How to Get Respect from Women

[@thomazio8724]

As a man you need to stand up for yourself and dont let anyone treat you like a doormat, its the only solution. And if the person doesnt change, you walk away and never look back

[@clarencewoodbine6266]

great strategy…….until you have kids😢

[@thomazio8724]

@clarencewoodbine6266 you can still walk away from your gf/wife if you have kids with her....in fact its better for the kids mental health than listen to their mum and dad arguing/fighting most of the time

[@dominikukawski9357]

@@thomazio8724 First, the tests may be nuanced, and you may find yourselve in conflict of values. The art is to recognise it as such. As about kids, you certainly mean a healthy woman, who would never use kids as a tool even if it ment damaging their future. But you do not need to fear healthy women (to much).

[@Kartik-ij2vy]

@@thomazio8724still have to pay alimony

[@jamesquakenbush]

If a woman doesn't appreciate you quit giving your time to that woman.

[@adrianfaherty5139]

Belittling is a Narcissistic trait, don't walk , Run...

Basically just teleport

[@sandydawn5168]

this reminds me of a relative... who time and time again has been used as a golden goose for greedy women with him for money 💷 he married a woman who after 10 years and 3 children dumped him for his friend took the children and the house.. he got with another woman from eastern europe who rinsed him and dumped him

[@danmurray1143]

That's exactly what I was thinking.

[@davidking42086]

You should be the one testing women, not the other way around.

[@mrdangiles90]

Respect yourself as a man before anybody else gentlemen

[@QuiDocetDiscit]

We get what we tolerate. Someone who lacks the emotional intelligence to treat you with dignity and kindness should be discarded.

[@ramababuotaru4966]

I totally agree with this. I also read about this in a book 'Charmflow Secrets', and the thing is that communication and seduction isn't just expressing your needs, but also knowing how to listen to others carefully and to be assertive with your words when you communicate with other people. It can change so much if you do it properly. Really great book.

[@FaintAura]

Where the guy went wrong is giving her a 2nd date after how she treated him.

[@suncat9]

I usually give 2nd chances, but no more.

[@giovanilocelso5663]

I am reading from your book and you are right 100%. When a woman knows that you love her a lot, she will disrespect you. She might hide this for a bit of time because she want to secure a provider, but "actions speak louder than words."

[@kennedyagyekum3114]

Just finished my copy of “Atomic Attraction” yesterday! Powerful, a must read for every man!! I’ll be referring to it often as a reminder.

[@KingAries85]

It’s simple of my wife doesn’t respect me me then she gets cuffed and spanked while she counts out the number of spanks followed by “I’m sorry I’ll be a good wife” and if she really acts out then it happens with a belt.. I use a sharpie to right “owned by” or “property of” on her ass every weekend. I go with her everywhere so she is safe and protected she never has to pay for anything and I have a date night with her at least once a week. She is to look good for me and me for her everyday. We go to the gym together every other day for 30 to 45 mins a day to help look good for each other. I drop her off at work and pick her up and take her out for lunch then pick her up for work when she’s off. I shower her with love affections attention and gifts and cherish her in return. We have kids so the house is to be clean everyday by the kids not the wife. Woman are children with no accountability and should be treated as such because you will be held accountable for your wife and kids actions. How they act is a reflection of you. She is not allowed to have any male friends what so ever as I have no female friends.. and she says I have trained and conditioned her to not even know how to imagine a life without me. Exactly how it’s suppose to be.

[@Said75010]

I really don’t understand why some men allow women to treat them so poorly. I think that it is a self esteem issue coupled with lack mindset.

[@brycecampbell4845]

No woman humiliates me. Twice.

[@anastasiosdimtsis1]

This is so true!! Women love men that are firm and treat like they are the boss. Direct!! Not aggressive!!

[@erictaylor3897]

Always walk away. Men take pride in our hard work, you've put time and effort into your relationship. But you gotta learn when to fold a bad set of cards and move along. Go where you're accepted and respected. Don't look back, not even friends.

[@michaelhussey440]

The issue here was that the guy obviously had no self respect because he was tolerating contempt and gas lighting about the contempt from a bit**. He should have broken contact with her immediately and permanently.

[@MrBarrystuart]

The woman should be the nurturer in the relationship, if she's toxic one should exit permanently - and without explanation. The examples you gave were not her simply testing your friend to glean what kind of man he was, she was totally trying to tear him down and humiliate him in front of others and ultimately emasculate him - big difference. (my opinion)

[@kashifshehzad2328]

Agreed

[@1faros]

Ignore them

[@alexszlanina7548]

I've learned not to let things linger. When she says something degrading.. lash back immediately. If my woman would say my food is bad.. then I'd say, well it's better than your 2 minute noodles.

[@NoName-zb1gm]

Or I thought you said you were good in bed? Say t front of everyone. If she walks away who cares at that point.

[@danmurray1143]

OK, but keep in mind a narcissist is looking for these kinds of responses you suggested. That confirms they can exercise some "control" over you. They can get in your head & get you reacting, even if it's a negative reaction toward them. It's called "narcissistic fuel," they love to pick fights. Try completely ignoring them instead. Being ignored drives narcissists crazy. You rob them of their power over you. But even better, get narcissists out of your life completely. Their torment will never end.

[@023Listener]

The only positive masculinity channel you need

[@artofgarduno]

Alpha male strategies is a good second place to this.

[@rollzolo]

Better early than married with children

[@dmitrimikrioukov5935]

My wife has always been very disrespectful to me. But the last month was especially difficult. She called me names, broke my phone, attacked me physically... For no serious reasons actually. So I packed my things and left. For a week she implore me to return and promised to change. Now I've given her another chance. So far she has been entirely different. It's like I'm married to a different woman.

[@NoName-zb1gm]

You have to be stronger emotionally than she is and that shouldn't be hard for most men. Let her be the uncertain one and crying and talking to her friends about you.

[@OperationRanch]

These are the type of women that end up chlidless, ran through & miserable - avoid at all costs.

[@marquinho999]

Sex is their currency. Attention is our currency.

[@NewStarConstellation]

Interesting point. I need to think about this. Thanks man!

[@marquinho999]

@NewStarConstellation Do not overthink it, mate. 😂

[@dhritimandas463]

Chris, Coach Lee and Casey ....These 3 are best Relationship Coaches

[@Taichou9406]

AGREE

[@maurotolari9215]

My favourite is Mat Cross 33 secrets

[@danmurray1143]

​@maurotolari9215 Ya, Matt is all right. I use to watch him daily.

[@sachinfernando1979]

Agree. These guys are so helpful while going through a breakup. (Are you talking about Casey zander)

[@danmurray1143]

@@sachinfernando1979 Zander isn't even a decent sized pimple on Chris' butt.

[@SweetNectorOfTheGod]

What a perfect little case study

[@TheShadowFireYoshi]

Chris you are simply the best, man.

[@GregoryTheGr8ster]

When a woman becomes as disrespectful as in your story, I doubt that the man can win back the respect.

[@jamesdalyallout]

He can walk away , she don’t expect it . Give it few weeks and she come back around .

[@emh6844]

​@@jamesdalyallout Yeah but even then the best thing to do is to say "we are done"

[@jamesdalyallout]

@@emh6844 😂😂perfect

[@sod172]

I've noticed that these tests like mentioned in the video predominantly come from women who in their childhood were their daddy's little princess, the prefered child. So, what comes to my mind is emotional (or so called covert) incest. Their lifetime partner emotionally is always her father. And real life partnerships they are having to them are only side affairs that have to kept at a certain distance. If she fully committed to a partner it would feel like betrayal of their father to them. Does this make sense?

[@quietspecialist487]

Oh, yes.

[@KingAries85]

My wife is like this and it makes sense however It’s simple of my wife doesn’t respect me me then she gets cuffed and spanked while she counts out the number of spanks followed by “I’m sorry I’ll be a good wife” and if she really acts out then it happens with a belt.. I use a sharpie to right “owned by” or “property of” on her ass every weekend. I go with her everywhere so she is safe and protected she never has to pay for anything and I have a date night with her at least once a week. She is to look good for me and me for her everyday. We go to the gym together every other day for 30 to 45 mins a day to help look good for each other. I drop her off at work and pick her up and take her out for lunch then pick her up for work when she’s off. I shower her with love affections attention and gifts and cherish her in return. We have kids so the house is to be clean everyday by the kids not the wife. Woman are children with no accountability and should be treated as such because you will be held accountable for your wife and kids actions. How they act is a reflection of you. She is not allowed to have any male friends what so ever as I have no female friends.. and she says I have trained and conditioned her to not even know how to imagine a life without me. Exactly how it’s suppose to be.

[@CabbagePatchkid-r8e]

It's all women. AWALT. If you are in a relationship with a woman, you ARE her new dad. Thats why they saying goes "women are like children". Marriage ceremony is literally the dad walking her down the isle to officially pass off dad responsibilities to the husband.

[@danmurray1143]

You know, the scary part is "yes," that does make sense to me.

[@henrycochran8583]

Depending on the type of woman you're dealing with. If she won't give respect; all you can do is simply walk away! How ever hard it might be.

[@Deepak-en9kx]

Change your KZbin logo...... Your videos are impressive. It is bit rate to find the content like this on KZbin. Yes, there are so many videos on KZbin, but people make the video so long to just convey the simple thing. Hats off to Mr. Great Author. One thing i forgot to mention....I have read your book Atomic Attraction.

[@NishantSharma-tr6xl]

The more wisdom I gain with each passing day... the more people I tend to block from my life. Should I keep pursuing this difficult journey ?

[@shiptj01]

It's strange that for every endeavor in life, caring and attention to detail are beneficial, except for attracting a woman. LOL

[@AnkitSharma-ge7qg]

Gone through this for so long, please make a detailed video on how to handle it

[@Ni_Ki_Taa]

dont let anyone treat you like a doormat, its the only solution. And if the person doesnt change, you walk away and never look back

[@OneEyedLion]

The chef should've said: You don't have to be here. Her: I was just kidding. Him: I'm not!

[@PRAVINMISTRI-q9m]

Bro,the women who does not respect a real man is just _________(put a suitable word/phrase) and well I don't want to be respected from these low value women. There are true high value women and they never disrespect a man and instead support and help him grow. Ignore these low grade women if they disrespect you for their words are worth nothing.

[@lottiohnesorge830]

If I realize that she tests me in any way, I just walk away. She does not have the right to do this.

[@jollyroger2594]

Female narc

[@guntertorfs6486]

Very obvious , indeed.

[@3D_GIMA]

The fact that nobody talks about the forbidden book Charmflow Secrets speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance

[@davenamakhwa3278]

My coworker lisa just humiliated me last week infront of the whole office. She read the texts i was sending her out loud now am a laughing stock at the office

[@godspeedredeicieli4384]

Act as unfazed as you can, if you visible let your pain show then it will get worse

[@NoName-zb1gm]

Tell your co-workers she was sexting you but you're too nice to tell everyone what she said and did. At this point it's over so just make stuff up if you have to.

[@Ace.0.0.0.]

Get yourself transferred to a new floor, a new department, or better still a new company. I see in her a future, or maybe right now a cat lady. And most of all if it's not business, do not engage.

[@jamesdalyallout]

Laugh it off ..don’t message her again

[@sk24767]

As a men better ignore them and stop chasing them

[@matjazb.157]

Dump her.

[@MiltonPowell-d7v]

Real talk 👍👍👍

[@ianarn]

Your tips are useful strategies but there are some women who will be extremely disrespectful to the point of belittling and even violence such as shoving or kicking and you’ll have to set a clear boundary and walk away or the only real likelihood is that you will return it with such anger that you put yourself at risk of going to prison. I don’ yet believe that frame and boundaries will work on all women as some just want to push you till your absolute limit and then claim victimhood.

[@arthurgiannakis2156]

If the dates he went on were for dinner and he was paying for all of it then he could have gone on 50 of them and she would have turned up every time for a free meal. He still wouldn't have gotten any further with her because her motivation for showing up wasn't him.

[@3nkidu465]

I want to know something once and for all... are the shit tests that women do something conscious? Is it something that they do on purpose? is it unconscious? Did your mothers and friends teach you how to make them?

[@danmurray1143]

That's actually a good question. I'm thinking for regular non-narcissistic women, it's subconscious, but once they blurt something out & realize they are being a bbiittcchh, they catch themselves & feel regret. With narcissistic women, it's 1,000% conscious. We know this because a narcissist's behavior flips immediately if someone else walks in the room & becomes a witness. Then suddenly, you get a 180-degree change in behavior & the narcissist puts on an act & is suddenly an angel. Then, when the 3rd party leaves the room, it's back to being evil. That's not SUB-conscious. That is very intentional behavior. Terrific question.

[@multi7figures]

I sincerely do not need a woman to respect me, let her or them keep their respect, because a disrespectful person's respect is nothing but a facade.. anyways, if a woman will choose to be disrespectful over being peaceful and a pretty decent human being, she shouldn't come close to me with her disrespect becuase she'll find no mercy.

[@Antarmy2]

They can keep all thier tests, I'm staying single 😊

[@Avawallis-s7v]

Hello to everyone reading this. Right now, I'm inconsolable. My ex-partner left a few weeks ago, and I am heartbroken and saddened since this relationship is the best thing that has ever happened to me. Although I tried, I was unable to win him back. I don't know what to do, but I shouldn't be posting this here.

[@katlla.sampath3527]

I love this. I think we often forget that communication is a two-way street. It's not just about expressing yourself, but also understanding how to really listen and connect with others. I actually came across some similar ideas in Charmflow Secrets, and it was eye-opening. The way they talk about balancing assertiveness with empathy makes such a difference in building genuine connections.

[@juliend9495]

Most beaches need to be checked. Give her what she needs. Not what she thinks she wants.

[@tomaszszkolny6169]

Just be tall and handsome

[@mystykalmn4434]

If you're tall and handsome and you don't have self-respect she will treat you worse than that.

[@Driver_04]

As a tall and handsome guy. It means nothing if you're not earning as much as she wants you to. They always look for a weakness or an extra factor to exploit in the transactional relationship

[@gunfugames7430]

Im tall and handsome and still nothing

[@Shake_Well_Before_Use]

​@@Driver_04always a reason to nag huh😅

[@ardeshirmehr5221]

Honestly if you don't care about the human race then just don't date and become a saint You'll do a service to not only mankind but also to nature

[@WallaceAhtone-sq6ty]

I would never put up with that crap!

[@lastbull575]

🥇

[@Rahul_Lata_]

Run for your life man...

[@opticogamer5044]

Absolutely. I always thought confidence had to look a certain way, but after reading Charmflow Secrets, I realized it’s more about being comfortable with who you are and letting that energy speak for itself. It’s that calm, grounded confidence that really shifts how people react to you.

[@davidallahgod3217]

*She is meals on wheels!*

[@kaikuhnert641]

be attraktive 😅🤷🏼‍♂️

[@pioneeratheart6496]

Can't blame the woman for that. I've had similar experiences although not that drastic. That behavior stopped when I asked away

[@guntertorfs6486]

Why can't the woman be blamed for being a b**** ? Simping 101.

[@LateNightCigars]

Men can't just complain about women disrespecting them if these men are immature, weak, and lack discipline. I mean put yourself in the place of these women. Their disrespect didn't come from nowhere. These women probably wish they'd leave you but probably they can't afford it. A woman can only handle so much before she loses her patience.

[@guntertorfs6486]

And how do you know all these men deserve to be treated this way ? I've met plenty of manipulative , narcissistic women with rotten characters who played the victim but who were in fact the perpetrator. Some women are no good , plain and simple.

[@LateNightCigars]

@guntertorfs6486 that's correct. That's the case sometimes, but other times it's the man's behavior that causes her to treat him like this. I'm not saying it's justifiable, but a man in that situation can benefit from knowing what is causing her disrespect.

[@jhonnybravo5244]

how to convinced her for marriage at low income

[@mystykalmn4434]

Don't even try

[@Anonymous589x]

Free advice - Don't get married

[@tadeolho3634]

Tell her you will survive on photosynthesis

[@EntertainmentBuzz9]

You wanna die young bro, getting married will be your torture and worse and worse with a low income she'll walk all over you then end you by divorcing you

[@Shake_Well_Before_Use]

😮 I mean daym​@@tadeolho3634

[@sahilhembrom5020]

it's kinda crazy how nobody's talking about the forbidden book called charmflow secrets

[@mdKabeer-pl1dd]

Combining this video and the forbidden book called Charmflow Secrets by vexoner, made it so incredibly helpful for me. Thank you!

[@mansinghyadav3318]

screw this, I read a book called charmflow secrets and learned what's real seduction

[@naitikmeshram1821]

The fact that nobody talks about the forbidden book Charmflow Secrets speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance