How to Handle Rejection from Your Dream Job

How to Handle Rejection from Your Dream Job
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[@andylacivita]

A little reminder you're still awesome! If you actually need a hand to go out with some class, check out my video on how to get the job after being rejected: kzbin.info/www/bejne/n32Xanhvhrmgga8

[@l.s.7682]

Such a wake-up call. I watched this short video ten times straight and was moved to tears. This is gold, Andrew. Thank you!

[@andylacivita]

@@l.s.7682 so glad it helped!!

[@niamhclarkson1347]

onto my 8th rejection, reached my lowest low today but tomorrow I WILL GET BACK UP.

[@andylacivita]

You got this Niamh! Hang in there. You will find the right employer who deserves and appreciates you!! 👊👊👊

[@thunderking8925]

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[@kaleyjoplinRAWRR]

Just got rejected from a position I really wanted. I was initially offered it verbally but then the next day they were asking me to apply to a different position. Honestly I’ve never been good at dealing with rejection in general. It’s not that I get angry but I can’t help but take it personally and then I get sad. Although I know it’s nothing personal. I have ADHD and RSD so that’s probably why but despite this I know I’ll get over it eventually. But it sucks a lot when it happens. At this point, the constant job interviews and rejections are wearing on me. I’m glad I came across this video though. ❤ thanks for the encouragement

[@2Madre]

I just need a job to keep my home so I have a place to dream 😪 The rejection is fantastically damaging and rarely is there an opportunity to follow up with an actual human.

[@andylacivita]

So true. That’s why I recommend not applying for jobs (which is one of the absolute ways to actually get a job). Check out my boss hunting techniques and use those instead!

[@andylacivita]

Hang in there my friend. You are correct and have likely heard me say this many times… when job interviewing, the most qualified candidate doesn’t automatically get the job. It’s the one who tells the best stories and shows their value and alignment with what the employer is looking for. You might have been a better candidate in reality, but interviewing is about perception and interpretation, and the way the other candidate whoever got hired connected the dots for them. Work on your storytelling, and it’ll happen for you. Lots of luck and I’m here to support you!

[@MA-yz7ef]

It's not that I doubt myself or think it's the job of my dreams. It's just frustrating that I thought I had finally landed something, but now I'm back to square one, applying to countless jobs and dealing with three-or-more rounds of absurd interviews.

[@andylacivita]

Sorry to hear. Hang in there! As the days go on, you’re never start at square one. You always start from more experience! 👊👊👊👊

[@neiljohnson5351]

Thanks Andy. I immediately felt better.

[@andylacivita]

Love to hear it!

[@rgseven6557]

I have received so many job rejections that I just feel like giving up on my job search.

[@andylacivita]

Hang in there!!

[@Blodia1990]

Don't give up. You're carrying the fire

[@lsfrare]

Andy, what you said makes total sense and I appreciate it, but I cannot stand the fact that I couldn't pass the final interview by my fault, because I knew the other candidates and that I was one of the strongest. I studied a lot and with your help was able to reach the final interview for a dream company, but the interview was a panel with 6 managers (some very cocky) and I couldn't deal with the pressure of 100% behaviour questions and fell apart, gave replies that were different from what I practiced and so on. I will stand up again one day, appreciate the help, you are an angel in many people lives.

[@andylacivita]

Hang in there my friend. You are correct and have likely heard me say this many times… when job interviewing, the most qualified candidate doesn’t automatically get the job. It’s the one who tells the best stories and shows their value and alignment with what the employer is looking for. You might have been a better candidate in reality, but interviewing is about perception and interpretation, and the way the other candidate whoever got hired connected the dots for them. Work on your storytelling, and it’ll happen for you. Lots of luck and I’m here to support you!

[@juliek.2400]

Lol, just LOVE your blunt straightforwardness: it wasn’t your dream job. LOVE it!!!!

[@rahimm3617]

Thanks Andy, I really needed this

[@andylacivita]

Happy to help!

[@sakinamaryamkarim3567]

Thanks for this! I've been behind on self development in my life due to a lot of family hurdles! I'm 30 now, and it seemed liked every time a door closed or never opened to start that journey I've remained in the same place, and I don't ever want to be stagnant in Life! I pick jobs where I feel there's Growth, be even more so towards my future aspirations. Now, I don't get as frustrated because I know God knows Best, and He Knows what I strive for! " if it's for me it'll never miss me, if it isn't for me it'll pass on by". I try to remember this even now while preparing for a 3 part interview at an Investment company! 1st interview is tomorrow! Your videos have helped me much as well as bring confirmation! Thank you for All you do! God Bless 🙌

[@andylacivita]

You’re welcome!!

[@geoguyrocks354]

Thank you for the encouragement. I have been having the worst episodes lately and this help me prop myself up a bit after a long streak of rejections. I hope I’d be able to get what is rightfully meant for me, one day.

[@jimcobb7685]

Thanks Andy! I had an interview on Tues for a job I think is perfect for me... and now I wait.... If I don't get the position this really helps. If I do get it, I'll post in a year :)

[@andylacivita]

👊👊👊

[@susan.8761]

Hi it’s been one year! Did you get it?

[@JakeDenning]

This was the encouragement I needed today. Thanks!

[@andylacivita]

Glad to hear it!

[@fezplayground]

Thanks, I really need this!

[@pleasedontlookatme78789]

thank you for this.

[@andylacivita]

You’re welcome!!

[@magellainealbeos573]

This made me feel better. Thank you. I need this

[@andylacivita]

You’re welcome!!

[@abgen2859]

Thank you.

[@andylacivita]

You’re welcome!

[@carlernestsantos6523]

Ur message made me feel good a lil bit. I was rejected from my dream job

[@andylacivita]

So glad.

[@andylacivita]

That was so glad!!!!

[@hart316]

Thank You! This is GOLD! So true Andy! When you are feeling down.. a vid of coach Andy will lift your spirit! #BestCoachEver! ❤️

[@andylacivita]

👊👊👊you’re welcome!!

[@dianepierson698]

Thank u!!

[@andylacivita]

My pleasure Diane!

[@MrVnick1]

Holy moly. I’m kinda in my dream job😊

[@andylacivita]

Love to hear it!!!

[@George-ps5]

Thank you 🙂

[@andylacivita]

You're so welcome!

[@George-ps5]

@@andylacivita I have 3 screenings tomorrow :) you give lots of advice but give me something key for me to remember throughout? 👊

[@MsLS8]

❤you are amazing, thank you Andy🙏

[@andylacivita]

You are just as amazing for saying so! Thank YOU!

[@thunderking8925]

It wasn't your dream job. It was your nightmare

[@andylacivita]

🤣

[@RC44551]

But what if I did get it & then shortly after I got severely injured & then got rejected? 😩

[@andylacivita]

Sorry to hear that. I hope you’re okay!

[@Sisi_San]

Thank you 🙏🏾

[@andylacivita]

You're welcome!

[@ninoindeutschland2477]

Thank you

[@andylacivita]

You are welcome!

[@big_zzzzz]

Preach

[@andylacivita]

👊👊👊

[@feroncia]

I have been trying too get a new job for these past months but always ended with no response and rejected applications. i do not know whether this is my problem or not but this make me feels so worthless like do my experience does not hold any value to them??

[@oduvan2612]

this applies to relationships as well

[@andylacivita]

Sure does!!

[@fatimahijazi6658]

Thank you 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️

[@andylacivita]

You’re welcome!

[@mothernature5237]

Because they have refferals and people who has no degree and no experience even in the job role get the job

[@andylacivita]

It’s about who you know in many cases!

[@theyincorporated5711]

That’s not how dream jobs work bud

[@cristetia]

Thank you.

[@andylacivita]

You're welcome!

[@Ducky_logan]

Thank you.