How to Know If He's Attracted to You | Relationship Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

[@matboggs]

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[@sandracarli1110]

Even if a woman doesn’t like a man and rejects him, deep inside she will admire his courage and also feel flattered.

[@sandradube4456]

Eish, there are some advances that honestly annoy me. I dont even admire those men's courage 😂😂.

[@westlifefan8480]

I've rejected a random guy I didn't know and didn't admire his courage or feel flattered 😂

[@Mae-rr5ye]

Very much so. And it'll put you on her radar if she didn't notice you before. Ya neverrer know ☺️

[@Lauradahl-creations]

Especially if he was respectful 🙏

[@l.christinejones8164]

Yes

[@chrischris9718]

1. He positions his body language towards you 2. He makes himself available to you quickly 3. He can’t stop looking at you 4. He has genuine interest for you as a person 5. He treats you differently than he treats his friends 6. He tries to get close to you 7. He gets nervous

[@whyjustwhy2168]

And if he does all this I will not like him. At least I'm being honest

[@karendobbs8153]

@@whyjustwhy2168That’s so weird to think someone else thinks exactly like I do. When someone does all of those things, or even some of them, I don’t like it, or them either.

[@seacoast4950]

I love it when men treat me this way!!! It lets me know he is interested ❤❤🎉

[@Jan-qv8ku]

I love it when a man treats me this way! ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@belleofthecamp6530]

#4 is key! If he isn’t asking me questions about myself ima exit politely.

[@davidweisgram4749]

This works in 45 years of marriage, treating our relationship like there is something new and keeping it exciting! Never let the spark go away!

[@rezotydnic]

Yes! Don't ever stop dating!

[@elisabethlabbaci8679]

Four most sure signs of attraction: He looks/stares a lot (dilated pupils), he smiles at you, he laughs around you and he tries to initiate conversation. These seem to be true worldwide, in all cultures.

[@offairhead]

1. Turns his body towards you 2. Make themselves available for you 3. Can’t stop looking at you 4. Genuine interest in you as a person 5. Treats you differently than he treats his friends 6. Tries to get physically close to you 7. He gets nervous/awkward

[@endorn3234]

The man I am currently dating (getting to know) keeps telling me “I’m actually a really quiet guy. I never talk this much!” It’s been three months and I believe he’s done the other six things on your list. Lots of chemistry between us ❤️‍🔥!

[@sarahkinsella5733]

Name ed

[@zippyblessed839]

Ur gay?

[@BenjaminThomasBenjamintma]

Hello ❤

[@BenjaminThomasBenjamintma]

​@@sarahkinsella5733 🎉

[@missstirring6063]

Like the other comment, when men who I'm not interested in hit on me, I always say thank you! For taking the courage to approach me, it takes so much courage to approach someone without knowing the outcome ❤🎉

[@smilgazolyte6696]

he remembers everything you have ever said. in general you dont even have a question if he likes you. his behaviour does not let you think otherwise.

[@rezotydnic]

1. He positions his body language towards you. 2. He makes himself available to you quickly. 3. He can't stop looking at you. 4. He has genuine interest in you as a person. 5. He treats you differently than he treats his friends. 6. He tries to get close to you. 7. He gets nervous. My bf did all these in the dating phase. Now that we are a committed couple, nothing. PLEASE men. Don't ever stop dating your partner!

[@jennhawkins5356]

Pupil dilation is very cute! I noticed a man’s pupils get huge a few times during our one on one conversations and was intrigued by what I’d noticed in him enough to look it up…and turns out that’s a sign of attraction! This was also after me noticing he was trying to indirectly protect me and he would watch me a lot. It was a very sweet sign that he’d never know about himself or be able to control, but he wore his feelings all over the place!

[@katemiller5990]

Oh that’s so cool that you met Irena at a wedding expo! I love hearing stories about you guys 😊

[@tarab49]

Gets nervous! Oh yes! That absolutely happened, he couldn’t get his words straight. Once I knew that nervousness was a sign of attraction, it was so charming. He won me by the way!

[@Allexandra04]

Yeees, I know, that’s adorable 🥰 my guy blushes and smiles in a silly way 😂

[@pranya8936]

Yes, for me I noticed the shift from him being all talkative in a group situation to awkward and silent when it was just us two. He also got all red and flushed.

[@naenae82362]

12:18 am- have just met a man that was a “suddenly”. He is showing all 7 signs. This video has been deeply encouraging.

[@Heart2HeartwithGeo-ds7km]

This video by Mat Boggs is an excellent resource for women who want to know if a man is truly attracted to them. His tips are practical, insightful, and easy to follow. I appreciate how he emphasizes the importance of paying attention to nonverbal cues and body language, which can often reveal more about someone's feelings than what they say. Boggs also highlights the significance of feeling confident and comfortable in your own skin, which is key to attracting a partner who is truly compatible with you. Overall, this video is a great reminder to trust your intuition and to be patient when it comes to finding a fulfilling romantic relationship.

[@BlessedForever888]

I read elsewhere that when the man brags a lot at first it's like a male bird trying to do a dance to impress the female bird. It's not necessarily because he's full of himself, but he's just trying to impress you. I am not sure if this is true or not.

[@BB-ch9km]

Yes, I have had guys do that to me. Six months in to a friendship when his walls were coming down I found out he had really blown things up in the beginning. It's been hard to move through this now, because I wonder what else am I gonna find out that isn't true about him?!? I was truthful from the beginning.

[@tonyasherrod9042]

My babe is a proper gentleman. I have always known him from our church. We have been talking for over 3 months. I have made it clear that I want to be married. if he doesn't have the same interest in a committed relationship. He needs to move on because I don't want my time wasted. We are still holding strong. The 7 signs he meets 6 of them. We talk countless times during the day. But he doesn't talk. I love conversations that are so intense. It's like he wants to just sit on the phone. I need a conversation. What can I do to get him to talk.

[@kimt8162]

This is such a good vlog. My poor daughter and these sports guys. At these events, I observed. Once she asked, "does he like me?" I told her, I'm not sure. He doesn't know anything about you. He's not asked your school, your anything? They're just so self absorbed. THey are all waiting there for these girls to talk to them. But, they just mirror the girl that comes to them??? I guess because they're all as a "team" at the time. But I agree, if a guy really notices you. I feel he should not be "what does the guys think". He should have a focus on you.

[@kagwiRM]

1. His body Language is directed towards you. 2. He makes himself available for you. 3. He can't stop looking at you. 4. He has genuine interest to get to know you as a person. 5. He treats you different than he treats his friends - you're special to him. 6. He tries to get close to you. 7. He gets nervous.

[@stephh_nz]

Great advice and perfect timing! I’ve just started seeing someone new and he definitely seems keen but on the two dates we’ve had he’s definitely been oversharing and rambling! I’ve found it quite off putting because he doesn’t seem to want to ask me questions, but equally I think he’s sooo nervous!

[@kayleemielke9792]

Can you do a video(s) of signs of signs he is attracted to you on text/facetime?

[@CR-zx6yy]

This has literally never happened with my husband. Like...never lol. Now after watching this I don't even know how we ended up together. I think i made a mistake if this is what relationships are supposed to be like when a man truly likes or loves you. Why am I even with him lmao. I think i got married too young. I should have waited to figure out who I was and what I wanted before I let a guy trap me forever.

[@yurimaperez1145]

Over sharing to try to impress lol If out to dinner he recommends something in the menu n order for you He is making a plan for the next date

[@scoutthespaniel978]

Here’s the deal ladies… you can’t “make” a man be attracted to you. And you don’t want to!!! You don’t need to “do” anything to be attractive. The right man will think you’re gorgeous even when you feel bloated and crusty. No makeup, wash and wear hair, jogging pants. He will love your eyes, your smile, your curves. He will know your worth. If you have to “try” to get his attention, you don’t want it.

[@v.h.2928]

great words for me to hear. Thank for that insight as I know I tend to over think things. 😊

[@MK-xk7vi]

Good to hear this. If only i could have that !

[@deliapasqualini970]

Right. You can somehow encourage a man to take action if you feel there's something, but you can't definitely make him to be attracted to you. Attraction is in or out.

[@JB-Ohiolove]

Thank you for your wonderful words. They hit home for me!

[@angelawaterhouse4323]

Thoroughly enjoying your videos. I’ve noticed the person tries to make me laugh

[@HeidiRobinson-fn2jq]

You both also need to be wanting people around each other who like you both together, and like & hopefully love you both as individuals.

[@zoeszabo2353]

My favorite sign is actually a combination of nr. 7 & 3. It's basically that you show up somewhere where you know he's going to be at (usually unconsciously) and when he sees you he makes a small, dumb mistake in what he was doing. If he's talking to someone he'll forget what he was saying or mess up his word even stutter. I think it's really cute and it's so obvious no one can deny it 😂

[@catwalkalex]

I know my crush feels attracted. I also know he's not in for a relationship 😢 depressing

[@marilyncantrell4954]

Do you have a channel for married couples? Like: How to get your husband to stay in love with you. ☹️🤷🏻‍♀️

[@happycat85]

I am just experiencing some really nice things with a guy I just met. We haven't been on our first date yet but he already treats me as respectfully as if we've already been in a committed relationship for some time and it's beautiful. I don't know if things will work out, just saying I am really enjoying it at the moment

[@JohnsonToli]

❤ sounds good

[@jelenahristov4094]

Maybe one sign could be him asking me about my plans for the summer, whether I will be in the same place as him during summer vacation. :)

[@marinatiunova7565]

Brilliant! Thank you!

[@carmenmendivil764]

I'm lost because about a week ago he asked me if I needed and wanted a hug &I froze &he gave me a huge hug that was an overtaken bear hug ,like I felt like he 's got something that I can't explain if is a crush ,like ,love, or he 's just looking to cheat on his girlfriend,or wife.

[@polynesia8733]

he wants to just go horizontal

[@naca1553]

My dates want to do all the talking and they let me know they had such a wonderful time. Naturally I don’t want to pursue anything. I also consider if he is appealing to me; they tell me things that eliminate them as a good possible option. I once had seven dates with a man who did this. It never changed. I decided not to let it go that long again.

[@JohnsonToli]

Hope you're doing great

[@naca1553]

@@JohnsonToli I am!

[@JohnsonToli]

@@naca1553 hope you don't mind getting to know you better ❤️❤️❤️

[@pricesunbury59]

My guy has all of this. I think I am so very lucky. ❤❤

[@seacoast4950]

I love everything you said. Love men that treats me this way!!!! ❤❤

[@georgiagreenoutnabout6228]

He may check in to wish me a great day every morning.

[@cindycain3301]

Never experienced any of the things you mentioned. I don't agree that most are just good guys. I'm in Florida. It's the land of everything disposable.

[@luxueusecerise]

Manly. 🤞🏼 Thanks Matt for remark 'em.

[@sineadnichoirbin7232]

Really interesting. Making a mental note of this! 😁💞

[@Hama_hama97]

Points noted📌

[@tattyspring8910]

Okay, now I know that I really like him and that I make him nervous too, but we're both incredibly shy, and the longer we talk, the more awkward our conversations become. I am afraid to tell him what I feel because we are colleagues, because he is older than me and because he has a higher position. I'm afraid to seem mercantile or clingy, because I appreciate him as a person, we have so much in common and respect him very much. He asked me out once, and since then we have become even more awkward. Goddd, I'm a hopeless silly naive lovesick puppy😭😭😭

[@lillianB916]

I saw a guy who had all those signs, was very charismatic towards me, we started out being intimate but lately that changed to totally platonic relationship that last 5 years to be exact. Was fine with me after leaving my husband, but now I want more I love this man with all my heart but he just doesn't want any serious relationship with anyone. Our friendship is more like were together, but then he'll turn around and find girls on a date app to have sex only with them. I must be aweful I thought. But people tell me it's just him. I believe it is him as I've had other men tell me I'm hot. But why is he this way? Can you do a video on this subject? I think he had a love that hurt him really bad, or his childhood was from broken marriage. I don't know, but recently I've stopped seeing him on weekends and calling him or texting. Sometimes I do and he always quickly picks up or texts right back, I'm so confused but not my problem anymore I need more in life. But dang I love that guy Why? Why do I get attracted to this type? UGH Guess i could be single all my life and hang out with him? But I know I deserve better. He told me hes like this with all women. I believe him but ob viosly I'm not the one. He says he can't live with anyone he says because of too many idiosyncrosies.

[@floprete9422]

There are different kinds of attraction and it's Important to differeneate them. Physical attraction is one thing and widely known to be the most common type of attraction in men. But there is also Spiritual, Mental, Chemical, Emotional, and even some more. It's important that you have more than just physical attraction for a relationship to really last b/c physical attraction alone won't keep you together.

[@dashiajames1882]

The signs I've noticed are, guy will say " you're cute " throw out a flirt line or two, from there we will have long conversation, they'll look at me non-stop, they'll quickly groom themselves & they get nervous. Have a great day. Thanks alot..!! 😉😉

[@karindiane]

Rarely has this happened to me cause I am introverted and reserved and prefer to stay home and watch all the awesome TV shows on now or just do something with my sister or even by myself. But when I was a freshman in high school a guy would hang around my locker and just be around, smiling. I thought he was nice but didn't think of him like that. Unfortunately I was immature. I was cold and I ignored him. I thought if I was nice, it would give him the wrong idea. I now regret all these later how I acted. I should have been more friendly, maybe even given him a chance and also maybe didn't even like me. I could have been imagining things. I was not popular and pretty. Quiet, frumpy and overweight. A few years ago I was at Urgent care and a Doctor and a male nurse walked into my room. I thought to myself about the nurse " he is kind of cute, but a little short for my taste" The nurse asked all the typical health questions. But there was one question I thought was strange. It was " Do you live with a spouse or a significant other?" I was going to ask; why do you have to know this for what felt like severe strep throat? But I just said I live with my brother and sister. His body gave a noticeable shudder and then he gave me the biggest whole face smile I ever saw! I thought it was strange, why is he smiling? I feel like crap. He gave me a glass of water and a pill to calm the throat and left the room. And then hit me, maybe this guy is attracted to me. Which made me feel good but also surprising because I am not pretty or in good physical shape. He then came back in to tell me I didn't have strep and got closer to me than most people I know and casually grazed my arm and told me the usual stuff about resting and staying hydrated. But could tell he was trying to make the encounter last a little longer. Usually someone being that close to me would make me uncomfortable, but it did not with him. I almost said something like I hope your night is not too long to show him that I was also attracted to him. But then chickened out and just said thank you. Of course I never saw this guy again, because I am not a crazy person that hangs around the hospital urgent care. But I wish perhaps I would have showed him I was interested and maybe we would have stayed in contact. But of course I know asking for my phone number is not appropriate at a work environment like Urgent Care. But I kinda wish he had. I could never! Way too shy! Most likely nothing would have come of it. And making more of it in my head. Also one other time a guy smiled at me with his whole face while he was running, I was walking. A little ways down the wooded path, he stopped to look at his phone, like he was waiting for me. He didn't give a creepy vibe, but because in a wooded area, decided to be safe and turn around. And those are the only times I think guys have been attracted or interested in me. But of course maybe I am just seeing what I want to make myself feel good. Gosh so sorry this was so long and rambling!

[@yokimawhittaker5193]

I haven't went out on a first date yet. We ain't even talked over the phone yet. So I wouldn't know.🤔

[@reneephillips2763]

What if all of those are in place and you're not interested

[@tjrothausen]

Like the word “playeristic”!

[@belleofthecamp6530]

❤ so helpful. Thanks!

[@deannastands5141]

Oh yeah, needs to be positioned to be looking at me. I've seen him move to a different chair just to see me better, but we were too far apart to converse. Then he started to text me when I was talking with someone, I answered back, he texted, etc. Later that evening, we talked about it and laughed. We then talked for hours after that, serious and funny stuff. Will this ever evolve into more than what it is now? I don't know, but I'm not going to jeopardize this by rushing and trying to force any issues.

[@l.christinejones8164]

Matt's videos are terrific

[@theodoraefreda92]

Thanks. Points Noted

[@lja530]

What were you doing at that wedding expo as a single man...?

[@Miska_Lada]

Looking for his wife 😅❤

[@DusktilDawn-xq8rl]

​@@Miska_Ladalmfao 😂😂

[@poornimasingh8300]

well he keeps looking at me i don't know why this has been bothering me a lot

[@bobbielynnbriard3267]

I had guy text me the new. I’ve had to go stay at my moms actually asked if he could come along. He normally only says he’s just friends. I want your opinion to tell me if you think it’s more than just friends and how would I actually make sure you know if he’s coming how much gas him so I wouldn’t be pushy

[@Sara-sp2hy]

he will text right after we say good bye and ask when he can see each other again,,,, if they dont like the girl they either never text again or they say we are not for each other

[@priscillawilliams2535]

My guy does all that thanku for sharing thus

[@Katharina1111]

I've noticed if I catch this guy looking at me, he takes a sudden deep breath and he'll lock eyes just a moment before looking away, and his hands go deeper in his pockets, I can tell his heart is racing. That I caught him looking. And I've also noticed his eyes change,

[@cristinapaz801]

But where to meet the ideal love when you don't go out you are all the day at home taking care of your elderly parents, it's too hard when you don't even have friends

[@carmenmendivil764]

There's a man at my job like that & he had done given most of those signs ,but he tells me he's just doing it friendly &,he has a girlfriend ,and he went for a week for a visit to his family &,he took her, but I have kids &I'm confused.

[@pearlyq3560]

Believe what he says. Some people just like to flirt. End of story. Move on.

[@katjanielsen1586]

I Got 5 out the 7... hope That’s good 🤞🏻

[@vikkialexander2994]

Very interesting, I'm just trying to suss out a guy I know .

[@HeidiRobinson-fn2jq]

Also, both of you need to be able to accept constructive criticism.

[@luzvimindalayar5265]

Thnkz for ur advice sir ....hpy to knw....wish to meet to guy like that hehe .....god bless ...to all ...

[@Nurten_bayraktar_]

Can I ask him if he is attracted to me? What do you think?

[@tericasto174]

Could you please help? I'm 63 on disability and newly dating a man on social security, we enjoy being together but it's hard to go on quality dates due to limited funds. A walk or having dinner we cook and a movie on TV is how we spend many of our dates. My question is we need advice how to move thru dating stages while on fixed low income and the pros and cons and pitfalls we might fall into. I enjoy your advice and am very curious how you would navigate a relationship under these conditions. Thank you.

[@JackieBluXO]

Picnic in a park, free outdoor concerts, put on music and slow dance, early bird specials for dinner, strip poker, walk in the park, nature walk/hike, farmers market visits, go to an auction (dont have to buy anything) matinee movies, plan a day trip somewhere and bring Picnic lunch, go to the library and rent movies, play chess or checkers there, have friends over for game night

[@polynesia8733]

go to church with him

[@lauraa.5816]

Matt how about a gentleman that does all of that but never ask you questions about yourself? 😢 I’ve mentioned it to him only to receive “I’m just a simple man”. Like huh? Lol

[@njizimsoo]

3:01 6:36

[@laurancurtis5669]

How does this work when you've "sort of" been with someone for 5 years?

[@thetruthfulsoul.2424]

The person i like likes me too but the problem is he doesn't want to show. Sometimes he give subtle hints. Sometimes he is absolutely silent making me self doubt. He follows my social media. He promptly replies to my msg and he always try to clarify if he thinks im accusing him of something ( i do tell this sweetly and flirty way) so he responds. But he confuses me. Am i looking too deep? Or is it some kind of game im not aware of. Why does a person response and keep you tracks if he has no feeling for you?

[@LindseyObrooke]

This never happens to me ever cool.

[@daisyphoenix7461]

Ty

[@catherinecatequista7836]

All of the above💚

[@leesanderson6885]

Yep..all of those. Cool👀

[@JH-td4uu]

Yeah, none of this has ever happened to me

[@mariazeta8756]

Awww my bubby!! 🤗🤗🤗😍😍😍🥰🥰🥰

[@Rowan-mo4ko]

I wasn't wondering. You dont have to like me because I like me.

[@LisaLGruman]

Have noticed one female family member, one female friend and my guy are just not responsive via cell phone calls or texts, which, while frustrating, at least explains just that one deficiency while he does tick all the other boxes of attraction listed in this video.

[@julieberg5951]

Why do I attract the wrong guys it either creeps or ones that I not attracted too

[@talenmarderosian5121]

What if he asks you to go to his place to watch a movie , and you both are just friends for 1 year but there are a lot of flittering from his end while this friendship? Can someone give advise please!

[@polynesia8733]

He just wants s_x

[@bethalexander5768]

I can't even get a text back.🙄

[@walaayamani]

Well then, he’s not the right man for you. You deserve better! Just move on

[@Lily-yg4dl]

It is only the beautiful women that get true love

[@deloreschism9171]

I caught him staring at me.

[@Nutritionistheanswer]

Does interest always translate to attraction?

[@pearlyq3560]

no, of course not.

[@Nutritionistheanswer]

@@pearlyq3560 so how do you know the difference? If someone said "I assure you I am interested" and later I wouldn't be telling you what I want to do in the future if I wasn't interested and made a commitment and established a relationship how can you tell if someone is attracted or not?

[@annmary_22]

Is this really true like touching a girls back while chatting? Part of hospitality ?

[@dlr7308]

He does none of these things 😂 we never speak seriously about something he always jokes around with me even after work when he asked me to go for a walk once it was just casual like 2 friends that were joking about everything. I literally tell him that I like him tho (in a funny flirty way, but i’ve done it so much that it’s pretty sure that i mean it), but he makes a joke of it and never really responds to it.

[@polynesia8733]

Sorry sweetie he is not into you...when this guy was about to ask me out I deflected and made a joke because I wasn't really into him

[@dlr7308]

@@polynesia8733 no it’s fine i’m used to not being liked back anyway but thank you for being so honest with me🙏🏼

[@polynesia8733]

@@dlr7308 seek the Lord and He will give you the desires of your heart.❣

[@babeinblissland555]

It's really creepy when men stare at you for long periods of time.

[@whitneyangelie3682]

Not when it’s a guy you *like* , then it’s sexy af 😂

[@periswagathiki]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@deborahhenshall1741]

Do you have to be beautiful for that to happen.

[@faythking6123]

👍

[@mommyjo01]

My guy has only complimented me on my looks like 2 times ever. He diesnt tell me im pretty or beautiful. Sometimes I wonder if he even finds me attractive

[@seaglasscolor]

Sometimes you’ll see his pupils dilate.

[@britneyliyali2204]

He's a 10, but he talks about other girls 😪

[@dorisgrayson3839]

I'm not interested in your garabage

[@life-is-here]

This video offers great advice on the signs a guy gives when he's really attracted to you. Thanks, @life-is-here