How to Get Over Someone | LGBT Edition

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Alexis and Lilian

Alexis and Lilian

Күн бұрын

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@hila3000
@hila3000 5 жыл бұрын
"instead of admiring other person so much, why don't you become a person that you admire yourself". not only is it true, but really an ah-ha moment to push myself to do more for myself and strive for self improvement. Thank you :)
@SrajanFusionRockBand
@SrajanFusionRockBand 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly such an apt line.....I love this simple yet powerful like..she said...
@sophiahitch726
@sophiahitch726 Жыл бұрын
Its hard for me because she just does 1 word replies and she doesnt like want to go on the bus together when we both go home after schools
@RaeLarz
@RaeLarz 4 жыл бұрын
i suffered an extreme heartbreak last summer. i cried and vented and sobbed. and then tried to forget her, because thinking about her was too painful. she's showed up in my dreams constantly. i finally admitted to myself recently.... that i'm really not over her. i've been going through it again trying to FEEL and CRY and VENT. again. learn from my mistake and be honest with yourself on your heart. it's hard cause i'm not ready to move on yet. some part of me still feels like she's the one and i'm losing her. but another part recognizes that she chose to leave me... it's really her loss... and i deserve to be with someone who knows what they got and would never let me go
@MJ-fk6yg
@MJ-fk6yg 3 жыл бұрын
i feel this... i don't want to let go yet. :(
@chubbyking5250
@chubbyking5250 3 жыл бұрын
Can we know each other?? You're so cute
@RaeLarz
@RaeLarz 3 жыл бұрын
@@chubbyking5250 aw thanks
@chubbyking5250
@chubbyking5250 3 жыл бұрын
@@RaeLarz Aww thanks so cute.. What's your Instagram handle
@RaeLarz
@RaeLarz 3 жыл бұрын
@@chubbyking5250 @raelarz ! follow mee
@Soccernat358
@Soccernat358 5 жыл бұрын
LOL the girls looking out for us ... "we taught you how to know they aren't into you, now we will tell you the very important next step"
@AlexisLilian
@AlexisLilian 5 жыл бұрын
😂
@michellelohde8683
@michellelohde8683 4 жыл бұрын
@@AlexisLilian my ex girlfriend break up with last week to be with another girl i dont hate her but i dont want be friends with her she want be friends how get over her ??.
@melbeez119
@melbeez119 5 жыл бұрын
This was really helpful to me right now. Just had my first lesbian heartbreak and it shattered me. I came out in my mid 30s so it was a weird feeling having these intense breakup feelings I've never had before. Getting better every day but I still struggle and this was a good for me, thank you.
@cassroommusic
@cassroommusic 3 жыл бұрын
I know this was a year ago but this is me right now. First lesbian relationship at 25. Been through tons of breakups and/or heartbreaks... but this one hurts so much worse... even though the relationship only lasted a few months. I am glad I’m not crazy.
@alettafevy
@alettafevy 2 жыл бұрын
Big Hug to you! I feel you.
@MaryJhanshon
@MaryJhanshon 11 ай бұрын
​@@cassroommusicyou moved on now?? Its been 4 years and i really need hope that it's gonna be fine cause I'm going through it now
@cassroommusic
@cassroommusic 10 ай бұрын
@@MaryJhanshon Yes. I run into her from time to time at the store and it doesn’t make me feel anything other than mild annoyance. I just moved in with my partner and am happier than I have ever been. 🫶🏼
@cassroommusic
@cassroommusic 10 ай бұрын
@@MaryJhanshon Yes. I run into her at the store from time to time and don’t feel anything other than mild annoyance. I was single for 2 full years before meeting my current partner. We just moved in together and I have never been happier. It’s cliche, but I learned and grew a ton. I’m so grateful we didn’t work out. 🫶🏼
@holly7401
@holly7401 3 жыл бұрын
she lost feelings but didn’t tell me so for half of our relationship she let me give my everything to her when the feelings weren’t at all reciprocated. I know it would never have worked out and that the relationship was hurting me but I just don’t want to accept that it’s over
@sirdishrag
@sirdishrag 3 жыл бұрын
Same thing happened to me.. I feel so alone. How are you feeling now? 💗
@Smashyftw2
@Smashyftw2 2 жыл бұрын
Oof. This is definitely me now. Not quite half but still much too long.
@christelle8572
@christelle8572 2 жыл бұрын
Same here too. Feeling crushed and completely empty inside...
@SaraSARA-yn8ov
@SaraSARA-yn8ov 2 жыл бұрын
Same here my girlfriend lied to me about her feelings. Our last month was so horrible and my heart is brocken
@linosforthcat3830
@linosforthcat3830 Жыл бұрын
Same here. We were dating and then said she lost feelings:) She was my best friend as well and now we act like strangers
@Yk-lo6pl
@Yk-lo6pl Жыл бұрын
The hardest thing is when the beginning was so beautiful and you can’t reconcile it with their contrasting behaviour later on. Then you wonder was that them or were they wearing a mask until it eventually slips. Authenticity is so key from the very beginning. Thanks for your video!
@Soccernat358
@Soccernat358 5 жыл бұрын
YES TO THE PLAYLIST PLS
@anikabwooli
@anikabwooli 5 жыл бұрын
Im heartbroken since half a year now and according to this video I'd say I am still lurking around in the acceptance phase. I just cant get my mind off of this one person and at least for now the idea of unsubscribing her on social media or deleting every message and memory seems impossible to me. I'd love to get to listen to your playlists. Since I experienced not only time but especially music heals most of the wounds.
@iremsezen812
@iremsezen812 5 жыл бұрын
Don't worry about it too much, I'd say. Time really does heal everything! With time, you will see that you don't think about her as much and the thought of blocking her etc. doesn't seem as impossible and hurtful. Try to actually catch yourself when you are thinking about her and find something else to think about even if it hurts and is difficult as hell. If you keep cutting yourself off from thinking about this one person then you won't do it as much anymore. Good luck and don't forget that you deserve someone who loves you and treasures you as much as you love and treasure them and even if it might not seem true sometimes, there are people out there that are just a perfect match for you!
@anikabwooli
@anikabwooli 5 жыл бұрын
@@iremsezen812 Thanks for your kind and true words. I can see you've got experience in being lovesick. So I hope you successfully reached step three and are moving on eventually. 🍀
@melbeez119
@melbeez119 5 жыл бұрын
I've felt the same way since my breakup. I just asked her to block me on sm and I've been trying to fill time working lots, meditating, exercising, doing good deeds, visiting friends and it is getting better. Fuck, half a year of this would be torture. I really think it is easier to stop pining if you're not seeing or knowing about their every move or assuming they're doing great when you feel like shit :( My best friend was the one who coerced me to just block delete and as much as I didnt want to it helped. Hope your heart gets better soon ❤
@yarakd
@yarakd Жыл бұрын
3 years later, wondering how are you now? and how long did it take you to move on and any tips?
@AlexisLilian
@AlexisLilian 5 жыл бұрын
Alright here it is by popular request - how to get over someone and move on to better things! Sending hugs and love to everyone, let us know if you want those playlists ;)
@dawn.keziah
@dawn.keziah 5 жыл бұрын
this has been so helpful! thank you for sharing, Alexis and Lilian 💖 also yes I definitely need the playlists especially the feel good happy vibes one! 😄
@ancientthots
@ancientthots 5 жыл бұрын
playlist please..
@Bellasie1
@Bellasie1 5 жыл бұрын
Yes please we want the playlists, of course. By the way the soundtrack to the video was great, too! You channel is amazing and that was another great, thoughtful video, and it's very clever to have done it after the last one.
@sofiaquevedo439
@sofiaquevedo439 5 жыл бұрын
Hi girls, this is the video that i needed today, thank you very much:) you both are amazing, and yesss, i would love to get those playlists please! I love techno and sad music too🤍 kisses from Colombia
@elmarobberts5128
@elmarobberts5128 5 жыл бұрын
Wow. You managed to make me cry just by flashing that Sinead O'Connor LP. Three decades on and "Nothing compares" still stabs me in the feels. My contribution to the playlist would include: "She's gone" (Steel Heart), "On Every Street" (Dire Straits), "Foolish Games" (Jewel), "She (Elvis Costello) and "Stop" (Sam Brown). And many more I'll remember after I send this. 😪😫😐😀
@MsAaannaaa
@MsAaannaaa 4 жыл бұрын
my girlfriend and I broke up a week ago and it's hard to distract yourself when you're on lockdown and can't really go out that much and meet friends... even virtually it has its limits when you just don't want to sit in front of a screen all day long or just really need a hug. :( so far creative outlets worked best for me: doodling, painting, writing, hell even knitting. :) podcasts can also be a great distraction (again: netflix is great but staring at a screen for days is just not it for me and I crave offline time). so I'd be happy about those playlists :-) listening to music helps me a lot as well and I enjoy it the most when painting. thank you two for this video.
@lithogenous2385
@lithogenous2385 4 жыл бұрын
jeeznametaken same.. we broke up a day before the lockdown started. It has been a month now... I didn't had a chance to greet her on her birthday..since she blocked all my social media accounts, and maybe my phone number. It's so painfuL. I had to decided to block her back tho I still love and want her back. Now I set my goals to treat myself better, including less usage of my phone and focus on improvement for myself. Sorry just wanna share.
@MsAaannaaa
@MsAaannaaa 4 жыл бұрын
@@lithogenous2385 that sucks!! also the blocking thing seems a bit intense. sending you a virtual hug if you like. :)
@lithogenous2385
@lithogenous2385 4 жыл бұрын
jeeznametaken I need it thanks
@hotchoco4721
@hotchoco4721 4 жыл бұрын
I hear you! I empathize with you. My ex and I also broke up before the lockdown. It was the most difficult feeling in the world for me. Sleeping well was hard for a month and the first few weeks got me nightmares. A heartbreak that cut me to the core. I hope you get over it soon. Virtual hugs!
@divrodricks2525
@divrodricks2525 2 жыл бұрын
I crave offline time so much too. I stopped texting someone who would text me everyday. They are the nicest person and I loved talking to them but I had to assert boundaries and stop texting them because I desperately want physical presence and to live life outside of my phone. It sucks because I value them and don't want to abandon them but I also need to make space for my needs. :(
@neanight222
@neanight222 4 жыл бұрын
This is the best video regarding this topic I've ever watched. You talked about this in such a kind, understanding, empathetic, sensitive and supporting way, it was like listening to two of my best friends, even I don't know you personally of course. I am currently at the first stage. I have gone through all of these steps before and I was kind of already aware of all the steps you talked about here, but the one thing I was always missing out on and that I skipped was "killing the hope" (which was really funny when you said it like this, Lillian :D). I am a very optimistic person despite my depression and I am always holding on to the tiniest bit of hope, no matter what it's about. I'm really having trouble with letting the hope go, even though I accept that the person has left me. It's strange and it's hard, but I'm gonna watch this video whenever I feel like I need a reminder of this over the coming weeks (or months or however long it is going to take me to get over this). Thank you so much!
@AlexisLilian
@AlexisLilian 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, it makes us happy to hear that you found it helpful. Wishing you all the best through these difficult times, there’s always a light at the end of the tunnel ❤️ sending hugs
@neanight222
@neanight222 4 жыл бұрын
@@AlexisLilian Thank you so much! ...for this and just for all your inspiring educational entertaining videos! Sending hugs to you, too! ❤
@gehtdichnichtsan8926
@gehtdichnichtsan8926 5 жыл бұрын
I‘m so heartbroken right now. Can’t even watch this video:D BUT I left a thumbs up;) Love you two so much
@mayomayo9557
@mayomayo9557 2 жыл бұрын
How did it go? Over her yet?
@tillielovesgerardway
@tillielovesgerardway 9 ай бұрын
It’s been 7 months and I’m still in the crying and sad music phase
@SamizzleNguyen
@SamizzleNguyen 5 жыл бұрын
Lilian: "One of my favorite heartbreak song is I know it's over by The Smiths..." *Me paused the video and go to Spotify* Came back and paused one more time for Alexis's heartbreak song
@yottalynn776
@yottalynn776 4 жыл бұрын
The same :)
@tiffanyl7785
@tiffanyl7785 5 жыл бұрын
I really needed this video. You're talking about things I knew but that I had to be reminded of. Thanks a lot, I felt more at peace at the end of the video. And of couuuurse we want the playlists!!
@silverlining7298
@silverlining7298 5 жыл бұрын
I still have hope. I need to work through these emotions. She helped me get over my ex as a friend and we fell in love. I really believed we were going to be together 😢
@CtrlAltTravel
@CtrlAltTravel 4 жыл бұрын
I lost my dad, she tried to console me when we fell in love. She is now getting married to her ex-bf. I'm here heartbroken. Why do the other person in a relationship always moves on fast?
@silverlining7298
@silverlining7298 4 жыл бұрын
@@CtrlAltTravel your heart will heal. Focus on your and what brings you joy, makes you feel happy. Spend time with friends. Let things be how they are. You may look back and realise it was for the best for you in a month or so. I wish you all the best x
@AuraDawn_Health
@AuraDawn_Health 5 жыл бұрын
Just being honest, as an "old" person here lol... Keep the love letters. Don't crucify me. I wish I kept things. I grew up before email and I'm telling you...if you have an actual love letter... throw it in a keep safe box and forget about it, for now 😉❤️
@chazzmania7738
@chazzmania7738 4 жыл бұрын
I've done that with photos of me and my ex :)
@dunjapaj8849
@dunjapaj8849 4 жыл бұрын
I completely agree, Dawn. :) It's nice to have those little things one day when you feel better, emotinaly stable and everything seems like from another life... But it warms your soul in a way.
@Sciencespipo
@Sciencespipo 4 жыл бұрын
exactly. Hide the letters and souvenirs in a box. And then when it's no longer painful and you've moved on, you'll be happy to have these to remember all the good memories (unless the relationship was toxic obv)
@marissapearrow561
@marissapearrow561 3 ай бұрын
I agree. memory box them. love is precious even if it ends.
@rebelrachel1629
@rebelrachel1629 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video and yeah keeping your hopes up for someone who’s not into you is not healthy because it can only make the situation worse. I would really love a heartbreak playlist because that kind of stuff helps me let out those hurt feelings.
@halaalnouman3515
@halaalnouman3515 4 жыл бұрын
I'm one of those who still can't get over my x although it has been over a year This video was so supportive. Love you both
@nathalieluna6185
@nathalieluna6185 5 жыл бұрын
I’d really like a playlist like this, even with Lindsay Lohan^^ That clip before you talk about moving on made me laugh out loud 😂
@nattyb45
@nattyb45 5 жыл бұрын
Ah i just broke up with my girlfriend and your video comes up..! Thanks for all your bright mood :) it’s somehow contagious.
@chalkboard4523
@chalkboard4523 3 жыл бұрын
Even a year after this was posted it’s still helping people like me get over a relationship :) I got broken up with two weeks ago and recently got into a relationship which, thanks to this video, I now realise is a rebound relationship that I need to get out of because it’s unhealthy for both of us. Thanks for all the advice, it’s definitely gonna help :)
@GH-cd1is
@GH-cd1is 3 жыл бұрын
I watched the video while looking at our pictures and listening to our songs... I just cant get over her
@mabelhukkins7029
@mabelhukkins7029 3 жыл бұрын
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@mabelhukkins7029 3 жыл бұрын
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@mabelhukkins7029 3 жыл бұрын
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@mabelhukkins7029 3 жыл бұрын
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@ellenzvolska5529
@ellenzvolska5529 5 жыл бұрын
You’re both so prettyyy
@codingpineappl3480
@codingpineappl3480 2 жыл бұрын
I am also heart broken now. Been writing this girl on HER for months now. We initially connected really well. Phoned 1 time over 3h. Met up 2 times. We kissed. Now she acts super flake and her response frequency goes down to more than 2 days. Her excuse is always, she is busy, she needs to take care of XY. I really feel hurt and disrespected that she is not being honest. I tried to ignore the signs for weeks. But now the reality hit me. I really thought, I finally found someone again, after my EX cheated on me. But no...
@mydigitalsuperpowers9974
@mydigitalsuperpowers9974 5 жыл бұрын
Dear Alexis and Lilian, you both are absolutely amazing and adorable! I Iove your videos - they are inspirational, fun and just wonderful in so many ways. Just watching how you interact with each other, how affectionate, natural and genuine you are...all of it is a very nurturing thing for my heart and soul. I hope I will soon find someone, who I will be able to share my life with in a similar way. This video was very helpful, much appreciated. Thank you for sharing all the things you've decided to share, thank you for your time and efforts invested into making and editing of the videos, and - above all - thank you for being, who you are and for having the loving, close and supportive relationship you have. I'm originally from the Czech Republic, but have been living in Ireland for 10 years now. Sending all my love to you and wishing you all the best!
@Stephienliuxx1999
@Stephienliuxx1999 5 жыл бұрын
yea...thats exactly what I'm doing!! its working actually, thank you guys so much, its really helped a lot
@cheeerryjamm3225
@cheeerryjamm3225 5 жыл бұрын
i've never in my life even been on a date but i would love to listen to your playlists
@black-eyedsusan4806
@black-eyedsusan4806 3 жыл бұрын
This video is what I've been needing for a year now. Thank you!
@mabelhukkins7029
@mabelhukkins7029 3 жыл бұрын
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@mabelhukkins7029
@mabelhukkins7029 3 жыл бұрын
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@mabelhukkins7029 3 жыл бұрын
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@aracelimartinez9921
@aracelimartinez9921 5 жыл бұрын
thank you so much for this video! I really needed it :-( I just got out of a relationship and I’ve been feeling horrible! PLEASE POST THE PLAYLIST!
@karoja4695
@karoja4695 5 жыл бұрын
Thaank u girls, I really need to get over this girl. All u said is been really helpful
@tsukishimakeianypronouns8054
@tsukishimakeianypronouns8054 2 ай бұрын
My gf of almost a year and a half broke up with me 3 days ago. I feel so numb about it, and it doesn't help that my avoidance attachment style reactions are making me feel like a robot. We were planning to get married, and she broke up with me because she was not "in the right headspace" after ghosting me for 2 full days, we were not having problems before she ghosted me out of nowhere, just saying that she needed time to study. I'm so mad how she didn't even tell me in person, she broke with me through text and wants to stay as acquaintances. I guess people didn't lie about the first lesbian heartbreak lol. Worst part is that i dont even know if she would like for us to get back together because she made it seem like "right person, wrong time". If she had made it clear she had lost all feelings i would feel so much better about this and coukd get over it quickly, but no, she had to leave the ambiguity.
@SrajanFusionRockBand
@SrajanFusionRockBand 4 жыл бұрын
This shows how kind these two are ..this is the video many need... thank you so much guys... Some of the lines are so apt...
@nappingpikachu
@nappingpikachu 5 жыл бұрын
Moving On - Kodaline Already Gone - Sleep At Last
@SwimmingDok
@SwimmingDok 4 жыл бұрын
I want to say thank you to you guys, it definitely helps me a lot to overcome my past relationship. after watching this video, I make plans to do new things to improve myself. as you said, I would love myself the first for now. thank you!
@scubagoldfish45
@scubagoldfish45 5 жыл бұрын
Remember, as I learned from two very wise Ontario based KZbinrs called Paige and Holly, you are greater than your highs and lows. Your best and worst days shape you into the person you are meant to become.
@SiiaAnastaSiia
@SiiaAnastaSiia Жыл бұрын
Best channel on KZbin, best girls! Thanks to you and your support💓 So important🤧
@deoranjed8118
@deoranjed8118 5 жыл бұрын
"The Queen is dead" is a faultless album. The next song after "I know its over" is about the worst things a person can do when Trying to get over someone in " never had no one ever"
@anoucheerbil-babayan6728
@anoucheerbil-babayan6728 4 жыл бұрын
I love what you’re saying. So true, whatever our lives are like. Center on yourself, definitely ! Thank you. Big hugs, Anouche
@charmed4lifekaren
@charmed4lifekaren 4 жыл бұрын
I loved this video. I am struggling to let go of the hope of the girl (a friend) i really like, who is now seeing another girl, and i told myself that i accepted it, turns out not so much.
@pluralpsychdelia857
@pluralpsychdelia857 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah.. It takes time and sometimes the problem is that there is no one else that sticks around and on top of that I dont meet a lot of girls(which adds to the despair and loneliness); So in the end theres the past(to which I keep going and hurting) and then there is that little hope that one day I would bump into somebody new and it wont be a full blown disaster But right now Im learning to cope with my own self ♡
@DrDonutWithCoffee
@DrDonutWithCoffee 5 жыл бұрын
I had to replay a few parts just because you guys were making me laugh so much. I have a crush rn so I’m going to refer to your other video ‘how to tell if someone is into you’ ;)
@anhthule4167
@anhthule4167 5 жыл бұрын
MY HEARTBREAKING PLAYLIST: 1. Dead leaves - BTS 2. Hold me tight - BTS 3. Loser - Big Bang MY CHEERFUL PLAYLIST: 1. Feel special - TWICE 2. Cheer up- TWICE 3. LET GO - BTS 4. Fancy - TWICE You know, the only way to move on is to move on. So we 're gonna get through this everyone.
@skyrios1249
@skyrios1249 4 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU
@ddalgi-hime-07
@ddalgi-hime-07 4 жыл бұрын
Not k-pop songs 😭🤚🏼
@samuri2011
@samuri2011 Жыл бұрын
Yay Kpop playlist hits 🎯
@mathildehb0076
@mathildehb0076 Жыл бұрын
Eric Carmen, Celine Dión and Adele are my favourite heart-break artists 😅 Also the Swedish version of Someone else’s story, from Chess, is a good one. In this version, the character is empowering herself after she has decided to leave her lover, by saying: “If someone shall be called weak, it is him and not me.” I said this to me yesterday and it helped me a lot today ❤ I reminded myself of my good qualities that I think she missed when she just blocked me. I lost nothing, but she lost her protective, warm bird mother 😊
@hfortenberry
@hfortenberry 4 жыл бұрын
Awe, I love The Smiths. They were popular when I was coming out in the late 80's so they bring back a LOT of memories of that amazing time of my life. Sigh... "I Know It's Over" and "Well I Wonder" are such good songs!
@silentscream6483
@silentscream6483 5 жыл бұрын
relationship ended about 3 months ago and damn its so so hard to get over her, everything i think about is her everywhere i look i see her moving on is so hard (lost on you- LP) my break up song
@zeynep6870
@zeynep6870 5 жыл бұрын
The playlist is a great idea. Can't wait for it.
@mariacamilahoyosayala7074
@mariacamilahoyosayala7074 5 жыл бұрын
I NEED THOSE PLAYLISTS PLEASE!!!
@ooglyboogly4101
@ooglyboogly4101 4 жыл бұрын
this vid actually helped, my gf dumped me over texted and this Vid was amazing.... Ty
@giuliamoscoso665
@giuliamoscoso665 5 жыл бұрын
I NEED THAT PLAYLIST
@foreverg2569
@foreverg2569 5 жыл бұрын
what if it was a long term relationship and have a child together?
@LivingstonGina
@LivingstonGina 4 жыл бұрын
Grateful for this...going through a break up with long relationship of 12 years, I lost my beloved cat & then partner...will check out The Smiths break up song -great band- peace & blessings-
@RyanTWhite
@RyanTWhite 2 жыл бұрын
Best break up song… “Somebody Else” - The 1975
@jaz5438
@jaz5438 5 жыл бұрын
Did not see that "Moving on" dance party coming....hahahhaah dying from laughter
@psngrl7677
@psngrl7677 4 жыл бұрын
She broke up with me. We used to see your videos together and now we won't ever again. It's all my fault, she was going through a terrible phase in her life: her mother has been diagnosed with cancer and she needed my presence by her side. But I was (still am) suffering from depression and wasn't able to give her what she deserved. At the end of our relationship, I think she fell in love with someone else. I was so angry that I told her terrible things, and now I regret everything. I'm devasteted and I miss her so much. I hope she found/will find someone who can love her the way she deserves it. I don't know when I'll be able to recover, I have so many issues to work on, but someday, I really, really, really hope she'll forgive me and we'll be able to put bad memories aside and be, at least, friends.
@AlexisLilian
@AlexisLilian 4 жыл бұрын
That’s really tough, I‘m so sorry to hear that. You’re not alone in this, remember, and you will get through this and come out as a stronger person. But take time to grieve the relationship and be kind to yourself 🌸 Sending hugs and love - L
@deniseabad7966
@deniseabad7966 5 жыл бұрын
Hi everyone..dont forget to show your support to Alexis and Lilian..do not skip those ads on the vids ❤❤❤ notif squad here 😍😍
@Foxsxxy
@Foxsxxy 5 жыл бұрын
U have no idea the kinda ads they throw at me
@AlexisLilian
@AlexisLilian 5 жыл бұрын
Aww haha you’re so sweet thank you!
@deniseabad7966
@deniseabad7966 5 жыл бұрын
@@Foxsxxy i just read the comments in that case..
@deniseabad7966
@deniseabad7966 5 жыл бұрын
@@AlexisLilian this is nothing compared to the inspiration you provide ❤
@Foxsxxy
@Foxsxxy 5 жыл бұрын
@@deniseabad7966 I'm sorry but I wanna jump straight to the content My bad
@julianikolaeva7218
@julianikolaeva7218 5 жыл бұрын
Oh, girls, thanx for all your videos, really funny and helpful) you're awesome!:) Lots of love from Russia;)
@kaylaw366
@kaylaw366 Жыл бұрын
I really needed this video today. Thank you!
@jelanlatres7845
@jelanlatres7845 5 жыл бұрын
Who else wants to see Lilian play the drums on the next vid?
@Christophertracy09
@Christophertracy09 4 жыл бұрын
Alexis should’ve said “Nothing Compares 2 You” for breakup song because you showed that album in your vid! ^-^ I was a little girl when that song came out. Loved it then, love it now. Also during my teen years No Doubt came out with “Don’t Speak”, another timeless breakup anthem
@RaeLarz
@RaeLarz 4 жыл бұрын
I need a rebound
@cursnum8329
@cursnum8329 5 жыл бұрын
Alexis your hair is gorgeous!! A tutorial is a need!!♥️♥️♥️
@AlexisLilian
@AlexisLilian 5 жыл бұрын
Already did one! Look for my hair routine 😊
@maryamkazemi536
@maryamkazemi536 3 жыл бұрын
I needed this! Thank you!
@LadyElaineFairchilde
@LadyElaineFairchilde 5 жыл бұрын
I was a bi teen in the 1980s. I just CAN'T go through another heartbreak with the Smiths. I am actually in a state of uncertainty with my current crush. But if it doesn't work out with her, listening to the Smiths will give me high school flashbacks, which will just pile on top of whatever else I am going through. I just can't...
@zeynep6870
@zeynep6870 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you soo much. I needed this you guys always do things that I need. I hope i can move on. Love you
@happyhonest6639
@happyhonest6639 3 жыл бұрын
What helps me is do things I enjoy such as going hiking, be with nature, talk to plants and kiss the plants lol whatever works and venting and listening to sad or heartbreak songs doesn't help me at all as it only makes it worst.
@babaloto8193
@babaloto8193 3 жыл бұрын
hello do you need help on how to get your ex back or to restore. someone you love.
@babaloto8193
@babaloto8193 3 жыл бұрын
Message him on WhatsApp
@babaloto8193
@babaloto8193 3 жыл бұрын
+234÷90÷56÷40÷64÷17÷
@punkowl284
@punkowl284 5 жыл бұрын
You are the best. I'd love to listen to these playlists !! Could you talk about emotional dependency in a futur video ? I will love to hear what you think about it and how to deal with it. Thank you so much ! Love you guys
@kimlucas6637
@kimlucas6637 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video! It's helpful to know.
@BK-rw6uw
@BK-rw6uw 5 жыл бұрын
Fav yt channel ,love you two 💕
@nicoleshuff97
@nicoleshuff97 3 жыл бұрын
Seriously needed this! 💕
@LindaMary-sp7dg
@LindaMary-sp7dg 2 жыл бұрын
This is the video i hav been looking for. I had already done: the getting rid of the mementos and stuff and am following the remaining steps... So i was requesting for the songs playlist pliz. Thanx.
@nargischogle1805
@nargischogle1805 5 жыл бұрын
hope you two are getting along today:) Vibes were telling me something was wrong but great topic and advice yasss
@mariadasgracassampaio6811
@mariadasgracassampaio6811 4 жыл бұрын
I'm a psychoanalyst and had perceived your relationship was kind of affected by prejudices.and won't survive. Diferent cultures are hard tô harmoniza. It's a pity LOVE is LOVE.
@mariadasgracassampaio6811
@mariadasgracassampaio6811 4 жыл бұрын
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@NargisC
@NargisC 4 жыл бұрын
@@mariadasgracassampaio6811 are you saying this to me or to this couple?
@francesmorris8881
@francesmorris8881 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks guys 😊 love you two so much ❤️
@aizhnshi
@aizhnshi Жыл бұрын
This video so helped me😭 Thank you guys😭😭😭🫶🏼
@musicluffler
@musicluffler 5 жыл бұрын
Definitely on board for these playlists! And thank you for the advice!
@itsanorristhing3825
@itsanorristhing3825 4 жыл бұрын
Great advice for gay and straight people! You guys are lovely! I love watching all your videos ! I hope your living your best lives ❤❤ love from Rhode Island USA
@laylab2543
@laylab2543 4 жыл бұрын
You two are so sweet, really nice advice
@toallthebreadsivelostbefor2734
@toallthebreadsivelostbefor2734 3 жыл бұрын
just dealing with the end of a 2-month situationship and she was my first love, i guess. these stages don't seem as linear to me, i'm sort of jumping back and forth and doing a bit here a bit there. she was perfect, though. but autostraddle told me to internalize the line "i dont want to be with a person who doesnt want to be with me." and i feel that. i guess that is my strategy to let go. just being able to wholeheartedly embrace this line. because i deserve better. i deserve someone where it won't be as stressful and someone who wants to and can commit to me.
@tracyspencer1674
@tracyspencer1674 3 жыл бұрын
Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.
@tracyspencer1674
@tracyspencer1674 3 жыл бұрын
Message him on Whatsapp
@tracyspencer1674
@tracyspencer1674 3 жыл бұрын
✛2347030894892(☉。☉)!
@missannieshaw5874
@missannieshaw5874 4 жыл бұрын
Thanxs for the advice love the positive message of moving on
@fewfoes
@fewfoes 5 жыл бұрын
i would def listen to that playlist
@fewfoes
@fewfoes 4 жыл бұрын
@Anna Daley are you for real?
@langa2903
@langa2903 5 жыл бұрын
Totally read my mind with this upload!!❤❤
@drip295
@drip295 5 жыл бұрын
Great video I appreciate it, helped me out
@emelunas8342
@emelunas8342 5 жыл бұрын
Waiting for the spotify playlist 💕
@chazzmania7738
@chazzmania7738 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Lilian and Alexis, you two are so gorgeous and cute and lovely, another awesome video :) yeah I have my family and some really good bestmates that have and still are helping me through my breakup from my ex bf and with getting over the crush I had for several years and also help from you two and subs on here bc yeah it's something we have either all been through or going through at some point in our lives. Growing up is hard and romantic relationships are messy. I watched movies and listened / listening to a lot of songs, I like Lindsey Lohan Alexis :D I'd love you to do a happy songs playlist :) Love you both loads, keep been your amazing selves and stay safe :) XXXXXXXX
@breanna12309
@breanna12309 4 жыл бұрын
where was this video when i needed it a year ago
@MeekaSnowden
@MeekaSnowden 9 ай бұрын
This video helped sooo much
@xinxuanzhou1343
@xinxuanzhou1343 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you guys~ This is very helpful ❤️
@anaingridaraneda5239
@anaingridaraneda5239 3 жыл бұрын
Awesome advises thank you so much!!
@tracyspencer1674
@tracyspencer1674 3 жыл бұрын
Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.
@tracyspencer1674
@tracyspencer1674 3 жыл бұрын
Message him on Whatsapp
@tracyspencer1674
@tracyspencer1674 3 жыл бұрын
✛2347030894892(☉。☉)!
@staryeyedsunflower6437
@staryeyedsunflower6437 5 жыл бұрын
My go to song that has gotten me through every bad part of my life is Everybody Hurts by REM.
@Foxsxxy
@Foxsxxy 5 жыл бұрын
I grieved for months, I'm in a better place now I'm never dating
@ivanamenezes7308
@ivanamenezes7308 4 жыл бұрын
Who else is watching this after a break up?
@missmisery260
@missmisery260 5 жыл бұрын
yes, playlist!!
@darling3827
@darling3827 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like the only reason im not over my now toxic ex is because; she is currently holding on to a very important sweater I got with distance relatives. She's threaten to to burn it multiple time and just wont give it back. I've talking about it with my mother but it's been put off. I feel I can't let go of that sweater and I can only get over her once I get it back. Then again once I get it back I just want to burn it myself. I hate her so much. The turn in the lovey dovey relationship to the pure hatred and tears it still so real after months. No one in my circle understands. Thank you for reading my story lol.
@williamoconnell1233
@williamoconnell1233 3 жыл бұрын
I was 23, and he was a red belt when I started to fall in love with him. He's a black belt now, and I am 28year old red belt now,and I am still in love with him. He's in Blacksburg Virginia now attending Virginia tech. He wants to be an engineer. I miss him terribly.
@mabelhukkins7029
@mabelhukkins7029 3 жыл бұрын
Hi, get help From Dr Steve, he can help you attract someone or anyone you love and want in your life, he helped me Attract my specific person and we are enjoying our relationship now. I will advise you seek his help thanks.
@mabelhukkins7029
@mabelhukkins7029 3 жыл бұрын
Send him a message on Whatsapp
@mabelhukkins7029
@mabelhukkins7029 3 жыл бұрын
+2347030894892.
@iamlazly
@iamlazly 2 жыл бұрын
My girlfriend broke up with me but she is still planning to travel with me, she says that she loves me and that I am her soulmate, yet she doesn't want to be with me anymore after nearly two years because she closed her heart but it is killing me to have this situation when you are not together, acting like you are, put your whole soul to make it work again but stay the only one who tries :)
@rachealmwale1644
@rachealmwale1644 2 жыл бұрын
Session 32 summer walker We do talk anymore Selena Gomez
@laly1576
@laly1576 3 жыл бұрын
We kept dating for a month I loved her so much she is the one who said her feelings she used to be my BESTFRIEND obviously but then she broke up with me at the Nye telling me she needs a break and then she told me she can't handle a relationship and she is the one who said her feelings first she told me that she loves me and then she left me here loving her alone . (My heart is shattered into pieces bc I lost a BESTFRIEND and a GIRLFRIEND)Our relationship as BESTFRIEND was so good so sad it ended it feels like I lost everything I hope I can make it out bc I thought my life gonna get better but then she broke me .
@tracyspencer1674
@tracyspencer1674 3 жыл бұрын
Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.
@tracyspencer1674
@tracyspencer1674 3 жыл бұрын
Message him on Whatsapp
@tracyspencer1674
@tracyspencer1674 3 жыл бұрын
✛2347030894892(☉。☉)!
@chuan5212
@chuan5212 5 жыл бұрын
Love this Couple!!!
@AlexisLilian
@AlexisLilian 4 жыл бұрын
Hey friends, better late than never, here are the playlists we made: Heartbreak Playlist: open.spotify.com/playlist/20HbmyyAF00t8ni9p2J3xQ?si=Qkyx3jRNSeuTHLcd5TFC4g "Moving On" Playlist: open.spotify.com/playlist/2oHNUXPpfd94Oi7GdKg9UQ?si=ZcPjh3c_SyeR8MCn_xA-pQ
@leavemealone5242
@leavemealone5242 5 жыл бұрын
We love you guys
@Bala-yu7hg
@Bala-yu7hg 5 жыл бұрын
Hello, Thank you for the video
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