How to Make Women Respect You

[@alicebythepalm_he]

Key moments: 01:19 Stand Firm 07:03 Hold onto Your Word 09:32 Get Things Done 10:41 Take Initiative 12:17 Visions 15:19 Take Risks 17:27 Lead Other Men 19:32 Be Forgiving 21:10 Self-control 24:51 Be Privileged 28:05 High Self-esteem 29:30 Embrace Solitude 30:03 Respect Her 31:11 Be Protective 32:12 Make Eye Contact

[@Rileyed]

I’ll ask you…..what is the motive in your heart when you write that your grandfather is an apostle? And why do you call yourself a cult leader. It’s def a red flag for anyone with discernment. Though I enjoy your content. What your grandfather was means zero in the kingdom of heaven.

[@jeusmarcomascarina4102]

I think what you trying to say know your own identity. Don't let others change your perspective because of trend, don't be ignorant and learn to listen, and be a person would able to lead in good situation. But as 21 man, I should not pick a woman that I need to disagree with and that's all. That is your point in the first place to disagree with her in the first place. Why? women don't really like men that they control, they also like try to control a strong disagreeable man. I see that in many stories that they pick to listen.

[@jayronn.christian]

Disagreeing With Alice is a paradox. Because she already said that to make a woman respect you is by disagreeing with the woman. But disagreeing with Alice means you agree with her. Because you're doing exactly what she told us in the video. But I still disagree with you 🤨

[@jeusmarcomascarina4102]

@@jayronn.christian you should not play by rules. Make your own rules simply.

[@u2baccount67]

@@jayronn.christianhaha

[@stevelopez715]

My Dad taught me at 7yrs old THE FURTHER A MANS ACTIONS ARE SEPARATED FROM HIS WORDS THE LESS OF A MAN HE BECOMES

[@TheAnalyst_]

so my dads gay lol

[@geebee8989]

Then modern woman aren't woman.

[@CharlieChoco-n7s]

One thing you forgot to mention is that most women will never apologize. Even when they know they're wrong, so "bringing the problem to the table" will definitely lead to an irrational, emotionally driven argument.. now what? And if my words are too valuable to waste, then I'm not even gonna bother going down that road.

[@stevelopez715]

Then seek your Heavenly Father’s Wisdom Jn.14:26, 1Jn.2:27 Make an appointment set a date n time ask n just listen with your hearts ear HEART which is the 3 letters n the middle of your HEART

[@PhoneNHe]

Salute to your father, mate. Sending respect to him.

[@ModernDatingMastery]

*Respect is earned through consistency and self-assurance, not by trying to impress or seek validation.*

[@SantiagoVeraLoor]

Facts

[@siamsarkar5614]

Facts

[@Moedow]

While respect is earned, everyone should have a basic level of respect towards everyone. In this case, there is not even a basic level of respect there.

[@doncarloquita4759]

@@Moedow you mean civility?

[@comkioxd]

@@Moedow That's called having common courtesy

[@SaintNektarios]

I've been married 16 years. I can tell the boys and men watching this that they need to take this woman's advice seriously. I am guilty of being the nice guy who is afraid of disagreement and I let my wife walk all over me. My wife has no respect for me. The video is pure gold. I wish I would have heard this advice before I got married. A man need to get right with God and learn to obey him so he can learn to properly lead a woman and children.

[@Rileyed]

It’s one of the main themes in the Bible. Crazy how we miss it.

[@JohnJames-xj7df]

You don't miss it , jus everything around you is pushing the wrong way ​@Rileyed

[@geebee8989]

You lost the moment you decided to get a legal contract given her power over you through the family courts enforce by the government.

[@Rileyed]

@@JohnJames-xj7df I didn’t notice it much when I was younger and def made woman an idol. Not as far as some went. But Adam; Sampson; Abraham and other stories show men giving up God or his plan to please a woman. Not to mention proverbs. Though the woman also represents false religion. Some don’t know that either. That women = false religion; fornicating/drunk = false doctrines; adultery = worshipping idols. So obvious now that I see.

[@Rileyed]

@@geebee8989 I wonder why we don’t just do covenants like we do with friends? We have lost the wisdom of covenant. The word says if we give mercy and are sincere the bond of covenant is kept by grace. We break mercy or truth and the connection is lost and the grace is gone…until we repent. So no matter what contract we sign. We don’t keep mercy and sincerity/vulnerability……the covenant is broken. This is cause of 100% of relational issues. No love without 2 people and God. And many wedding oaths we can’t keep. Condemning us. Satan did a good job.

[@Michael_RareZebra]

The biggest simp saying is “Happy Wife, Happy Life”

[@jorgerangel2116]

It's weird how a relationship's success solely relies on the women being happy, even if it comes at the cost of the man. Unless this sentiment changes there will be no further progress in relationships... Good comment BTW

[@Michael_RareZebra]

@@jorgerangel2116 It’s sad because in western society (especially in America) it’s a saying we grow up hearing. Good men sacrifice a lot to make their mate happy but it’s never enough unless the woman is 100% “happy” all the time.

[@raph3054]

Been told that “Happy wife, happy life” saying by couples of all ages. It always felt wrong to me. It felt specifically dishonest, to everyone involved. Difficult to articulate but I don’t care to be dishonest for the sake of appeasement. Dunno if I state it well enough.

[@jorgerangel2116]

@@raph3054 Compromising the mental well being of one side of the relationship for the happiness of the other is an extremely toxic way of co existing. No wonder relationships don't tend to work out. It just breeds uncomformity and distrust to a certain extent. Wish this mode of thinking changed for the better but seeing how society favors women's happiness I doubt it'll ever happen 😢

[@jorgerangel2116]

@@Michael_RareZebra The fact that we are taught that from such an early age is astonishing to me. What about our happiness? Sure if women are happy in a relationship that's all good, but it should be reciprocal not one-sided. No one takes into consideration how men feel or the sacrifices (like you mentioned) made to achieve said happiness. No wonder people choose to remain single. It's 100 times better than have to deal with all that...

[@Bibleinformationandhelp]

A good way to make a woman respect you is by walking away. Learn to walk away when she isn't treating you correctly.

[@kant.68]

We gotta mean what we say and say what we mean. Even if that means being alone,

[@exousia2002]

You speak truth. It’s the same for any business negotiation as well. Your biggest power is the ability to walk away. If you set boundaries, you have to be willing to walk if they keep stepping over.

[@Bibleinformationandhelp]

@@exousia2002 To be quite honest, if some men are responsible for the behavior of some women. If many men were not so sex craved, many women wouldn't behave as they do. This hookup culture is what causing the imbalance.

[@con2mms2000]

She'll try to victimize herself but you keep going. She'll understand the message. And if she doesn't, you discard her immediately. It's rough but it is what it is.

[@Bibleinformationandhelp]

@@con2mms2000 I believe the behavior we are referring to is narcissism. You teach a narcissist with actions, not words. It really depends on how deep they are into narcissism. Maybe words can reach them at times. Many narcissists have low self-esteem. Instead of showing people their low self-esteem, they show their false personalities. A masquerade. Their mask often slips and you may see some of their vulnerabilities. Instead of hiding who you are, accept who you are and work on your flaws. This is how you can heal and become better.

[@michaelthompson5252]

It is not just about disageeing. It is about being correct. If you are correct and you know it, that should be the only reason to disagree.

[@chenugent]

Exactly, to defend the truth

[@DanTheManGruen]

Basically be wiser than she is.

[@fugitivemoses7515]

Wat if u aren't? Or u just don't marry women that are wiser than u?​@@DanTheManGruen

[@Sonny-f2f]

It's not even about being correct.It's about not being afraid to disagree with her.There's a difference if you're not afraid to disagree with her.Then you will speak your truth naturally, as it comes to you.Without trying to quote unquote , correct yourself and speak the Words that sound nice instead of the words that are true to yourself.Speak the treat in love

[@fugitivemoses7515]

@@Sonny-f2f Wat if she's wiser than u and is correct most times? Do u just disagree to maintain your status?

[@PastorJoshPan]

That’s a strong and encouraging message! I really appreciate how you’re standing firm in the truth, even when it’s unpopular. It’s true-men in this day and age have their own set of challenges, especially when it comes to leadership in the family. I like how you tied in patience, highlighting how God is patient with us and how we, in turn, are called to reflect that patience. You’re absolutely right in not being a doormat, but rather taking the role of educating and leading your wife from a place of love and with God’s wisdom. It’s a journey, but it’s one that’s so worth it when grounded in God's truth.

[@breeve12]

I’m really liking your videos. I’m not traditionally religious but you’re giving me a lot to think about. Thanks!

[@Qaldar]

That’s awesome. Giving thoughts to our ways is wise, and wisdom is supreme. Religion creates bondage which is opposite of the freedom Jesus Christ taught us. All religion has man-made doctrine and traditions which are by design. These faults deter people from the truth. My advice is to seek truth and wisdom, and pray for it before reading Scripture. Stick to the Word of God as your primary source and you will know truth.

[@ArthurAsPedras]

Thank God we still have sane women in the world.

[@Pandainapandasuit]

No.

[@ArthurAsPedras]

@@Pandainapandasuit wtf yes

[@bananaborealis9515]

a relief indeed.

[@dualia-s74m]

Haha yes. Then the next day she becomes a monster:(

[@kokoyaro]

One correction on 18:08 Mentally healthy men don't judge how desirable a woman is based on other men's like/pursuit of her, otherwise we as men would blindly think prostitutes, OFers and IG 304s are desirable just because they have many male followers. But that's not the case. On the contrary, the less she is exposed, known, and/or sort after by other men, the more desirable she is. It is only women who can be swayed to think a man is desirable just because other women find him attractive

[@netnomad47]

You're right men and women are wired differently. Women want men who are wanted by other women. Men prefer a woman who is hidden, special, and exclusive to only themselves. When a girl gives attention or her body to multiple men it's an automatic turn off.

[@stephenkolostyak4087]

"It is only women who can be swayed to think a man is desirable just because other women find him attractive" Men will do the same thing if they are raised under the same pretense of being measured by what they have instead of who they are. Why do you think celebrity is such a big thing?

[@DionLYA]

@@stephenkolostyak4087 Not exactly. Celebrities receive a lot of attention regardless of their gender. In fact, it's worst for females because men do not want their female celebrity crush to be in a relationship. Just look at what happened to the Weather News Reporter girl when fans found out she was in a relationship. Another reason is that men like to fantasize that their female crush celebrity doesn't have anyone. So the lesser followers or fans she has, the more desirable she is in the man's eyes, because it means lesser competition.

[@kokoyaro]

​@@stephenkolostyak4087 I've always regarded celebrity fandom as a mental illness, especially in adult males. Women and children can get a pass depending on their level of obsession with the so-called celebrity, because it is in their instinctive nature to look up to and/or follow something/someone. A man should not have the right to be that gullible/docile

[@kokoyaro]

@stephenkolostyak4087 I've always regarded celebrity fandom as a mental illness, especially in adult males. Women and children can get a pass depending on their level of obsession with the so-called celebrity, because it is in their instinctive nature to pedestalize and/or follow a fellow human being for how it feels. Men only adopted that behavior fairly recently. A man should never have the right to be that gullible/docile

[@Sx-xy2zi]

"at the moment you offend them, later on they respect you"

[@rdmytuser6695]

totally not in my experiences

[@psianime]

Gents, remember that if she wants a traditional man you must first answer the question if she is a traditional woman in the first place to deserve such treatment.

[@meetprakasit1447]

You brought an important point. Don't agree with her on everything, but a healthy discussion and readiness to admit that I am wrong are also crucial.

[@WtfReal]

While I appreciate this video. I hate how it’s always how a man should act for women but never how women should act for men

[@lifeonamarble961]

I applaud you sir! Totally agree. All societies do this now and it is disgusting. Adults should be treated as adults otherwise you have children. Women are treated as spoiled children often today. Respect is earned from both parties.

[@celestialsoldier622]

She already made a video about how women should act and submit.

[@hythlodaeus5818]

Agreed 100%. I don't even date anymore. I grew extremely tired of having to essentially be "on" all the time, and have to constantly keep up this weird delusional image of what a guy should be in her head. That is a lot of effort, and like you said, effort in the name of keeping a woman around who isn't all that great anyway. The only thing most women bring to the table these days is sex, which is not nearly as important as intimacy with a good/quality person.

[@RandomCaliforniaAdventure]

It tend to be society's norm because many weak men in general let this happen in addition to the "strong positive moment of feminism run amock". Anytime the spotlight is turned around towards the women, they will defend themselves tooth and nail and any actions on their part will be played down as much as possible to the point where it looks as if the men was still the problem.

[@lucasrodrigues9766]

​@@hythlodaeus5818but if the woman brings only sex to the table, it's the man's fault. Most guys just care about sex and forget to assess if the woman has other things to offer.

[@ShelbyLee-dg5yh]

Your video made me reflect my dad. My dad failed the tips that you mentioned ultimate lead to a miserable family. I am a 20years old single male from China. Your video inspired me and show me the direction,i appreciate.And I will never let the tragedy happen again

[@patbingsuyaa]

Binging your content this week. Glad to see something new

[@tomasroosguerra8338]

I'm from Sweden and sis...this was really powerful, thank you.

[@JoseVargas-bj1wd]

Such a wise young woman! This is very good advice.

[@Mystic_Paths]

People respect authenticity. Show up as your true self, not someone pretending to meet expectations. When you're genuine, it builds trust and creates space for mutual respect.

[@FencingMessiah]

No they don't. Depending on what authenticity looks like

[@Remember-Death]

@@FencingMessiah Exactly. All "authenticity" isn't created (or respected) equally. I had an *authentic* co-worker: She was a hardcore feminist, had pink hair, a septum piercing, weighed +300 lbs, and rarely showered. She STANK! This was genuinely who she was, an NO ONE respected her.

[@billylee7398]

Nah f all dis man. Some of us just wanna live simple. Oh you must do this you must that. Nah man.

[@BlazeEst]

This is low iq gas lighting generalizing masses is always comical

[@tidesmoon]

as a women, i fully agree with you. the woman in the video seems to be trying to appeal to the male-gaze (telling men exactly what they want to hear and looking cute while doing so). but her advice itself is pretty much useless (of course there are some parts i would agree with, but you’ll find “something accurate” in any- and everything you’re listening to online). men (and women) should stay true to themselves and look for a partner that is suitable to them. no one should be with someone they have to desperately manipulate or use some kind of “tactic” in order to receive respect. respect is one of the most basic foundations of a relationship… if it is not there, both parties should separate. (sorry for any grammarly mistakes, my english is not so good)

[@morkeiichi3239]

This is the most factual and self-aware breakdown of basic relationship psychology I’ve seen. These are all ideals I’ve always taken into relationships and I p much never get into huge arguments or get broken up with, etc. really incisive advice

[@leathergrasshopper]

Your delivery is smooth and bright, proper and direct. Thanks for this.

[@peterkimani3364]

You are very Beautiful.

[@pur3o3end]

This video is very wise and the Holy Spirit has His hand on it. Keep spreading the truth, Alice.

[@Mavrick-5]

I just love how you talk softly with so much love , you are doing this so willingly and you are really helping me with your teachings about how to live my life. Love you a lot Alice❤

[@rhythmdroid]

All that was sincere and nice to read. Except the last part. Don’t love a stranger on the internet making videos for thousands of people. Don’t cheapen that word. You can admire her, but you don’t love her. Don’t love a woman who doesn’t know who you are bro.

[@kato2395]

​@@rhythmdroid preach brother preach, love is not a cheap word to say, don't say it willy nilly. Especially to E-girls (good or bad ones)

[@Mavrick-5]

@@rhythmdroid I think you got confused, I didn’t say I was in love with her. Jesus said in John 13:34-35 New International Version 34 “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. 35 By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.” Did Jesus say not to love someone because they’re a stranger? do I follow you or Jesus?

[@KBowWow75]

Only 8k subs, but you are like a gem. A woman who knows how to speak articulately, knows the Bible, and can project wisdom through deep conversation. Alas it's a rare thing in people these days. I'm 33 and never found a woman like that in the offline world.

[@R.J.Claravall]

Just stumbled on this while choosing video while working out, and you are beyond your years, keep it up, sister.

[@Gospelhandler233]

man, how is this young woman so wise? subscribed!

[@O.G.LIL-MAN]

not really, all this information is available all over YT in the red pill spaces...dont be a simp

[@RealLactoseTolerant]

@@O.G.LIL-MAN Yeah but most redpill gurus aren't Christian or traditional, even if they claim to be. They're just degenerates.

[@beejr6800]

See know the word of God

[@k1ckass748]

@@O.G.LIL-MAN 🤣🤣🤣

[@roguedoge2479]

Funny how a soft voice and the right articulation can make anything sound as wisdom to the man with no spiritual discernment. Lies are usually the sweetest; it's the bitter fruit that will save you. But once you've tossed it in your mouth for a bit; you've never tasted anything like it anywhere else in this world, and there is no worthy substitute. Every day, I ask the Lord to grace me with more; Gods Holy truth. Without it, we are lost and deceived.

[@MrViper2182]

Thanks!

[@JayB-JayB]

I completely DISAGREE with you Alice!!!!😉.... and i STAND FIRM on that sentiment!😅 ❤

[@Jonbovi69]

Now she respects you 😂

[@lokemmslokemms4294]

@@Jonbovi69 lol

[@newyorktravelvideos]

Fishing for respect? Pathetic.

[@ApexHumanity]

This is brilliant! It’s a woman’s perspective on what a godly man looks like. She has excellent points and a lot of men should take notes.

[@Seroskill36]

This video is gold. I did grow up pretty much alone without guidance. It took me a decade to find this things out by trail and error. This video is straight up facts. I can agree with most of the things

[@theadmiral4625]

Ditto

[@Damesanglante]

That's why you fall prey for these religious snakeoil salesmen.

[@stevenlee9064]

First time seeing you Alice. Love your clarity, ability to see through one’s own bs and that of culture. Wise beyond your years.

[@DionLYA]

"Get Things Done" - No wonder the girl in my project group got angry when I decide to plan things together. She said, "I want things to be already planned out. I don't want to have to plan things during the discussion." Funny though, because our job in the team is to plan things together 🤦

[@Vaibhavgangwar2mm]

i hope not every girls/women are like that , i mean don't mind taking responsibility and getting things done but i feel everyone deserve some breather

[@DionLYA]

@@Vaibhavgangwar2mm you're right, not every girl is like that. Thankfully, the other girl in my team was extremely cooperative and planned things with me, while this petty girl was just mostly quiet in the background, unwilling to contribute anything.

[@coolhandluke1503]

​@@DionLYAbeing active and to conceive is a masculine trait

[@billylee7398]

Man... girls don't know what heel dey want. And yet they want all dese damn drama. There like billions of people in this world. They expect billion to be leaders and sheet.

[@GoWithJesus]

I love how you rooted that message in keeping the relationships Rooted in Truth.

[@booksofblues]

Interesting, and very impressive Alice. These are the truths that I learned by going through tons of relationships (bads and goods, with of course struggles) in my 20s, and now I'm in 30s with much clear understandings. Relationships are now the things I usually don't get suffered from as I've got closer to the fundamentals of women's psychology. You look very young (at least compared to me haha), and surprisingly you know all of these stuff-- by being able to speak with clear words. Go Alice!

[@marvinollison3]

Thank you so much you are a genius this is what I'm doing with right now my wife says that she wanted divorbecause my son but I think it's more tools than that but no matter what they say about you you keep going to go to work❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ It takes a lot to come out and be totally honest like you again

[@graveaccent3539]

Thank you for your thoughtful advice-it truly makes a lot of sense to me. I’ve been single my entire life, and I have to admit, I often feel uneasy when it comes to interacting with women. I’m afraid of potential arguments or conflicts, so I mostly stick to talking with men in my daily life. I hesitate to approach conversations with women because I fear it might disrupt my sense of peace.

[@D1sc0rd-]

As a woman I feel the same way 😅 We tend to be better at healing social conflict, but that sounds paradoxical when I think about how dramatic and conflict driven so many women are. In my view it is not a paradox, it’s a symptom of many women’s suffering femininity. Men have an easier time letting things go, but sometimes that is no good because true forgiveness is difficult and shoving anger to the back of your mind isn’t the same as forgiving. Women have a harder time letting things go, that can either be good or bad. Women have an affinity for drama, social conflict, again can either be good or bad. In one sense it could mean a woman has a good grasp of drama. When dealing with two fighting friends she can pinpoint what exactly is making the conflict take root. She won’t consider the matter settled and let go of those roots until they are uprooted. After that is done, reconciliation can begin. In another sense, it could mean a woman likes drama. Kinda like how I can only enjoy a video game if it’s hard, but that’s harmless. Regardless of harm, it fun to stir up social conflict because it is a realm she is familiar with, that’s her game. Honestly I don’t know what advice to give you in terms of taking that leap… maybe it would help if you knew the kind of woman who wouldn’t break your peace would probably be just as wary (about her behavior) talking to you as you are to her haha. I know I would be afraid of making a man uncomfortable, or saying something autistically rude, if he mustered the courage to approach me cold turkey.

[@potatospartan6056]

Same bro, I'm 26. Do you by chance have problems with pron? Or maybe it's more of a symptom of not knowing who you are and what you stand for that you're not willing to stand your ground.

[@kant.68]

Advice: talk to them like you do with your male friends and do not try to hit on them directly, treat them like normal people. First they must feel comfortable with you, the things get easier

[@LaborHours]

Sexual attraction is the problem. Stop viewing them through the lens of sexuality and instead pretend they are your sisters with whom you have every right to converse. Do not allow any sexual tension to control you, it will sabotage you every time. And no "flirting" behavior that the ridiculous culture teaches, this immature non-sense is self defeating.

[@Damesanglante]

@@D1sc0rd- Men really don't have an easier time letting things go. It's the opposite. Women sleep with a new guy the day after a breakup without looking back while many men commit ''suicide'', never get in couple again or stay in depression all their life.

[@joelhusted]

This is actually good advice that comes from a genuine place

[@jungsoolee1290]

Alice, you are so wonderful. It is so encouraging to see someone who simply finds truth from the Bible. I hope more women try to set their standards from His will and His words not from civil law or the so called constitution or public education or their friends, etc. God bless you.

[@lordofillusions]

You are beautiful to my eyes, and your words contain a lot of wisdom. I'm grateful for finding your channel randomly, Alice. Please, continue. Entertainment is fine, but speaking your truth holds my attention just fine.

[@_quixote]

Man this is too complicated, now I don’t feel so bad about being single

[@hythlodaeus5818]

You need to be a superman who handles everything right if you want to maintain attraction from a woman who isn't graceful or competent in any similar way. You need to give 110% for a woman who has had at least 10-20 sexual partners and thinks it's a privilege to date her. It's tiresome. No thanks.

[@aetherland1883]

this gynocratic world forces sub5 males to be like that

[@aetherland1883]

@@hythlodaeus5818 yes, this is the unspoken issue and blunt truth, normies keep pretending as if it was a male problem when in reality most of them haven't even experienced their first kiss and are mistreated by everyone

[@aqilismm]

yeah...

[@hakooplayplay3212]

All of this is not for getting a woman. If your ultimate goal is to get a woman - you already lost. Find a high purpose in life and serve it. Then you will see woman who want to join you on your journey

[@copyninja8756]

Here, I'll summarize for you. - Don't worry about needing their respect.

[@anonyme8728]

great teaching! what spoke to me the most was when you talked about identity and performance. However I read what you wrote on substack but the fact that you talked about it that way reminded me that I have to remember who I am. I have not accomplished great things in my life at all, I have even always been with the mentality of a weak person who did not know himself and who always hid behind his parents to be protected even until the age of 17. But my mentality must be that of who I am in Christ: I am the brother of Jesus and the son of God the Father, and I am loved by the Holy Spirit who is like a Mother to me! I must, like all of us, have the mentality of a King and Queen! I pray for this in the Name of Jesus Christ. Amen

[@Eidenbites]

22:10 I wrote this down to read and remember so I can live by. This is soo beautiful. We need more woman like you

[@Wolfram47]

yeah I found that children and women *need* to test men so that they know where the ‘walls’ are, so that they can feel safe, within those walls. If you agree or say yes to everything she says (agreeing with her every whim, like a shifting sand), it’s as you say Alice, she wont feel safe, she wont respect you, nor will she want to be in or start a relationship with someone she can’t trust and lean on, like a wall/Rock. In the same way that Christ is to the Church.

[@Rileyed]

Women are adults, if they are running tests they are manipulative and we should move on. Or they will never grow up. Don’t do people favors by allowing them to stay children.

[@alicebythepalm_he]

Well said!

[@LukeM-y4p]

In addition to women and children you can also add pets that require training, such as dogs and cats. They need to know their boundaries of acceptable and not acceptable behavior.

[@tylerdd4]

Your introspection with this is impressive. Clearly super bright - you speak like a leader yourself.

[@Remember-Death]

It's videos like this, that make me love the internet. 10/10.

[@Montenegro651]

This lady lures me in with her cuteness and conviction. 33 minutes later I realize that I’d just sat through a sermon. Well done madam, well done 👏

[@austinnguyen9107]

Was it worth it tho?

[@kenjiclaudio2172]

I’ve seen Christian men misinterpret this colloquial concept of adding disagreeableness into their behavior for the sake of being disagreeable as a means to attract women, or masking “nice guy” traits with bad boy ones. Then once they get the girl they’re now at a place of not actually doing the deep work of building legacy, working hard, taking risk. All this effort was to just mask a disagreeable demeanor to hook a woman only to be left with no character to back up worthiness of a woman to actually follow them. Character needs to be built to be righteously disagreeable, and that is earned through trials and tribulations not just something one can mask.

[@slick_Ric]

very well said. it's a whole mindset and way of living as a man of God, grounded in Him alone, not a simple bandaid to mask one behavior

[@praxis22]

It means growing a spine, putting up with it. Not trying to fix it.

[@Dookie55555]

The algorithm recommended this to me, and I initially started to watch out of simple curiosity. And then I watched the entire thing. This video is beyond the scope of how to make women respect you. This is a master class on how to be a man. Thank you, I did not know how much I needed this.

[@okami4683]

Taught by a woman! lol

[@sacred3995]

Two things i wanna mention here 1) these things should be done not because you want your partner to be attracted to you but that self respect, assertiveness, leadership, responsibllity are in general good qualities that are good to have and will make you proud of yourself 2) if someone's wife or girlfriend doesnt wanna have sex with them its entirely possible that the reasons for it are different from what you mentioned, just because your partner doesnt wanna have sex with you it doesnt always mean that you are not good enough, these issues can be discussed

[@Laurassausallejamene]

Nah, wife/GF who doesn’t want to have sex are probably with jamal. So yeah, dump em

[@lucasrodrigues9766]

Some medicines can make women's libdo god down, making her not want to have sex

[@eltigreriver3108]

2 пункт это лишь опрадвание своей низкораноговости такого мужчины, поэтому обычно у него проблемы с любыми женщинами и секс только за деньги или подарки.

[@JY601]

Women should feel grateful there are men willing to put up with their way of thinking

[@carlwide6594]

There aren't many left.

[@Superabound2]

Women are incapable of gratitude

[@FazeParticles]

unfortunately. the rest of society suffers.

[@billylee7398]

F dat. I'm tired af ain't gor time for all dis commitment.

[@BlazeEst]

This isn’t all women this is social media brain rot women

[@arieldela-pena3600]

For people to respect you, you have to respect yourself first.

[@Jaguar-ds4pt]

Wow, this woman is truly a gem. I agreed with everything that was said and I find it hard to believe that there are still young women out there that are so well rounded and understanding of things like this. I'm a male, 32 right now and I find it hard to find a woman that isn't practicing things from different forms of social media and passing it off as normal or just following their peers and just doing things that aren't right. Listening to this lady here gives me hope though.

[@GuitArmijo78]

A.I. is getting real good

[@mikeflow420]

LMFAO

[@yeahah3617]

I can't tell at this point

[@dontberash]

A lot of this I needed to hear. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and faith.

[@if6wuz9]

Yes men need to disagree with women more often. We are approaching a time when laws will be passed that will prohibit men from saying anything negative about women. Spiritually we are moving from patriarchy to matriarchy. It is always refreshing to see a woman telling men to stand up to women. Thanks.

[@dherro456]

Alice, you are truly doing God’s work here. I can see the clarity in your God given wisdom and speaking the truth for all young men to hear. Thank you and Lord bless you.

[@kalebgonzales4009]

The woman in my magic talking rectangular box is right!

[@O.G.LIL-MAN]

not really, all this information is available all over YT in the red pill spaces...dont be a simp

[@kalebgonzales4009]

@@O.G.LIL-MAN ??? What is your problem?

[@TheyBenefit]

@@O.G.LIL-MAN The Bible is better than any TRP content. It's the original source of what being a man is, not creating a facade of 'frame' or mindset

[@DarkLightProjector]

@@kalebgonzales4009 He spittin, no cap. Quit s1mp1n my boy. Go listen to Rollo Tommassi or LFA, those guys actually know what they're talking about.

[@turin9137]

@@TheyBenefit The Hávamál is an original source.

[@mustafasameer3227]

You're the Best Alice. I learnt much from you today.

[@Antiple]

I agree with some of your points. I have been married for 3 years now, my wife is pretty disagreeable, and I did spend much too long trying to be the agreeable one. She got comfortable blaming me for things I didnt do, and taking her anger out on me. That is partiality due to losing respect as you said. But I feel like becoming more disagreeable is only one part of the puzzle to fix the issue. The underlying thing you must do is embrace your more masculine traits, one of which is being disagreeable. Other masculine traits being honor, responsibility, fierceness, etc. When one person in the relationship cannot take up the masculine role, the other will try to despite not being inherently masculine. Therefore they express their disagreeableness negatively, such as with anger. Women inherently arent good at being disagreeable, and shouldnt try to be. Once I learnt this, my marriage has been much better

[@painless4785]

How do u get the respect back once you’ve lost it? Would love to hear your insight.

[@vittoriorapizza2279]

Last time I understood this concept was nine months ago. Although it was hard to face the truth, because I am always trying to be the “nice” one (plus it looked to me like this relationship had everything I thought I needed in my life…except ONE very important fact), I put my foot down and got very clear with this woman. I gave her the benefit of the doubt ONE last time. She thought I was easy to manipulate (since I am “nice”). The poor thing faced the cold reality when I cut her off from my life and left her begging for forgiveness. As you said, we all deserve to be respected; no exceptions or excuses.

[@Dominic_Williams_Videos]

great advice for men. while I already knew this. its refreshing to hear from a girl saying it rather than Myron Gains. respect to you Alice.

[@DarkLightProjector]

It's refreshing to see a woman copy what men have said for years 🤣🤣🤣

[@leaguefixesyourmatches8259]

That's exactly the problem. A real Christian would not preach self help dating techniques when most in this comment section is unsaved. This is "christianized" red pill teachings. If you really follow Christ you probably aren't going to get married.

[@leaguefixesyourmatches8259]

​@@DarkLightProjectorshe should just make this a red pill channel. It's christless.

[@leaguefixesyourmatches8259]

Where does it say in the bible that we are all guaranteed marriage? This is self help b.s. God never promised us marriage.

[@celestialsoldier622]

@@DarkLightProjector How is it copying? If i say 1+1 = 2 am i copying? Or do i have to say it's 4 so that i can be unique? GO back to Redpill videos and cry about how you can't get a girl.

[@josha8737]

You should be charging for this info because it is literally life changing. You are very smart and insightful and I can tell it's all from experiences you've seen or maybe had.

[@angelowhite4701]

My mom and grandmother told us. Women are similar to childern. Even the laws are in an essence treat woman similar to childern. I am serious, look it up. It has been determined women emotionally, again emotionally not intelligently are on the level of childern. If not the legal system would treat them and prosrcute them the same as men. Therefore, if you do not stand up and correct a child, nor will they respect you. They will trample all in you. Also my aunt said women never change or do better because they are childish. It takes loss, getting in trouble or punishment is when women decide to change and that's why men have a hard time with dealing with women. She said if there is no consequences to a womans behavior, just like childern no matter how much you love them, reason with them or do for them they will never be better. A woman has to face some type of consequences to change. Loving her, taking care of her, being there for her is an I don't care as long as I am not suffering. It's funny she said that because of all the women who visit my wife who left their husbands sit around and talk how hard they have it and how good of a man they left and what do they say? I would do anything to be back with man, even if I had to beg. So yes, I agree with my aunt. As long as a woman see she isn't facing some consequence for her actions see will never improve as a person, a friend or a wife or girlfriend.

[@alicebythepalm_he]

I would say most "women" are merely old girls. Most "men" are just old boys. It's easy to grow old. It's rare to find grown-ups.

[@watduh123]

If it's small I let it go, but if it's big and especially endangers the family financially or other ways I speak my mind and put my foot down.

[@davidhoward618]

Ultimately this is not about being disagreeable. Do not disagree with what is true. It is about living your life according to what is good and right. Stand by what you know is good and right. Do not live to please anyone except God. If you live with this integrity, respect will come from those who value what is good and right. Those who do not respect what is good and right will become evident quite quickly. Note that this has nothing to do with behaving in order to get a result from another person. Live without thought of what another person will think, only what God thinks.

[@robsou64]

I am 61 years old man, and my hat's off to you young lady! You are wise beyond your years! God bless you for putting out this video!

[@andrewsams9748]

These videos are very helpful especially coming from a woman’s perspective really great for better understand the inner workings of it all super appreciate the effort thank you!

[@LukeM-y4p]

At the end of the day she is still giving her understanding of things from a young woman’s perspective and you are a man with your own male perspective e of things. Don’t forget that.

[@jamesmetronorth9140]

Very good points. Keep it up Alice.

[@charonxreaper4567]

May god bless you Alice 🙏

[@rolav3]

You are so wonderful Alice. This is so comprehensive. You draw from life examples, the bible, and so many sources.

[@ugokoli]

Godly woman detected, opinions considered.

[@sciencedaemon]

Supposed godly women also cheat, lie, divorce, etc. Go check divorce stats for religious women. They aren't all still married to their first husband. This religious, godly, appearance can be another way to fool you.

[@Damesanglante]

Twice as gullible. 🤡

[@ryangonzales7716]

​@@Damesanglante you're a clown 🤡

[@ngolacthien912k]

2 things i liked from video + be privileged (learn negotiate skills to know how to deal with situations that affect your rights) + high self-esteem (high self-esteem comes from you are secure in your identity you know who you are and it's not attached to your achievement and performance - Achieve from your identity ,achieve from who you are, don't achieve to prove who you are - quote from her article "your achievements will never become your identity. If you're insecure about who you are, your achievements will not secure you") Thanks for a helpful video

[@mr.gamers9312]

I can't believe it, am a 16 year old male taking advice on Marriage It Almost Makes me cry to hear how beautiful A healthy Marriage is. Well Said Alice.

[@alireal05]

😐

[@jcherrax]

Im 16 seconds old straight from the womb i agree

[@goodflow3766]

Okay, we need your voice in this messed up dating space, God bless, fire video

[@netnomad47]

You have really beautiful eyes sis. There's gentleness, and wisdom in your eyes.

[@kevinmckeever7653]

Gay

[@Masterpain22222]

And their simping in ur eyes lmao

[@jamestucker4800]

Would you be saying the same thing if she was 600lbs big bertha making the same speech?

[@funnycwill91]

@@Masterpain22222 Nah her eyes are fire.

[@Damesanglante]

You are blinded by hormones and faith. I see greed.

[@TheSherKhhan]

Your words are full of wisdom. It doesn't need to be entertaining! Your value is your fresh insights & your personality

[@DachiZedginidze]

I'm a 20 year old working on a business early on so that my future family can be financially free. People call me crazy because they think that I'm wasting my twenties working and girls my age call me boring for not partying with them. People can't differentiate between bad and good, if someone acts differently from what they think is right they think that person is wrong or crazy. When bible says something your opinion doesn't matter.

[@o4pureh2o]

I worked away my youth to build a business. My wife arrived when the foundations were truly laid but there was still a ways to go. 3 bits of advice. 1 Picking the right woman is the most important decision you'll ever make. 2 you can't buy back time or youth. 3 Compartmentalize your wealth so you always have some that no one can touch.

[@cris7703]

God bless you and protect you my dear beloved sister , you give hope to many guys that there still good loving God fearing woman on the world, keep sharing the Gospel to everyone you meet! and never forget how much you are loved by God our father! God bless you and your loved ones.

[@zenmodi2614]

if your intimacy is based on disagreement .. then your connection possibly isn't that strong..

[@CodyWright-pq3eq]

It's nat based on that. It's just a necessary part. Women aren't as emotionally stable as men. BS will rise from them and when it does you have to deal with it accordingly.

[@mtrobming1439]

Pure distilled gold this was.

[@GitDatPC]

The part about self-control, I've never heard it described that way before. You are a wise old soul for such a young woman 🙂

[@O.G.LIL-MAN]

not really, all this information is available all over YT in the red pill spaces...dont be a simp

[@GitDatPC]

@@O.G.LIL-MAN She's not into you bro lol

[@k1ckass748]

@@GitDatPC 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@roguedoge2479]

@@GitDatPC We are into truth.

[@mylegguy8115]

@@O.G.LIL-MANred pill doesn’t teach this STFU lmao. They teach how to complain about women only.

[@sohailtiwana8473]

You are way wiser than your age. Keep up the good work!

[@DionLYA]

Essentially, the man is like her 2nd father. He takes care of everything and sets her straight. He doesn't care if she agrees with him or not, she is free to leave if she wants.

[@blakeavila4409]

Last part is degenerate

[@Kr1s68k]

Wow, you are an Inspiration. Thanks. Some aspects I already figured myself, others are really helpful. Cheers.

[@Trailertentjoy]

Woman aren’t the people to teach men character, Men teach other men

[@ericmckenny6748]

…If even that. And overcoming humilation and failure.

[@williamh.gatesiii8183]

She’s dropping jewels tho

[@ayoitskryptic]

She’s actually giving good advice relax

[@whatstrending4085]

Smells like ego

[@roody_io]

@@whatstrending4085 ego and reductive thinking. Men model how to be men, but can learn from anyone or any experience, for better and for worse.

[@jean-brunotremblay3361]

Thank you. You're great. You're straightening up my mind. It sparks courage in me. I wish you love an success. A guy from Montreal.

[@RemainZX]

As a man dont communicate the little details. general idea and the details will come as they go. some of my own wisdom. from my own mistakes.

[@roca967]

Yes, I used to overexplain but learned to get to the point to keep things moving. I know a guy who, before simply lifting a large item, would tell his helper where to put each hand, foot, position his shoulder etc. It was excruciating to witness, lol! It was a habit of thinking with this fellow, he would often get bogged down in irrelevant details and have troubles just getting started. I think this can relate to her point on leading other men as well. I would think of it more in terms of authority - often someone else is the expert in a situation and the appropriate thing to do is defer to his authority. A lot of guys I've worked with have no problems with a rookie asking questions or suggesting an alternative method - sometimes they have good ideas! But I think for most of us if we have to explain more than twice why we want it done a certain way, that the ice is starting to get thin and the answer is now "just do it how I want it done and you will (hopefully) see why".

[@billylee7398]

Sounds boring

[@FutureFocusTraders]

Thanks for the fresh breath of air Alice ! What a lovely 33 minutes after my +15 years on the internet... truely memorable

[@keith_hudson]

The best way to ruin intimacy is to allow yourself, as a man, to be disrespected.

[@touchymb]

God bless you girl. Your messages is blessing to us

[@Jesuswalks7475]

God bless this godly, feminine, beautiful lady in jesus name amen..❤️😇🛐✝️💖🌟🐑🙏

[@_solo_17]

I really appreciate the female point of view on this. Also love the fact that you touched upon God in this video, subscribed. Thanks and be well 🙏

[@davidedge1141]

After a couple of videos of Alice teaching, I admit that she has godly wisdom in matters of relationships. She endorses the patriarchy according to scriptures, which is refreshing to hear because of this age of egalitarian church. If only a man would teach the truth of marriage like Alice. She also esteems the correct bible which is paramount for determining the truth of matters.

[@laughingwolfbcowl]

This was really insightful. Very good! I’m glad I came across this. All really excellent points. I’ve been working on a number of things in this direction in much of my own work and what I’m putting together. So much that I could say in response…!

[@yahqappu74]

Blesseth are the peacemakers for they shall be called the children of God

[@berettagunowner]

Excellent video, I wish someone would have informed me when in my 20s.. So many mistakes made, but now I live by these rules and I'm much happier for it.

[@trojanlamb909]

Oddly I ended up being disagreeable to my current wife early because I was disgusted by the quality of women in the dating pool. Get frustrated and you won’t put up with BS. But not angry, frustration leads to problem solving, there is a difference.

[@DThomas4400]

I love this woman already after 2 minutes

[@Remember-Death]

You're part of the problem. You're already "too agreeable" simply based on her looks. You've already fallen for her, which means, you'll never be disagreeable with her. You're a pushover and women will walk all over you.