How to Keep the Sexual Spark Alive While Apart | Relationship Theory

[@iamnatashaleya]

I cannot think of a more empowering, inspirational and educational couple.

[@brianford1656]

Biggest Takeaway: No conversation is too taboo or inappropriate to bring up with your partner. Honest and open conversation is a pillar to each person being happy in their relationship..

[@MeridithQueenOfSpades]

Absolutely. If you can't bring up certain topics with your significant other, then who can you with?

[@TiffanyHallmark]

"Our mutual friend", I like that turn of phrase.

[@Viathe11one]

You guys have such great chemistry and the 'end goal' ... No Skype, texting, what's app and no posting on social media to validate the existence of the relationships. And you are still together. We have found the secret sauce...Time to go old school 🤣

[@alinaantonova4883]

Biggest takeaway: Communicate, communicate, communicate! Absolutely favorite couple EVER!!!!!

[@michelereho6267]

Tom and Lisa, I've been waiting for relationship theory to start again for a long time, you guys are my roemodels, no one around me has an outstanding relationship, they settle for an ok one, and i'm not willing to settle for that. So this is why these episodes are so important for me, thank you for making them

[@charmainee.9262]

Me too! Hope to see more of these episodes!

[@Mitzi.B]

One of my FAVORITE things that you guys produce. Super grateful it’s back.

[@amitpandey7824]

I am beyond excited to follow relationship again 🕺🕺🕺🕺🕺...love you Lisa and tom. I am single right now but love to follow this channel to build a better me for my future partner ☺️☺️

[@evyzas]

My biggest take away is the respect and excitement I hear in your voices towards each other, which is *SO* important when communicating/interacting with your partner. The full-on honesty you have together is also huge, especially with this topic. You are both absolutely amazing, and I love watching and learning about your journey as I dive into mine. I'm a new doctor and also started pursuing KZbin recently, which I am beyond excited about. My partner and I love your content and hearing your perspectives. I would be so so THRILLED to chat with you! :) :)

[@user-xs6nr1pp7g]

Me and my partner love this show and we resonate so much with what you guys talk about. Biggest takeaway from this episode was related to understanding what the other person ACTUALLY likes, not what you THINK they like. I found that that is always the case in all relationships, not just with my partner, great point! We would love to win the hangout with you guys!

[@masha7582]

Biggest takeaway: clearly define words such “important,” and “promise,” and others. Thank you for this series!

[@lovetolearn881]

First and most difficult step. Find a man that actually cares about his relationship. Most just want to do whatever and if you get sick of whatever, just move on to whoever is willing to be next woman who will put up with whatever.

[@eliotvincent11]

Best take away: Define very clearly the rules of engagement!

[@YvetteVB]

I watch all episodes of impact theory, women of impact and now let's go for Relationship Theory !

[@jennifercardonag5549]

I’m here to hang out with Tom and Lisa. I love these people. I’ve been Learning a lot from their KZbin channels. I use some clips in my classes with my students.

[@lauraponce4633]

I love you guys!!!! My biggest take away is definitely: Communicate! The difference between gifts it's just a perfect image of the different universes each person has within!!! Give exactly what the other person want.

[@kevNutella]

Biggest takeaway: Do your best to sincerely understand your partner. Understand the language you both share and the meaning behind words, emotions and actions. Show compassion and understanding if your partner doesn't get it and communicate your needs well. Be patient with them along the way.

[@Nwaina]

My biggest getaway would be, being romantic even when you are apart from one another. I've been in a long distance relationship for a hell of a lot of time and I feel that what actually keeps us going is turning up for one another and small romantic gestures. It's a reminder that the spark is still their and at the end of the day, the devil is in the detail, and my devil definitely is in there!! + i am an Aries n my partner is a Leo just like u guys. 🖤♥️ two fire signs putting the world to rights! Lov u guys u r an inspiration xxx

[@rafa2450]

Hello ! I think the biggest insight for me is the part where you advice people to really make an effort at understanding what “turns the other person on”, and try to make it happen. Always through good communication habits 🙂 - thank you

[@tilo19812]

I have never known about Relationship theory until now, super grateful for it answering all the questions we left unanswered.

[@darrienozbat4065]

I LOVE that you guys seem to be opening up even more 🥳I appreciate the honesty and aspire to be on your guys’ level of communication 🤯👏🏼 And thanks for that insight Tom, because I thought Lisa had a great idea too 🤣🤷🏻‍♀️

[@alicehogan7868]

Oh my! When Lisa was talking about the gift box, I was thinking that was so something I would do! I know my partners love language is not gifts so that probably the only thing holding me back from having made one already, but Tom's response was hilariously perfect to stop me from making one 😂👌

[@ShinkaTV]

Good idea cutting them into tinier slices. Great to have you guys back!

[@christielee1840]

Great video guys love how you two articulate together still finish each other’s sentences so Worth the watch!

[@sashasmagic]

Couldn't agree more about making sure one WANTS sexy pics. Gf caught me off guard last night, and I wasn't ready/willing - because we hadn't had the conversation.Looking forward to our 15 minutes!!

[@libraarc]

Yay for the return of Relationship Theory. I like that you include the questions in the video.

[@MarinaDymchenko]

I just love how honest and no bs you guys are ❤️❤️❤️

[@marlonsegura5201]

I CANNOT handle her HAIRCUT 😂😂

[@HollyBishop22]

I love how raw and honest this conversation is!

[@dianacharalambous5164]

So happy you have brought this back - love u both xxx

[@dianepierson7266]

Appreciate you being so real and honest!!

[@ChanelleDeVore]

Oh my goodness! I’m literally laughing my ass off! I love this!!❤️😂🤣

[@Christikransch98]

This videos are so interesting!😊I really like your perspectives and clear honest communication!💪🏼

[@michelleorocio6810]

Thank you for sharing! Great content 👌🏼

Love you guys! Always did ! Respect!

[@melvinsalvador]

Biggest takeaway: Give the gift the other person actually wants. Sometimes we love others the way we want to be loved, but it may not be in tune with the reality of what is actually well-received and appreciated.

[@Coolgamer-ys7qt]

Love Language.

[@marfisialanza]

So grateful for this amazing content. You are truly inspiring and a great couples

[@kettymanno7256]

It feels so real and they are so connected!

[@RyanDMarrs]

11 minutes in is pretty hilarious. Great video and advice.

[@Caroline-gh8sj]

"being brutally honest with oneself, but not take it personally" puuuhhh..that can be super challening, if you respect someones opinion so much...but great insight. You can avoid a lot of pain doing that (biggest take-away)

[@InternetLiJo]

Great couple in action again!

[@BigViewership]

“Homie that’s not what I’m into” 😂😂😂😂 Tom had me dying 😂

[@krystlemccord4182]

Rules of engagement! Love 🙏🏼

[@glittergoddess_shauna]

I love when Tom states, “ equivalent to a dick pic” because I was like yay about the box with the picture and lipstick mark! So Thank you for that!!!!

[@marialavitaebella5819]

🤣🤣🤣 I totally thought the gift box was great idea!! Oh the differences between men and women! Ok, ok, ok got it 👌🏼

[@rasheenas_show1187]

You guys are amazing!! I want to meet the both of you!!

[@AW-yb7iv]

“Dick pick...” that conversation and natural response, and laughter between you both, was nothing but awesome!

[@TheMonicagal]

Hello!...Could you share how you met...and about your early dates?...And early dating advice. Thank you!

[@keritho5578]

Love you guys!! ❤️❤️❤️😂

[@janelleleslie9065]

Biggest takeaway - COMMUNICATE and think about what the other person would like from their perspective (Loved Tom’s response to the lipstick picture! 😂)

[@paxinstudio]

Biggest takeaway: be super honest with each other about what they love to receive (not just sexually, but day to day basis). Don’t get defensive or discouraged when you try something but your partner ultimately didn’t like it. Communicate, & find out what they’d rather prefer to have, and do it next time. It’ll deepen the bond & understanding of each other.

[@duelingvagabond1368]

Find out EXACTLY what your partner needs and desires. Having been in a 5 year long distance relationship myself, I cannot stress the importance of clear communication. To take it a step further, read The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman. Every person perceives loves in different ways. Trust me. You will save yourself a lot of heartache if you read this well thought out book.

[@fashionspy96]

YES! RELATIONSHIP THEORY IS BAAAAAAACK! I'M F*CKING THRILLED

[@christellen3077]

Thank you for your service and for being so educational!! Be blessed!

[@nafisatsuleiman4628]

I'm suprised you both have been married for 18yrs, pls what are your individual ages.. Wonderful couple I must say

[@entzibasllari4622]

We love you.

[@saheracharya7195]

Biggest takeaway- Communication is everything. Don't assume. Don't expect. And be open to having different and unexpected opinions.!

[@goodwill2174]

💕 So true with this d**k pic thing. And that chocolate box gift idea from Lisa. You guys are amazing. 💕 Love and respect. Everything related with Impact theory is a gift to everyone. ❣️❣️ It was knowledge packed with overwhelming cuteness. 😻

[@Vishv2604]

Agree.. They are doing a much better service to this world🔥🔥 where mental connection between most of the couple is lost n they're becoming role models of modern world👌👌💫💫

[@realtalk675]

Love this channel hahaha laughed so hard

[@anikadhingra7176]

So true! Honestly I sometimes find such pics sexually attractive as a woman but mostly not. I much rather prefer being sent some hot story or something like that😅 And haha as a woman I was totally laughing when Lisa, you said that picture with a kiss and Tom said hell no! Cos I was legit thinking yea this is a good idea😂 Anyway my takeaway from this was one simple thing- COMMUNICATE. As you guys have always said-"communicate obsessively" . That's true for both emotional and sexual sense. As a woman I need to know how my man feels good and my man needs to now how is girlfriend will feel comfortable and good in sexual terms. Sending lots of love :) ❤️ Hope you consider me, for spending a day with you guys :) - woman from India :)

[@Linalinalane]

Here for the 30min zoom call lol

[@adhdfitgirl]

this is not only awesome, it's SUPER CUTE :)

[@selfhelpchampion9664]

Thanks Lisa and Tom🙏❤️selfhelpchampion

[@shannonkingston2658]

Damn goals. This life or the next one?

[@Winneronyinye]

I'm not in a relationship yet but my jotter is full.....for research purposes 😂tnk you Soo much

[@shunwilliams6180]

Lovely ♥️♥️♥️

[@reinaldomartinez13]

I coulda used this before I broke up because of long distance haha

[@Dss902]

Sexting has been around for like ten years. If it's critical for your relationship to succeed than you have major problems in my opinion.

[@arasenofworld]

Yemen.. lol, you guys are awesome

[@shadanzahrooni8416]

Biggest Takeaway: If the roots of a relationship are strong, distance does not matter.

[@dandemello_]

Biggest Takeaway: long distance relationships might work like any other, but to be sustainable the rules of engagement and the vision of the future has to be more alligned than in other dynamics.

[@fatalradius]

ladies and gentlemen. If you will send suggestive photos, use a messaging app like Signal, and before you send it have you messages delete after 5 seconds. You send it, and it self destructs once read. Done deal.

[@devanggraini111]

"Our mutual friend" 😆

[@Joe_bosco]

I NEED TO WIN THE ZOOM. WE WILL MAKE MILLIONS

[@dalb2081]

If every couple really took it seriously what is important to their partner, I think half of the fights would be resolved and by the way I would ask for a photo with my man in a towel...

[@djamilamonteiro8951]

My husband has a stash of raunchy vids and photos of me. He sends me soft porn voice notes or e-mails. It works like a charm lol Also, zoom movie nights on shared screen and our front cameras on happens on the weekends. We chat everyday once a day and share memes/wholesome videos throughout the day. It’s possible to make it work with this technology. What’s important is knowing what our timeframe is and that we are actively building towards our future.

[@julikayki6655]

Whahaha, this episode made me laugh so hard

[@ГалинаПопова-х9з]

Biggest takeaway: no pictures with a lipstick kiss😂

[@yuliia-o5o]

❤️❤️Когда видишь своих в комментах у Тома 🙂

[@eliasespinoza2340]

Biggest takeaway was to not send a dick pic! 😂 No but for reals the takeaway for me was that men and women can be turned on by completely different things, and on that note I have to read a billion wicked thoughts 🙌🏽

[@MarthiaD]

Yep, there's so many tips techniques and tricks that it's sometimes hard to know where to start. But it's not rocket science to get your man shivering with ecstasy just by changing the way you talk. As simple as this sounds, maybe try escalating it a step at a time, go’ogle something like Words of Desire by Celestine Dessike to sneakily crawl into his mind and let it build on from that.

[@stolenconversations]

🙏🙏🙏

[@kar3n35]

I coulnt be in a long distance relationship. I woulnt even try. long distance equals cheating.

[@Invisibility397]

We are all a ball of energy in a bio mechanical robot. What does it matter self confidence is just as mandatory as self love. Plus the bio robot will one day go to a fire or become food for worms and insects

[@jonstersmall2716]

I wish Lisa would keep in her English accent rather than going mid-Atlantic

[@DavidSmith3750]

No subscription. Don’t appreciate the foul Language it’s really NOT necessary to get the point. Wash yer mouth with SOAP.

[@ranevc]

This wife, is she British or something? And the husband, could he not use the f*** word, please?