How To Approach People Without Being Creepy

This is the #1 mistake people make when trying to improve their social skills... This video will teach you high value ways to approach people!
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How To Approach People Without Being Creepy
How to start a conversation with anyone and how to approach without being creepy! In this video, Julien Blanc (AKA Julien Himself) reveals how to be yourself, how to be authentic and how to be your authentic self... Discover how to start a conversation with strangers and how to approach people without being creepy and without feeling awkward.
In this video, you will learn exactly how to improve your social skills & develop social intelligence!
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[@RSDMaximilian]

Oh man, about time. So many guys are taking this whole "just be yourself" either completely wrong OR they take it way too far and come across as incredibly weird lol GG father Jay

[@Koryogden]

stfu I am a level 90 paladin you wanna fite me? I will smite thee. /sarcasm /former-5-year-WoW-veteran

[@denmarknb2]

Fuck yeH

[@gk_knight]

James Orman yeah noticed that also

[@humblewonder3260]

Shut the fuck up you dumb shit stain

[@Malitubee]

Honestly this used to be a fear of mine “ Fear of being creepy” , but when you think about it this comes from an beta male mentality. You hide what you want , what you feel, and what you really want to say out of fear of disapproval and the person usually a chick can pick up on it ! It kind of makes them uncomfortable so to beat this, literally all you have to do is Just unapologetically BE YOURSELF ! When you do that , you could care less about what others think, because you get your self worth and approval from within !

[@alexrodriguez9520]

malik gilmore yassssss

[@SuperLotus]

It also comes from a gynocentric mindset where women are the prize and men are worthless if they don't meet certain standards.

[@djdiablo93]

Malik bro you're on point. LIke I grew up in a female dominated household, and image was everything so if I didnt comply with the image my mom wanted me to have she'd literally shun me in front of the family. That kind of parenting really represses authenticity, especially when you can't even say the truth for fear of ostracization. It really is a beta/submissive mentality, and no way for a man to live. Thanks for your insight man.

[@centanhotbox84]

yeah i got that fear right now. fact is u are creepy. approaching though? nah thats manly. hard to be congruent with approaching though when ure literally the only one doing it in the city

[@user-fv3dq3dq7d]

Damnnnnn this is literally game-changing. He is not just a pickup artist but an expertise about pratical social dynamics. I haven't heard of anything like this before. His analysis about social dynamics is above everything on earth. I just felt that learning English is one of the greater things I've ever done

[@djtanikgotbeatz]

You sound well rounded your self lol

[@debless9572]

He's not a pick up artist. He coaches people with social anxiety and there are women in the audience too. This topic specifically is probably more geared to men.

[@lucasheinecke732]

This is REAL social dynamics. More of this pls

[@vinit33pratap]

I just realised all that : I am mostly low on energy, asking questions, putting pressure into myslef and others, get frustrated when most people ignore my mesages.

[@vinit33pratap]

This is pure gold for an socially awkward person, we need more social intelligence video from you Julien. Your simple still analytical way of explaining makes it convenient.

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Still good even if it's a paid product on the topic.

[@scuzyprod.1611]

So I shouldn't care what others think, but at the same time I should, because otherwise they'll think I'm creepy or selfish. Makes perfect sense! I love social intelligence!

[@thecarparty639]

I can vouch for this. What RSD teaches about social intelligence changed my life. I've gone from looking at throwing my life down a toilet to having oppertunities all over the fucking place. Using everything from Meetup, to Instagram and PlayStation. He is 100% ON POINT with this.

[@a7mad9999999]

Thanks man, really amazing video, made realize im too stuck in my world, letting my anxiety take control of everything. Trying to improve myself, going on dates, is helping me alot. I believe the more I interact with people the more i find more about myself. Thank you once again for the advices. Will be looking forward to applying them in the real world:)

[@gk_knight]

I find when I’m out approaching I don’t analyse at all. I’m totally present in the moment in a state of flow. I avoid going up into my head and intellectualising at all. But the day after I do massive analysis on the evening before. Squeeze all the learnings from every interaction. Like Batman retreating to his bat cave. Works for me.

[@OwenCookSelfHelp]

Ahahahahah great you did this one -Tyler

[@Koryogden]

Hey everyone - Julien shared his secret to befriending Tyler, EVERYONE STALK HIM AND REVERSE LEECH HIS ASS!! Then after we befriend you, its gonna be time to order coffee in front of you and be like "oh fuck no wallet, my homeboy got the bill tho" then GHOST - never seen again. #GOTTEM.

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Kory Ogden what the fuck are you on about

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Jack Skellington just fucking around , is it not obvious?

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This is the power of Branding these days... DOPE INTRO JULIEN BLANC!!!!

[@Tsourfetis]

never compromise who you are in order to please someone else.

[@mwloos1]

I love how Julien got fucked over by the feminists and immediately pivoted to being a spiritual / self-improvement guru. Great show of overcoming adversity.

[@rakshithm1257]

When?

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@@rakshithm1257 ask google

[@jackwilliam8167]

I remember watching 26 year old julien vids and it’s pretty cool to see how he’s evolved👍🏼

[@arete7884]

Thank you for your homeless wisdom, mighty bum Oracle.

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Thats only because your mother has been slackin' on the streets. 100%

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I dont wanna like ur comment cuz 69 ayy lmao

[@aaronthomas2598]

Nice push pull

[@Plutomaniaa]

pressure on pressure off

[@csgecko]

Pure value as always Julien, thanks man. You've changed my life.

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OMG he is wearing the clothes from instagram

[@obrah30]

RED so what he's being himself dumbass

[@AllisonMagicElite]

RSD is so underrated. You guys are absolutely brilliant.

[@subliminaltester7000]

Isn’t this contradictory to what you always preach “stop trying to be cool”, let shit go. Over analyzing yourself and how people react to you creates anxiety, and makes you a robot for validation I feel.

[@chiefcaptn1922]

If you put it on mute in the beginning he's in a 90s rap video lmao

[@darrenchandlercoaching]

Wonderful seminar, thank you so much Julien for visiting us in Berlin!!

[@karmaindustrie]

my pressure depends rather on how i hit the nerves of people. i don't really care. i just go with the "flow" what i want to say, no matter how much pressure they feel. or terror (maybe untrue but i feel like this is true right now)

[@Chronotok]

miss rsd man taught me everything i know today about getting girls , always liked julien and max , favoursite rsd members pureley because i resonate with yous 2 most and i feel like before you started all this what your life was like was pretty much my life so appreciate all the help brother #riprsd

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Bro you've been flexing só hard with the Gucci and Shit

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i love julien talk about social skills

[@danothebananovitch9678]

The problem is that the 'relatability circle' and my 'congruent circle' are miles apart from each other....😅 Anyway, thank you so much for this video.🙏This knowledge is really vital to me and it finaly made me realise why socializing have drained me so much: being too much in the head and not engaged enough in the social interactions themselves and how other people interpret what I say. Time to practice!!😀

[@petriano1]

That's how I feel like too .... All the time. And this puts so much pressure on myself

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The best thumbnail Ive ever seen

[@davecirlclux]

Why? Because he is black?

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Julien is the king of laymen’s terms and that’s kind of why he’s the man

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Im hooked on this dude. RIP Kevin Samuels this is my new guy

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17:44 the KEY IS FINDING THE balance between being yourself __and__ being relatable

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Thank you again father J!! May I also add what kind of jean jacket you have?

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I love how Julien went from a PUA to a Level 80 Mage!... (kidding, good stuff man)

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I thought the guy in the thumbnail was madison

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Looks like Eddie Murphy

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LMAO

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One of the best videos you've made recently, I'm only 30 seconds in.

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Obrigado Julien por esse conhecimento fantástico que muda varias vidas dos terráqueos. GRATIDÃO!

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Mano, uma pergunta, seu apelido é caveira ?

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You are fucking intelligent

[@badassproductions4734]

Definitely my weakest point, Sounds like a fun way to do it as well. I also grew up in the age of the phones with the snake game

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Make a video on the DARK SIDE OF LETTING GO BRO. It can be a unique way of promoting your TM program. Haha. Ive been letting go alot through David Hawkin’s teachings and alot of people go through pain or hurt for many months man. Haha thanks for spreading TRUTH man. I LOVE YOU

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wakeel himself why not do it yourself? It would be a good way to develop yourself in what you love.

[@pevi722]

WHats the dark side of letting go?

[@adr58]

Maybe you're not letting go properly, you should see big improvement in less than a month, re-read the book very slowly to get all the info right and try again. My first attempt didn't work but when I re-read the book very carefully it helped me adjust

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I have seen alot of improvements in myself. How I think, behave and view people has changed. My empathy has also increased. Alot has changed. Been letting go for almost 6 months

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Yeah the moodboosting intro niice

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didn't know you are in my hometown right now. Welcome, enjoy your stay!

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One of the best videos I’ve seen in awhile, great job Julien!

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One of the best RSD videos out there.

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[@mordernmozart]

Your vid on "How to be the life of any party" helped a lot. I've had severe social anxiety issues before(I couldn't even fuckin make eye contact with people before) I was at a wedding recently and I was totally care-free, Loud and Made eye contact with everyone I met (to a point of being creepy:-D, maybe I took it to beast mode but it helped a lot tho) I also met a couple of relatives, one of them said my behaviour was so manly. (hell, I don't know what they meant but it felt like shit was working) Thanks for the advice.

[@kasto9060]

Thats a great help, thank you

[@tahmidislamtasen1602]

Most of the time i get nothing common between that congruence and relatability

[@SofaKingK0ol]

Love the videos when will you come to San Antonio Tx.

[@vinigava4891]

G O L D

[@ISLAMguidanceful]

did you play alot of warcraft?

[@hendrik9988]

This Video is gold 🔥

[@tomscade]

What is the music of the intro, its so cool ? Thank you !

[@Chuning2012]

thank you very much for the subtitles it helps the foreigners a lot :)

[@lukasvolcik5109]

Super awsome speach!

[@AuziFox]

Great stuff !! How does this relate to the workplace ? Namely waiter/ server at a restaurant

[@uttamcc93]

Jackpot video. Thank you.

[@Diathon1]

0:52 Tyler!?! I KNEW IT! THEY ARE THE SAME ENTITY!

[@moved9095]

great content julien!

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👏👏👏 Thank you

[@1999seif]

okay julien so documenting the reaction is dope but how do i know that my intrepretation about that reaction is true , cause some people will smile if u do the uncalbriated thing and others would show siigns

[@jafmixing]

Hearing you speaking german is the best thing i've ever seen in my life xD

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Thanks Jules

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Damn the guidance counsellor didn’t teach me any of this shit

[@williamatkinson4520]

Thank you 21 enjoying my day

[@andyyhimself]

YEET!

[@codythep]

I couldn’t NOT click on that

[@S3CV1B3]

Working in a bar a as a bartender is a easy way to be forced fastly to learn all this imo;). And you get paid too. It’s a harsh world though, be prepared.

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That intro was sick!

[@mariamk7828]

Julien the social star✔

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🔥🔥🔥

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Crazy how he went from a dark triad person to how he is now

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Best thumbnail ever!😂😂😂

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Like Tai always says, be a mad scientist.

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You have to clean the camera sensor....just sayng...!! ;)

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Fucking Rockstar. Like the bold headline.

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Wooooooow Ótimo vídeo!! haha

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Julien looks like custom made GTA character in this video, lol. But seriously, great info

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Lol, thanks!

[@georgimihalkov9678]

SICK intro, J

[@john_dren]

Oh lol je ne savais pas que tu étais Suisse. Well, congruence is 100% for me. However, relatiblity is totally impossible unless I play a role simply because I am a high potential and I think way too inconventionally so yeah.. I'd rather stay isolated than pretending. Because I'm radically honest and too authentic for "the standards" girls tned to perceive me and interprete than I'm creepy.

[@Nalojuntu]

John Mind - if so, why not looking at it differently. Why not thinking about letting yourself have fun. And about sharing these positive emotions with the girls. Giving up on going deep, I think that's what we could start to do. And thriving on sincerity, autoderision, social daring. I like how Max and Tyler put it about warming up before talking to THE girls. About interacting with any person on the way you go to the animated streets. Talking to grandmas, to barmens, to bouncers, even just about the weather or how the evening's going.

[@john_dren]

Commentaires thanks for your reply. That’s the thing, I always go deep with everyone I talk to lol or I just get bored and don’t talk 😂 it’s not about fear really but difference of values. I guess about the fact that if I had more practice I would probably take it less seriously.

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Ha Julien! Have you seen the anonymous cubes on Alexanderplatz this weekend? 😀

[@juiceonthebeat]

What do you guys say to someone who questions why you have your shades on indoors?

[@JulienHimself]

"Cause I can"

[@juiceonthebeat]

@@JulienHimself Thank you! 🙏🏼😭

[@georgimihalkov9678]

Sick intro, J

[@UkraineYamaha]

Amazing video, that is what the world needs. Thanks, Father! :) Just in context to that, a question: Concerning interacting with women: How do I know when to stop talking to her (as you said: the 2 circles never cross, not meant to be ...)? Because what about proceeding to talk in order to pass shittests? That is what makes me curious :) GG

[@wolverineg89]

You start to feel like whatever you say is not impacting the person, you make a joke they dont laugh or theyre just polite but they really want you to go away. Mostly you'll feel it in your body , that there is something off and no matter what youre not going to connect. This is when you say have a good night and leave- Julien talked about this when he spoke about personal boundaries in tengame. Love you Julien.

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Love it

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Julien looks more and more like milo yiannopoulos.

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Awesome concepts, very useful 🔥

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Julien! Julien! Can you describe your perfect sunday?

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Someone knows the song at the beggining of video?

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Banovich Ognjen Darude-Sandstorm

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is that gary yorofsky in the first row?

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notice the social intelligence of his glasses

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Bookmark 7:14

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10:00

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Truth :)

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It was fucking amazing!

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Park am Gleisdreieck?

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Where is the chat box ? 😅

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Ich liebe den französisch deutschen Akzent

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Pewdiepie has a brother??

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Try harder