The UGLY Side Of Looksmaxxing

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Everybody wants to look their absolute best, but some people are willing to go farther than others to reach it. In today's video, we are going over my personal story and how looksmaxxing almost ruined my life. Watch this video and let me know if you learned something new!
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Don't forget to follow me on instagram.com/alexcosta Thank you for watching and have a great week! -AC

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The quality of production in the recent videos has been INSANE! It’s inspiring to see you striving to make already great videos even better! Keep up the good work man!

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[@ttcthetechnicalck]

can you make a routine video for Muslims to follow in ramadan?

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@@ttcthetechnicalck his not Muslim

[@just_ashmit]

@@ttcthetechnicalck yeah it might not be feasible for him to make a video on that.

[@JD.GAMZ.]

absolutely loved this video made me see the damage that i am doing to my physical and mental health instead of being the person that I want to be not a person i am trying to force to be love these videos recently they are amazing keep it up

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Thanks a lot man

[@MiroYoutube]

I was struggling with most of these things as well and not giving a f*ck was the best solution. Guys improving is good but not giving a f*ck about things is also improving💪

[@AJ........]

Agree 100% Not caring what others think and not letting fear control you like that is better for you, and very attractive to others

[@real_smilegamez]

You as a social animal(humans are), should care what others think. However, only worry about constructive criticism and not people who say "you're ugly", "you're too short" Shit you can change and people who tell you it in a nice manner @@AJ........

[@mbank3832]

Thanks for the positivity Alex. Always wanted a buddy like you that talk about these deep stuff with irl

[@alexcosta]

They're hard to find, but they're out there!

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appreciate Alex looking out for us

[@alexcosta]

You're welcome

[@rushilpudaruth6969]

I’m so glad you made this video Alex it was time ! 🔥

[@nileshappadu1907]

Thank you Alex. For all these years. You helped me a lot in my journey.

[@niftybaker5967]

Many people need to hear this. Props 🙌

[@oskav2024]

Having the right mindset is 🔑

[@alexcosta]

Definitely

[@ParaskoChionis]

Thanks for all the wisdom over the years!!!

[@twizzy9999]

Alex I have to say. This video spoke to me. Some real shit !

[@JD.GAMZ.]

FR

[@alexcosta]

This means a lot, thanks

[@malik752]

I have been watching Alex for almost 3yrs now..and this is the best video yet..thanks bro

[@UnratedVerzion]

Loved this video, Alex. The first trap really spoke to me and I needed to hear it. Keep doing what you’re doing 💪🏼

[@Be_jamin1925]

My glow up journey began way back in 2019. I had lots of momentum and for a time I felt great… that has all changed. I now struggle with extreme self confidence issues and I have lost the ability to trust the process. I’ve lost the ability to be able to just focus on myself… I find myself comparing myself to others… telling myself I am not good enough etc. thank you Alex for making this video… this is a topic that is not talked about enough . ❤️

[@alexcosta]

I'm glad this helped you out

[@tahaakhtar776]

I really needed this ❤

[@marrilakshmi5557]

This video will open eyes of youngsters like me Thank you alex ❤

[@adrianchico8886]

I agree with you alex it’s not necessary to change you’re looks or appearance you just have to accept yourself for who you are there’s just some things you just can’t change about yourself or have no control over accept your flaws and insecurities because we all have imperfections and that is ok nobody is perfect

[@MrAhmed-dx5hw]

I really needed to hear this. Thanks Alex.

[@alexcosta]

I hope it helped you out, thanks for watching

[@crownzac]

Awesome vide Alex!! I wish there were more videos also about maxing out your mentality!!

[@alexcosta]

More to come!

[@arjunkhanna7]

Never seen a more real video. Keep going AC. You're an inspiration 💪

[@alexcosta]

Thanks man

[@monilpatel1111]

I am 25 years old and only 5ft 1in tall. Lucky for me I found your channel years ago and worked on things which i knew i can changed and improve. Ever since i worked on other aspects of myself, i never face any sort of criticism for my height. Living a great life. Thanks mate

[@roymevo]

Thank you very much for this video Alex. this really spoke to me and helped me.

[@Rasulkhanzade]

Perfect quality video, thanks

[@duin1o1vlogs9]

Bro still love your videos , please never stop making video

[@alexcosta]

I will try my best

[@MalikWajahat-iy7xp]

Sir, your skin is getting so much good glowing and also so clean, and you're looking so great in the current videos❤

[@alexcosta]

Thanks for the compliment 🤝

[@sound5.1M]

The quality of content alex is providing is invaluable

[@dominickgiannotti]

I honestly stopped caring this year and it was the biggest relief. Tired of hearing about fashion trends, the 8 million skin care systems out there, hairstyles, the list goes on. I encourage everyone to just find what works for them and stick with it. Self development turns into a freaking never ending hamster wheel if you let it. I also noticed I received the least respect from people in general when I tried too hard or was wearing an outfit that looked too out of place even though social media would tell you it’s “on trend”

[@vishalfgm]

this was so needed currently 18 was genetically blessed for looks but ruined my looks in middle school due to no knowledge of anything , I just was very studious guy who knows only to study , started working on myself in 11th grade went from 6 to 8 8.5 in last two years but still felt like I have to be more perfect then I would be more confident and socially extrovert in the entire journey but turns out that even if would become 10/10 hypothetically even then it wont work .I have to push my inner self to go and be social , I used to avoid video calls of old friends thinking all the time that currently my hair is bit messed , lighting and background is not good , not well groomed now like this etc etc but this video opened my eyes thank you very much for this bro and guess what today I went outside and met with relatives and others cause today it was festival in my country INDIA talked to them , had laughter etc etc turned out that I was naturally extrovert only the thing was just my brain full of insecurities and thinking people would judge me if I would not look perfect . once again thank you very much

[@Sachu0369]

Alex is going next level,thanku for helping every men ,i changed a lot ,,,alex is my inspiration ❤❤

[@alexcosta]

Thank you

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Man love the video this actually hit on a deep level

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Bro the production is insanely good

[@alexcosta]

Appreciate that man

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amazing amazing and again amazing video! people should balance everything in life!

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I think this is your best video ❤ teenagers really needed to see this video, respect ❤‍🔥

[@alexcosta]

Trying to always do better. Thanks for watching

[@Invisble7]

Thank u so much alex. This release my pressure 😮

[@shakeeladam1581]

thank you for this ALEX! we all looked at you as being perfect this video actually made us feel better about ourselves.

[@alexcosta]

Glad I could help- thanks for watching!

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first and i just want to say that i love you Alex keep up the good work❤

[@Piyush_Mohapatra]

Great Vid bro ❤

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Glad you enjoyed

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In a world full of toxicity and deception on social media. This is an essential video

[@alexcosta]

Agreed

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Hello fam, i dont see you post fragrance videos anymore and you are the one of the best

[@alexcosta]

More fragrance videos coming soon

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@@alexcosta awesome🤝🔥

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Much needed video

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Big fan bro, just love your videos and lifestyle.. Love from India..❤

[@MrJamesDiamond]

Epic video Alex, one of your best yet.

[@alexcosta]

Thanks man

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Wow great video ,keep it up man❤

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Another great video!

[@neilpa]

The problem is that social media has caused some serious issues for people.

[@henrysabie09]

This is helpful. Thanks so much

[@Mr.Sandi..]

You always make and also feel me better.. love from India.. West Bengal ❤

[@alexcosta]

Much love

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@@alexcosta I always try to get a reply from you.. finally I got... thanks sir❤️

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Really iam watching Alex's videos and make change in my life now iam felling better and confident then what iam before

[@markosborne6856]

As a man who has struggled with disordered eating and boy dysmorphia, this is real. I have struggled for years with this. I have had to work on my mental well being. I do well, then something happens and I slowly start again. I stay ever vigilant.

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Alex costa thanks big bro ❤ love from an Indian brother

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Thanks alot man❤

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Amazing vid! Great intel!

[@alexcosta]

Glad it helped!

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love this video, thx Alex best among yours so far in 2024❤

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thank you so much

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Thank you...

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Thanks Man ❤️✨

[@MohitSPanwar]

Hey Alex, it's me again. I told you about my breakup in the comments section, in one of your videos and it's been 4 months in, I'm devastated still, can you make a video upon the same subject? I'll be extremely happy if you do so, I love your content Peace

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Make a video on the best summer floral shirt dresses

[@Rahul_Thapa05]

Hey alex it's a really helpful video btw what's the watch you are wearing?

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Workout routine video plz❤

[@SKaran006]

Good video Alex

[@alexcosta]

Glad you enjoyed it

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he’s so majestic

[@Sn0W10]

Thank Big brother❤ I have little bit reducing hairline at age 18 what should I do suggest product or suggestions please ❤

[@brayden2002man]

❤❤❤really good sentence

[@12thMandalorian]

If you go to the gym then never compare yourself to people at the gym, if you compare yourself to the average person in your town/city you would be shocked how incredible you look!

[@Ronin-kk4bt]

The thing is if you’re already fit and going to gym consistently you’re already ahead of the average person You don’t need to be the most jacked guy in the gym either most regular people just wish they could be fit

[@12thMandalorian]

@@Ronin-kk4bt you are 100% correct, once i stopped comparing myself to fellow gym goers BUT the average guy in my town then it dawned on me, im in good shape

[@preettomar9126]

The thing that I can't understand is that the looksmaxing guys say you should wear sunscreen daily but the general fitness ones says it can cause cancer. Whose advice should I follow?

[@miguelplays2921]

Thanks Alex

[@Kanmileski]

This will help with mental health

[@AdityaSingh-ot8vu]

Look maxing making people insecure because comparing themselves woth models and want to lok like them also affecting thier mental and physical health

[@ML-rs7we]

This is because society treats you like shit if you are not perfect

[@Metascaper]

Another W Video from Alex 💪🏼

[@abcefghijklmnop1971]

Alex, I have started losing hair lately, I need your advice

[@FaisalWaseem7]

Make a new video for teens grooming I hope there is a lot of teenagers watching your channel need that

[@LAEDERSTAR]

You are a legend for those who underestimate their looks

[@__The__Man]

Awesome ❤

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Great video

[@sarahwhittle7091]

Yes

[@alexcosta]

Thanks guys

[@sharonlittle5049]

AWESOME ❤

[@Jake_Towne]

I literally have no issues with my looks at all, Im confident in myself and how i look. Im very well put together and im super clean and organized. If you take care of your personal health and hygiene and have good style then you have nothing to worry about! Just be confident in Yourself ❤💯

[@gariyaan]

ThankYou Very Much

[@mdavis3262]

Great video..what brand is that shirt

[@nilan3294]

Wanting to look better is natural but looksmaxxing really can be bad for one's psyche. Fixating over anything that much is going to cause problems, and this is worse since there's only so much you can do to change your looks. Vanity's a hell of a drug.

[@vinitnarule9419]

I really liked the long hair Alex who wears shirts and sweatshirt , approx 4 years back

[@Gunslinger-us1ek]

avoiding trap 2 is a gamechanger

[@alexcosta]

💯

[@Misa73]

yes, I often bought things that I didn’t need, I didn’t understand why I was doing this, no one cared anyway

[@joebond545]

I feel the same. If i get a spot on my face i wont go out into public

[@mxtay]

great video !

[@alexcosta]

Glad you enjoyed it

[@mxtay]

@@alexcosta are you still using finasteride?

[@AmanKumar-ib5xi]

I am 23 never got a girlfriend that's makes me insecure, I lost any hope of getting into relationship I am sad and alone.

[@roomforgames2]

Might be the best one yet guys

[@alexcosta]

Thanks a lot man

[@WorldpowerInida]

Hi , i love your content.. love from lndia ❤ .. alex

[@AshuTakk]

Love from India alex ❤ I am also 5,9 but 😅 before this video I also get insecured sometimes about my height, thanks for your efforts

[@ML-rs7we]

I was born 5'2, recessed jaw, long hooked nose, recessed maxilla, autistic and worst of all, not white. None of this stuff helps at all.

[@johnny-mnemonic13]

dang, sorry to hear that man.

[@TwistedLullabies]

You could've as pale as an egg and it'd still be over with those stats

[@chemseddine6774]

Respect 🤝

[@BULLSTAR4806]

really been insecure about my height really. Was always tall but stopped growing at 13 what advice would you give me?

[@alexcosta]

You're still young. Work with what you got for now 💪

[@marcain123]

Where did you get the long sleeve shirt?

[@ElevateWelll]

First Comment!!! Love you Costa ❤

[@swahny802]

I’m 5’5”…

[@ttcthetechnicalck]

can you make a routine video for Muslims to follow in ramadan? Alex

[@Horsepowerheaven982]

Hey bro who edits your videos

[@jazz4894]

Looksmaxxing is critical when you want to be handsome but you need to realize looksmaxxing take around 4 to 5 years

[@Vizo_Flair]

Did anyone notice his hair

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Real Shit😮