How To Have The PERFECT First Date

[@salamandersaladman8483]

Instructions not clear: married a toaster

[@Alpha_Plasma]

i'm actually very close to asking this girl out. wish me luck :D

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Good luck! Let us know how everything works out.

[@chikakumask4693]

Ahmad-Z-Gamer gl m8!

[@vas4810]

Alpha Plasma I did she said YESSSS, today

[@42luke93]

Alpha Plasma Meto, I was going to ask for this Friday, but I get strep throat. What the hell.

[@42luke93]

She had a boyfriend -_- but was, “flattered” Why couldn’t she of told me she had a boyfriend innthe first place after 3 months of knowing eachother.

[@matty3.057]

I found that on the first date there are usually spread out moments of silence that occur throughout the night. I watched you video about how to keep the conversation going and i used some of your tips but i never could fill that awkward silence. If you could help that would be great. Also, i took your advise from a past video and started reading "The Game" by Neil Strauss and i found that also very helpful.

[@MichaelJackson647]

Your videos have really helped a lot. There is someone I met in a club at school,who I might ask out pretty soon. Well at least sooner than later

[@cjevans8174]

Thank you for the tips Josh! I definitely will keep these In mind when I go on my first date. p.s. You deserve way more subs. Keep up the good work .

[@yoyoyoyo-eb6yv]

BOI AT SCHOOL I WAS LIKE, "Why hasn't Josh made a video about going on the first date that I remember?" AND HERE YOU ARE THE SECOND I COME HOME!

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

I got you fam ;)

[@josehernandez2460]

The Josh Speaks whats up josh

[@RJ-ox3gi]

I’ve had a few first dates. I’ve learned from mistakes in past ones to do well now. I just need to find the right person. I noticed this girl in my school even though she’s a year older than me, she’ll be on my track team this spring and I’m going to ask her out eventually.

[@reecelowery2478]

Hey josh when do we ask for a second date

[@Dogowisdom605]

Reving Nitro tomorrow

[@Sebblix]

Well i had my first "real" date 2 Days ago. We when't to the cinema and we both left the cinema with big smiles. Nothing really happend but i Think that she feels more "safe" being around me.. was this a Good date, I Think so

[@effectz7526]

im so confused with this girl like when ever we are sitting down waiting for our class to start she smiles and sits right next to me and i mean RIGHT next to me and is always messing with her hair and always laughs when ever i say something and always asks questions about my relationships and when i asked her out she said no?! im so confused😂

[@amandasmith5880]

How to ask out your crush in High School

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

I have this video on how to get your crush to like you in high school: thejoshspeaks.com/get-your-crush-to-like-you-high-school/

[@claudettebeaucicaut1720]

The Josh Speaks dude I'm using my grandmother's tablet I talked to this girl who was in 8th grade and I'm in 6th grade but I'm supposed to be in 7th but I was born late but I found out today that I'm taller than her but I'm still going to talk with her into I get her phone number and ask her to be my girlfriend I talked to her when we were eating lunch and she was by herself and when she becomes my girlfriend I will take care of her and her little sister

[@thomascassidy1662]

The Josh Speaks I haven't been on a date as I'm scared of getting rejected or my friends finding out and taking the ****

[@thepompking8842]

Thomas Cassidy I been rejected several times it will happen it hurt man just push through him

[@DeathScape714]

Thanks I needed this video Josh

[@cozylime_2006]

I got a date with my crush!!!!!! #imsoexcited

[@BlazeM87]

Hey Josh, so in my math class I sit next to my crush and we always talk and laugh together but i don't know when or if I should make a move or when she will make a move. Please respond. Thanks!

[@dnoseda]

Ask her "When you are free to get coffee together?" You are the man

[@BlazeM87]

dnoseda 😂 I'm in 7th grade I don't think that's a good idea

[@KickAssBill]

Mr Troller maybe ask about an ice cream parlour? I’m in year 8 ( I don’t know what that is in America, I was born there but haven’t lived there since 2011)

[@tomasg3773]

I asked my crush to be my girlfriend on the first date witch I meesed up and since that day she doesn't reply my texts. idk what to do

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Hmm, it's possible you went into things too fast with her? I would start from the beginning and try to rebuild trust by talking to her in person.

[@rxwiretapper]

Wow. This video was great, thank you!

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

thanks, im glad you found it helpful

[@parrotgaming1960]

Hey Josh! So I am going to college, and there are is a cute girl that I would like to ask out, but she is either working on homework, listening to music, or something else that makes it difficult to talk to her to introduce myself. Sometimes I see her on the bus, but its hard to keep a conversation on a crowded bus. ANY hints on how to introduce myself would be amazing!

[@sebastianacacia7621]

The reason that I haven't asked out my crush is because I live in Nova Scotia and she lives in New Brunswick. Any tips on how this could work out?

[@techalicious7850]

Hey so there is a girl i like who was on my Destination Imagination team and likes me as a friend but it would be really awkward if i talk to her and potentially ask her out. I have no idea what to do. Can you please help me on this, it would be so awesome. Thanks

[@danijellukic2196]

SO MUTCH INFORMATIONS, OMFG MY BRAINNNN IS BURNING !!!!!!

[@GsoriaHD]

Danijel Lukic rightttt!!!!! My brain is now have technical difficulty’s...

[@gregorycrawford116]

Hey The Josh Speaks, I love your dating advice and I hope to use it on my crush soon. Your content is simple yet informative and I hope you keep making your awesome content! Also, kinda off topic but you look like Grapeapplesauce (look him up)

[@andrewsmith74]

How can I avoid having to pay for everything on dates? Girls routinely expect & demand that I'll pay for everything. When I suggest that she pay her way, she angrily rejects me and calls me a cheapskate.

[@jalenbenham9225]

Josh, my name is josh too coincidentally. But you have made me a confident person and even though I'm still shy, your videos have always comforted and helped me.its been a year now, and im going to 7th grade. I just want to say thanks and I'll be able to survive 7th grade now. Like if you agree!

[@texx5973]

I had my friend ask out my crush for me becuse me and her are in differnt gades my friend sead that she sead yes but I have a feeling that my friend is lieing to me idk.

[@FairyNya]

I broke up with my girlfriend last year and now I got a new crush, how should I not screw up anything and never break up with my crush

[@kelceyclark9917]

Before I start, yes, I'm a Male, the name is a long story. I like how you have an "If you need help with these topics, go to these videos." thing in the icon button's menu.

[@ShellymanStudios]

The thing is I don't have a car yet. :-\ That's keeping me back from asking some one out.

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Hmm, if it's someone from your school maybe you can find local things to do around school? Even going for a walk after school hours could be a nice and simple way to get to know someone better.

[@ShellymanStudios]

***** Hm that sounds good.

[@isaacramirez9991]

Hey josh how can I ask a girl out on a date if she isn't allowed to date? What should I do? Btw she likes me too

[@CrazyGamer-hx9sl]

Thoughts in my head or holding my back my anxiety probably dosent help but the just think of what if it dosent work out or when i approach them it might be akward

[@kaden3490]

Hey josh love the vids I wanted your input on something. So I asked my crush out to a date and she said she would want to go and when I tried to schedule it with them they told me that they would tell me when they could go and they haven’t said anything about it since, we still talk and stuff so I wasn’t ghosted or anything I just don’t know what to do I offered to take her out again and she said ok and didn’t elaborate further and I don’t want to ask her out again for the third time in a week what should I do

[@samgardner4478]

I like this video I just wished it came out like 2 weeks ago before my first date 😭😂 lol!

[@p-premiumgaming4740]

+The Josh Speaks how do you know if she wants to kiss

[@austinmarler7900]

Bro, I confessed my feelings to a girl who i liked so much and me and her were quite close friends, I confessed my feelings one day, Now she ignores me and is not as nice at all as she was to me before i told what do I do? Im so stressed. Im wonderubg if this is just rejection with no words but with it being shown. Now i get down and get mad at myself for confessing. Should i just consider shes an @$$ or just consider shes not the one, or consider i should actually ask her out. Help PLEASE!

[@austinmarler7900]

il keep posting this until someone or you helps please

[@oliharley]

Dutchful Acorn If you want to be friends again, message her: "I don't understand why you're treating me so differently like before, I only told you how I feel"

[@austinmarler7900]

WOW thanks bro i really appreciate it I will go with my gut and will ask her and if she rejects she rejects PS your like the only person whos helped me lol.

[@awesomechalksome7191]

Dutchful Acorn Just accept she's not the one I have plenty of times

[@cykablyat5786]

Josh, I need you to please help me, I am a 15 year old guy, I met this really amazing girl (Too beatiful for me btw) last friday, we talked a few minutes because of a bet my friend and I made, (I had to talk to her for 5 minutes because according to him she wouldn't even pretend to notice me), then he doubled the bet to 20 and gave me the right to explain her all about the bet because it could make her believe I liked her, the point is, today we talked for about and hour even when I told her all about the bet, and I ended up actually liking her, since I'm from Latin America, my first high school year is ending next wednesday, during our conversation I found out she likes Star Wars, I've been contemplating the idea of asking her out to see the new movie (I know, what a nerd) but I don't know if it's the moment to do so, the problem is that I have 9 days to invite her, I don't even have her number, I need to ask her in person (wich I actually prefer), can you tell me if it's the right moment, please?

[@danijellukic2196]

I watched every single video , that you make about girls , relationsheeps , how to get girl , bla bla bla , my mind will explode , i'm to confused and don't know what to do !!!

[@sapphivvs4197]

This guy asked me out but he wants me to choose the place I think it’s too make me happy, I’m not sure what to do 😬

[@dokkenjohnson500]

This doesn't follow the vid but if you like two girls and I have built a good friendship and one reject you and should I wait a week to ask her out

[@dokkenjohnson500]

Wait a week to ask the other one out

[@keawetone7969]

I trust a guy who has anime figures in his room. Thanks josh your the best!

[@whoiscamoo]

Ong

[@guygio7721]

Hey Josh I left a comment on another video but this one is more recent so, I have a crush on this girl in my 1st period class(sophomore ) but thing is she sits like across the class room and so we can never be partnered up or in a group if we do a project or something and also on snack or lunch she is usually with her friends and worst part is that I don't know her friends or her for that matter. I don't know when I can approach her and how. I need suggestions please thank you.

[@musicandstuff1585]

Sergio G. If you don't know her, when she's alone, walk up to her and introduce yourself and try to get to know each other.

[@corrinecarlberg210]

My crush would be talking to her friends and saying my name and saying "yeah I like him too" I don't know what to do.

[@wolfyw7854]

Can I go out with my crush like to watch a basketball game together?

[@reecelowery2478]

Hey josh I know this is off topic but I was in school and my friend got mad at me for saying he liked them as a joke. So then next period he was still mad and actually punched me I blocked the second punch but I don't know what to de it would really mean the world if u could respond

[@joshg8222]

Reving Nitro dude seriously apologise and say you were wrong but be sincere

[@austinsoltis7642]

Can you do a video on how to compete with your crushes crush cause there's this girl that I like and we talk a lot (everyday) I'm not sure if she likes me or not but I know for a fact she likes this other guy

[@neiza8704]

Austin Soltis , there's a vid for that

[@warriorofwizards4539]

I'm in a relationship now but I want to kiss her but all of her friends are there and I don't know how I should do it

[@tyzongiillmore5929]

Hey Josh, I'm in 8th grade and really want to ask my crush out, I was wondering if the first date were to be a success if that would be a good time to ask for her number? Also how do I deal with competition over my crush because one of my friends and I both like this girl, and it seems to me he's trying to secretly compete with me, so what should I do?

[@coreywills2746]

I live in a small town in the middle of nowhere.

[@coreywills2746]

I have 4 crushes. 2 in 7th. 1 in 8th. And 1 in 9th. I'm in 7th.

[@oscarsandy2234]

I wasn't specific enough so I think I'm in a friend hangout. I dont know.

[@kailadi4244]

Hey josh, I went to the movies with a girl I like and when we walked back to her car ,we kind of stood there for a bit, and then hugged and left. Do you think I should've kissed her?

[@aaronaaron5556]

Kai Ladi ofc bro

[@subbefore-xd5xu]

Thank Youuuu! Now I have a girlfriend bcuz of u

[@nickwoods5637]

Do you have a relationship yourself? You must do😂 greetings from the Netherlands

[@josephstalin5776]

Nick Woods is niet echt een Nederlandse naam

[@antoniothomas3881]

Nick Woods he's married

[@martinbarajas361]

The josh speaks I like a girl but don't know how to approach her

[@MrPrice-je9sh]

Here's what I've always wondered. In your intro, there's a bunch of clips of you doing different, random, crazy things. Don't get me wrong, I love your vids, but I've never seen one of those kinds of videos.

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

+Mr. Price those are some of the older videos i did. I used to have skits in the videos and characters, if you look up my Josh Speaks personas playlist you'll find them in there

[@haydenbrophy9460]

underrated channel, however i have calculated not saying that cringy ass "Hello playa" intro will increase subs 5 fold

[@colethomsonmclaren6694]

i was going to ask my crush out until she called me ugly and a bully.i have never bullied anyone in my life

[@ted.3189]

R.I.P

[@sunderlandfc17]

I said "If you were to travel to any country in the world, what would it be" She said Japan and I was like ok, and didn't know what to say next, I said why Japan, she said because of sushi. And then it just finished :D

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

+iMan haha that was a good effort, one thing you could have shared is what you know about japan.

[@sunderlandfc17]

***** I said about the suicide forest because I don't know much about Japan :D And she was like ok, you want me to go and commit suicide there :D

[@disc.3417]

THAT ONE DISLIKE!!! Who would do that?

[@birdify3020]

I going on my first first date

[@calebmacgill9162]

DUDE I GOT A DATE!!!!!!

[@oceanguy1249]

Poggers

[@slimslanginslinky]

Hey Josh I need advice, respond whenever possible.

[@nesatnoon0257]

I ask out my crush today. It was very awkward. She said She couldn't.

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Hey I'm sorry to hear that, how did you ask her? Did you say "do you want to go out sometime?".

[@redeagle4973]

The Josh Speaks i asked my crush if she's want's to be my girl friend. like 3 weeks ago and she's haven't replied.

[@redeagle4973]

plz respond

[@nesatnoon0257]

I asked "will you go out with me?" Btw later that day she said her parents don't let her date. Sorry for the late reply.

[@franpojer2129]

I have never seen this girl before and Im not very sure about hug hahaha

[@infernored6556]

How to get your first kiss with your crush in middle school.

[@Ben-rr5su]

uggghhh i doubt anyone will be here tonight but I'm going out with this girl who is simply out of my league and I'm so fucking scared helllop

[@ack1243]

290 has watched the video and no dislikes

[@yahyaal-hajeid4925]

hey ill tell my friend bout this hes getting a new girl

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Awesome, spread the word to anyone you know that is getting ready to go on one or wants to know what to expect.

[@yahyaal-hajeid4925]

Ok sure! Ur channel is awesome btw u should have more subs!

[@ack1243]

Yahya Al Haj Eid agree

[@philiphn3761]

what if you are 11 about to turn 12?

[@sirgold3412]

TOO YOUNG.. Trust me .. most times the right person who will love you even if you both are 50-60 or 70.. will come when you're 17-23 or a little bit later.. or maybe a few years earlier.. its not easy with 12

[@DeadlyGamer-mo6mx]

Whats holding me back from asking out my crush? Simple I don't got no balls.

[@janmacgregor5131]

DeadlyGamer2000 LOL well at least you're honest!

[@schott9168]

Man that's do sad😓I thought I had no balls but I did it come on you can do ir

[@andrewsmith74]

Maybe even a kiss?! I'm 100% certain that I want sex on the first date. Sexless dates are a pointless waste of time, money and effort.

[@darkmatter9487]

Andrew Smith That's a terrible mindset, that'll lead to short term relationships

[@corrinecarlberg210]

I need help bro she said she likes me

[@andrewsmith74]

High-fiving a girl on a date?!

[@the_snekerz1903]

That she already has a boyfriend

[@andrewsmith74]

A perfect first date includes sex. How can I get sex on a first date?

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

+Andrew Smith hey, it sounds like you have a lot of expectations of other people and may not be looking to date someone but just to get laid. That's a whole different process, I see a date as a way to get to know someone to see if you want to pursue them. Sex can be part of that process but it's not mandatory, nothing is mandatory on a first date.

[@andrewsmith74]

I do just want to get laid, but I don't know how to do that without taking girls on dates, as that's what they demand. I'd much rather get straight down to hooking up. I'd only take someone on a date if I wanted to pursue her sexually. Sex isn't mandatory on a first date, but a first date is much better if it includes sex. A date is always deficient if there's no sex. It'd be helpful if you'd give advice about how to get sex on a first date. Better still, how to get sex without going on a date. The average person first has casual sex at age sixteen, so it can't be rocket science.

[@ibrahimhassan6566]

what is your definition of god ?

[@Dogowisdom605]

I thought this was america ! g.o.d