how to know when it’s time for a change

[@lavendaire]

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[@BellaVita1890]

I'd love to see a video about taking risks/making changes when financial hardship is a factor. For example, I KNOW my job is not fulfilling me, that it's draining my energy, but I stay because it's paying my bills and has good health insurance so I'm scared to make a change. A video discussing that would be awesome!

[@andrea-th5sg]

Apply to another position within your company if its large enough or speak with your employer about room to grow into

[@melodygardner]

The strongest position to be in while job hunting is when you have a job. Make a list of what you want and what you do NOT want. Make that your guide as to what you will want to go for. And like @andrea-th5sg said, if you can find that in your current company, so much the better.

[@Srishti.creates]

Build and buy assets and invest in it until it starts cash flowing equal to your expenses and then leave the job and explore your real path

[@lavendaire]

I'd love to film more sit down chats like this. Let me know: What big questions are on your mind? What life topics would you like to explore & ponder with me? 😌

[@akman331]

I have absolutely loved your videos! Personally I would be very interested in astrology topics!

[@akuaron]

I totally agree about short form content, mostly drains my energy. Love to see you on youtube, really love also these casual chat videos! Keep following your intuitions and thanks for all the efforts!! ^^

[@meenakshi7538]

I want those monthly planning videos back

[@walks_with_me]

A discussion about transitions in life.

[@155books]

I adoreddd this video and it came at a time where I really needed it! Would love to see more of these 💖

[@lidarubanava1217]

It's really refreshing not hearing you advocate for overnight change or instant fixes.

[@danarasmussen1556]

I love how relaxed and authentic this video is. I feel like I’m your friend and you’re just telling me what’s on your mind, and it just happens that it’s also something that I’ve been thinking about lately. 💛💛

[@lavendaire]

i love that

[@hadleyoling1951]

I haven't watched your videos for a long time coz I was busy preparing for th board exam, pursuing my career, moving to a new apartment,etc. I must say, the feeling I have while watching your videos feels HOME. ❤

[@lavendaire]

🥹🫶

[@angela.thepapersentimentshop]

I needed this video. I have been at the same job for over 8 years and I am so burnt out and need to find something new. This video was just the push I needed. Thanks.

[@vinu0023]

Same here. Mine is 17 years at same job since 17 years. From past 5 years It sucks. But now realised I need to take action

[@lavendaire]

Sending you love & support!! 🙏🏼

[@halda241]

I remember when first I found this channel, I'm totally lost and depressed. I learn to love myself from this channel. I learned to control my emotion and all also from this channel. Aileen, u made such a big impact in my life. I always come back to your channel whenever I'm feeling lost in life. As a first born daughter, you're the big sister i wish i have in my life. Love you Aileen ❤

[@lavendaire]

💛💛

[@d_generalist]

was feeling so low🥺and you uploaded this❤ you're my online therapist fr🧿

[@DebraWilderMeditation]

I felt the same

[@preciousandeternal8727]

💫… and there are still people that truly value slow paced videos with inspiring sequences of nature beautifully arranged stationary and home interiors and shared wisdom✨✨✨thank You🙏🏻💫

[@shirsmi5533]

Deep dives…. That is for me. Lavendaire I love this KZbin channel. I look for material to listen to while I walk around my home. I leave my journal out on the bar and make notes as I walk by. I resonate strongly with everything you said in this video. I skip by the little short videos… I want to embrace change and I need calm, smooth, educational, heartfelt energy to motivate me. And you provide that. Chopped up, loud, busy info videos feel like an advertisement. I so appreciate your content. And I have been so afraid of making changes and trying new things because I am older. More than 70+ times around the Sun. I have found that change is a constant. Get used to it. Choose what I want to change and move forward in the direction of my best future. 2023 I had breast cancer and a double mastectomy but I’m not ready to stop breathing. This is my next chapter. Who knows if it will be a long or short one. Who cares. Because I have TODAY…. and today is going to be fantastic. Love your contributions to bettering our lives. Thank you Lavendaire. 🎉❤🙏🌟

[@lavendaire]

thank you so much for sharing 🥺 i appreciate you!

[@dothao4003]

Hi miss. I really appreciate your sharing, I hope you are healthy enough to fight for your breath. keep going. 💪💪💪

[@mellooobruhhh9281]

Thank you for this video Aileen

[@lavendaire]

You have a good mindset about it! Sending you love & support 💖💖

[@ruviniratnayaka6234]

❤❤

[@rani-ys2pe]

I am claiming that it is the right time to change. thank you for this. been feeling low these days about where should I bring my current creative career. something within is pushing me to explore new areas. glad that your video popped out. realized a lot. thank you so much. sending you love and light!

[@saerae999]

Wow that's exactly where I am, i have a peaceful life and I started thinking about change and it makes quite uncomfortable because I have to leave my stuff. But I trust in the Lord and I ask keep to keep me faithful in him!

[@priyanshishree7947]

The way you explain things and your voice,, it is just soothing 💌🎶

[@Hellotherequeen]

You know how there are some people who have such a positive energy that hanging out with them even for a short while leaves you feeling lighter. Your virtual presence is like that!❤ keeping doing the good work and spreading smiles.

[@vanessalandrock]

listening to this I have just realized how scared I am of following my intuition and not knowing the bigger picture. especially when my intuition tells me the opposite of what my need for control tells me. it‘s so helpful to hear you experience these fears too but changing anyway. I am so so so so so happy you uploaded this videos 😊 the best is: I now have something to come back to whenever fear took over again

[@lavendaire]

i'm truly happy to read this 💜

[@NSDRwithEmily]

I am so inspired by both the wisdom here and the honesty about where you're at and how you're giving yourself the space to evolve and follow your curiosities. So much respect to you for listening to your inner guidance and showing us the way as you do.

[@zeinabsaleh4521]

I just wanna say and i think i should say this earlier.. your videos and the way you talk and explain different things about life, business and self-care topics have affected me so much and helped me become more aware and able to think differently. The first time i searched for a video about how to heal from trauma i found your channel and since then it was and still my favourite channel. Thank you so much.❤

[@throughmyiris378]

Regarding the new trends of short videos, I personnaly like to watch your videos on youtube. I learn through your videos but it feels good, not fast paced with maybe half informations. So I wouls say that now it is a power to don't fall into this. Thank you for your work !

[@lavendaire]

Thank you for saying that! 🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@konstantinDgospodinov]

this is the exact style of video I wanna see, just another person with another perspective going through life because I think no one has the answers but if we can just see someone and be like hey they cool thing maybe I can do that too then I think we're on the right path

[@danae-coffee]

I totally agree with everything you said about short - form content. Tik tok affected my concentration for reals. I deactivated it a while ago to see if things will improve, and yes I've noticed a difference already. I'd love for you to cover topics regarding manifestation and spirituality (such as tarot)

[@sarefah22]

i just got lay off and had a big change this year, i got a new job in the meantime knowing i have other plans in the future. But hearing you say "often life is pushing us to change it's pushing us to evolve. it's like once you thought you knew what you wanted and you go for it and things were going well then life starts guiding you to a new direction." It's just so so true. Love to see your video and i also love the casual ones like these💖

[@casiragui52]

Thanks for this video. This was a reminder of my theme year 2024. I really like the videos about routines to improve, journal, and reflect on life in general.

[@jerlinthangam1040]

I am going through a change right now and it feels scary. Thanks for this video ❤ And you always deliver the message that the universe wants to convey 😊

[@sineadfernihough6582]

I've been in a quick social media habit for a while now and today I'm trying to get back to meditation, purpose and mindfulness and came across your video which I loved! So much resonated with me. I recently read Big Magic and your video really struck home for me. I'm in a transitional phase at the moment and I have been speaking about following your curiosities a lot so thank you for the reminder to keep doing this!

[@michelle30sjourney]

I can never get bored listening to you over Spotify and KZbin...Learn and pick up lots of things from you over past couple years..

[@sstwphanie]

this video helped more than you know, ive been in a spiral over pushing myself to accept and get comfortable with change but hearing this helped me feel okay with and so much more grounded. thank you

[@katelynofriel]

I needed to hear this thank you ! After finding out i have to move out of my dream nyc apartment im trying to accept that the universe is challenging me to grow and somewhere somehow theres something better out there for me

[@follow.the.dragonfly]

"Some changes look negative on the surface, but you will soon realize that space is being created in your life for something new to emerge" [Eckhart Tolle] 🙏🥰

[@MaryR-h2l]

your meditation for anxiety video helped my son get out of a panic attack. Those videos are amazing, and I use them a few times a week. Many topics can be discussed: addictions, travels that empower, and connecting with nature as an observer or as an active subject ( ex. hikes), to name a few. Please don't stop what you’re doing. Perfect it.❤

[@ellajones469]

You got this, you can do whatever you put you mind to and that's so true don't force it, go with the flow, hope i meet you once day in this life

[@Jaanangel]

I am from India. I started watching your video in 2017 and till now I watch. Its like daily thing for me to play your video and have breakfast, do my chores. Your voice is so soul calming. I love your work because you talk deep and long. I feel there is a significant percentage of population who wants content like yours. Your voice is like a therapy. By all means you start new thing but plz keep posting video. Once in 2 week will also do.

[@johnnabright]

Learning about our true self, ours souls/Starseed origin, mental health, aromatherapy stuff like hand sanitizer, food, lotion etc… makes me feel so much joy and this exciting feeling! Can that be a hint or a clue of what our souls wants us to do or it’s what we’re meant to be studying, learning, pursuing in our lives? Thank you for your inspiration, motivational videos! You are extremely inspiring, and thank you for being here! It would be so cool to more topics about mental health, and wellbeing. Self improvement topics, idk if if these are part of personal growth.

[@lavendaire]

Yes! Thanks for the ideas

[@johnnabright]

@@lavendaire Okay. You’re very welcome! I wonder if me being drawn to watching your videos a sign from the universe. I’ve been a fan of you since 2021-2022.

[@FairuzHumam]

It feels great to grow with you in this channel. As you keep the things that you value but adapt to change it feels like natural growth. Thank you!! ❤

[@Briamiche]

Gosh I am so glad you said it, because I really didn’t want to keep up with these social media trends etc I feel like I belong in long form and the short form just makes me feel so drained like I want people to be less quick but I almost feel like it’s my excuse to be lazy about things but now that I hear you feeling the same I don’t feel so terrible about it!

[@sharles10]

I appreciate this so much. As a viewer, I prefer the more meaningful content that is naturally longer and gives you something to actually absorb, rather than the quick bullet points that are less memorable, as you mentioned. I'm definitely in a phase of life of following breadcrumbs, so this resonates. 🖤

[@Fan_371.]

Thank you for this video it feels like you're talking to me and giving me a motivation to do something im afraid of which is CHANGE 😭 I have social anxiety disorder for 20 years even going out side of the house is a big challenge to me😭

[@betterlife2255]

To be honest with you, it has been a pretty long time since I was here to meet you because of my job. However, I was happy and thankful that you have kept making videos. I got motivated and healed by you. Thank you, and please keep making this type of video.

[@milkcloud]

thank you so much for this video and for sharing your thoughts with us ✨ can't explain how well the timing of this video was! it was so calming and I definitely needed to hear this 🤍

[@directionerslove2895]

I would love you to talk about mental health and also maybe do some slow day vlogs .My energy was not resonating with me this month but yeah now I know that I can figure it out. Lots of love!

[@aldacarvalho790]

Thanks to you my life feels more alive than ever❤ always grateful to your channel.

[@mennaloaii2381]

You make me fall in love with life again and that everything is possible ❤ Sending you lots of light and love. Thank you for creating inspirational content it always feels great watching you whenever I need to have some mindful company other than my friends...❤❤

[@ankitachakrabortyart]

I enjoy the female spiritual talks about your podcast. It's like girls hanging out together. I'm not excluding males but I got that sort of vibe from you recently. Also you travelling (not just new countries)and sharing can be good idea according to me💞

[@lavendaire]

Aw thank you 🙏🏼

[@aaaaaaaaaaaa-aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa]

I'm excited to see your channel evolving with you!! I think an interesting topic/video idea would be like day in the life videos? Or moments where you bring us along and just chat about life? Anyways, love you! Thanks for all the hard work you put into these videos ❤

[@naturalwellnesswithgomolem6870]

This resonates with me so much, absolutely love your content and I'm exactly the same kind of person..I love deep, slow, steady, sustainable

[@meganm5184]

Thank you for this video and I can definitely relate to some of the feelings you have about wanting to do things in a new way. For the past 13 years, I've lived with men around me who were not good for my mental health (first my dad, who was emotionally abusive, then moved to be with my partner, who ended up much the same). But the past two years, I've felt a strong pull to start and live a life of my own, which is both terrifying and exciting as it's something I've never done. I always felt, especially growing up, that I needed a strong male figure in my life to either guide me or help me through life's struggles, but as I've gotten older, I've connected with myself on such a deep and profound level that my goals have shifted to being on my own. It hasn't been an easy journey, as I've loved people very deeply and genuinely wanted relationships to work out as I grew into this new person I am becoming, but that hasn't been the case. The interests, goals, values and activities I aspired to or enjoyed when I was 25 and leaving my family home are world's apart to who I am and what I enjoy doing now as a spiritual 30 year old woman who wants to make her own path. This video was super helpful, as it made me recognise and validate my fearful emotions about change- as a Taurean, change is like an anathma to us bulls, we see it is a threat, and often hold onto relationships and things that don't serve us due to requiring stability and consistency in our lives. I genuinely don't know where this next road is going to lead to- other than some small plans, and a dream I have about changing my situation, I could not tell you where I'll be in the next six months. It scares me that the things I aspire to- a better living situation, to move interstate, travelling and growing as a person- could all go pear shaped and I could end up in an even worse situation than where I initially started. BUT my heart and inituiton is telling me- THIS is the right time, you have to do this for yourself Megan, the universe wants you to be happy and this is what you must do. It's a weird feeling as I usually don't follow my intuition, but I feel so strongly in my body and heart that this is what I must do, almost like a calling for me to have a better life. Thank you for your video and the other comments on here are also immensely helpful in helping me to feel supported as I start this next life chapter soon. 😊😊

[@isabellaguimaraes8723]

I think that sometimes you don't know how important you are for us. I really love your long videos because I learn so much and it reminds me to slow down in my life out of social media. Thank you for your work, we really appreciate you!!

[@lavendaire]

i really appreciate your words love 🥺 thank you so much for your kindness, i appreciate you too so much 💖

[@AnrupB]

Yup my entire life up to mid 30s on one path and suddenly I realize it doesn’t fulfill me anymore. It’s time to change paths or integrate it with my previous career in a new way. I needed this reminder, so thank you.

[@angelinevantovier2534]

Firstly I was so excited when I saw you made a video as it's been ages since watching KZbin but secondly, thank you! This video came at the right time of need and has helped me regain that bit of motivation and clarity that I have been seeking

[@samarakaye2573]

This was like a conversation with a friend. I like how casual, chill but deep this video is.

[@reena0123]

Continue with your videos, however long your community will watch and cherish... So true about shorts and all that is too short to enjoy... Btw love your friday posts too.. Thank you Dear Aileen for all your efforts❤❤❤❤

[@crystalcurrie5789]

This video is amazing. No it doesn’t matter how long it is bc there are so many golden Nuggets spread throughout what you are saying and anyone who wants to just take tiny bits and pieces from it can stop anytime they want to or speed ahead anytime they want to. I happen to cross this accidentally as I was thinking about how to figure out what direction to take my life in. Like KZbin (or the universe) was conspiring to show me that I need to follow what gives me energy. And that is the most important message that I took from this. I’ve only ever just listened to your affirmations in the past, but now because of this video, I am curious about everything else you have to offer. I hope that answers your questions about, the video style you created. Thank you for sharing your wisdoms!

[@breneworld]

This video completely resonates with me. I've felt a shift in the last 3 years as well but haven't been able to decipher what it is to change. I started feeling more energized late last year when I've realized that I've outgrown my 10+ years day job and it was no longer serving my life's purpose. And that I need to move on from it. I'm moving on from energy vampires. Life is too short to spend it on things that no longer serve you. Thank you for your videos. Anything you feel that you want to share with us is welcome with open arms. 💖

[@lavendaire]

Yes! And thank you for your kind words 🫶

[@monasi3118]

Dear Lavendaire, I’m totaly your side on this! I also don’t feel energized while listening to those short/ not deep videos. We adore your content and keep doing the great work without any pressure🙏🏻❤️

[@annoar9776]

being able to recognize that you need change is the first step. you are doing the right thing. and the short videos like tiktoks and stuff aren't really good for us.

[@marciafab7]

May God recompense you for all the good you do. You have gifted me with new words of inspiration. I hug my "Artist of Life" book. Thank you for your courage and your story! I 💜 you!

[@Kohiicha]

I needed this video so much! I could watch and listen to this over and over again. Nothing like a sit down and heart to heart talk. Totally agree about the quality of short form videos in tiktok nowadays. You are so brave for voicing it out and it made me feel less alone. You are such a light to this world Aileen thank you.

[@sashtiana_sushi]

as much im seeing my past years was so much messed up. so as i turned 18 i saw the reality now. i needed a better and change me, thankfully when i was finding an answer i found your channel ❤

[@sashtiana_sushi]

i discovered the peace spiritual growth within accepting my flaws and more things that i hate about me. i deactivating myself from socials for now and trying a new habits

[@liciamonique4340]

Maybe I’m old but I still love longer videos. I understand outgrowing something but we still need creators like you on this platform.

[@HEYYISHIIII]

So thankful for this video 🥹✨ This year I'm also going to be open minded and accept the change and accept whatever comes with guidance cause I know the universe will provide only what's best for me 💗💎 This video gave me a postive thought about change 🫶🏻💗☁️ THANK YOU SO MUCH LAVENDAIRE FOR THIS VIDEO 💌

[@drdevyanimathur1355]

We belong to the same group of people who love slow paced deep conversations. I am highly grateful for you, you helped me develop self love and making me realise the importance of self knowledge. Thank you so much ❤

[@lavendaire]

same vibes 🫶✨

[@letsbethechange1424]

For the first time in life i felt like i am a fool . Here's what happened. So i don't have lot of friends, but i trusted a girl and slowly she started to sugercoat me and i felt as she is my bestest friend in the world. But when i actually needed her help, she didn't help me . She said that its ok let this happen, i cant help you in anyway. Although she could. I didn't talk to her for 1 month. But when she called me i was there for her. I told her everything i planned and every way of success, but whenever i asked her what she was doing , she said nothing she is learning and her life is so boring. Even after this i hate myself tgat i am a people pleaser . She has classes in evening, i had classes in afternoon. She uses to call me and told not to tell parents tgat i am skipping classes, she used to go out just to waste my time , i skipped all my classes for her , but right in evening she always attended her classes. One day she was going to home , she didn't had space in her backpack for few edibles, so she put that in my backpack , apart from this she put her diary in my bag too. And while she went to her home and i reached my home, we both forgot that stuff. I didn't knew she also put her diary in my bag . I texted her you forgot your stuff not know she forgot her dairy also. I saw it opened it , and danmn she had everything written down about how she is gonna earn money and all the stuff she was learning like programming, digital marketing, etc. i was shocked 😳 and I couldn't believe that she kept hidden everything from me , whereas i was a fool telling her every single thing . She doesn't even care about me. But whenever she needs help she says that i am her bestie and i should help her. How to improve myself bruh i don't know. Even i carried her luggage alll the way , i paid for her food every time. I think being alone is way better than being with selfish and 🐍 snakes. Where she is happy if i fail . In an exam i scored lil better than her , she became very jealous , but she scores the top in rest of the modules I scored just the passing marks . What to do man idk?

[@marieobligacion8226]

Long form content is much more valuable for me personally! I really appreciate your desire to put intentional content.

[@asimplestar570]

Your videos helped a lot in believing in self ,living a dream life and to stay in my present job..thank you ❤

[@karinacosta4256]

Friend, you're awesome! Follow what you need, We'll be here for you Please continue flowing with your energy as the beautiful being you are. We love you! Blessed be ❤

[@kimberly8742]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts & perspectives on change. I am doing my monthly recap and this was really refreshing, especially because I am starting my Saturn return next month so change is coming! 🙈

[@GalinaMalakhova]

You’re very eloquent, and your videos are soothing and inspiring. I feel similarly right now.

[@nabi_han5087]

thank you so so souch. your videos are like lovely big sweater and a fresh breathe at the same time. i'm so grateful to you, aileen

[@heysabo]

i really appreciate you for making this video Aileen! i love this chill conversational style where it feels like we're hanging out and having deep convos :) I feel seen when you said that posting on social media like Instagram and TikTok doesn't resonate with you as much or having to be the 'best of the best' content creator feels like a hamster wheel sometimes. I feel like I am in a middle of a transition where I've built something I really liked/loved but I don't feel as excited about it these days because of certain aspects that needs to be done with a business (like writing social media posts and posting). I appreciate your guidance always! Hope all is well :)

[@lavendaire]

Thank you love! That’s okay, we’re all meant to evolve 💛

[@psquotee]

I came across in 2019, from then I never stopped enjoying your style of creativity. Continue like that, it's not boring. Send love from South Africa 🇿🇦

[@lavendaire]

i appreciate your words❣️

[@kleighgreeson4116]

I love you so much ❤ These videos have brought a calmness and positive outlook to my life that I wouldn’t otherwise have. I’ve been escaping abuse. Getting out is genuinely so much harder than I expected. But I’m going to be okay. Thanks for being a calming, positive person I can count on to just ground me. I appreciate you so much ❤

[@umchileanywaysso]

I LOVE THIS TYPE OF VIDEO AILEEN ❤ i actually watched the whole 19 minutes. Love ur vibe . Calming, introspective, kind. LOVE YOU❤

[@SB-mt5mp]

I appreciate what you do and have done. Your honesty is what makes you special. I prefer the fewer videos, but about twenty minutes keeps me engaged. The series videos you have made also have been great. The best isn’t measured in quantity. Please keep sharing your honesty.

[@lavendaire]

thank you so much for your kindness 💜

[@ashleighdryden6621]

Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom with us all. This was exactly what I needed to hear today and is helping give me clarity ❤

[@Kaeliving]

You just reminded me again and again of how much I love your channel. Your videos were one of the reasons why I have grown so much when it comes to mindset. :’)

[@lavendaire]

🥹 thank you, I’m happy to hear that

[@Bobo-kc9xt]

Love all the videos of yours, so healing. It's like you know and understand all the fear in my life, love you. If you have a podcast I will listen to your voice everyday❤

[@SevinchNurkulova]

I love you❤❤❤, I appreciate all of your videos, they always help me when I am stressed or don't know what to do, thank you so much

[@janekennedy7970]

Your videos have meant so much for me. Please do not take them down. I wish you well In Your endeavors .

[@bigdreamwithliz]

I definitely needed these reminders right now! I appreciate your vulnerability & your helpfulness with these important topics. I have been questioning things on my own path. Thank you! ☁️🤩☁️

[@Alala-u5c]

Wow! You're such an articulate young lady! You describe how one feels very well!

[@DebraWilderMeditation]

I like where your path is possibly heading with dream life + AI. I’m trying to fight the hamster wheel of making Short videos being required… when I don’t watch myself. Inspiring❤

[@happycucumber4822]

You are the best🫶🏻💕✨️ Thank you for that you are still here for us for 10 years🌟🎀 Your videos always boost my mood✨️🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

[@lavendaire]

thank youu 🥺

[@FamilyPixieDust429]

I am part of that slow community- staying off of social media. I’ve been writing and reading books. I completely agree with you and there has to be more of us out there ❤❤❤❤

[@lavendaire]

wow writing books that's amazing! so happy for you💝

[@angelagrimes8237]

Congratulations! You have been an amazing person of creativity and sharing your journey with us. I have learned soooo much from you! I am probably older than you your main community members and I wish you had been around when I was getting started in my adult life. However the universe brought us together now these past 10 years and your contributions each post and podcast have been a God send for me! Thank you! And what you are saying here in the post! Very timely! Change is happening for me. Good change and your vlog has given me the ideas I need to sustain my ‘change’ journey in 2024. Cheers

[@sinaAngelo]

Your videos and tips saved my life. , And you are an authentic influencer in people's life 🌱❤

[@usrlgr99]

You have no idea how much you helped me! Please never stop posting 😯 I love you ♥️ Your fan from Morocco 🤗

[@niaboettjer1855]

Hi ! I will always mention this, but I absolutely love your videos ! This video is relatable to my current situation. This is a year of transition for my family and I . We are moving to Cali and at first I was worried. Short story background about me, didn’t have the lavish life growing up and always lived through watching horrible renting experiences that my single mom had to endure . My main worry presently is moving from one area where we have established a nice living routine to uproot to another area where the price ranges are way beyond comfortable for our finances. But as a military family it is expected and I am happy to be closer to family. I am not worried about moving, I am worried about us struggling to barely make ends meet . But I have had to tell myself that we deserve a lifestyle suitable for our family and that my past experience will not affect my current environment. We are in a better position in our lives so maybe this move won’t be a regretful choice. Sorry for the long rant but your videos helps me see another side of my situation in a positive understanding way. I’m getting a second chance to actually live instead of survive. ❤ thank you Lavendaire

[@edele24ballet]

So happy to see you understand for yourself what the (anxiety?/) discomfort around TikTok meant when "every" influencer started it.. 😬

[@arj9760]

You don't know how timely this is, Aileen. Thank you for making this video. 🥺

[@lindsayhone5862]

Thanks for the video. I really enjoyed this format. It’s like having a chat with a friend:) I agree 100% with you on the short 15 second grab videos. They serve a purpose but can’t hope to give any depth to subjects that can’t be dealt with in that time. I’m happy for you to talk about anything. One of things I love about your stuff is how much I can relate to it because you talk about things that I think most people experience at some stage. My big life change was to retire just over 18 months ago. What I found interesting was that for someone who is cautious and conservative and resistant to big changes, this one was easy. It makes me know that I was making the right choice for me, which is really the most important thing. We are living our lives after all:)

[@lavendaire]

thank you so much for sharing this with me! i'm happy to read that this change has been easy for you 🤗

[@mounikavarma1176]

Your videos helped me so much❤ Now i am in a much much better place internally ❤ God bless you Aleen with abundance of health wealth happiness and prosperity in your life ❤ Keep inspiring and motivating ❤️ Virtual hug to you ❣️

[@lavendaire]

So happy to hear that, thank you 🙏🏼

[@camillesucasas]

It’s hard to know if it’s fear or intuition that “wants me to leave” my work situation. Maybe it’s the opposite way: the fear of actually staying and being consistent and taking it to next level.. well it’s super hard this topic and also so very relatable! Also very relatable with the tiktok trend etc, it doesn’t resonate with me neither at all! It’s just so much pressure involved.. Keep doing you and we’ll continue to watch the longer in-depth amazing videos of yours that you hopefully will not stop with for a long time😍🙏😍

[@pearl.moment]

Thank you for this video. Watching this made me feel like I am not alone - especially when you talked about the new type of content creation.

[@ikrambouaicha5845]

Your channel is my safest place 🤍 it is literally my peaceful zone. Please, don’t stop doing content here 🙏🏻 its a good idea to evolve, to make it even better but don’t stop. All the love from Algeria 😍

[@lavendaire]

thank you so much for your kindness 💖

[@silverroxen2954]

I've been feeling like this, so this is timely. 😊

[@Mar-ME-s3h]

You’re highly intelligent, insightful & intuitive; that’s why the new ultra fast/short versions of social media don’t resonate with you. You also want to help enable true positive change and that will never happen in a short or mini video. Follow your path wherever it may lead because people of all ages need mentors like you 🌸🌟.

[@lavanyajakka4129]

Your videos helped me a lot. I come back to look at old videos sometimes. 😊 good luck with your change this year!!

[@puppylove1865]

I don’t like short videos either, I love your videos, everytime I watch your videos I feel so clam , inspiring, thank u always

[@anamraj8103]

Thank you Aileen .... your true Best friend thanks for getting back to our happy place casual KZbin...talk and life update ..... video which helps in all areas of my life relationship, health, self love , learn new things , exploring new experiences you are there whenever i need a best friend and a guide ..... thanx for building a tribe that we belong ...... sending you lots of love and light ✨✨✨

[@camilleclores]

Omgee! I am also on the same boat. I recently graduated and looking forward to a new chapter in my life. But I wanted to do something more than is expected of my degree. This video open my eyes that maybe it is okay to do something unexpected and out of my comfort zone. Felt scary but exciting at the same time. I don't know what it is but I want to find out. I am excited for you too.

[@cynthiasmith2334]

I would love more videos on this topic because I have a huge fear of change. My favorite style of video is the long form, chill, catching up videos because I can listen in the background while I do other things. Plus anyone can make a how to video, but only you can make a video about your specific life experiences and lessons. I'm not a fan of short form content; I had to cut it out altogether for my happiness and time management.