How to Have an Abundance Mindset 🌟 (scarcity vs abundance)

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[@lavendaire]

What are your new abundant beliefs & goals? 😍 For more practical resources to manifest abundance, check these out: → Money Affirmations: Attract Abundance, Prosperity, Wealth ✨ | bit.ly/3KUjl1P → 5 Minute Morning Meditation for Abundance 🌿 | bit.ly/41UWFa0

[@djaurm]

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[@m07ism]

I have all the time and energy to thrive in my academics and work life. I will achieve and exceed all my goals

[@MeditationParadiseLand]

Having an abundance mindset means focusing on the limitless possibilities and opportunities available in life, rather than dwelling on scarcity or limitations.

[@akanksshajaswall]

My abundant goals is to have multiple sources of income. Have abundant time to spend with my family and travel with them. Have abundant sources so that I can give back to the community 🙏🙏💖💖

[@ezroualy8655]

Hello dear

[@user-uk1np9lz3i]

Time was abundant before we had phone addiction..we seemed to have time for everything. But now, we don't even have time to sleep.

[@Amanda11762]

I think about this all the time!

[@carlar1820]

Money flows freely to me from multiple sources.

[@brieworton6043]

I often struggle with always looking for more to keep me satisfied, pretty much in any area in my life. But what helps me with this is paying attention to things I already have in my life, like a dog, family, delivery drivers, a car, a bed to sleep in, food, water, we take so many things for granted and while it’s great to manifest new things, it’s also good to pay attention to what is right in front of you. That way when u want to attract more into your life, you feel whole already. Because the result will NEVER make you permanently happy, if you always look for more, even once you get that thing, you’ll continue looking for more. But starting now is what helps you layer down the road too.

[@ashleyannephd]

This is spot on - when we put out the vibration of "I need more" all we do is attract situations that make us feel like we need more. Channeling the sensation of feeling satisfied *right now* is what actually pulls abundance toward us.

[@terrevite]

I am focusing on the idea that’s it’s never too late to start a new career path and new hobbies. I’m 56 and am just getting started! Thank you!❤

[@lavendaire]

that's the spirit! i'm so proud of you 💓

[@aliynarouise]

my abundant goal is that I will land a full-time job at an organization I volunteer at! i'll be graduating this month and I plan on having a coffee chat with someone who works there so I hope all goes well and a position opens up for me!

[@angelagrimes8237]

Once again you presentation is filled with helpful ideas and actionable tasks that can work for all of us. And as a person who is 68 and living in a world that still devalues the worth of a person after the age of 50, you are so correct! Please never let the world define your worth based on your age amongst other things. Life long learning is an awesome abundance mindset tool! It’s never too late! Cheers

[@imwortyoflove369]

Wow, your dress(?) is gorgeous!! 😍🎀 I love it. 🤍✨

[@SarahGelaneh]

I kept looking at it the whole video

[@holabooks]

I'm currently working on stepping into an abundance mindset, so this video came to me at the right time. Everything aligns just when I need it ✨

[@ashleyannephd]

I love this for you! The Universe is constantly working on our favor.

[@ezroualy8655]

Hello dear 🥰

[@bloom_some1402]

I think having abundant mindset is one of the biggest struggle in my life and the biggest challenge I yet had to face due to being exposed as a child to limiting beliefs and negative beliefs about money but I will keep fighting and I'm not giving up

[@ashleyannephd]

I resonate this with quite a bit! Our programming from childhood makes a huge impact on how we feel, think, act, and attract.

[@ezroualy8655]

Hello dear 🥰

[@Alyssa-nt7zt]

You always know somehow what I am fighting with. And I did not know what made me feel so anxious and irritated all the time. But now I know what that is and I'll do everything I can to change this scarcity mindset.THANK YOU ! 🙌❤

[@jerrymeo1137]

I come from a family where more than one generation survived famine. So I do not blame my parents for raising me with a scarcity mindset because if they did not hold up those beliefs we could not have survived till this day. I am grateful for this video because you pointed out abundance mindset can be nurtured and actively created. It's the CBT kind of stuff, like we need to find and even create evidence for ourselves to change one belief at a time. Thank you!

[@miharu9794]

I think abundance/scarcity mindset expresses also in what you believe of yourself. For me personally, what i struggle with is limiting beliefs around relationships and social circumstamces....lot's of work to do around that 💪🏻😆

[@emhaggsart]

I felt this.

[@ashleyannephd]

I hear this! Especially if you're a sensitive person, trauma and karmas around relationships can linger unless we heal them from the roots. Wishing you much magic as you move through limiting beliefs ✨

[@c.k.1958]

I believe you can do it 😊

[@dakotacooperr]

Aileen youve been my hero for many years and again here is a video I needed to watch. I used to have a really positive abundant mindset but depression and covid completely took it away. I gotta do these exercises and really start working toward that again

[@ashleyannephd]

Situations certainly have a way of derailing our manifestation practice - I hope you're able to get back into alignment very soon!

[@ezroualy8655]

Hello dear 🥰

[@Ienjoyrainbows]

Love you girl, but pleaseeeeee ditch the better help sponsorship they are a garbage fire company and do a lot of unethical things! Sending you love and light!!

[@Klara_is_finding_herself]

I've been sick for the past week, so I've a lot of time for self care. Working on my abundance mindset is on my list of things I want to work on 🌼💛

[@ezroualy8655]

Hello dear 🥰

[@halalaffirmations]

Yes, which is why affirmations are so important. I make positive affirmations for Muslims. 🧕🏽

[@fashionablyelise]

❤

[@kakmcloughlin1927]

This is a perfect description of Abundance and how we, raised by immigrants, are taught at a young age the fear of scarcity because our immigrant parents had such childhood struggles. I want to be the fruit tree sharing my fruits because I have been given so much.

[@Amanda11762]

For me scarcity really started during the pandemic. The empty shelves, everything on endless backorder put me in a place of fear, especially since I had my son in April of 2020. I still find myself spending a lot more on groceries than I need to, buying multiples to reduce trips. Also afraid of running out of anything because of the fear of there being none available at the stores. I will give your suggestions a try today!

[@susantroche1506]

Thank you ❤

[@SteelSanctuary]

needed this thank you x

[@ananyagaur2412]

Thank you goddess,, i really needed it ❤❤❤

[@k.6160]

Perfect timing on this video. Thank you 😊

[@1m_creation184]

Love this! ♥ I can play all your Motivational Theraphy Videos 24/7 !! ♥

[@lavendaire]

love it so much 💜

[@HEYYISHIIII]

The timing of this video is perfect aileen 🥺♥️

[@emmaechafi8245]

Such a great reminder, thank you 🤍

[@anatasyarafelindaputri7965]

Every video you create is very meaningful. It always gives positive vibe all of sudden. Thank you so much

[@lavendaire]

thank you so much Anastasya! 🩷

[@wanderlustlingxx]

Thanks Aileen, this video is so timely :")

[@lavendaire]

🩷

[@dianaarab1]

My abundance beliefs center around the notion that abundance extends beyond mere material possessions, encompassing aspects such as health, relationships, and personal growth. I strive to cultivate a mindset of abundance, where positivity, gratitude, and diligence attract opportunities and blessings. My goals reflect this belief, aiming to foster growth, nurture meaningful connections, and make a positive impact in various spheres of life, whether it’s achieving financial stability, pursuing passions, or contributing to the well-being of others.❤

[@prathimad4566]

This helps. I'm going through the job-hunting phase. This feels good. Maybe you can create a video on this phase of life where we all go through Aileen. Even affirmations about new peaceful job helps. Thanks

[@Nina_1217]

Wow, this is exactly what I need. I hope she creates this type of video 🤍

[@98musty]

Lovely Thanks

[@xXKiyLivingXx]

Oh, my days! This really resonated with me. As I get older, I keep telling myself I'm too old to sing. I don't have enough time, and I've been riddled with regret to point I'd cry. I have a 2 year old, and I feel that she will live out my dreams, which has filled me with regret, too. Something has kept holding me back and my mindset has definitely played a big part in how I feel so thank you for this message and I WILL do this exercise❤.

[@xXKiyLivingXx]

Clarity comes naturally to me and I know what I want in my life I am loved and I attract loving people I am supported and have continous support in my life It's possible and achievable to become a successful singing artist I have more than enough time

[@lavendaire]

i know you can do it 💜

[@ramag3610]

You are always here to help me on time ..thank you lavendaire

[@swathivaggu8039]

New energy ✨☀️

[@nabi_han5087]

thank you so much, i feel so calm and happy right now

[@user-cu9nw2jp5c]

I'm learning from this ❤

[@Emma-ls8pq]

where is your top from? that green and bows combo is amazing

[@user-ie5oi3di6m]

your vlogs are really great

[@biancamillar6212]

I think it’s important to mention and include not only immigrants but also the Indigenous Peoples of Turtle Island (America, Canada & Mexico) when speaking on scarcity and the population of people that (have been forced) to live in scarcity and with scarcity mindsets. Most of the reservations we were forced to live on don’t even have running water and/or are on a boil water advisory. Thats only one example of the scarcity that has been forced on Indigenous People, there’s hundreds if not thousands of more examples, please consider this next time bringing up the population of people with scarcity mindsets. Miigwetch-Thank you ❤️❤️❤️

[@lavendaire]

so sad but yes thank you for bringing it up 💚💚

[@RanziYasasvi]

Interesting topic Thanks a lot Aileen for giving us all these deets. Lots of love from Sri Lanka ❤

[@zeishajones6999]

Thank you for another amazing video. Sending love and light 💫

[@lavendaire]

sending love and light your way too 💓

[@camillepinchart1136]

I really needed that right now, that's something I'm currently working on. I already watched the video but I saved it to start the exercises tomorrow morning 😊

[@twinkalkanwar14]

You are always on time ..

[@shamshadsora6360]

Just struggling with my limiting beliefs....hope this would help ❤❤❤

[@ashleyannephd]

Believing something is true in your body is such a game changer - thanks for this!

[@ezroualy8655]

Hello dear 🥰

[@HazelB15]

Abundance ✨️❤️😊

[@prasadzamre4891]

This video really opened my eyes. I've been stuck in a scarcity mindset for the past 10 years, but now I'm going to try to adopt an abundant mindset and change my whole outlook on life

[@reshmaroy8700]

Hi can you make a video about how to forgive people who did you wrong?

[@libragem]

I really feel your 🏹 ♐ 🌙, Aileen ❤️ & eternally young ♊ ASC energy in this video 👏👏🏼👏🏻

[@lavendaire]

aw thank you love

[@margarettownsley9500]

I agree to have abundance as long as one can afford to do it and not get in to debt for anything

[@SJ-ug9sp]

Earth provides enough to satisfy everyone's need, but not everyone's greed -Mahatma Gandhi #Practice_minimalism #save_mother_earth #fight_against_use&throw_culture

[@user-fz5dy4lk6e]

hi I'm jun from South Korea. I'm not good at English but I always see a your video once a day. today, I will have an abundant mindset. Thank you !

[@susanhaskell6111]

Like this one a lot. Wanted to let you know, I dance three times with a lady on KZbin. I am 70. Also do other exercise too. Thanks. Yea!!!!!!

[@edele24ballet]

This video and your comment remind me of a woman who danced solo on stage in her early 80s ✨ I'm also 11 to 12 years over retirement age as a ballerina, and still dancing in front of people 🥳 (only females, because of my religion).. I have fans - girls from a third down to a tenth of my age - who love my dance 🩰 Some see me off when I go home after I dance 🤭 I should really be mindful of doing other physical activities, too! Thank you for being an inspiration 💡😊

[@lavendaire]

lovely!!

[@sanchitapathak8768]

Love you ❤️

[@lediaaa23]

Thank you so much 🩷🩷🩷

[@lavendaire]

thank YOU 💖

[@TETRARCHJeffUnstableFreak]

I have abundance of love money and Molang the little kids show that brings happiness. Awesome video Aileen 😎

[@DiyaaDebbarma]

You're so inspiring to me🫶🏻lots of love

[@lavendaire]

sending love & light 🤗

[@HuongLe-mz2kh]

I want to have the driver license and drive my own car to my hometown at every weekend. Returning to my hometown at the weekend gives me the chance to spend time with my parents since on weekdays I work in the big city that is quite far from my hometown. Moreover, I can recharge my energy and refresh my mind as my hometown possesses ideal weather patterns and quite comfortable living environment comparing to the city that I am working right now

[@earthgirl8917]

Lovely video, just like any of your other videos. I wanna thank you for your work that Im so interested to do myself, in this direction. Also, your voice is the most pleasant of all those videos on affirmations IMO

[@lavendaire]

thank you so much lovely!

[@erindwyer1202]

I start every day with your morning negotiation, then your affirmation videos. They have helped me to create an abundance mindset little but little, I'm getting better at it. I come from a family with severe scarcity mindsets and had no understanding of this. I scroll through the housing market and still struggle to believe I can afford to live in certain ones, but I continue to look and repeat to myself that one day, I WILL. ❤ THANK YOU for your work here, your videos have been very impactful in my healing journey and you have the most comforting, soothing, relaxing voice. In your words, "Sending you so much love, Namaste" ❤

[@ezroualy8655]

Hello dear 🥰

[@lavendaire]

you're so beautiful! thank you so much for your words - i appreciate you 💓

[@heatherpham1858]

We are all capable of achieving anything we desire. Everything is available for each of us, we just have to align to it to get it. Releasing limiting beliefs helps. The same source energy is flowing through all of us. I love your videos. Great job🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@edele24ballet]

Once again, all my best wishes for your new start in your new home 🏡 It's so, so beautiful and calm ✨ March, April, and May are your spring months (duhh, Northern Hemisphere lol) in your Chinese astrology day pillar 12 month cycle! A new season for you in so many ways 🌱🌼🌳 Thanks to Lavendaire Lifestyle Podcast Episode 99, I'm starting school in hypnotherapy G-d willing this June! We have to do a minimum of 20 practice sessions with new-to-hypnotherapy clients (no professionals, no fellow students), for me starting in late July, in order to graduate 😳 None of my real life friends have Zoom (we need to record the sessions over Zoom calls, it seems), and I'm freaking out, "Where am I going to find practice clients?!" 😱 I guess I'll have to be more active on social media where people are more likely to get (or already have) Zoom .. and be comfortable writing feedback in English 😅 (my real life close people speak Yiddish, and rarely go to the Internet😥) I'm ready to do all the course work, for sure - I'm already studying the books I need to read, months ahead.. The little fears are around cultural differences (I'm not spiritual in the popular sense), finding practice clients, and time management.. But look: I have 4 months to find practice clients, I know what's negotiable and non-negotiable for me to the point where I'm ready to give up thousands of $$$$ just for accessing the information I need (even without a final certificate) if I find something I really can't go with to complete the course, and it really is my will to go for this now. Later in life, for example when I'm married, I won't be able to do this (at least in this way, with chunks of hours blocked out for classes). I have an abundance of chances and possibilities to complete my course!

[@bilqissulthanannasira4905]

Aileen, you are part of my journey, since 2019 🇮🇩 ( idk I just want to say that )

[@mathildelee]

Hello! Could you do a meditation for self worth / self esteem ?! That would be amazing ! Thank you ❤

[@ezroualy8655]

Hello dear

[@dharierodrigo]

I came across it at a time when I was feeling lost and unsure about how to find happiness in my life. Thank you for helping me to shift my perspective and see the abundance that already exists in my life.✨ Warmly, dharie

[@lavendaire]

thank you for your sweet words 🩷

[@ChildofGod98765]

I seek you Lord every day. You are my strength. Lord both of my sons are special needs. Lord I continue to struggle in providing for them. Father God it is overwhelming and challenging especially now because I’m homeschooling them so my hours to work are limited. As a single mother I’m barely getting by. As I struggle to buy groceries and as I struggle to pay rent Lord give me strength. With you Lord Jesus by my side I can’t fail.

[@NickDeAzevedoUSA]

I was 19 when I last saw a video from Aileen, and she helped me so much throughout my process of healing from childhood trauma. I'm glad to see that the one who gave me so much help keep up with the amazing content. ❤ Now I'm subscribing again, but already healed! 🎉

[@lavendaire]

welcome back love 🥰

[@murkuniverse]

Thank you beautiful Goddess ☀️🍀🌞⭐️👏🏿🌙🌙🖤

[@fionah1580]

dear Lavendaire, check Feng Shui advices for house plants. Monstera plants are scarcity, and not advised to have at home. round leaves are advised.

[@lavendaire]

aw shame to hear that - not going to throw away my plant though! it was a gift. where would you put it?

[@saumiyasrivastava6485]

I want to manifest a certain change in my physical appearance but, I don't know why my past memory and comments of others (in past) related to my appearance literally breaks me down whenever I think about it and I always feel a kind of resistance in my manifestation. It's so hard for me to accept myself, like i want to accept myself but, I still want that change in my physical appearance. What do I do?

[@Ladonna97]

amazing video 👏🏻

[@lavendaire]

thank you love 🌸

[@junefung4019]

Thank you. I am just struggling my progress on learning Thai language is so slow, I doubt my age over 40, doubt I dont have enough time. This video really help me to overcome fear, bulid up confidence. Open to receive positive energy ,beautiful resources, joy from Universe.

[@lavendaire]

thank you so much for sharing this - so proud of you 💓

[@junefung4019]

@@lavendaire ❤️

[@Stef.C.]

Great video 💖 thanks voor share💕

[@lavendaire]

🩷

[@georgeofhamilton]

Scar City A bun dance

[@lavendaire]

😂

[@preetypandey3000]

My abundance belief each graduation next year . Being in a place where i am loved . Financial stability

[@rricasful]

In love with your top! Where is it from?

[@lisas900]

My abundance goal is to know all there is possible to know about my future job. To be an expert at work.

[@lucilasandoval3084]

My abundance belief would be that I CAN do the work I love and earn enough money to be calm, that I can partake in the activities I want and be social without it breaking my bank.

[@theshelbypalace]

i love your videos! Great points here! Abundance mindset 😘

[@LaraY44488]

❤❤❤

[@gazza2933]

It is difficult but yes it is important to remain positive. 👍 I am English, and L' I am going to make for you a decent pot of tea. 😁

[@user-vt6mp2zl2l]

Living ligt

[@Anna-us2yw]

Nothing is impossible.

[@olivialivv5566]

I have enough money My business is going to be successful Iam surrounded by loving genuine people ❤

[@ngocyenngocyen1288]

I want to say thanks you for everything mindset, how to use abundant in life. before I just know the words abundant nearly. I hope i can create abundant in my life so productive and effectively. I come from vietnam, sometime i know I mistake use grammar english. I hope you ignore them, say thanks a lot.

[@lavendaire]

i want to say thank you for your kind words! you're so sweet 💜

[@artcraftmathcareenjoylearn1434]

I try to be modest, is this good or better?

[@carlar1820]

I have an abundance of opportunities.

[@user-ur8hx8pg5q]

It’s possible for me to become an artist ❤ I have enough time 😃

[@ananyagaur2412]

I have abundance of amazing grades

[@sharsnow]

How about, people closest to me don't practice this abundance mindset and keep wanting more things/care from me? Honestly , I feel broke all the time when this happens. I know I have more than enough but not the ones demanding from me. I can't leave them right? Anyways, thank you for your content. I'm feeling down today and watching this reminds me that I do have abundance in everything. I just want the ones closest to me stop demanding for ever freaking small thing in their lives. When will they be grateful with life.....

[@lavendaire]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and being so open with me 💜 it means a lot. Dealing with expectations from those closest to us can be tough, especially when it feels like it's never enough. Remember, it's okay to set boundaries and communicate your needs too. Sometimes people don't realize how their actions affect us until we express it! Keep reminding yourself of the abundance surrounding you, and stay strong. Know that you're not alone in feeling this way. Sending you love & light! 💖

[@1Strawbz1]

we are in a cost of living crisis tho

[@lavendaire]

valid, which is why learning to have an abundance mindset it even more important!! otherwise we default to feeling scarcity more & more

[@user-xr2pm3bp4q]

Tea is just scares

[@priyankaadvani4943]

I have more than enough money to afford a fitness trainer, at least thrice a week and a therapist.

[@felicitasdieterle4563]

Only to turn those beliefs to their opposite will not work- we have to collect some evidence for that, to seek some examples of people , wich did things - for instance-in higher age.

[@brittanyvargas4019]

Nice but what if you're actually unable to pay rent.

[@lavendaire]

sadly it's a reality for so many people because of this broken system we're currently living in! not here to get too deep into it, nor give financial advice here, but it could help you to look into books understanding WHY we have this problem (it's a problem with our money itself since it's not backed by anything and gov'ts can print as much as they want to pay off their debts, leading to inflation, etc). Books I'd recommend: - The Bitcoin Standard by Saifedean Ammous - Broken Money: Why Our Financial System is Failing Us and How We Can Make it Better by Lyn Alden sending love! 💚

[@brittanyvargas4019]

@@lavendaire thank you for the thoughtful reply ❤️

[@idkbyeexx88]

Firsttt

[@bilqissulthanannasira4905]

I'll always have money even I eat so much delicious & fancy foods

[@gigiUno]

I’m an immigrant and I am always in fear and thinking I’ll lose everything……