How to Identify + Deal With High Conflict Individuals - Terri Cole

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Terri Cole

Terri Cole

Күн бұрын

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@terri_cole
@terri_cole Күн бұрын
Let me know below: do you have high conflict people in your life? How do you navigate conversations with them? For more tips, remember to download the guide: www.terricole.com/how-to-identify-and-deal-with-high-conflict-individuals-guide
@SonistheFatherofMan
@SonistheFatherofMan Күн бұрын
You are a very beautiful woman. Also very wise.
@brendarees9404
@brendarees9404 Күн бұрын
Your books have helped me immensely. Yip my entire biological family , take offense easily, and their emotions are very unregulated, I don't tip toe around them like I use to. I also don't allow them much access in my personal life. Everything is surface level with them, and it's so much better.
@terri_cole
@terri_cole 21 сағат бұрын
🙌🙌🙌
@paulaholder9292
@paulaholder9292 Күн бұрын
Thanks, Terri for an amazing talk…always enjoy your content and perspective ♥️
@terri_cole
@terri_cole 21 сағат бұрын
Thank you, Paula! ❤️
@Martty_4
@Martty_4 3 сағат бұрын
I wonder when we should avoid conflict. Being raised in a home of parents being alcoholic i avoided conflicts my whole life but i wish I confronted some people who bad mouthed me out of jealousy. I simply walked away which i felt was also leaving me resentful. I feel talking to many aggressive people is just impossible. I stay away from drama people nowdays. My life feels peaceful. Thanks so much Terri Ur a gift to many women ❤
@virginiamallo
@virginiamallo Күн бұрын
Great Video Terri. Hi from Argentina.
@terri_cole
@terri_cole 21 сағат бұрын
Thank you, and welcome to my channel! ❤️
@MelissaTaylor-m6r
@MelissaTaylor-m6r Күн бұрын
Thank you!! 😊
@terri_cole
@terri_cole 21 сағат бұрын
You're welcome!
@dawnkikong637
@dawnkikong637 Күн бұрын
Stand up when there is good reason to, but don't create problems where they are not. Give people the benefit of the doubt and ask gentle, clarifying questions if there was something that you found offensive. Often it wasn't intentional and was just miscommunication.
@terri_cole
@terri_cole 21 сағат бұрын
👏👏👏
@leslierisan7603
@leslierisan7603 Күн бұрын
I’m on my way to see her today. Great timing, Terri
@terri_cole
@terri_cole 21 сағат бұрын
Hope it went well ❤️
@stephj9673
@stephj9673 Күн бұрын
I have issues with this. I grew up in a household that’s constantly in conflict. No peace. that it’s one of my cptsd triggers.
@terri_cole
@terri_cole Күн бұрын
I am witnessing you with compassion ❤
@t_nels
@t_nels Күн бұрын
Yes, they make the MOST of any slight situation! This is my mother. I can't believe that my defining character to some is being used as a pawn. What I woke up to see today just stole my consolation and closure. Will this ever end?! I need HELP to deal with this latest twist, please! It has to stop. 😟 Unfortunately if this person is deceptive about what they are up to, they will not admit it. I am really interested in these rules of engagement. Thank you.
@terri_cole
@terri_cole Күн бұрын
I'm so sorry to hear that. It can be so difficult when it's a parent. Sending love ❤
@t_nels
@t_nels Күн бұрын
@terri_cole Thank you. I will try this but if things get worse with her I won't be able to care for her after my dad passes. I just can't physically let it consume me.
@caleuxx9108
@caleuxx9108 Сағат бұрын
high conflict people v.s. healthy functional conflict ..... HOw much of it is learned ? ... ;;; before I listen.... my ideas: high conflict people are often LOW in agreeablness trait and LOW in openness trait, often dont respect other people needs/wants (boundry bullies), often controlling, not willing to discuss issue back and forth ..... Requires time to discuss issues back and forth and find concensus.....
@drlarrymitchell
@drlarrymitchell Күн бұрын
The turd in the punch bowl? Yeah, I've met a few.
@amymcdaniel2935
@amymcdaniel2935 Күн бұрын
Thank you! ❤
@terri_cole
@terri_cole 21 сағат бұрын
❤️
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