How to Make People Listen to You When You're Speaking

[@erinsackey]

I think speaking truthfully is synonymous with speaking authentically and speaking honestly. One can't speak truthfully if one is not honest. One can't speak honestly if one is not authentic or truthful. In any case, I thank you sincerely for your excellent practical video tutorials.

[@emmanueludofia1425]

I don’t think so she actually distinguished it and it actually makes sense, we can actually speak the truth and not live it ourselves

[@erinsackey]

@@emmanueludofia1425 Speaking truthfully is different from 'speaking the truth.' A liar can 'speak the truth' for fear of penal consequences but is not truthful in her dealings with others.

[@emmanueludofia1425]

Maybe it’s high time to learn from her perspective that speaking truthfully literally means speaking the truth

[@erinsackey]

As you rightly stated, that is her perspective; but that is not the universal perspective. I teach philosophy of ethics and social anthropology at the graduate level, and deal with these issues all the time. Truth, honesty, authenticity, sincerity, integrity, loyalty, etc; all these are known as sapiential or universal virtues and do not correspond to the relative perspective you're ascribing to. Perhaps, you it might benefit you to do some more reading on this, rather than just buying in into a particular perspective.

[@gsyunghans9058]

“Lean in” and “hold the space.” I will do this!!

[@Californiansurfer]

Grace , thank you. Emotions are everything. California 🇲🇽🇯🇵🇺🇸🏄🏽‍♂️🏄🏽‍♂️🌊🌊

[@switchurnotions]

True, people communicate emotionally. However, things that are normally done does not have to be mimicked. Just be honest and Integrial.

[@extraudoknight]

I expected subtle and commanding respect ideas, but it seems I got better than I "wanted", I got caring and reasonable advice. Thanks

[@DrGraceLee]

Excellent, I'm so glad to hear that you got better than you "wanted". Thank you for your thoughtful comment, and I hope that you continue receiving a positive experience from all of my videos.

[@jjblack2830]

Honestly. Thank you so much Grace lee for your teaching in how to speak confidently to my coworkers..

[@soussitalabelle2394]

My ears are very sensitive .I love your warm voice and the way you speak .your accent and above all the meaning n every word I like you so much and I am happy to follow you thanks Mme LEE

[@rico.rebenga]

I hit the like button before the video starts playing! Thank you Dr. Lee

[@FB-jr8ld]

Excellent information. My key take away the clarity of being truthful and honest. Thanks. 🌸

[@Mr.haplogroupLfromArabland]

great stuff! what if you speak to narcissistic individuals that would tear you to pieces if you speak the truth! Any tips?

[@tanerozdes5311]

To Speak truthful , authentically, honestly , emotionally 👉 Makes you good speaker

[@musubikamary5613]

Thanks DR LEE, l have to speak honestly

[@MohamedDaoud-ds1ns]

I am inspiring actually Dr very enjoyable tips,i am being attracted by your authentiy.

[@user-uu1ph9mk6p]

All I know is you are awesome Dr. Grace . Unbelievable how you have been blessed with to bring together this teaching strategy that is impactful and resonate as you do often say. Be a Blessing and Be Blessed!

[@chinemeremokpara6896]

Love this... this is so true, thanks a whole lot

[@DrGraceLee]

I appreciate you, Sylvia. Welcome to my channel.

[@Samuel-nk9vc]

Thank you!

[@LeviPoblacion]

Love your channel. Insightful, progressive, honest and edifying instructive videos. What we all need in life.

[@mamathani-je6142]

Thank you so much for this.

[@emmanueludofia1425]

Thank you so much I learnt a lot all 4 points are great and I am going to focus on speaking honestly.

[@DrGraceLee]

I'm very glad to hear that my speaking points are helpful for you. Let me know how it goes!

[@woonsarah1760]

The truth is most people become defensive when they are being told the truth. You need a skill to tell the truth so it's more acceptable and less likely to trigger an heated argument. My niece just followed your advice blindly and ended with a heated argument with her mum and now refused to go home after she told her mum the truth and just be herself authentically with an attitude.

[@vkhor927]

Some people do not want to listen because they don’t like you or don’t feel good about themselves and it is their way of devaluing

[@JefferyMcLamb]

Very good

[@Zxxdz]

TYSM

[@athanasiostsinas5658]

Amazing! Well done!

[@JesusChristPreaching]

That's excellent!

[@raynat-zoe6215]

Awesome content . Do you offer coaching . I love your content !

[@raynat-zoe6215]

Ok I clearly jumped the gun … I will follow the link then 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@joycecaringal6179]

I like you so much Dr. Grace Lee... Thanks to all your videos. It makes a LOT of sense

[@michellerose9966]

This is insightful!

[@lizedion1393]

GOOD VIDEO.

[@khdaily-hk5fi]

thanks

[@EnglishWind]

I really like the content and I use your videos to enhance confidence. I'm a teacher and I watch selected speakers to improve my language specially the flow. I saw the channel the other day and found the gravity I am searching for. One thing beyond the topic, I don't get why your background is moving slowly to and fro. Is it done on purpose to make it a bit dynamic or some other. It causes no harm it makes things natural.

[@DrGraceLee]

You have a good eye for visual details! My recording team takes care of the visuals associated with filming. The camera is hand held, not on a tripod.

[@EnglishWind]

@@DrGraceLee Thanks a lot for your kind consideration. I never expected such a beautiful detailed answer. Thanks.

[@DrGraceLee]

@@EnglishWind my pleasure, and I'm grateful to hear that you are enjoying my content. I'd love to hear more about what you mean when you said you found the gravity you are searching for.

[@EnglishWind]

@@DrGraceLee I'll send you a real cross section of what I found. May be the facets I see would be different in a way. One reason must have been, I"m a teacher of biology, I have done my masters of education and a teacher trainer. As you connect language with human brain and evolution it reflects reality. That is science. That is one part of the story. The other is your versatility, how you see the learning goes and your wonderful flow adorned with very words and ideas relevant. I'll send you the real story taking some time as I'm away from home for the time being.

[@leekwangmin2219]

Hi Dr. Grace! I'm a recent follower and I super love your videos!! Really helpful. Im interested to apply on your program. But I'm currently in the Philippines. Will I be able to avail it as well? Thank you. All the best!

[@DrGraceLee]

Welcome to my channel! I'm glad to hear that you are enjoying my videos. Absolutely, you will be able to access my program from the Philippines. In fact, I have students from all around the world! Looking forward to welcoming you into the program.

[@leekwangmin2219]

@@DrGraceLee Hello Dr. Grace. Thank you for your reply. May I know how can I pay for the program if I'm currently in the Ph? I really would like to avail this but my only problem would be the mode of payment. Thank you.

[@edcelladiona7145]

Great content.

[@katehagno1184]

I found hairdresser and GP not listening, it's annoying. Do you have similar experiences?

[@leliagreenslade6345]

In other words you’re saying, ‘be real’

[@heavymeddle28]

"look, do you want to hear what I have to say"? If they say yes but doesn't listen, I'll walk away. Don't care who it is. My boss, Co workers family or anyone... Tough luck

[@ParisianStreets]

How to regain trust once lost to an Exec.?

[@DrGraceLee]

It starts with going back to how and why trust was lost from their perspective. Then setting the intention to achieve a common desirable outcome for the relationship. It may involve setting certain boundaries and expectations, as well as goalposts to check in for progress.

[@OO_sunflower_OO]

I usually just start pretending to get a stroke and then they listen lol

[@rosenjoroge9373]

Unfortunately most people love listening to untruthful, inauthentic, dishonest people.

[@DrGraceLee]

That's why it's even more important that you get your message of truth out there!

[@edidiongotong1100]

Great job, be my mentor MMa

[@eddyg1215]

Tell that to my wife

[@soussitalabelle2394]

My ears are very sensitive .I love your warm voice and the way you speak .your accent and above all the meaning n every word I like you so much and I am happy to follow you thanks Mme LEE

[@DrGraceLee]

Wow, thank you for your thoughtful comment! I'm so grateful to have you here, and I look forward to seeing you in my upcoming videos