How to Help You Not Be Scared to Fly

[@pandabear7177]

I finally went on a plane after years of refusing to fly. I watched this, spoke with a pilot, and studied a lot about how planes work. I faced my fear and I’m better now. Thank you!

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Way. To. Go. Awesome!!

[@keshahenry8449]

Pray for Gods protection Everytime you travel he said acknowledge him in all your ways and he will direct your path

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Yes yes!

[@deeb5020]

So very true...Amen!

[@erickal2601]

Amen!

[@oliviajoy8869]

amen!

[@philipsztark3268]

What about all the other plane crashes where people prayed to not crash and still did?

[@MajoAS]

I'm a teenager, and I'm gonna fly for the first time ALL ALONE! I'm terrified because in the past I've experimented panic attacks, so and I don't wanna have one while flying... This is very helpful,thank u so much💕

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

You will be so proud of yourself when you are done. I highly recommend podcasts to listen to. That way you can keep your eyes closed if that helps. Research if your plane will have movies you can watch on your phone or on the back of the seat screen. Take headphones in case they don't have any free ones left. Let me know how it goes and thanks for watching!

[@FeralCat123]

Hey how’d it go?

[@hawkscrown525]

@@TravelTipsbyLaurie ma'am I will be flying next month. .I am in my 30s... .I am first time flyer...it's 9 plus 8 hours flight Afraid anxious nervous ... Can you plz guide me about motion sickness and dizziness which is there in domestic flight....is it in big planes too??? Ear pain due to noise... And how I can manage myself before and during flight...

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

@@hawkscrown525 that is exciting! Congrats that you get to fly. I would get there 3 hours before your flight. I would honestly ask your doctor about motion sickness. Your email should tell you the size airplane.

[@emillycherryberry2180]

This helped a lot. I’m one of those anxious types that struggles with lack of control, and a little bit of claustrophobia...I’m supposed to be flying to California from Denver next weekend to see a terminally ill family member, so I’m trying to stay positive. Thank you so much

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

I totally think that is my problem too. Thanks for watching.

[@Andrea-fe6dy]

Hi Laurie, I enjoyed watching your video. I have a tip that perhaps parents or guardians can use: get children flying from a young age. I've been flying since I was eight months old approx five times a year in total including return flights ( up until three years ago) and so I wasn't filled with fear that comes when your an adult i.e from stories you hear etc. I guess that's a proactive approach. I still always say a prayer to Jesus before the plane takes off, once it's made it up off of the runway and I always rememeber to say Thank You to Him once we've landed safely. I remember when people used to clap once the plane landed congratulating the pilots on a safe journey... I always put a little bit of cotton wool in my ears before take off and landing to stop any pain from air pressure :) I hope this helps. Love Andrea xx

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Andrea, thank you for watching! Shame on me for not saying that, but I too ask for protection. I pray that He puts a bubble of protection around our plane. It really does help, but I'm still scared. But it helps. How does the cotton help, do you know?

[@christiansgrandma6812]

Its the fear of not having anything under me, (I need to feel the ground) being closed in this tight space. I wouldn't want to be in the front because of a nose dive crash. Also I worry if the pilot is stable and not having distractions.

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Thank you for watching! Yes! I agree.

[@Mhel2023]

@@neb4587 to me, that's even scarier! Probably because I work in IT and know that hardware and software fail/"break" all the time 😔

[@AafkeArt]

I like flying and I always think a bit of turbulence makes it more fun. Plane wings are meant to flex, in a soaring plane you can see the wings are curved when it is in the air. Planes are designed to handle stress and turbulence well.

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

I still hate every bit of turbulence. Have fun up there! Thank you for watching!

[@TheMajestic_Moose]

I feel like I always come back to this channel. Whatever rabbit hole of airplanes I go down, I always end up back here somehow. It's as if I'm stuck in a laurie loop. But hey, I'm not complaining. Good tips for someone who's first flight is across the country in 2 weeks :)

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Welcome back! Woohoo! Can't wait to hear about it.

[@rebeccaw1772]

Thank you Laurie for suggesting this video!

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Of course!!

[@stylewithcathyover50]

This was interesting. I love to fly, it was nice to hear a pilot's perspective. Thanks for sharing. Cathy

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Cathy, thank you for watching. I love to fly, but I get so nervous with turbulence. I just pray and tell myself that they're trying to be safe.

[@erickal2601]

Thank you! I’m a nervous flyer. I am terrified of heights. This makes me feel more at peace.

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Thanks for watching! Sorry I missed this comment so long ago.

[@RecoveryHacker]

Awesome advice. I especially appreciate Chris advising to sit close to the front of the plane to minimize turbulance. My issue is definitely with control, as I'm a pretty nervous auto passenger as well. I'm going to try your advice to use a book to avoid white-knuckling the armrests during landings. Thanks for your help and I look forward to more videos!

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Thanks for sharing!

[@daydream1066]

I only flew once when I was four, but now I have a massive phobia of heights from other life experiences. It's enough that even being on an elevator/escalator is asking a lot and I cling to someone because I feel like I'm "falling". I also am pretty paranoid about not being able to escape if things go sour, and yes, I too have irrational thoughts I have trouble turning off when confronting any of my phobias. But I would like to start now be not being afraid because I would want to travel to Ireland one day and fly and remember it!

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Oh, that would be a beautiful place to visit!

[@marlenabaker9894]

Very helpful, thank you. I m sure if I were to speak to the pilot, my questions would be about whether he's had enough sleep or if he's been drinking, lol

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

So true, Marlena! All we can do is hope. Thanks for watching!

[@kathyfenwick4084]

Thank you so much for this video Laurie:) I love to travel but am a very nervous flyer. This helps me to feel better for a couple up coming trips:) A couple years ago my daughter & I flew over the ocean to Spain for a med cruise that I had earned. I was so nervous but yet I was fulfilling a bucket list wish & so I knew i to just do it lol! Turned out not to be as scary as i thought (i have a huge fear of the plane dropping into the ocean), we made it & i would honestly do it again. Thank u for these tips! Love your channel!

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

EEEEEK! Oh what a feeling for you! So glad. Thanks for watching!

[@samanthalongobardi1379]

Thanks so much for this video. I have horrible anxiety and I’m flying alone in may and this really eased my mind 😊

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

I hope it helps; are there podcasts or books you could listen to too? Thank you!

[@sirajspeaks]

Thank you so much this video is really what I needed to hear ❤️🙌 I specially liked the idea when the pilot was talking about mountain waves. I think this idea made me relax as turbulence are like waves is the ocean. Really loved this idea thank you so much

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Glad it was helpful! Thank you so much for watching.

[@Tricia622]

Great video...thank you. I'm taking my kids on their first vacation in a couple of months and I've always loved flying (except for having to go to the toilet every 10 minutes... :-/ ...haha) but my daughter has anxiety troubles and is afraid of the flight. I'm going to show her this...I think it will help her by getting a pilot's perspective and knowing she's not alone in her anxiety.

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Tricia, we both must be standing in line together on the plane every 10 mins. Hopefully it'll help her. The TSA has a KZbin channel that might show her what to expect at security. Thank you for watching!

[@janicew6222]

I really enjoy your videos, you have a very pleasant way, and easy to listen to. This was very informative. I'm not afraid, but still good info.

[@estgarri]

Great video, thanks for sharing

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Thanks for the visit

[@chp21600]

Thank you for this video! It is very helpful!

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

I hope it helps, Cynthia. Thank you for watching.

[@craftyeeyorelover7689]

Thank you so much for these tips and info

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

I hope they help! Thank you for watching.

[@carolinecoward469]

"Flight attendants please be seated." are my most dreaded words to hear.

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

I hate that too.

[@jyo3361]

I really appreciate your videos! You do a fantastic job with detail and are so personable! I loved the fronds tips! I prefer to sit closer to front or in wing cause it is more comfy and you get in and off quicker. I loved flying most my life but all of a sudden I started having the control factor and small space thing after some wake turbulence from being to close to another aircraft after takeoff.

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Ooh I'm so sorry you have that now. It's an awful feeling. Thanks for watching.

[@richardharepax123]

The last time I flew many years ago I prayed the rosary

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Remember to not be in a hurry. You will never see the people behind you in line or the tsa officers. If someone raises their voice, just smile or do what they say. You'll do great!

[@wonderbeauty10]

Your videos are the freakin best. Thank you so much.This was incredibly helpful

[@shannongrady8851]

Love your channels so helpful and comforting.....

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Thank you so much! I still don't like turbulence, but I know that the planes can take a ton of it and that the pilots are quick and smart.

[@mayraramos1032]

Awesome videos. I fly twice, 3 time a year a d I always get very anxious. I always think about the happy times ahead (Im from Puerto Rico, living in Nashville, TN, so I have no other choice but to fly,hubby is from Mex. so we fly there too) I fly with Xanax 🤢😕.

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Thank you for watching Mayra. Aaah, red beans and rice at the Angel Cafe! One of our favorite 24 hour diners in San Juan. I'm so sorry you get so anxious. I hope this helps you know that the pilots want to be as safe as possible and will not take off if they do not feel safe. Hugs!

[@rocknrollnichole1071]

I took my first flight as an adult a few months ago. I was terrified. The one tip I wish I had known was bringing a book or something physical. I will definitely fly again, nervous or not, I will have a book with me this time.

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

So glad for you!!! Thank you for the update.

[@patsyfoister684]

Thank you!!!

[@carmenirizarry7632]

Very good!

[@ozywend]

G'day new subbie here, I am really enjoying all of your videos, full of great advice and fun. I don't like the taking off or the landing, i am not too bad in the air unless there is turbulence, about to fly home to Australia via the UK, so just a tad nervous!

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

I hate it too. I hope you had a great time in the UK! Bon voyage. Thanks for watching!

[@chervelderman289]

I absolutely love your videos

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Thanks so much!

[@G4XGaming]

This was really helpful and interesting, thank you very much :-D

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Super! Thank you for watching!

[@richardharepax123]

Any tips for fear of security

[@danielpenchev4136]

I'm managing my fear with two bottles of wine prior the flight! When in a smaller aircraft combine with windy weather .. three bottles needed

[@pen4tenn]

Thank you for the recommended video. I am in my early 60s (whew still hurts to admit it) and in my first marriage I was married to a USAF AD airman, so I have flown quite a bit. My husband and I fly for travel and fun now. I am not only nervous when I am flying but also when my grown kids and grand babies are flying. I always address it before take off with a prayer, then I do the whole statistics thing in my head. How many flights are leaving today all over the world and nearly all are going to be safe flights. What are the chances of something going wrong !?! I try to keep my thoughts from going off the cliff, anyway I still can not calm myself enough for sleep. Most of our flights are stateside however we are planning a trip to Australia and I can not imagine NOT sleeping for that long. I think I have more issues dreading the flight and concerns than I do once up in the air. At that point it is out of our hands and the taxi pre flight Prayer to Jesus helps.

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Me too! If you are not in a lay down seat, I only like this neck pillow: rstyle.me/cz-n/dray6uckgqp

[@ashfam5]

Thank you so much for this video, even though I'm just now seeing it lol.. I will be flying for my first time in May My husband and I will be going to St. Croix for our anniversary... sooo nervous.. we have a a layover in Miami so 2 planes to get there.. 2 to get back 😳 I definitely have a fear of the unknown, and also lack of control... I'm trying to be prepared for the trip in all types of ways to have some sense of control!

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Hi, do not miss this video and have so much fun: bit.ly/HowToGoThroughTSA

[@deeb5020]

Thank you its been very useful...

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Dee, I feel your pain. Thanks for watching!

[@oliviajoy8869]

Thank you

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Hope it helps!

[@chelsabrinkman417]

The feeling of having control is a comforting one, but misleading. We are truly never in control, and God has ways of reminding us of that. I would rather fly every day than have to get on my city’s freeway system.

[@deborahellenberger7153]

Me again, love this, it really helped as you know my comfort zone is at home....Hee Hee.

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Hahahaha

[@sylvyc7611]

Hello, awesome awesome blog. Flying to Seville next May, feeling very nervous. Thank you, this blog was very informative.

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Oh, beautiful! Thanks for watching.

[@hollywhitworth3285]

The airplane part doesn't bother me, just the part leading up to getting on the airplane! From not overpacking, checking in for my flight, getting to the airport on time, finding and then getting through security, getting to the gate on time especially if they have changed the gate. I had some bad experiences years ago then did not fly for a long time (more for financial reasons than anything else). I find the whole thing so stressful! I am trying now to travel more, learn from my mistakes, and not be scared of the process!

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Great thinking!

[@Nathan-sq9xv]

I’m flying in 2 days and this helps me thank you

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Thanks for watching!

[@Nathan-sq9xv]

TravelTipsbyLaurie I flew today and I didn’t like the takeoff at all but everything else was ok

[@journalmuse0578]

I am claustrophobic and I have to fly to the Philippines next year. That's a 14-16 hour flight (longer if there are delays). I'm getting stressed thinking about it. 😓

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Jeanette, I would be stressing too. You're doing the right thing by researching. Maybe meds would help too. Thanks for watching!

[@mariavenuto6796]

Great tips- Ive flown soooooooo many times and Im still afraid (like what if it crashes) but When I have my wine Im ok lol

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

I don't know how I missed this comment. Sorry for the delay.

[@viktoriapettypiece5953]

It's the turbulence that gets me, I fly about 3 times a year, and it doesn't get any better, I almost feel that turbulence is getting worse than years ago..... I always gasp if it's too bumpy and hold fast to the seat in front of me, I think I scare the person sitting next to me ..lol

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

It's awful. I hate it everytime. Thanks for watching.

[@mimiiligan5138]

Me too, Mam.

[@bnyob3463]

How weird am I?I'm terrified to fly but,love your packing and organizing tips! I have to stick to cruising I guess.

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Now, cruising scares the heck out of me. Once I'm on, I'm fine. But until the cruise I dream of drowning over and over. Thanks for watching!

[@15721fair]

Thank you.

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Thank you for watching! I still get nervous with turbulence.

[@katenoel3799]

I’m a little bit late to this video but I have to fly by myself in 2 weeks and I’m super scared. The thing that I’m scared about is crashing and I’ve been watching these types of videos for about 3 weeks now and there not helping that much. I really hope that I can get through the flight!

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Have you downloaded the airline's app? That way you can watch a video. It won't end your fear, but it'll pass the time. Think that way. What can pass the time while being scared? Book? Journal? Eat a snack...Thanks for watching!

[@katenoel3799]

@@TravelTipsbyLaurie yes I have. Thanks for the tips!

[@magsmcmichael4167]

Thank you I am going flying for the first time in November

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Thank you for watching, Mags! It's going to be great, and you'll do just fine.

[@bob-pr8ye]

How was it ?

[@Sanguine_Addiction]

I have a terrible fear of flying. I have a business trip in a few weeks and the anxiety is overwhelming to the point where I I'm getting diarrhea and heart palpitations. To make it worse, I have 2 connecting flights on the way home, and one of those flights is on one of those small regional jets. I know the odds are in my favor and the probability of anything bad happening is incredibly slim, but I just can't shake the fear that no matter how "good" the odds are, I AWAYS feel that MY flight will be that fatal one out of millions. I'm so tired of feeling this way. There's so many places I want to see that require flying. I know I can't predict the future and nothing is certain, but I don't wanna die from flying. I just wanna be able to enjoy flying, whether it be domestic or international, knowing that I'm gonna be ok and nothing bad will happen and that it's not my fate to die in a plane crash/explosion/incident/etc. I do wanna sign up for the SOAR courses but I can't afford it at the moment. My wife wants to fly to Hawaii next year for her birthday. I'm already nervous cos it's 100% over ocean.

[@justaperson3281]

Ugh. On may 8th, I am taking a trip to china with my class but I'm terrified of heights so I'm watching so many of these plane videos, trying to become less terrified lol. It's my first time on a plane and I'm only 14. Any advice?

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

You will be so proud of yourself because it's going to be a piece of cake. I'd read a book/magazine, write in a journal, eat - like single things that you can eat constantly-like cheez-its or nuts. And don't look out the window ha. I would tell the flight attendant as you board the plane too. Have such a great time!

[@erickal2601]

Hope you had a great experience!

[@ginger-bv5tx]

Thank you for making this video. I am taking a cruise next month from Vancouver to Hawaii. (You have awesome packing tips!) Flying to Vancouver from the East Coast doesn't bother me, but I am terrified about the flight back from Honolulu to San Francisco. Being over the water for so many hours without an airport nearby (in case of an emergency) just scares me. I have flown several times before, but never over water for that long. It is a red-eye flight, so my husband assures me I will most likely fall asleep, but I am still worried. I want to to be able to enjoy the cruise and not dread the flight back.

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

I HATE flying over the water to Hawaii. But it has to be done and is done several times a day. And believe it or not, they have plenty of time to get to land if something happens. But it is totally safe. But it does seem bumpy. Maybe you could make sure you have a seat in front of the exit row. That's less bumpy but costs more. Thank you for watching and remember to have fun. And pray!

[@ginger-bv5tx]

Thanks, Laurie! (Yes, I am a prayer warrior!)

[@emsanimals5881]

I have never been on a plane I have terrible anxiety and I'm so scared that I will get stopped by mean tsa people and I get so scared that I can't concentrate or hear so it's not good I'm also so scared that the plane will crash and I will die and I'm so scared of death I don't know how to overcome this

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

See there? You just admitted it. It's not your fault if someone is mean. Watch what people in front of you do while standing in line. Practice at home having your boarding pass or ticket (whatever your airline calls it) out with your ID, suitcase and backpack. Practice putting them away after showing them to the TSA agent. Maybe your goal is not to overcome the fear but to walk tall through it. But that's easier said than done. Em, I appreciate you watching. Picture me saying good job over and over after each step. I did forget to say that you need to take everything out of your pockets to go through security. And download your airline's app onto your phone to browse around.

[@yeahmoo100]

I have a question! I want to buy a carry on bag thats 9x15x22 but the maximum carry on size is 9x14x22. Do you think I would be able to bring it?

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Yes, it should be just fine! Thank you for watching!

[@LweissTTU]

it bothers me to be in a confined place. I take the aisle seat for that reason. I used to house sit for a family. The mother and dad would not fly in the same plane. They would leave at different times

[@dewaynewestmoreland3773]

Question. Can we carry an ink pen on an airplane? Cause i would like to carry a crossword puzzle book on tje flight and do those to keep my mind busy and occupied.

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

You can! tsa.gov is a great source for you. Thanks for watching.

[@jeffreymoran6234]

Oh I was on a plane and the stabilizer bar broke that was a fun ride ye ha.

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Yikes!

[@h.preston4574]

Heights is one big reason for me. But honestly, 9/11 is just burned in my brain. :( I was only 11 at the time. I’m just terrified that someone is going to slip through on a plane I’m on.

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

I hear ya. Thanks for watching! I hope you get to fly one day.

[@girlforprayer]

Laurie, you are my 50th video trying to find a way to overcome my fear of flying. I have a flight coming up with my family and I am close to telling my husband I can't get on it - that won't go over well :( I am claustrophobia, afraid of heights and my biggest fear is fire. All 3 of those things are the reason for my fear. I don't know what to do. People tell me the stats, the durability of the plane and the training of the pilot doesn't help me with the height and claustrophobia. Help

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Hey! It can be awful. Have you talked to your doc and tested any medicine? Here is an updated one: bit.ly/PilotHelpsWithTurbulence

[@sanyamalik9139]

Hi, i an a really nervous flier. I have all the 3 anxieties- turbulence, crash, not having control I usually take the back seat as it is said to be the safest, but just heard from your video that pilot recommends the front since there is less movement and swaying.. but I am still afraid in terms of safety.. What should I do? Also what else can I watch to overcome this fear? I stay away from home so I need to travel in 9 hours of flight.. and my anxiety does not let me sleep or stay at peace even for a minute. Those 9 hours are filled with horror for me. Please help. Many thanks

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Sanya, I'm so sorry you deal with this anxiety. It's serious business. But I think the only thing I can recommend is that you talk to your doc about correct drugs to use the night before and day of flight. I don't kow if that would help, but that is all we can think of. Thank you for being honest and for watching.

[@cindywannamaker5299]

Or you could have all of the above. Lol. My Dr gave me an Rx to help me out. I used to fly all the time. Not even sure how this came about. I def have a fear of loss of control

[@Linda-ub3ow]

My fear is not being able to get out of the plane if they say there is a delay in getting off the plane. If the door is closed, I WILL have a full blown panic attack. But, if I have to sit and wait for hours to get off the plane, I’m fine as long as the door is allowed to be open. I can’t feel trapped or I will become a crazy mess. I can’t have someone else in charge of when that door opens. Solve that one!

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Hmmm, maybe it'll help knowing that they do not close that door until the last minute. Can you talk with your doctor about some calming medicine that day? Music in your ears once you sit down? Something to eat once you sit? I hope it goes so much better than you can imagine. I'll pray for your trip too-that it will not be delayed while the door is closed.

[@Linda-ub3ow]

I think I’m more freaked out about after we land if we can’t get out right away. And sitting there until we can have a door open is what freaks me out. It’s a piece of mind seeing it open. But I know for “safety reasons” they can have it opened. 😔

[@Italiangirl563]

Hate to fly , love to travel. It’s a curse. I particularly detest landing for some reason. Two of my rituals are : During takeoff I say the rosary ( any meditative activity would garner same result ) and during descent I do the crossword puzzle in the airline magazine . Having to focus and think takes my mind off the panic but I still freak out from time to time 🤪

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

I hear ya. I cannot stand turbulence. I always uncross my legs and hold the hand rails on most landings. Thanks for watching!

[@tedstark5054]

My fear is giving entire control to someone else, especially watching hundreds of you tube videos showing pilot errors, Mechanical failures, weather problems, suicidal pilots, aircraft controller mistakes, etc,etc,etc,and etc.

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Yep, that would do it. I cannot stand backing up downhill if someone else is driving. Hope this knowledge helps and thank you so much for watching!

[@preciousjaneaquino8316]

How about those people that are anxious to open the door during midflight? What can you share about them? As much as they don't wanna do it but their mind is hijacking.

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Hi! Thank you for watching. You cannot open the doors mid flight because of the pressurization. I hope your flight goes great!!

[@allisonisaacs5213]

I've never been on a plane before

[@carjanice]

For me it’s not having the possibility to escape... I had panic attacks on planes in the past and I’m afraid of longer flights meaning being trapped longer. I’d love to know in what cases pilots land in between (if there’s an airport near by) like what medical issues are enough for this so I won’t be worried in case anything happens

[@ajt6798]

I know you have the answers already 😄 but if someone is severely I'll like stroke etc pilots will divert to another airport but usually panic attacks are handled by the flight attendants and maybe in some cases other passengers

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

I think they would only divert for death or extreme almost death cases. Remember you can always ask to speak with the pilot when boarding.

[@jwhitby92]

I just don't like it when it banks in the turns. I seem to like sitting in the aisle seat sitting on the right side so that I can have a quick exit, when it's time to get off.

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Yes, I understand. Do you look out the window then or what?

[@jwhitby92]

@@TravelTipsbyLaurie no I don't look out for fear that we will tip over! So, I try to keep busy with a puzzle book.

[@2111jade]

I have never flown before. :p. Yeah. So this would be interesting. Lol.

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

You will be so proud of yourself when you do. Thanks for watching!

[@allisonisaacs5213]

I'm kind of scare about the security checkpoint line at the airport

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

You'll do great; just read the signs and take your time.

[@mochabutterflies3727]

I’m mostly scared about my nose starting to bleed on a plane cause I have sensitive nose😞

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Oh I bet! My husband's nose would bleed almost every time he landed for probably 3 years but not that bad. Could you carry a thick cloth-kind of like a kitchen towel or a sweat towel? Thanks for watching!

[@allisonisaacs5213]

I'm going to be with my grandma on the plane I'm going to Indiana to see my mom for the Summer

[@susanp2349]

Fear of getting motion sickness. Any help

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

I don't have any except to sit close to the front? Sorry I'm not more help.

[@paulrees3861]

I haven't flown in 20 years, and due to my partner dying, i have booked a flight to see the remainder of my family in Australia. Am terrified, any other tips?

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Oh how wonderful that you are getting outside - I'm sure your partner would have wanted you to do this. Hugs to you Paul! My hubby went and absolutely loved it! I have a long flight survival video that may help but I have never been there: bit.ly/LongFlightTravelTips

[@manikhan352]

mam please help me I want to go to meet my family but I am afraid of aeroplane 12 hours drive when I think this that I will travel in closed tight place for 12 hours and windows door will be closed for 12 hours.. please suggest me. some thing

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

I would get headphones, listen to podcasts, read books or listen to a book on your phone. Download the airline's app because sometimes you can watch movies on it. Thanks for watching!

[@theultimatereductionist7592]

I am terrified of the airplane when it gets faster & faster. I keep desperately wanting the airplane to slow down & go 100 kilometers an hour, tops.

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Me too! So scary and against our norm. Slower means safer usually. I just grip my book and pray. Thank you for watching!

[@chela_renee]

The take off scares me. The quick movement is too much. The quick pressure that pushes on my body.

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

I understand.

[@Kxssdy]

Im going to fly with my little brother ALONE and my older brother that is 17 and im scared of dying and not seeing my parents one last time.

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

I know it's so hard especially when there is turbulence. Remember that flying is safer than driving! Thank you for watching.

[@classiccheetoxd7774]

I was not scared the first time now I I’m scared

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Hope it goes well.

[@classiccheetoxd7774]

TravelTipsbyLaurie the things that scared me that we’re just floating

[@legendd5099]

I have a flight after 3 weeks and i am really scared, i dont fear of flight but i get really scared when i dont fly for for over a year. any more tips that will help🙏🙏🙏

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

You will do great; download your airline's app and read signs in the airport. Thank you for watching!

[@legendd5099]

@@TravelTipsbyLaurie wow this vid is a year ago and you're still replying to comments honsetly you deserve a sub for that 😊😊😊

[@carrieforet5743]

Ok I'm so strange. Taking off and landing is very fun and I don't mind it. What freaks me out is when I realize nothings under me.

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

YESSS! Thanks for watching!

[@bob-pr8ye]

Oh boy 100 hours on a simulation " video game " type thingy ok...ok....much MUCH better now.

[@Jane-fi3ye]

This will be my first time and I'm so scary we will die

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

I understand. I hope this video helped. Thank you for watching!

[@Jane-fi3ye]

@@TravelTipsbyLaurie it did

[@Jane-fi3ye]

@@TravelTipsbyLaurie thanks for making me feel better about flying

[@maclorelei]

Fear of closed in space....

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

It is real! I'm sorry; I hope it gets better.

[@dianehall6686]

I’m not afraid to fly, I hate to fly. I’m a large, older woman and I find being squished like a sardine to be very uncomfortable. Getting up and down for my neighbor is difficult and the bathrooms are so tight & disgusting, they make me want to scream. I love to travel via cruise ships but hate flying to them. IF only the planes were roomier and clean.

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

I hear ya. There are parts I hate! Like, who gets what arm rest. You just have to put on your big girl panties and do it sometimes. Live your life. We do love cruising! Thanks for watching!

[@mimiiligan5138]

Really really afraid of turbulence!

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

It's just awful! But if you can figure out something to do while being in it, that's the only thing that can help I think. I hold a book, chew, pray like crazy. But it is awful. Thanks for watching!

[@cleapz1356]

idk why but i wont to fly someone but im scared of flying

[@dewaynewestmoreland3773]

Yes, scared of flying for me is, once you are up there, there's no turning around. So it's the lack of control.

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

I think that's my problem too. Thanks for watching!

[@mellibee100]

One time my daughter and I were on an airplane backing out of the gate and an overwhelming smell of aviation fuel filled the cabin. I have flown a lot and am sometimes a little nervous, conquered mainly by prayer ;) but that experience was rather terrifying to me and nobody seemed to be able tone plain why it happened. Any ideas?

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

And sometimes the de-icing fluid has a strong smell. You can always ring your flight attendant button to ask...even if you're taxiing. Thank you for watching!

[@mellibee100]

TravelTipsbyLaurie I did - but they couldn’t seem to explain it to the extent it put my mind to rest

[@user-eq1cj8pi5r]

This DID NOT help me at all!! If anything it made it worse!!!! Ugggg why did I watch this while on the plane?!?! No good:/

[@dianne3406]

❤❤❤😘❤😘🌞

[@cookingwithtera6308]

In a airplane do they have like the bags that you can breathe in 😂 I have so many questions sorry

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

Yep and be sure to tell the flight attendant when you get on that you are nervous. Chew gum. Eat chips. I like eating when I'm nervous. Thank you for watching.

[@margeball6909]

But most pilots don't get much sleep

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

?

[@Kristina-gz2wu]

My Dr. gives me drugs, that's how I get through it. = )

[@RHM_MusicMinistry]

It’s even more difficult now because having to shroud my face with a mask and basically suffocate myself, makes me more anxious anyways. Haven’t flown in a while and I know they are nazis with masks from what I heard. Plus I have a 6 month old and she’s never flown before. Dealing with the spirit of fear trying to attack me with the impending flight coming up next week.

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

You fight fear with truth (among other things). That mask is crazy, but yes it will be enforced. Have fun! Be prepared to sweat because you do when you have to get a baby settled etc. You'll never see those people again. Smile and just roll with it. This video may help: bit.ly/TravelKidsAirplane

[@RHM_MusicMinistry]

@@TravelTipsbyLaurie Thank you so much. Your videos have helped me a lot. Hopefully it will go by quickly! Texas here we come!

[@kathygoodman6159]

Sorry, Laurie, but I couldn't watch this. You use a lot of trigger words and you bring up things that I hadn't even thought of. You should think about remaking this video without talking about the fears. Just talk about the things that will help me feel better about flying without talking about the fear itself. Maybe talk about airline safety and stuff. I'm flying in 10 days, and this just made me feel worse. Sorry if I sound really critical, I'm just trying to be helpful.

[@TravelTipsbyLaurie]

I hope you have a peaceful and successful flight.