Why Do People Gossip About You

[@Psych2go]

PsychFam requested a topic on gossip and we made it happen for you all! 😳 Comment below if you have gossip or someone gossip about you.

[@margelatul2001]

first

[@vesea8976]

Love your vids dude

[@margelatul2001]

sorry im that person :(

[@strawberry01753]

heyy im early can u reply? :D

[@ranakamilah2655]

Psych2Go, hmmm idk Maybe fake friends lol

[@QuietlyMagnetic]

As Socrates beautifully articulated ― “Strong minds discuss ideas, average minds discuss events, weak minds discuss people.”

[@joshuacarre06]

Nice i got a strong mind then lol

[@Basedhistoryenjoyer]

*But hey, think about it. One of the best way to get where you want is by dragging down your opponent-*

[@jovitabhengra]

@@more1494 lol and teachers who discuss their students are the "weakest minded"

[@bejeweledbat13]

what about fictional characters

[@retsuninja6080]

With that logic, managers are weak minded? Because managers deal with ppl

[@ICEcoldJT]

“God removes people from your life because he heard conversations that you didn’t hear.” 💫

[@mostlymo5103]

Love that quote

[@fairyfellermasterstroke]

That's kinda depressing, like, the person you loved dies and you're like: Wait, God heard him say something bad? Nooooooooo

[@Just1Independent1]

Much needed💕

[@flyingdart9819]

Not very religious but this quote was nice.

[@unbeatabel]

WOW THAT'S A GOOD ONE!

[@jaykaysdimple9718]

✨8 Reasons why we gossip✨ 1) To break the ice: find common ground by gossiping about someone you and someone else know 2) To stay in the loop 3) To fit in 4) To feel better about yourself 5) To regain power and feel superior to those you’re jealous of 6) To distract yourself and pass time 7) To feel closer to someone 8) To hold people accountable

[@amilkshake3843]

Thank you!

[@enauaae]

Thanks ✨

[@adritabasu8790]

Wait This video was uploaded 10 mins ago, And your comment is a week old?!????!?!?!??!!? How is this possible?????!??!!?!!?

[@Kanon..]

Thanks Blink!!!!!! 💖💖💖

[@cockyrudeselfishloudgirlyg2852]

@@adritabasu8790 time travel

[@WisdomWealth77]

If you can’t say anything nice, then don’t say anything at all.

[@Psych2go]

This is a good mindset to have! Did you find this video helpful? - Cindy

[@kbcash35]

Very true!

[@WisdomWealth77]

@@Psych2go I do. I will be honest I use to gossip and didn't see anything wrong with it, until it was being done to me..

[@KB-xj7wy]

exactly

[@bigmamisvea3318]

What kind of dumb quote is that? I always have to be nice and friendly? Get a grip, that's not how life's working.

[@AutomaticDuck300]

1 reason why I don't gossip: I'm too busy climbing my own mountain to worry about other people's.

[@Psych2go]

Loved it! - Cindy

[@chinestupigan334]

samedt!!

[@mellydoughnut]

Yep put yourself first instead of other people. The world won't wait for you to catch up.

[@blossomheart3294]

@@mellydoughnut love this

[@Shay4YourMind81]

LemonZeppelin Awesome philosophy!!

[@meettheartist5506]

_"Your desire for social acceptance may outweigh your desire to do the right thing"_ - Loved it. The answer to everything here.

[@SamElle]

gossip is honestly the worst!! I remember the worst of it was in middle school and I was super sad and didn't have any friends because someone made up a rumor about me. I'm happy that most people grew out of gossiping as I got older

[@audrenesangria1742]

OMG girl HI 👋🏼😂

[@unbeatabel]

Good for you! I hope you're surrounded by people who actually care and love you now^^ just remember that God keeps you away from certain people for certain reasons

[@SamElle]

@@audrenesangria1742 your hi’s make my day hahaha

[@SamElle]

@@unbeatabel yes yes I’m always so grateful for the people who are in my life!! It’s so easy to forget about them when you’re surrounded by toxic people but it’s something I remind myself of

[@Ana-ty8sl]

Same thing happened to me, I actually had to make a new friend group with people a grade below me… since no in my grade would speak to me! I never learned what the rumor was?

[@notyoutubin]

My life changed after I stopped being around those people who constantly inquire and discuss the flaws of others Suggesting y'all to do the same!

[@Angell_Lee]

" *Small minds discuss people* - Average minds discuss events - Great minds discuss ideas." The older I get, the more accurate I find this quote is.

[@abyssal_phoenix]

So how old are you now? Cause I have been like the great minds since my 11th or so

[@agentjordan605]

True statement

[@Zanarkand_0]

I used to gossip when I was in High school. It was a horrible and desperate attempt at fitting in. Now that I'm older I understand why it's wrong. But for reasons far beyond my understanding I had family that still continues to do this shit. literally people in their 60's gossiping and bullying behind our backs. it's so pathetic.

[@treznopresto4878]

Sum: 1. To break the ice 1:06 2. To stay in the loop 1:31 3. To pit in 1:54 4. To feel better about yourself 2:19 5. To regain *POWAH* 2:48 6. To have a distraction 3:17 7. To feel closer to others 3:45 8. To hold ppl accountable 4:15 Ahhh long time no see ;)

[@mellydoughnut]

Thank you!😁

[@teenshii]

It's "3. To fit in" not "pit in". :D

[@rurue-hf6nu]

For anyone who's confused how people suddenly became time travelers, membership exists

[@fairyfellermasterstroke]

@Zoya Hussain Ah, you have to sort them! Thanks for the info

[@fairyfellermasterstroke]

@Zoya Hussain No, wait, I still don't understand how to do it...

[@fairyfellermasterstroke]

@Zoya Hussain Now I did find one unlisted video, but I still don't know how to sort the videos...

[@fairyfellermasterstroke]

@Zoya Hussain Now I did find one unlisted video, but I still don't know how to sort the videos...

[@Psych2GoKr]

@Zoya Hussain The secret is out Oo

[@nimosayeda4592]

If someone gossips about others to you, then chances are they gossip about you to others. If someone points out other people's accomplishments or good deeds to you, then chances are they point out your good traits and accomplishments to others. If you wanna be likeable, be positive and seek out the good in people If you wanna be feared and disliked by your social group of people, then gossip and be negative Karmaaaaa :O

[@bubblybubbles4023]

Don't gossip and don't trust anyone that gossips and keeps a lot of mess going because you better believe that if they do it with you they'll do it to you.

[@Anonymous_Anon882]

True. When they come to their senses and drop the senseless rumours they might try and subtly-worm their way back into your good books but by then it’s usually too-late. Gossip about someone you know you shouldn’t be talking about and the damage is done if it gets back to the gossipee. It doesn’t matter how “sorry” you feel afterwards. It’s too late.

[@checkreactz]

Man, I used to feel so insecure back then, when I knew people were gossiping and talking bad about me behind my back

[@Psych2go]

Sometimes they have things to say that are not true 😕 . I hope the people gossip behind your back is no longer in your life. - Cindy

[@checkreactz]

@@Psych2go Thanks Cindy. I’ve pretty much moved on at this point, but as a result I’ve become much more introverted and lonely, yet so confident at the same time

[@pantherman8719]

That's why I grew to have a disdain on most people. Even friends tend to do that.

[@jesuschrist1817]

@@checkreactz I agree

[@lacuna3499]

People gossip cause they find it *"entertaining"* badmouthing someone, spreading rumours as they have no life. As a personal experience of being the target of gossips I hate it so much but ykw they still continue and never will stop whatsoever you say. When I asked a girl in my class why she does while pretending to be my friend she replied with "it runs in my veins" lol

[@Psych2go]

You are right about people find gossiping to be entertaining. A good rule is If there is nothing good to say about someone, then don't say it :). I hope the girl gossip behind your back stops. - Cindy

[@lacuna3499]

@@Psych2go true that, I follow the same rule as well. If there's anything you don't like about a person confront them, that's the best way. Tbh I am now used to, she apologized but did not stop and I am not even surprised about that and thanks ❤️ I love your videos, let me tell you that you are doing an awesome job and your videos help me understand myself and my surroundings more.

[@Anonymous_Anon882]

Gossip is one of the reasons I’m not one to socialise an enormous deal. It’s not always bad as such but I just tire of people who talk about the ins-and-outs of random people (sometimes to the point of spreading damaging and erroneous rumours) as if there aren’t ideas and just other things to do with life to discuss. It’s like some people live and breathe what other people are apparently saying and doing and it’s just boring if not particularly obnoxious. In respectful moderation it’s fair enough but people who only talk about other people’s lives I just find shallow at the best of times. I can’t have someone like that as a proper friend.

[@itskogaleeray398]

If gossiping is a sign of low self-stem and envy, then I guess there are A LOT of people who are jealous of me lmao I hate gossips.

[@grottoking7355]

Facts

[@sharonseymour8037]

So Do I ❤

[@nightfangs2910]

I never allow myself to be around a gossiper for any reason, needless to say I spend a lot of time alone, which is fine because I'm good with my own company

[@Anonymous_Anon882]

They often think you’re the problem/socially-maladjusted one if you grey-rock/avoid them when in reality you just hate people who never mind their own business/spread rumours about people they hardly know (if at all).

[@nightfangs2910]

@@Anonymous_Anon882 exactly spot on

[@Anonymous_Anon882]

@@nightfangs2910 everyone gossips on some level at the end of the day and that’s actually fine (as I said elsewhere) but my gripe is even people make their rumour-tidbits sound like absolute gospel and shout it from the rooftops so everyone can have a negative opinion (which mightn’t even be accurate) on the person (usually someone the rest of them don’t even know that well). People are always going to tear people they don’t like to shreds behind closed doors (I do and I’ll readily admit that) but if you’re wise it stays behind closed doors. There are certain things that the wider public just don’t need to know about, especially when you yourself don’t really actually know the ‘gossipee’ that well.

[@ay-tj7pj]

They will also gossip when you mind your own business. Toxic people will always be toxic no matter if you're good or bad. The problem is them, not you.

[@ameliaandwatson]

To whoever read this: You're unique and the prettiest person. Don't judge yourself. Love yourself.

[@Psych2go]

Beautiful - Cindy

[@ameliaandwatson]

@@Psych2go Awww. You replied me😍😍😍😍. You're so sweet sis. I'm one of your biggest fan

[@vijzon]

Oh man oh wow you don't know how much you helped by saying that i could cry

[@ameliaandwatson]

@@vijzon Thank you. I'm so happy that I could help you

[@bruce4139]

Only 1 person can be the greatest, and prettiest

[@wolfbloodklaw7810]

In grade 7 I got stuck in a group that only gossiped because my friends liked them. I remember if they couldn't gossip they had nothing to talk about. Near the end of that year I finally met some nice people. Long story short I felt awful after realising how badly it can hurt someone. Even if they never find out it's terrible.

[@EBUNNY2012]

"Gossiping destroys families, alienates friends and makes YOU a fool." - brian padrick drake

[@VerenaSatriani]

When we feel good/better about ourselves, we don't need to talk about people behind their back to make us feel better. Our innerworld is the reflection of the outside.

[@_ray401]

My class are full of gossip grup ;-; and I hate that, cause people that like to gossip are mostly fake

[@_ray401]

@Binoy Binoy i don't say I don't do gossip, I do sometimes to you know, almost all people do gossip sometimes. But not like my classmates, they gossip averyday (when we still school like normal, before quarantine) and I heard some of them are making a gossip grup, when you're not in the group they will talking about u And bruh- that's just getting out of hands 😐 (I want to write longer but my bad english 😔, I just gonna say there a fake stabing people trust me)

[@redrosereindeer]

Same dude :(

[@shadow_hikari6447]

That is the reason I like to have a class with more boys that girls. Boys don't rlly gossip the way the talk is like not rlly gossip but they just talk to each other very loudly that every can hear. And most the time if a class with more girls will have more drama and it's annoying. It happened to me once. Those girls made me alone in class. And talk shit about me and all the girls just believe it.

[@Ohjieun-j1j]

I hate gossips. It affects my mental and emotional well-being. Especially for a non-sociable person like me. It makes me hate to be around a lot of people

[@Anonymous_Anon882]

Same here.

[@abyssal_phoenix]

Is gossiping also when you talk positive about someone, cause I talk a lot about others, but positively. But people try to gossip with me, but I just turn in the positive and nice things I know about that person, to kinda defend them

[@strwberrynight4610]

You are a saint. Keep up doing this 😄💕

[@abyssal_phoenix]

Maybe I should make a video about this subject. I’ll write it down as possible video idea

[@meettheartist5506]

There are going to be a few/many things that a person you both people are talking about you will find pretty wrong or problematic for you. But talking in a philosophical way, focusing on the positive of any situation, object and person will help you move forward with optimism. When you gossip or talk... Just keep a balance of what you're talking about. If there is positive, put forward. If there isn't don't make it a secret conspiracy to spread hatred for that person - consider the negative and let go of the topic.

[@extrapathos]

Same

[@Ana-ty8sl]

That usually what I do, I usually let people know what I think of them (good or bad to their face.) Oh, I forgot to say that I do believe talking about someone without them present can be gossip. Especially if that person likes to keep their life private.

[@willowoodz]

2 years ago i was a gossiper to a T. i'm proud to say that i've found myself, survived the karma of doing such terrible things, and have healed so much. you can do it too, and gossiping does not define you. YOU DO.

[@Tuba.k007]

Finally, I thought I was the only one who gossips after reading the comments.. But ofc going to work upon it

[@DrLizListens]

Why do we gossip? Schadenfreude. Oh, and we are human. 💗 Dr. Liz

[@mehwishmanha9250]

'MAKING PEOPLE FEEL BETTER THEY'RE NOT YOUUUUUU' Avenue Q-

[@Abu-Talha-Al-Kurdi]

Your Zen Within | Relax with Dr. Liz Didn’t know y‘all are using German words in the Us 🤔. Greetings 🇩🇪

[@guccion]

Cause we are like that - my words

[@Psych2GoKr]

Good one. That would be interesting to mention.

[@DrLizListens]

@@Abu-Talha-Al-Kurdi we don't have an equivalent word to schadenfreude and it's such an interesting phenomenon!

[@arkwhite23]

I always found gossip can be destructive even when it's done with the best intentions. You could be talking about someone in the most positive light but eventually it spreads and someone most likely will misinterpret and put a negative spin on it. Then worse case scenario the negative information gets back to the person that was the object of the gossip and they find out it was you it was originated from, now you have broken trust to deal with. Open honest communication with the person that is the subject of the information is best way go before it gets to someone else.

[@PlanetPsych]

Be careful about those who gossip to you, they probably also gossip about you.

[@Keius]

I gossip solely for reason #8, albeit not too often since I mostly keep to myself. Sometimes there’s just some people who do ridiculously scummy things and I always feel a need to talk about it for some reason and express my disdain for them. I don’t know why it always seems to take hold of my conversations since it just makes me depressed about how there’s so many crappy people in the world and how some of them keep getting away with the things they do.

[@diablosweetheart7779]

I think gossip might be a generational thing too. This could be because they have nothing better to do, but I've noticed older generations tend to gossip more than people closer to my age. No matter how old they are I just try to avoid it. If someone talks badly about about another person behind their back, they're probably doing the same thing to you.

[@billlevins7460]

I really hate when a person gossips about me and they put their head down whenever they see me. When people are guilty they need to understand that their body language is powerful when they put their heads down or up, no eye contact and act extremely uncomfortable. I feel like saying to them ''You are so guilty''. At least know how to hide your actions.

[@GummiesAJ]

this is not my proudest moment but back in middle school i resorted to gossiping about this girl. she was like a “grade school bully” to me and instead of resolving matters with an adult i resorted to gossiping to many people about her to relieve that tension. again, not my proudest moment but it just goes go show how we as humans are so similar

[@d.w.714]

Gossiping about others only speaks the truth about how they have too much time on their hands. They are real cowards, instead of speaking to a person face to face, they'd rather say false things about others that is farther from the truth.

[@youtubecommentergal4346]

I've never gossiped and I hope I never will. I've been gossiped about before and it's not nice, especially when the gossiping turns to rumours.

[@Celeste-jh2lj]

A lot of people in my family are asocial or super busy so I gossip mostly to stay in the loop. It CAN be fun and helpful if you do it in a healthy respectful way

[@Sunset553]

There’s public vs private information. you can mention who moved, got married, had children, without gossiping.You can discuss your own visit to your friends new home and that you got caught up and it was great. there’s really no excuse for gossip. it’s just a bad habit

[@CosmicGlitterGoddess]

Her soft sweet soothing voice makes talking about somebody sounds so sweet.

[@Wath223]

I am always trying my best to not gossip about other people by distracting myself so I always have something to do. Gossiping is tempting because it is entertaining.

[@rachel2731]

Time travelling is so fun. Anyways I would love to see you guys making a video about reasons why a person is an attention seeker or signs someone is an attention seeker or how to stop being an attention seeker.

[@amilkshake3843]

Yes it is, and that’s a good video idea! Sometimes I have the feeling I’m seeking attention, but I actually don’t wanna :/

[@pinkkittyvoid]

Wait tell me your secrets

[@shaereub4450]

Convince psych2go to give you access to their time machine.

[@Layless]

I NEED TO KNOW HOW YOU DO IT

[@redrosereindeer]

Time traveler

[@EboshiOnna]

So true! That's why I don't like people who gossip all the time, especially fake stories

[@rik-keymusic160]

Especially that last one in the video is what i do. Don’t talk to jealous people… they often have a victim mentality and aren’t really open to admit their own flaws! They rather put blame on others instead of changing themselves!

[@cutecatto17]

Thanks for video. I don't understand people who gossip. Through my school years I was always considered "the weird one" who didn't fit it. It was mainly because others had "gossiping groups" and I never understand why they were gossiping and it was always very boring for me.

[@donnasam]

In my former workplace i think gossiping is so contagious. I have no energy for gossiping and i just do my work. Im a victim of those people who make stories and gossips. I tend not to care and still kind to these people. But my mental and emotional health get stall. I resigned from that job.

[@lamzy3773]

Because they see the greatness in you lol. The same is happening to me at my current job.

[@chuuchuutrain6232]

I agree too but as a student I would rather choose to be happy alone by accompanying myself with work.

[@jackyshorts9279]

To the 1 person who’s reading this: *you’re lovely and incredible be safe*

[@amrithapai8436]

thx :D

[@amirornot0484]

Ty 🥺👉👈

[@deltamico]

Oh we were 2 reading this at the same time.

[@loonugu]

Shut up 🙂

[@agentjordan605]

Thanks for the compliment

[@ashu1834]

I don't gossip because its not necessary and im to busy doing my own things. A lot of people in my neighborhood gossip about me if I just say a word to them.

[@caroeldot]

I've always thought that gossip is a waste of time and pointless

[@heatherheinz2455]

1:54 Who needs fitting in when we can just be ourselves?

[@lemonink3685]

i know right

[@-snow-6046]

I've been discovering I have several of the things that you mention in your videos, and I have been trying to find a doctor in the things that are; for example "bipolar disorder" and some of them I'm really thankful, your videos are very useful!

[@sivecore9256]

I don't like to gossip. I don't like when people gossip about others. If you have a problem with me, say it to my face.

[@bhavyab1044]

Summary- 8 reasons why we gossip 1. To break the ice. 1:06 (Mainly to make small talk and find something to talk about) 2. To stay in the loop. 1:31 (To listen to town gossip to know more about people) 3. To fit in. 1:54 (To be socially accepted) 4. To feel better about yourself. 2:18 (A guilty pleasure) 5. To regain power. 2:48 (Due to jealousy) 6. To have a distraction. 3:17 (To pass time) 7. To feel closer to others. 3:48 (You might do it to ask questions your to afraid to ask your loved ones) 8. To hold other people accountable. 4:15 (To avoid confrontation) You’re welcome. :) I recommend watching the video for more. P.S. I love this animation

[@ghosttdm7o]

your videos are always so relaxing!!! it's always such a comfortable experience, thank u so much 💗

[@thefurbychild8057]

The was this one girl in my class and no one wanted to tell her anything important or embarrassing because they knew she would tell the whole class and school thier secret. Yet she got information out of them and used it's against them, she would act like everyone's friends and would seem trustworthy. Even I have fallen for her trickery and boy did it backfire.I always wondered why she acted this way, I figured it was just because she wanted to seem like the person to go to for the daily news. Now I have a better understanding of why she acted this way.

[@KittySnicker]

#4 big time for me. Just being honest. I largely only do it about people who have put me down in the past so I don’t feel guilty.

[@cartonriley]

*1)* To break the ice *2)* To stay in the loop *3)* To fit in *4)* To feel better about yourself *5)* To regain power *6)* To have a distraction *7)* To feel closer to others *8)* To hold people accountable

[@fwoop4848]

Currently dealing with middle school gossips :,) (8th grade) Heard them talking about me the other day… made me feel like shit. I couldn’t hear exactly what they were saying about me but it was along the lines of how “weird” and quiet I am, and were talking about something I apparently did that was “weird” to them. I, thankfully, no longer feel too bad about it, but it still bothers me that people are talking about me behind my back in general. Now that I think about it, people were gossiping about me for a while, but I’ve always turned a blind eye subconsciously. Not one for confrontation. I believe if I ignore it they’ll have no power over me and will get bored.

[@mymindsin144p4]

Me too.. Those guys seem to abuse the word "weird" when discussing me.. T.T I usually feel bad for eavesdropping, but when it comes to people like that I feel no pity whatsoever! Cause they're bad people! I think it's best to ignore them and also tell an adult, cause if you take action nothing you can do will stop them, and if you tell a teacher they'll know what's going on (although they may not be able to help they'll understand what those people are doing and what you're going through)

[@pathmor]

I haven't really participated in gossip or been a victim of it and I'm very happy with that.

[@Psych2go]

Wow, you're a rare gem! It's never easy. How do you make it happen? - Cindy

[@nathandean1773]

Why are there no positive connotations involved in the video. Nothing in the definition states that gossip is inherently negative; only that it's sharing personal information about somebody other than yourself. Which isn't necessarily negative. For instance, gossip can be about someone's accomplishments. Not knowing and speaking on or knowing and divulging someone's deepest darkest secrets are two sides of the same coin. That being said, I enjoyed this video very much. Informative, entertaining, and best of all, beautifully narrated. I would have liked to see the 'tails' side of said coin. Now, with all that said and out of the way... if I've misspoke or had incorrect Information I apologize. I've been awake for 5 days and honestly didn't research anything. It was just a curiosity of mine and I am in no way hating on anything. Than you for your video, the time and effort spent has not gone unnoticed. Be safe and have a wonderful day!!! Cant wait for the next one :)

[@tangerinefizz11]

I usually don't gossip about others, because I couldn't care less about what other people do. Unlike some people, I have a life!

[@JoyZoneYT]

Well...there is another reason why it can happen, which isn't talked about in this video. It might just be me but: To get a different perspective on things. I wasn't specifically speaking poorly about the person but rather of a person's behavior and words. I was in cruel need of advice on how to approach the situation in the best way, and I outlined how it frustrated me and where I wanted it to go. It kind of frustrates me to have people validate my emotions when I am more in need of solutions to help both people in that situation. I understand how nice it can be sometimes (for example on personal achievements), but it makes me feel dismissed when I can't seem to see a way out, ask someone because I am aware of previous experiences, or they have been of good advice in the past, and to receive that sort of approach.

[@Foster.Unfiltered]

Love the idea of animation and self-help and mental well-being! That’s awesome!

[@Psych2go]

Thank you so much!! Did you find this video helpful? :)

[@jennygholson]

I loved your voice it’s so calm & soothing

[@nisheedhasolanki6464]

The animation's always very cute. Thanks so much! Actually, I don't gossip much, but my besties like to do that too much, hehe. But, if I know the one's they were gossiping about is me, it's okay man, I don't take it too seriously, I know they're my friends only.

[@Psych2go]

I'm glad you like it! You have a positive mindset on don't take it seriously. This is a new animation, I hope everyone likes it! - Cindy

[@rurue-hf6nu]

Nobody: Literally nobody: Me: See mom, I told you time travelers exist

[@aclamp79]

Nobody: Nobody at all: Me: these are not funny at all. Stop.

[@Vxq0]

@@aclamp79 urs isnt any funnier

[@rurue-hf6nu]

@@Vxq0 lol good one

[@rurue-hf6nu]

@@aclamp79 I ain't trying to be funny, I'm telling my mom the truth

[@aclamp79]

@@Vxq0 I'm not trying to be funny. I'm not funny at all. My point is I'm sick of seeing the same sort of meme everywhere. Life feels like a repeat and comedy is becoming boring for me. Same with school and same with people I talk to. Life is repetitive and all i ask for is something differant. Sorry.

[@jonathanedward7895]

One point that wasn't discussed. Gossip sometimes is an effective coping strategy when u are in a family unit/dynamic that has been touched by addiction, or trauma. Many times people struggling with addiction or spinning their tires from trauma tend to lack self awareness, and the respect for people round them b/c they're struggling & are often too blinded by their own problems. .... This puts a ton of stress & anxiety on the people around them. Gossiping sometimes provides an outlet where two or more people can discuss behaviours that need correcting. .... Gossip is usually looked at through a superficial lens which then denies that we are social beings & we require communication, and sometimes learning to cope with difficult situations comes from sharing our own personal experiences. This is the reason group therapy is often so useful. Ie. Addiction support grps, Victims of violence/ murder support grps etc.

[@Psych2go]

Thanks for sharing! You have made a good point - Cindy

[@jonathanedward7895]

@@Psych2go Thanks for that, I love this channel- it's an incredible resource for the world to have!!

[@rbsmith3365]

Interesting. In schools manual policy about spreading gossip and rumors are prohibited. It leads to misunderstanding. False information for attention and you are right about small towns. A old friend of mine complained when, she lived little town in Georgia. I don’t know what town? And, she says gossip happened in grocery store, church, beauty shop, Walmart, you name it after her divorce she moved to Richmond, VA and didn’t hear a peep there.

[@cloudzy488]

I actually dont gossip but I had a class mate, I wasnt her friend but she always tried to stick with me but all she did was "talking at people's back", soon I realised what she was doing was wrong so I just got off and stopped havig interactions with her.

[@michaelkrull3331]

In my area gossiping is the unofficial national pastime. It's a rural area, of course, and people here just about check all these boxes. I also note a correlation between religiosity and preponderance for gossip.

[@keww4610]

This video literally just got released after i had huge online drama and had many false accusations thrown at me and now people are saying things like go to hell and "get out of my life" when they basically exaggerated the whole incident and led to others believing rumours and jumping to conclusions. I feel so hurt because i thought they could be trusted 😔

[@georgianagheorghe8848]

One of the reasons some people gossip is because they're envious of that person's success. Another reason is that there are many people that prefer to gossip rather than get to know that person better or do a small research about the situation or problem.

[@georgianagheorghe8848]

I would suggest making a video about how gossip and bullying can hurt other people's emotions.

[@royaljelly8874]

your videos are always so calm and happy!

[@Psych2go]

Glad you like them! Your comment makes me happy to hear :). Let us know if this video relates to you after you finish watching - Cindy

[@RainbowUnicorn.-.]

I have defiantly gossiped to vent my frustrations. The one subject to this gossip is someone who I have never seen nor meet, so I can only imagine who they are by their hideous actions (not just towards me, but towards others who were at the same event that night.) He has caused great grief and anger within me and what could only be imagined as indescribable pain within others. Talking about the event and how horrible that guy was with my friends who were there is sometimes a way for me to let off steam... (and believe me, I would hold the guy accountable if I could...)

[@deepikachandra7857]

thumbnail: do you gossip? me, an introvert: *no*

[@lykhra2178]

That’s... not really a Extrovert and Introvert type of situation

[@babe101103]

Don't start believing that evil and wickedness is POWER. Evil and wickedness will eventually destroy the person.

[@ignamax08]

Wow, always learning something new in your videos! This makes me think about dealing with gossiping now... How do you deal with others that gossip about you? Thank you ❤💙💛

[@klarafunnybros5234]

I often gossop one girl from class because 1. She's taking my friends away for her 2. She made me really angry and I cannot forget that 3. I don't like her

[@EnjoyingLife2024]

I'm in a new community leadership role, and people constantly want to tell me gossip. I discourage gossip as soon as I hear it. This weekend, I learned that my reputation in the community is as a very trustworthy person who doesn't tolerate gossip. I intend to keep my well-regarded reputation in this area no matter where my life takes me. Question: how to keep myself from gossiping when I feel under a great deal of stress? Answer: Go for a walk or take a nap.

[@dragonkfg]

Number 9: You got really excited about something and it slips out.

[@nicholefieldbutch321]

Some people naturally like to stay to themselves too. Doesn't mean that they are lonely! Like me for instant. I have been this way since I was a kid.

[@sk61181]

Our body is built to keep us alive, no matter what. We build our mind to keep us feeling better, no matter what.

[@avarodrigues6973]

number 9, some may start gossiping this way but later on when they don't have a reason they still gossip because its like a habit.

[@CYSYS8993]

If there's one thing worse than the gossip itself it's when everyone believes them and think you're the one lying and playing the victim.

[@Anonymous_Anon882]

People are often extremely impressionable. They believe what sounds exciting and professional gossips do have a way of selling stories.

[@spencerreid5023]

Lmao, time travel👁👄👁👋 But besides that, this video helped me a lot:)

[@yoamirajahara]

People have gossiped about me. I gossiped about them right back

[@pratisthamukherjee4641]

Wow i never thought someone will make a video on this topic , awesome job 😊👍

[@AnimeAngelBSR]

People around us do that and the thing is they don't even know anything about me nor try to get to know me so in turn others believe them when those people don't know me either. I hope I am making sense😂

[@lululuccilost]

People also gossip if someone else they hate gossip about them, my best friend's bully gossiped about my best friend so she started gossiping about her and telling me stuff, but i listen because i think that makes her more happy and better so i listen

[@didierperez4073]

Almost my entire family gossip and being locked with them is so frustrating cause they are always trashing on others or even the ones that live in the same house and for the smallest things. The one who does this the most is one of my cousins, actually she is the one that starts gossiping and the rest follows her. She is super mean to literally EVERYBODY even her husband, he is nice to her but she always says he is an idiot behind and in front of him. She always treats everyone like they are inferior to her, she even said one time that she wakes up with a good mood and all of us make her mad.__. Also, like a month ago my sister's pet died and when someone told her she started laughing and i got mad, and everyone else got mad AT ME. The most annoying part is that she doesn't speak, she YELLS and SCREAMS all the time and is a small house so it's impossible to not hear her voice and i'm so tired of her, it affects my mental health in so many ways, she makes me so angry and anxious and i hace to bottle those feelings because i really can't do anything, she won't change and that's the main reason nobody wants to say something to her. She turns others against each other and thinks of herself like she is a good person. I really don't know what to do.

[@curtistinemiller4646]

Keep your Tongue from evil and your Lips from Lying ...

[@tracyxrae]

These videos are very insightful and I love the animation!

[@Psych2go]

Thank you so much! Glad you find it insightful. :) Would you like to see more of this animation in the future?

[@MAFLORENCIA]

I'll save this for when a friend of mine starts gossiping.

[@Just1Independent1]

When negativity brought unto you makes you feel like you are going backwards in life,, PRAY! Protect your energy + mental health love, you are loved!💕 push through. (Ask God to give you strength and to bless you in front of your enemies, haters & doubters. It’s that simple luv💁🏾‍♀️ !)

[@Just1Independent1]

Yes ma’am!

[@Luna-xw2ey]

her voice is so soothing I-

[@Psych2go]

Agree with you 100%. Let us know what you think about this new animation? :D - Cindy

[@Luna-xw2ey]

@@Psych2go love it!💖

[@kenrickbautista6141]

I never gossip, AT ALL. But I have talked behind someone's back once. Promised myself I never do it again.

[@Psych2go]

Wow, good for you! It's not easy but very important thing to do! What's your strong motivation for doing this? - Cindy

[@kenrickbautista6141]

@@Psych2go thanks! And my strong motivation is to try to keep things to myself.

[@thatgui88]

I try my best to do this.

[@vandetoria6930]

Just in case someone might need this :)) 8 signs why we gossip: 1.) To breal the ice 2.) To stay in the loop 3.) To fit in 4.) To feel better about yourself 5.) To regain power 6.) To have a distraction 7.) To feel closer to others 8.) To hold people accountable

[@weavorjjohanna5619]

I don't gossip, i say it in front of their face

[@i.ate.flygon]

Me: Wow I’m none of these *number 8 comes* Me: Oh , yes I love my revenge

[@RainbowUnicorn.-.]

Come on, you gotta vent. Sometimes there are scums who really hurt you and letting it off your chest can make you feel better.

[@jayo8484]

the main reason why I don’t gossip is because if your gossiping with someone 10/10 that person your doing it with will do it to you.plus it just feels cowardly for doing it.

[@zzamzza]

Wow you are uploading videos so often! Thanks💖

[@Psych2go]

We are trying our best! - Cindy