HOW TO LOVE YOURSELF AS A BISEXUAL MAN

[@johnangelo3837]

"Just because you're attracted to men doesn't make you any less of man". I needed to hear that from someone else. 😢. Thank you!

[@drewwyllie]

John Angelo you are a KING. Never forget. 💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓

[@alexcassanova9079]

You can love who you want to

[@187FML187]

I’m just now trying to come to terms with it myself! That was my first fear!

[@Asymmetrical-Saggin]

same....

[@flightofthebumblebee9529]

I also should say thanks. I've always been ok with my bisexuality but doubted my feminine softer side at times like it was wrong but the things I've been thru as a man make me tougher than many, and just because I enjoy other men as lovers, it doesn't subtract anything from my manhood.

[@davidblack2693]

I find bisexual men very attractive,& no man should ever apologize for who he is.

[@danssaddimple9133]

sending all the love to bi men! ❤️ i'm a bisexual girl in a relationship with the most wonderful guy who also happens to be bi! i'm very grateful of him

[@ThomasGeelens]

Thanku I’m so sad

[@natpolkabunny]

As a woman, bisexual men are my fav!

[@drewwyllie]

estie AB we appreciate you 😭❤️❤️

[@FrenchFryBoy83]

Thanks for the confidence boost! I needed that today.

[@lucthin6245]

Why is that?

[@natpolkabunny]

@@lucthin6245 why do u feel entitled to an explanation?

[@lucthin6245]

@@natpolkabunny I don’t feel entitled to an answer. As bi man, I am genuinely curious & interested of hearing a woman’s perspective on the benefit of having a bi man around. Most of us don’t hear much positive things.

[@FrenchFryBoy83]

I came out as a bisexual man two years ago. Not everyone will understand right away. Some might never understand. But that's ok. Its about you. You're the only one you live with your entire life. Be you.

[@flightofthebumblebee9529]

When you fully embrace it, it makes you so very happy and makes you feel all the good in the world instead of the bad.

[@rossvictorious]

“relationship with myself is more powerful and more important than peoples perceptions and projections” that’s gospel ! well said 👍🏽👍🏽

[@spaceheroes2]

Yes, I love that quote so much. I'm really going to try to work on applying that to my life

[@cecoletti1]

I was stuggling to find bi men talking about bisexuality on KZbin, so you got my subscription! It's nice to see I'm not alone.

[@jawtheassassin30games75]

No ones ever alone I’m a bisexual man

[@carrotcake177]

Saw you linked this in the basement - as a bi girl I cannot be a bigger fan of this video 💕 bi men are valid, your sexuality is valid and anyone who says anything to the contrary is trash.

[@drewwyllie]

ahh that means a lot, YES YES YES. I've always felt the most valued by other bi girls - they know whats UP and its always a really beautiful connection. honestly thank you so much 🌹

[@jamesoquinn9168]

Love to get the support sister! 🙌

[@danesmith9653]

I cried watching this as a bisexual male

[@jamesoquinn9168]

🫂

[@flightofthebumblebee9529]

I didn't cry but it was a great video. The more you can love yourself and enjoy the gift of bisexuality (which truly is a beautiful thing) you can also love others too. Being able to enjoy your own gender and other genders not just sexually, but also intimately and emotionally is SO wonderful. At least if the vid made you cry, they were tears of happiness.

[@spasplash156]

Anyone else thinking about being bi all the time like all the time it’s so exhausting

[@markh4926]

Why is it exhausting? I admitted the fact I'm bi with my wife years ago and she was ok with it, she'd even watch bi sex videos with me, she likes the girls and I liked the guys in the vids. It was a while after that before I had sex with a guy, it was fun.

[@drewsstruggle1335]

Fantastic advice. I've just recently accepted my bisexuality as well. It changed my whole life! I have been so much happier.

[@drewwyllie]

Drew's Struggle yes Drew!!!! This is an amazing and important step. Your sexuality is valid and you should love every part of yourself - it is so powerful to accept every part of you, sending light and love

[@theoneeyedmanwasking4255]

I'm having a hard. Time doing the same I'm a very confused stage

[@flightofthebumblebee9529]

​@@theoneeyedmanwasking4255drop us an update and let us know how you are now. You deserve to be happy. 💕

[@jamesstuart4108]

I love my sexuality i love myself i love everything about me

[@masonsims3402]

I just came to terms with the fact that I'm bisexual while in treatment. I've been a drug addict for about 4 years now. Once I accepted who I am and made it a part of my identity, I felt so free and liberated and finally comfortable and confident in my own skin. This discovery will be a key part in keeping me happy and sober

[@flightofthebumblebee9529]

I learned to fully embrace and even enjoy my bisexuality after getting off heroin. I have not looked back in many many years. God bless you.

[@tsirrom1]

Thank you so much for posting this. I have been a known bisexual male for the majority of my life and I am now 40yo. Ive NEVER been open about it, always felt like I was hiding my true self. My wife has been my rock and has helped me to embrace who I am. I appreciate you posting this.

[@thomasbleming7539]

I came out as a bisexual years ago. I was somewhat surprised at the support that I received.

[@FinesseMuse]

There's all kinds of taboos in different cultures and family values that make the "coming out" process of first accepting and valuing or selves that makes stepping "into the light" absolutely terrifying. But once we learn that IT'S OKAY to love ourselves just as we are, doesn't it just feel like the weight of the world just falls of your shoulders....

[@drewwyllie]

Finesse Muse omg yes!!! 100%!!! This, and understanding that the love and acceptance we crave from other people we can just get from ourselves. Our higher selves are literally there with us ready to give us unconditional love all the time, once you start tapping in its bliss!

[@FinesseMuse]

@@drewwyllie yes 💖💖💖😄💪

[@festerburg87]

Recently came out myself after nearly 2 decades of hiding from myself and others. Still struggling with getting used to being out. Trying to get to the place where I can really accept this part of myself. Thanks for this.

[@drewwyllie]

ahh thats amazing Collin! I’m happy for you bro 💘 take things slow and you will get there!

[@jamesoquinn9168]

I came out at 46! I'm just relieved! I'm not going back, and I should have done it sooner!

[@robpelarde4734]

Collin: be yourself, luv who you luv, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, really!👍

[@coffinbellemusic8058]

I am still not fully out publicly as a bi man. But my family knows. I struggle a lot with loving myself, because of the environment I was raised in. I've never really felt like my sexuality was a gift...but the way you described it makes me feel a little more self-pride about being bi. Thank you for these words of comfort. I needed this more than I thought I did.

[@Listen_To_Mi]

I started blushing when you said I was beautiful

[@CUP1D0N]

OMG you’re so beautiful and wise!

[@alepicciola8995]

The thing I love of myself is putting myself in various situations and trying to approach both women and men. The last time I tried I succeed, and now I have an amazing and adorable boyfriend 😍

[@theoneeyedmanwasking4255]

Great video love the advice And positive affirmations Your very intelligent and Loving and very handsome.

[@drewwyllie]

Holden X THANK YOU ❤️ appreciate you and sending you so much love ✨

[@P326Star]

Thank you for this. 💖💜💙

[@drewwyllie]

Paddy Charman I appreciate you for watching 💘 you are divine and precious my brother 🌹💪🏼

[@baxu4206]

"You are beautiful" Yes yes, I know. Thanks for reminding me :)

[@alexcassanova9079]

I'm bi and proud

[@jawtheassassin30games75]

Me too amen

[@Robsav-yx6vi]

Roman TIMES . History people. Look it up . It doesn’t matter Who your attracted too . This man is extremely confident and Gets this . Thank you for making this .

[@matthewchlebda3181]

As a bi guy myself, this is a beautiful video! Thanks so much for posting these very kind words of encouragement (by the way, you are attractive, I hope you don’t mind me saying that). It’s people and other bi men like you on KZbin that help me accept myself for who I am!

[@MrTomasz23]

I am beautiful. I am beautifully sensitive and so worthy of love ❤️ thanks for the vid 😘

[@Mcflyeon]

As someone who is gay themselves, you have made some very valid, constructive points throughout involving loving and accepting yourself reguardless on who you're attractive to, what's your sexuality and what others think of you. Everyone should accept others for who they are. What I love about myself is that I try my best to maintain an optimist outlook in life even if it's not always easy and if others are negative, how I care about others, my creativity, my sexuality and how I have a lot of things in life that I enjoy, helping me to keep me going.

[@drewwyllie]

Mcflyeon MegaMcBusted ahhhh appreciate the love brother 💘 yes yes! Your points all resonate, stay grounded and positive so you can attract more abundance into your life 🌹

[@jonathanmiddleton1775]

Fam, thank you so much for the encouragement. I’ve been struggling with my identity for as long as I can remember. Always having to put up a front for my religious family and being afraid of being rejected by any potential dating option. But last year I came out officially and I’ve been slowly coming to terms with who I am as a black bisexual man. I honestly want to cry because I just needed to hear that I’m still a man regardless of who I’m attracted to. I feel less lonely and shameful. I even did a photo shoot this year to celebrate my coming out 💜💙💖 From me personally for anyone who reads this. You’re not an abomination in the eyes of god. you’re not less of a man for being who you are. You’re not a walking STD virus that everyone may paint us as. Just know that you’re beautiful handsome men worthy of love and respect.

[@drewwyllie]

Brother you are so valid and special never let anyone forget 💜 I’m so happy you are discovering your true self and shining your light. God made you perfect in every way honesty, keep shining my bi King you winning everyday 🫶🏼

[@johnhenjum6610]

Thanks for this video🔥 also if I think women don’t want me because I’m bi I’ll get a reflection of that.

[@crowley144]

I think it's so important to draw awareness to this, thanks for doing us bi guys justice! :)

[@drewwyllie]

We stand together brother ❤️💓❤️

[@msputtycat4601]

I'm glad I found your Channel and my boo needs to here this from a Man and not just me the straight women that loves him. ❤💋

[@theajshortman]

Thank you so much ! I love that im kind and gentle.

[@crazydani_]

It’s very exhausting. I developed anxiety to the point of me waking up everyday at 6:50 am and being attacked by my own thoughts and anxiety. My anxiety about it is followed by a fear of rejection by my family (even though my family loves me very much and deep down Ik they will accept it). It is also followed by a fear of loneliness because I’m scared if I will like guys more than girls it will be a lot harder to find a boyfriend rather than a girlfriend and I will be alone my whole life.

[@joshgellis3292]

❤️💙🏳️‍🌈I'm seriously anti-woke, but, I'm certain I myself have been bisexual since I was 17. I'm 38 now. This is one of the few fucking times I just don't want to shit on a alphabet video. Not this fucking time.🏳️‍🌈💙❤️

[@relentless3781]

4: 38 Thanks I needed to hear that thank you

[@mrtalktive7957]

Just love urself it doesn't matter u r bi or straight ❤️

[@garydobbs5159]

Your a very strong person. I recently admitted I’m bisexual but my wife is struggling with it. I have trouble explaining my feelings. It’s a strange existence.

[@Rebecca.xoxoxo]

Have you guys started the divorce proceedings yet or just opened the relationship? Genuine question

[@Meowface.]

Hey Gary how’s it going with your wife ? I’ve never been able to tell a woman I’m bi... feel like they’d never accept it

[@robertcarlson9069]

I'm in the same situation, after being married for 37 years. If freeing to finally come to grips with it, but I am pretty sure I will lose my wife. You're right, it's hard to explain how you feel to someone who is straight. Good luck.

[@ThomasGeelens]

Thanku, I’m struggling

[@ThomasGeelens]

I’m Crying thank you

[@drewwyllie]

@@ThomasGeelens You are not alone brother ❤️

[@baroqueandbeyond]

I love that I have always accepted the validity of bisexuality. I came out in the 90’s. Back then, bisexuality was trendy, and it seems straight people and gay people alike judged bisexuals as fake, etc. it’s rather sad that we have to have this conversation three decades later. That said, I love how you are raising your vibration ✨⭐️💫 and encouraging others to do the same.

[@relentless3781]

Thanks for making this video as a bisexual man myself,I needed to hear this so that I could remember to love myself and accept my bisexuality . even though I haven't always be given that acceptance from others I'm still worthy of both love and affection from men and women who are willing to date and sleep with bisexual men like me. I have come to realize that after having had consensual sexual experiences with both men and women in the past that I love both I like men more than women, but I know that doesn't make me any less bisexual than bisexual men who's attraction to both genders is 50/50. I realize now that my atttrac ion to both men and women doesn't have to be 50/50 for me to identify as bisexual authentically and my bisexuality is just as genuine and as any person who publicly identifies as bisexual like me. Thanks for the encouraging video as a bisexual man myself I needed to hear this. Other

[@drewwyllie]

I’m so proud of you my brother. Bisexual men stay winning so keep living your best life 💜

[@flightofthebumblebee9529]

I have been bisexual most of my life and for the most part I've always been comfortable with it. I definitely am not straight or gay. I never have been. I feel blessed to be bisexual and bisexuality IS beautiful. Share intimacy, share love, share life! Open your heart. ❤️ 💜

[@Meeew6996]

I love you drew you’re the inspiration 💖💞💞💞pumas proud.

[@drewwyllie]

Keyla Wood thank you soul mate - next video I chop up fish 😛 x

[@jawtheassassin30games75]

What’s puma?

[@andresromero565]

I love that I feel unique and different about being bisexual! :)

[@elicordero4019]

Some time ago I came out as Bisexual Even experimented also sent nude pictures of men to females but women are my preference.

[@kanehuxley6281]

Honestly loved this 🥰❤️ You was a big inspiration to me at school, proud of us

[@drewwyllie]

Awhhh Kane I appreciate this so much - look at us now! 2020 we thriving baby x 💘💘💘💘 the worlds not READY

[@Robsav-yx6vi]

Well said Kane . This is a perfect example inner strength.

[@jaythamodeler]

I love that I'm such a sweetheart.

[@MasonNowell98]

Wow thank u The thing I love about myself is I am an amazing song writer

[@drewwyllie]

Mason nowell yes brother that’s amazing!! Keep creating and being yourself ✨✨✨

[@skylarskies7133]

The one thing that I find difficult is, telling girls I’m bi, even tho I mostly like girls, I feel they still find it a problem. I’d have no problem dating a girl whose bi, which I’ve done before but, once I mention I’m bi, everything changes. Idk how to explain it, I feel little judged and they obviously feel like they could not only loose me to another girl but another guy as well. Like, they only had to worry about girls, and now guys as well. I feel it has to do with the insecurities but, idk for sure. Wish girls were more understanding and not so insecure :/

[@renealexander2703]

Girls can be understanding but that doesn't change the fact that some bisexual men DO cheat on women with men.

[@renealexander2703]

I think it's because so many men cheat. Straight men cheat with women and bisexual men cheat with men.

[@rangersking6699]

I love that I'm not afraid

[@drewwyllie]

Rangersking669 that’s amazing‼️ Choose love over fear - so powerful

[@rangersking6699]

Drew Wyllie Indeed. Not worried about how people will react to knowing who I am. If they don't wanna listen to me if they are confused/negative then they don't matter to me no more

[@kirkhall7768]

Well said man

[@drewwyllie]

Thank you brother 🙏🏼

[@richardcooper9015]

Just a wonderful video drew . im 42 bisexual guy and when it comes to guys i love studs With nice bodies and who are great looking.

[@richardcooper9015]

I remember my bunkmate in summer camp who was my age one night got into my bed and he gave me head it was a nice experience.

[@thegenderfluidthing8660]

being attracted to men makes you more masculine as a guy actually😉

[@ImIvanCole]

I just feel like all my life it’s been ingrained to hate myself

[@MattyB8908]

I've came out to a few people, but I'm having trouble with my family and close friends. I've known for years, since I was a kid, but I've tried to hide it from everyone, including myself. I like men and women, and I'm tired of lying. I feel so free on the inside, but I'm still struggling with telling everyone. How can I be so happy yet so scared at the same time?

[@drewwyllie]

Don’t let fear get in the way of your own happiness. You have the right to feel confident and happy being yourself!!! Your sexuality is your business - if someone has an issue thts their problem 😇 keep shining king!

[@robertcarlson9069]

I know exactly how you feel. I have struggled my whole life and I finally came out to my wife of 37 years and she can't accept it ... but I still feel joy on the inside

[@mitochondria794]

Just accepted that i am bi today. Its been an internal struggle for a few years but now I'm coming to terms with it. Grew up in a very hetero-normative Christian household. My partner was more than supportive of me and i couldn't be happier.

[@drewwyllie]

This is amazing to hear!!! Keep shining and loving yourself you are on a beautiful path ✨✨✨💓

[@mitochondria794]

@@drewwyllie I needed to see this video today. Thank you.

[@drewheinzketchup369]

Thank you for making this video

[@drewwyllie]

You are so welcome King 💘

[@JustJRR]

Such a powerful video man!!! Thank you for making it 🙏🏾💜💙💗

[@GerardPare]

I'm an amazing generous person

[@AnaLuisa-ls9gi]

I would date a bisexual man but I am not sure if they would date me.

[@GerardPare]

I'm proud to admit that I am a Bisexual male

[@drewwyllie]

yayyy!! we really are the best 😎

[@GerardPare]

Absolutely

[@beth___morse]

I loved this video so much, thank you!

[@drewwyllie]

Beth Morse you are so perfect!! Don’t let anyone tel you otherwise ✨

[@jamesoquinn9168]

You're beautiful and empowering. I'm glad to have such a positive representative on YT. Most "bi-guy" videos I've seen are like, "bi guys, would you date one?" " And "bi guys, why there are so few of them." (That we know about) I'm not different than I was last year, or yesterday, now I can just be who I've always been, and that's just really, really liberating! It's my second favorite part of being Bi and out!

[@giselaviana7827]

As a bisexual woaman, thank you for that

[@relentless3781]

Thank God im bisexual😊

[@youngsharmuta3691]

bro u on point

[@drewwyllie]

young sharmuta yes bro 🙏🏻 we out here

[@youngsharmuta3691]

@@drewwyllie i love you

[@drewwyllie]

@@youngsharmuta3691 I love you too 💘

[@Ronkyort0dox]

What makes me less of a man is each and every one of my other traits.

[@jamesstuart4108]

And most of all i love god cause he gave me the courage and strength to go on and be happy and be me cause he forgives me 🙏🙏🙏

[@GerardPare]

Great content. I agree

[@Keyen22]

my best friend knows I'm bi but I only really felt comfortable telling them because they're also bi idk how to tell my family, it's too awkward for me even though I know they really would not care

[@S.SilverStudio]

Needed this today ❤

[@drewwyllie]

You are valid 🖤

[@FrenchFryBoy83]

Thank you, Drew.

[@graceykinz]

I love bi men! :)

[@enlightenedtech1144]

We love you!!

[@wmmcwammer8452]

thank you man

[@drewwyllie]

you are so welcome King 💘

[@smokeypointofview]

Nicely put

[@tialee5523]

I don’t know if you’ll see this but I wanted to ask a question. How do deal with being Pansexual around homophobic people you’re out to? Cause I need help please

[@drewwyllie]

Don’t listen to anyone other than yourself. VALUE yourself more than anyone else - you deserve to be around people that love and respect you, the more you love yourself the less others opinions will matter 💓💓💓 sending love!!! The only acceptance you need is from yourself 🌹✨

[@tialee5523]

Drew Wyllie thank you so much! Also I want to thank you for creating this safe space for the lgbtq+ community. KZbin has kinda become my safe space for my sexuality in a way. So thank you for providing a light of happiness in my life and thank you for the advice ❤️

[@meedy92]

Wish you lived closer to me so I could hang out & be friends with you!

[@mmaldajl231]

I love how pretty I am

[@Truluve187]

I just love guys I need advice coming out I am a bottom an love guys

[@angellove3645]

I love bi men 🥰💋

[@OfficialGeoffreyTraylor]

🎉🎉🎉

[@alexharbula4930]

Thank you

[@drewwyllie]

Alex Harbula 💓🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@relentless3781]

#bi pride💖💜💜😊

[@DracoCastellan]

New subscriber ❤️

[@Idric-w5l]

I am afraid of wat people say cas I love being gay

[@kai6543]

WHY THE FUCK IS EVERYONE SO REVOLTED BY US

[@Blueyzachary]

Day 365 of being sure of my attraction to Kenya Clark ❤️

[@Asymmetrical-Saggin]

im 30... and Bisexual and wish i had the courage to fully come out. the judgement where i am is real and idk.... id be hard i would think. i deff wouldnt be accepted.......... from friends or family....... i just want to be accepted... but the things i have been called when evening trying to discuss the topic is disgusitng

[@jensensnare2173]

damn when did di leo get a youtube chanell

[@josedipadua8575]

Hi u sound like Rod Steward Singer think he from Australia U have Rock Vibes lol

[@stevencoleman6278]

Right ✅ I need helllp

[@anthonylombardo2869]

❤️🙏🏻

[@AmigoGabe]

❤❤🥺

[@PhilipRyanDeal]

all this.

[@Azy-Pool]

I genuinely can't stop hating myself over this, I think I'm completely gay and I want to die. I'm not suicidal but this has driven my imagination closer than I'd like towards that. I just want to be normal and have a loving wife and family, but I'm not even interested in women. It's life ruining.

[@drewwyllie]

But why do you hate yourself for your desires? It's completely normal and valid to like members of the same sex. I think maybe you should seek professional help here it could help you a lot

[@Envision_]

I wouldn't feel comfortable dating a bisexual / heteroromantic guy

[@PinkCakesandTea]

I feel this way as a woman.

[@wiktoriaf3388]

Please, consider not using words like bitch and babe

[@Idric-w5l]

Love ur channel I am proud I am who I am

[@Truluve187]

I love the fact I love guys wat I love about me