How To Increase Your "Social Intelligence" & Improve Your Communication Skills

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Julien Blanc is a Swiss-born, U.S.-based self-help speaker, entrepreneur and transformational coach.
Since 2010, he has been traveling around the world and has personally coached tens of thousands of clients face to face... Empowering them to create massive success in their lives!
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How To Increase Your "Social Intelligence" & Improve Your Communication Skills (Emotional Intelligence)
In this video, Julien Blanc (AKA Julien Himself) reveals how to build social intelligence and how to increase social intelligence!
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[@JulienHimself]

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[@adamgontiersa78]

I just noticed how much hands Julien is using throughout his speeches, HE IS AN UNDERCOVER ITALIAN!

[@mirandusings]

Adam Gontier SA Well, he’s Swiss. And Switzerland is right next to Italy, so...makes sense

[@dors.sc1]

i think just made a huge realization about why i have been quite unhappy recently and im not even 2 min into the video.... this is why i watch your videos, i cant thank you enough

[@Righteous1ist]

Practice wherever you go, every day. You'll get good at it in time.

[@OwenCookFreeTour]

Awesome! -Tyler

[@tommydawson7147]

Stfu -Tyler

[@florian7485]

Years ago, I would be thinking "yeah I already know that", but I would be so blind about my own rationalizations, that I didn't even let the possibility come into my mind, that I might be dicking around and fucking up quite majestically myself. >> It's not that I'm judging myself nowadays for it or hating myself for having failed in the past, but I just tend to feel gross about myself very quickly when I'm dazing off into anti-social mode and consequently I stop that and do something productive or social instead. >> Thank you for putting out all this content, Julien - it has already changed my world! (not only by following TENGAME, but also by watching all the free content here on this channel) :-)

[@hugoantunesartwithblender]

Great video Julien. In fact just asking directions is already a good thing, we begin to see that people are in generally in our side and they like to help and socialize with new people

[@corneliudumitru908]

Julien, you are awesome man, keep it up, i give you a big thumbs up!

[@leonardheldt143]

Glad to see other content other than pure self-help again!!!

[@abdulamra3531]

Transformation mastery was beautiful, thanks julien

[@eminem252525]

"Because they came to see me" Julien destroying newbie on a seminar LOL

[@chriscornman221]

Excellent video, you the man Julien!

[@SpinDoc420]

love this.. used to ride the city bus on days off just to meet and observe people... changed how I looked at all around me ... amazing content

[@iumc]

Thank you Julien.. Amazing content.. You're awesome!!

[@sammykabir6151]

Nice one Julien-Lookin forward to this one later! As always thank you for your insight on everything!!

[@Kejzeren]

Great video. Thanks man!

[@dalhoumijasser8182]

MORE VIDEOS LIKE THIS please. simpilcity is the key

[@tikobrohan5755]

so insightful. awesome video!!!

[@mariobaratti2985]

Omg this is pure gold. Thanks Julien! I totally resonate with this toxic internet addiction

[@yashbajaj758]

Awesome video! thx

[@spencercharlotte297]

JUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUULIEN Blanc. Thank you man :)

[@brandongross527]

Amazing video!!

[@jacopoevangelista3857]

Present in Zurich free tour! Awesome man thanks

[@Papaleeo]

Resonated with this video so much! Funny shit and full of value, thank you!

[@carolinarojas3888]

Love it! your so true and simple. Keep it up.

[@davidcort2214]

thanksssssss! :) this helps ;)

[@chrissullivan3654]

Transformation Mastery is the best!

[@diego-qs1vl]

hello julien , i noticed something about happiness that really helped , i was doing the guided meditations , and they really help , but i noticed that when trying to connect with yourself really helps when you take a time alone with yourself doing nothing but focusing on yourself and doing things you like to do without worrying about nothing else , i dont know how to explain this because sounds very cliche and not practical , but i hope you talk someday about this because really looks like with some of the things you say ,and i think you can make this more practical and less abstract.

[@davidfoulkes2424]

variety is the spice of life be yourself at all times 👍

[@OurWorldShifted]

Thank You

[@blacktee31]

Yea, I have to say its very depressing to understand just how much I don't know about social interaction. I was hospitalized a few years back also and it set me back quite a few years having to cope with life while recovering. So much I missed out on while I was trying to do that...recover. I have yet to truly recover I guess.

[@jaspergabriels8933]

more of this vids!! we have not really anymore deep Connections anymore with each other

[@118Columbus]

This fucking guy is, like, so fucking articulate and so fucking crazy cool, and stuff like that. I, like, fucking, like so much from this fucking video.

[@Barcelona.rhapsody]

good one Julien.

[@johny9414]

Aaand a minor malfunction at 9:15 reveals that Julien IS in fact a pickup robot.

[@misaelrivera2358]

Fuck bro 😂

[@npi8612]

Fuck no, nonsense

[@eliotglassier5848]

Thanks 🙏

[@marcthealchemist882]

awesome Video ! how do we get more people in the society out of the house? sharing what we think is great to do for everyone? or just keep going out and socializing?

[@roshaii2629]

I'm 19 and basically grew up in the phone era but I don't know how people like texting more then actually seeing ther person it baffles me

[@SylwekGrega]

Clear, simple and to the point. Thank you Julian.

[@christopherchampion7015]

This is sooo true. Facebook and everything is actually a anti social network. I'm learning a lot from this guy. I am trying to learn how to use women's preselection towards my advantage. Like how do I convince them without talking to them that I have a lot of other women chasing me. I used to have lots of women approaching me and I am trying to figure out how to get this back. Can you please help me out Julien?

[@masteryallday1718]

julien which coachella weekend are you going to ? 1 or 2 ?

[@ovidiudrobota2182]

What do you recommend to a painfully awkward person? I'm also self-conscious. When I interact with people, I'm so uncomfortable that it makes them feel awful around me. I can barely maintain eye-contact.

[@JulienHimself]

Start here: www.highvibecommunication.com/hvc 😉

[@mav6232]

7:15 massive social references and pattern recognition (writing field reports)

[@newFaction64]

What is this a TM related seminar? If not, how do I learn more about these?

[@fiveyearold]

I like the filter at 9:20. It makes it hard to do a "most hated man in the world montage"

[@arbividz]

Karn Patel wth are you talking about 😂😂

[@shakeZground]

I might be wrong, but I find a contradiction between social intelligence and social conditioning. On one hand you have to know and feel the environment (intelligence), and, on the other, you shouldn't be stopped by social conditioning which induce a thinking like "what if i'm wrong? what if its not appropriate?" etc. Can someone explain this to me?

[@burntrubber11]

Akhan Kussainov I was thinking the same thing.

[@hugoantunesartwithblender]

Social intelligence tells you here is the line what is acceptable or not in different sittuations. And with social intelligence you even see some stupid things about social conditioning ;)

[@FirstLast-dv9ht]

At the end of the day, the people you speak to are socially conditioned to think a certain way of social situations, and you just have to have the social intelligence to adapt to them in order to get a good response from that person. The whole breaking from social conditioning is good to a limit, in my opinion. For example, it's OK to go up to a girl in the middle of the street and chat her up. It's not as "wrong" as people make it out to be. But it's not ok to go up to her and tell her "Hey, let's fuck" as the opener if the context is not right. I'm not sure what I am saying. So don't take anything I said seriously. Just be aware of not falling into the, "I can say whatever I want. I'm not going to be socially conditioned," mentality. Use common sense (Social Intelligence) or Calibration.

[@nuclearcoil]

I suggest maybe you just balance between the two then?

[@npi8612]

Who are the fucking 52 people who disliked this epic vid?

[@hassanrajput9576]

Summary: when you speak, it must add value to the given context. If gou think it won’t add value then prefer to be silent

[@carlotapuig]

Hi Julien, are you guys familiar with Jordan Peterson? How about the big 5 personality traits, self authoring etc? I'm really curious. It would be amazing if you guys could make an interview with him at some point

[@justthatguy3512]

How do I actually go to one of these?

[@kangasmom]

Love the content - super timely and important message. Wish you profaned just a little less, it's kind of distracting (this, coming from someone who has the same struggle). Really looking forward to watching the rest of your videos.

[@michaelpsellos2560]

From What Freetour was the first part from? :)

[@sniralayof4176]

Hhaha that's a killer video!

[@Metaphyical0samak]

Okay So If I'm Working On My Social Skills But I feel that emotional I'm hurt my assumption is my past and trauma how do I heal from my trauma or any trauma so I can express myself the way I want

[@peterkommentiert4364]

Julien is obviously a social robot! @ 9:19 Great video ;)

[@Danygotaworldtosee]

Awesome - Dany

[@hardstyle3196]

Out of almost 100 people, only 1 dislikes the vid!!! dope dope dope dopendope

[@guillermom8536]

I really loved this video Julien. I felt you were talking to me when you mentioned the dick picks comment on the live webinar haha ;)

[@xSpiiXeL]

"We appreciating but who the fuck are you??" lol

[@nuclearcoil]

You know what I'm thinking? What if we actually make this whole topic somewhat way too scary and complicated? We want to have perfect social skills in order to socialize and we don't have them. In the end everybody says stupid things all the time. Is it really not OK not to have hight SI? Maybe we can just go with whatever we have? That way we are less scared to talk and less shy! I say something awkward everyonce in a while. It happens.

[@ANIMAL.LOVERS.DONT.EAT.ANIMALS]

Yes this is literally it. Adhd/autistic fear of failure

[@phook85]

just do Uber, you wil bel forced to talk to passengers

[@LeadVultures]

wizrd driving or taking an Uber is an awesome way to socialize but it's only one context every time, and that's meeting a new person and inviting a specific set of conversations (where are you going, what is your job, is today a big day or a bad day). the best benefit is the quick escape if you fuck up the conversation you get an out when you arrive at the destination. this can also be a harsh thing if you were really hitting it off in a convo but you gotta cut it off and never see this person again. if you manage to get along with an Uber driver or passenger so well that you can go get drinks together and resume without it being weird, congrats, you socialize well already lol.

[@Sebastien9004]

Where was this?

[@nissansucc5486]

This guys basically just telling people to go the fuck outside in an educational way

[@ramseynammari8459]

is this from TM??

[@elisam9438]

(My father has my old computer & he changed all of the info on it, so his name comes up on my email & has also been changed on all of my past comments. I'm unable to correct it for 90 days- can't get through to Google either. My name is Elisa, just letting everyone know that I'm not trolling on here). I'm really the opposite, (through all of my jobs I've been obligated to socialize with complete strangers), so I can approach anyone out in public. But I don't really enjoy using social media, since it's tougher to communicate something- the other person can't hear your tone, & therefore might misunderstand/ get offended by what you write. In person, face to face, & in public I've learned a lot about etiquette, but online-not so much :/

[@noticetheknow-it-all4341]

He had to do it...

[@anthonylebario4460]

Get on the Joe Rogan podcast

[@TheMohaChannel]

“Just because what you have to say is true and you have good intentions it doesn’t mean it’s the proper thing to speak out at that moment and in that context” This is my take away from the video. God knows how many times I sucked the energy out of conversations but not understanding this.

[@JulienHimself]

Great takeaway! Most people never learn this sadly.

[@captainchaos8761]

what are those boots

[@sachinsatheesh2050]

"Social references and patter recognition!!" What does this mean?

[@Failurefirst123]

Satheesh Sachin pattern recognition....

[@FrozenShadoW918]

nice video I guess (sarcastic low energy)

[@furniturescale]

hank

[@michaelsmith8401]

What would happen if everyone in the world let go of their egos and gained true social intelligence?

[@nuclearcoil]

A solid unified mass with no real personalities.

[@spacecat942]

@@nuclearcoil somebody's triggered

[@gabrielsato2200]

if i say that i love you, i would be out of the context?😂😂😂 just kidding

[@elaxel1469]

can a lone wolf become a social extro? I've read its something that you born with.

[@FirstLast-dv9ht]

Only way to find out is to try it yourself. Don't let some article written by some human being tell you what is truth and what isn't. I'm sure it is possible.

[@areksmartinsdzintars9267]

shit i came to check if julien hasnt uploaded a video and here it is - 1 minute ago :D

[@vladakecman95]

+johny1494 You meant to say that Julien is a "social robot"?!

[@OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOq]

I wish to increase my perception so I can pick-up subtleties in people’s behavior, to better psycho-analyze. I thought my inability to do-it to the level I wanted, meant I was socially inept. But by watching this I learned that I’m either somewhat normal or that this is just some very basic information. This teaching just seems so obvious.

[@pacificajubb5178]

Has anyone tried Rotogenflux Methods? (just google it) I've noticed several amazing things about this iq course.

[@meghannsingh5635]

What exactly is Rotogenflux Methods? How does this thing really work? I notice lots of people keep on talking about this intelligence boost system.

[@sidyfall5319]

what kind of pants are you wearing

[@cheltonschatz8864]

Anyone know what is Rotogenflux Methods about? I hear lots of people improve their IQ in a short period of time with this iq course.

[@peeteri95]

Ville onko hyvä video? :D

[@apexxxx10]

Peter Koski Ville, Pille and Kille!

[@Snenors4pres]

Everyday talk to 3 new people challenge

[@superv757]

Snenors4pres sounds cool, but what would you say to them?

[@Snenors4pres]

Dio Corsario "hi"

[@superv757]

Snenors4pres simple. what else?

[@Snenors4pres]

I could ask interview questions but i would rather talk about nachos. Bitches love nachos.

[@superv757]

Snenors4pres just keep the 'hi' interaction..

[@jasonsfamilyandfriendsvide3227]

I really don't want to dislike videos but unnecessary swearing in first few minutes and through. I know this is habitual for the speaker but still.

[@wirezts]

😂🙈

[@sofly2455]

😂😂😂

[@nissansucc5486]

hi mo

[@Baldoxxx4000]

world of warcraft is dead, its all about survival games now...

[@firstbob5156]

Just the 1st minute of this video is bs

[@marsolinantonio8966]

Constant cursing just turned me off.

[@MrMasterskywalker]

Wtf is he wearing

[@Heartoftherebel]

I have no value, I'm a parasitic bum.

[@davidreynolds4942]

Everything has the potential to change

[@hugoantunesartwithblender]

rebels heart What you like about yourself? Can you help somebody just for the sake of doing it? Can you just having fun so other people begin having fun too? Can you give a complemment to someone you dont know? See, you can give value ;)

[@creep3162]

rebels heart same bro

[@davidreynolds4942]

UM1999 not as obvious as you’re making it out to be

[@Aliancey]

Who is this clown trying to impress with his foul language???

[@raz3032]

Is swearing and using the F word socially acceptable nowadays? Looks like a nerd class.