Here are some other videos that you may find helpful: 1) How To Stop Feeling Depression - Instant Relief From Depression 2) Why Do I Hate Myself? How To Stop Hating Yourself 3) How To Deal With Loneliness... Right Now 4) How To Love Yourself - The Permanent Way 5) What Your Feelings REALLY Mean - (Hint: I'ts not what you think)
@mgarbauski9 жыл бұрын
This is unbelieveable how eye opening this is wow i thank you my friend
@robertcannon27739 жыл бұрын
thanks noha that's made me a bit better.
@haidimahmoud40329 жыл бұрын
lol
@haidimahmoud40329 жыл бұрын
+haidi mahmoud And then not only this problem comes up but more and more ,Which are all related which makes you blame yourself even more .
@jariusisaac37669 жыл бұрын
haidi mahmoud just remember everybody around is humane like you, theres things about themselves they dont like. When talk about someone negotively its usually self hate
@loganschannel32628 жыл бұрын
you saved my life. I was going to end my life tonight. I don't want to anymore. God bless you man! you are my hero. :)
@sianrobertson83268 жыл бұрын
Hey I seen you posted this a week ago and I was checking you are okay and still feeling better or getting better
@moody27568 жыл бұрын
How are you doing?
@loganschannel32628 жыл бұрын
+Sian Robertson I'm much better.
@loganschannel32628 жыл бұрын
+Sian Robertson I'm better than I was. :)
@sianrobertson83268 жыл бұрын
+Logan Pohl That's good, glad you are better if you ever need to chat just go for it. It's best to talk to someone who understands the feelings of depression 😊
@lucy87468 жыл бұрын
I wish somebody else understood I can't control what I think sometimes and it drives me crazy.
@lucy87468 жыл бұрын
My thoughts control my actions in my day to day life and I try my hardest to explain why I do things but no one understands and leaves me alone. Which worsens how I'm feeling.
@xXJRVidzXx8 жыл бұрын
i have the same problem, i do things nobody understands and i cant explain myself because i dont even understand myself and whats even worse is that i dont have anybody to tell my feelings cause they would laugh at me and tell im just weak. i hate this situation and i dont know how to geht out of it. (sry bad english)
@lisamcguire77788 жыл бұрын
xXJRVidzXx YOU are NOT "weak." You are HUMAN. Noah is on to something. Distract yourself from the unpleasant things. DO or THINK something positive/different and keep it up!
@therealmeditationguide20338 жыл бұрын
nobody can control what they think this is what the video is about, you can only choose your reaction to those thoughts.
@godskingdomservant31917 жыл бұрын
Depression is caused by the enemy's forces. 6 Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time: 7 Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you. *1 Peter* 5:6-7 (King James Version) Seek the real *Jesus*, the one in the gospels - not the ones in the images!
@saulgonzalez16458 жыл бұрын
pretty much, thoughts are mostly always why I become depressed. I wish sometimes I could just be a little kid again where you wouldn't give a care about anything and no sadness
@HowBigistheMap8 жыл бұрын
So true
@TheSharpUHC8 жыл бұрын
I wish i had a time machine...
@yaniraluna21558 жыл бұрын
Mr. Solo Dolo so true I wish I had the power to undo anything and a Power to go back in time
@infernogamer67698 жыл бұрын
TheSharpUHC me too I just screwed up my whole life
@abelbousie15458 жыл бұрын
xInferno Gamer what happened man?
@ziadghandour99616 жыл бұрын
To EVERYONE watching this video, I LOVE YOU ALL. You have been through so much shit and you're still here, so you are stronger than you think, trust me. You're a survivor. Life is a cycle of ups and downs, and i promise you the up part is coming. Stay positive my friends
@cynthiamacaringue56506 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@severussnape78076 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much I don’t even know who u are but this is the nicest thing anyone has said all year
@sifisomatshika12776 жыл бұрын
Thank u I really need this I am holding rat food raeady to commit suicide
@ChristinaCxo6 жыл бұрын
Thank you !
@crazy._.equestrian99736 жыл бұрын
Thx 💔😭
@aspenm.19068 жыл бұрын
I hate school. I want to cry everyday because I have no one. I have 2 friends , but I only talk to them because I have nobody else . My best friends are at another school and I'm lonely . I hate waking up in the morning . I'm always miserable , even out of school. I'm so sad and I want to be happy again . I feel so alone
@konichiwawatashiwawasabide24348 жыл бұрын
Oh if you can't click the link it's a song called dark enough- Amanda piccolo
@konichiwawatashiwawasabide24348 жыл бұрын
Lopiccolo*
@aspenm.19068 жыл бұрын
+Someonee Overtherainbow what?
@general14908 жыл бұрын
+Aspen Moore lucky you got friends. lost my last friend some 3 years ago. and now am losing even family. even online friends are lost. all cuz of the sickness of one of my family. I have to be isolated with him for 24/7 all month all year. and he thinks its better if I have no friends so I can stay with him. so be great full you got someone to talk to you. only thing I can talk to is the note on the phone.
@aspenm.19068 жыл бұрын
مجاهد جان I'm so sorry to hear that . Don't worry good people will show up in your life . When you least expect it
@kenyoncarter59087 жыл бұрын
Almost 3 years after this video and I still strongly stand by the feeling that my life would've been ended by my own hands if it wasn't for this man.
@joez37065 жыл бұрын
I'm very happy to read your comment
@mysticbluelight58725 жыл бұрын
That’s amazing. I’m so so happy for you friend. God bless you with love and peace in your heat and mind 🙏❤️🙏
@notyouraverage9175 жыл бұрын
Wow amazing
@stacielivinthedream85105 жыл бұрын
Yep! Same here!
@lykamlaki12185 жыл бұрын
😙😘😚lots of love
@emzbee96417 жыл бұрын
if you are reading this, please smile, say something nice about yourself.. just know this will pass, tomorrow is a new day.. i too have severe depression right now. we can all make it through ❤
@sasha-kayliasmith37256 жыл бұрын
Emz bee Thanks kiddo, really made my day.
@gtvintage63286 жыл бұрын
GOD bless you😂
@muema_k6 жыл бұрын
Indeed
@lingling75606 жыл бұрын
my eyes locked on this statement and I want to thank you for these few words of encouragement. Thank You!, and I love you
@-Dark_6 жыл бұрын
I hope it does ♥️
@bricksimmons6 жыл бұрын
I’m either sad, or depressed. I barley have any friends left and the ones that are left never wanna hang out. Ik always stuck inside on Friday nights. In my classes I have no one. My grades are awful, my friends aren’t loyal, and the only thing going good for me, and something I love is basketball. I dread going to school everyday, or even just waking up😔
@bruv69196 жыл бұрын
I have good grades, and really good at baseball but I have only Two actual friends and every day I work my butt off for nothing. I just don’t get-it.
@itslusion34886 жыл бұрын
Same I hope you have it better than me though
@natsirt20996 жыл бұрын
Same..
@websterthejester57616 жыл бұрын
I feel the same way except my grades are good
@SHAD0WKNITE6 жыл бұрын
Same but ims not as worse In some ways it is but Man life is a journey and for some its more rough
@jessmynott58678 жыл бұрын
I'm depressed because I hate people I'm always nice to people and I want to make friends but I'm always taken for granted when at work I help other staff members with there jobs but no one helps me and best off all everyone at work talks shit about me I can't drive yet but when I've learnt how to drive I'm going to work with the RSPCA because I get more gratitude from animals than I do people animals don't irrationally hate people there's always reason behind there behaviors unlike people animals are always true to themselves
@IndigoChild0078 жыл бұрын
Galena Faye I feel the same.
@Sgnwarren8 жыл бұрын
Galena Faye same here
@internetninja94168 жыл бұрын
Galena Faye same here bro
@jscott74327 жыл бұрын
Max Robert most people are bad. You don't how it is where I'm from.
@noname-yy7nm7 жыл бұрын
Same :'( 100% legit
@IndigoRoses78 жыл бұрын
yeah, you know you got a problem when you start crying 20 seconds into it when he started saying "I'm going to help you not feel depressed, or I'm going to try" thanks for the vid
8 жыл бұрын
same thing happened 😢 tonight I slapped myself in the mirror and I was biting myself. every time I think of things I want to cage immediately, I start crying and looking at myself in the mirror
8 жыл бұрын
+Sucaïna Marcellus change *
@maximumwalk45457 жыл бұрын
Robyn W I have only seen the first minute, but I don't really feel anything when people want to help, when I am alone all I want to do is cry and hope someone can save me
@Alyzzardo7 жыл бұрын
I think its that realization that desperation makes us search these videos. asking for help is so strange in my mind. I've tried a few times and no one helps they just kind of brush it off. its horrible
@IndigoRoses77 жыл бұрын
I feel like a burden to those around me because of my extreme issues with depression sometimes. I feel like people are just tired of me and dealing with me
@kulkarninilay9 жыл бұрын
I am so depressed that I cant even concentrate on listening to this video....
@NoahElkrief9 жыл бұрын
Nilay Kulkarni sorry Nilay
@qwertyhull19 жыл бұрын
Nilay Kulkarni keep going mate and we will all beat it if we try.
@advancedtheories13329 жыл бұрын
Nilay Kulkarni This may be somewhat offensive to you i dont know, but thats not my intent. I dont know you but chances are you are just focusing on it to much! Be stubborn. Its like an annoying little brother or sister. It will go away if you stop giving it the time of day bro! Listen to the video! Be stubborn about it. say ''Fuck you im not letting you control me im doing me'' enjoy the video.
@Beanodog9 жыл бұрын
Nilay Kulkarni That is exactly my predicament
@icuonlinetv80799 жыл бұрын
Nilay Kulkarni I am only now learning I have been depressed for 9 years. When things hit rock bottom, even opening my eyes was an effort… If you have the ability to just lay down and relax, play the vid in the background and just listen to the words… hopefully you may hear something you can relate with. Wishing you all the best on your journey Nilay…
@DroolingNoob1156 жыл бұрын
To everyone who reads this, I love you.
@iwhaantaboatwithbeer22976 жыл бұрын
But I have no friends
@DroolingNoob1156 жыл бұрын
@@iwhaantaboatwithbeer2297 that's because you have to find yourself first. I been on this path for way too long and I seen what makes others come around or stay away. One thing I need to say, if there is anyone that needs to be forgiven you must find that peace. Also you need perseverance, without the will to change all that will be left is a void, at that point people tend to just stop caring about living and all the doubts will come. Anger will come, once you open your eyes, but you'll need to overcome it, and more importantly avoid anyone during this phase otherwise they might as well become your foe and then you'll truly have no friends for a long time. This has been my journey and maybe yours won't be anything like this but if it does I hope you can drive your way out of the forest that lays ahead.
@severussnape78076 жыл бұрын
MeGaDroiDx u seem to be the only one who does
@ola64826 жыл бұрын
MeGaDroiDx I love you more
@chrustttt6 жыл бұрын
@@alexcomsa296 same I hate myself
@zackdl8 жыл бұрын
I've had depressive thoughts for a long time, and just when I thought it couldn't get any worse, my girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me a couple weeks ago. I've felt so horrible for these past few weeks, and i lost interest in my normal hobbies and have had suicidal thoughts....they have been terrifying, especially when i wake up every morning feeling like i would rather be dead. I must say that i find these videos to be a great therapy. Thank you so much Noah. You're a life saver.
@DollyEstrada8 жыл бұрын
Hang in there, the world needs you
@Nex_gen048 жыл бұрын
I hope you get better soon bro
@codytime45308 жыл бұрын
I'm in your exact situation.
@michaelshine80428 жыл бұрын
I'm in a very similar situation as well... you're not alone, brother. And reading your post reminded me that neither am I. One moment at a time.
@inthemaking7488 жыл бұрын
same situation brother, contemplating the decision right now
@giles13228 жыл бұрын
This helped me out of suicide
@taetaeluvuwu8 жыл бұрын
Gizzle I'm happy for you
@Eleven-ug5fp8 жыл бұрын
Same
@sanjayraju9888 жыл бұрын
We're all here to support one another, suicide is never a good option, not for anyone. Well done.
@mbm31557 жыл бұрын
Sanjay Raju its only a good option in a zombie Apocalypse and ur surrounded, but even then its not always ur best option
@jjortiz75047 жыл бұрын
Laughter is best medicine. Good tactic.
@princeekeson125 жыл бұрын
Don't make permanent decisions based on temporary conditions. "Feelings aren't facts." Thank you for this video.
@PatrickManoah4 жыл бұрын
I can't believe this guy just saved my life! I'm in deep debt, with a wife and two kids, my daughter was scheduled to join school but I haven't been able to. Add extended family expectations to that, the pressure at my workplace...I swear I was having nasty wild thoughts of a possible easy way out. God bless this guy...I know better now, I may be down but not out
@cryptokey89174 жыл бұрын
That's right. Things can always get better if you stick it out. And all things are possible with God!
@Slowdown_and_live_in_da_moment3 жыл бұрын
God bless u
@RIYA-lc3ff2 жыл бұрын
You'll get out of there ✨
@kimberlyd32479 жыл бұрын
My depression isn't brought on by thoughts. I can be in a really good place and happy when all of a sudden I feel this dark cloud moving in and enveloping me. After, I may have positive thoughts or negative thoughts, but regardless, that cloud is holding me down. It is physiological. After the cloud takes over, negative thoughts become more prevalent. But the arrival and overtaking of the cloud is independent of my thoughts. Can you speak to this? Thank you.
@NoahElkrief9 жыл бұрын
+Kimberly Dutil Hi Kimberly, yes, I have a book coming out about this around March and I will be putting up many videos about this in February. Sorry I don't yet have content on this.
@kimberlyd32479 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your response. I look forward to your upcoming information. I do know that many people have situational depression and it seems that you have helped so many of them. Thank you for this!
@lesliem31009 жыл бұрын
+Kimberly Dutil Kimberly, you and I are both in the same boat. I wish my depression were situational. you are not alone in this. You probably try to explain it to people, even to the closest people to you, and they don't understand. All you probably get is " but you are healthy, pretty, smart...What is it that is bothering you?" for me, the answer seems to be Life. The dark cloud, he Storm in your head :-( Sometimes people think you are making stuff up just to get their attention. Hang in there!
@kimberlyd32479 жыл бұрын
+Leslie M Hi Leslie. Thank you for your kind reply. I will pray for you if I may and wish for you a happy, healthy new year!
@lesliem31009 жыл бұрын
hi! Thank you! . Sending good vibes your way as well. Hopefully we will find a way out of feeling like this. I wish you a happy and healthy New Year as well. :-)
@MoonchildDontCry5 жыл бұрын
I just get depressEd. I don't have any thoughts. This pain, empty feeling suddenly appears out of nowhere.
@iluvu75515 жыл бұрын
Same the pain is real
@seanwood88834 жыл бұрын
Don't worry you're not alone. It's awful I know
@oldguy8177able Жыл бұрын
i used to get depressed when someone criticized me
@Samira-hz4gs8 жыл бұрын
My mom passed away and my father isn't there for me, I'm 14 and feel very sad. I try to think positive, but it's very hard. This video did help me a step forward, thanks!
@Jimmy168 жыл бұрын
I'm here, Samira! Stay strong!
@Samira-hz4gs8 жыл бұрын
Jimmy 16 Thank you very much!
@IPZxW0lf8 жыл бұрын
I'm extremely sorry for your loss, but stay strong! People do care about you!
@Samira-hz4gs8 жыл бұрын
Esteban Orantes I appreciate it! Thank you very much!
@Dreamzzgirl8 жыл бұрын
+Samira I'm here for you also samira. Please try to be positive. U can do this!
@UdoADHD5 жыл бұрын
Do you understand depression? We don’t think about things and get depressed - we just wake up EMPTY for no reason
@evangathers17775 жыл бұрын
Even when you don't think that you thinking about thing you actually are I should know like many of you I was suicidal but I over came it I still have my moments but don't we all you just have to challenge your brain and no matter how bad it may seem you will overcome it and live to see a beautiful new day cause ever day Is beautiful in its own way we all learn from our mistakes.
@christiansyversen39355 жыл бұрын
As someone who’s depressed, but coping with it and have come a long way, rarely does a thought start my depression, it just comes like lightning from a blue sky, even if you’re in a happy environment with friends or family, it just strikes... same as waking up, after having a good period and you’re just depressed, for no reason... I’m not saying that what he’s saying is wrong, but it doesn’t apply to everyone or every situation...
@evangathers17775 жыл бұрын
Yes thats true but there has to be something to trigger your mind to think about cutting being sad ok it can come out of no where but the thought of cutting and killing yourself there has to be something to trigger it thats what I meant
@christiansyversen39355 жыл бұрын
evan gathers I get what you’re saying, but from personal experience, I didn’t originally, get depressed because of something, I was living a happy life, until suddenly, without any reason, doom and gloom hung over me. Now, later the thoughts started coming, and then there where thoughts that made me want to end my life, so I accept that, no problem with that. I’ve mostly overcome my depression, but as most people who’s dealt with it for (in my case well over a decade) a long time, it still lurks around and strikes, often without warning... now, sometimes that’s because of thoughts piling up and becoming too much, other times there’s nothing to hang my hat on and I think that’s were brain chemistry comes into play. So I don’t think you’re necessarily wrong, just that it doesn’t always has to be a reason for it... I’m glad to say that I’m mostly ok now and can reflect back on this debilitating illnesses, but I know that the darkness lurks in the shadows and sometimes hit you with your guard down. Luckily I’ve worked on this so much that I have my way of making sure it doesn’t stick around for too long, I wish everyone could do the same, it would open up a lot of potential and happiness in people’s, at times, horrible realities (their subjective realities). So, much love to everyone who struggles just to get out of bed and get some food for example, there is (cliché alert) a light at the end of the tunnel, and it’s not a train...:)
@maverik7365 жыл бұрын
Very true
@rkya21215 жыл бұрын
You're here for a reason. Even if you don't know it or see it yet.. . Keep going and don't give up
@cotexes39176 жыл бұрын
You’re gonna get through this. Well all are together. Just stay strong, whatever caused this isn’t worth spending you’re life in misery. I struggle with depression, anxiety, anorexia Nervosa, and insomnia. I can’t keep hurting the people I love. I’m watching this to get better. We will get better, just think about you’re loved ones who are rooting for you. Get some inspiration, something to keep you going. Don’t give up yet. Suicide isn’t worth it either, trust me. I survived a suicide attempt, right when I took those pills, regret washed over me. Don’t do it. You’re given a life to live, whatever comes your way is for a reason. You’re strong, fight it. Stay strong🖤
@smokeasack5 жыл бұрын
cotexes i hope you are well
@danielledorsey76184 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 4 that !!!! I needed that ...sitting in my bathroom on the floor in the dark crying my eyes out
@michelleoves73014 жыл бұрын
Are you feeling better? It's nice to know you're not alone in this! Thoughts and prayers to you
@meowlolisseuwu95113 жыл бұрын
Thank you i really really needed that, Im 13 and I very very very sad rn. Its good to know that im not the only one going through this even tho this comment was 2 years ago. I keep telling myself i wanna die so badly but i may hurt ppl around me. But i hope i can understand these situation is just preparing me for something worst thats gonna bad gonna happen to me cuz i know this is not gonna be the last time i would i say i wanna kill myself. I would really appreciate if someone could talk to me cuz i still wanna know im not alone in this.
@deeprest16213 жыл бұрын
Nope it wont
@Wifi56 жыл бұрын
Noah, i think you are saving my life... I just found you on youtube, searching out of depression, and now after seeing only two of your videos, i feel relief, the knots, the unbearable sadness, the choking, it actually disappeared, ok, not forever, but enough to let me breathe and march on, thanks a million, i will keep watching... ♥️
@callistasmith16855 жыл бұрын
It's so easy to focus on what hes saying and to understand. The way he speaks is incredibly soothing, i came here crying and now I feel way different, I am calmer. This is so reasonable and it helped me so much. Thank you 💖
@t.ghoush6 жыл бұрын
33:48 at this moment I concluded a very important thing in my life... I still cant process it well and clear, but it opened me to another conclusion of knowing myself. if somebody is reading the comments to know if this video worth 30 minutes, I encourage you to watch it, it will help everyone, depressed or not. thank you Noah!
@littlecrowders70895 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@AlejandroLZuvic8 жыл бұрын
I don't know if this guy talks mambo jumbo or not, but he made me feel shockingly better about myself after a totally unexpected relapse. Instant subscribe. And many thanks for this. I go to bed with a positive attitude. My life is awesome.
@viwanton9 жыл бұрын
You're videos are very valuable. I've just weaned off Lexapro and feel much better. I recently quit a job that was a toxic environment. I find that meditation helps so much. If I get anxious about anything, I just tell myself " All you have to do right now is breathe".
@bgagnon1786 жыл бұрын
A day after watching this video, I felt peace for the first time in years. Thank you so much.
@CJ-zm8vd8 жыл бұрын
I moved to a new state and school over a month ago. I was eager to make new friends and everything, but after going to my new school for a month, I haven't made any friends. I am really shy around new people, and I feel like I've already missed my chance to meet people. Everyone has just written me off as a shy person who doesn't talk much or anything. My family is disappointed in me for not making friends yet, and I feel like I am letting them down by being this shy. I don't have anyone to talk to. I'm lonely, but I won't admit it to anyone but myself. I don't want to harm myself or anything, but it's just gotten to the point where I feel like nothing affects me anymore. I haven't felt happy or looked forward to anything since I moved, and I can tell that from the outside it shows. I think my depression, if I can even call it that is making me worse at making friends. Because I am unhappy, I have lost the ability to have fun, make jokes or do any of the things I used to do with my old friends. I feel like I've let everyone I know down, and I don't have any way to deal with it.
@Norwegian7338 жыл бұрын
Hey! I understand your situation. First of all, I think you are under pressure from yourself and your family. Let it happen naturally and dont try to hard. It comes off as fake and desperate. Be yourself and people you "click with" will come closer to you naturally. And those are the right persons. If you try to hard, you will often meet the wrong people for you and you change in order to fit in the group. That will not be right and you will be a natural outsider. Dont feel bad. When you look back at this periode in a few years you will most likely just smile. Good luck :-)
@CJ-zm8vd8 жыл бұрын
Norwegian733 thank you! This helps a lot
@CJ-zm8vd8 жыл бұрын
Chloe Morales no it is not lol
@ninedozit63768 жыл бұрын
CJ I can relate. I switched high schools when I moved sophomore year and I went from being a city kid in the bronx, new york my entire life to moving upstate to the suburbs. People had different problems and interests then me so I never found anyone to relate to. I sat in solitude during lunch pretty much for the 3 years that I was there. It sucked, to watch everyone else look foward to lunch and have a group of friends to talk to and I sat awkwardly by myself trying not to make it seem like I was praying for someone to come along and talk to me. My problem however was that I had been battling clinical depression since I was 13. My mother was diagnosed with it, so I got it from her. All this did was just reinforce the depression and It got to the point where I did try to kill myself, only to fail but.. now that I'm alive still, you end up feeling much better when high school ends. I became friends with a group of girls at my job, and being a guy didn't hinder that because friendship shouldn't be dictated by gender, sexual orientation or race. It felt natural and even though I only have one friend that's a guy, they make me happy so I appreciate it for what it is although it isn't ideal, it makes me happy to be with them and that's all that matters. What i'm getting at is stick it out through high school. After high school everything gets better. I still struggle with clinical depression but they make it easier to keep going and I'm sure you'll find people who can do the same for you.
@sachinv85168 жыл бұрын
hey there ..i am facing the same problem.. you are just like me feeling lonely and bad about ourself..unfortunatly i also moved to other college and feeling depressed now i thought all this is happening only to me...dont worry you r not alone talk to me every day ...i am with u buddy....share your problems with me...waiting for ur reply
@matteratzii37998 жыл бұрын
I feel unwanted and just want to go back to when I was little and had friends and no problems. Now I can't trust anyone and feel empty all the time. There's so much stress on my mind I just want to die so I don't have to deal with all of this
@derekwnb6 жыл бұрын
Basicallyidk take that emptiness and fill it with your family. I may be a random comment, but I love you! No one should feel unwanted. Keep a smile on your face and keep your head up!
@yoshizack77376 жыл бұрын
wow me to
@yoshizack77376 жыл бұрын
+HogyBun my family hates me
@angelofs49 жыл бұрын
I got depression when I was 13 and I denied it until I was older. Now I accepted the fact i had it. I found out when I couldn't talk to people and I consistently felt tired. I couldn't maintain friends and my heart felt empty of emotion, so not having friends didn't hurt me until I was out of school. Depression is a mix of low energy levels like anemia and punching yourself down or not feeling satisfied with the life that you set up. Maybe other things that I don't know about.
@Julian-bq9qv9 жыл бұрын
+Angel Kakani the tiredness is the hardest part for me; the house is a total mess because other than going to work I don't have the energy left to do anything. But I will never ever give up and let the depression win. Hope you won't either. The right answer has to be there, we just haven't found it yet. But maybe tomorrow... good luck.
@angelofs49 жыл бұрын
+Julian 3 thanks. You're right..usually I get frustrated of it too and that alone pushes me to try my best :)
@angelofs48 жыл бұрын
+pranav malavya I know depression has types, but i learned there are triggers in us. Usually its dictated by an outside force like life stability or in my case, hope. Sometimes its just tough times or our ability to comprehend life to quickly. My only advice is to manipulate life to bring hope(ask God for help.) or to give yourself reasonable goals and expectations to build self esteem(like publishing a book, buying a nice car.) Well at least that worked for me, Still feel tired but excitement of hope overpowers my personal depression.
@philipneumann92785 жыл бұрын
I literally cried during the whole video. This was such an great experience. Especially the end: Having depression might be the greatest gift you ever got. This part made me open my eyes even more. It was like you were really talking to me the whole time. Thank you very very much!
@s.lindburg82146 жыл бұрын
Major depression and moderate depression have completely different things going on. This is a great video for someone with moderate depression. It's always helpful to be mindful of our reaction to our thoughts. But if you suffer from major or moderate depression, these are two separate diseases, and in anyone with Major Depressive Disorder, it's a very physiological disease, more so than it is mental. The depressed feelings and thoughts are secondary effects from the actual primary cause. If you look at a person with major depressive disorder and a person with moderate to little depression, there are distinct difference. Both will experience an event that triggers a depressive episode such as a loss of a loved one or job, eventually both get past their feelings of sadness or emptiness or grief associated to the loss, but the person with MDD (Major Depressive Disorder) does not bounce back to daily living. The person with moderate depression does eventually pull out of it. Instead the person with MDD might become apathetic, they can't muster energy or motivation, simple tasks feel overwhelming. Scientist found that the initial event or loss signaled the brain of trauma, so the brain kicked the body's physiological stress response in by releasing stress hormones which then signaled the adrenals to release more stress hormones, and all these stress hormones impact the brain's ability to see the beauty in butterflies, therefore, it impacts the neurotransmitter balance and makes it imbalanced, and the brain is not capable of talking itself out of its depression but rather becomes even less resilient to struggle because this stress response is occurring and it's heightened our senses and awareness so when you find your dog chewed up your brand new pair of work shoes, guess what happens? It signals the brain of more trauma or stress, and that stress response keeps going and it becomes a viscous cycle that doesn't get shut off by the parasympathetic nervous system in the person's body with MDD. They don't even what's going on often times. Those stress hormones have shown in studies to kill brain cells in the hippocampus. The severely depressed person with MDD suffers psychomotor retardation (agitation, low resiliency, sequencing and memory issues, difficulty in simple tasks like walking to the bathroom suddenly feels like a marathon) while the stress response occurring is trying to protect the person from the very outside trauma or stressors that is kesping their fight or flight in overdrive, and it does this by activating certain areas and shutting down other areas. However, chronic stress can eventually lead to premature aging of the brain, and ppl with lifelong or years of suffering with MDD are at high risk, so if you suffer with persistent depression, please see a doctor. Anyway, the depressed person might look chill like nothing major is happening or shit ain't going on, perhaps they even seem slowed down or stoned due to the lack of response in the hippocampus, but internally their body is so stressed it's as if it's been running from an entire army. Studies show this stress response is even occurring during sleep (ha! which means that our negative thoughts are not at cause in the MDD patient because we are not conscious or thinking negative thoughts in our sleep). Why this stress response does not get shut off in the person with MDD, is the mystery. Approx 1/4th have a thyroid hormonal imbalance at play. Perhaps some sort of deficiency as well. There's also a gene factor, as well as our environment. Now someone with moderate depression differs from the person with major depression. Watch Robert Sapolsky's lecture on Depression. He's a neuroscientist professor at Stanford. Brilliant. He is changing how we view depression in the medical field, and I hope others who do NOT suffer can understand that their friend or loved one who does is very much suffering from a physiological disease just like asthma or diabetes.
@Yogi-Megan2 жыл бұрын
Good info
@melindaharrington7588 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, for your understanding and comment 😚😚😚 I am close to tears, from reading it 😢 I have major depressive disorder. Have had it my whole life. Plus, general anxiety disorder. And, Complex - PTSD. Melinda 😚
@Yogi-Megan Жыл бұрын
This is one of the best comments that I have read regarding MDD, more knowledgable than most dr n psychiatrist that I have seen.
@joywilliams4014 Жыл бұрын
@@melindaharrington7588hi Melinda…I’m 62 and I totally relate to your comment. The struggle is real. ❤
@falcychead81988 жыл бұрын
Stephen Fry put it in a very useful way. Depression is like the weather. If it's raining, it's no use pretending that it's sunny. You can't dance the rain away and make it dry. But by the same token, it isn't going to rain forever. It's raining now, it may have been raining for a while and will continue to rain for some time; but Life is not rain, you're not doomed to be in the rain forever.
@Majoras_Mask8 жыл бұрын
+Falcy Chead Great way of putting it. made me smile at least.
@TheEmily4448 жыл бұрын
Thank You for creating this video Noah, I've never had the strength to really get help or spoken with anyone about the feelings I feel, the one's I label depression, still now at 20. You creating this video allowed people like me to make that first step without having to actually speak to anyone physically but instead to just listen. Thank you sincerely. Emily
@Mitch85856 жыл бұрын
I have been going through a very difficult time in my life personally where i was almost at the point of giving up. That is until i came across your content, which has given me the boost and confidence i needed. Thank you so much.
@Teslahackedme7 жыл бұрын
the thing that really bothers me is that there are so many people who have to struggle everyday with this kind of shit. it makes me even more depressed.
@fredericksville34576 жыл бұрын
Like you can feel their pain and kind of force it apon yourself
@beecute56 жыл бұрын
It’s weird for me because knowing others feel the same way actually feel better, but not in a good way? Like my depression just got comfortable because ik everyone agrees life sucks. It’s hard to explain .
@JoseSilva-nf2xs5 жыл бұрын
if you feel other people's pain or grief you're most likely an empath and that's a good thing
@LuckiePlayz5 жыл бұрын
Well, you should be feeling the exact opposite, actually, knowing that you’re not the only one going through challenging times - You’re not alone! If anything, that should improve your mood, even if it’s slightly
@greenthunder19446 жыл бұрын
Everyday I feel more and more depressed I get voices in my head telling me life is meaningless,I lay in bed at night and cry myself to sleep.Knowing that nobody likes me at school I try to be funny to lighten up.My aunt who I loved very much died.i just want to say thank you for this video it helped me thanks.
@user-ll9uy3sv8d6 жыл бұрын
It's okay, you're not alone😔
@telkithataussiegirl51666 жыл бұрын
Green Thunderl8. Can you talk to a school counsellor? If you're getting voices in your head saying that stuff, it's not good. I'm so sorry that you are going through this. I would talk to someone asap.
@healthylife89916 жыл бұрын
You are not alone friend, Same feeling I am going through. But let's promise to fight with it. we can.
@JACK0lope90006 жыл бұрын
Green Thunderl8 it is life is a time limit if you really think about it
@ernestobarriosinsuranceage81375 жыл бұрын
Hey bud you are not alone . Ask for help. Also if you need someone to talk to .i can be your friend ... add me on Facebook and let’s chat !
@amrit44b7 жыл бұрын
I suddenly lost interest in everything. I don't feel like doing anything. My appetite is gone too. BUt the most frustrating ting is that I don't know the reason. I don't even know if there is a reason or not. Can anybody help me or suggest me anything?! Thanks is advance!
@NoahElkrief7 жыл бұрын
Try my other video about depression - why I get no pleasure
@fredericksville34576 жыл бұрын
This is exactly how I feel rn did you ever find out out why or how to help the feeling go away
@marine55466 жыл бұрын
Could be that you are tired of the monotony. It might be a good time to just wander around and try stuff you've never tried before. You may discover new people or things that interest you
@mehranemami68176 жыл бұрын
Amrit feeling the same for a while , don't know what to do :(
@summermossor35026 жыл бұрын
Amrit / hey, i know this was a year ago but, im going through the same thing right now & wanted to know if anything worked for you? have you gotten better?
@teresa4162 жыл бұрын
This was the best talk about depression that I've ever heard & spoken at a pace, that I was able to comprehend & take in. Thanks so much.
@kaylamars11529 жыл бұрын
This made me feel like someone understood for once
@TheSpicySimon9 жыл бұрын
Helps a bit when you know there are others that are experiencing the same thing.
@NoahElkrief9 жыл бұрын
+Kayla Mars I'm glad to hear it Kayla
@kaylamars11529 жыл бұрын
Noah Elkrief I am now at this moment getting some help for my depression
@priyahazra84867 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot! i was going through the phase of depression and wanted to get rid put of this, i knew i was luckier than other but this feeling didn't help me. when i saw your video, it has given my mind a clear path to control my thoughts by letting it go. you saved me.
@kylesterling14416 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much, you explained everything perfectly what's happening in my life. You have saved my life, this depression almost literally has killed me.
@joshianiket46642 жыл бұрын
I found this video about 4 years ago when I was about to end my life youtube still recommend's this video I just get happy whenever I see this because it helped me a lot. I'm safe and happy now!!
@jennings458 жыл бұрын
I wish I never had to time to think because that is when I feel the worst, my sleep disorder dosent help as I lay there for hours every night trying to sleep.
@dhiren_joshi8 жыл бұрын
Jennings same
@spark_free2168 жыл бұрын
Me too but I don't get tired til 3:00 AM
@jennings458 жыл бұрын
***** That sounds like a great idea. Ill give it a try tonight
@SPAWN-xc1qf8 жыл бұрын
Jennings you are not alone i go thru the same thing every night with thoughts processing through my mind
@schmital19178 жыл бұрын
Take a melatonin pill
@MadaraUchiha-ug6xm9 жыл бұрын
A while ago, during my intermediate school year I was going through tough times. My parents were fighting and I thought there was no meaning in life. I sat alone at lunch, I talked to no one, I ignored everything. My grades dropped, despite the teachers noticing my introvert bookworm nature. I didn't really know what friends were. Now, 4 years later, I have tons of friends who share the same interests as me, I'm in the advanced classes and even smile. The ideas of a fatherly figure still reside in my head, but I have a goal, and I will not die or become overwhelmed by emotions. That goal is to become a computer engineer and earn lots of money to make sure my family has a good life, and to have a great wife so they don't have to feel what I felt. I'm currently 14 for those wondering.
@johnterry20798 жыл бұрын
+Madara Uchiha good for you dude
@Guest-bo6dn8 жыл бұрын
Same, my grades dropped and I stopped talking to my friends and that was because one particular thing, I can't say.
@Guest-bo6dn8 жыл бұрын
Maia Kentner 😢
@rogie14148 жыл бұрын
+Maia Kentner wow, your own mother working against you.... I hope things work out for you.
@SpuffyGotta8 жыл бұрын
You just described me nice
@emay.17 жыл бұрын
I hate being the one to mask who they really are. At school I'm this funny guy who will cheer you up when your down but away from my friends someone who you won't recognise. Sometime I tell myself I need to stop being everybody's life guard because I'm drowning myself. 😖
@bebe_ari_mel59957 жыл бұрын
MysticalMillion I'm sorry. I know how you feel, I'm always there to help my friends trough their issues but when I need them... it's like they see right through me or they've disapeared. You should talk to someone, if you can. Unless your like me and no one will listen.
@emay.17 жыл бұрын
bebe_ari_mel nobody will listen to me either 😥
@raven_knight_0767 жыл бұрын
i am very similar, no one knows who i really am, what i feel like, what i do when im not with them, how many times i have thought about suicide
@jolostfox7257 жыл бұрын
bebe_ari_mel Know how you feel, when I took my stand, I lost my kids, my grandson, my sister. All because of the man married. His parents even BLAME me. I took on the whole family. Remember me! and yes I have been depressed, can't shake it no matter what I do.
@sophiaruizuvalle25237 жыл бұрын
That's exactly how i feel, they dont realize that the moment where im the most outgoing, fun, charming, even singing and dancing, is when i feel the depression slowly coming back and I'm just running away from it, even tho I'm just posponing it for when im alone
@raymiller63516 жыл бұрын
3 years ago I was in a deep depression triggered by loss of job. I watched this video and didn't help in the moment but it stayed with me and helped me live with the depression. As time moved on and I got on some meds and life got better I kept watching this video and when I was just coming out of the depression this video really helped me believe that I am a human that is worth being alive
@lizlyrics66237 жыл бұрын
anyone else wacthing this while crying for a reason you don't understand?😂
@pegacis7 жыл бұрын
its probably because this man ive never met seems to care more about my situation than anyone around me
@idropacid6 жыл бұрын
I smiled when I saw your comment and I felt a little better knowing at least I'm not the only one
@lifefoodbaeg.84396 жыл бұрын
Liz Lyrics yeah I’m crying right now my life sucks
@simonfilmmaker9396 жыл бұрын
Yup!!!
@jupiterstarr89546 жыл бұрын
Liz Lyrics me
@Bastardinjoboy136 жыл бұрын
Thank you for existing! Every time when my depression came back I just go to your channel and listen to your voice and words, it helps every time :) You have such a great energy that is impossible to stay depressed when I hear and see you...
@babygonda1226 Жыл бұрын
Q is a
@avijitdey9926 жыл бұрын
If you're reading this. I just want to tell you, I love you and you're born for a reason. You can make the change just make the right choices and pull yourself out of the shit you're going through. I search for others approval but I never got it. But I don't want that to happen with you. I love you and you matter to me. I don't know how long I can survive this, I'm a looser but you're not. You can be a brave fighter. Fight it, don't quit
@love-pn7bq6 жыл бұрын
thank you.
@le_shooty7598 жыл бұрын
I have no friends, I've buried myself in video games and KZbin it takes my mind of things but in the end I'm just worse and I want to kill my selfe. I feel like no one likes me and I just want someone to love. My grades are slowly slipping and at times I think my family doesn't even like me I've even hidden it from everyone else... I lost a friend and I just need a hug from even a total stranger as long as it isn't from my family it'll help...😭😭😭😭😭😢😢😢😢😢😪
@LjubavLove36 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️ hug
@maril4596 жыл бұрын
Kitty Cat i know the feeling
@maril4596 жыл бұрын
And then sometimes i think how it will effect people i love, and i untie the knot
@jadpuertorico1236 жыл бұрын
You're not alone. Try winging off the videogames and meet some people, if not outside then try online first. You have alot to live for. Hugs
@vaibhavsalian61676 жыл бұрын
Kitty Cat I mine is also the same situation but I am depressed because I made a huge mistake and I think its consequence is going to be big and I have no one to talk about it so I often bury myself in video games
@id23496 жыл бұрын
to help myself more I’m going to treat the comment section like its a journal and just write what happened to me i don’t care if anyone sees this I’m just gonna do it. So just recently i went to the hospital and things were going well until i got a new nurse i suddenly had a crush on my new nurse because she was pretty and always so playful and the way she said okay was just so cute. I told her one night that she was my favorite nurse and i liked her and she said that was sweet. I felt so great for the rest of that night and the next morning when she was trying to get me to walk i wasn’t ready yet. She said i could walk with her to the family room and we could sit and watch tv together but for some reason i didn’t do it ( i would kill to be able to do it now ). So the next day the doctors check me out and say I’m doing pretty well so i get released. I wanted to leave but at the same time i really wanted to stay and spend more time with my nurse. When i was leaving and even after i left to now i cant help but feel really sad about it that i cant go back to the hospital and see her because I’m getting better and soon ill have to go back to school. I wish i could go back but the only way to do that would be to get hurt again or lie which is impractical. So i have to settle that i wont see her again or in a long time. And there are these things that are constantly reminding me of the hospital and my nurse which make me sad. If you read the whole thing thanks for listening to my story of why I’m sad
@kotyfelty68706 жыл бұрын
I mean I have never gas that happen but I would be sad about that to
@fredericksville34576 жыл бұрын
You don't need to get hurt or lie to go see her you just have to go and see her. Go tell her how you feel and how much better your doing. Just think of it as regularly shooting your shot.
@fredericksville34576 жыл бұрын
I hope this helps you in some way
@bonnielee71346 жыл бұрын
Well you had a crush on her. Crushes suck. I guess that’s why they’re called crushes, because it crushes you. It’s possible that she could have been married. It’s possible that she could have had a boyfriend. One thing is for sure. She is a good nurse doing a good job and making you feel good. That’s what they do. Also special people become nurses. The type that genuinely care about people. That’s what could have made you attracted to her as well. You can look at this as a pleasant experience and think to yourself, good, now I know what kind of qualities I am attracted to. Or you can call the hospital up and find out who your nurse was and ask how you can send her a thank you card. Even if nothing comes out of it, at least you took a step that will increase your personal skills.
@elizabetavejnovic86386 жыл бұрын
I D it will pass.I loved someone but I couldn't be with them.And then one day,by accident,I met someone much better.You will two.You are young-there is time❤
@esmahusejnovic42398 жыл бұрын
Noah you make perfect sense because I alway thought not having everything together meant I'm not successful because it's how I was raised when I was younger and it's just stuck . Thank you for the video .
@NoahElkrief8 жыл бұрын
You're welcome Es Ma
@radthicasharma66175 жыл бұрын
after listening to you for 10 minutes I was bawling like a baby, thank you for helping.
@urvisrivastava59399 жыл бұрын
I just can't thankyou enough to make me feel so good. I've been into depression for 6 months and I feel so much better in just a matter of 35 mins of the video. Thank you so much!
@NoahElkrief9 жыл бұрын
+Urvi Srivastava You're welcome Urvi
@urvisrivastava59399 жыл бұрын
Thankyou Michael Wins. You exactly spoke my heart out and the way I have to force myself out of the bed every time I wake up realizing that all that is now a history and that it no more exists. I am taking small steps of recovery and I'm sure one day I'll make it. Can you please help me with the link you mentioned about in the comment above?
@omarrais410 жыл бұрын
I'm very thankfull to you, I've never seen depression the way you showed it in this video. You sir have participated in changing my life. Thank you
@NoahElkrief9 жыл бұрын
omar rais You're welcome Omar
@Sophia.K8 жыл бұрын
I lost a very important person in May.. she was young , full of life , with kids.. cancer took her away. I am still so depressed about it.. I don t have the money to go to psychologist , and I pretty much can t handle it , and can t handle life. I don t have a job , or close friends.. I am spending almost all of my time alone in my room. Life is hard. She was the one and only person I was 100% open with , the only one so close to me that I talked about any problems etc with ... and now she is gone.
@mojtabafarzaneh25398 жыл бұрын
You need yourself girl. The only person who is always with you is yourself. People die all over the world. People lose loved ones It doesn't mean you should feel death too. If you listened carefully to this video you had answer for that. You just made a thought and by paying all your attention to that you make it real. The reality of your life. THAT IS NOT TRUE. You said you loved her right? She was the only one for you to trust right? She was the only one that you were able tell her everything about yourself right? I have a question; Do you think her soul will be happy if she saw you like this? Wouldn't be she sad if she was able to see your life now? SHE DIED OK. YOUR LOVED HER A LOT. HONOR HER AND HER MEMORY AND GET BACK TO LIFE. You can have a wonderful life ahead of yourself. Losing her was a lesson for you and that is that you have to rely on yourself and make a new start. Control your emotions and get over it. Don't feel death and do something about it. Anything. JUST DO IT. YOUR NOT DEAD YET SO LIVE. Get a job, go to a gym, go travel if you can. By doing something you'll be able to distract your mind and your negative thoughts and by doing this you can overcome to your depression. I hope this help and wish you happiness
@MrTraffix8 жыл бұрын
if your pic is for real you need nothing but to go outside.. for fuck sake
@cookiemonster43017 жыл бұрын
enjoytheride09 I'm sorry about that but I have been in the same situation last year where I have been shocked because my bf lied about loving me, and I trusted him :'( I HAVE BEEN CRYING ALOT Literately whenever I think about that day I started to cry. But guess what ? Who cares ? Ok, after a long time of crying .... will it help OF COURSE NOT I found out that the more I cry the more I get headache. So why I create problems in my life and I already have a problem that needs to be solved. What I did is that I sat in my room by myself and I started thinking the first thing that came into my mind is my mother advice Don't GIVE YOUR HEART TO Anyone EXCEPT YOUR HUSBAND, and I didn't obey her advice, so here I am sitting with dark hole inside my heart no one in my family will help me now it's over I did what I did . So What's the solution right now I kill MYSELF of course not what I did is that I took my phone and deleted EVERY MOMENT LITERALLY everything happened between us. I changed my number. I pray everyday to god to help me and to erase every single thing that happened between me my bf, and I swear to never give my heart to anyone. My life is more expensive than everything, and so do you life. Eventually, after 3 months of suffering from this depression I feel more cured and I'm sure you will be fine don't worry ^^ I'm so sorry about what happened to your close friend that she died Remember Stay strong if you have any memory left about her you can hang it into your room so you can always remember her ❤
@saraallison94696 жыл бұрын
enjoytheride09 l’ve been there . Isolation is the worst
@jaywellington65046 жыл бұрын
Spoken perfectly....spoken with meaning, spoken slow enough for information to absorb, spoke eloquently enough to understand what is being said and received to believe what is being said. Well done from the content, to the delivery, to the tempo, well done. I've never before heard it said this way. Out of the thousands of times that I've read on the topic or listened to discussions on the topic, this has been the most understandable and eloquently put in decades of my reading on the topic. I can't imagine the amount of relief and peace you are giving to so many people. How heavy that would weigh, if the relief from people pains that you have helped from this one video could be weighed. It's staggering.
@bornbrit7779 жыл бұрын
I'm dying from depression. I have ZERO motivation, I have voices in my head telling me Ive wasted my life away, I can never be the person I imagine I could be. Ive destroyed myself and all my relationships due to depression and insecurity. I go to bed at night with the hopes I dont wake up in the morning and am angry when I do. I hope your videos can help me
@xXlilmehakXx9 жыл бұрын
Instead of looking at everything that could happen or everything you wish you had, why don't you look at everything you do have and be thankful for that. I'm sure you will begin to love life again
@Scry9999 жыл бұрын
D:
@ladylullabystar10909 жыл бұрын
I am sorry you are going through that, for I too am going through the same. I do have voices and normally I tend to listen for what they tell me, and I sometimes have no motivation at all when it comes to artwork, I love to draw, almost everyday I do it. But with the voices telling me otherwise and the amount of hatred I have gotten from others have lowered my self esteem. But I am still trying, for trying will help.
@NoahElkrief9 жыл бұрын
bornbrit777 Try my stop feeling worthless video
@roslaighleis92968 жыл бұрын
thank you. What you said has really helped me
@NoahElkrief8 жыл бұрын
You're welcome Ros, I'm glad it helped
@asherweck6 жыл бұрын
I love you dude. Thank you for your knowledge and calm demeanor. You are spot on. Literally helping me solve ten year old issues in my own mind/ life
@lenakim42804 жыл бұрын
I love that you are trying to help, but watching this made me feel even worse, I feel terrible, empty, and sad. I already dont have much of a reason to be depressed, but the fact that you reinforced that thought made me crack and burst out into tears. Thank you for trying tho
@Ticha1908 жыл бұрын
I'm lonely. Sometimes when I'm alone, I think it's because of me. I always think I'm lame, ugly, annoying, stupid.. Even when people say the opposite, I can't let those thoughts out. When I just don't know I'm really sad. Even when I believe my life would get better, the other day I just say something different. I'm not comfortable with my house getting dirty everyday, my brothers pressure me, my parents keep yelling at me that I need only A's, even when I could argue, they don't understand my explanation, and I can't feel good when they don't acknowledge my problems. Girlfriend, I don't beg for a girlfriend. Being loved from someone from not your blood is a new feeling for me. I believe it's good, a different person that tells you "I love you" tells a lot for me.. Now that I've let all that out, I don't know anymore what I'm doing..
@khatu52168 жыл бұрын
I'm here Ur not alone
@saulgonzalez16458 жыл бұрын
same..
@NoahElkrief8 жыл бұрын
My video "how to overcome social anxiety" or "how to never feel lonely" would be helpful for you. Good luck Ticha
@Godtism4207 жыл бұрын
I feel like i go through the same thing everyday in an loop that will never end. Thank you for sharing your struggle
@s.lindburg82146 жыл бұрын
Sounds like you might have some dysfunctional family dynamics if your family doesn't listen or acknowledge your problems. Perhaps the role of the lost child. Do some research on dysfunctional family roles if you feel you have no voice. It may bring you some understanding, and know you are not alone. I promise.
@zhycheeks64636 жыл бұрын
I fought back my tears this entire video. This was really helpful, Thank you so much.
@nastynate8175 жыл бұрын
Thx ur a good person I just broke up with a girl that I loved more then anyone I couldn't sleep I never talked to anyone anymore but I'm finally getting sleep and I started talking to my friends again
@goodygumdrops21055 жыл бұрын
Feeling ya bro
@getemboyfishing77846 жыл бұрын
My pug just died and I wanted to join him because he was the only one who loved me but. I watched this video and realized I’ll join him someday we all will
@linojalexander5 жыл бұрын
Because you are believing that,change your beliefs man
@ahmedrashed788 жыл бұрын
I get suicidal thoughts very frequently, haven't attempted any so far
@therealmeditationguide20338 жыл бұрын
i suggest you see your doctor you may be clinically depressed. your doc may suggest therapy or medication or both.
@aaosman1728 жыл бұрын
Ahmed Rashed Photography me too only that in my case i hit myself with a belt i know it sounds weird but once i do that i feel better you see i feel worthless n me punishing myself is better than the world punishing myself i dont know ....
@le_shooty7598 жыл бұрын
Ahmed Rashed Photography I have
@sanjayraju9888 жыл бұрын
Please don't. Suicide isn't a good option, not for anyone. People will always be there to help people in need of it, remember that my friend. Thank you for reading. Have a nice day.
@ahmedrashed788 жыл бұрын
Sanjay Raju thank you
@nicole-we7mn6 жыл бұрын
Im depressed because I lost my friends and my mom My mom passed away and my friends talk behind my back
@TheKingHavik6 жыл бұрын
DISJX 1739 same
@noname-yy7nm6 жыл бұрын
DISJX 1739 same, my friends are assholes...
@joe93196 жыл бұрын
Then they are not friends
@NinJadon6 жыл бұрын
They aren't friends.
@clementinethewalkingdead15776 жыл бұрын
xLil Xylah_bitch Xoxo I'm so sorry....my bff doesn't like me ...😖😖😖 I can't deal with it !!!
@aren43198 жыл бұрын
my depression mainly comes from loss, when I was in senior in high school I had everything I could ever want, I had a great relationship, good friends my dream career was in line after I graduated, but after I graduated everything fell apart. I lost my job I had to move to a new state with my parents, shortly after me and my girlfriend broke up. I struggled with the thought of going to back to school like my parents wanted me too but I did it because I was to sad and trapped in my own bubble to do anything I wanted to do. until a few months ago when I started talking to some old friends and they reminded me of all the great things I did, and they convinced me to do what I wanted to do even though it was terrifying because I already experienced my fall from grace. I'm still struggling every day but even on my worst day I have enough confidence in my self that I can be what I want to be and do what I want to do as long as I work on it little by little every single day.
@pieboy99938 жыл бұрын
I know how you feel I'm only in 9tj grade but I've been teased my whole life becuase bad speech and I a. just bad at learning things I try to learn and get good grades but I never can and teachers think I am not trying it's horrible
@Minecraftgirl-hs1yh8 жыл бұрын
+halloween season 2nd channel I'm sorry about how you got teased. People shouldn't tease you because you can't speak so well.
@oysong925 жыл бұрын
Thank you. It was immensely comforting to hear that I'm not lacking, and that I could just be me.
@wannagetawaygirl8 жыл бұрын
If I'm walking on a street, and someone throws a stone at my back... I very much will blame myself for that and, definitely, I will think it signifies who I am. This is the essence of depression for me. Thinking that I must be that repulsive, that inferior - that I'm being openly despised by others
@kateallen67548 жыл бұрын
wannagetawaygirl so if I punch you is it your fault and I'm totally inocent? Wait now say what I would say.
@mariekimbi5 жыл бұрын
I wish I could see you to thank you personally for what you just did in my life. Since morning I just found what I have been looking for. Thanks so much
@jamlessjimin33368 жыл бұрын
This really helped me alot... i works for me... when im deppressed i will always Watch this
@888alp2 жыл бұрын
thank you, I have been struggling and i thought it was my fault. and i know having depression isn’t me. its not that i’m weak or bad. i can’t control my thoughts. we are so used to saying negative stuff to ourselves. it’s in our culture. drama is popular. boring isn’t popular.
@umeshbansall6 жыл бұрын
You are really a very great person there is no person in the world like u
@timmyfeelner8 жыл бұрын
my depression is set off by loneliness I'm all alone.
@marz22078 жыл бұрын
Sugarcoating shit won't help, hun.
@bebe_ari_mel59957 жыл бұрын
ᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚᅚ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) same here. I have friends that don't seem to notice shit. I want friends that understand. I can't talk to my mom, she doesn't think I have a reason to be sad. I could never talk to my dad. He wouldn't care. I just don't seem to matter anymore.
@ilovemexoxo57207 жыл бұрын
you do matter!!!!!! I know, depression sucks and hurts, ive been there girl, I know it gets better... Try joining discussion groups and relate with others who have depression also...NAMI.ORG is a great website to join...kati Morton here on youtube she's great also. :)
@adedoyin33366 жыл бұрын
Me too loneliness i don't like who I'm becoming I lost my parents when I was young have been alone I'm trying so hard to change things and not think it I get into music most time but to no avail i do exacly what you do katty youtube all sorts once i'm on youtube depression sets in... i'm lonely again
@maruhandiego2116 жыл бұрын
Join me lets be alone together
@amirahnabilah92346 жыл бұрын
I cried so much throughout the vid.That was absolutely beautiful. Thank you so much.
@thebigquestion Жыл бұрын
I knew all this... I just needed reminding. You sir are appreciated. Thank you.
@NickBishtVlogs9 жыл бұрын
Depression , Anxiety , Panic Attacks ......... I noticed that the people who are suffering from these are mostly introverts or say those who spend more time surfing online rather than any real life activity. I would advice just try to stay away from Laptop , Smartphone .... and involve yourself into some physical activity. Keep yourself busy and at the end of the day you will feel tired that will help you get some good sleep. It's just a brain game , just like a computer , your brain needs to be restarted so that it can function properly. I hope it helps. .............................................................................Peace.............................................................................................
@ikamy9 жыл бұрын
+Nickk Bisht I spend each day 2 hours doing hard calisthenics, my body is good and athletic, but you cant judge me why Im here
@agelessdinosaur75209 жыл бұрын
+Nickk Bisht The problem is, when you suffer from depression, even the most basic tasks become a drag... Let alone establishing routine.
@lesliem31009 жыл бұрын
+Ageless Dinosaur Exactly!
@sonyaerxn35228 жыл бұрын
+Nickk Bisht My friend was an extravert who suffered panic attacks. He concealed when he was depressed. He died 11 day ago (remote cosequence of his depression - he started to use antidepressants then cocain+extasy). ANyway, I know what can help - it helped a couple of persons I know personally, but he didn't try these methods unfortunately. As far as I know depression is caused by disbalance of hormones and/or microelements in body/brain. So it's important to change a diet - at least, for a couple of months - to see the result. FOr example, exclude meat and drink a lot of pure water. Have you even seen a depressed vegetarian? I haven't. Plus try pranayama (just deep breathing while thinking of this process for 10-30 min at least). And think of being grateful. And do some physical work. It will help.
@hanzohasashi56038 жыл бұрын
+Ageless Dinosaur I feel you. but honestly get into one good habit and others come. I took a ton of creatine and caffeine to work out and now I can workout daily so I know that's not the best advice but what worked for me was supplements just to Kickstart it. as for school you're fucked LOL! jkjk
@sealstorm19358 жыл бұрын
I have a terrible job. It's destroying my social life, I'm miserable and exasuasted all the time and people don't want to be around me because of it.
@HowBigistheMap8 жыл бұрын
Are you a teacher?
@sealstorm19358 жыл бұрын
No, I'm a packer........or I used to be
@HowBigistheMap8 жыл бұрын
Ronan Slevin Did you find a new job then?
@sealstorm19358 жыл бұрын
I'm expecting a phone call for a job at a garage, there is no night shifts so it should be a lot better
@HowBigistheMap8 жыл бұрын
Ronan Slevin Yeah, working at night is real bad for your body and mind!!!
@MisterPotter8 жыл бұрын
if you read this you're a beautiful person have a nice day :)
@CertiNW8 жыл бұрын
Dream Travel you too pal
@sanjayraju9888 жыл бұрын
Dream Travel Thank you.
@booperdooper73388 жыл бұрын
Dream Travel you too. and happy new year
@BiancaSanabria7 жыл бұрын
Dream Travel 6 months later... thank you. Hope you have a great day tomorrow and every day.
@ctrled13507 жыл бұрын
Thanks but the day isn't great....😢
@s.k.73255 жыл бұрын
I've been listening to Noah Elkfrief for a while, and always come back to his videos whenever I need it. They always help and resonate well. Thanks, Noah. You've helped so many people.
@michaelgalex80136 жыл бұрын
If you are having a good day, I suggest that you don't read the comments.
@danwright56006 жыл бұрын
@arrachimane2765 жыл бұрын
i will not !
@clumpograpes17445 жыл бұрын
If they were having a good day, why would they be on this video?
@tagyoureirin68517 жыл бұрын
Im broken:,(
@the.mental.source5306 жыл бұрын
dont be !!!!!!!!
@elizabetavejnovic86386 жыл бұрын
TAG your Eirin it will get better.Here,have a heart❤
@dantesinporno6 жыл бұрын
Experiencing negative emotions doesn't mean something is wrong with you. It means you're human and it's perfectly okay.
@المعزوفةالصامتة6 жыл бұрын
Me too
@breakingthechains32226 жыл бұрын
My channel helps deal with depression. Stay safe everyone, you are loved
@babymend89807 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!!... you helped me to snap out of it. I like your voice; being so soothing helps me a lot.
@rcd3364 жыл бұрын
I was triggered and having such a depressive episode, where I felt meaningless. Thank you for changing my mood. Every word of your made sense. Please know that you changed my tears to smile. You are a good therapist. Thank you with all my heart.
@chasegallagher975410 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate how much you helped me tonight, Thanks man.
@NoahElkrief9 жыл бұрын
Chase Gallagher You're welcome Chase
@aprilheadaches16828 жыл бұрын
I am so ooooooooooooooooooooooooooo impressed and glad I watched this video this dark day but now I have hope for all I want that is happiness thankyou my hero
@NoahElkrief8 жыл бұрын
You're welcome April. Good luck!
@dannyi968 жыл бұрын
Noah Elkrief I love your videos Noah! How come no uploads for nearly a year? Can we expect more soon?
@alexanderriggs17058 жыл бұрын
I'm even more depressed that I'm watching this
@alexanderriggs17058 жыл бұрын
Max Robert I was being sarcastic and besides this is meant to help which it mostly did
@coolguy-hw3sf7 жыл бұрын
Alexander Riggs your profile pic dont look depressed
@coolguy-hw3sf7 жыл бұрын
hi
@nightshade71116 жыл бұрын
Max Robert, watching happy videos only distract you from you thoughts whereas Noah speaks about tackling them ;D
@marmitechickenlegs83315 жыл бұрын
How did it help?
@daisydelle7666 жыл бұрын
Before starting to listen to this, I couldn't stop crying about something. Thank you. God bless you. This gives me a fresh perspective on things.
@energybasics5 жыл бұрын
Freedom begins when you decide you're going to find a solution.
@seanwood88834 жыл бұрын
A solution like what? There are no answers
@energybasics4 жыл бұрын
@@seanwood8883 Its true there are no answers to depression, but there are for sure solutions.
@Swanicorn4 жыл бұрын
@@seanwood8883 See now that is what depression is... But you probably didn't watch this video with your full attention and your heart and mind vulnerable to his words. Or maybe, this technique is not meant for you. But I'd still be hopeful and say the reason why you think there are no answers is because it is a thought and then you over-analysed it, gave it lots and lots of attention. That is exactly what this video talked about. Maybe watch it again and try to be more vulnerable, more accepting of his words instead of staying stuck in the belief that you are the right one. Been there done that, just trying to help. Unless a person decides that they want to help themselves, even if that includes asking others for help and medication, they can't be helped. That person needs to make themselves vulnerable to a change. When a person is giving you a hand and you end up thinking that what's the point, I am only going to waste that person's time and energy trying to help me. That is you letting the false win, you are letting depression forge your signature.
@bertitolino8 жыл бұрын
Ah that was nice to hear you speak from the heart.
@NoahElkrief8 жыл бұрын
+bertitolino Thanks
@suzannetaylor13768 жыл бұрын
+sss gffdf a man that has so much go give back a real gift.
@techbeast96908 жыл бұрын
my family treats me bad and I had the feeling of depression just because I was bad at academics, but they criticized my good qualities like me being a good speaker , good at sports they said all of it was shit and I had a really heavy heart which never went out of me. yes that's correct never I had friends but I never talked about it and I don't think they would have advised me better than this video. Every single second I had that feeling of worthlessness and that heavy heart but now it's only 20 minutes I am watching this video I felt it reduced to half .thanks for the video and now I will surely try and improve my academics too thanks again
@lisamcguire77788 жыл бұрын
Tech Beast Anyone who cannot address your positive points has no business "advising or judging" you! Be your own friend ( and give it your " personal best" as a self-motivated athlete would!)
@memegimygimy15267 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry my dear. I really feel your pain. I really hope for your sake that you reach out to someone. Someone that you know is kind. Keep trying and believing in yourself. I wish I could take the pain away from you and give you a good loving supportive family. There are good people in the world who will be kind to you. God bless you.
@tinypastelmia40596 жыл бұрын
Tech Beast SAME my mom expects perfect A+ math from me if I cant im called dumb
@danielledorsey76184 жыл бұрын
Thank God I Found Ur Channel... Just got diagnosed with clinical depression and I'm having an episode
@SuperZombiekillar9 жыл бұрын
I have an odd form of depression, my sadness comes not from my own pain and suffering, I came to the realization a long time ago I am not going to attain much in life (I am 16 years old), I don't think of myself as ignorant or moronic, but I just feel as though I see others sad, and that makes me sad (especially minority groups - LGBT, black ect..). I feel as though my life is meaningless, I know this, but I feel so weak when I sob to myself about how stupid, ugly (I look, well, normal,, but I tell myself this over and over for some reason), and how annoying I am, why? Because so many people are in a much worse situation than me, and that makes me feel worse, because I know I shouldn't have the option to be sad, I have a good family, I have financial support, but seeing others sad makes me feel so sad and I can't overcome this. One of my main issues is with people who gay, I feel so saddened knowing so many people who are gay won't be able to enjoy the same things as me. One last thing, sometimes I actually feel at my most happy when I am condescending myself (I know how weird that sounds), I am not a religious person, but I truly hope there is something in the after-life, not for me, but so people can have the justice and fairness and for their love and kindness to be rewarded. When I see people truly happy, gay, straight, white, black (and so forth), I will be truly at peace, knowing all these people can enjoy each others company. And then I can fade away, to be forgotten. I hope that everyone in life feels happy, be true to yourself, because you all deserve so much better. Also, when I was younger I remember bullying some classmates, and some of them bullied me back but it was mainly me. (all has been forgiven, but I still feel like crap because of things I did years ago). If you have read this far, I thank you. Your happiness is my happiness, because without any of you, I am nothing. So please, for me, enjoy life to the fullest.
@123vivame28 жыл бұрын
YOU ARE EXCELLENT MAN BIG BIG HELP GOD BLESS
@rapmonsternotdancemonster41957 жыл бұрын
I'm sooo depressed right now because of medicine I just lost my father before 3 weeks and I don't feel like I wanna study there is no motivation and I have a lot to do but all that I keep doing is skipping my classes and sleep at home and I have skipped 3 quizzes and I don't know what to do I want to study but I can't :(
@Cheryl-ke4pp7 жыл бұрын
You're depressed because of medicine? Meaning it's not helping? So sorry about your dad. I'm going through the same with my mom. I feel like most everyone else who posted. Sad, suicidal & no desire to do anything but lay in bed. I guess we all know we're not alone anyways. Just wish I had answers for everyone.
@elizabetavejnovic86386 жыл бұрын
RAP MONSTER NOT DANCE MONSTER it is not school you have to worry about it.You should worry about making yourself happy.Just spend more time alone with your thoughts.Listen to yourself.You will get better❤
@Derpynewb6 жыл бұрын
Your dad would want you to be happy in life. So live for him and his memories.
@bulmnstr31166 жыл бұрын
Just do what the guy says in the video! Dont think about it too much. Remember your father not for his death day but with his good days. Remember that you had a father and some kids never even seen theirs and dont know the feeling. Look things from the bright side
@shaden-01745 жыл бұрын
RAP MONSTER NOT DANCE MONSTER you are not alone ❤️be strong and positive
@Asmr_Eclipse6 жыл бұрын
I just had a mental breakdown and calmed down a bit and in my worst state typed “how to deal with depression” and your vid showed up. I’m glad that your vid showed up.❤️