How To Live With Toxic/ Negative People? - Few Practical Strategies

[@devikabhatnagar]

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[@JapanjapanJap.f]

Always jealous trying she is intelligent fully idiot doesn't have controlling attention never put efforts equal want opposite people to be her slave countryyy

[@JapanjapanJap.f]

Taking all my details and showing to me and individual nos

[@JapanjapanJap.f]

Toxic monkey 🐒🐵

[@JapanjapanJap.f]

Mind ur own business

[@JapanjapanJap.f]

Her parents would be right she is a wrong person hardworker countryyyy

[@ipshi5903]

Some people don't want to be liked. They just want to be feared and obeyed. But if you obey them, they still won't let you to live normally, no matter how much you praise them or make them happy. They are just saddists and should be ignored absolutely.

[@anweshabhattacharya4947]

True

[@kajal-xe6fi]

It is so true, sis, I am experiencing this 🙄

[@ismailpatel7222]

1 billion percent true

[@Noelle762]

I’ve been living with a negative, controlling husband under the same roof and what I am doing is to have my own space, my own room, my own routine, activities and keeping things to myself, limiting sharing time with him including anything related to our children and grandchildren. When someone doesn’t care, or want to know what’s going on in the extended family, there’s no point to share. I focus on myself, what I like to make me proud, and this makes me so happy. I believe that each individual has the right to live a happy life and don’t let others control your life and happiness ❤

[@anweshabhattacharya4947]

Exactly 👍

[@tonyakeldsen1782]

I can relate, or if you share something that brings you joy or that you cherish it get dumped on and puts a stain on it . Even favorite childhood songs or memories are met with ridicule or negativity so I keep things I cherish to myself and although we have been married for almost 15 years he still doesn’t know me and I do think he really cares because everything is about what he like or his experiences. So,e times I feel invisible

[@mawteejalim273]

Your life and mine are same i leave seperate room so im happy and sleep well .

[@padmavathyvenkatraman1384]

Your thoughts are inspiring,as I go through the exact experience with my family..but you seem to have the mental control and come out of it focussing on yourself..how do I do it ..pl want to talk to you once on this so thT I can also follow this and come out of my depression

[@padmavathyvenkatraman1384]

Can I have your ph no..I am padmavathy age 63

[@user-ft9ps4iiu]

Some toxic people are so stubborn...no formula can change them

[@devikabhatnagar]

When we can't change, why to give space in our mind? Ignore & there are many things to focus in our tiny life 👍🙌

[@Meri.Awaz.aur.Akhirah]

No mam some people take reward and miss use they think we are weak we never say or act bad so they are continously like that never think about hurting , and letting down others and they think they are superior, I suggest we have to avoid completely if they are not your close relations others wise anxiety and depression will start u can not stay calm entire life tolerating them as the are nothing,

[@Krishnaveni3122]

But what should I do if he is a husband. I can neither live with him nor leave him because of kids. My mind is slowly going into depression because of his abusive behaviour and words 😢

[@nextlevelgame2651]

​@@Krishnaveni3122e here we r trapped and the take advantage of us....😢

[@snehajessicapaul2100]

Mam, thankyou so much for uploading this video. Truely your words are a great source of wisdom. You're blessed because you are a peacemaker. God bless you richly.

[@ambershah5079]

Ma'am, I enjoyed the words said. It's truly words happening nowadays. Negative people were unable to understand too, either in the work place or at home. Appreciate too 👍! So Impressive 😊 too.

[@Noorana-l5e]

For the first time I saw your vedio۔ I aslo strongly agree that introspection is must.we always blame others and some time play victim card..

[@devikabhatnagar]

Welcome & Stay blessed always 🙌

[@j.ashokan.jayaseelan5863]

Clear as Crystal ! Thank you Mam ! Practice makes everything Possible !

[@foodknowledge5271]

Fun Fact : These cunning selfish and toxic people think they are always right...they are the selfless generous and kind hearted people on this earth... Although Ma'am ur advices r good but it is too difficult to handle such people...bcoz if u r nice to them they will sit on ur head or if u try to teach them a lesson they'll play victim card. So either ways u lose. I've come across a few of such species 😅

[@bossofficial100]

Me too ✋️ faced this situation

[@jyotichauhan6679]

happy the way you tell and explain means the energy in your teachings is positive and genuine the mind with which you r connecting with your audience very nice best wishes mam love

[@arumugammurugesan8147]

It is very useful video for my daughter who is suffering misunderstanding with her mother in law. Thank you.

[@geethac.v6828]

Mam sooooooper u are absolutely correct.introsprction soooper.i got solution.peace cool environment imoroved becas of u. U saved me.u saved my family.Auushmanbhava madam.👌👏👏👏👏👏🙌🙌🙌🙌👍

[@devikabhatnagar]

Stay blessed always 👍🙌

[@anweshabhattacharya4947]

They think good and nice people are weak.. so they talk in more rude manner.. so, this technique of being nice and caring does not work with most of the egoistic people ma'am. These people respect only those who are confident and strong.

[@priyamali8833]

Very true,but what I think we should not fight with pigs because they will love it ,and make u as they are

[@anweshabhattacharya4947]

True

[@queenqueen977]

finally a logical and sound advice.

[@jayitamajumdar6287]

Egoistic, narcissistic person is tough to handle...they have learnt to satisfy their ego only

[@violet-hy1el]

Exactly

[@reshmapawar1488]

I do the same thing, thanks mam.I got approval from your end that whatever am doingbis right.

[@HappyMonk31.]

Thank you so much ma'am. 🙏

[@shashikalanaidu8026]

Beautifully explained Dr🎉❤. This video is very useful for everyone 👏 👌 👍. Tq Dr

[@meeraom2522]

Thank you Devika,u r so wise . thanks for guidance.

[@lathapandian2680]

Mam ur an eye opener. God bless ur endeavours

[@reetaamaravat5595]

Thanks mam for such a good information. I will definitely apply to it.thanks.

[@vinodsingh-gr1xj]

Positive talk in simple terms how to defuse the negative people, thanks ma'am😊

[@anweshabhattacharya4947]

I have experienced people, if I am good to them, they become more and more rude.

[@jayitamajumdar6287]

They think it's weakness not humbleness

[@flickhunter8900]

Yes exactly same experience i had. The more nice u r, the more u will be treated like shit. Be little rough and don't share much personal information

[@foodknowledge5271]

Right... the more you are humble and nice the more they will sit on your head

[@NK-pe2im]

True... Same here

[@kbjaya1781]

True.

[@pradeepambike7172]

Dr.very nice talk practical in our day to day life thanks. Paramedical therapist. Pune.

[@ramanbhaipatel4415]

Very useful to me. Much difficulty in my life

[@GHOSHDIGITALCOLLECTION]

❤❤❤it's a formula of people who r engaged in official work either GOVT or pvt job ..even the known unknown far relatives neughbourer who always demotivates oposses n try to pull down ...throws Bad words ...behind the screen ...something like in Ramayana ..".Monthora s " role for that he ...The Rama spoiled n tears for ❤❤❤❤ 14 years ....

[@kavii1696]

Mam I cleared my accountancy paper mam.. 😊 thankyou so much mam..

[@devikabhatnagar]

Well done👍🙌

[@kavii1696]

@@devikabhatnagar thankyou mam... Some day I'll be in business field pls guide me rit at that time mam

[@charudattakarangale1435]

Very nice topic discussed 👌👍👏

[@hemakotian7334]

Very good advice.thks mam.❤❤❤

[@Mannu-dj1th]

Thanks a lot mam you changed my mind ❤ I'll definitely follow all your words

[@RamGopal-hz6oz]

Very good. Thanku madam.

[@somalathalatha1295]

Thanks madam. Good speech

[@precillacornelio4206]

Anything you do for them their thinking is always they are right. They have lot of anxiety and fear and lot of ego andd pride.

[@asmath5564]

Madam Nice informative, just thinking like a psychologist mind who acts self counseling

[@krishnarenu-td7qe]

Very nice and useful tips Ma'am 🥰🌺

[@sushmakothapalli9417]

Tq so much amma. ❤❤❤❤❤

[@nafisanaushad703]

Thank you Ma'am for your valuable video I am facing one problem since 14 years of my marriage . My husband elder brother wife we all stay together room and cook seperately . She always complain to others about me if her clothes tear she says I cut it or I went to her room when she is in outside her room in kitchen I tear her clothes . And she complain these and many false things about that I did bad to her to my in-laws.and they trust and support her and I without doing anything wrong I feel that my in-laws what they will think of me I am very much in tension since 14 years please help

[@Jackson35320]

Listening from Kenya Nairobi to be precise

[@vijaya1493]

Hi it's really true, to live with negative people, my husband is one of the negative person what to do beyond that he is such good person also, what to do mam, every movement I try to urgent with him, I am very much fed up with his. Behaviour, I don't know how to live with him, give me solutions. Mam

[@MrZulu1978]

Mam in start of her video very beautifully explained you should introspect yourself so get this thing in you first. Than only you will understand. Please dont consider my reply as third party teaching. But introspect itself is very big thing/adjective. And finally dont judge people, understand them. Life is beautiful njoy it😊

[@Milagrina]

U hug him n give one kiss everytime he is angry or irritated it will cool him.

[@birbahadurgurung5266]

Mam I have subscribed your channel.Please keep posting such good ,informative and knowledgeable videos.Good Luck!

[@anuradhamr6628]

Namaste dear Madam I always watch your video luv you so much for your simplicity I have a problem with. my neighbours who always keep watching. from top otheir house through ventilator to know what l doing either I am. In kitchen hall anywhere inside my house & spedk ing vulgar words double meaning whole. day Recently I lost my husband & even he was there he used to talk nonsense when we both go out Request you to please help me out solve this problem

[@vssandilya1000]

Sun At The Horizon ____________________ 25/4/2024 9:49 AM ______________________ V.S.Sandilya ______________________ You reflect the Sun rays that beam on the students as beams of knowledge are rays to the reciprocating students. Each of your rays trains us O Godess of knowledge we study the rays training us to get ample knowledge. We struggled once upon a time as resources were scanty but you beamed the path in time never leaving us scanty. Your lectures are explanatory as we follow the footsteps for a bright future that's explanatory with every step in the footsteps.

[@gayathrivenkatesh8233]

It is not needed to satisfy anybodies ego needed to be genuine with your feelings n words so that the person get transformed

[@sapanasitaphale2300]

Thank you 💞 i will try it

[@sivasrinadhu]

Very informative. How to deal with people who reach out to take financial help and forget to return it and gets upset when asked for the repayment??

[@sunshine-db2zm]

Dont answer them or loan money to them again avoid them...

[@swapnagudimetla6845]

Good information mam 🎉😊

[@sarammasaramma6620]

Life is likehandling a glass be calm, gentle sand truthful 🙋‍♀️

[@prabhumanikappa2208]

Good suggestion madam

[@pattpatt1]

Yes good , thank you Doc

[@reshmapawar1488]

Satisfybthier EGO!! Absolutely 💯 correct

[@raghavendracharan8117]

Madam today many people are suffering from paranoid schizophrenia, ocd and many other mental health related issues .so please suggest how to come out of such diseases and live a happy life.Thankyou madam

[@queenqueen977]

"disease" is a very wrong word choice.

[@tasneemkhanum1178]

Thanks a lot mam....

[@KheyaOnlineServices]

Sometime life does not give you the smooth path what you expect ,No matter how the situations. Sometime you have to leave it for time and sit and let the things happens rather you think too much on it. God is there and surely He will do justice to you. This is totally my self Realization. Think about it.

[@shankarpandiyan7617]

You are explain very nice thanks

[@devikabhatnagar]

You’re most welcome 🙌

[@Ak-bs5ox]

do not be scared of toxic people, ignore them and stop talking to them as much as possible, try to stay away and avoid conversation but if they bully you shut them up

[@VanessaNaick]

Morning pls help me to stop smoking and get up with a headache on my eyebrows every morning will appreciate your advice Thanks have a blessed day Om Sai Ram

[@AnandWallapkar]

Very Good Advise thanks for that madam.

[@subashiniprabhu9987]

Thank you for your advice but can't control emotions I'll shout or else cry often criticise n dominant

[@elizabethrayer2314]

Good Advice mam❤

[@HuaweiNovae]

Dr.thanks for ur suggestion, but it is not easy to live with this toxic/cunning persons ex husband/wife etc. Persons with negative nature will never change throughout life, ex.mountain can move but person nature will not changed at any cost. Persons goes through this situation only knows better. However ur suggestion is gud. Thq.

[@krishnarenu-td7qe]

Love you ma'am 💖🌺🥰

[@anusharaju6850]

please make video for living with toxic parents where they are partial over the kids. It is a traumatizing very much. I request you.

[@ganeshbhogaraju4558]

Thanks a lot for your video!!

[@flickhunter8900]

Maam u r spot on. 100 percent agree eith ur views

[@sarammasaramma6620]

Yes correct advice 100/0🙋‍♀️

[@neetarajmane-sj8bz]

Thank you mam

[@angelaprasad3452]

Not easy to handle negative people,even am going to this problem.

[@devikabhatnagar]

Agreed, but it is not impossible also

[@preethchermanna3204]

Zipppppppp your mouth picture was excellent…. It will remain in my mind 🙏👌😄

[@mariyaranjitha5832]

Very nice talk thank you so much. Can you send some videos about how to speak fluent in English mam ❤❤

[@gayathrivenkatesh8233]

Only love n understanding the person from where he is coming from can make changes

[@kusumakp1410]

Do episodes about behaviour problem ( Mental) I am leading with toxic what u told in above episode and behavioural problem husband😢😢😢😢😢😢

[@snehlekani2906]

Thank you

[@stanleyif7988]

Good advises. Find out root cause. Change job , if possible

[@abadhootpanda1937]

It is an excellent topic Mam. How can I keep up contact with you in need? 🙏🏼Thank you immensly 🙏🏼

[@vssandilya1000]

Teacher _______ 18/2/2024 1:57 PM ________________ V.S.Sandilya ________________ Teacher, you taught many as many students come and go as you teach subjects many as students grow and go. You are the same as you were as years tumbled as waves and you changed according to subjects were ever training as per the waves. You are good at teaching from nursery to college as the students learn from teaching how to flourish in life after college. As batches change every time you remain still with duster, board, and chalk which you use time to time as you train with duster,board, and chalk.

[@annuoraon6821]

Thanks .... A lot

[@rajalakshmikizhakedath7797]

My sisterinlaw is trying to make my husband listen to her eventhough she is married and far from the state where we are in lying.

[@pratikshawadekar3883]

Thank you doc

[@selvikonar4350]

Life is in our hand . Enjoy it.

[@devikabhatnagar]

Stay happy always 🙌

[@preethchermanna3204]

But won’t they do more if we ignore and keep quiet??

[@shreyashosamath2849]

Please help me mam anxiety ke liye

[@KheyaOnlineServices]

My sibling is trying to let me down on various things for long period now .She has the feeling that like I am GOOD FOR NOTHING. Whenever I talk to her i feel very much down, my self esteem getting low day by day, Sometime Passive suicidal thoughts come to my mind because of my wife's Dominating nature. Please do let me know what to do on this situations Or make a video on this topic.

[@mittapallikumarshashi7199]

Mam if i express my feelings about himina cool manner,he will understand for that minute nonly for that one day itself.from the very next day he will continue what he really was. I am bearing this character since 21 years without saying a word even to my parents.please give me asolution what to do with him

[@lonelyworld7868]

😢 since 14 years I'm suffering these kind of.......😢😢😢 I'm done i can't anymore

[@kbjaya1781]

20 years iam suffering

[@rajahm8412]

Mam please inform how to control negative thoughts

[@devikabhatnagar]

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[@CyrilRodrigues-n4i]

Mam create one vedio how to deal with mentally ill person, how to handle

[@rajashekarpathange8154]

It's not that easy to maintain normal life. I have a issue with my soninlaw, aslong as we lisen to them things are ok, the moments we try to tell them you're hurting us, they agree. Then thay start sceaming to cut the relation it self. Like that first diplomatically he cut off from my son and wife. Then i try to reasion out with him, that how to maintain relation, he got mad on me too. So whoever comes on thair way they become enemy's but they will not change. They will go to any extent to mould people around them, if you dont listen they cut you off.

[@rosalinprusty3250]

Madam how to deal with your coworkers if all are against you just because you came from outside?I tried my level best to be good with them even I listened all the things what they told me to do.how to deal with such persons who is very good to you but at your back she talks negative about you and make everybody against you?

[@devikabhatnagar]

I have seen same case in my workplace but that guy never used to express any feelings apart from smiling. He used to focus on his career & enhanced his skills. Got a wonderful offer in another organization and right now he is in a great position. The backstabbers still in the old organization with the same package. Got a guidance ? Stay happy always 👍🙌

[@vypindelhi9458]

Hi Ma'am How to remove people and live alone?

[@muruvayikuttan266]

Mam hindi me video dalenge tho acha samajme aayega bohoth helpfull hoga hindi Dale or samjayen please

[@shobhadandu4026]

Amma ...Everyday consuming ragi idli good for thyroid patients?

[@starieprincilal-fk5sh]

👍👏

[@meenaljeengar3656]

Ma'am if you sit on a train of fulfilling others expectations, it will not have a stoppage. Also letting other people's ego satisfy sometimes gives them the right to hurt and insult you. That will hurt more.

[@gopipadmakrishnan]

I have a radical Muslim living in our apartment, who is troubling in all sorts of ways, starting from parking, drying clothes, maintaining plants etc etc etc how to deal with such character. PS - I tried talking, counseling, scolding, nothing is working.

[@shobhadandu4026]

Amma hypothyroid patients raagi flour thinacha? Daily ragi idli thinacha? Entha ragi permittable per day

[@geethac.v6828]

My husband equal to title😭

[@bachusentertainmentworld4256]

Ur videos r very inspiring a nd soothing Amma.....i want to speak wid u....how can I contact u

[@maheshmahesh346]

Nice Video

[@MPSBINDRA]

Man v good video .

[@AditiWMehta]

There is No right time, place, environment ever…. They don’t like to go in public place at all because that person will have to be nice in front of the world.

[@mohsinelectronics7190]

Pakistan..me nic consoling..