How to Grieve Pain When It’s Your Fault

[@sherileyva5908]

I was addicted to drugs for 17 years and lost 2 of my daughters in 2009 while in my addiction. Thankfully, I speak to them daily now but I just recently realized I never grieved loosing them. I'm excited to watch this video on that exact topic.

[@brekat91]

I keep so much of my thoughts, emotions, and trauma to myself which i know isn't good as I then tend to blow up. I needed this message so deeply. But I needed it today without doubt. Thank you for sharing.

[@Detectaddict]

I knew my wife of 20 years was suffering from depression and had suicidal thoughts, after 18 months of trying to help her and tried everything to find help. One morning after I got home from working night shift tired and worn out , for some stupid reason we had an argument over her self harming ect , and as I had a shower she decided to take her life. It’s been 3 years and the guilt I carry I don’t think will ever ease . To know they were our last words together eats me every day, I miss my princess 💙

[@daisyesanchezc]

My deepest condolences. ❤

[@Zanzan8]

We cannot always protect our loved ones...I truly believe we die when its our time to die..it was nor your fault.....God is in control of everything...you loved and supported your wife for all the 20 years and you were also suffering...your wife knows you better than anybody...please find peace in that it was just a moment of frustration and not a daily occurrence...use the grief to strengthen your faith....May God give you peace and strength .

[@yasedky]

It is not your fault man, wake up She is hurting you then and hurting you now. If she didn't do it that day, she would have done it in any other day .. Relax man, move on .. Unless you were a predator.. If not, move on

[@KathrynloveX11]

I'm so sorry

[@breezie3116]

Lost my best friends because of a series of bad decisions, this was nice to hear

[@tazkforcealpha]

That ending, you can see how humble, down-to-earth this guy is and you already renowned yet so respectful. So many enlightening observations btw. Thanks! I needed that.

[@Chihuahuauno1]

One of THE most important videos on YT IMO! I wish everyone could listen to this entire 2-part interview! 🙏🏼 ❤

[@ayabeth5176]

I have a T1D child. She had a near death experience from a low blood sugar that I didn't catch early enough. Since I am the one who gives her shots I blamed myself to the point I became severely depressed. I'm still effected from that time. My biggest fear is loosing her because of me treating her diabetes. It became my mission to keep her alive and I never took the time to forgive myself.

[@JessicaAnotii]

Recently, I had a challenging split. The breakup of my five-year relationship a few months ago has been quite difficult. I still harbor a deep affection for my ex-boyfriend, and I can't seem to stop thinking about him. My attempts to win him back have been unsuccessful, and at this point, it seems impossible to be with anybody else. It may seem strange to admit this, but I miss him terribly and can't stop thinking about him.

[@Adakataba]

Saying goodbye to someone you love is difficult; I know this from my 12-year relationship ending. But I was unable to simply let him go, so I made every effort to get him back. I eventually sought aid from a spiritual counselor, who was able to help me regain his affection.

[@JessicaAnotii]

It's interesting! How can I contact a spiritual counselor most efficiently, and how did you find one?

[@Adakataba]

Father Obah Eze is a wonderful spiritual counselor who has the ability to bring back your ex.

[@Adakataba]

He can assist you; he is Father Obah Eze, and he possesses immense powers.

[@JessicaAnotii]

I just sought him up online thanks to your helpful information. remarkable I just checked Father Obah Eze online, and he's really genuine. Thank you again ❤

[@plain4jane3036]

I feel like a tonne was lifted from my chest , thank you

[@oldcollegecoed]

SO insightful and necessary! Happy Holidays!

[@lindawilliams8596]

Thank you!

[@fookyu1691]

I needed this so bad

[@annkleindl3561]

Wow. Just wow.

[@tayladellatore9515]

What book is that about grieving that he wrote? I’d like to get a copy.

[@KeyserTheRedBeard]

Incredible video, The Dr. John Delony Show. Looking forward to seeing your next upload. I smashed that thumbs up button on your content. Keep up the fantastic work! Your insights on grief and forgiveness were truly enlightening. How do you think the process of empathetic rumination can be transformed into a tool for healing rather than a source of pain?

[@yahainHotPink]

This title caught my attention

[@Stargaze_17]

Empathetic rumination- ugh, I'm so guilty of that type of thinking.

[@allyberry33]

Why isn't this guy's book tagged for us to get? Who is this?

[@flashthecorgi2053]

Everything is in the description but this is David Kessler and his book is Finding Meaning. This is also a two part interview. The first part aired on Nov 11th, second part aired Dec 23rd. Both are about an hour. This is just a highlight of the full.

[@jacobwilliams501]

​@@flashthecorgi2053I'd like to find both episodes. Thanks for that!

[@flashthecorgi2053]

@@jacobwilliams501 Both episodes were from Nov 11th, and Dec 23rd. Just scroll and you’ll find them. You’re looking for David Kessler!

[@gracerules2008]

The important thing is to forgive yourself. You have no other choice because whatever happened in the past is water under the bridge.

[@carsonjewett3349]

My girlfriend left me when I confessed that I had relapsed into porn addiction over the past month. I probably deserved it, but the weight of betrayal weighs heavy on both our shoulders. Pray for me, thought I was gonna marry her and thought she loved me enough to stick together and watch the change

[@Emptytopfloor]

Choose better.

[@JohnBalcony]

Kings built this world

[@Emptytopfloor]

Nope.

[@Mattyyyyokdmsbansmsmsns]

We do not use the word Fault in psychology....we use the word Responsibility....he is a fake Doctor

[@HOLDXSTEEL]

Stop with these annoying guest interviews