HOW TO GET YOUR BABY TO SLEEP THROUGH THE NIGHT BY 3 MONTHS

[@mimadominicnyamweya8799]

Every mom should watch this! sleep deprivation can lead to postpartum depression, irritability and impatience... this is just the best video

[@vickybabe765]

This it’s so trueeee

[@Lisa-ih7fk]

I don't want my baby to sleep 12 hours, I'd be happy with 4! My boy wakes every 1-3 hours and has since day 1, he's almost 10 weeks 😴

[@agatabrzo]

Lol. Ask her how long did it last. It was just a phase, not a miracle.

[@juliathomas95]

1. consistency 2. sound machine 3. curtains 4. swaddle 5. naps no longer than 2hrs 6. pausing 7. no awake baby in the crip 8. dream feeding

[@fayebeedill]

This here is what has been working for us too. The dream feeding during the night is what helped immensely!

[@marketahoppova8779]

Also, adding warm bath or wiping body with warm cloth helps them to relax and sleep longer.

[@Hgsquaredd]

Wait. What’s pausing? 😅

[@laviolenscia1992]

At what age?

[@surlespasdondine]

just for any moms out there: At 3 months it's completely normal for a baby to still wake up and nurse.

[@shreelaxmi1000]

At 3 months and beyond.. up until 2 years!

[@surlespasdondine]

psn_mm156 yes!!!!

[@ClaudiaOuda]

More than normal, actually essential to keep the milk going, I know 2 ladies who's milk diminished by 6 months because baby slept 8-9 h and they didn't pump

[@gemmacotter89]

Yes and also reduces risk of SIDS :/

[@rominaurlich5951]

My baby wasn’t normal then she sleep all night since she born lol

[@Sam-qt5ff]

Just for other moms, it’s actually a sign of a healthy (young) baby that they wake frequently to feed or to be settled. This actually protects against SIDS as they do not get into as deep of a sleep. Please read into this moms. It’s such a short time of sleep deprivation, and as a mom of multiples, believe me, I know how hard it can be! You’ll make it through

[@tylergriffin4436]

This video is dangerous. Wakefulness in babies is completely NORMAL and VITAL.

[@Almay20]

Yeah I was wondering… aren’t they supposed to wake up and eat?

[@sylvanafow1340]

@J H amen! My baby sleeps about 9 hours every night since around week 8. He wakes up feeling well rested and hungry. I spoke with his pediatrician and asked if I should be waking him up to feed and he said to not do it. That he will wake up when he is hungry (said his digestive system is maturing. Hence, he does not need to eat every two hours) and that rest is just as needed for development. Also, babies don't know how to move from one sleep cycle to rhe next, that's why (not always) they kind of wake up, but if you give it a minute, they will move onto the next. Then, they will learn to do it just like we do. Many times, we rush to pick them up and feed them thinking that they are hungry. Most of the time, we are just waking them up (babies even cry in their sleep) and making them upset.

[@HarrietD-ph7bw]

Okay. Everybody here needs to read Healthy Sleep Habits by Dr. Weissbluth. He explains that frequent night waking BEFORE THE AGE of 3 months is protective against SIDS. However, once the circadian rhythm is established, the function of frequent night wakings changes to be socially motivated, not biologically. There are genetic and social factors at play, yes, but the perpetuation of night waking is motivated by parent response.

[@japan8o826]

I talked with my baby about trying these tips, he proceeded to crap himself and now he just pretends to sleep until I close my eyes. Your guys results may vary

[@ServantStatusMinistries]

😂😂😂😂

[@othellorucker8107]

😂😂😂😂

[@mindyobusiness7302]

I literally watch this video once a week. You have helped me SOOO much! My 2 month old went from waking up every hour to sleeping 6 hr stretches during the night. I seriously can’t thank you enough!

[@saundhm1]

Did you buy the swaddles?

[@steffanyramos2181]

My almost 4 month old goes to sleep around 10 pm & wakes up around 8:30 am , I didn’t have to put him on a schedule or nothing, he did it on his own 😭💙

[@cloclo5290]

That sounds amazing 😅 I have to be up at 4am tho due to work

[@yejin1950]

Same to my baby girl she did it on her own 😭❤️

[@nkbrxoxo9994]

Luckyyyy uuu !!! 😎👌🤪🥲

[@gabbytarlue1561]

That’s awesome. My son is also about the same month. He gets his last feeding by 9 and by 10 he’s sleeping. On a good night he usually wake up at 9am but when I’m tired I’ll push him until 10. I usually make him take a nap when I’m tired or need time to get things done

[@tamikaqueeley599]

That’s a blessing. My 5 month has been giving me in between 4-6 hours. 😞

[@Lilymay2017]

Wish I saw this video when my little guy was born. He slept 12 hours straight by the time he was 8 weeks old. Main things I implemented was a darkened room, sleeping in crib, love to dream swaddle, no Paci, no rocking, just put straight in crib fully awake, and a bedtime of 5 pm - 5 am. Things were going great! I had gone back to work part-time (25-28 hours a week, Fridays off) Right when he hit 5 months, he got hit hard with teething/growth spurts. His schedule went off the rails for a month and I was in tears because I was not used to being sleep deprived. Now we’re at 6 months and he still wakes up once a night but we’re working on trying to drop that night feed. I just learned to enjoy by baby and stopped stressing 24/7 about his sleep schedule. It’ll all fall back in place with time.

[@nathicana1349]

Yes; no need to steep train torture

[@Likethetacosauce]

Any other dad's here watching these types of videos?😅

[@melvynsetia56]

Yeah

[@whistlingbirdsmusic]

Oooh yeah . Im the night watchman and caregiver dad for my 3month old baby during night time. I bottle feed her with formula while her mother sleeps with her elder sister. I do the thing every 4 hours at night. I normally pause feeding for every 30ml in order to burp. That is a comfort to her and fells asleep as soon as she gets enough milk. Unless she would end up crying 😫😫😫😫 or wide opened eyes 😳😳😳😳 in the middle of the night.😖😖😖😖 So my fellow dads take your time to feed while burping out the air which is trapped. Im my babys case she easily sleeps more than 6 hours at night without demanding for milk. When she finally gets it she find it difficult sucking milk and begins twisting her body as if she couldnt burp. So the assumption is the air(gas) was produced by her self in her tummy as she was starving and its actually not the trapped air while sucking milk. So i decided not to starve her more than 5 hours at night and continue her regular feeding schedule even at night whether she demands or not. Finally it worked for me. So at night, 5hrs mark is my deadline where she gets free milk without a demand.

[@AzNFiR]

It’s 5AM... I wanna sleep so bad haha

[@AMT008]

Yup, 5am and looking all over KZbin for solutions 🤣🤣

[@whistlingbirdsmusic]

@@AMT008 you ll have to wait till the karma ends bro 😥😥.

[@alexissabbagh5974]

The baby time is so short. By my fourth baby I threw a schedule expectation out the window. My last two were breastfed. I don’t know how breastfeeding moms are able to nurse and also get their babies to sleep in their own bed. The only way either of us get sleep is with her on my chest and dream feed on demand. Letting her cry even a few minutes at night causes her to fully wake up and takes longer to get her back to sleep. Good job for the mommas that are able to somewhat keep their pre pregnant schedule but for those mommas that can’t just know it passes fast and don’t stress. Your baby will be grown and gettting married in the blink of an eye. 💗

[@LovesDarkBlue]

So are you co sleeping then? I’m a first time, single, breastfeeding mom and my baby will NOT stay asleep when I put her down. She screams right away but will sleep for HOURS if I’m holding her or if she’s on my chest but then I can’t sleep with her like that...

[@korab.23]

Thank you. My son is also fully awake once he gets to full-on crying and then it's an hour and a half or more. I can usually wait him out if he's restless or stirring but crying leads to being awake.

[@BreakfastDragon]

Pumping and bottle feeding at night really helped with that! Also, my baby has zero nipple confusion.

[@peach1187]

Love it. I dream feed baby from 3 am on and off till we wake up. I suggest side nursing!! My babe won’t awake ..he just fusses and then I offer boob. We both fall asleep again EASY

[@abigailloar956]

Yeah ive taken more of a loose approach with my little man. If he cries it really wakes him. Takes 2 hours to get him back down and he loves a good snuggle and breast feed for sleep and he wont want that someday so i just enjoy it.

[@marcelapleitez4433]

I'm a nanny and this is pretty much the techniques I use to put the baby to sleep. Now hes 7 months but he started to sleep thru the night since hes 3 months. And the naps ufff definitely consistency is the key!

[@rebecaacevedo2048]

Blacking out his room, and moving him to his crib at 4months. Definitely has been a game changer! My baby sleeps 12 hours straight, plus two naps during the day❤️ great video!

[@thebeautywriter244]

Please help me!! I have a week old newborn and i need help sleep training now or for later? How did you do it??

[@rebecaacevedo2048]

Starskyy first month was definitely hard especially while i was breast feeding. He would wake up every 2-3 hours to feed. At 3ish months i started putting him to bed at the exact time each night, fed him before bed, rocked him a little bit till he was a bit tired (still awake though) and put him down. Let him sooth himself, usually he would cry 5-15 min. And sleep close to 6-8 hrs at night by then. At 4 months i moved him to his own room , with black out curtains. I believe that helped stretch out his sleep to 11-12 hours for sure. With two naps a day, but he only naps if its in a dark room though 😭 hope it helps! 🙏🏼

[@thebeautywriter244]

@@rebecaacevedo2048 thank you so much

[@katarinamijic4377]

My baby is four months and sleeps through the night! I never did any sleep training other than making sure we start our bed time routine at 7p and I let him drop night time feedings on his own

[@Yooncelebtarot]

Just wanted to let you know that I followed your tips... bought the two books you recommended and my son sleeps through the night since three months for 11 hours. He is still doing it at 5 months so thank you.

[@rosarioortiz93]

I'm a second time mom, and I just learned this time around, that babies have about a 45 minute sleep cycle. Meaning that after 45 mins, they sort of wake up, whine a little, but if given about 5 minutes they will fall back to sleep on their own and have a good 1.5hr to 2hr nap, or longer depending how old they are. Of course if baby is full on crying then nap time is over. lol

[@zalovestory1]

I actually attend to my baby every time he wakes up after 7pm, (usually he wakes every 3-4 hours for feeds). I never knew that I can try to stretch out the feeds, I’m so glad I watched this I will definitely try this. My son is sleep trained so he will definitely sooth himself back to sleep for a little longer if I don’t go in and feed him. Thank you so much!!!

[@Virgoae]

My daughter is 15 months and still doesn’t sleep through the night😩😂😭moms don’t stress if your baby doesn’t sleep through the night. They will -eventually! Just enjoy them being a baby💕

[@thisiskarime3781]

THIS! my baby sleeps between 4-6 hours through the night and she’s one month. I’m very interested in sleep training her however I also feel like I should just worry about enjoying her while she’s a baby because she will end up sleeping through the night on her own.

[@Sam-qt5ff]

My ‘baby’ started sleeping through the night at 30 months..no longer a baby! She’d get up for a comfort nurse time to time. Totally natural. Now she’s the best sleeper out of the kids! Full 12 hours every night.

[@Chfhfh]

Thank you for this statement. My son is sleeping 4 hours and I’ll just have to take it lol

[@ashleycurry8112]

She would be sleeping through the night if you had implemented a strict schedule. It’s not too late you would just have to be strict. Her not sleeping through at 15 months although can be considered normal isn’t necessarily good. And most likely is causing you problems during the day. Like tantrums, overstimulation oftener and quickly, over active, hard to sooth when it is nap time or bed time ECT. These things are caused by not sleeping well at night. But can be fixed if moms would actually stop thinking that they HAVE to follow the child’s path instead of creating the child’s path. Allowing them to dictate how they are going to sleep is the first problem. The second is thinking that having a schedule to the T is cruel or hard when in fact the hard thing is still waking up at almost 2 years old.

[@lunna8380]

I am doing a lot of the things mentioned in this video and my baby is 8 weeks doing 2 feedings at night😄 will continue to work on him sleeping through the night. Thank you Nicole!

[@AshJ2203]

Thanks for this. My baby is about to turn a month old in a few days and I wanted to try to start somewhat of a schedule here in a couple weeks or so. Right now I’m just in survival mode but I have 3 other kids so it’s important that I start trying to get into a routine when he’s ready. Right now he is up for 4-6 hours straight at night from about 6pm till midnight and it’s been rough no matter what I do he won’t sleep at all in between those times. When he finally does fall asleep he sleeps well but it’s been a struggle having to be up at 7am to get my kids ready for school. I just remind myself everyday that he’s only this little for such a short amount of time and to embrace it.

[@beans9499]

That question why does everyone ask that question " Do they sleep through the night " well most newborns dont so what do you think ??

[@RealEstateJana]

YES! We followed this same approach (same books!) with the addition of "Cherish the First Six weeks" and we also found that around 10-12 weeks our son was sleeping through the night (we continued a "dream feed" until about 12 weeks by then he was so sleepy he wouldn't even be interested in eating. (I was exclusively breast feeding) He is now 7 months old...no sleep regressions, sleeping 7:30pm-7am. We have had to make adjustments as he has changed and grown (sometimes adding an extra nap and feeding if he wakes up early from naps) Hard work to keep yourself on track (we wake him up each morning at 7am) especially when you want to sleep in! We have travelled extensively and been thrown "off schedule" on travelling days, but by keeping the same routines (Sleep - Eat - Play) and giving him the same sleeping cues, he has always re-adjusted well :)

[@Nicolelelagreen]

So awesome! I love hearing that this worked for so many other moms as well. It's confirmation that it works well and babies are growing healthily. I agree, not easy, takes work and consistency. God bless you and your family!

[@krystynachen]

So lucky my son has been sleeping through the night since birth. He’s 3 weeks on Friday

[@HollyBadger56]

Tell us your secrets!!!!!!

[@krystynachen]

Holly Hob sidelying nursing, bedsharing on the floor with a huge Japanese futon bed, and elimination communication (potty training from birth)

[@KG-kk3ef]

I thought you are meant to feed your baby every 3 hours. I wake my baby up to feed when she was a new born. She is 6 weeks today.

[@krystynachen]

@@KG-kk3ef I didn’t wake my baby. He nursed when he woke up. Or dream fed. He’s 5 months now

[@mrs.kimminjungjeonpark5872]

How about feeding the baby every 3 hours? I woke my baby every 3 hours. She's 2 weeks old now.

[@markysophia9367]

I have to say, I was a little skeptical about the pause (love the book too), but I decided to implement it from day 1 since we got home, and it is very useful. It is not even a minute usually. He is 6 week old and only wakes once at night. Love your routine schedule and your whole, philosophy, very close to what I do and it works for me too :) Thanks for your ideas! I’ll try the dream feed!

[@MostarBeauty]

My six month old still wakes up to feed twice a night (1am &5am) which is normal. New parents shouldn’t expect their baby to sleep through the night by three months. That is expected between 6+ months when babies are old enough. I’m so angry that there is so many people and terrible marketing especially on the Internet - KZbin. Every baby is different and has different needs. Each baby has his or her own pace for feeding and frequency same for sleep. Some babies sit at 4-6 months some sit 6+ months because each baby is working on a specific set of skills for him or her at the right time. And every milestone for your baby will come at the right timing. There’s no need to worry. And babies don’t need a whole lot of baby gear and stuff. Can we just go back to basics? That is great you feel proud your baby slept through the night but it’s TOTALLY MISLEADING to new parents (I am a first time mom) I am still underslept, breastfeeding with mono, and I am not complaining. We wanted our babies, our babies are not to blame for us being tired.

[@jenjay5965]

I’m 5 months pregnant and just overwhelmed with all the info I need to know..... this is really helpful, and I think I need these books you’ve been reading to thoroughly know what to do step by step.

[@Nicolelelagreen]

Congrats on the baby! Try not to stress, just read info that is most important to you and the rest will fall into place

[@Nicolelelagreen]

Books linked in the bio!

[@jenjay5965]

Thanks so much!

[@Misuneverse]

I naturally would wait to see if my baby was just whining or if he really needed me. If he continued to cry and it got louder, I would then pick him up.

[@theblankpages7561]

I’d like to add that as a sleep consultant myself if you go to AAP guideline sleeping through the night is anywhere from 8-12 hours. Your baby is technically sleeping through night at 8 hours so pat yourself on the backs if they are and for those whose aren’t don’t worry they will eventually. Also BEWARE the first 2-4 weeks don’t push a schedule because they still need to be waking up to feed until the reach back to their birth weight every 2.5-3 hours on average. Talk to your pediatrician at the 4 week if it’s okay to let them sleep until they wake up hungry.

[@jennymacias7304]

I’ve also been told by pediatrician that 5 hour stretches is considered sleeping through the night for newborns

[@theblankpages7561]

@@jennymacias7304 Take what pediatrician says with a grain of salt they aren’t certified in sleep just pediatric with basic knowledge of other things unless specifically have the credentials for it. APP guidelines are the national standard. And by newborns what age specifically ?....because any newborn baby younger than 4 week should NEVER go 5 hour straight with out food. 3 hours is the absolute MAX I let them sleep especially if previous feeding was a rough one. And by 3 hours I start it from the time they start eating not from when they go back to sleep

[@ashleeciballos4396]

I'm still pregnant but wanted to know as much as I can before bringing baby home and this video was SO helpful!

[@michaybester3301]

This has been the most helpful sleeping video ever!!! Thank you so much!!! My baby is only waking once through the night the little soothing tips were a game change!!! Love your content I’ve shared your video to all my mom friends 💕💕

[@amandaaguirre8387]

YES! I’m a first time mom and due in March. This is the philosophy I was planning on implementing for our babygirl and I can tell a lot of my other mom friends didn’t really agree with it but having a schedule/routine has always been so important for my husband and I so I wanted to consider that when raising our daughter. Great video!

[@Nicolelelagreen]

Yes! Just like adults, schedules and routines affect babies bodys and minds as well!

[@cpg86259]

NicoleandRichie Actually the research does not support this. Babies sleep needs are not the same as adults or even toddlers. Yes babies do recognise patterning but there is no good evidence for ‘sleep schedules’ under 6 months and night waking helps keep breastmilk supply up in the early months and is thought to be protective against SIDS. But good for you, your baby is sleeping well and that means you are getting a good sleep too 😊

[@JoeBidensdirtydiaper]

@@cpg86259shut up

[@jellib.110]

Loved Bringing up Bebé and Babywise as a young mom. Now I'm preparing to sleep train my 5th baby and still using the Babywise method that's worked beautifully for me for the other children. I will say that my 4th baby was my hardest to get to sleep through the night but I'm convinced that it was because I waited until she was 3 months old to do it. Younger babies are easier to train.

[@lindsmh]

I'm honestly curious why anyone would dislike this. Seriously, please tell me! I get that not all babies will sleep through the night at the age she mentions, but it's still no reason to dislike her video, unless there is something else I'm missing.

[@steffmorgan3185]

sillykins I think it’s because, videos and mums like this make other mums feel like their baby should be sleeping through. She’s also encouraging pressure on babies to sleep through. It’s annoying.

[@lihonghicken]

If your baby is sleeping through the night, do you have to get up in the middle of night to pump. How can you last 12 hours without relief?

[@ninarechin2531]

In regards to the sound machine, keep in mind of how loud the volume is because you dont want it to be like a concert in the room and you dont want to possibly damage their hearing in the long run. A good swaddle/sleep sack is definitely key to sleeping comfortably. When we moved our girl into her own room at 4m and put her in a sleep sack, it was a game changer. She started sleeping through the night by 6m. We loves the Halo sleep sacks first and then we got the larger Burts Bees sleep sacks on Amazon.

[@HonesTeaBeauTea]

My sons name is Jayce. Needed 5 letters so I added the Y.. Routine is key. All 3 of my kids came home sleeping through the night. My gbaby- not so much. Hes so gassy. I may try the swaddle. I have one but not that one. I comment as im going. Not gonna lie- you have some great tips. The stop and pause I def agree with. Its just getting my gassy gbaby to bed. Sometimes he stays up for like 5 hours straight at a month old. Ive never seen that. I think hes constipated too. Once asleep he only wakes once during the night to eat and its not a full awake other than that he sleeps 7 hours. Yes diaper changes to keep them awake works great.

[@laurengriffins9459]

Thank you! Such a great video! I watched it twice, one time with my husband. Tried it once and already seeing the results! Baby had only one night feeding (dad fed him and I pumped), and woke up once more but after comforting him he went back to sleep. Mama is feeling energetic today!

[@Nicolelelagreen]

Oh that makes me so glad!!

[@Nicolelelagreen]

Praying for continued success!

[@meganmarino2012]

Mommas! I had a baby that slept thru the night basically since birth. At 4 months that went out the window! It’s been over a month of sleep regression and it’s killing me not realizing how spoiled I was prior. I thought STTN was a milestone she would never go back on but I was very wrong! If ur baby sleeps thru the night enjoy every second of it bc it can change randomly at any point!

[@aishaf9834]

Hi . I’m facing the very same situation. When did the sleep regression go away?

[@angiolinaculot1442]

So is mine... Did you find a solution??

[@meganmarino2012]

@@aishaf9834 it never did. I tried absolutely everything possible, and eventually resorted to sleep training at 8 months old. Before sleep training she was waking up probably 20 times a night, and being a single working mom I just couldn’t do it anymore. Totally recommend sleep training for everyone! (As long as ur baby is healthy, over 6 months old, and you’ve ruled out any other reasons that may cause their sleep disruption.

[@meganmarino2012]

@@angiolinaculot1442 sleep training! It did wonders

[@olabukowiec4402]

All babies are different. I’ve got 2 kids who bot had THE SAME routines and one didn’t start sleeping though until he was 8 months old, my second baby slept through since 8 weeks old 🤷🏻‍♀️ it’s perfectly normal for babies to still wake until they’re 1. What works for one baby might not work for another. Some babies love routine others like to lead the way.

[@nicholewalmsley5819]

😀 so true

[@millakalcheva155]

Go girl! Good for you for doing it the first time around! I’m due in March with my second and will be doing this, I was not brave enough with my first and had to do a gentle cry it out when he was 10 months old which was REALLY hard for me and him so totally agree with you that you need to help them build that up slowly. Moms out there that coddle their babies for years not helping them self soothe, that’s what bothers me now that I know the truth!

[@irockstar7744]

This is soooo good! Great information!. I did takingcarababies and I agree with everything you said and we basically did the same thing to get my little guy to sleep through the night.. good job mama!

[@staciemcquade4207]

Amberlyn same here!! Loved this video. We did the same with our baby and was also sleeping 12 hours by 3 months old 🙂

[@saraitos6870]

I just tried it last night and it worked wonders woke up only once for a feeding And it worked well she slept so good thank you !!

[@katekarmody9343]

My baby has been sleeping for 8-13 hrs every night since beginning of month 3 😊

[@RahiiChan]

I just wanted to say that your methods are really on point! I am studying Art Therapy and we learned in "developmental psychology" all the things about observing the baby, don't feed to sleep e.t.c Out Prof told us a story he experienced with a patient that he had the problem to always fall asleep while crying because his parents desperately wanted to bring him to sleep while he was just crying for something else as a baby. You are doing a great job and you are a wonderful considerate mom! ❤️ God bless you and your family. Love from Germany

[@Nicolelelagreen]

Thank you! Wow great confirmation from actual research, I appreciate you sharing that with me

[@kbravo9659]

I'm on baby #3 and I have learned some new tips from this video. Luckily I sleep trained my first 2 kids successfully but this time around I'm breasfeeding so as soon as my baby starts to stir and whine I hop up and feed her right away. I'm wanting to start pushing her feedings a little further apart so I can get more rest and I know she's getting more than enough milk before I put her to bed so she can sleep a longer stretch at night. Now I got some tips to try!!

[@ninarechin2531]

Yeah, so after the 8 week newborn stage, i think it's okay to start pausing at every single cry. Around 3m you should start to learn what each cry means, if they are hungry, teething, in pain, need a diaper change or if they are just fussy and want a snuggle. Self soothing is good for babies to learn, it teaches independence at an early age. Just wait a few seconds and listen to the cry and determine if they need you, and you will also learn what each cry means by doing this.

[@jastallion45]

new dad with a 2wk old, 5am up watching this video :) .... great video.

[@Nicolelelagreen]

Love that! thank you!

[@corinachakalian8914]

This is exactly what I need to be watching at 3 am with my 3 week old 😂 thank you for posting!

[@Jayleenn]

Lmao me af!

[@libyaalrubai6377]

lol same here

[@mariefischer4192]

Same here! I feel you 😹

[@sheidaasnaf6920]

Same here, 4am, with 3 weeks old

[@maihan7926]

This is so great! I just started sleep train 3 days ago and im not sure how long will it take for him to get use to it! And not so sure if my nap routine is right - it needs tweaking. Did your baby fight your training ? When did he start to embrace it? Can you do a step by step video of your nap routine and hear the journey of your babies getting familiar with it and the hic cups?? Would love to hear your story!

[@ina.beauty]

I enjoy your channel and watch your videos. A also have a 3 months baby boy, who has some development delay, and poblem with his eyes, and we have a IRM on 10 february! Please pray for us, to be all ok, and nothing serious.

[@Nicolelelagreen]

I will pray for your baby boy and family!

[@ina.beauty]

@@Nicolelelagreen we have the irm and it s seems all is ok. We have to see the neurological doctor to see his opinion. I read that might be a visual delay maturation

[@marieknows5892]

My 3 month old son is already a(my opinion) a good sleeper, goes to sleep wakes up like 4 to 6 hours later, feed him the bottle and goes back to sleep for another two hours. Idk some people may consider this great or not. Ill take what I can get. Lol

[@thisiskarime3781]

5 hours is considered sleeping through the night for a newborn so that’s great! My one month old already sleeps for the same amount of hours too and I feel so much better now that I’m getting more sleep. I was starting to feel very stressed out and sad.

[@dvo1060]

Takin cars babies helped me so much!! He’s sleeping 8hours at 8 weeks old

[@veronicataylor9831]

yessss! her course is so good

[@PageDanielle]

Moms on Call is where it’s at!! This was a total game changer for us 🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@Faithfuljudy]

what do u mean on call? I don't know how I'm gonna work again lol

[@tawnyb1560]

Judy Tirado it’s the book name ‘moms on call’

[@dezyandco5855]

My baby goes to bed no later than 9:10pm until 6-7am in the morning. She sleeps the whole time. I do have to wake her up if she sleeps longer than 7am to eat (this way it doesn’t mess up her eating schedule). She takes 2-3 naps during the day, but lately she’s only been taking 2 naps a day. Long naps, around 1-2hrs sometimes longer

[@sarikatimmi]

so ive found that if you can catch those cues, sucking noises and stuff, just grab them and feed them most of the time they wont even wake up if you catch it early and they go right back down. this extends sleep by 2-3 hrs for me i have found. good luck

[@stephaniehipolito8804]

WOW I was trying to get my baby to sleep in my arms while watching this and I put him in his bassinet and he started crying. I paused and tried letting him cry for about 3 minutes and then tried the soothing tricks. He fell straight to sleep in his bassinet!!!!

[@Nicolelelagreen]

Woo hoo! You have no idea how happy that makes me :)

[@sondermusic4476]

Love the opening! Although it’s sad to see so many KZbin moms having to defend themselves before their video even starts....? Great info thank you!

[@jessynicholls]

Inget the tips... but Dr recommend that sleep training should start after theb3 Months! If not 4....

[@AA-hw5nm]

Thank you for your tips and sharing. I believe you have one child. The struggle is very real when there are siblings in different ages.

[@BabySleepTeam]

You've got some amazing tips to get your little guy sleeping for 12 hours by 3 months of age. Thanks so much for sharing x

[@natalymejia3484]

Beautifully explained. You gave enough details yet kept it precise and short. I will start implementing all these tips asap with my almost 3 month old baby boy!!

[@kriscaldwell4476]

Thanks Nicole! My baby is 12 weeks now and just started sleeping through the night 830-5 am since 10 weeks ish but everything you’ve done I have done based off readings. I haven’t read the Bebe book (just heard about it from my daughters volleyball coach and now your video). Thank you for confirming that I am on track for good routine and sleeping habits! I am huge on routine and scheduling because I truly believe it works best for our family. Love your KZbin channel, awesome job. ☺️

[@Nicolelelagreen]

You're on track mama! Great job!

[@laurahausam168]

So I only got to 17:40 on ur video and so glad you made this...Im almost 35 weeks pregnant and very nervous but nervous because I want to have a “schedule” for my baby when it’s appropriate. I have worked with infants in the daycare and realizing now that I’ve done the “pause” and observe just didn’t realize it. I want to have consistency for my baby which will help with our family.

[@Nicolelelagreen]

Yes! Consistency and a schedule will help both baby and the family transition. Good luck to you

[@alexandreasaunders9300]

I love this. I’m pregnant with baby number two and I’m so glad I did this with my first who is now 15 months. All of my friend’s still have to lay down with there kids and sleep with them. It’s a lot better to start these things in the beginning.

[@lorissabarrera5570]

My 3 month old daughter falls asleep around 2:30-3:00am and won’t get up till 12:30pm-1:00pm I got blessed with a good sleeper just trying to sleep train her to sleep earlier and wake up around 9 or 10am🤦🏽‍♀️

[@happilyeveralien]

Thank you for sharing your experience and giving advice with openness, and without claiming you have the answers for everybody. It’s just rare, and I’m glad you can release the pressure for moms out there by reassuring that every child is different. And I’m sure people are helped through your experience 😊

[@Nicolelelagreen]

You are so so sweet, thank you! I really appreciate your kind words:)

[@blueh7991]

She titled her video this way to get many views. It's impossible from a medical side of view to let a 3 months old to sleep through out the night on a daily basis. Let a lone is flat out unhealthy to not feed during the night at least once. This baby will have many issue as he grows up unfortunately! Hope you all well. Just keep doing what's best for the child and don't be selfish.

[@Warefamily2024]

I want to discuss sleep and general “transitioning” for my second baby coming in the fall. With my 1st, I coslept and breastfed for 2 years. I liked having her near me because I wanted to encourage that instinct and bonding especially after she was literally part of my body for 9 months... However, I struggled with knowing when to “transition” to the next phase and I found each transition was SO agonizing for all of us. Examples: > when to transition from being with mom (co-sleeping or bassinet for example), to say a CRIB + if baby is right next to mom in whatever capacity and they dry or wake are you grab right away or put arm on them right away doesn’t this make them dependent on you for that instant response (not saying it’s bad) just posing question of - does it make that later transition of them self soothing etc more difficult when you suddenly aren’t responding and what does this all look like. I mean at 3am I wasn’t into letting my 1st scream and scream when she woke so that my hard working husband would then also wake up. > when and HOW to cut off night BREASTMILK so that it’s easier and HOW/ what to do to get them to sleep and no longer be dependent on those night feedings? I felt like there was yelling and arguing because my 1st was a toddler when I finally took the milk away at night(2yrs). I couldn’t handle not getting any sleep after 2 years of giving my first my all. 🥹 Things I have been told so far: > I have learned/heard that not letting a baby fall asleep ON you if you’re breastfeeding so they don’t associate “I only sleep if I am on mommy” is a good place to start > putting them in a crib when they are tired but not yet asleep so they “fall” asleep in their physical space (crib) > that using crib for naps right away when they are a newborn will more easily develop the habit as opposed to car sleeping more than a crib or a side sleeper more than a crib.. > keeping a lot of noise so they can sleep deep in noise as opposed to being a 👻 when they are asleep. My first is such a light sleeper and we never made a peep! Sorry this is long winded. I don’t even know what my exact questions are. I just need a better flow and plan to be confident in this second time around that May have worked for several others. So please help! I am more open minded than I used to be! Any little nuance you can share I’d love to hear!! Thanks

[@daqueen95]

I love your video! Im big babywise person..i need some confidence lol advice. My baby is 12.5 weeks old now...and shes been 7-9 hours a night since she was 8 weeks old. But its gotten to the point where I want her to sleep 12 hours..but Idk how to edit my babywise schedule of 7am feed waketime nap 9:30 feed waketime nap 12:30 feed waketime nap 3:30 feed waketime nap 5:30-6:15 feed wake catnap 8:30-9...feed bedtime routine Then sometimes dreamfeed but she wont take it. Lately she wont nap consistently...the past 2 weeks ive been having naps strictly in her crib with the method you use. But idk how to start putting her to bed earlier if she still needs 6 feedings in 24 hrs and when to put her to bed then...

[@laurenmorgan881]

Ur getting up at all those times too?! I thought I was alone with my second baby, my 7 week year old. Every two damn hours. I'm so tired any advice

[@Hotchochero]

Most babies should sleep quite well by 3 months. Both of mine did just naturally really. Some people I know theirs do not sleep well. Every baby is different. .My daughter is 3 months and has been waking for one feed since 8 weeks. Usually by 4 months they sleep through amd she has done this once or twice already. Best tips are don't fuss too much, expecially after 8 weeks. Don't let them rely on rocking or you soothing to get to sleep. Feed, burp change and put them straight back down to sleep even if awake and they learn to self soothe.

[@Hgsquaredd]

Nice video. I’m praying this will help us. But how much do you feed your baby that he sleeps through the night?

[@lalahana111]

Hi! I wonder if it is dangerous to make their feeds longer than 4 hours. My pediatrician said that cannot pass more than 4 hours without breastfeeding, is it possible? I breastfeed on demand so Id like to know if it is ok to do that 🙏🏽

[@angelicabeasley3609]

My daughter is 3 weeks old and I’m DEFINITELY going to try these tips out!

[@Hgsquaredd]

My baby boy is 10 weeks now. I will be trying this method! I’m praying it will work. ❤

[@Hgsquaredd]

I’m back! Baby boy is 12 weeks now. The first night he slept for 7 friggin hours!!!!!! Omg ❤ Now, he is sleeping for 8 hours. I’m hoping soon it will be 12 hours! Everything will be alright new moms ❤

[@Hgsquaredd]

Nice video. I’m praying this will help us. But how much do you feed your baby that he sleeps through the night?

[@Hgsquaredd]

Update! Baby boy is not 12 weeks old and at 10 weeks he slept for 7 hours straight!! Thank you God! Now he sleeps for 8 hours! ❤ soon it will be 12 hours! Thank you.

[@Hgsquaredd]

Back here again. To memorize 😅

[@ketchness]

Everything I researched you essentially mentioned in the video. It’s a really good informative free video that should be shared EVERYWHERE! I didn’t do the cry it out because I just couldn’t do it man! Respect to any mum that can, but implemented a lot of things like what you mentioned and my goodness the difference in sleep was magnificent!

[@amberkeathley6838]

Extremely helpful video! My little guy is 7 weeks old and I’ll definitely be implementing these tips. Ordered the swaddle! Thank you for the code! 💙

[@jennielane6139]

All these work great if your baby’s temperament will allow it. Most people with difficult babies are just in survival mode 😐

[@Nicolelelagreen]

I totally get that. Most people don't ever try these techniques so they don't even know it might help :) I've had great feedback so far and I'm glad it's helping people.

[@nkebube]

Omgosh so true!!! Or if they have reflux or gas problems!! Surprisingly many moms do their research too but really not all babies are the same. Even within families baby sleep is so different.

[@steffmorgan3185]

No such thing as a “difficult” baby 😒

[@veronicataylor9831]

@@steffmorgan3185 hmm yeah no lol.. my baby is difficult. Doesn't mean she's bad or something wrong with her, but she is harrrrd to handle and keep calm.

[@KrystenStrunck]

So true

[@cindygreen3038]

I just watched the video 1 hour ago. I usually rock my baby to sleep. I simply put the white machine full blast (usually I play at mid volume) I watched for babe to get sleepy and put her down with her pacifier, she wined a little, so I did rock her a just for like 20 secs put her back down and left her to sleep. She is still sleeping! I have been rocking her for 20 minutes to fall asleep and this is a game changer. I hope it continues 😩. Thank you for the tips!

[@hollythomson442]

Such a great video. Really great advice esp when you are talking about pressing and waiting for a few moments to see what sort of cry your baby has. Sleep training isn't just for your baby to get them to sleep but a GREAT WAY OF YOURSELF LEARNING WHAT SORT OF CRY THEY HAVE . yes babies need alot of cuddles and holding but there is a massive difference between crys and sleep is one the most important part of your babies development.

[@Nicolelelagreen]

Yes! So so true!

[@KA-ky9nb]

My baby is six months old and still wakes every three hours to feeed and her naps are all over the place because anything I do just never works :/

[@treesuh587]

I just wanted to let you know this and video and a few things mentioned in the Raising Bebe book (which I hadn’t heard of before watching your video) has helped me and baby sleep through the night for the first time in 13 months. Thank you!

[@NurseKayceeHere]

My baby is five months now and I tried a few times to do this method but it didn’t work. She would just be so frustrated and hungry. I’m glad it worked for you guys though! I hope I can figure out a better way. Thankfully I stay home with her but she wakes up 1-3 times a night. We have been feeding and rocking her to sleep but it takes so long because she wakes up as soon as her head hits the mattress so I’m not sure what we are going to do but definitely going to keep praying and doing some research lol. Maybe this method is worth another try?

[@Nicolelelagreen]

SO sorry to hear that! Have you tried a sleep consultant yet?

[@yuliyakroi3531]

my baby was exactly like this up until 3months old.. I was exhausted. Couple of weeks ago I think she just grew out of it eventually. Now she is finally able to sleep in her crib. Naps arent the longest but better than sleeping in my arms all the time. Good luck and hopefully your baby will grow out of it too soon!

[@NurseKayceeHere]

Yuliya Kroi that’s awesome! She used to sleep so great until the four month sleep regression (she started teething) lol! Now it’s all out of wack! I’m considering taking Cara babies or a gentle version of the Ferber method.

[@NurseKayceeHere]

NicoleandRichie not yet but I’m considering taking Cara babies or a gentle version of the Ferber method. It took my husband and I three hours to get her to go to sleep last night with feeding and rocking. Ain’t nobody got time for that! 😂😂🤦🏼‍♀️😭

[@ajmuzz22]

..Excellent presentation.. 15 day old baby here. Your logic is spot on sister! Thank You for sharing your process..

[@hollyjoc97]

You’re a little young to be on KZbin!! 😉😙

[@dzomlamasina1560]

my baby will be 10 months old now, when he was younger he happened to sleep a couple of times from 9pm to 6am. The last 5 months dinner and fall asleep around 9pm. During the night he surely wakes up to eat once and sometimes 2x ... It's the same whether he ate milk before bed or cash, he just asks to eat and we are used to it ..

[@amrqz]

Thank you for this video! I am a ftm, and baby is 3 weeks old today! Your tips were very insightful; I never really thought about how certain actions can cause particular habits so quickly! Definitely want to implement some of these. Mahalo from Hawaii!

[@Nicolelelagreen]

[@amandagonzalez7608]

So proud of you Nicole, you’re doing a great job with Jace! And I love the reminder at the end, every mom needs to hear that! So many small victories that deserve being celebrated, sleeping through the night is just one of them. ❤️ And Jace sucking his fingers totally melts me!!! He’s so sweeeet!

[@Nicolelelagreen]

Thanks sista sista!

[@amirab45]

My son was sleeping through the night and then the 4 month sleep regression happened... 🥲

[@venusnichols9871]

Thank you so much this was a very informative video. I’m gonna definitely try some of these tips. My son is currently 2 months nearly 3 months and the longest he has slept during the night is 4/5 hours.

[@Nicolelelagreen]

Hope it helps!

[@sandyds9231]

Mine its 3hours

[@marie-leonieweidner]

I did Babywise with my 2 Children and we looved it!!

[@vanessamercado4960]

Im so happy I found this video. Literally sitting here 1 am watching this video while making sure my baby pacifier is not falling, so that she can go back to sleep! without having to pick her up. I've started implementing a routine for both naps and bed time a week ago. Man is so challenging. I am glad to hear you day that you went through what I am currently going through. I feel like I make progress and than she goes back to breaking the schedule. definitely encourage me to continue what I am doing. thank you so much your this video!!

[@Nicolelelagreen]

Vanessa you're so welcome! You're doing great mama! Its a work in progress FOR SURE. Praying for good health and good sleep for you guys

[@JanaeCrawford]

Thank you for this. Very informative definitely going to look into getting those books 😊

[@Nicolelelagreen]

Yes! They helped me so much!

[@Lullabubbyes]

New here... Love this video, and your channel. We started sleep training our 6mth old son, (no pick ups /holding/rocking) which was the whole premise of starting our channel. Within a few days he’s gone from being up every 2hrs to sleeping 6-7 hrs. Bliss

[@jessicaolanrewaju8146]

Lullabubbyes my lil one jus bout to turn 6m any advise on sleep training please....???

[@MyName-zz3rw]

Thats messing up your child mentally long term, and all your doing is teaching your baby is that no one is going to help them and gives up. This is neglect 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@valiadimou8601]

Well first of all by 3 monty my kid is not even sleeping on another room

[@ghostcat2467]

They actually recommend babies sleep in the same room as you until 1 years old to prevent SIDS.

[@TheSaray08]

Any premie moms out there than can share some advice? I gave birth to a 33 week ol premie and I know right now the focus is to feed him frequently to have him gain weight and grow. When should I start trying to sleep train? He is currently a month old, technically he would be 38 weeks if he was still in the belly. He also has been gaining weight really well! He is 7 lbs and 9 oz.

[@monicamaina5696]

Thank you so much for this video. My baby is 10 weeks and I want to start sleep training him, this video has really helped me. Thanks Nicole

[@Nicolelelagreen]

Glad it was helpful!

[@katjajoanamuller983]

Our baby sleep through the night by 2months til he was 4months . Now he wakes up every 2hours😭

[@ezginurylmaz7390]

4th month sleep regression

[@peach1187]

How did the baby go so long without a feed? What happens to your milk? Do u have to wake up and pump? 3 month Babies generally need 2 feedings a night

[@roshandacummings3423]

Can’t do 3-5 minutes, my little one goes into fury cry in 40 seconds but I am absolutely going to implement the shake, belly, and rocking methods. Drowsy is hard to come by without the pacifier but I’ll try again and again! Oh lord, wish me luck. Our now 4-month old slept beautifully up to 3 months and this last month has been impossible (5x a night!)

[@fuzzymaiden1]

Ive been using the pause method without even knowing it had a name. I would wait, and Thomas sure enough cries for a minute then falls asleep.

[@Nicolelelagreen]

Yes! works great!

[@makeyourlifebeautiful1652]

I just dont see how this is possible. My 3 month old wants feeding every 3 hiurs like clockwork then has to be unpright for atleast 40 mins because of reflux. Hates her crib, will just cry and i cant leave her to cry. The only way i get a decent stretch of sleep is of we co-sleep. I get a broken 3 to 4 hours if im lucky. Hats of to you though.

[@EmilyChristine.]

I did this with my son❤️ It was the best thing I could of done but, ITS HARD WORK 🙂

[@Nicolelelagreen]

Yes it is! Which is why I think some people are very turned off to it. But it my opinion it pays off!