How to Know You've Found The One | Relationship Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

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[@lucijakristo837]

You will just FEEL that he is the one. Not because you are so in love and get butterflies everytime you see him, but because you FEEL his energy is so calming and yet so powerful. You FEEL as you could touch the stars and he makes you a better person. He gives you advice and is not telling you what you want to hear but what is best for you. He always comes back to you and for you and will never let anything happen to you or your relationship. And like Matt said: it will be hard to screw up the right thing. 😊

[@Lyzylyzy1922]

Yes I agreed 💞💞💞

[@wanderingsoul2931]

Yes!!!!

[@dianasherry9903]

This is so absolutely true. I can’t just look at a guy’s photo and know if I’ll be attracted to him, I have to be in his presence and experience his energy.

[@sebastian.abarcaa]

i just hope my girl thinks this about me! made me smile. obssesed with becoming the best version of myself

[@cariannkirby]

Because it WAS sooo easy with him. No red flags. And he actually pursued me and didn't hesitate with me at all. He was just up front and honest from the get go. It's been easy sailing since.

[@TheJessicagardner]

Lovely xxo

[@andreaberryman5354]

Cool! Had the same happen. Boom, boom, boom. No time wasted, laid it out, honest about his feelings, started saying "we".

[@live.life.secure.coaching]

This brings me so much joy ❤

[@dianasherry9903]

My late husband, while we were dating, said exactly that, “you are so comfortable to be with.” We were married for 17 years before he passed suddenly. I miss him so.

[@carolameyer7915]

Sorry for your loss, Diana.

[@DiscoveryWonders]

I'm so sorry for your loss. Big hugs to you.

[@sweetsue4204]

Marry someone you can’t imagine life without. Marry someone you like being quiet with. Marry someone who is comfortable being with you.

[@jac1057]

Susan, I like what you said about silence. Isn't there an old saying, "If you can't understand my silence then I can't expect you to understand my words"? or something like that. Anyway, I really liked your comment.

[@jillianh7565]

I am dating my best friend from high school right now. We’ve been together for almost 3 years and I remember how our strongest moments as a couple were during tough times. We had met when I was 13 and had just lost my core group of friends as well as my first boyfriend. Mike, my current boyfriend and best friend, helped me get back on my feet and we started talking as casual friends. We eventually lost touch in early high school and reconnected after I lost another group of friends. This time we became close friends and started hanging out after school. Two years later things changed when both of us started developing romantic feelings towards each other. I will never forget the night Mike asked me out. One day I found out my mom had cancer. The news took a day or two to hit me but when it did, I was crying myself to sleep. That night Mike calls me and notices I’m not my happy self. Upon asking what was wrong, I told him the news and he made it a point to stay up with me past midnight until I felt better. Within that phone conversation he told me that he could make me feel happy, safe etc. if I gave him a chance. The next morning I accepted his offer and became his girlfriend.

[@wshelby83]

Jillian H that’s beautiful!! You’re truly blessed with a great guy who LOVES you through thick and thin. He definitely wants to see you happy. I wish you guys all the best

[@jillianh7565]

Britanie Williams, thank you. It’s funny how sometimes the person you would never see yourself with, is the person you end up with long term. Had somebody asked me when I was 13-16 if I’d end up with Mike, I would have said absolutely not and so would he; but as we developed a close friendship in late high school our feelings changed. I can’t believe we’ve been together this long given that we were both each other’s FIRST real love. I think our friendship is what keeps things alive between us.

[@phinecode6996]

The person i cant imagine my life without turns out to be the person i should not be with.

[@artsyhyd]

Many ppl say when you find the one or that person finds you, everything usually would flow naturally and easily, and no red flags, everything just fall into places.

[@gaylenadel8906]

This is the first relationship that I feel is easy, flowing and peaceful. No drama, great fun and laughing until it hurts!

[@rezotydnic]

I knew on the first date. We hugged and it felt like I had known him forever. He was my 'home'.

[@oshisani5083]

I’m experiencing this very thing! Easy and flows. He also encourages me to vent and is very supportive. I’ve never met a man like this before. Good men exist! Don’t settle ladies!!!

[@kararodriguez7940]

He was extremely persistent, kind and very attentive even when I ignored him and now we have been married For 28 years and have with 3 kids 🥰

[@ners.nurona]

awwww❤️

[@freshasdaisies3350]

Congratulations to everyone who have already met the love of their life 🥰 Can't wait to find my own too 😁

[@LearnGermanwithMarzipanfrau]

Me too :D

[@footyfan101ful]

Me too!!

[@Kiralicious8]

Thank you. You will too🙏🥰

[@naturesoundsmusic1719]

Me too

[@pumpyourselfup7683]

I met the love of my life this year 2023 June 26

[@crushthebest]

For me, the most important sign was that I could fully open up and be myself with my partner. Generally, I don't share my thoughts easily with people around me. Not even my close family. When I met my partner, I immediately knew that there is nothing I wouldn't tell him. I knew there was trust and respect on both sides. We both felt we can share everything with each other and lovingly approach each other's points of view. We are both very grateful we found each other ☺️

[@victoriakrejberg787]

The moment i realised my boyfriend is the one, was once we were eating dinner with my parents, and my mom was telling a story from my childhood. The story was that i used to collect candy wrappings, and fold it, my mom always thought it was weird and kinda laughed at the story, but then my boyfriend told us all he did the same thing, and he had a book of folded wrapping paper at home. My mom was surprised as well and told us we were perfect together. I love him so much, one day i'm gonna marry that guy.

[@opjade]

💕

[@bogif3668]

Oh sweet story 💓 I wish for you two the best

[@VannaMae]

It feels effortless. I've never been with someone that could openly say what's on my mind and he accepts me, flaws and all. I feel so blessed to have this man in my life and I let him know that everyday.

[@Etigress]

I asked God to send me an angel to tell me if the man I was seeing was the one. A few days later my boyfriend and I went for a walk in the park and a group of children dressed as angels came running up to us on the walking path. They were part of a Sunday school group, handing out flowers to strangers. A young boy handed us both a tulip. I was astonished , I couldn't believe my eyes!!! That was the sign I asked for. I started tearing up, I was so touched. God is truly amazing.❤️

[@uncouthgirly]

Wow! God rarely sends me signs that are so specific. That’s really an amazing occurrence! Congratulations!

[@doreenabdalah7166]

God is truly amazing. How I wish that he will do a miracle to me someday

[@nicolestarlight4030]

@@doreenabdalah7166 he will! I'll bet he already has ;) Keep asking and ask to be open to receive and see the miracle, in full clarity. i'd love to hear your miracles already on their way for you

[@rosemaryblackmore7351]

@@nicolestarlight4030 ft

[@acemax2803]

@Etigress so are you guys now married to each other?

[@JustBron137]

"Ease and peace..." Yes. Such good keys Matthew. Last night I was snugged up against my man contemplating how my whole inner and outer worlds have changed since I left my life in New Zealand in December 2018 and came to live with him in his home country which is Sweden. We live in a tiny 10 x 4.5 meter apartment (30 x 14 foot) with a 10 x 2 meter balcony outside. I am a keen gardener, so the balcony at the edge of the city overlooking Skåne farmland makes all the difference to me. As I was contemplating all of the amazing changes and wonderful outcomes since I moved here, the words that came to me were "Safe and comfortable." I've never been safe much in my life since there was so much violence in the family of my early life and also in my marriage, which after 4.5 years I had to get out of. I struggled daily after that as a young mom raising two little children on my own. My children never knew a father. That's sad. Finally, when all hope was lost for me to ever couple (beauty and cuteness fading at the age of nearly 50, and such), a beautiful man walked into my life in New Zealand in 2010. He was so kind, never impulsive, never rash or judgemental, never raised his voice, took everything in his stride... and he broke down the defensive walls in me. For 25 years I had my walls up and wouldn't let anyone in. I was afraid and always on alert for danger. He broke me down, through his kindness and the stability of his nature. I now only feel safe and comforted with him as I lay down with him, my head on his chest. It is truly a very wonderful thing... A miracle actually. I wonder at it every day. A miracle.

[@nicolestarlight4030]

What a beautiful story Bronwyn, thank you for sharing this. it is a miracle and you are a miracle worthy of all of this and more

[@maricielgalicia]

So touching. I’m so moved by your story. Have a lovely life together and more.

[@redsummerwings]

Beautiful ❤

[@JustBron137]

@@redsummerwings Thank you for reading :)

[@rosemcintyre6824]

He makes me feel wanted not necessarily needed, if that makes any sense! He's not big on compliments but speaks loudly in his actions. In this relationship I've learned to trust myself my instincts. Hes respectful, honest, has integrity & I just know he's my man & he's the one♡

[@wandahaney8125]

I was ready for a date that I was going on. Not with my hubby. I hadn’t met him yet. Lol I went to my sisters house to drop off my four yr old son. A gentleman was bent down tying his shoes. He sensed my eyes watching him and glanced up. He said... what are you looking at? I said....you, you tie your shoes like a kindergartner. OMG! He was upset. Hehehe. He did. He took and made two loops and twisted them around. The next day he asked his boss who I was not knowing his boss was my brother in law. He stated he was mad at first but couldn’t get me off his mind. That night I went on a date With him. We are now twenty years married twenty five years together! ❤️❤️🥰🥰🥰

[@brandonvanlieshout7303]

That's great. Mine gf got nervous and farted. And instead of getting embarrassed she and I just laughed. I fell instantly In love. Those are the best relationships

[@vlogswithfariah]

wow dats great 😍

[@beadingandcraftsbycha]

Aww that is sooo sweet😍

[@LillyTheLonelySock]

Congratulations! I like stories like yours that show a happy relationship growing out of what seems like an unlikely beginning. There's something very human about this kind of story. Knowing that the relationship started from a negative or flawed encounter really shows how strong a love and connection you two have!

[@janetalvarado6557]

I love success stories like yours. God bless u 2 with many more! 😇🙏

[@MyzzieTheWitch]

The moment I knew he was the one for me is when I realized his sense of humour matched mine and that being myself was something I could do without feeling like I was too much. The fact that I feel totally at peace around him also cemented that feeling.

[@elizabethschilling7178]

The way I knew I was with the right man that I married is that in spite of all my quirks he stayed, he loved me in spite of... he knew I was the one for him is he said he couldn't imagine his life without me. He has since passed away but I'm praying one day I experience a true love again.

[@doreenabdalah7166]

Cheer up. U gonna get one

[@teresaw5220]

God bless his loving soul and yours. Hopefully another true love will come.

[@bogif3668]

Ohhh. I am soryy. I wish for you the best. You will find true love again. 💓

[@diplomat2623]

I loved this!! I remember one woman told me when I asked her how does a woman know? She’d simply said, “You’ll know”. I was surprised! Then she said you’ll look at him and think to yourself “You know, I’d marry this guy.” I felt peace with that answer. Listen to your gutt. Simple.

[@Thenoobestgirl]

So did you find him yet?

[@diplomat2623]

@@Thenoobestgirl No, sis.

[@donnacummins6904]

I felt a sense of trust. I knew he was not looking for anyone else and neither was I. We accepted each other as we were. A comfortable feeling and the chemistry was right.

[@brandonvanlieshout7303]

We are all a little weird, and life is a little weird. And when we find the one that matches our weirdness, we fall in mutual weirdness and call it love. Laughter is what makes it go well.

[@shewolf9809]

This entire statement is perfect! I have finally found someone so perfectly weird for me and we are always laughing! Such a wonderful feeling.

[@naturesoundsmusic1719]

🤜🤛

[@latashalewis873]

I love this!

[@live.life.secure.coaching]

This ❤

[@bezasolange3604]

If he can't make you laugh then he is not the one.

[@beevang7967]

That's so true.

[@adj5767]

This is important for sure.

[@paigeelise3179]

This made me cry. I’m praying for this type of guy. Just peace and easy. I want both of us just to be are selves.

[@avgonyma1]

How do you know you've found the one? 1. The single most common factor is: "it is EASY to be together" . And they feel PEACE when together. The attraction can be there from the start, or build up. But the ease an peace are there from the start. It looks almost like you can't mess it up. You get to be yourself. You get to relax. You can let go. You can have fun. Of course later on there are going to be bumps on the road.

[@Mimikh909]

Aww, so true!!! When you're being with the right one, everything seems so easy and effortless. Always a good time to have a conversation, no matter what you do you just feel so jolly and contented. Even if there's a problem, he'd try his best to solve it. I like being around him, he just brings out the positive, bubbly and spontaneous side in me. The moment he was gobsmacked when I first kissed him still easily puts a smile on me. The right one/relationship should always make you a better person if not the best.

[@irmabronder]

You know you find the one, when it is easy to be together.

[@AubreyBermudez]

Ease and peace. 💚

[@crazymexicana94]

I knew he’s the one when he matched/ surpassed my desire for Growth, I noticed myself holding me up to a higher standard and being truest to me because of him doing that for himself. Our compatibility is the most apparent when we are both in alignment with our truest best version of ourselves. He is always willing to communicate for the sake of continuing to build a solid foundation despite it not being his strongest quality. He lives the standard of leaving everything better than he found it, in a non forceful way.. just through being himself, willing to step outside what’s comfortable and inspiring others. I have always intentionally learned from experiences, looking for the treasures within .. I had never met someone whom inspired so much growth within myself that it caught me off guard. Life is so beautiful with someone who always helps you see it even more clearly today than you did yesterday.

[@nicolestarlight4030]

Stefanhy, this is beautiful! he sounds amazing and i rejoice in your good fortune!

[@natalieh.2671]

Omg same! This is exactly how me and my boyfriend are ♡

[@live.life.secure.coaching]

This is very similar to why I have feelings for the one I'm with. ❤ He's THE BEST man I've met in my life. He radiates love and peace, and he's so humble. ❤

[@kcopiniano9844]

I knew he is the one because everything just feels right. Everything is going well, and I am at peace. I feel so loved and cared for.

[@karenrowe191]

Feeling at ease and at peace is a great mindset to be in with a partner... I agree

[@doristerry625]

I will know when I stop guarding my heart, when I am able to become vulnerable.

[@HappyHealedRelationships]

I totally agree

[@ireneluvharry]

I felt peace , relax , safe , en that we felt we know each other for so long already , contented even we are not talking only sitting next to each other ! En the best is that, i can be “me” when I’m with him !

Ease, peace + I would add harmony and feeling to be respected.

[@LadyHawkeNJay]

He is so sweet... And comfortable!!! The other day, I asked him something... He said, honey, have I ever told you no, about anything....??? That melted my heart

[@Leeohlin89]

Oh I love these kind of stories! How I knew I met the love of my life was when he said on Mother’s Day to me: “you’d make a pretty epic mom.” Knowing that I did not have my mother around... mind you, this was a little over a year of us dating when he said this. Second time in that following topic/discussion was when he said I’m a strong lady and that being a mom would happen for me as it did for my mother and for me to just stay inspired. I would say yes!! I was blessed by the universe for having this man in my life, and I hope all you ladies capture the heart of the right man for you. Because they’re truly wanting to love you, just listen to mat’s advice and you’ll see how. 🙏🏼❤️

[@catherine8499]

For me i will know if he's the one if despite of all my imperfections and flaws he still sees the beauty in me and in every bad situations that we may face.

[@connectinglines997]

I know... I found the one... When... I feel down or whinny about stuff... He'll try his best to cheer me up... Not condemn me as the way i am... I feel so open true to myself... He makes me smile, laugh and happy around him... Respect me... And know the boundaries if there's things that i don't like... And i know his boundaries if there's things HE don't like... He'll share all his stories with me, i listen to him with detail... He stay patient with my flaws... And so on... Being dating for 3 months now...

[@connectinglines997]

@Spooky Spectre thank u so much

[@musiclove4635]

From the moment I met him, I knew we were meant to be, but what made me realize a series of events that happened early on in our relationship that would normally send a guy running. On one particular night we finally met up and decided to go walk along the river, I had just found out an ex was tragically killed in an auto accident. I was upset and crying. Keep in mind this was very early in our relationship. He patiently listened, offered loving words and held me close. I'm so blessed to have him in my life. And I will grow old by his side.

[@tamarawoods2677]

He was and is very very patient with me. I am high strung with very little patience with much!! and he is forgiving and knows how to apologize when he is wrong ! Has a calming spirit to him.

[@MistyCunard]

I met my future husband in an AOL chat room. We were total strangers living in separate states. We were married less than two years later. We just celebrated our 16th wedding anniversary and we have a 14 year old daughter.

[@javiermiranda-lozano9184]

But how did you make it work when he lived in a completely different state? Asking because I always said long distance is stupid and would never do it, and here I find myself flown across the country to meet someone last month. They are now flying across the country to meet me. But how can this logistically continue? I feel like a fool honestly.

[@MistyCunard]

Javier Miranda-Lozano the short answer is I moved 6 hours away. He was divorced and didn’t want to live that far away from his child. After a few months we discussed the distance issue and I agreed to make the move. Starting life over at 32 was not easy, but he was the one for me and I knew it.

[@kaylaraines1138]

I'm a person who has a disability and I knew that I had found the one when I told him what my disability was and he said you are still a person. And in that one moment I just knew that he had touched my heart.

[@DemiFu]

I just had a date and this guy literally was chill about everything, I felt so chill and safe. And now I see this video... He isn't my type at all physically, but everything else is so perfect and easy! So I hope the chemistry comes soon, because if I listen to this video, this could definately be THE ONE. ❤

[@lindab3249]

It was definitely the case for my first husband. It was impossible for me to make him angry or upset. He was exactly like the man in the story. We were happily married for 23 years until he passed last fall. I thought it would be impossible to find that kind of goodness again, but it happened! I will marry this man because even though he is very different in terms of personality, the way he treats me, the kindness and ease and gentle devotion feels EXACTLY THE SAME as the way my late husband treated me. So that must be how you can know. The way you want to be treated must be there. That’s a character issue. Don’t chase chemistry, chase kindness. I guarantee that, given time in the care of someone really good, they become so infinitely desirable because you can trust them to keep your heart. You literally long to give it to them. All the attraction will follow the actions, I promise! But first you must love yourself enough to accept that kind of care.

[@caribaez5711]

No one will ever love you until they get to know you. I see what is love.. love is not difficult to understand. Someone who loves you will always think of you and talk good things about you even when you are not present. Someone who will tell you the truth in front of your face.

[@judysewell2291]

Just one month in to a new relationship. Somewhat of a long story but a man from my teenage years is now back in my life after about 35 years. We have been dating and we are both out of our first marriages. I am nervous of the feelings I have for him so quickly but they are everything you just mentioned in you video. Easy to be together and feel at peace. Hopefully I have found the one, only time will tell but at this stage it feels great!

[@janetnjeri1260]

Wow..

[@valfle]

I can't say my relationship has been easy because we have strong avoidant and anxious parts. But we have always had very deep conversations and bring out the best in each other. We fight but we make peace every time with meaningful talks and both always adapting bad behavior. We fought a lot, because we triggered each other so much. But we talked, analyzed and improved our behavior so much. Talking about our wounds and helping to heal. Now we don't fight often anymore and our goal is to be ourselfes completely and at the same time harmonious and peaceful. We still don't fit into the peaceful category but I think we might get there..

[@valfle]

@Spooky Spectre Aww that's so nice of you! I feel like you are in a similar situation. It's a lot of work but also a lot to be proud of as a couple. I am happy for you too. Wish you the best ♡

[@ariannecarrillo7046]

he brings so much peace and happiness to my everyday, it is a wonderful feeling to know he is the one as I will forever be grateful for having met him, I am myself, my very true self with him and so is he with me, sharing life with him is a daily gift and pleasure

[@camuyana]

it is so true about this concept about feeling the peacefulness of the relationship. I fell in love when I was a teenager and it was total chaos from that day on in my life. Constant drama and solving his problems with other individuals where he got into conflict. Should have paid attention but I was so young and naive back then. Now I will be liberated from this very soon and start my new life whether alone or in the future with somebody who will give me that peaceful relationship that I crave for. happy for those who did find the one who gave them that peaceful love.

[@queensheba36]

I knew by how well we both felt with each. Very easy flowing. He is supportive of me and does not get mad that way. We have had small arguments but he always comes back with it’s all good theses things happen. Never goes crazy mad like that. I am the one who gets crazy mad. He just waits for me to finish and says I love you. Melts me every time.

[@emmy-ange2510]

I knew my partner was the one the moment he said " I pray and Thank God daily for bringing you to me therefore I want God to be the foundation of our relationship. I want us to share the word of God daily and let his goodness shine through our love "

[@lolytar.1271]

Beautiful! God bless your love!! :)

[@lisapayne2352]

Being with him...gives me such a deep sense of comfort! ♥️

[@l.bailey4791]

TY ... I would say when I was dating my late husband he couldn't wait to see me. & if he did not see me after a few days he would be calling or driving by Asking when we could do something together. 1986-2016 I miss him.

[@brandonvanlieshout7303]

Sorry for your loss. So woman actually like us not being able to stay away from them? I feel the same way about my gf, after a day I feel the need to see she's ok and see her face. I thought I would be just bothering her, I'll go see her then. Thank you.

[@l.bailey4791]

@@brandonvanlieshout7303 good morning Brandon I can't speak for her I can only speak for myself but I think my late husband was a wise man. He washed and waited as I weeded out the good from the bad patiently. I wish you the very best.

[@l.bailey4791]

@Spooky Spectre yes my memory is long and we had five children my youngest is 16 now good luck I hope you find exactly what you're looking for if you don't have that you deserve it and if you do I'm so very happy for you

[@keepingupinsixtyseconds4295]

I know I found the one... when us being in a LDR. He supports me with my career, emotional swings and life hurdles. His support keeps me excited for our meetings... whenever it is going to be And the special mention... he quits smoking so that he can fly to me ❤️ as we both live miles apart. Thanks Matt for the video 👍 it was beautiful.

[@spacemeter3001]

But the question is... do you support him?

[@keepingupinsixtyseconds4295]

Obviously I do... and may be that’s why we staying in LDR since an year. Feelings have to be mutually strong in a relationship to continue.

[@hzy9625]

Hey Mat, I am here to THANK you for all of your great and inspiring videos, I am a BIG FAN from Iran. You have helped me a lot to get through some problems and figure out men's psychology. I really enjoy when you talk and make instances of your personal life, I can truly FEEL your great love. May god bless you and your beloved ones. lots of looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooove, Hasti

[@to6030]

He was my parents handyman I never met until I bought my own house and he did work for me and I felt so secure around him and safe when he was around. We became friends and then had a date where he cooked for me. I lost my only child of 13 6mo ago and have grief storms and he can tell when I'm hiding it and he told me to express it anytime because that's the only way to heal. To not worry about him and his reactions as this is about me and my child and our love and my healing. Plus, when we go shopping we are both goof balls like best friends. He told me last night "Its so easy to love you, with work being hectic and people being crazy I know I have you and you are so easy to love" yep, he's the one

[@XyverHacker]

Trisha O'Farrell I love you sweet Irish girl forever and ever.

[@katrinakaye7997]

How you know - you don't have any doubts. You don't see any red flags. You just know. You know deep in your heart that this is it, and you don't need to ask the question because you feel it way too strongly.

[@honey24cute]

I am still in the process but I know he is the one because it is easy to be me around him and vise versa. I am analyzing myself on my previous relationships. It makes me be someone for them. But this one, i would say it brings out my worse and best attitude. Worse because of jealousy. Best is how i attack this negative factor to be in positive factor.

[@ravvy9329]

I've only been with my partner for 6 months but already things feel different. I am at ease with him. I didn't have a massive attraction for him in the beginning, however, it has grown steadily every day since and I feel it's only going to continue to grow. There were times I realized I made a mistake of some sort and apologized to him for it but he reassures me that it's alright. We communicate openly. I am a very empathetic individual and he can't hide anything from me because of it. With past relationships, I would get the feeling something was wrong and they would tell me they're fine. I knew there was something because I could feel it, but they'd hide it from me anyways. This would cause me to doubt myself and question whether I was doing something wrong. My current partner doesn't cause me to doubt myself or question what I am doing is right. I can have the confidence and be myself with him. It's taking a lot of self-esteem conditioning to break, but he's comfortable to be with me on that journey to help me become the best version of myself and I respect and appreciate him the way he deserves equally in return. I'm there to help him be the best version of himself too. ^^

[@MyUnfilteredDiary]

Omg, I OD-ed on your videos in the hope to sabotage a relationship that I haven't even started cause I'm terrified. Yet, everyone of your vids keeps reassuring me HE IS THE ONE. Lawwd, help me,; I'm falling!!!

[@dorothycook9226]

I knew he was the one bc he's always telling me how beautiful I am and he loves me for me I've never had anyone say that to me before

[@andreaberryman5354]

I don't feel like either of us could mess up with each other. Very open and honest emotionally.

[@anabella4296]

I knew that I had found a good man , when he said I was stubborn and had work.But worth it. I that I should not change. 🥰

[@brandonvanlieshout7303]

That's my gf😂 I told her she's a pain in my ass, but I wouldn't have her any other way, and she is tottaly worth it. And she says the same about me.

[@juchebo100]

Well I just started talking to a guy and it’s been 3 months yesterday ☺️ and it’s been easy to talk to him. For the first time in my life, I feel peace with this guy and I have never had that with any guy before. I know it’s still early but it just feels easy and just thinking about him makes me smile 😃

[@scooby1970m]

Ease and peace, sounds like a sweet plan!

[@claud031]

Nice story Matt. Life sometimes works for some,...and it does not work for others.

[@soph1996]

I know I've fount the one because in past relationships I'd see video like that or read stuff and try to fit it to the person I was with well this persons like this but he does it like this etc but with this relationship I don't have to do that what i read and what i see fits to him and I don't have to justify or adjust it to him in anyway

[@kimdang9032]

Hello Mathew, ease and peace. You made it sounds so simple. When someone is so beautiful, they have nothing to worries about. But when one is old and ugly like me, life is rough and tough. Thank you for the wonderful advice. An old and ugly me.

[@mrsdbdc1]

I woke up this morning feeling so anxious about the man I am currently dating. I’ve been feeling like I’ve been having a fight with my head and heart! My heart knows he’s the one and I have all the confirmation I need! Then my head makes me think this might be just like all my other failed relationship attempts. But after listening to this video, it eased my anxiety so much!!! Everything you said in this video was very helpful for me today so thank you so much!

[@linnealeora]

When you just “know” & feel a sense of peace & contentment with them that is reciprocated.

[@leslieisepic]

I think I have found someone with lasting potential. We have been nothing but honest with each other and we have great communication. We both have agreed to take it slow since we are both recovering from past relationships. There is definite physical and personality chemistry too. We both talk more and more openly over the course of the last few months.

[@nursiemarcieable]

I knew because this is the first time I knew I'd be marrying this man. I've never known that about ANY man I've dated in my life! It's just the easiest to be with him!

[@newenglandholidayhostess8705]

That’s something I always say to my special someone..... “you always bring a sense of peace into my life.” It’s true. Not matter how horrible my day is, when I get to see his face and just be present with him, things just get better. We can be ourselves with each other, even if one of us or both of us, is having an “off” day. He grounds me. It’s a nice feeling.

[@ingridkhajeh8982]

That was a great story Totally made me cry 😢❤️

[@namazziaisha2987]

After marrying me I will know that I have found the one

[@Lady.2411]

Namazzi Aisha 😂 you know

[@wanderingsoul2931]

I met my fiancé on bumble. I never believed in dating sites but one day I was on Facebook and it said “don’t wait for fate” with the bumble app so I went ahead and installed it. I just moved to a new area w my parents so I was interested to meet different people. We swiped right on each other instantly and of course the woman has to message first so I did! I usually wouldn’t. I said hi and we never ever stopped talking. We had so much in common. Our first date when he hugged me it felt like home. Felt like I’ve known him for eternity. We had a long distance relationship for a year and a half and sometimes we wouldn’t see each other for a month or more! But in April we moved in together and in novermber he proposed. He is my soulmate and my best friend. He makes me laugh like no other person ever has. He doesn’t judge me. He grows with me. I never second guessed my feelings for him and I feel at ease and at peace with him. He LOVES me and I love him. I could not see my life without him. I can’t wait to marry him. I’m so thankful I found my soulmate!!!

[@wanderingsoul2931]

Also when I met him I was reading the alchemist. One quote said “I love you because the entire universe conspires to help me find you”. And it’s true. It al came together perfectly. All the heart break I dealt with in the past trying to force relationships was all meant to be so that I could learn to love the right way for when he finally came. Ladies and gents don’t take heart breaks as failure take it as learning lessons so that you can learn how to love for when the right man comes

[@nataliagarnitskaia8198]

Thank you so much for the video! Now I know exactly every man I ever met were NOT THE ONE and it was very clear to me always, and this amazing video confirms it!! Thank you again so much, definitely not everyone meant to find the other half❤

[@barr.thelmanwabundu3775]

I met him on several occasions, but on d first day we spoke at his office, I was so free around him,like I had known him before, I have never seen a guy in that light before,I was surprised at myself that I was capable of liking someone.

[@nataliecortez439]

I feel at peace and ease with him as in Joshua ! I can't stop thinking about him when I'm not around him

[@bogif3668]

So I can ruin his car and see his reaction? Lol. 😂😂😂😂

[@Lauren-ki3xn]

Love this video, such incredible advice that comes from such a pure and loving place. Thanks Matt!

[@leahmillar8255]

I’m dating this guy, very much a gentleman and at first I thought this was just a ploy, considering my dating history but the moment I realised this was just who he was , was when the first time I got into his car a piece of the interior had come off and stuck to my hair, he pulled it away and apologised, I thought that’s sweet, then every time since, as I’m getting into the car he holds that piece up so it doesn’t stick to my hair. That was the moment I knew I had met a very special man. We are still in the very early stages but I’m enjoying his company. Thank you to Matt, because without your videos and advice about life and love I may have not given this guy a chance.

[@natalieh.2671]

I cried at the first story. So beautiful and sweet ♡

[@ginabartlett7038]

I knew I would marry him one day and he will be a major part of my life... I knew he was mine to keep 😊

[@schigges1]

He doesn’t know that I believe he’s the one yet. But I knew from the moment I felt that complete inner peace being with him. I’ve been married before and had never once felt that. The first time my family met him and saw us together, they said they had never seen me more comfortable and relaxed/at ease than they had when I was with him. And lucky for me he’s told me that he’s never had a relationship feel so easy. And that he’s been able to be completely himself.

[@KingofGlory77x7]

Brilliant advice as always Matt Boggs! Thank you for advising us here in the UK 🇬🇧 🙏🫶🏻

[@nicolestarlight4030]

thank you, everyone, for your amazing stories of how you knew he was "the one". it is giving my heart great upliftment and trust in the miracles of God everyday; trust and faith that this, too, is for me!

[@wykitawest3736]

GREAT video and everything you said is so TRUE.

[@footyfan101ful]

I was at peace. I haven't met him yet but I have a really good feeling about him.

[@Hawaii444]

i ve always thought that real love is smooth ..... and u just confirmed that :)

[@virginiamaeguison9573]

I just met him..very recently..last april 16 this quarantine..seasons..in Dating sites..by the way im a filipina 52 yrs old.. and John message me...and yah..he got my attention because..there is a kinda..word of "please" ha ha..so.i chat with me..and we decided to have Line so we can have much good communications..there..but you know since then..we never stop taking chatting videocalling every chance he takes..and im so overwelmed and also about his so very a Goodman,his a country man,from ohio..and i really felt something so very special with him..and seriously ..we are both..very inlove with each other even we are not seeing and knowing well yet..but we both committing to get married..but i have to work on my Annulment done first..its still covid season but he is so willing to wait..until my Annulment to be done..his coming here to meet me on December. Whew..called it crazy but...John said..its between us..and we are both really very deeply in Love with each other..Im we both know that Were are Destined to meet and to Spend Life Forever and up to have get racing with our own wheelchairs...when we get too Old then🤗😘✌I Love you so much Baby😘😘😘...No one can stop Us as you said too😘😘😘

[@kelleyoneal9780]

Then I'm set with my guy. He is so easy to talk to about everything under the sun. We have mutually agreed to not discuss politics. Not that we would necessarily disagree, but too many other things to talk about. There are things I've shared with him that some of my closest female friends don't know about. Last few months make me even more sure he's "the one" because he's been my emotional rock with my dad being very sick to the point that my mom was at hospital about to sign papers to take him off the ventilator and let him go. Some doctors told her that they did more tests overnight and he has a fighting chance now. My guy was first person I told the news to. He has his own set of health issues, but nothing life-threatening. Even then, I would stick by his side.

[@soniasmelodiousland]

Agree..peace n ease . Best thing ..

[@SuzanMohSaad]

Whatever our arguments and fight ... we were never let that affect on our loving relationship which based on peace and ease the healthy loving relationship are supposed to be based on forgiveness, appreciation and thankfulness for a one to another person

[@kaitlynwhite6218]

This is so sweet and very true ~ This is exactly how I feel with my boyfriend! It’s just been easy since we met. Advice I would give to others is that if it’s extremely difficult to make it work, go find someone who fits into your life better, don’t settle xx

[@Yachtvancar]

I didn’t know but I do now ‘easy peace-y.’ Thank you. Great advice.. It’s hard to screw up when it’s right. Woo hoo!

[@alyssahopkins1799]

I felt like it was easy and freeing when I met my husband, but it’s getting harder and we’ve only been together 8 years, married almost 3. I have a friend who I am very comfortable confiding in and we have so much in common. I feel like I could spend all day in silence and not worry about the world. I love my husband. We were friends first as well and I didn’t ever plan to be with him in a romantic way. I never want to lose that friendship. I’ve never been independent( live alone) and I just feel like I need to explore that.

[@petrinad3523]

I threw my past out on table in early convo. We talked about it. 8 mths later we still do. Open and honest communication is key as well respecting his thoughts even though may not agree with them i have to respect them. He treats me like queeb in we live in diff countries but we talk everyday send pics n videos. I just know he is my forever..

[@deydremr]

Matt I have been talking to this gentleman from Italy for 8 months now, the 1st month or so I gave him a hard time because of a online situation I had in the past, so my issue was Trust. When this gentleman first approached me online there was a connection I couldn't wrap my mind around but I didnt want to seem naive about the situation nor did I want to seem too egar, in the back of my mind I was like NO you are not going through this again, I had the devil on one side and angel on the other. I knew and know though as I am sending this message to you Matt he is the one! When I finally opened up to him about my situation he said I Quote "Bring your mind down...We are going to Pray on this connection and place it in Gods hands. If we are to be together all will happen in Gods time" I had not ever heard those words from anyone before, we started corresponding July of 2019 February 2020 I flew to Italy and have met the one despite some of the opposition I'm getting and he too is getting now that it's in the open. Our understanding for one another is phenomenal. We know that either of us are perfect and have been working out our own insecurities but because of our search for Love with our openness wanting the same things in life and communication it's made it work even from a distance. I live in States, It's difficult we tell each other all the time but, Our Love for one another is Our Glue.