How to Increase A Man's Generosity Toward You

[@jejenum1]

It doesn't matter that she gets off track.. QUIT BEING SO NEGATIVE! If you want a formal speaker there are a BILLION other KZbin channels you can visit! she's human, A woman! She speaks from the heart! Her information is POWERFUL! It's not a distraction to those who are REAL if she gets off subject😏 we get it! It doesn't have to be formal as long as it helps US! 💕

[@FEMININEINFLUENCE]

Tell it girl! This is a FREE video. Thank you.

[@hnbn2013]

Some of us try to receive so hard. We get vulnerable and we reallly open up with our guy and even let him SEE & experience when we lack something or need help. We will even outright ask but SOME guys just DO NOT SHARE. They don't share their money, their time, their feelings, their communication, their effort, NOTHING. Some guys refuse to INVEST in a woman because he is not there for her. He is there for HIM. Let's be real clear about this. You need to post a disclaimer that you are referring to REAL men or Loving Men, because this advice will have some people in toxic relationships with stingy men to think they are doing something wrong when it's all about how selfish he is. Some men are simply NOT generous. There is NOTHING you can do to increase his generosity. He has to work on himself.

[@jamieblack667]

Hahahaha!

[@reehuff3666]

Hn bn... you are soooo right

[@beac8238]

If you are vulnerable about your issues or problems and he does not offer solutions, he is not invested in you. Move on. Stop wasting time and energy.

[@arleasialee9948]

I learned to live as though I was already prepared for my fiance. I spoke it into being. We are engaged to be married. .

[@nimoras]

Am faith from Kenya love your teachings

[@arleasialee9948]

My mother was molested, all my sisters and I were. We were not taught to value ourselves. I learned my body's my temple from the Word of God.

[@GlobalTravelLady]

Arleasia Lee ... I'm sorry that you and your family went through such a painful experience

[@jazminehardison3643]

Arleasia Lee my mom was raped and since her view of self was altered she transferred that onto me and I never had any body issues. Glad I had awareness.

[@ee528]

It’s good to find a mentor early in life

@Secret Encounter No, more like generational EXPERIENCES..that was explicitly stated that these were experiences.

[@MissyP224]

I love your channel and will begin to binge watch. I recently had a man walk out of my life and I cried from my soul because it keeps happening. I am learning so much, I have mishandled so many situations. Thank you for helping me know better so I can do better.

[@FEMININEINFLUENCE]

Hey Merissa, big hugs to you! I can imagine the the toll that can have on a woman's heart.

[@NoName-pc7et]

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@@NoName-pc7et the BEST place for a woman to get advice about being FEMININE and relating as a woman is from another woman. If you want to learn how men think, find an honest man and ask, but no man can teach you how to enhance & flourish in your femininity in my opinion.

[@prestigiouswisdom1283]

Yes, lord I need to be more of a receiver and I have acknowledge that this area is something I struggle with…but I’m going to challenge myself to practice this power I’m tired of doing everything on my own

[@cerodriguez8549]

I am oldest of 8. I was married for 12 years to a taker. Divorced. Now 2 years later I am engaged to a caring giving man. Who had to open my eyes to what you speak about here. Yes to not receive is to reject. Its hard for me...but he taught me and invites me to continue exploring my feminine side and it is liberating. I want to cry thinking how exhausted I was. God has blessed me. He also taught me something I didn't know that I was taught wrong about before. That is "being feminine is NOT being a feminist." I love it! Because I believe the Bible and that my husband is the head of the home. I am so embracing the new me.

[@achatwithgoitse]

Starts at @9:30

[@elw2827]

Missy Gee Thanks because all I hear is blah, blah, blah...

[@manolyarowe3794]

Video starts @ 5:10 😁

[@goddessnoir290]

Manolya Rowe thanks. I hate really hate when people take too long to get to the point

[@ytelevy]

Thank you

[@manolyarowe3794]

Tray See your welcome!

[@achatwithgoitse]

Thanks a lot!

[@achatwithgoitse]

Dude! Still hasnt started....gosh!!! Lord

[@CoachMoniqueKitchen]

You are so beautiful!😍I look forward to being as elegant as you are!❤

[@FEMININEINFLUENCE]

Monique Walker since like attracts like, It’s already in you

[@CoachMoniqueKitchen]

Monique Head Ty. I am married 2 years and still trying to become the ultimate woman I can be!❤Im in my early 30´s alot of this stuff I thought would come to me naturally but it doesnt! Any videos you recommend me watch?😊

[@thelifeofdes6395]

My exact issue!! Trying to find my feminism, raised by a single mom who wasn’t affectionate, very strong! And it has carried over in my relationships. I’m also the eldest Idk.. 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@Jjdidthat]

Hey 👋🏽 😌 watching from Trinidad And Tobago! so happy I found your channel 💜

[@msgorgeous07]

Justeena Pierre me too!! #trini2dbone

[@briana14333]

Thank you, Monique! I see some sisters complaining that you're all over the place and took too long to give your tips, but I love your conversationalist style of delivery. It is really like chatting with a girlfriend.

[@wambuilyn4]

Watching from Nairobi, Kenya:)

[@corinaweber9014]

Thank you for providing information for us women that doesn't have to do with tricking men and taking advantage of them. You are teaching women to embrace our femininity and be able to authentically be able to receive from a man. Men feel so good when they give to their beloved. Thank you again. God bless you.

[@hnbn2013]

Im reposting this again. It's not always just about receiving love from a man. Some women just don't receive at all because they never learned to receive love in the first place. I'm a straight woman and I have been yelled at just for complimenting a woman. I held the door for a woman behind me and she stopped walking as if I was offending her by being nice. Some women will roll their eyes at you if you give them a friendly smile. Forget trying to befriend them, they already have their mind made up about you. Right off the bat, I know I'm dealing with a person who doesn't know how to love or how to receive it. Most women are used to being catty so if you're not, they automatically think you're gay or into them. They only value acts of kindness from a guy--- strike that-- from an attractive guy. ALOT of women do not know how to receive love because they only identify love as romantic love and grew up in homes where love was only identified as romantic/familial. Then they wonder why they can't keep a relationship because when the romance cools down, they don't know what to do with themselves or how to be a decent person. They think the guy is over them & out to get them because he didn't call her pretty today, so they start retaliating for no reason. They don't have a clue what real love is.

[@paviag2584]

Hi Sista in Chrisr!!!!!!! Colorado Springs CO. You are truly feeding my Spirit. God Bless you and your message.

[@siphokazin.7552]

When you reject the gift, you reject the giver. I like that. Watching from Johannesburg South Africa. Love u Monique🌺

[@sylandraali9255]

Hi there. Im from Johannesburg too. Nice to find my own people on youtube.

[@Glad2BGolden]

I almost always accept offers of help but one issue that is confusing is when a guy will ask if I need help but he will show irritation when I say yes I do need help. Why is that? I’ve been called needy when I ask for help; usually by women. I

[@madisonb9205]

You have such a bright spirit.. I love it!

[@araineacutebrownnurse7315]

"Passionate married minded women ". Love it !

[@cenattasmith3763]

God is good

[@Lovejoi222]

I had to learn how to receive...it’s powerful

[@CocoDivine8]

That dress is giving me Rhianna Wild Thoughts vibe... beautiful😍😍😍

[@1DivineE]

So happy I found your channel.

[@conetajohnson2160]

Hello good afternoon. I'm so happy that I found your channel. I'm in my late 30's, freshly out of a divorce. You words are so resourceful and inspiring, I've missed out so much in life and so much to still learn. My problem I guess is opening up, communication. Would love to meet you one day. God bless, keep doing what you're doing. 😃

[@yvonnegaskin7089]

What I want to speak about how is to increase a man's generosity. By owning and accepting your feminine life force.

[@jacquelineturner9570]

Monique your videos are wonderful and I really need this help. Thank you so much!

[@isrealmoss1580]

I am a black male, 29 years of age and I relate to you from a guy standpoint. You are soo on point! and aside from that, I must say you are one of the most gorgeous woman I have ever seen in my life... #BEAUTIFUL.

[@agents3409]

Thank you for sharing your energy, you're absolutely radiant!

[@spanisht3633]

Thank you for sharing your wisdom on these topics...Trinidad in the house ..

[@ddavis954]

Hey Monique, Thanks for the information - I just viewed your 1st show. Thank You again. About that nail polish life - there are lots of natural based nail polishes now Monique, don't let those chemicals do your nails in Lady! Blessings and Peace

[@diamon1312]

Thanks for choosing this topic cause I experience a hard time doing it. I think it's because we were thought that giving IS THE only way to show love not to receive it. So I guess this is a new Terf that I need to let in into my life ❤

[@royallady6546]

Hi, I am watching u from Spain.

[@FEMININEINFLUENCE]

Hello!

[@bisia7772]

Wow...i had an epiphany while watching this when you said the woman receives. Its not (just) about sex. This video was quite profound. Thanks so much Sis! ....You look really beautiful here btw.

[@nikkiid8644]

Thank you Monique, this video deeply touched my spirit.

[@azyraizel]

Thank you Queen your videos help a lot .I just met a great guy the day before my birthday we've known each other for 2 and a half months so far ,currently taking things slow and learning each other. He's almost like the guy version of me and im working to hold on to him...he does make me better and I him. Hopefully my search is over and him and I can develop a lovely future together He treats me so amazingly I never thought I could meet a guy like him

[@forusmovementcurry]

Thanks Sis! Enjoyed this❣️🙏🏾👑💕🌹

[@samantha4887]

Hi - Watching from Northern VA. I don't currently have a man, but I know that I am a Class A control freak..lol! And I have been asking the Lord to help me with that, because I HAVE to release control that control if I am going to be in a successful relationship.

[@FEMININEINFLUENCE]

Hi Samantha! you can see the comment above i left. Actually, I'll just cut and paste... here it is. "Honestly, it's not something you can do without support and guidance. It depends on what you want and what's more important to you. So what's more important to you... your need to know what's coming next or to experience intimacy and connection in each moment?"

[@She_is_P]

Hello I just ran across your page a few days ago. I have been binge watching your videos. Every one has resonated with my spirit your are a beautiful being. I am elated to have run across these lessons. Thank you.

[@lydiamarendes7554]

I'm an Educated African woman who loves the idea of being married but absolutely petrified of being married because I love my space and a lot of alone time . I'm not lonely but love being a lone. What's wrong with that...?

[@antoinitaviolette4140]

Lydia Marendes nothing is wrong with having alone time, and that when important interaction needs to happen, be ready and prepared, and, as far as words are, and communication is, words don’t always have to be spoken but be read by the eyes or by our God-given spirit. It takes a lot of preparation because marriage is ministry. kzbin.info/www/bejne/fJuuc4CQp8-poMk

[@felicia4025]

Hi ma’am, you inspire me. I’m watching from Africa. Nigeria to be precise. God bless you.

[@maggiebailey5019]

Just discovered u and u are simply amazingly beautiful and spot on!!!!

[@yasmindiadorsey8786]

Thank you for your time and advice. A sister has been waiting for guidance.

[@damarissophy8815]

Thank Your so much here in kenya...

[@Lady-br3zy]

Video starts @ 13:00 🕐 when she speaks on a women receives. Then after that message she goes off topic again. 😂 But her outfit, hair, and background keep you interested. So re watch at 19:00.

[@neemanyakairu9466]

loool

[@OItsSasha]

I know this is old but how long does it takes you to get to the point?

[@chili522]

Hi Monique -- Glad to be here and learning more even as a very matured woman. It is never too late. to learn.

[@OluwafemiDeleoluwafemiayodele]

Bless you for this girl. I needed this badly.

[@millennialparentingpodcast2032]

I LOVE your channel. I am very excited to receive this very valuable information. You are creating a message that is so helpful to those ready listen.

[@FEMININEINFLUENCE]

Thank you and welcome!

[@blessingnazubuike]

Watching from Ghana. Africa

[@lentychibulo8843]

Many thanks mama. am really enjoying the show keep it up we r leaning. God bless you

[@jackiefeldun6606]

Beautiful and smart. Beautiful nails too... like the nail color

[@shebakhafraserudj-ta2142]

Big love from Barbados.......feeling you lady

[@Abronoma2024]

What if u allow urself to receive yet your man is not a giver?

[@marcellax4556]

Adwoa Abronoma Ask Monique how to train or inspire your man to be a giver.

[@prettyhurts1237]

Adwoa Abronoma wrong Man

[@cherylgordon6436]

Ok I'm already married I get lots of things but there's no showing of love and affection or respect or empaythy it's really strange and I don't know how to explain it and he won't talk about anything important what about that I'm drained from the USA

[@nataliefrances6319]

22.07 minutes in. Powerful, true and honest. Very good x

[@petrasolomayer4028]

Shout out from Germany. Looks like in Italy where u are. Its hard only to receive and believe in his power if someone hurt you so much. You are right that we have to choose. Can u do a q&a with your husband? His opinions are interesting and important for women like us

[@deborahsauter9794]

Video began at 5:01.

[@melissawilliams9529]

I now started watching your videos and they are very inspirational I learn alot from you thank you for the advise.....

[@eveabundance132]

Just stumbled across your channel & thoroughly enjoy your perspective. Thanks for sharing!

[@annettekallamu8202]

Wow! You are one beautiful woman! And very smart too! Love your skin lady.xx

[@tanyab4128]

I wish you get straight to the point!!

[@LoveAletha]

Hi I'm late but I'm glad to find your channel and you're a inspiration 🙏🏽

[@KrstLight888]

I'm so glad I found your channel 💕 I'm learning more & more.. embracing my feminity 💛

[@ElleRid]

Video really starts at 15:10

[@aishamccombs5500]

Hi this is Aisha from the Bay area.Thanks for your time sister.

[@Boyhead1973]

How do you get to that point where you release control... Girl! This is right on time! You are incredibly blessed on this subject.

[@FEMININEINFLUENCE]

Honestly, it's not something you can do without support and guidance. It depends on what you want and what's more important to you. So what's more important to you... your need to know what's coming next or to experience intimacy and connection in each moment?

[@tanyapetersen7426]

I'm watching from Brooklyn, New York. Pleased to meet you.

[@omomochanyaobe7690]

Thank you for you. I'm Omom from Nigeria

[@honeybee9745]

Hi Monique! I was wondering how do i Email you? I tried the link below and got "page not found" message.

[@goluaidroos8577]

Hi Monique! Ure really charismatic! Listening to u I’m learning so much! Bless u!!😘💕🌹

[@kadamasarah6670]

Am watching from mbale Uganda. Very teaching

Really, really, really appreciate you sis!!😘👍🏾👍💋🙏🏾💐⭐️ just found you and I love your channel, and what you have to offer. And your gorgeous.

[@rpw6033]

Used to live in Town and Country! Loved going to LaBonne Bouchee for that private peace!

[@fiinakaanduka3013]

I am in Namibia, Southern Africa

[@dlayton5659]

I tried my best to watch this but I had to skip most of the video because you keep going off topic to chase the butterflies so to speak....can you summarize the point in words. Thanks

[@SweetUareDesi]

Blue Dream yeah, I was like. Sorry, GET ORGANIZED. But it’s ok I guess, it was a live.

[@jejenum1]

That's what happens when you are human and not a robot.. And you are doing this with passion.. People want you to say 1.2.3. End the video in 6 seconds and then I swear you all will still complain! #humans #wearenotperfect #wearewomen #itsreal #real-time #real-life #realemotions

[@achatwithgoitse]

I've been extremely horrible at receiving :( ....... #sigh. thank you, will work on that.

[@48brina]

I need to learn how to receive I never learned that how can I learn this?

[@aminaosman1490]

Thnx for this beautiful sis!!i needed it

[@christiansigboanugo3319]

I am in UK right now but will be going back to Nigeria next week.

[@0ff1c1alMzPanama]

What was the email? I tried to go back but couldn't find it

[@ari-benkendricks7813]

You look so regal

[@liseginakaze9385]

Love from Paris!!! I love your Channel

[@necklineetienne1314]

I love your hair on this video....

[@cassandrareneekelly8078]

Need your help

[@HerVibesDivine]

Love your vids!

[@theherald-z3y]

do u have any teachings on dealing with jealousy over ur man ??

[@aintnoway3467]

Hello my name isJeanne.I have met a guy that was damaged by a woman who was a habitual taker/ receiver . So, my question to you How do I make him realize that am not like her? He want to be more to me but I do know if he's quite ready for that? I asked him for things he say no. So I go get it myself. Then he's offended because I did.

[@tooblessedtobestressed4650]

Jeanne Bullock girl if i were you I would leave him alone cause he sounds like he has some healing to do.

[@cherylgordon6436]

Jeanne Bullock girl you don't have to go through that with any man he will treat you excally how he feels about all the other stuff is a how you take it

[@butn0tyet]

Every situation is different. I’ve been married for 20 years. My husband says the fact I did things for myself help him realize he wanted to be the one to do things for me. He recognized that I wasn’t in distressed and quite OK alone. He saw in me a hard working partner, not a project. I wanted to be the type of woman my husband could not live without. Look it up in your Bible. My husband is known at the gates because of my hard work. What’s great about this is you will have a better idea what kind of man should be in your life because you will know what it takes and when he finds you, he will know you’ve been spending your time getting ready for your mate and your family. You will find, when he finds you, he will ask if he might be able to share your sunlight. And you will feel like it’s very important to avoid spending time with someone else’s husband, even if no one else has married him yet. After all, you wouldn’t want someone to delay your husband.

[@hnbn2013]

Jeanne, thats a trap. my ex told me his ex wife took all his money and never gave him anything. so he treated ME like that so I wouldnt hurt him. BUT the truth is that SHE took all his money and never gave him anything BECAUSE he is a stingy SOB who never gave HER anything! She treated him how he treated her and got one over on him. I could never do that so thats why I got the short end. Some guys do tread lightly after being hurt that bad but if uve been with him any significant amount of time, he already KNOWS you arent like her. He's doing what he does best -- being STINGY. He can do it AND get away with it now because you dont retaliate like his ex did when he did it to her. Good news is he'll never leave you. Unless he finds someone else that lets him get away with even more. Plus dont be so quick to label the ex when all you have is his side of the story. If he wnated to be more to you, he WOULD be. A man who does not want to lose a woman will not tell her no so easy. He thinks he has no competition and you are head over heels for him so he will keep up the bad behavior you tolerate. I bet if you came home with flowers and said "THANK YOU for the surprise I wasn't expecting it!" He would be wondering if some man had a crush on you and he would poke out his chest and man up then. Worked for me before I dumped the loser.

[@hnbn2013]

super great points!

[@mayacel1391]

Hey....watching from Kenya nairobi

[@sagenosnibor9173]

Beautiful message, i long to have this one day...

This video was gold!

[@NikaNuVSU]

I recently began getting multiple notifications of your uploads and decided to check your channel out. I am so glad that I did because this was very much so needed in my life. Ever since January I've been at a turning point for obtaining more in life and truly embracing me. My father passed away in April and I've sort of been in a panic (relationship wise) ever since. I know that my time will come, but I need to work on me until then. Thank you for posting this video and I look forward to viewing more of your videos!

[@pinkoctober6371]

Hello Queen.. Im new with FeminineAllure*.. I have tried to get a call set up but the site crashes every time.. I wud love to talk to u and get more in debt about a few things. So far I love it..

[@audreyyoung347]

Great message. English Rose

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I love your content. New subbie❤️

[@ellaoji3867]

What a beautiful setting!

[@jamaicaninthekitchen4358]

I just found your channel. I love it.

[@lindiwesikakana8703]

Hi Monique, I am watching from South Africa

[@SonjaS222]

Great information!

[@candiceholder7960]

Hi just found your channel- watching from Guyana