When Is The RIGHT TIME To Ask Out Your Crush?

[@unleashingpotential-psycho9433]

I have had the best luck asking out my crush after social hangouts.

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

That's awesome, what made you feel confident when you finally went for it?

[@unleashingpotential-psycho9433]

The Josh Speaks The fact that she was giving me lots of signals of interest during the hang out.

[@Anthony-iv1wj]

There is no right time. The time you spend trying to analyze the signs in and out is the time you could easily be using by asking out your crush and taking her on a date. Your losing time by focusing on the signs. Just go for it and make your dreams happen 🏆

[@VETZFacts]

Anthony this is all facts. I waited too long and then she went out with someone else who she’s still going out with. Gotta act on your feelings

[@Anthony-iv1wj]

@@VETZFacts Everything I said was based on my experiences. Don't want others getting their hearts hurt

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Preach Anthony! 🙌

[@ianhines2302]

I asked out my crush today and she set a date for three weeks from now... I guess it’s better than nothing.

[@apeoftheyeargaming5624]

something is something u never know bro

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

I would try to set up a smaller hang out session, maybe a walk in the hall or a video chat. 3 week is so far out, I would shrink down the plans and go for more frequently smaller meet ups.

[@myflymkultra268]

Dude at least you got her to go out im proud

[@PracticalInspiration]

Great tips Josh, learn a little about a person before asking them out really means you can work the conversation in a more natural way.

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Totally, we underestimate human connection sometimes and how easy it can be to build if we are genuinely curious about a person.

[@oceaniccart908]

I have this crush I am in 6th grade and she is in seventh grade and I really liked her and I didn't mean to be a stalker and know she blocked me I really don't know her and I feel really bad

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Hey, the best thing you could do would be to try to talk to her in person. Maybe if she gets to know you better she will unblock you. If she really doesn't want anything to do with you then I would move on and try to learn from this so you can avoid the same mistake next time.

[@odiehughes9890]

I feel like the right time is shortly after the first interaction

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

I can get behind that, if you wait too long sometimes they might get bored.

[@kodycastellanos]

That’s exactly what movies and TV shows WANT you to think!

[@youngaamez3550]

Perfect timing !

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

I hope its helpful!

[@matejsevcik2618]

Wow! Thanks! This is finally a video that helped me!

[@trizhs]

Says the guy with an action figure collection😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@peterpaul1998]

My crush likes someone else. But now she knows i like her too. Im very confused

[@mateisotcan4128]

If me and my crush like eachother and we ve been out what can i do if she feels like she s not ready to have a relationship???

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Hey I made a video before on what to do if your crush isnt ready to date, I would check that out. Overall though. I would still get to know her better, she might be nervous, she might need to get to know you better. The stronger the bond, the easier it will be to figure it out.

[@NicoMSFN]

Well look ill tell you this.every time before my crush leaves school she always like to hug me before leaving so does that count ass flirting???

[@tydof7804]

Im in love with her bc of her personality,i've known her for a month and its almost the end of the school year and i didnt flirt at any point. Im friend with her friends and im kind of shy. I dont want to mess it up please help

[@kalebmanson7686]

Josh, Its been a month since ive watched your videos... I asked out my crush 1 week after i told her i liked her. She said yes. We have been together for 1 month going on 2. I don't know how to tell my parents. Im 11 years old. Thanks for all your support

[@Curtis_11]

Wait, so I have to talk to her? No thanks. I’m fine staring from the other side of the room.

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Haha you gotta push yourself sometimes, even if its smiling. Everything is small steps!

[@Curtis_11]

The Josh Speaks I just don’t want to take the risk that she’ll think I’m weird. Nobody else is approaching anyone anywhere.

[@WittiwyTheBatman]

LordOfLuxury Man I know EXACTLY what you mean. I’m also considered a weirdo.

[@shoenoodles3509]

LordOfLuxury don’t worry if you talk to them more then you will get more confidence

[@notsocooldude7720]

Hey Josh can I just ask you a question? So basically every girl I’ve ever talked to or asked out has told me that they aren’t interested in me at all. I’m just kinda feeling hopeless and demoralized at this point. What do you think I should do? Should I just keep trying? Or maybe wait until next year when I go to university to pursue other girls? What do you think?

[@Withering_Fae_J]

I still can’t tell my crush I like them 😫 I want to tell her so bad but idk how.

[@sebastianchavez8483]

I've known the girl I like for 5 years and know their personality very well. I go on runs with them once a week and we can engage in conversation. But I never flirt. I have but very very little. More like a teasing joke but also not very often. I really want to ask them out but it is weird because I have known them for so long.

[@vofant9663]

I may need professional advice from you lol. So there’s this girl I liked and only a couple of weeks ago I worked up the courage to text her, now we’ve been texting a decent amount and we have a lot in common. However I feel like I’m the one that started most of the conversations, and I’ve only been able to see her in person a few times to talk to her. For some reason these past two days or so I’ve been thinking a lot about asking her out or really just confessing my feelings to her. Am I approaching the right time to do this or no?

[@vofant9663]

@@mrstarwars2447 uh let’s just say it got very complicated at multiple different points but we’re just friends rn

[@anikaxmeisel]

Hi, So I met a guy at college and we've known each other for almost two weeks. We're both first years and we've talked a lot and played chamber music together (we're violin performance majors in two different teacher's studios). How long should I wait to ask him out? I was thinking give it at least a month, but I guess it's just exciting because my last relationships were really toxic and I'm excited for something new

[@Laughs985]

So I bought a unicorn bracelet for my crush and when I showed her that it was a unicorn bracelet, I saw that she was happy, should I let her feelings come towards me slowly or should I flirt to make her feelings come towards me a little bit faster.

[@seanh9882]

Do what U want? Dude, ur talking about manipulation, take it easy and just let them know u want more than U are

[@Laughs985]

Sean H alright

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

I would definitely flirt but try to focus on building a personal connection with them. That's the best foundation to build a relationship on.

[@tperm2707]

If my crush said "look at my eyes and say what you are thinking" does she then likes me?

[@petrosmixides2843]

yes I think because she want's to hear from you if you like her or not

[@legaltuber7314]

It's hard knowing when to go for her, I just don't understand how people can just go for It and be successful and bounce back easily after being rejected

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Everyone handles rejection differently, as you experience it and learn from it you become less fearful but you stop focusing on wanting the person to accept you but instead on what you can offer and if that person is open to learning the real you.

[@kodycastellanos]

Perhaps the most ironic video you’ve posted so far, due to the timing of me just thinking about this one girl I’ve known for a while. Well, basically today I was just flirting with her. A little bit I’ve seemed to notice is that she’s quiet until you get her talking, and she’s the type where she makes actually funny jokes and she has the cutest laugh! We were talking about something in class when she called me a name, playfully, and I responded with “do you want to 1 v 1 me in basketball?”, since she is the best player on the team, and I have very little skill when it comes to basketball, and she goes “oh yeah, sure!” and then she chuckled. I think about her a lot and I think there could be something here. I am open to any thoughts you guys may have on this story. Thanks for reading! PS that’s why the timing of this video is ironic...

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Hey it sounds like shes a pretty friendly person, I would definitely make the effort to get to know her better.

[@jeremybeach3976]

Me and this girl have dated before and we started talking again. We talk pretty often and she has said she would date me again. But the last couple of days it seems like she hasn't wanted to talk to me. Idk if its because shes busy or just gave up on me. I really like this girl a lot and I think we could go a long way

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Hey, I would try talking to her in person if you can. You can learn a lot about a person from talking face to face versus a text here and there.

[@jeremybeach3976]

@@TheJoshSpeaks yeah we are actually gonna hangout soon so. Appreciate it :) dont know how you dont have a girl

[@kodycastellanos]

He’s married silly 😂

[@jakobthegameboy2107]

Hey josh I just wanted to ask why my crush has kinda been ignoring me a lot lately and try to avoid me be us two alone and she isn’t acting the same around me what does this mean?

[@seanh9882]

Multiple things, I'd say to ask her

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

You may want to ask her if everything is ok, she may have something on her mind that might be overwhelming her.

[@jakobthegameboy2107]

The Josh Speaks thanks!

[@JOYPOOL1990]

What if I’m best friends with my crush how would I go about asking them out

[@palestiniansmater4652]

I now know and thanks

[@yaboizain2180]

Guys help me. I have a crush who I have had a crush on in year 3 but they also had a crush on me we both know everything about each other and I quite like her. The problem is now I am on year six I am going into secondary and I don’t know what to do like should I make he move or wait a bit as in it has been quite a while so please help me

[@azuki4569]

what if I just met her and it's nearly the end of school and I only see her between classes, but we've talked and she's cool? can i/should i ask her out?

[@midnightoblivions1427]

Hey Josh I bin waiting quite some time for me to find a girl that is my type and I last seen a girl like that in the 5th grade. She moved to another school later that year😑 And I'm now in 7th grade and I still haven't seen anyone like that anymore. But I am friends with a one girl that looks pretty but I don't have a crush on them so should I try my best to level up our relationship? Or should I keep waiting? I don't know anymore😫

[@seanh9882]

Idk do U wanna persue a relationship? I suggest U don't considering U don't like her... That wouldn't end well

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Dont worry about being in a relationship, that will happen when you're ready. For now, just focus on getting to know people better and building strong friendships if you can.

[@midnightoblivions1427]

@@TheJoshSpeaks Yeah I think I'm gunna go with that. Thank you

[@cameronfelici5560]

Would you consider saying "wanna hear a joke i have a girlfriend hahaha get it" flirting Edit: and other similar comments

[@randomgamersgr3441]

@The Josh Speaks ,hope u see this .I have a crush at school high school and i know she likes me (we talked a bit on chat and it was clear)and tomorrow i will ask her out on school .Am i too late cause i talked to her on Friday and tomorrow is Tuesday?

[@oceaniccart908]

So progress report I text her and she goes offline then she looks at it like a hour later then she leaves me on open

[@youraverageham3691]

What if you have a crush but she confronts you and you deny you like her but then you wanna start a conversation but you don't want it to be so obvious what do you do??

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Hey, I would check on my video on why you should never say you don't like your crush if you're asked. That video will hopefully shed some light on have a handle those situations better. But I think best way to jump back in to start rebuilding something with her is to start talking to her as if she never asked that question. Go back to talking to her, flirting, and really try and build-up something because what she's going to be expecting from you now is for you to be confident when you interact with her and if you want to get with her you're going to need to display that.

[@youraverageham3691]

The Josh Speaks thanks for the advice but I always wanted to talk to her but it's either she's with friends or I just mentally plan out that if I start a conversation it will be embarrassing or she just won't be interested

[@aigarslacis2026]

I have a crush and i wanna ask her out. Im just too scared. What if she declines?

[@F34RTheRapper]

Hey josh I need your help, I'm in my junior year of high school an I've been talking to this girl for roughly 3 months now ever since we got seated together in class...recently we have began walking home from school 3-4 times of the week. The thing is there is another guy in the picture but friends of mine and hers say he is just a friend. I think he is trying to become more than friends just like me. There is a dance coming up this week, she's going, I'm going and the other dude isn't I have an advantage. I want to pop the question, how can I do so? When is the right moment? Should I back off because the other guy was here first ? Also, she once and a while calls me "dude" yet we speak like we are more than friends, I mean she asks me how my day is going as well as personal things. Is she friend-zoning me by calling me "dude"? I'm sooo confused...i NEED HELP!

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Hey, I wouldn't worry about the other guy liking her. If he's not a friend then it's all fair competition. Some girls do use the word dude because it's just how they talk, but you'll be able to better see where she stands once you ask her out. I would say go for it!

[@siriussslate6832]

Hey Josh, I need advice. Last school year I was really close with my crush though I never talked to him when he was with his friends or between classes, he used to tell personal stuff in person and we had great eye contact! But I failed to get that he wanted to kiss me the last day of school when he leaned in. This year we don't have classes together. I only see him in between when he's with his friends. I started to look away and put my head down whenever he looked at me. I think it sent the message I was avoiding him and didn't like him anymore even though I was just shy. now he ignores me and I feel I have to show him I still care... Sorry for the long comment P. S I'm a girl and I love your channel

[@josiacurilla3623]

Hey Josh, I have a crush on this girl in high school and I don’t really have a clue about what to do. I’ve never had a girlfriend before and I’m kind of shy. I haven’t talked to her much but I’d like to ask her out soon so nobody else does. Please help me out. Thanks

[@Dead_Mow]

So me and my crush are going to a county fair we have in florida and i was thinking after that and shes ready to leave and is heading to her car i was going to confess that i like her and ask her out since i cant seem to find a perfect time in school should I or no? Anyone is free to answer

[@seanh9882]

Sure! Why not?

[@Dead_Mow]

@@seanh9882 eh just because it will be weird if she rejects but im willing to take a chance since i really like her

[@seanh9882]

Exactly to my point then, why not?

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

I would definitely ask her out again, but I would maybe hold back from full on confessing. It might be a bit much for her to take in so you may want to drop little points about it during the hangout.

[@Dead_Mow]

@@TheJoshSpeaks yeah your right might be more confident and flirt more thanks josh

[@blanksheets5789]

I'm gonna ask my crush tonight and I'm ready to be rejected.. It just hurt for me to wait any longer

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Hey how do you know you'll get rejected?

[@kingsaief7327]

Low_ HAXX did you get rejected?

[@blanksheets5789]

I was ready to be rejected because she looks like doesn't have interest in me.. So last night i ask her.. " hey, you know i like you right?" and before i finish my question she told me that she doesn't want to have a boyfriend right know.. And she told me that she like our friendship.. Then i tell her that I don't want to be her friend, i want to be someone more than friend for her.. Then she said that it's up to me if i want to continue to chase her or leave her.. She ask me to try find another girl right now and maybe she would regret it later if i have a girlfriend.. I said that I will still chase her... Is that bad? What should i do next? Should i do the no contact rule?

[@blanksheets5789]

@@TheJoshSpeaks.

[@theblackbaron2375]

the girl I like didn't come in so I never got to talk to her :( I feel she likes me but its disheartening to learn shes not there and could be out with someone on a date. I would of gone up to her and said my line and then said somethings to ask her out but I never got to and I probably lost my chance now. I really like her and now don't have a single problem talking to her its just asking her out as its gonna be scary. she has made comments that make me think "what did she mean by that?" and I notice she only asks me those type of questions.

[@Adam-tf8qn]

I want to tell her but I’m scared cause we’re rly good friends and I don’t wanna loose that

[@animasionxx6221]

What if they never text and when they do I'm not around to text her?

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

If texting isnt working, try to talk in person. Sometimes one face to face convo can spark an interest in texting more.

[@animasionxx6221]

@@TheJoshSpeaks The thing is that she lives 4 hours away from me though lol does long term relationships work?

[@afterhisheartt]

you sound like fearless the fortnite KZbinr 😂

[@levisouthwell2099]

Lol he do to

[@noahsantosh8069]

I have a crush on my best friend but I’m scared to ask her out

[@LiamStott]

Hey Josh, Ive liked this girl at school for a while, Im on summer holidays at the moment, but I feel like I cant ask her out because I cant just walk up to her and say hi, I would really appreciate your help.

[@nadeemm04]

Liam Stott wait how are you on summer holidays in January?

[@LiamStott]

NadeemM6 I’m in Australia haha

[@SethShore]

If we talk over text a bit, and we know a bit about each other, but I don’t talk to her in person (I’m going to this upcoming week), is it ok to ask her to a school dance?

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Hey, I would say it's totally OK. If your plan is to get to really know her better and you're going to start doing it by talking to her online and in person then I think you're on the right track. Go for it, see how it goes and good luck man!

[@SethShore]

The Josh Speaks Thank you so much Josh! Hopefully it goes well! 🤞

[@7srebels75]

I need to speak to my crush

[@MikeTheSpyderGamer]

Im really not great at talking to girls.. i have some good signs though

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

It's ok man, I wasnt very good at talking to girls either. It took me time to really feel comfortable with who I was before it became easier.

[@MikeTheSpyderGamer]

@@TheJoshSpeaks thanks Josh just wanted to say that im in the 8th grade Also i think u should make a video about Getting Over A harsh Breakup

[@yellowmcmasterofceremony5207]

Yessssss👍🏿

[@savagestrike9467]

Im going to ask my crush out monday

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Awesome, lemme know how it goes. You can share the news in our Josh Speaks discord, www.thejoshspeaks.com/discord

[@sebastian2320]

Savage Strike how did that go?

[@royaltyyt3695]

What would u do comment Challenge 1:What would u do if I was with someone who don't look like me and I call u by some one else name what would u do test if u win I'll subscribe to u

[@mk-jamie2923]

Been a week. Is that fine

[@cheesyjadezberry4133]

Player???

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Lol its heya playa, it's based on an old wrestling character that used to say "lemme holla at ya playa".

[@cheesyjadezberry4133]

@@TheJoshSpeaks lol!!!

[@felliperamos5620]

What if your crush been shot in the 1980’s by a crazy fan??

[@sanstheskeelaton3337]

it's fun fact Friday!! todays fun fact is, banging your head against a wall for 1 hour burns 150 calories

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Oh wow, I'll try to find a less painful way to burn calories then 😂

[@tj40hang]

your teeth are so bright

[@OverTakeJake7999]

First.

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

woo hoo!

[@helloiamm.9855]

Dude you made a video to not confess to your crush, want you want us to do dude!? Why can’t I ask out my food and confess to it?

[@mundaJoel]

“Heya playa” is so counter intuitive to his gynocentric messages😂. That shouldn’t be your intro josh. It’s so mysogynistic and reminiscent of tyrannical patriarchy. No more toxic masculinity. I’m on a campaign to cancelling u😂

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

My "heya playa" intro stems from an old catch phrase of the WWE referee/general manager Teddy Long. He used to say to wrestlers "lemme holla at ya playa" so I used to call people playas as a homage to him. I'm not sure how you interpret my content to be "gynocentric" though. Care to explain a bit further?