How to Get Rid of a Clingy Boyfriend

[@arianallen2806]

Loni's face when Tamar said she was a really good woman!! Lol #shade

[@theeelevatedsongstress]

Oh yeah I noticed that too

[@annieparker2788]

Haters stay reaching.

[@theeelevatedsongstress]

yeah

[@annalynge-larsen7236]

That ain’t shade that’s the camera trying it lol

[@tabithamoyo3812]

arian allen thought it was just me

[@Yuli2013]

There’s a difference between being clingy and being passionate about someone. Clingy is someone who’s on your case. ALL of the time. Like won’t stop. Passionate is someone who shows that they’re interested in you and wants to show you that you’re special to them.

[@Marie-zq5bk]

It starts being clingy when that passion is being directed to someone who isn’t interested in you.

[@tummieflowers2681]

@@Marie-zq5bk. When they get mad at you speaking to someone else for two or three minutes while being around them, that’s when you need to LEAVE!

[@sandyboo2]

Loni says "i used to act like i knew Karate.....the camera zooms to people who look Asian...wow

[@nalamelody5287]

😂

[@NellieKAdaba]

+Candy Flores lol

[@kshinokevin]

2 Asian women in the crowd, are quietly smiling...

[@kshinokevin]

@Scorpio L "Candy Crush Saga" - this ain't no (phone app video) game, this is real life.

[@lolitha__music]

Shaaaadyyyyyy

[@chelseaashley7913]

Did anyone think of the "Go Home Roger" from Sister, Sister when they were talking?

[@ambermullenax5670]

Hahaha

[@vivianb5325]

LoL 😂

[@prabhnoorkaur4668]

LOL😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@michaellaasare2638]

😂😂😂

[@dezeraejames7934]

I was thinking Destiny's Child Bug-a-boo.

[@HewanYitagesu]

Jeannie's outfit, hair and makeup are total perfection!!

[@summerlyric6071]

yes! I so love what her stylist does with her hair.

[@6StarChild6]

No tea no shade but at 1:35 when Loni did the karate moves the camera moved to the two Asian girls. Am i shady or did anyone else notice this?

[@alfwinnn4224]

omg yes lol

[@varaidzosallychitimira5095]

You are shady girl...

[@MegaCadette55]

lmao!the things y'all notice man.FBI needs to hire you!

[@datgurlky1]

LOL He did move there tho'

[@datgurlky1]

no ... the camera man/woman is. LOL

[@mskathylaurielle]

If you want to get rid of someone who is clingy, play the crackhead card. Start twitching your face, scratch yourself and start screaming. Do that and they'll leave you alone. Guaranteed to scare away clingy people. LMAO

[@elsiel]

Kathy Laurielle lmaoooo💀

[@viktorijanovak336]

😂😂😂

[@ICEYALLAROUND]

😂😂😂😂

[@garywoodsii8799]

Tamar: You're upfront and honest. Tamera: I am. Tamar: I feel like you hurt people's feelings. Tamera: I do? Tamar: Not purposely. Tamera: Oh? LMAO!!!

[@tammiemichelle6880]

Lol, too cute xD

[@Ash_Flow]

Gary Woods II that was so cute!!!

[@nadianympho]

TAshleyNicole TV

[@shooklizard9039]

Loooool

[@antjr6929]

Baby don't miss with her shots, if she played sports y'all be embarrassed

[@D3LAN3IZHERRR]

I actually enjoyed this segment. Everyone was respectful of each other's opinions.

[@nicolechacha]

I just had a bf like this. He had started to not give me attention and then when I broke up with him then he wouldn't leave me alone. He he was sending me gifts, coming to my house, writing letters, and calling non stop from different numbers. Then one morning I was sleeping with my window open and heard him at my window trying to talk to me.

[@mskathylaurielle]

Damn that's Stalker Status.

[@cynthiaherrera9276]

nicole chavez stst

[@cynthiaherrera9276]

nicole chavez of

[@cynthiaherrera9276]

nicole chavez of

[@gasergurl]

Jezuss!!!!!!

[@user-wr4eh7gh4b]

genuinely wish they would stop talking over each other cos i wanted to hear Tamar's story at 2:06

[@chipotleobsessed]

FMoha ME TOO!!

[@Abena_Goddess87]

She didn't want her to tell her story

[@Nanakesewaa]

Me too

[@22cali]

Exactly!! Very Annoying.

[@anelperez4070]

LOL or how about the ones that make you feel guilty for breaking up with them

[@classyspoon3827]

People like that are mental abusers. Stay far away from them! It could turn into emotional or physical abuse towards you. They are no good girl.

[@AuthorJanaeMarie]

Anel Perez Yes because my ex boyfriend is basically doing the same thing. I don't know what to do?

[@YouTubeExplore777]

Author Janae Marie blame yourself and move on

[@thanlater]

TAMERA IS REALLY BEAUTIFUL

[@redayvn]

I actually like Loni's hair. It matches her personality, plus I'm loving the fact that the stylist at 'The Real' don't neglect to make her look just as glam as the other ladies. I think this year is gonna be a great year for Loni's looks. It's high time they started making her look more up-to-date and modern as oppose to looking like the choir director down to the Greater Ebenezer New Revival Tree of Life AME Zion Baptist "Chuuch" #ijs She stayed looking like the senior "ursher", passing down the collection plate. A full figure woman shouldn't have to suffer such. Btw, Tamera looks gorgeous, hair and all. She is wearing that pregnancy well, honey! #LoveHer #TheReal

[@karabochoma4113]

Redayvn Hughley lol you must be South African

[@redayvn]

karabo choma 🤣 No, I'm just regular Southern chick.

[@ThisIsEllaz]

I had a stage five clinger and I had to go to the police because they became a stalker.

[@kshinokevin]

you should definitely Lawyer Up (go to the local courthouse) & get a TRO for the Stalker, so it (really) doesn't get out of hand and/or go crazy.

[@kkingmusic13]

I could see Tamera had a lot of clingers cos she knew exactly what she wanted. She wanted marriage, she set high standards, not All physically, but mostly mentally... I'm sure she probably had a checklist in her head. Red flags when she dated or began talking to a man. & instead of being mean she knew how to articulate herself to the men & explain to them why they weren't a good match.....& that America & single woman is how you creat a clinger!!!!

[@kuur3137]

Yellowlover94 facts!

[@madisonhartwick8114]

Loni: "I used to act like I had karate moves" *makes intimidating karate noises* Jeannie: "I think that's cute Loni!" 😂😂👌🏼

[@arian1230]

It was Tamera 😂😂😂

[@GodsGirl4K]

madison chris & it's imitating not intimidating 😂😂

[@keepingupwithari6259]

Tamera😂

[@keepingupwithari6259]

I'm so late

[@jushereinit]

Is it just me or i kinda want a boyfriend that's kinda clingy? some guys aren't that attached to their partners

[@hannahvaverka9279]

Won't last long, it gets old quick.

[@kagemaru397]

You and some others. Haven't dated anyone yet and am a guy, but I think I can say that getting a clingy guy isn't any better than getting an utterly detached guy (as in it's meant to be a committed relationship but he doesn't treat it as such). I say find a guy that could (I mean this in the most positive way possible) bring himself to commit to you, but at the same time can bring himself to leave if he feels the relationship is unsustainable somehow. You should try being more like this too if you're not already.

[@angelicataylor2229]

Aisha ikr....😕😑

[@georgianalinton6616]

Scorpio L What???? That's insane. He sounds inseure and crazy.

[@AllisonPaigexo]

Thats not clingly. Thats controlling theres a big difference.

[@Yuli2013]

I can’t deal with a clingy ass dude!!! Like dude, give me my space. I’ll straight up tell them that they’re so damn clingy to either give me space, do something with their live, or I’m not going to talk to them again. Usually clingy people are the ones that don’t have much going on with their lives. Like bro, find yourself a hobby. Join a book club... something.

[@kieyouniebutler5598]

😂😂😂😂

[@juliettenunez139]

NO FR

[@therealkoolaidandkale]

No but seriously, though. I was dealing with one but didn't know it was THAT bad. I took him all of his stuff back today and my gut told me to have my taser just in case chile. Iont even play that. I didn't realize until that moment just how scary these super clingers can be.

[@chastityb.theeentrepreneur5499]

Maybe its just Me..but I like Loni's hair and outfit..she's entitled to have a lil fun with it lol let her live ppl....and Tamera's outit was doingg it for Me.!! And I thought Jeaniee looked extra vibrant..Tamar looks cute too!! lol y'all trippin..how many of us look perfect all day/everyday??? ......I'll wait...

[@2lelouk]

Girl preach! Love love love your positivity

[@nunuhuda5093]

You're awesome. I agree.

[@thatholygirl33]

I wanted to hear the story Tay was about to tell about Tamera!

[@lanettefrancis9552]

It's so sad that all these negative comments are coming from people who hide behind there make up, clothing, and ultimately there lack of happiness. As Tamar would say it " get your life".. Let's applaud the fact that there is finally a successful talk show with a great diverse group of WOMEN who bring an interesting flare to TV. Also they talk about things that us WOMEN can actually relate to. Grow up and stop trying to criticize these women for doing an amazing JOB. And if you don't like it then why you watching!!!! ON THAT NOTE TO EVERYONE HAVE A HAPPY, HEALTHY, AND BLESSED NEW YEAR!

[@Lady9T]

Tamar was going to tell a story about Tamera and they interrupted. I wanted to hear it!

[@xMlleCheerry]

I'm sorry but the only ones who have never looked bad on this show are Jeannie & Tamera. Hair/makeup/outfit always on point ! This season has been better for the other three though.

[@NellieKAdaba]

+Emma Domenech True, I agree

[@JayAlfordElementJMusic]

....I'll just block your number once I realize you're not leaving.

[@KING090589]

I think everyone actually looks fantastic today! Call me crazy but I like Loni's hair. She's one of those people that can pull it off because of her big personality.

[@All_that_glitters_]

There’s a huge difference between a sweet, caring, attentive bf, & a stage 5 clinger. Those clingers are ridiculous & have issues, when having a straightforward conversation doesn’t work, being mean doesn’t work, getting other people to talk to them doesn’t work, time to hit the block button✋🏼

[@catherineabreu1]

Am I the only one who thinks Adrienne's makeup contour is way too dark!!!?!? Her makeup artist should be fired!!!

[@avafreeman336]

And so should she please

[@muymirw9449]

@@avafreeman336 lol what?.. why do you want Adrienne fired?

[@blancawebb3264]

Muy Mirw No not Adrienne, her make up artist

[@muymirw9449]

Blanca Webb I know .. but I was replying to another comment .. saying Adrienne should be fired aswell

[@blancawebb3264]

Muy Mirw oh lol my bad

[@emmanuellashasha1113]

Loni's skin tone is everything!!! so smooth and beautiful

[@soct10libr]

Tamera is a beauty 😍

[@lionelluva]

The guy with the red shirt @3:05 really enjoys being on "The Real". He's been on more than once lol

[@creativechameleon8202]

did anyone notice when Tamar said "I'ma good women" the look on Loni face

[@KokeyMcCormickkk]

The only way to get rid of a stage 5 is calling the cops. Stage 5 is literally a stalker.

[@nicholem2263]

Tamera is rocking that hairstyle, I love it .

[@futureangelica1125]

Two words: RESTRAINING ORDER

[@kimberlytheunstoppable3653]

Future Angelica they don't work it just waste your time the police don't give a damn unless you are murdered.

[@futureangelica1125]

Kimberly Theunstoppable yeah but you can sue them for all theubhave of they approach you

[@Orig80sFan]

I don't think anyone believes Tamar had any stage 5 clingers. I think they all ran away as fast as they could.

[@ErikitoMoreno95]

Thank you 👐🙏🙇

[@Lilrami6]

Actually Tamar (before vince) was in a very abusive relationship... the reason she is so loud she says is because she doesn't want people to control here and speak over her due to her past relationship. So that man the abused her was probably more than stage 5 clingy

[@Orig80sFan]

she was the one that was co-dependent since she stayed AKA clingy. Also, I found it interesting that she never voiced that opinion until she started having drama with K. Michelle which seemed to be contrived since coincidentally she was in an abusive relationship as well. Ironically, she stated that K. Michelle was making up fairy tales which is what initiated the beef. You would think for someone that had been through it that she would have been more supportive to her.

[@jasonmyers8622]

K Michelle hasn't been anything. She's always the instigator. Yeah it was a fairy tale for sure,

[@SameOlHim]

Ummmmm actually she was in 2 abusive relationships & she had to leave... that sounds like getting away to me don't you think??? Just b/c you're not attracted to her or her qualities doesn't mean someone else isn't...

[@skyer8202]

Here's what you do. 1- change your number 2- don't answer your door if it's him/her...you have windows, use them. 3- don't take him/her to your mama's house in the first place. if you want them to meet, do it at your house. 4- if you dated the crazy type, get a restraining order of some sort. Don't play games with stuff like this.

[@Popchic1]

Tamara's wigs SLAYYYYY! OMG! Her hairstylist is the bomb. She need to help some other ladies on the show.

[@RandySoWavvy]

Stage 5 clingers is a 50/50 shot either eventually they’ll get the hint and move on or they turn into full blown stalkers. You gotta tread carefully until you know which 1 you’re dealing with and even then still be cautious remember no one ever thinks serial killers are serial killers until the cops are digging up bodies in their yard.

[@tashawilliams8093]

True.

[@sarahjay5484]

Loni and Tamar's hair though :/ FIX IT!

[@AEY721]

I think Tamar's hair looks great

[@adversetoconverse]

Aya elyamany You must be Stevie Wonder then.

[@xxLexyLewxx]

adversetoconverse tamera is slaying tho

[@JaiiMvX]

Tamar's hair is fine...

[@adversetoconverse]

***** It's really not.

[@kirsty6156]

Omg after watching this video and Adrienne explaining a stage 5 clinger it made me realise that my ex was one!! Omg😂

[@adversetoconverse]

Loni sitting up there looking like Rick James. Slay mama. Ooop.

[@mayaalexandra8224]

Lol

[@HeyMyLifeIsLibby]

I think a Cher drag queen dipped in a cotton candy machine would be more appropriate. But that's just me. This tea hittin though.

[@youaintneverlied]

LOL Rick actually did have that hairstyle. Haha!

[@Sunshineandrainbows626]

I seriously came on here looking for YOUR comment just so I could laugh XD

[@theigbogoddess]

lmao I feel so bad for laughing at this...

[@sylviavee1194]

Watching this in 2021 because I miss the OG 5 ❤️ The energy was so amazing 💖

[@GenZ_Zillenial]

I'm 100% convinced that Loni makes up half of her "boyfriend" stories. Sis, you have never had that many boyfriends in your life, girl siddown'

[@chelsy356]

💀

[@iyanajohnson4234]

How you know?

[@marinakeza5141]

Why not?

[@lujainmustafa20]

Jeannie saying I want one I want one Is just soooo cuuuuute for some reason 💕💕

[@JJoelle]

ummmm where are the hairstylists? They still on vacay?

[@teffa1993]

YOOOOOO. Adriennes contour in this one is no bueno AT ALL. hahahaha. People need to chill on the contour. Just rock your face as it is with some foundation and normal bronzer and blush. xD

[@salmaayman3262]

see her face in 1:56 , ooooohhhh lord

[@bonnie8177]

Dead "no bueno" de verdad 😂💀🙏

[@genesisrivera3157]

I was about to say the same thing i think its a little to dark amd im still trying to figure out if its a cool tone or warm tone contour

[@anittanxusa]

I can't get over it 🤣😭

[@avafreeman336]

Got her looking like a straight up fool

[@RahmaPayne1D]

dammit I wanted to hear the story about Tamera

[@gabby6917]

I love how loni just popped up w/ the mug lol

[@isaiahharrell4159]

As a bisexual guy I've had my fair share of clingy relationships. Even AFTER every call and text message, my "boyfriend" or "girlfriend" would just prolong the conversation in an obsessive way.

[@MM-em6ly]

Yessss omg the prolonging of the conversation for a good half an hour when you said you had to go? Wtf

[@ashaavocado5898]

Lonis look is Everything when Tamar said i am a really Good Woman 🤣😂

[@ladybluemoon1]

My sons dad my ex is too clingy even before he became the ex I can’t take clingy men I like my space

[@sethcameron2609]

All of these women seem like they'd be stage 5 clingers, so it's ironic that this is a topic of discussion.

[@joshuamcdowell5782]

Especially Tamera

[@TrueVintageRnBFan]

I totally agree. And Tamar has stage 5 clingers? Ugh! Who would want to cling to that? Tamar is delusional.

[@sethcameron2609]

MariamTalks It's my opinion. There's no such thing as a wrong opinion.

[@ajsmommy6378]

I was actually thinking the same thing lol

[@katinas1100]

Hey there can always be someone worse than you.

[@user-ce5yh3zx4v]

Watching this now I realise how Loni used make up stories

[@TurtlesWithAutism]

She's a liar and a hypocrite.

[@jericatorres4353]

dealt with this . my ex thinks no means yes or he believes I'm playing hard to get ...no dude it's been seven months ...bye !

[@robinpresha5310]

When you're done you're done

[@zhanebeard9834]

i hate clingy everyone needs space i had someone i broke up with ten times and,he still like no were not youre still mine i just blocked him cause he wasnt getting it

[@adamleeding2023]

Zhane beard I have an ex girlfriend who won't get the message that the relationship between us is over I'm thinking about going on holiday to Wales and when I come back to England I'll tell her I've met someone else I hope she'll get the message

[@zhanebeard9834]

just block her and block her from calling simple

[@oluwakemioyedokun8669]

i liked that moment when Tamar finished Tamera's thought at 2:12 that was cute

[@Danielle58282]

Loni always looks at Tamar with shade, am I the only one who peeped that

[@Veronique428]

Danielle Hughes No you´re not she always have that side eyes 😒

[@kamillaiqbal6521]

Maybe just be honest with them about being clingy. But try to be nice about it. You never know how badly you can hurt someone. Remember people have feelings.

[@zalajaweed2722]

the thing with the "I don't like you" is sooo true - I mean wtf, why do you think like that?

[@jaykitad3572]

Ugh, clingers are the worst, I knew this guy that was trying to get a little close with me and I noticed that so I started trying to drift away but the more I tried, the worse it became, even after I blocked his number he was so persistent. It was terrible!

[@theblackbetty1560]

Yeah, "Clingers ARE the WORST!!" ...I'M ON THAT "CLING-FREE'' REGIME, THOUGH!! 😉😆😂

[@user-rt1ox3wi5l]

Mine was just a friend... he wouldn’t leave me alone

[@lolitha__music]

Loni with that head pull when Tamar said "I'ma good woman" 😂😂😂😂😂 Im over it she so real, and why is the twin calling her "Tay Tay" lol that was forced ASF😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@TheRetroWoman80]

All the different perspectives....interesting. Even if I don't agree with any, just hearing women air their feelings and thoughts unabashedly, especially on live TV. This wasn't always possible for us and I'm so glad for this accomplishment.

[@whisperingwhiskerss4877]

I had this problem A STAGE 10 CLINGER I had to keep telling them to stop 🛑 they continued ended up breaking my windows and a door 🤦🏾‍♀️ he’s in jail now 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@yjonesy3727]

Wow, Tamar! I agree with you on so many levels. On one of the previous shows, I too had no idea what "negging" was but shared your opinions to the T! Same as this show! That, said I love all of the opinions of this show which I have just discovered online as I live now in Germany! Love the Real.

[@2write2sing2dance]

Tamar and I would make great friends.

[@TonyTurner]

Well it's confirmed Loni is a master at arts and craft from her wigs to mugs. Also, was Tamar talking about boyfriends pre-Vince? And is it me or does the way Jeannie uses her hands when she talks fluster you? I keep thinking she's gonna scratch herself in the face with her nails.

[@jarrodg81]

Naw I think Tamar was talking about people period who loved her cooking and stuff

[@TonyTurner]

Jarrod Gillespie Oh...

[@killlamas57]

Jeanie is so extra like put your hands outta people's face. Lol. Quite literally, stay in your lane. It's so annoying how she has reach out to speak. Lol I can't with her.

[@TonyTurner]

DaVinChae Ford I know, it frustrates me every time. Like Jeannie control your hands mam !!!

[@annieparker2788]

+Jarrod Gillespie No she was talking about clingy ex boyfriends .

[@Cleobaddiedawlz]

Or when they text you late at saying hi or early in the morning they text good morning. They are always on your case it’s so annoying

[@ambermullenax5670]

Love Adrienne's look!!!! Beautiful!!!!

[@sokourtt]

She's so freaking pretty it makes no sense !

[@lastella1994]

She's very beaitiful

[@dabrat5204]

Restraining order.

[@caremell]

When two people are on same page they are in love when only one side is interested oh no he is the clinger, stalker, weirdo

[@Nairah912]

Why do I feel like Adrienne was talking about Israel and his wife 🐸☕️

[@almafigueroa7892]

sugarplumsandkimonos xo I thought the exact same thing. or it would be a big coincidence

[@lexishaw158]

I originally thought it was about Fab and Emily B but you might be right lol

[@edwardthegr8736]

YESSSSS I knew was something was off with Adrienne!! I’m replying a year later so what?!😂😂

[@estefaniapena1533]

Nah she talked about the same friend and they never got married they were just engaged

[@queen4eva93]

Tamera looks beautiful!!!!

[@evastood4539]

I feel like this isn’t a common issue and will never happen to me but i still watch cause it’s the real

[@Queenfisa]

lol but why is Loni looking at her like that tho!!!

[@preciousthing101]

Hmm you tell him he is clingy. The end.

[@3000A.D]

I went on a date with this guy and then after that time he was always asking to come over, i dont want to come over to his house at 3am , he woudnt take no for an answer. i said no dude im not into you , u remind me of my ex!!!!...then he messages me nudes and selfies few months later....UGH wtf

[@queenluji3553]

I really thought it's cute when Jeannie saw Loni's cup and was like I WANT ONE I WANT ONE so Cuuuuute ❤❤❤❤

[@santriciajones2579]

Love that Dumb & Dumber quote that Jeannie threw in.. "So you're telling me there's a chance??" Lol

[@heyheyhey40]

Tamar: I’m a real good woman Loni: eyes say it all

[@ReneeBella97]

I'm loving Tamera's hair she looks stunning with the straight hair. I think Tamar looks gorgeous yeah she wears a wig but at least she looks good. I wish I had Jeannie Mai's closet I love her style. Loni's hair is pretty she cracks me up. Adrienne always looks cheetah licious. Love love the real :)

[@theangelnati]

"GO HOME ROGEERRRRR!!"

[@cieraleal8030]

"I'm a real good woman" *eyeroll*

[@TurtlesWithAutism]

"The meaner you are, the longer they stay." Lol Tamera had to let them know that she isn't going anywhere. She knew her position on this show was secured regardless of the toxicity around her lol.

[@njc7224]

An a negative note they sometimes come back to take advantage.

[@chanelleusen612]

The mug story is cute, funny, a bit crazy but creative because I want one just like Lonnie's self mug.

[@ladaa.1819]

You do what you can....and make sure they get the point...

[@EllePlowPlow]

I wish they could do this girl chat over but with EVERYONE being truthful this time. 👀

[@BrianZvaitaLatestBuzz]

l am kinda of a clinger (why? old soul and a sucker for fairytale and holly love), hearing loads of woman saying how irritated they get when we cling, actually helps me to see the other side way better. l am going to change... So thanks ladies

[@kshinokevin]

One word : a Stalker

[@MsBellaRosa1]

I love Jeannie's nails here, gorgeous manicure.

[@cbrown1234567890]

I love Loni with curly hair. Suits her better than straight.

[@markeishathomas5989]

I like Loni hair.. She is really pretty and I love her personality

[@preciouscmb21]

Y Lonnie throwing so much shape with ha look though 👀 lol am I the only one who peeped ? 😩😂

[@preciouscmb21]

Lol peep at 35 sec when she say tay say she a real good women Lonnie face Lik 😩 .. But yeah it's a good show lol

[@sakhisiwemagubane]

I wanted to hear the story that Tamar wanted to tell

[@imancampbell3207]

Maybe its just me but I actually think they all look really good here. Tamar's makeup is actually pretty neutral and she looks really pretty and I think Loni's color just needs to be flattened down with bumpers and blended a bit better but other than that they all look great.

[@diamondgirl488]

They work together so I'm pretty sure that made them close

[@imancampbell3207]

Dee Dee Umm what does your comment have to do with my stating that they are beautiful?????

[@diamondgirl488]

Didn't mean to put that under here it was meant for another comment

[@imancampbell3207]

Dee Dee Ok no worries

[@Blossom702]

Am I the only one who loves a clingy man? To me it shows how much someone loves you, I definitely don’t take that for granted.

[@lehtarobinson5554]

Loni's curls look nice, in my opinion and the color looks good on her...