How to Get Your Mojo Back - 3 Crucial Mindset Switches

When your relationship is struggling or another big life event is bearing down on you and threatening to turn everything upside down, it's easy for us to get into an anxious, fearful mindset and try anything and everything to wrestle back control.
In this video I talk about how you can build your emotional strength, confidence and self-respect which will help you to think straight and take actions that are actually effective.
We can WASTE so much of our time analyzing, reacting and blaming others for how we feel that we forget how much power we have all by ourselves.
We help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident you're okay - no matter what.
A strategy and discipline to work on yourself and change how you want to operate as a man.
A new set of skills and knowledge nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.
This is what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.
Most men don't. They are too busy taking care of everyone else. Too busy minding the store and making the money. They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.
But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.
You can only improve your inside game with other men.
We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.
Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization.
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What if this next year everything changed for you?
That's what we want for you brother,
We love teaching men these tools - how to be better, how to know who you are, what you stand for, what you want and how to CREATE it in your life through our Masculine Confidence coaching programs. Dan and I are here to guide you on this mission.
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Steve's book Straight Talk Tools for the Desperate Husband will help you to lead yourself and your relationship back to good health. Understand why your partner acts the way she does toward you and learn how to lead your life in the direction you want it to go. You CAN have the relationship you want, fulfilling all your desires while maintaining love and respect.
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[@brendanfreeman2134]

Your videos talking about self worth might be the most important thing getting me thru the hardest times. I'm doing everything I can to survive and grow but these are a lifeline for me sometimes. Thank you Steve

[@georgelush1998]

“We are not our thoughts.” I’ve done a lot of personal development work over the past two years and that idea kept cropping up over and over from different authors, meditation coaches, and other trusted sources. So I figured if multiple independent sources keep saying it, there must be some truth to it. Took a while for it to sink in, but I finally grasped the fact that I am not the thought, I am the conscious awareness behind the thought. I like the analogy that our thoughts are like cars speeding by on a busy street. When we observe them from the safety of the sidewalk, nobody gets hurt. When we step out into the traffic and chase after it, that’s when trouble happens.

[@DoctorSpicy]

George Lush yes! Thank you.

[@anthony7875]

This is spot on. Thank you for your insight. I will use this perspective moving forward in my life

[@BillyVatcher]

This is my recap to avoid catastrophe zing. I don’t need fixing but rather just to embrace myself fully. The trick ultimately is not to take things personally and not to think you are being abandoned or rejected when someone doesn’t want you around. They are going through their own shit and it has nothing to do with you.

[@keithtonkin6959]

Thanks again Steve...My mojo just had a great boost this weekend when four of us friends and our four women got together in an old hotel...played our music together (all eight of us)and ate and laughed the whole time. Two couples were relatively new and two of us were rekindling. We're not great musicians by any stretch but we all felt like rockstars. it's going to be at least an annual event. Your video just reinforced the importance and value of what we did. And PS my wife loves Brene Brown too.

[@SamP1888]

This is very good, and not just for men. Thanks.

[@deanlyng2768]

Thank you, I've just watched your video and it has helped me name my enemy,the mind monkey,now I feel at last there is a start to a journey of hope and help now.im gonna watch more or your Videos,I feel I've found the ladder out of my shit out off my shit pitt off dispaire,thank u again

[@stevewilson9400]

These videos are helping me a lot. Keep up the great work.

[@BabyStarFace]

I love this video

[@Americanpatriot-zo2tk]

Thanks

[@Avashakur369]

Man your a blessing bro

[@efthimios]

How I feel , wife of 20 years has affair and I forgive her and tried to save marriage and she’s just sabotaging our marriage to dovorve for her affair partner. It’s sickening.

[@joshweleacho1518]

Dude that sounds awful hope you're in a better spot now

[@Amanda-y4e1p]

I felt that in the pit of my stomach I can’t imagine how that was for you

[@gtournakis]

Thanx man.. U are help!

[@nimblejack]

good word

[@jamiecee4960]

How'd I loose my Mojo for certain music. You get to change the way you think about your thoughts.

[@obiguana]

I embrace the lessons. Don’t know how to convey it to my sister.

[@hrrflck]

You can't, it's that simple. Focus on yourself, others will follow.

[@mescnick]

Sup

[@kimlec3592]

Yes, maybe just not focus on the decades to live thing. One day or one hour at a time is ok. My Dad drank himself to death because of the fantasy of how a wife should be. Men silently suffer for decades. it is horrible. Women can be utter rat bags. My mother was a monster. My father a reactive one. But losing him has hurt way more than losing her ever did.

[@michaeljohnson9495]

Just wonderful, I have been researching "want my wife back" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Ever heard of - Jenaniel Forgiveness Blueprint - (just google it ) ? Ive heard some decent things about it and my partner got cool results with it.

[@yuvadnc8109]

Thanks..