How To Make a Specific Person MISS YOU So Much That They REACH OUT TO YOU! Law of Assumption

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[@dirtytrout3489]

Even though i am struggling at the moment especially after as my ❤ broke up with me i wanted to say thank you for all the videos you put out and effort! I feel alot better in myself after watching many of your videos 😊

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Wow thank you so much and i am sorry to hear you are struggling beautiful. Keep loving you and day by day little by little things will get better xxxxx❤️❤️

[@dirtytrout3489]

@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop Thank you very much 😊

[@relrelyy423]

SC is crucial in manifestation. Through my lowest point i kept reaffirming that I’m unforgettable and irreplaceable. I listened to LOA videos while doing my daily jogs to keep my spirits up. I even scripted that he is bringing me back to U.K. where he is living. Tbh I was not confident when I first started the process. Some days I slipped up, felt let down but I tried my best to reaffirm on my self worth and that I’m elevated. I didn’t tell any of my friends of what happened between me and SP and I remembered to keep myself dressed up daily to feel good. Just few weeks back I received a text and guess what he said? “Wanna come to UK?” 🥰 LOA works, we just need to be patient and remember that SC is everything.

[@user-nu7dh1zk4q]

SC? I am so happy for you! Manifestation feels like a roller coaster now and then..

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Incredible! Wow dedication is all it takes well done xxx

[@lesliehitchcock703]

Thank you for posting this. I’m having a doubt day. Should I be trying to manifest someone I was only talking to a small amount of time before he ghosted. It was an intense short time where he was going to start things by flying to me to “ do things the gentlemanly way” . I have reached out several time in the past ( def too many times ) and of course that makes you feel foolish when they ignore you. I know I am amazing , kind , loving, beautiful….. as he started pulling away I guess I got scared from past substantial traumas. I have dialogues daily and written about the life see with eachother and our children

[@finddeepshikha]

Wow thanx babe for sharing it. Would you like to be my manifestation buddy ?

[@esroskesafos3533]

@@user-nu7dh1zk4q self concept

[@chitownrxgirl]

I am an absolute catch - a knockout. He is fully committed to me. He pursues me. Calls and texts me everyday. He begs me to see him. I am the one he chooses everyday. I am all he’s ever wanted. He can’t stop thinking about me. He tells me how he feels about me. He wants me and only me. He misses me and can’t wait to see me. He adores me. I am the only one he wants to be with…

[@melao9242]

Desperate.

[@joesitt1]

It should be one or two sentences not a long paragraph.

[@jackhammer0925]

This was just weird lol.

[@kevinmalone3210]

So doesn't that drive a chick like yourself further away?

[@flyingcolors21]

Omg people. This is not a letter to her beloved. These are Natalie’s affirmations. Omg...

[@cdmic7413]

I know my SP is coming back to me, he already has. Your videos, messages and calming, uplifting energy is Everything

[@KZ-np8fz]

I desire him on my doorstep professing his love for me, telling me how much he has missed me, begging me to forgive him and take him back- for keeps, with flowers and accumulated love letters he has written me in the time we have been apart.

[@JesustheKing320]

When you said the affirmations during the end of the video, you literally took me to paradise island. Now I understand the true feeling of living in the end. Blessings to you always and forevermore!❤❤❤

[@Jelly1986.]

It feels so good when he is thinking about me and misses me! I am smiling all over my face when I feel this feeling 😃😃😃🥰

[@sunflower1230]

When I’m not with sp I say he’s home thinking of me. That’s all he does think about me and he’s wondering what I’m doing

[@aleclafrance7284]

Of course I am all they want and everything they’ve ever wanted. I fill my own cup and it’s overflowing with self love. They see this in me and it is drawing them in. They miss me and think of me all the time. It empowers me and makes me feel even more loved and chosen. They are in pursuit of me. I can relax knowing that it has already happened. I feel it with every part of me.

[@roxasventus2624]

I can’t wait for this ❤️❤️❤️

[@brigittebirk5699]

Thank you! You are so encouraging!

[@gregwilton2094]

Sonia is coming back to me. No one compares to me. She misses me so much. She can't live without me.

[@MyNeroshan]

This is what I'm waiting for

[@serranom6272]

Yoo I found your Chanel yesterday and I saw 2 videos I absolutely loved them You're great I am actually doing really great and my self concept is exceptionally really good

[@victorianorris1916]

You manifest what u are!! Put my focus on me, I’m a knock out I’m unforgettable my Sp can’t stop thinking about me he misses me like crazy he thinks about me day and night I’m the only one for him just ME. I’m ALL he ever wanted , I’m amazing❤️😍

[@Scoundrel1144]

Another amazing video, Natalie. Your script/words are so uplifting and emotional, as well as how you deliver it.

[@dimple6923]

Thank you! Love the affirmations!🙏💖👌

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

❤️

[@withexpectancy5818]

You’re amazing 🥳

[@misfit7866]

Yay I adore 💗 Natalie her method always works!

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Thank you 🙏

[@Dan-gq4qf]

My SP has told me many times that I am impossible not to love

[@lisaevan4236]

I am all those things AND I'm high maintenance and won't settle for less.

[@carolynepols7576]

Hi thank you for your video, i will listen to this one more often as you said to turn myself around being this amazing persoon as iam... My missing link.. Discoverd you today and wil start my day with the great positive and loving myself more every day letting go of fear and sad thoughts ❤️

[@esroskesafos3533]

I intend happy things for everyone here🦄

[@Acmilan22991]

You too! Thank you

[@lillianak8235]

I’m at the point where I don’t care anymore lol

[@lukes9133]

Awesome video and very motivating !! 👍 ALUX just made a recent video saying how manifesting and law of assumption is all a scam. Very frustrating seeing ALUX make videos like that especially when Natalie and so many other channels have real results. Keep up the awesome content 👍

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

❤️

[@takeshi_shinyama]

Appreciate it maam😌🙏 God bless

[@Bliss77705]

Helped in boosting self esteem..✨✨✨✨✨

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

🙌

[@karishmasingh1511]

Amazing.. 💗💗👌🏻👌🏻

[@MIMIDSH]

Another great video- had to watch it a few times! Yes, I'm binge-watching all. I know I have all these wonderful qualities, and I know he loves these qualities because he's told me. Yet as I'd mentally list them, I'd always add "so why doesn't he want me for his own?" Then I'd behave in a way that reflected that (negative) thought and tamp down my feelings, assuming he doesn't think of me, or want me, or miss me right now. Hold on---- why not assume that at this very second, he's thinking about how much he'd love to be with me. Just flipping that script takes me from a sort of resentful anxiety to feeling calm and uplifted.

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Love this comment and thank you for sharing! Applying the work is key. So many just listen but you are applying and seeing the difference! Love it xxx

[@Noob-ee2cy]

This was really uplifting. Thank you. Do you have any recorded meditations with these types of affirmations?

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

I have a play list of meditations so please check them out and if you’d like another one let me know specifically around these affirmations xx

[@bhavnalalwani6283]

Luv all yr video's tq .plz make a vdo on selfluv tqsm ❤👍

[@MyNeroshan]

Thank you

[@user-de2uo6ge3f]

I am chosen, anointed and sealed by the holy spirit and being guided by God ! I know that everything I desire will be granted to me and more ! 😇/😇

[@charmaineblake5844]

This worked for me.

[@vernitajames8541]

I am irresistible! I am beautiful and graceful! I am amazing! I am unforgettable!

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Yessssssss

[@zoethefrenchgirl2996]

It will only ever be me that he will really want

[@anuradhasahastrabuddhe4860]

Thank You Natalie I m Meeting him today

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Omg amazing xxxxx

[@anuradhasahastrabuddhe4860]

@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop Thank You Thank You Thank You

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@anuradhasahastrabuddhe4860]

@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop Hearts and love from You means a lot

[@marionhamers2673]

Thank you so much Natalie you are amazing you make me laugh again, i am definitely going to take your advices xx

[@jayantyadav9125]

I kinda fell in love with you too here. Hats off Natalie very beautiful and generous to show us how to think ❤

[@AlexRamirez-gx4gf]

Yesss beautiful ❤❤❤❤😍😍😍

[@rozendahendrickse7962]

Hey Nats. Thanks again. I hope you too find the love you so deserve. I hope, when you meet that special person, that you will share your love story with us. Warm hugs! 💚❤️🙂

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Hey gorgeous! I hope South Africa is treating you well lovely! And yes I promise I totally will share the whole experience xxxxx ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@rozendahendrickse7962]

@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop Autumn in South Africa. Beautiful in Stellenbosch. Much love.

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Much love back xxx

[@carole7905]

I sent my ex a message asking if we ecould be friends at some point as I know he's in stressful time. It's been very painful. I think this can work if it's been recent, poss take alot longer as its been over a year for me. Honestly think it's better to move on and love yourself more as a part inside will tend to be needy due to hurt and keep resurfacing. Sent a few msgs I know but still hoping will hear back

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Make a decision on what you’d like to happen. Then focus on that. I would also suggest working on your self concept too. I’ve responded to your other comment xx

[@dionysiosmarinos6484]

Ty

[@victorianorris1916]

I AM THE ONLY ONE FOR HIM!!

[@MyNeroshan]

Bless

[@melindakube1705]

Natalie this video is amazing. I love everything you say! I am on board to follow this advice!! My big concern is there has been no communication between us since the breakup, he has me blocked. Will this still work??

[@perlasdevida]

Yes! it’s about your energy. Focus on you feeling amazing! He will come.

[@user-de2uo6ge3f]

She will return prior to my moving, as God is guiding her also ! 😇😇

[@amjustaspecialgurl6425]

I really miss him so much cant evzn stop thinking ab him i hope this works

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

❤️

[@mzpreciosa24]

Did it work?

[@olivesgenerous2736]

I know ali misses me too😇

[@kaleido76]

What is the music to this video please? It’s beautiful 💜

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

I don’t know it’s a very old. Video

[@grant2149]

Thanks👍😃. Yesterday at Restaurant i saw a chick with the same watch as yours... Of the topic just had to say this.

[@carole7905]

Natalie, this is an odd one. I sent a friendly text to my ex a few days ago. I got a funny feeling I'm sure it's from him. I feel kind of on edge but I'm not on edge. Like feeling somethings going to happen but not heard from him in over a year.

[@danielle912]

So only when the negative thoughts creep in we tell ourselves the truth of what we really are?

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

No

[@sabrijoud2480]

I AM THE ONE , I AM THE ONLY ONE FOR THEM

[@Blue-gw4ft]

😂🙈

[@carole7905]

Hello Natalie, getting my head around this, but is it still possible to attract if you feel they may have moved on or even if they are in a low vibe because of stress. Feeling better about yourself does wonders I know but I often zap back into negative as life's been so quiet due to restrictions. Also been over a year.

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Hello Carole - circumstances really don’t matter. It’s all about the story you tell yourself so focus on what you want to see and happen rather than the 3D reality of what is. If you’d like more guidance I provide 1:1 coaching too xx

[@carole7905]

@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop Thankyou for reply, I have tried to see a new story, the heartache has made me so sad to be honest. I feel he's shut down himself so not sure in this actual case how can be possible unless he's healed. But thankyou

[@user-de2uo6ge3f]

I'm easy to find, but I'm planning on moving soon ! I have things to do that can't remain undone! I'm tired of all of the low vibration offers ! All the lakes around me are good for fishing, but I'm going back to the beach ! As soon as the improvements are done to my house I'll be by the Ocean somewhere ?

[@moonroses2671]

I have a question. Is it possible you manifested someone, you did affirmations and you stopped but you still believe in this, you know it and you think about it from time to time. Will it come in a right time? I have a super contact with my person. We are "friends” and there's a 3rd party but it’s only in 3d. I had a dream it just came to me✨

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

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[@jaig3350]

100% believe my SP is coming back to me when he is ready to offer what I want. What I wander is in getting on with my life I date other men. Will that block the path for my SP??? All comments welcome 🤗

[@nicola6387]

In my opinion, no it won't block it because it stops you from being obsessed and in the state of lack about your SP. As long as you still affirm/script or however you manifest and live in the end (the wish fulfilled) of what you want with your SP whilst dating other men, the path will still lead to them.

[@jaig3350]

@@nicola6387 thanks for your reply, it's helped. Are you currently manifesting your sp?? xx

[@nicola6387]

@@jaig3350 You're very welcome and glad it's helped. Yes I am, getting loads of movement and recently found a massive block of mine so been concentrating on self concept to heal that block. I know my SP is mine already! 🙏🏻 xx

[@ladydi1303]

Jeff will contact me and apologize this week

[@shannawatson3082]

Did he?

[@carole7905]

I'm bit confused, I had affirmed I'd be with my sp, I felt needy and think honestly that stays with you even if you think positive. He did not return. Then I saw you can only attract love by working on your blocks and attracting from the inside out. I think meditations do help here. I've been in an awful situation where my ex felt damaged after a v bad marriage. Can u shed some light on this x

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Focus on your self concept which is always key and then focus on telling yourself what you want. Script it out intend and or affirm , visualise…..

[@Iris11music]

Natalie, how can I stop feeling like I'm in competition all the time? I've started focusing on my self-concept only recently, and even though when I do it, I really FEEL it deep inside, then, I often fall in the trap of comparing myself to other girls (and especially, my SP past girlfriends...) And, in comparing myself to them, in my head of course I lose: because deep inside, I feel like I'm not enough. Is there something specific I can tell myself to finally stop this trigger?

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

It’s creating a self love practice lovely. The more you do this the more you see you are enough and that no one compares to you. I have so many coaching solutions including email coaching all to guide you to seeing your worth and value. Links below the video. I used to be like this but I practiced self love and it all transformed lovely xxxx

[@Iris11music]

@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop ... I love you Natalie. Thank you so much for replying. Your videos are already changing my life, and I was honestly thinking about purchasing "The Bundle" program. I think this is what I need. Thank you SO much for the reply though. I will follow your suggestion and stick to it

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

If you choose I would do the self love workshop lovely xxxxx❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@Iris11music]

@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop I will. I really wanna change this time, and really learn to SEE and LOVE myself. :) Thank you Natalie

[@Lifeofficially25]

I don't know I truly believe in manifestation but after my sp reached out to me again my changed self concept gone back to the past emotional attachment where I felt the same and still the same whole process I overcome came back to me. Mam please tell me how to focus on own self.. I'm always waiting for texts, calls and attention and no matter how much I try to focus on myself my all thoughts is all about him.

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Purchase a session with me 1:1 or use my videos so many of them focus on self concept xxx

[@sabrijoud2480]

I AM UNFORGETTABLE I AM DESIRABLE

[@AmandaNicolexo]

The thing is, it’s hard for me to feel completely filled up because I feel sad that this person isn’t in my life right now. I long for them so it’s hard to feel fully happy. So while I am indeed moving forward and focusing on my goals, will the feelings of still wanting them hinder this process?

[@goldenhope8434]

You summed it up pretty well

[@Famous5821]

@Amandazera Start writing a list of what you didn't like. Stop putting person on a pedestal in your mind.

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

It’s knowing that it will get easier each day the more you put your focus on you. I know how awful it can be I truly do but you have to take your power back and the love for yourself and take a day at a time. It will get easier I promise xxx

[@benergyhub]

Dave is always obsessely thinking about me loving sweetly and he can’t cope without me he compliments me I’m the one it’s always been me he’s wanted n he has me he’s called me n now he’s with me together and he’s home with me we are so meanto be together we mentaly physically sexually fulfill eachothr and he’s head over heels in love with me for eternity today and forever I am a goddess I am a boss lady n gd loving woman I am the best he can ever connect to and love amen xxx

[@dimitratsimaraki6461]

Trying to focus on sc but I have many traumas , insecurities and madalaptive daydreaming which is the worst :(

[@eddaimes2247]

Hopefully the girl i'm trying make miss me and reach out to me does not see this video.

[@margaretdavies5007]

How does it work if you been talking alo and not met But he gone distant on me..thankyou

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Focus on what you want

[@erinpaton0112]

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@reemaann9123]

❤❤❤

[@billymoodley8760]

What if your person say, it's over between us

[@camishajackson9351]

♥️♥️♥️

[@jaanvibharti4164]

🌼🌸🙏

[@tnoack67]

How does this work when I work with her :(

[@MrTheomighty1]

My SP and I are in separation and have been for 5 weeks now and I can’t keep repeating myself to her what my intentions are about us and she still texts me morning and night and yet still will not come back to me the way I want. It’s so confusing.

[@roxasventus2624]

I’m 7+ months I’m really sick of this now :( having a bad few days. I’ve been affirming morning noon and night in the shower on my walk literally when I remember if I’m having other thoughts I’m not aware of them so don’t really know what to do

[@MrTheomighty1]

@@roxasventus2624 If your person isn’t in touch with you then I’d say go treat yourself go have a pamper day this is what I did yesterday and I felt a whole lot better and take your mind off of your specific person. If they are still intouch with you then always let them reach out first. I agreed with my SP about our break up and it hurts like hell but I will not let her see me down and like I have mentioned I went into no contact and she reaches out all the time, it’s her birthday next Sunday and she turns 50 and in one of her texts says we should meet up soon or even go away for a night. I arranged with her mum to take her to Paris for her 50th as a surprise and yet she still ended it

[@roxasventus2624]

Thank you I have no money for that o wish I could spoil myself. He asked me out for coffee I said yes then he ghosted me I hate reaffirming that and will revise it but it’s been 7 months now and I wish I could afford a coach

[@peacefulpath222]

@@roxasventus2624 take the focus off your SP & put your attention on your self concept & care

[@roxasventus2624]

I see I tried that. I am doing exactly what I was doing before I met him. Not thinking about him wasn’t an option so at least I flipped the wrong thoughts and affirm all day sometimes it’s fun other days it’s frustrating. I definitely improved self concept I made my own affirmations tape and dreaded hearing it turns out I love my voice now before couldn’t stand I’ve completely changed a lot

[@reetabagde]

My husband has cheated on me how to make him come back to me and care for me he was nice earlier how all has changed I am not sure

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

I have lots of. Videos on this lovely and also lots of coaching services you can find the links below the videos. Sending love and hugs to you

[@reetabagde]

@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop thank you Natalie but as I am in India and he has taken all money present I am manifesting marriage and money both I will definitely watch video as ur currency has higher value I will definitely invest once I have that kind of money

[@Ifidreamitidoit3566]

Do you have any tips on how to have good self concept when you don't feel good about your looks anymore? I have aged dramatically in the last few years to the point that I don't even post recent photos. So I struggle to manifest sp with self concept and to lose that sense of not good enough because I don't genuinely believe the affirmations. There's always that insecure voice that says he will want someone younger, more attractive. And especially more naturally attractive etc. Also those worries is he talking to/interested in some other women are still present even though I try affirming he only wants me etc

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Why don’t you schedule a session with me and we can work on your accepting and then creating who you want to be see you as be seen as etc….and your SP! Links are in the description box below Much love to you xx

[@martasarkozi6137]

Even after a year ?

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Yes

[@Blue-gw4ft]

But you cannot force energies, don t you? I like affirmations but i believe you need to let go to can come to you

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

Yes

[@rsderek81]

Natalie, your energy, enthusiasm, optimism & encouragement is truly amazing 🤩 (A little “but”…narrowing our focus to attract a specific person may have short term positive effects. However, if karma/destiny (our higher self) has other plans, then I don’t think we have the “power” to keep this connection together. Am I wrong? Can we truly know that a specific person will bring true romantic fulfillment?Wouldn’t surrendering to the wisdom of the universe be a better guidance? (Please forgive the long winded comment) 🎃🤍

[@el3379]

hi i have a question i do meditations for a while with the intention of attracting a sp to me what i wonder sometimes when i'm busy i suddenly think of her again while you have to let it go. my question is this not good for the process if you think about sp person a few times a day ? if it's not right what am i supposed to do the moment she reappears in my head? thank you

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

You can think about them not sure why you think you can’t. You can think about them with a memory or just a loving thought then get on with your day

[@el3379]

@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop ok i think i confused letting go with not thinking about the person anymore thanks for your reply

[@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop]

I used to think that too. No it’s about letting go of it and just going all in on you and your life and when you think about them just think lovely thoughts…or staying focused on the desire so when you thinking about them affirming or visualising etc…you don’t have any contradictory thoughts xx hope that helps xx