How To "Get To Know" Who You ARE! It's IMPORTANT, B'cos That's When You Truly live your best LIFE!

[@FumiDesaluVold]

It was not until I really took the time to KNOW who I was, the good & the bad.... yes! It was only then that I really started to live MY BEST LIFE B'cos I was finally living in my truth and that was truly the key to my happiness which let to my happiness. If you are happy, then you're free! If you're Happy, then you're successful. Success is NOT measured by what you have or what you've archived, it comes from CONTENTMENT. And I can finally say.............that I'm there! 😊 . Questions to help you know yourself better: What are my strengths? What are my short-term goals? Long-term goals? Who matters most to me? Who are my support people? What am I ashamed of? What do I like to do for fun? What new activities am I interested in or willing to try? What am I worried about? What are my values?

[@elenam9435]

Love this!!! I will be Journaling and answering these questions. I think its wise to do this once or twice a year because life throws you curve balls and its always good to do self checks to do what's best for you. Growth is always great!!🤗🤗🤗

[@adeniyananike9717]

Thanks for this questions ma.

[@southwestgen9530]

This is s great topic! Empowering!!! Thanks Sister Fumi 😘

[@shemikagreen2657]

​@@elenam9435me too. Starting today.

[@faithwanza4567]

Yes

[@mars.5811]

Hey Fumi, Judge Lynn Toler is someone that helped me a lot with this. On her show she always used to ask people to list a few things that were wrong about them, and she always used to say that if you can't say anything that is wrong with you, it means you have no self-awareness. I have been journaling for many years, and decided to write of what my flaws were, and ended up with a list of 13 things. Even if you don't share with other people what your flaws are, I think it's really healthy for you to be aware of them, and try to change the ones you believe will make you better person ❤

[@shawnmatthews9594]

I want to try this. Thank you for the tip 🙏🏾

[@MJayB26]

I love this!

[@DaraKFulton]

I agree !!! It definitely helps 😊

[@noluthandomaseti3257]

I'm going to do this. Thank you.

[@nanadecarvalho7840]

I love judge Lynn, she’s so wise!

[@FAmazingGrace]

I was with my ex husband for over a couple of decades. After my divorce, I realised that I never really knew who I was. So I developed a little course for myself covering things like my priorities, personality, temperament, drivers, dreams, strengths, weaknesses, love languages, deal breakers, fears, threats, things I like, needs, talents etc! I found that I am a reserved introvert, who loves to love on others but wasn't very good at stating my own needs. I recharge from my own energy so need time on my own. A deep thinking, reflective melancholic, and if unchecked is prone to feelings of sadness. I'm motivated by making a positive impact on others! I realised that in all things God comes first for me, this also keeps me grounded! I enjoy being creative, love history, art etc. There's so much more, I would recommend this to everyone!!!

[@aishawf]

Wonderful 👍🏿

[@ladygemini1389]

Fumi you are absolutely correct, not everyone around you have your back, they are just about using you for what you can give or do for them. Some make you feel like you are walking on egg shells around them so you need to drop these people. Don't let anyone stifle you.

[@PlanetElle]

Yes, Fums. You were speaking about you but really speaking about me. I had been suffering in silence for a long time and I found when I lovingly and gently confront my family they would shun me, ghost me, and ice me out of their lives. I recently came to the realization that I can not handle that level of toxicity and definitely have to move before the end of the year, God permits so that I can open myself to the type of love I need and deserve.

[@bd10232003]

I hope you are able to get out! So that when they shun, ghost and ice you out of their lives, they will notice you not running back to them. ❤

[@thequeenmidas]

The best way to get to know yourself is to get comfortable with spending time alone and learning how to listen to your inner voice, which is the voice of God (otherwise known as intuition). Constantly being out & about, and always around other people makes it hard to know which inputs come from you vs. which inputs come from others. Getting to know yourself builds self-trust and self-confidence that comes from within, and not from the influence and opinion of others. The Kingdom of God is within. As within, so without. As Above, So Below. Know Thyself!

[@djenalove]

Egbo Fumi please drop where you get these your dangling earings. They are life❤

[@faithwanza4567]

My favourite relationship and life lesson guru😂 Aunty fumi always on points

[@traceywilliams9396]

Sister Fumi, I am your age mate and I'm still learning myself. It's hard because I had a major health issue and it left me different. Thanks for this video ❤

[@zainababdulmajeed9931]

❤❤❤

[@SofiaL.Awharitoma]

Woow... I cries out, cos I feel talked to... Thanks for your conversation!

[@tracyencarnacion2181]

My Dearest Fumi you look so beautiful as always. Today is a sad day for me because it is my Mother’s 50th death anniversary. I was 7 years old. God always have is angels surrounding his people. Today God was speaking through you to give me some wisdom. Thank you for today’s episode and for being one of God’s angels. I love you Fumi my sister.

[@ppinnock4725]

I realized that I have made mistakes and I am the only that can correct those mistakes. I dont have negative people or fake friendships anymore.I am now able to say no and that what I do. Fear of people misconception of me was one of my concerns, but now I have learned to accept whatever comes. I am now learning to know myself realizing that I am who God makes me to be. I am not perfect, but I am one in a million, no one else was made with my blueprint. Thank you Mrs Fumi. You look fabulous.

[@TheWholeBits]

This is awesome to watch! For anyone watching this video, I encourage you to give your life to Jesus. He can make your life brand new and give you a fresh start. All you have to do is ask him to be Your Friend and receive him into your life. Jesus loves you so much! Accept his love today and join a Bible-believing church. Stay blessed!

[@ultimateenigma6038]

Great message....every single human must heed this message. Cultural pressures must be ignored.

[@yesSofia]

I love these words WOW. Sometimes you doubt yourself because those who don't know themselves and are very insecure or only want something out of you, are also everywhere you go. They might even be your family members. They don't tend to like people who know what they want out of life. So suddenly you believe that you're too much or start feeling inadequate because every other person makes you feel that way. Be true to yourself and open to bettering yourself everyday are the truest words anyone could ever say! Much love 💕

[@EstherAivinhenyi]

Lesson learnt " get to know yourself." Thanks Fumi this is HIGHLY needed when making Life CHOICES! I am now in a season where I am knowing myself and know my tolerance limits!! 😊👍💝

[@Dandkatche4eva]

Oh my goodness Aunty Fumi...you look soooooooooo beautiful today...I mean you look beautiful all the time but there is something about today. A fresh glow! Blessings!

[@ngoziuwafili2202]

Oh Sweet Mama Funmi. I like how you prioritize Funmi Nation

[@sherileenlambert2784]

Fumi. You're hair looks so healthy and thick. I love this girly look on you. You look so natural and pretty. Not keen on the earrings, however that's my own personal taste. The outfit still slays. Listened to your advice. As always, on point!

[@shemikagreen2657]

Fumi thank you. I'm currently in a toxic marriage and this video has motivated me to write down the things I like and don't like. Honestly laying with dogs you will definitely rise with flees, you forget who you are. Thank you. Have to be honest with me first.

[@flo25183]

Wow! I love how positively you speak about your sister-friend Christina. How I wish I had my own Christina in my life.

[@tanzaniandonnainitaly9905]

Lovely as always ❤

[@eleniprovia7667]

Another amazing episode full of wisdom and great advice 🙏🙏🙏

[@valentinavalentina4024]

Love from Angola 🇦🇴 Auntie 😻❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😻

[@yesyoucanwithinevara6826]

Thank you for sound advice always, i am learning hey😁👏❤❤❤..

[@julietlove3831]

Thanks so very kindly Beautiful God Blessed you 🙏🙏😍😍

[@wandalegg1608]

Thank you so much for being real and ‘visiting’ me.

[@nurseae4586]

Thanks so much for this episode. I was feeling guilty about shedding certain people from my life after putting up with years of being used discarded and used again. I felt a great sense of relief when I broke free. Thanks for helping me to accept that I need not feel guilty about saving myself. Please continue your very valuable work. Love always.

[@lisacarballo8649]

This resonates so much with me. Your pet peeves and everything you said aligned with everything I stand for. But once again as i told you before, you are a blessing and your journey and advice given is divine....bigger than you think. Much love my sister. From your Trinidad sister Lisa 🇹🇹🤗 @Boothman Carballo Artwork

[@tsmith712]

TY so much Fumi. Confirmation of what I already knew I had to do. Toxic relationships just never improve. Trying to keep them because they are family will such the joy and peace from your life replaced with stress a ger frustration for your entire life!!!!! If u keep them. Don't, don't feel bad about cutting them out. God bless you Fumi

[@kemonapalmer1413]

I needed to hear this message today. Thank you for sharing your words if wisdom 😊

[@feliciadance1715]

Thaaaannnkkk you Fumi🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼 This was so good! I truly appreciate your wisdom 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🙏

[@AuraWealthSpice]

One of your videos ive saved to my collection ❤❤❤

[@BlessingAdachukwu]

Thanks so much aunty Fumi for sharing this.

[@benatural49]

This was very helpful! I could listen to you speak all day long. ☺Thank you! 🌹

[@zeljkakovacevic3740]

When I am down, I watch your videos and feel so much better! Thank you ❤

[@GRACEDSTARS]

You are directly talking to me nne.......thank you so much for sharing this vital information filled with so much lessons

[@tastyyardmeals3482]

Watching you everyday let my day goes so fast. U are great

[@rochellegainous796]

Yes, I have spoke up Wednesday.

[@ericawatson3074]

Positive words as usual, much love and blessings to you and the family you are a breath of fresh air you speak so much sense ❤❤

[@jackym3456]

The conversation I had today with my friend about another so called friend. Exactly what you just explained. A few years ago I cleaned up my entire list of friends. Yes I had to. Since than i feel better. You explained me. Everything is just me. Whauw Fumi. I guess because we are ♈️

[@fashionandluxury101]

Very inspiring Fumi ❤

[@alphiaaugustin9162]

You gave me an assignment there Fumi, I accept the challenge...I need to grow...

[@zeljkakovacevic3740]

Dear Fumi, you are so sweet and I feel like I know you. You make me feel so good! Thank you so much ❤

[@michaelmatebe8775]

The wisdom you possess is something to appreciate. ❤ Thank you

[@BirungiZura-kq2nm]

Love you so much fumi❤

[@djqueenchampion7791]

Yes that is so true Fumi I just commented on your other video about so called friends, and letting the fakeness go. I am keeping my distance. Thank you for confirmation ❤

[@prosperousnatasha8153]

Amen 🙏🏾

[@paulinajosafath2187]

Thank you Aunty Fumi, only good vibes. You look gorgeous 🎀

[@roxannabishop9312]

Thankfully Fumi…… you’re soo inspiring to me. Uplifting words that gives me that boost to keep going forward in life. Soo appreciative…… all of my love girl❤️❤️❤️

[@Vivian-hz3hz]

Auntie Fumi I need this advice badly I’m caught between the devil and the deep blue sea 🌊 I need all of FUMINATION ❤ OLA YOUR A PRINCE 👑 Fumi you’re blessed 😇

[@noluthandomaseti3257]

Mama Fumi you're gorgeous. Thank you for this segment. I was asking myself this question today and I'm glad you answered me today. Thank you 🤍

[@sharonbutcher3983]

I really adore listening.

[@Rebecca57097ssss]

Loving your ponytail 🤩

[@jadore_stella]

Do this episode is everything and have added to my already better life amen glory to the most high. Can stop talkin I can text you all day but I appreciate you fumi❤ thank you so much🙏

[@annmariecarmedy6588]

Thank you for this today. Excellent video

[@naindwamsheri4803]

I love the lough😅😅😅

[@leslybaker2888]

Your so funny! You made my Sunday watching this thank you Fumi 🥰🥰sooooo true ! #accept yourself acknowledge, improve move on❤️

[@valankasainthilaire5934]

Another Gem thank u fumi❤

[@dorothymatthews6690]

This was so powerful Fumi! Be true to thyself! I need to listen to this video 19 more times! Thank you! BTW, Christina is a true friend and has a true and giving heart! She is a friend for life! All the best to your family and Christina!

[@sophiawalters7947]

Powerful words Fumi

[@jadore_stella]

Mama you always touch me you always talk to me always that's why I watched you follow you can't wait for your episodes including tonight especially this episode you touch me in every way from childhood to adulthood to this very moment as I'm writing this thank you fumi❤🎉

[@rochellegainous796]

That’s correct

[@ekenechristyike5461]

🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 Your blessed me today Fumi. Very enlightening discuss. Self awareness is very key for every human endeavor... success and even just living ones life.❤

[@brandartiststudio]

This one was so inspiring and helpful ❤.

[@tamarahenderson5241]

So so profound

[@starbuck5228]

This is an eye opening thank you sister Fumi 🙏🏾 ❤️ 💕 💖

[@aidakazi5109]

This was everything Auntie Fumi! Exactly what I’m going through but I was doubting if I’m doing right , so you came as confirmation!! Thank youuuu!🙏 God bless you ! Keep the fire 🔥 burning and keep being you!!

[@MsTima-eg1xe]

Indeed, knowing ourselves is a must for anyone who needs to say yes or no…❤

[@ZonyWest]

Excellent!

[@nomsatorcida9612]

Hi Aunty Fumi, thank you for this video. Would you please make a video on confidence. I am an introvert and I find myself not being able to express myself properly and I sometimes feel misunderstood.

[@AurahLove]

But..... what if you do not have such pple in ur life. Because apart from my husband and kids., I really do not have anyone else I can think of that wants to see me get ahead or prosper in any way., some have even blocked some of the ways I had come up with to better my life. With my family, I feel no support whatsoever, and it's sad coz I truly love them, but it's harder now as I grow up knowing that love has never and will prob never be reciprocated. I am a cancer, and I've realized that we are easier to use mostly because of our unconditional love and generosity. It's very frustrating and has weighed me down over the years. It's so hard to love pple whose birthdays you remember, but year on end, never ever remember yours smh. Anyways, thanks for all the tips and advice, Aunty Fumi. It is easier said than done for me, but I will continue to try. God bless you

[@katieyarbrough2483]

Hi my beautiful darling. I love that color on you. Thank you so much for this talk. It was really needed. All of my life, I never knew all of this. I to was one that suffered in silence. Had I known these things, I wouldn’t have had all of the breakups I had, because I wouldn’t have started a relationship with them. I could have been happily married by now. So many years wasted . Never again 🙅🏻‍♀️

[@zillahbannis198]

You look amazing Fumi youre such an inspiration

[@blackbakaraox4207]

Waw amazing advice, thanks 🙏🏾 ❤❤

[@JourneywithKasitti]

Your hair is so so beautiful.

[@rachealkadete6141]

@ Auntie Fumi - 5 love languages is a fantastic book for people to build self awareness x

[@barbarafreeman345]

Beautiful ❤️

[@reginatabb4068]

We live We love your look❤

[@jessicamakosso5835]

So true sister

[@lulu-xt5gs]

Thank you Fumi for this priceless teaching❤

[@nashaylasmith1977]

I love the advice you gave. I was just thinking about this a few days ago what it meant to actually know yourself and who you are ? What perfect timing 😊

[@iam_trinikimmy]

Sister Fumi, this is some really stellar advice that you are giving out here. Thank you so much. You have always been so hopeful and encouraging and inspirational. All the best to you & your family. Love from T&T!

[@joanmolley2810]

Yeah she is. We were in high school together.

[@RainbowAfterAStorm]

🎀💯🙏💝Thanks Aunty Fum'....

[@carol7roberts]

Fumi, you are a Good and Perfect Gift from God. This is Wisdom 101. Thanks so much for your generosity of Spirit. I watch your Channel everyday without fail. Its part of my daily sustenance. God Bless you Queen Fumi 🙏🏾✝️💜👑💎😘

[@Rue580]

Looking good Fumi ❤

[@sandyjohnson4701]

Fumi thanks for this video!, I am in y 50s and still learning! We need a part 11 if that is possible 🎉🎉🎉🎉 as a people we never learnt this. We learnt how to do soooo many things but never how to met ourselves 😢

[@inspiringyoutobecompletely9948]

Looking Fab as always ❤❤

[@amyestherndiaye4436]

MY BEST BEAUTIFUL WOMAN IN THIS WORLD SIS FUMI YOU ARE TGE MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMAN IN THIS WORLD EVERYBODY IN FRENCH COMMUNITY AGRÉE WITH ME ❤❤❤❤ I WIN ❤❤❤❤ SHE IS INTELLIGENT WISE AND BEAUTIFUL AND BLESSED THANK YOU LORD JÉSUS-CHRIST ❤❤❤❤❤

[@zillafarmer7095]

I just love listening to you when I can , because you're so real and that's exactly how I am too . Bless your heart ❤❤

[@kelechionyemuru1537]

Ma'am Fumi. Thank you so much for this video. This is helpful. Thank you

[@tnwtr7097]

Looking head-to-toe beautiful. Wonderful topic and video.

[@patriciakasenge9927]

Thank you Aunty Fumi, I love it here ❤

[@zion6477]

It's always a pleasure to be a part of fumi nation and get the gems on discovering yourself. very good topic more of this... it was enlightening

[@tashadavis2491]

Hi Fumi I love you, and your channel. I'm watching your videos, going through a bad break up of 5 yrs, im at a low point in my life. Any advice is very much appreciated, im 50 yrs old and Happy holidays

[@jenniferjohnson2935]

You could not have said it any clearer....working on me...tolerance....❤

[@ruthpartridge6314]

I really needed thank you

[@chaamookodi]

Fabolous, fantastic an inspiring message indeed 👍😘👌😄🙏

[@sallym3946]

Thank you for this wonderful message...can you also talk about toxic parents who always want to take from you am really struggling to cut them off but I feel so tired and drained by their behaviour