How To Make Him Love You Better | "Be His Peace!"

[@blimptownbaby]

Your videos are never too long you give great advice thank you for 1. being yourself/real in every video 2. your transparency in understanding Virgo men 3. your hard work and consistency I enjoy listening to you speak I actually listen to your videos every night before going to bed because they help me meditate and put in my spirit, the things I need to learn about my Virgo man whom I love very much

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

Wow, thank you!

[@tarra808]

I was never taught how to love or treat a man. At 31 I’m just now learning how to do so... Thank you for this video...

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

Happy to help!

[@MzzzLuciouz]

Ditto😯

[@miel8935]

I watched this video and now I understand my man more, I'm willing to be his peace! Amen!

[@Love87837]

He is dropping gems over here. We need to pay attention ladies.

[@ashaduplessis2772]

I'm finally getting it. I love that virgo men can communicate. I listen to everything from his childhood,to jokes,to his job. I threw a fit because he didn't want to cuddle and felt so bad when he said baby I'm sorry I was grumpy but I was tired and just need to sleep. So tonight I gave him his space and stayed on my side of the bed. He ended up pulling me close. But I still made my way back to my side so he could be comfortable. I don't want to lose him. I've never had a more caring and attentive man. I'm learning but I want to love him properly. And even though I may upset him he's never walked away.

[@hunnybunnyLP]

My Virgo boy friend told me he loves me in the middle of a busy airport as I headed home to Houston. It meant so much to me that he admitted it in public. That tells me he's quite serious about me. I'm a Capricorn lady. Love your videos.

[@sonyaw9671]

Your videos are always on point. My Virgo just lost his mother last week and I was with him when she died. He completely lost it and I was there to wipe his tears. I just helped him finish up funeral arrangements with no help from siblings (that's a whole other issue) and I have felt a major shift in our relationship for the good. His best friend told me to hang in there because he is seeing me in a different light and that me being there to help him is everything. Tell me how to continue to be his peace and support.

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

Honestly just keep doing what you are doing, being there for him, that's like thee most important thing, you are doing everything right imo. He's going thru a lot so just know that he's gonna be up n down with his emotions and may even shut you and family out but just stay the course, he needs you and appreciate you being there.

[@godschild8953]

@@JonathanRWhitfield can you make a video about Virgos and grieving?

[@jahronziebluegordon4728]

GREAT CONTENT. my boyfriend recently told me that he loves me BUT he feels like i don't listen to him, im overbearing and some other things he doesnt like about me. He even offered to go couples counseling so we can understand each other better and have a successful relationship. ,. im on a mission to correct my behaviors. i love him and im learning to love him the way he needs to be loved, not the way ive loved my exes. Your perspective is on point!

[@aml8760]

🙌

[@Indiglorious]

I can do relate to this

[@briellemccord7040]

I’m just now seeing this video, and it speaks volumes. I literally needed this. Because I’m currently pressuring someone, he’s been telling me time and time again to chill out. So I’m hope I’m not too late I’m going to apply these techniques to us and see what happens. Wish me luck

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@daynadecordesign7958]

7 years in & this was refreshing!!!! As a Young Bull Taurus married to an amazingggg Virgo perfectionist 🤤💚 Thanks to your video, I now understand departments where I can be better as a wife... I understand your side chick theory bc in my past I was guilty of side dudes 🙃😅 I get what you were saying. Letting my man go on trips or wherever he needs to be, I give him that space bc I need it too as an introverted queen of my castle. The kisses on the cheek & motivational pep talk I’m good for💯 I’m not too romantic even with me being a real homebody but I keep fresh flowers & Candles lit through the house daily, years supply worth of all his favorite hygiene, cleaning products, vitamin supplements 🥴😂🤪 & a delicious gourmet meal with always a side of fresh fruits is my newly mastered art. I’m VERY practical & I’m known to book him a massage or to get a pedicure bc he works harder than any person I’ve ever known (besides my father) & they both often neglect themselves so busy building empires for the family. My husband so appreciative of my small gifts & a beautifully clean home environment as his sanctuary. The affection part & more boss talk I will work on! What an eye opener & moment of reflection on myself !! Thank you, I am so excited to see what kind of man this will make him 😍❤️

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

Beautiful!

[@naomielou4946]

Thank you for the words of the wise. I as a woman understand more and more about the importance of space, I find myself now craving moments of solitude. My soon to be ex could never understand that. It's encouraging to know I'm not the only one who needs that. In any relationship it's wise to cater to the one you love and show compassion. Being a man in this world is hard but not having peace makes it impossible. Thank you once again.

[@jahronziebluegordon4728]

"WHEN TO BE QUIET"! LMBO That is my challenge! but im getting better. LOL

[@ExoticYoni23]

i like playing and teasing my man tellin him how cute and handsome he is and i attack him with kisses like a mother craddiling him i see him as a child u know that deep rooted part of him i do this because i like to feel codddled and loved and cared for i like to make my man feel cared for❤👣 i love you masculines ik its hard for you out here i do not understand your pain but i will listen i will support and i will love you the good and the bad because you nee to be understood on a deeper level

[@tingxiartisan]

One of your best videos providing very helpful and realistic advices for all women to learn what men really want.

[@springfauna1465]

This was beautiful, Jonathan!!! And I believe this with all my heart and soul!!!

[@blakddiamond]

Thank you. I have asked my BF what does it mean when he says just wants peace and when I asked what does that mean he couldn't explain it. Thank you for sharing so much wisdom. I will use the tools you provided.

[@fatimadavis90]

Ok. So stay away from traumatic situations and don't act crazy🤷‍♀️. This is all about proper attitudes.

[@eclecticdee6890]

“this video is getting too long” me: noooo!!! D:

[@kaequiambao4533]

My Virgo always tells me "you're my place of zen"...thanks for the video

[@shahadesh]

What's your sign ?

[@kaptainkassanis]

Thank you so much for this video specially and your channel in general. I’m a Virgo man, and these videos describe me so well. I’ve been so misunderstood and it led me to doubt myself and think that I have some problems and need to change!!! It was SO painful and now I’m feeling a lot better already. Thank you so much!

[@rushiacampbell9380]

Your right I have a friend , she’s a Taurus and her partner is a Virgo, she told me I need to become he’s peace let him feel comfortable to comes to you as he’s escape . She’s was he’s side chick and now they are engaged. With 2 kids. I’m an Aries and I do love Virgo men out of all the guys I’ve met in my past it’s only been Virgo I’ve only really gotten close to . They’ve taught me to be patient.

[@mariahJanae2424]

I can honestly say my problem is idk when to be quiet 😩 it comes off as me nagging or being yappy. Idk how to back off when he’s frustrated cause I’m steady tryna get my point across. I wanna work on it

[@klaParis2010]

I love this.. it’s really puts things in to a good perspective dating my Virgo.. I’m still trying to learn him to this day.

[@nashonharris7805]

Protect this information for years to come❤

[@ninawillis3594]

I've been holding out for a Virgo friend of mine... I'm an Aries and is constantly learning how he operates... I'm more open/expressive, where he is closed off/distant... He has had some emotionally horrible past relationships and I'm divorced after 20yrs of marriage... We crossed each others paths and lean on each other for support in times of struggle... We are in the friend zone, both scared to open up to anything more... Thank you for opening up the mindset of the Virgo man...

[@AirbnbStyleStories]

25 year old woman looking to improve being more feminine and submissive to my man and not stress him out but be his peace. Thank you for this advice!

[@libralove2471]

Never knew how to be his Peace, 7 yrs of break up and making up is making me search for peace within and respecting him more. I want to be better period especially as a Black Woman... I'm ready to be his peace and pray it's not to late

[@Musicalspecialist]

thank you, brother, for this video, my wife asked me what is my peace and I searched on youtube and your video was there, it brought a lot of clarity cause me as the man didn't know what exactly was my peace. thank you again for this video

[@carolinewanjiku9809]

True,,healing yourself is a huge piece to to a man's peace,,you can't give what you don't have

[@thefd619]

😍😍😍😍😍😍😍 love a good, open & honest man 🎯

[@Nahnie-jb8wo]

Jonathan, thank you. This makes sense and you gave specific details. My fiance' left because he said I faught and stressed him too much. It hurt me because I loved him. He still tries to call and text from time to time but I'm hurt. I thought cooking him dinner and cleaning did it. Please continue to share your wisdom; this is an area women are not taught on. Thank you, again. I will subscribe. 👍💚

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

Thanks for the Love!

[@tswagg504]

I recently left my girlfriend of 4 years for this same reason. I miss her but the fighting, arguing and criticism drains me to the point where I don’t have enough energy to go out into the world and handle my business and work on goals.

[@lisadipasquale6121]

Men are precious. Great video. Thank you!

[@alluringblackB]

I’m so sorry I laughed so hard when he said he cried last week. 😂😂😂🤣🤣 man I needed that love ALL your vids. My Virgo is very similar thank you man 🙏

[@vanessabatyah772]

Your videos are a blessing from God in heaven. Hey i am such a better lady from learning from you. My partner is a virgo rising. And although i keep my past problems in check and never connect them to my virgo my weekness is not knowing how to love or be giving affection to this private secretive unsure love of my life. (Besides my King in Heaven Jesus Christ)

[@mariemarlene7658]

Thank you Jonathan! I finally started my Blog. I will email you the link, Happy New Year!!!!💕🥂

[@mrs.l2851]

New subbie… Great content. Thanks

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@nolarastagoddessroyalty6935]

Very helpful thank you. I have definitely learned a lot!♥️🙏

[@babigirllena]

Lots of changes on the way. I love this video as a reminder of how I should be... it’s true that they start to look around when you are not his peace..

[@cnic77]

Awesome video, right on time, and SPOT ON!!

[@prettycautiousme5527]

Thank you. I watched a few of your videos but this one made me subscribe because even though I knew most of this it felt better hearing it from a mans point of view. Thanks. And I hope to see more videos. Even if it’s just about relationships.

[@shaunnehall2414]

Thank you

[@designjoy5675]

Happy New Year!!!! Look forward to all your new content this year. Keep up the amazing work!!! Have a wonderful year!

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

Happy New Year, thank you!

[@lisarey1129]

Thank you, this video was so helpful.

[@shounettecoad1913]

Peace brother! I wish you the best. May Goddess Isis give you peace n love. Thanks for all you do.

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

✊🏾

[@betty-annberazzah9614]

Love what you do Johnathan.... Thank you. May God bless you. You are helping me soooo much. I have a great Virgo man that I know is very attracted to me . But I didn't understand how to handle him and I am attracted to him too. I needed this. I want to be the best partner to him

[@lynnebradley2555]

Your videos have helped me understand an lot...

[@tammierowe9377]

I found that a virgo man who is overly critical of you is not seeing you as a marital match.

[@kristinhildebrand7560]

I just subscribed to your channel and have watched a few of you videos so far and the information has given me alot of insight. Thank you so much!

[@DandelionSpring96]

I have been a really bad girlfriend and I always seemed to say that he is lazy 😞 he admits it himself he is lazy but I shouldn’t have make him feel that way. Idk, he’s an ex now and he lives far away. I love him and miss him terribly. Idk anymore. I don’t mind losing him anymore as I don’t think I gave him peace back then. Maybe I’m immature. He’s not used to ldr anyways. Idk now 😞😞😞 will he even open up to me anymore if we meet up someday after this pandemic is over? I want to show him how much I’ve changed

[@mightysilentwarria]

I think it's interesting that people are so fullish that they think a sign "Virgo" has anything to do with us personally. It's kind of sad, especially if you're of religious belief that people don't know it goes against God's word.

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

Why are you here? Clearly this content is not for you.

[@mightysilentwarria]

@@JonathanRWhitfield I said nothing against the main message of your video, it had many good points. If you can't handle correction & think you already know everything then you are right, why am I here. Otherwise, as I am a mentor, I'm on KZbin to grow in knowledge & correct information when I hear it. Some KZbin creators use my knowledge, some ignore the message & take it personal. By the way nice video I give thumbs up.

[@latishatolbert1723]

Speak it Jonathan!!!🙌🙌

[@MsquilATL]

This here!!!! Taking notes

[@tiarobinson2242]

I been watching your videos have a say about 2 months now I've been involved or talking to a Vargo old friend of mine from high school we are 40 now I believe he is my soulmate I'm a Leo and everything about our connection is electric she calms me down and I did say for him anyway I find it that I'm very attracted to Virgo men but I have never dated one I'm learning a lot about them through you and I thank you very much does going days without talking and not returning text messages it's cool I understand he has been working on a big project lately and also dealing with some issues with his ex-wife he's been opening up to me told me that he loved it I admire him I am a all is with him and I tried to make him laugh to spiritual we have so much I alike but so different I can't wait for this connection to be more we live long-distance I'm in Baltimore and he's in Texas I got a call the other day and he told me he's coming to see me around August or September that he wants to see me when it comes to town I'm excited but I'm nervous as hell have never been this nervous in my life

[@godschild8953]

Update?

[@sofianavarro4683]

Great video ur helping me alot...thank you...God bless

[@designjoy5675]

Jonathan I love him so much. And I know he loves me. But he has selfish ways. Am I wrong for letting him know my standards and what I won’t accept? Am I being hard or am I letting him know how to love me? I know I am his peace

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

Nope not at all, never be afraid to let these guys or anyone know your standards and you expect, just do it in a loving way!

[@italianprincess8107]

I understand all what you saying but in the end you can be his peace have his back i was all that for my virgo friend but in the end he choosed to be with someone that kept breaking his heart i am not only just a woman i am a orayer woman a woman that speaks life in a man and be his ride and die but as i said virgo need to understand the world dont alwaus revolve around him we have emotions feelings as well i think i gived him 100 he gived me 50 is 100 my brother not 50 /50

[@shaylafon6671]

Not any man but god sent man

[@lynnebradley2555]

Thank you.

[@capricornwoman6726]

I use your videos to understand my Virgo ex. We're still friends... In fact he says I'm his best friend, the smartest person he knows and his peace. He knows he can cry or laugh with me. Maybe once he get rid of the stressors in his personal/work life we can try again...

[@rushiacampbell9380]

Another subscriber 🥰

[@diamondunicorn2421]

Needed to watch this video. Thanks for sharing 💕

[@CheyenneShee]

Hi happy new year for starters i just wanted to say that I enjoy your videos your voice is so soothing and calm you are very informative i wanted to ask if you have any preaching videos about the word or were you thinking of making some? I would love that 😊 anyway that's all I wanted im a new subscriber btw looking forward to more content 😊 all love.

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

Happy New Year, and thank you! I think it's like one or two on my page here down in the early vids, they are old tho, I may upload some in the coming months!

[@CheyenneShee]

@@JonathanRWhitfield ok great i believe i found a few. nice poetry btw!! Can't wait to see more videos :)

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

@@CheyenneShee thanks for the love!

[@CheyenneShee]

@@JonathanRWhitfield no problem at all:)

[@Channyg4lyfe]

Love this😍

[@yanishasabir8416]

Thank you ❤️

[@deeg2725]

how do i be his peace if i get a different version of him every other day ? it’s confusing this capricorn woman 😭

[@beautyinyouministry2030]

There's a man who I'm in communication with presently and he has already vocalized he doesn't want a relationship but when I asked him what did he want from me he said "to be his peace". Now, if he's not interested in committing why would he say that?

[@arnzgel]

Any updates ?

[@beautyinyouministry2030]

@@arnzgel actually yes. I found out that he wasn’t the one for me but not too long after he was removed I saw my husband was there all along. We were having a conversation a couple months ago and he told me out the blue that “I bring him so much peace and joy” he didn’t know how he could feel this way. So I guess it applies to the person that’s suppose to be by your side (: cause if not it’ll all fall.

[@arnzgel]

@@beautyinyouministry2030 woah.... he commited to u finally ?

[@beautyinyouministry2030]

@@arnzgel the guy in my initial comment no haha. we separated ways but there was another man and he ended up being the one who chose me

[@monicadavis2826]

Great content but one question. What if you already do all this and still nothing?

[@thewhatupdoegirl3584]

Yes I do kiss him on the cheek, and say "Thank You" from time to time. He plays it off like he doesn't care but I know he's lying....He's 57, and I'm 49

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

I'm telling you, he loves it!

[@thewhatupdoegirl3584]

@@JonathanRWhitfield 😍😍 Virgo man, and Virgo woman

[@shyamanthasurya]

Jonathan R Whitfield I have been dating Virgo man for two and half year started as attraction now I love him .. we had lots of ups and downs But still together.. he never s day he loves me but I think he does coz he keeps coming back ..my problem is he makes me feel like I’m the only one but he has other woman also in his life Since nothing committed is there I can’t ask him but when he touches me or he is with me I know he has it for me I get confused Wether he is making other woman feel the same way

[@vanessaharris6341]

Amen!

[@babigirllena]

Facts

[@southerngurl.speaks4901]

Good Message you should redo ...

[@ii-yu8rg]

Awesome video!

[@darryljames1987]

if a Virgo says "thank you" alot to me, is that his way of saying "I love you?"

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

I would say he's show you that he really cares but "I love you" is another realm

[@darryljames1987]

@@JonathanRWhitfield thank you so much for taking the time to reply. I'm grateful for your insight!

[@chasesidora]

tried to watch this video and couldn’t make it 5 minutes. I love your content but I’m sick of the games virgos play. they are childish and have an unwarranted god complex and they don’t give peace but expect others to bow down to them. they don’t want partners they want doormats and it’s annoying

[@blackmagic7843]

❤️❤️

[@kidversetv3462]

Are you supposed to be his peace of he is a cheater?

[@sisterlenalove5782]

Are you married?

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

Married to my passion

[@sisterlenalove5782]

Ok...nothing wrong with that...

[@itscesarbtch3451]

I only subbed cuz he’s hot I didn’t even watch the vid idk what it’s about

[@theprototype907]

LAWD HAVE MERCY 🙌🏾🥹 THANK YOU