How to Make a Narcissist Regret Hurting You

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@fabiopapalia 3 ай бұрын

The BIG value in a breakup with a narcissist IS losing that worthless individual. Losing the narcissist is the BEST thing you can obtain from that person. Let that sink in.

@BeTheLight624 3 ай бұрын

LOOSING a LOSER!!! 100% 👍🏻❤️

@deebee4622 Ай бұрын

True that! Their absence is your peace, which is priceless

@carolinelaronda4523 3 ай бұрын

They don’t regret losing you. They just get mad at you because now they have to put forth effort to dig up old supply or hunt for fresh supply, but most likely go back to some old supply.

@user-jr3rk8mn4k Ай бұрын

Yes, they tend to circle back to their ex's. You will notice that they stay friends with their ex's just in case they need them later.

@CharingCross712 3 ай бұрын

My god, narcissists are cowards. Too afraid to face the feelings that we all have every day

@tanyadepoalo4312 Ай бұрын

Spot on and well said!!!

@LaudauteDominum-er2mr 3 ай бұрын

They only hurt if something happens to their money or whatever they have going on in their life. They don’t care for anyone but themselves.

@harrisonwallace3498 3 ай бұрын

It’s a trauma response from severe trauma.

@LaudauteDominum-er2mr 3 ай бұрын

@@harrisonwallace3498 yes, I understand that and have educated myself on all of this but there is right and wrong. They knew exactly what they were doing. Behavior tells all.

@harrisonwallace3498 3 ай бұрын

NPD is a mental illness isn’t that if your mentally ill you don’t know what your doing?.

@susanturner9023 2 ай бұрын

I’m trama bonded in a narcissistic marriage and I know they do sometimes regret and occasionally try, to not loose their appliance. But they don’t love themselves either. They are a monster catch 22. They are evil out of fear and everyone is as worthless as they feel about themself that they rarely if ever tell Anyone!

@LaudauteDominum-er2mr 2 ай бұрын

@@susanturner9023 but you shouldn’t sit and take it. No excuses for their behaviors. They know right from wrong and continue to disrespect you.

@paulinewroth5487 3 ай бұрын

I don't think they have the capability to give a shit. No more for me. I'm done.

@gpal4843 3 ай бұрын

Im planning to leave this f narcissist thing had enough of being abused

@incognito595 2 ай бұрын

Me, too. I would have left LONG AGO, IF IT WASN'T IMPOSSIBLE!

@Vacheriedevacherie 3 ай бұрын

If you care about how a narcissist feels, you are losing your time. Best thing is to go no contact, forget they even exist, because anyway they are not worthy of your time or efforts.

@nicholecornes1915 3 ай бұрын

It wont happen i WONT put myself in that toxic crap ever again

@nicholecornes1915 3 ай бұрын

I dont think they regret hurting you

@BeTheLight624 3 ай бұрын

They enjoy it and get supply from it.

@incognito595 3 ай бұрын

Thank you Again, Ben. You do a wonderful job.

@lynnschaeferle-zh4go 3 ай бұрын

Nope. Sometimes it makes them feel better to make you feel bad

@lynnschaeferle-zh4go 3 ай бұрын

44 years and 3 kids and I meant nothing. When I left he was posing on the front lawn like “here I am “. He forgot to look in the mirror; with his huge belly and receding hairline.

@Stanley-xc4yc 3 ай бұрын

They do regret hurting the victim. But they regret because they lose the supply 😊.

@fnn9550 3 ай бұрын

They box, and they also reframe reality so it suits their 'reality'

@BeTheLight624 3 ай бұрын

100%

@incognito595 3 ай бұрын

@@BeTheLight624 200%

@alisabarrett5653 Ай бұрын

The delusion keeps them believing that they're winning.

@tanyadepoalo4312 Ай бұрын

Yup! I sent a text to my ex saying that exact thing. I said “You just edit and rewrite the story to fit your narrative” that enraged him, and of course I got the most vicious response back. Blame shifting, projecting etc etc etc. zero accountability.

@natashahall2134 8 күн бұрын

YES!! Rewrite the whole narrative to be in their favor or just to look as innocent as possible. Mine accused me of things I couldn't even physically do just so it wasn't his fault.

@Luke747gal 3 ай бұрын

I left my narc husband after 30 years. I was his only stable, primary source for so long. Yes he was a serial cheater so he had loads of secondary supply sources. What you are saying is he's only missing me like he'd miss a fridge or car that broke down? He'll only miss the control be had over me? Ooooof that's a painful pill to swallow.

@wayneelliott1180 2 ай бұрын

Good on you for finding freedom - especially after so many years! That's courage and growth - both values the narc does not possess. We are objects to be used to fulfil their needs and we are expected to behave and obey. I bet he isn't taking any responsibility for why the relationship ended.

@Savemeskymama Ай бұрын

Mine called me a "worthless piece of 💩" repeatedly every night as he clocked back seagram and sevens untill he passed out. Fun times! He died 7 years ago. We were together for 17 years. His misery nearly killed me. Im still here. Life is better. Its been slow, but i am happy again. There is healing. For me, it took a lot of introspection and working through my own family trauma before disecting our marriage. Brutal honesty with myself and learning ro value myself and stop rhat programmed, automatic trauma bond response. Turns out that it wasnt my shame or guilt to begin with. It was all an illusion/delusion to begin with. Y'all hang in there! It really does get better!

@lorrainem8234 22 күн бұрын

Thank you for sharing this. It gives me hope 💗

@fixinfkinsandwiches6183 7 күн бұрын

That is so sad how you were abused! I hope 🤞🏼 you will heal and have a great life now❤!

@rashidarowe7882 3 ай бұрын

Being self aware that i had a very toxic mindset, i can say, they do not care about hurting you, its all about them and getting their needs met. No matter what you say or do, it does not matter, once their focus is redirected towards someone else, youre no longer a concern of theirs.

@harrisonwallace3498 3 ай бұрын

These folks are in pain and hurting and they do want help but deep down it’s too painful for them too admit it.

@tanyadepoalo4312 Ай бұрын

For me , that is the toughest part of the entire thing. It’s the hardest part to get over. Knowing you mean absolutely ZERO to the person you genuinely loved and cared about. It’s the worst part of it all.

@shamama1834 3 ай бұрын

Love the explanation btwn feeling ‘worthless’ vs ‘worth less.’ Few yrs ago, I let my narc husband cause me to feel ‘worthless’ by questioning the devaluing comments he made to me. Then I realized, God gave me a purpose to be more than just a wife. I’m a valued mama, nana, sister, friend, etc. This video helped me understand that my narc actually thinks I’m ‘worth LESS’ than him. Not worthless. Big difference I’m glad to understand. No wonder we argue over simple words. Because HIS idea of my value/worth to him, and MY idea of the value I want to be to him, are not the same.

@teresabeasley527 3 ай бұрын

Nailed it!🔥

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@incognito595 3 ай бұрын

I Never Felt Worthless, but They Wanted Me To!

@suzannemaroney4579 2 ай бұрын

They are runners, they are always running from their shame, always.

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@cowboynohorse 26 күн бұрын

Yes

@louiseelliott6404 3 ай бұрын

Well I’ve felt the pain of what he did to me. Every single emotion. He broke me. I was lost. If only I could have compartmentalised. I couldn’t do it. I’ve had to self reflect and introspect, heal and grow. 13 months on and I’m in a better place now. But still healing. Can’t be dealing with that toxic garbage. I discarded that garbage and you don’t go back in the trash when you’ve thrown it out.

@RawMotivations 2 ай бұрын

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@teresabeasley527 3 ай бұрын

Consistently shows he couldnt care less

@tinkerbell003 3 ай бұрын

Literally

@hadiaagha2417 3 ай бұрын

They discarded you long ago and found someone or something better to do.They are heartless people.Dont think they ll ever be sad over losing you because for them it's all your fault

@brandonkrugel6850 3 ай бұрын

Definitely felt worthless, and de valued.

@evabistuergimenez522 3 ай бұрын

Now everything makes so much sense!! I felt like a plant that it was slowly dying on the pot because he only water me every once in a while or not at all. Thank you Ben for giving me so much clarity. I left him 2 years ago because of his multiple affairs, secrets and lies but I didn't start to understand the reality of our relationship until recently when a book about narcissism ended up in my hands.

@gracebetou Ай бұрын

Lol, I felt like a dusty vase on the shelf. I let my feelings for him go. I figured, oh, well!

@natashahall2134 8 күн бұрын

I totally get it. I was with my narcissist for 18 years before I even heard of the term narcissist. But once I started educating myself and everything started coming together, it only took a couple years afterwards to leave. Originally I just thought of it as a typical DV relationship and thought he was just an abusive person. Oh but if I had known 😢

@sism3028 3 ай бұрын

I had two narcissists in my life.. One was my sister and the other one was a friend. I have no contact with either of them anymore.

@lynnschaeferle-zh4go Ай бұрын

Me too. Several girlfriends, a sister, a father and an ex. It was all fascinating because all were horrible in different ways. If you’re on to them I have figured out that if you want them to do something just tell them how wonderful they will look

@jackiel7726 3 ай бұрын

Great video 👍 What you're saying is very accurate I was married 32 years He walked out like we did not exist Not even saying goodbye to his sons or me and his animals. He erased us from the planet 😞

@unomeecj 3 ай бұрын

😢 I'm in, it still 32 years now. But he's turned my kids into his flying monkeys. Now they all abuse me

@jackiel7726 3 ай бұрын

@@unomeecjI am so sorry This is a terrible situation for anyone going through this My husband also turn my Sons against me but since we been separated they are seeing him for the monster that he is. No one deserves to go through this.❤️‍🩹

@sheilayagodzinski5747 3 ай бұрын

No, he erased himself not you and your children and pets.

@jackiel7726 3 ай бұрын

@@sheilayagodzinski5747 Thank you You're so right 👍

@SabrinaSky213 2 ай бұрын

Me too it's like a death

@jackbrauer4442 3 ай бұрын

We are commodities replaceable and interchangeable. They don't care.

@valdez2445 Ай бұрын

So true. They use and abuse you then throw you away

@RawMotivations Ай бұрын

@hopeinhumanity. 3 ай бұрын

I was told I was worthless many a times. I started to catch on to the piece of projection.

@lisaortiz-vargas4946 2 ай бұрын

Yes that’s how he made me feel worthless. I’ve left him twice because of his lacking, him putting me in positions that felt worthless. 2023 I finally removed broke myself from him but let me tell you it’s been HELL.. and going through this withdrawal because that’s what it feels like (I’m a ex smoker) so I know what a withdraw feels like; if I would have known then what I know now I would have listened to my intuition at age 25 (the beginning of our relationship) and RAN! I’m PO because I spent 27 total (21 yrs married) “years” giving him my Youth, time and energy for me to file for Divorce and he now trying to get his Ex Ex wife back and I still at times cry over him. So Regret?? Your Right Ben they Don’t Regret loosing you as a person they only Regret Controlling you.

@shannonbrowe3870 23 күн бұрын

I think Narc's hate being alone, so they also just use someone to just be there. Again, only caring about themselves!🙁☹️

@himn9611 3 ай бұрын

Worthless vs worth Less. Thank you!!! And saying straight up Nooo they do not care. Thank you for explanations. Keep up ur hard work on ur selfwork too. Hard work facing ourselves. Facing/owning up to how we got in such positions. Strength to all in ur self healing journeys.

@RawMotivations 2 ай бұрын

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@alaynjones2209 18 күн бұрын

I think the hardest thing with dealing with a narcissist is when you are taking them to court…I have found that gaining concrete evidence on them needs to be a lot. Videos are the main hard evidence. Records too. It is really hard. They will do anything to get back on top.

@liljerseygirl249 3 ай бұрын

There is nothing you can do to get them to honestly & truly regret hurting you or losing you. They will just go find a new supply to put up with their abuse.

@kimberlys.7097 2 ай бұрын

New supply born everyday for them. Right!! Some unsuspecting person will always come along like we did.

@ReRe_642 3 ай бұрын

You don’t want that. Just keep them away from you.

@user-kf3yz7so6q Ай бұрын

Yes they are, they are cowards, they run away from every day issues, if they can’t deal with it they bury their heads in the sand.. I think that’s one of the main reasons why they discard their partner/spouse.

@emmarae4322 Ай бұрын

They won't regret it. They have no empathy. They just blame shift and move on to new target.

@manzanitaverde5455 26 күн бұрын

I can't believe someone can make you feel soo worthless...they 1st needed you but then they treat you like crap.

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@magdafrazer7092 12 күн бұрын

They just regret that it might reflect on their standing...

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@fantazm79 2 ай бұрын

I stated to her many times "I feel worthless". She would dismiss it in a passive aggressive manner

@martinmarier4495 3 ай бұрын

Pointless to Hurt them for losing you. At a workplace, exposing them is key, in my experience. Its the only thing that can provoque a collapse.

@kyramoan6739 22 күн бұрын

He definitely made me feel like I was Worthless to him.💔

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@fnn9550 3 ай бұрын

You dont build any credits with a narc

@incognito595 3 ай бұрын

Regain the Selfhood that you had Before you Encountered Narcs The First Time. Become YOU, again. Nothing could be more important!

@BeTheLight624 3 ай бұрын

Thank you for your EXCELLENT job of revealing, from a narc’s perspective, their thought process motivations and view point of value, discard, shame, embarrassment and compartmentalization. Narc viewpoints are polar opposite of the targets, as you so accurately point out. I so appreciate your transparency and truthfulness here because it literally proves, through the narcs own actions, there is NOTHING to or left of the “relationship,” if you want it even call it that. Walk away and never look back.100% accurate Saved to replay.

@beccalovesjesus1009 3 ай бұрын

It's a "relationSHIT".

@SherryG370 24 күн бұрын

My Worth is so high that for the last year my xnarc has been trying to prove im worthless!! Take it as a compliment🎉

@nicholecornes1915 3 ай бұрын

We are ONE of MANY suppliers

@incognito595 3 ай бұрын

Then, you can begin the long process of rebuilding your self esteem. Start Now.

@LeLeB37 2 ай бұрын

Not even worth worrying about someone who ain't worrying about you and couldn't show that they care properly even if they did. Keep it moving!

@summersled5635 3 ай бұрын

Worth-less.........because he was projecting his own worthlessness onto me.....once I saw that I was out

@RawMotivations 3 ай бұрын

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@susanturner9023 2 ай бұрын

As I’m planning my married 17 year escape from this now, I sadly hope he figures out how to be self aware too before then but the painful reality and 17 years of asking for that, I know it isn’t gonna happen. Am I wrong to feel narcissists are a plague on humanity? They are wonderful and then they are the worst person you will hopefully ever HAVE known. It’s a second marriage and the first one was also a narcissist. I’m not dumb I don’t think but I’m forever hopeful and empathetic and feel everyone has potential. I’m worried at 55 I’m gonna be a man hater like my mom and be old struggling and bitter! I’ve worked my whole life to not become my mom and feels like some messed up prophecy. AND TRUST ME MY NARC HUSBAND FIGURED THAT OUT AND USES IT TOO! God grant me peace and strength. Any of you guys dealing with the sociopaths out there I’m praying for you too. ✌🏻🙏🏼❤️

@gracebetou Ай бұрын

Lay it all at Jesus's feet, earnest prayer works. Im 56 and last yr my narc. Decided to have a collapse, after 2 years of me doing the healing journey. I wouldn't let him off the hook for his actions. It will be over a year, but I do have a trial date for my divorce now. God bless and keep you safe.

@natashahall2134 8 күн бұрын

Thank you ❤

@pattycakes9182 22 күн бұрын

Worth less than him "working on marriage" but definitely worth manipulating and promising to keep me in place to cook, clean, be in the home while he's away, take care of pets that he has also manipulated so that I'm the bad guy as he allows them to do whatever. He actually said "of course I want you to stay to work on the relationship, and to help me." One of the honest statements probably.

@RawMotivations 22 күн бұрын

@MeCynthiaAnn 3 ай бұрын

Thanks for your videos. From JANESVILLE, WI

@therollingstone9701 Ай бұрын

I never thought i was something like a toaster for the narcissists... And I usually burn the toasts... Maybe that's why they discard me 🤔

@sheilayagodzinski5747 3 ай бұрын

Mine did it without words, just by being bored with what I had to say would stop listening. He told me men don't want to hear what women have to say this was about something that happened to a friend's of his wife . I talk anyway, its my right , I'm a friendly person. Didn't want to help me when I got sick with a life threatening illness needed a ride to the hospital , he didn't want to drive me there or for me to take an ambulance , then he'd have to come get me. I had to drive myself a couple times. Even though he had a ton of sick time 5 months worth. Was saving it to take care of his mother if she needed it. Until I let him have it for such a callous attitude. He has since retired . My family couldn't take me to the hospital, they had to work and didn't get sick time both of them, my grown children. Talk about worthless, he is.

@natashahall2134 8 күн бұрын

When I talked he'd just talk over me, ignore me, say he didn't want to hear all that bs no matter what it was about, he'd crank up the music right in the middle of my sentence and other things but it was so painful feeling so unwanted unheard and not being concerned about 😢

@Gwendeline Ай бұрын

It took two years of a long process at my escape plan

@natashahall2134 8 күн бұрын

It took me 2 years as well ❤

@ImpulsoCreativo9322 3 ай бұрын

❤you have gotten better every dsy at teaching and exñlaining. Glmod bless!!

@KendraMorgan 3 ай бұрын

"1. Im a narcissist, welcome to the channel...." 🤣🤣🤣 dayum benny that was good.

@sarahkennedy1481 Ай бұрын

I hope if you are self aware that you do not hurt any more women

@tanyadepoalo4312 Ай бұрын

Agreed!

@rhondawampner688 3 ай бұрын

He only wants me to come over and clean and organize things.

@rhondawampner688 3 ай бұрын

Other then that, he doesn't care if I'm around or not. I haven't seen him in 2 weeks now.

@yeswing10 3 ай бұрын

@@rhondawampner688yes, we are the expendable clean up crew. I was nothing more than a slave

@dannmurray1199 3 ай бұрын

Don't do it anymore

@yeswing10 3 ай бұрын

@@dannmurray1199 divorced now. I work for myself now. It's awesome 😎

@gracebetou Ай бұрын

The narc is worthless not me

@connieshea7700 3 ай бұрын

Evil people no Empathy

@harrisonwallace3498 3 ай бұрын

they are hurt wounded from trauma they are in pain and they do have empathy they just lack empathy narcissists and toxic people are human beings at end of day.

@rlong8038 Ай бұрын

@harrisonwallace3498 When you find out you've been cheated on, lied to, gaslit, devalued, degraded and lied to for 40 years. You see them in a very different light. To me, he is evil and unredeemable. I never believed I'd see someone as pure evil, but I've seen pure evil and hatred just from bringing up feeling unloved and disrespected. You're feeling mean nothing to them. They lie like healthy people tell the truth. No remorse and no love.

@vickiortega8034 28 күн бұрын

Thankyou!

@alethiasingleton3109 3 ай бұрын

Thanks!

@RawMotivations 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for your support!

@RayDionne-r5e 26 күн бұрын

Thank you

@JustKate43 3 ай бұрын

Wow, wait till that person (narcissist) has to face Hashem in the court of Heaven. We’re getting close to that day soon, messianic era is here already.

@natashahall2134 8 күн бұрын

I just wonder in the afterlife are they going to be aware then and feel the regret and all then or are they just going to suffer like the lake of fire or something and that's it???

@Gwendeline Ай бұрын

Oh lord I sence this one’s going to hurt ahhhh

@incognito595 3 ай бұрын

Not Anymore.

@sandrad7633 3 ай бұрын

Humiliated and worthless

@RawMotivations 2 ай бұрын

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@unomeecj 3 ай бұрын

Ben, didn't you regret when she left? I thought you did. And that's why you started working on yourself

@KendraMorgan 3 ай бұрын

I think he talked about feeling relief that he could now go out and do what he wants to do (have affair with the side supply) but I think he regrets what his wife did for him....before he changed, geared, grew and developed.

@KendraMorgan 3 ай бұрын

Healed*

@sheilayagodzinski5747 3 ай бұрын

@@KendraMorgan You're lucky

@RawMotivations 2 ай бұрын

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@nicholecornes1915 3 ай бұрын

Lol they do some what alittle only but then they just harass you

@natashahall2134 8 күн бұрын

I know about my narcs childhood trauma stories but I just wonder if there's a common theme with certain childhood experiences that contribute to developing NPD? The story of mine was an absent father then growing up with a mother that was emotionally unavailable and she was a sex worker that brought many boyfriends around that were abusive. Now his story is pretty easy to figure out how he developing NPD but what are some other stories? Another question is although I've gone no contact not very long ago, he doesn't seem to be just replacing me with anyone. Don't get me wrong he's cheated multiple times and I even have physical evidence so I don't understand why there's not another person filling my place yet? He's been staying alone? The best answer I can think of is that he's going to her and for some reason she's not coming around his place or there's something happening just over the phone right now? Either way I don't care it's just confusing when I hear how they typically do after a "breakup" but his piece isn't fitting into the puzzle? I kinda wish there was another female there already and they'd run off together so he could get as far away from me (the town) as possible. Lmk if you want your narcissists childhood experience or maybe why I'm not seeing a new supply?? I know it isn't because he just cared about me and misses me so much 😅

@lunabelle6562 Ай бұрын

Worthless, and I told him repeatedly that I felt worthless to him

@RawMotivations Ай бұрын

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@percystreet 3 ай бұрын

I’m going through discard after two years of devaluation and all that goes with it………”I think we should plan for separation”, she said, “as I can’t go on like this (ignoring me)”…..”but I really care for you”…………hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha…….. funny way to show it

@SigmaFeminine 3 ай бұрын

im laughing too 😂😂😂 but warning: i got hoovered back after the 2yr and 4yr discards, we were still “in love”. now it’s finally over he’s suddenly seeing someone new - 10yrs later. He’s pretending me, the house, the dog and cat don’t exist it’s actually funny 😂 I’m free.

@alethiasingleton3109 3 ай бұрын

Kitty kat 😺🤷🏽‍♀️ is da Most powerful thing idk 🙂

@alethiasingleton3109 3 ай бұрын

That's why my narracissits ask for it I understand now the "MIND OF A NARRACISSIT"

@Gwendeline Ай бұрын

Geez this explains y he hoards broken tools n appliances thinking he’ll fix it one day bahhhaaaa im a toaster he’s hoarding as the toaster has more value than me 😊

@oilyskinguru 3 ай бұрын

Do they feel guilt?

@harrisonwallace3498 3 ай бұрын

Yes they do on some level they are human beings and any human feels guilt on some level too some degree.

@susanturner9023 2 ай бұрын

Worthless…that’s what I started to believe and then realized No This is Toxic and he is the why. And I told him so BAD IDEA DONT. Trust me LEAVE AND BE THANKFUL IF YOU ESCAPE WITHOUT THE BIGGEST NIGHTMARE YOULL EVER GO THROUGH. ITS TERRIFYING. Ofcourse mine can be physical so working up my escape plan but we’re married so it’s gonna be a terrifying shit show.

@real_hello_kitty 3 ай бұрын

Yes, but how?

@emilydouglass5957 29 күн бұрын

"Worthless"

@RawMotivations 29 күн бұрын

Thank you for your comment, here is the link www.rawmotivations.com/survivor

@snookerb6777 3 ай бұрын

🎯

@LetsDoThisJo Ай бұрын

So why would your wife want to stay with you knowing you don't really love her? I'm so confused.

@RawMotivations Ай бұрын

showing love through actions and real change

@natashahall2134 8 күн бұрын

@@RawMotivationsYou're in my prayers Ben. Congratulations on your awareness and I hope it continues improving for you and your wife everyday ❤😊

@Justin-ei1ef 2 ай бұрын

What if you're a man going through this from a female with the traits and decades of abuse? Can we also get something out of raw motivations?

@user-fm9bx9ml5i Ай бұрын

Narccossits people are divel people not understan they destroyed someone not understand value of tears emotins alwyes hurting trough his posts his words

@timsnipe8960 21 күн бұрын

By your words surely if you are being devalued debased and dehumanised by the malignant narcissist then she puts value in you enough to extract that sadistic pleasure from. The narc does not put every acquaintance they have through this. Can someone tell me why I’m misguided here?

@RawMotivations 18 күн бұрын

For sure they don’t put everyone through it. Image to uphold

@timsnipe8960 18 күн бұрын

Very good point. She certainly upholds that. A virtue signaller in extremis. I’ll look for other people in the room next time she does this. Anyone else puking on the carpet at the same time will be a ‘chosen one’ too! Thanks.

@elafayettestone1799 3 ай бұрын

Lol! I dont think this is humanly possible

@lovehonesty 3 ай бұрын

BTDT.

@sian8260 Ай бұрын

Why bother? Just move on with your life and take it as a lesson learned. Get educated.

@MissPrettyNPink 2 ай бұрын

I believe they regret what they can no longer get from you. I do think they miss certain people in different aspects but they are still the same dysfunctional person so who cares. Lol

@zarinwahid7310 Ай бұрын

Worthless all the time😢

@nicholecornes1915 3 ай бұрын

Shit we break

@jm907miller 3 ай бұрын

Wait both men and women do this..

@cheeseburgeler8 Ай бұрын

Then there’s you pulling away from him and he tried to get you back. Stay away

@RawMotivations Ай бұрын

@lizlois777 3 ай бұрын

I love hate it!! Ya know, I think we know the bitter truth, but I hate losing and I always fix things, people and I'll fix him, just takes longer!?? Ha haaaa.. jokes on me. Geeee Thanks for your brutal honesty. I need that at this point. I'm fu## exhausted, I give! I call monkey! Or, I'm done.. toast, not me and want to live instead of constantly on guard, watching my back, angry, .. too many ups.. very few, 0, and downs. Life's too short! Thank you, keep it coming, I can take it and want out of this fu$#@ up head he's done to me. Unfucking believable! My Mom's, RIP❤ last dying fav newest word!! Wow!! Runs in the blood! 😂😮

@Gwendeline Ай бұрын

Can u please tell us what’s their down side here

@RawMotivations Ай бұрын

That's a great question! You can discover the answer by joining our free masterclass at www.rawmotivations.com/masterclass.

@EveningTV 3 ай бұрын

If you are changed why do you still identify as a narcissist? Isn't shedding the label a perk of changing the behavior?

@insomniacat0088 3 ай бұрын

Npd is a personality characteristic flaw, they can learn to better help the situation but they can't change their genetic mentality. They don't think and operate like a "normal empathic person"

@RawMotivations 3 ай бұрын

Very true :) If a liar no longer lies is he still a liar...