Don't marry a man you can control

[@durian9988]

Wifes who find it hard to submit to their husbands will find it hard to submit to Christ.

[@cryptojihadi265]

They alreay don't. His command is clear. They're already in direct defiance.

[@devin3607]

They dont give a rats tail about christ if they dont submit to their husbands

[@joecool2759]

@@durian9988 that’s a fire 🔥 statement!!!

[@Rileyed]

It’s a mirror. So wild. If we don’t trust God we won’t trust people. Live in fear. If we don’t want to humble before people…..it’s a mirror of not humbling before God.

[@reubenquiroz6083]

Yeah!

[@barbie6391]

The Bible NEVER calls the woman the head of her husband, it DOES call the husband the head of his wife🌸

[@dearbrave4183]

So? And that means? Also the Bible says women shouldn't teach yet you are here learning from a woman. That's called false interpretation, mindless following and cherry picking

[@Sir_Viver]

​@dearbrave4183 Titus 2:4 Older women are to teach the young women to love their husbands and children. 5 They are to teach them to think before they act, to be pure, to be workers at home, to be kind, and to obey their own husbands. In this way, the Word of God is honored. So who exactly is cherry picking?

[@dearbrave4183]

@@Sir_Viver one, she's not an old woman. Second, I thought this was a public platform where everyone young, old , man, woman, kid, alien can access her message , It doesn't seem like a private community where only young women are allowed in...well after she turns old Your reasoning fits right into a cult unfortunately. Ignorance is why women are the first victims of cults and its main manpower. Ignorance is the reason why women oversee and quiet ab*se towards themselves, fellow women and children in the church Don't let the Bible become a barrier to your wisdom when it's actually supposed to make you wise.

[@ScreamingEagleFTW]

husbands LOVE your wives

[@Sir_Viver]

@@ScreamingEagleFTW wives SUBMIT to your husbands...in EVERYTHING. There's a complementary scripture for both husbands and wives on nearly every subject dealing with marriage.

[@jimmylee1408]

I'll never let my wife control me. She respects me cause of that. Once a woman loses respect for you as a man, it's over.

[@HenrySimmons1225]

But you can control her? That's rich.

[@gristly_knuckle]

I think Alice isn’t a nun-by-choice. Does she feel mad at God?

[@jermaineayivoh8263]

@@HenrySimmons1225 Men are natural born leaders. Women are not. Want to know how to observe this in real life ? Tell a woman that it’s her job to financially take care of you, that she earns the money and you stay at home. You will barely find any woman that takes you seriously or is ok with such a deal. Any woman that even agrees to do this, will eventually complain down the line about having to financially take care of a man. Men however generally have no problem doing so for a woman. That’s why men are leaders, because leaders have no problem being responsible for others, when you complain and nag about having to take care of someone you are by definition not a leader, you are looking to be lead. If you have a problem understanding such a simple concept, you have no business being in a relationship with any woman and you will fail in every relationship you will ever have!

[@rotisaksang]

@@HenrySimmons1225 man these us and eu man and woman are a bunch of idiots. is this what liberal country? submit means let the head (in christian its a man role) lead the wives and family to live like a christ and thats why man needs to prepare him self and submit to God before taking the responsibility (marriage). if you cant understand my take, then stop watching porn, stop hearing those so "woke" people mindset cause they dont know the "proper pronouns" for themself even if its their main language. i hope us and eu IDIOT PANDEMIC is not spread world wide.

[@off6848]

@@gristly_knuckleAsk her

[@Jaco3688]

Far too few women have this mind of Christ. May God bless you.

[@Humourous_Pie]

@@Jaco3688 I would say the same thing about men who idolize other men pastors and teachers.

[@Jaco3688]

@@Humourous_Pie The subject was women. Don’t deflect.

[@eltigreriver3108]

лично я ей не верю. ибо не первую такую вижу на ютубе кто якобы выступает за моносферну маскулизма.

[@Harzach-Hardcastle7685]

1000%, they worship the "girl boss" religion instead of Christ. I think you need to start looking for another church that has real Christians.

[@Reycobaby]

💯

[@TheArcturusProject]

She’s in SoCal good luck XD

[@TheArcturusProject]

I think… she mentioned SoCal in n out as example

[@Harzach-Hardcastle7685]

@@TheArcturusProject Not a great place to be. That's like being right in the heart of modern-day So&Gom... or is it NYC? I don't know which one is worse.

[@Humourous_Pie]

@@Harzach-Hardcastle7685 I am no boss girl. Either Jesus is the boss or I would be lost. There is only one way to heaven and that's through Jesus Christ otherwise without him I am nothing. I don't even date any more because if God has someone planned I have to get out of his way. When we let God be God instead of trying to be God then we have to be led by him.

[@lambo6325]

As a man I agree with your position and sounded like you were attacked by bunch of Jezebels

[@TroiSimmons]

Agreed! They hate the truth

[@stevelopez715]

Agree 100% Pure WORD OF GOD SCRIPTURE INTERPRET SCRIPTURE First time I’ve ever heard of you n I thank God for you have more SPIRITUAL B@@@s than most men I’ve met

[@Humourous_Pie]

There are lots of Jezebels in the church. They aren't as noticeable but I see that men can also behave like Jezebel. There are people in the church that practice witchcraft which is why people are leaving the church. If the pastor isn't under God then he will submit to the devil like so many do because they aren't submitting to God.

[@Humourous_Pie]

​@@lambo6325 I am not a Jezebel and if you have the guts to call any woman a Jezebel then you should say it to my face as the Holy Spirit of God is with me. You attack then you do like wise with God. I know what Jezebel is and what Jezebel does. She is in most churches not just in women but men as well. If she is in the leader he will fall. But I am sure it's because he trusted the wrong person who may be a witch or warlock who claims to be a Christian when they lie. A person who loves power and money most likely is a Jezebel. They go after men with money. I have never chased a man for his money and have refused online offers from people because I don't know if they could be scammers or not.

[@Humourous_Pie]

@@TroiSimmons No your flesh hates the truth because so many of you take the word of God to put legalism on people. Men and Women who are free in Christ aren't under the old covenant. If you don't have the power to overcome the enemy then you are going to be under demonic attack because you have no faith towards what Christ did at the cross. You are pleasing men not God.

[@erich4812]

People need to see that the husband's role as head is a responsibility to the family that he must responsibly fulfill, not like a master of slaves that most immediately think of.

[@leaguefixesyourmatches8259]

Since most "churches" are apostate, many "christian" wives will want to "overtake their husband". Alice brought up something that is correct but the apostate wives will vehemently reject her. The husbands can not say anything since modern culture/law gives wives all the power and they will be severely reprimanded. That's why most men CANNOT marry today. It rare to find a women gentle and actually FEMININE like Alice even in the "church".

[@leaguefixesyourmatches8259]

He is the head of the household but also commanded to LOVE HIS WIFE as Christ loves his church. Remember, Christ loved so much that he died for the church. Modern culture/brainwashing takes the love out of it. Women simply are not meant to lead and women don't want to lead. They don't want the responsibility and pressure. They like to be taken care of!

[@thomasandrewphd.5844]

I agree with everything you say…I personally do not mix with feminists because I can’t stand them . And most men do. It is the main reason the family as a unit has fallen apart.

[@justorange3808]

right on 100%

[@leondhay]

​@@leaguefixesyourmatches8259 Not totally correct. Read Prov 31.

[@80americarlos]

Dang, I love this sister already. She speaks up for us men! Thank you sis!

[@noalliances]

"In marriage be wise: prefer the person before money, virtue before beauty, mind before body, then thou hast a second self." -William Penn

[@alienhit1225]

You are totally correct. Wife submits to husband not another way round.

[@cldrawings1224]

So what do you understand from " Husband love your wife's as Christ love the church", what you do you think that means practically

[@J040PL7]

​@@cldrawings1224there's a reason men are told to love, and women are told to submit. Men need respect and women need emotional affirmation. Love means putting the other person above yourself, like Jesus put humanity above his own wellbeing, love is tied to, as the man being the leader, he inherently considers what's best for his family. Love and submission are interlinked, which means women submit to men who love them, and men love women who submit to them, men don't submit to women because that would remove the man from the leadership role, just like the head of a company doesn't submit to his managers.

[@J040PL7]

@@cldrawings1224 what is your question driving to?

[@cldrawings1224]

@J040PL7 @J040PL7 That's what my queation was leading to, and I agree, but I dont believe that aspect of loving your wife as christ loves the church would lead to some form of submission as a husband!

[@paulpolpiboon9535]

Husband also impregnates woman, not the other way around.

[@KevvoLightswift]

You are right to stand against the current culture, Alice. I’m older (35) than your target audience of men, but you are quite the breath of fresh air needed in the current dynamics between Christian men and women. Your video “Don’t let them Neuter you, sons of God” gave me the much needed encouragement and motivation that snapped me out of my cowardice. From the bottom of my heart, thank you, sister. Whether your channel grows exponentially or not (I pray it does), you’ve helped this man wake up. God continue to bless you with your future endeavors. 🙏

[@Humourous_Pie]

What do you mean by neuter? A wife or husband shouldn't control each other. She also doesn't have a statement of faith like most out here don't. Which most churches and Christians have. If you're going to teach which women aren't called to teach you contradict your own beliefs. She is telling you wives submit to their husbands but who is she submits to? What God? The God of A.I.? If she's from southern California home of the artificial intelligence she could be a test robot for all you know? You males trust too easily.

[@Cunningstunts23]

@@KevvoLightswift you’re letting yourself be instructed by a woman? The Bible teaches against that. You ought to receive edification and teaching from a male figure in your life not a young woman you find attractive enough to click on the video

[@KevvoLightswift]

@@Cunningstunts23 Granted, she is attractive. But that’s not why I’m listening to her. 1) She’s not woke 2) She’s a woman, so she can accurately tell men how women work 3) Her perspective is unique as someone who grew up in a different culture than America. 4) A lot of her points are mirrored by a few men I follow on KZbin (Mark Ballenger is a great one) I don’t agree with everything she says, but about 80% is spot on. Question for you: If you’re so against listening to teachings from women, why did you bother clicking on and watching this video?

[@Cunningstunts23]

@@KevvoLightswift I didn’t, it auto played

[@watchmanonthewall14]

@@Cunningstunts23 I'm a male senior. I listened to this wonderful woman. She is not teaching me, SINCE I am already well-versed in what the scriptures say about marriage relationships. What she shared largely concurs with scripture, and what I've known for decades.

[@HublyTrades]

Saw many families become broken due to a wife that would never submit to her husband and not understanding this, it is not slavery. It letting the captain master his ship while you are his first mate

[@RonaldMutebo]

A woman should be her husband's no.1 cheerleader, not no.1 conflict creator. Simple.

[@troysims2753]

Any man would be lucky to have this woman as his wife! Beautiful and grounded!

[@RosariaBestGirl]

It takes true courage and bravery for you to say and do that. You are a light in this world for seeking the truth! Bless you!

[@iwanhendraleonardus6407]

This video has to be spread far and wide, I think it is impossible to find a woman who has this view. You are the exception.

[@Humourous_Pie]

@@iwanhendraleonardus6407 Says Catholic idolatry.

[@iwanhendraleonardus6407]

@@Humourous_Pie Exactly! Blessed Virgin is God's most perfect creation, yet God send messenger to inform Joseph when to leave for Egypt, when to go back, because in the right order His most perfect creation will to follow her husband.

[@lovelyloaa]

​@@Humourous_Pie Is she a Catholic?

[@aegisreflector2725]

A man must be strong, but never controlling. A man can't obtain an woman's submission through force or manipulation, only through trust. A man must be trustworthy, but a woman must also have trust in her man. Sadly, for some women, their hearts have been rendered completely distrustful for one reason or another, and she will never cease in attempts to control.

[@lexzenis2544]

tell them women to get off the Chad cok carousel and they should have no problem bonding to a man in Christ.

[@randomlygeneratedname7171]

But both means are at his disposal

[@3oxiarchi]

@@lexzenis2544damn dude season your words lol

[@Ariadne4]

​@@lexzenis2544tell them men to get off the alpha male red pilled andrew tate podcasts, and they will find women who will willingly submit to their husband because they know their husbands loves them enough to die for them, like Christ did for His bride, the church

[@Hammerhead137]

​@lexzenis2544 Agreed. But the Chad CC bears only half the blame. Feminism is also equally to blame, if not moreso for driving a wedge between men and women to begin with. You also have women authors like Beth Allison Barr and Sheila Wray Gregoire calling for "deconstruction" of Christianity, and their husbands are supporting them.

[@RRSDollar]

Spot on, young lady! May God keep blessing you with his knowledge and his protection 🙏. It hasn't been encouraging to speak the truth nowadays.

[@wolfgangsebastian8357]

"Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord." Ephesians 5:22 KJV "Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing." Ephesians 5:24 KJV "Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord." Colossians 3:18 KJV "Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;" 1 Peter 3:1 Just like Voddie Baucham said, it's not just in the Bible, it's all over the Bible. There's also a pastor named Alaistair Begg who gives an excellent sermon about this. Those who tried to counter your stance with Ephesians 5:21 is wrong because when studying the Bible, you cannot use a verse that's vague/general to trump a verse that's specific. I applaud you for standing your ground, basing your argument on Scripture and not on popular opinion. And it's true, feminism has slithered its way into the church and many preachers have unknowingly embraced it.

[@Globeguy1337]

See also: ‘Enemies Within; The Church’ by Judd Saul and Cary Gordon

[@Humourous_Pie]

​@@Globeguy1337 My mom used to say that I was my own worst enemy till God has been straightening me out. I think that saying works for just about anyone. The only book for me is the bible when handled properly and when translated by God's Spirit not our flesh.

[@Globeguy1337]

@@Humourous_Pie Very true. In the big picture, we are, in a sense, our only enemy - since it is our own corruption that condemns us and only our own rebellion that keeps us from repentance. The documentary I mentioned was specifically about the subversion of the church by Marxism.

[@Globeguy1337]

@@Humourous_Pie That is a good point, but the documentary I referenced above is about a concerted effort to subvert the church by a certain political/philosophical group that the site won’t let me name.

[@Humourous_Pie]

@@Globeguy1337 The modern church thrives on money. Just about every channel out here wants donations more than they actually care about people. I think the next movie should be called the great American greed because there are reformed/Calvinist pastors that have made billions of dollars. They couldn't preach a dam thing on suffering if their life depended on it. They wouldn't know what it is to suffer if they live in million dollar homes like rock stars. Maybe God will humble them when they lose their homes from the greed by making money off the back of God. Who said they could? Did Jesus Christ live huge or big? All I have witnessed about these Calvinist Reformers is how disposable you are to them especially when they say things that aren't true about others. Unless you aren't one of them following their little circus then you are disposable.

[@GucciPow]

WOW PREACH SISTER! Thanks for sharing this bold message to both sisters and brothers who need to hear it. Myself included! Continue to stick to the word of God even in the face of challenges/oppositions.

[@DonkeyKong8]

You said that women are more spiritual but women are also more easily possessed. All the women arguing aggressively with you were examples of that.

[@sofiabravo1994]

women are more prone because we tend to lean on our emotions more, we are the weaker vessel, but men are still equally weak it expresses itself differently but in Gods eyes we are all fallen and need the same Jesus.

[@DonkeyKong8]

@@sofiabravo1994 Agreed. We are all weak. And we are all loved. God will help us. Never fear

[@chrisanok9283]

Woman are NOT more spiritual. Otherwise, they would have been the leaders . Woman are just more religious. Many more are in the church compared to men but they aren't truly seeking Jesus. They are seeking positions on the church. They are also.more easily deceived. That's according to scripture

[@Гранит-ь4х]

Women are very rarely really spiritual. The whole old and new Testament sing the song of male spiritual suprem@cy. Women focus on men, men focus on God.

[@adaptivegamer9905]

@@sofiabravo1994yes it’s true both ways that women are more spiritual but again are much easily influenced by media & societal pressure. It’s a biological thing whereas men have much much more testosterone so we falter with lust, adultery etc. but we also lean much more conservative than women in a vast majority & conservatives are predominantly Christian’s. Both of us have our faults, but if for example u see a progressive church or a pastor leaning towards modern day liberal teachings I’m done with that church. Idc how long I’ve been there either, twisting Gods word to not offend is a slippery slope & can only go downhill from there.

[@thatgirlyanara]

The problem is people don’t have a biblical view of submission but a worldly view! Submission is so beautiful and when you stop to think what it means for a man to be the head you as a woman will be grateful that that’s on the man and not on us because it’s a lot

[@Windslashman]

@thatgirlyanara Exactly. Submission is beautiful, even Jesus submitted to the Father. We (men and women) are to submit to God and His will. And His will calls for a specific structure of the household. Anyone that disagrees with how God has taught the structure of the church and household to be as is written in His word, is in rebellion against Him and are sinning. While a lot of responsibility is on the husband's shoulders, women also have a lot of responsibility in the household. I suffer so much in trying to submit to God as a man, that I can only imagine how hard it must be to have an even larger focus of submission for the wife.

[@canopeascone3151]

Amen sister! You are very observant. Thank you for your encouragement in this word. Continue in your good work and God bless you!

[@jesusd.valencia6737]

What you said about women not being accountable, I see it everyday. For example... Today I was in line to pay for gas and there was a young mom in front of me with her child next to her, it was about time for her turn and she stepped out from the line to go to a nearby counter that is a different business; The gas counter lady said next, I moved forward to handle over the money to pay for my pump number and this young mother with her child comes back screaming at me for skipping her line and I tried to reason with her about what just happened and she started to insult me instead of trying to even understand what she just had done or even listen for reason. Thankfully an older man behind me saw that I wasn't skipping the line or trying to create problems, but this lady instead of taking accountability for her actions got even angrier at the older man for saying something about for what just had happened. Exiting the store I saw the older men close to my gas pump and approach him to thank him for speaking up for me inside the store and this lady came screaming at us (because her car was behind this older man's vehicle) for even talking between us about what just had happened minutes ago. This older man was kind of sad because of this young mother's attitude, he told me "the bad influence lesson that she is teaching to her child; this kid will grow up thinking that he can grow up doing whatever he wants and when his mom in the future try to correct him, he will not listen to her and will remember her how she treated other men or even call her crazy, because she had lost her son's trust on his mom or on any of his mother advise, will doubt his mom sanity". Every time I see women act this way, I don't even want to think about committing to any woman, because I can see 👀 my self struggling to even visit my future children, the trauma that causes a divorce and all the manipulation and the psychological manipulation to put hatred in my kids against me to try to control me emotionally for money, the lies in court, the laws being in favor for women not men, the stress of seeing the women that I've invested years, money, emotions and all kinds of investment be treated like it was a nothing of worthy. Also going around acting like a victim to everyone lying the she was abused in her marriage with me, the victim poker face attitude and behavior. Lately I've been thinking to stay single for the rest of my life because of what is happening to women today. Also by sharing this I'm not implying that I'm perfect because i am not, but this kind of behavior and attitude in women today is sad and forcing men to choose to not take responsibility in relationships serius with these type of women, is sad to see many single moms struggling with kids lately. I ask God that if he wants me to marry; that he helps me choose the right women; because finding a Proverbs 31 women here in New York State is not easy, Brothers in Christ if you have found a proverbs 31 women, you have found gold of a woman, Cherish her and be willing to Die for a proverbs 31 women. God Bless Everyone!!

[@alicebythepalm_he]

Pray for a good wife and ask God to prepare you for her. Trust Him that He has a perfect daughter for you when you're ready.

[@1truthseeking8]

​@@alicebythepalm_he as a "contrast/comparison" look deep into: KALI YUGA CYCLE / divine feminine chaos cycle / YIN dominance or imbalance / Divine Feminine Dominance is TOXIC FEMININITY. ... These align/parallel with revelation

[@netnomad47]

The purpose for marriage is to glorify God through our love and self sacrifice for one another. Sex is a gift that should only be unwrapped in marriage. and it is for each other's pleasure. children is also a gift for the family.

[@man-xy]

i like your profile picture 👍

[@localstrangeness]

I had an experience with a christian counselor who is an egalatarian, and I brought up these scriptures...and he fought me tooth and nail. Then he gave me an example of a couple he was counciling where the husband and wife had been locked in a mortal struggle for like 2 months over a dispute about rules for their son(i think it was screen time) and he said people have to be able to agree. And i said to him, "do you remember that famous warship that had two captains?" he said no. I said exactly! Because ships only have one captain. Org8nizations only have one CEO there is not one structure on this planet that has two leaders of equal standing and functions. This issue with your couple should have been resolved day 1 and as long as you ignore the natural order of God you will have problems. Whats the solution? He gets the final say. End of discussion. Hopefully he is a man of God and makes the right one, but thats not really our bisiness is it. He looked at me like i had two heads.

[@watchmanonthewall14]

Good post. Flee that counselor and find a new one.

[@MrPeaceGuy54]

The chief of the army and the chief of the navy are equals, even though both of them are parts of the military.

[@lilfridge69]

@@MrPeaceGuy54but there is only one commander and chief the president ultimately. Every human has equal value but not equal positions or responsibilities or roles

[@MrPeaceGuy54]

@@lilfridge69 Sure, but the President is generally considered to be outside of the military. Within its core structure, we do have equality. Of course, some things can be equal without being the exact same. The place of the President (in the case of life) I shall give to God alone.

[@lilfridge69]

@@MrPeaceGuy54 sure and God ordained the husband to be the head of wife and ordained for the wife to submit to him. He ordained them to have different roles and responsibilities. God ordained the man the captain

[@kokihidalgo5804]

As a Man I 💯 agree with you that men must become stronger. I’m not talking about physical strength, but spiritual strength and stop acting childish Like Paul said in 1 Cornths 13:11 “When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child; but when I became a man, I put away childish things.”

[@Billy-bc8pk]

Yup, way too many soys out there right now.

[@Amlo589]

Being strong physically is also important for a man.

[@Humourous_Pie]

@@Amlo589 Being a balanced man is important not being brain washed by itching ears.

[@SharkAcademy]

But Jesus said you must be like a child to get to enter the kingdom of heaven. Being a child is not bad and what many adults are missing and why they’re miserable. They think it’s all about working and climbing the corporate ladder and collecting stuff. Instead, if we were like children and hung out with each other after work, played games, hugged each other, not worry too much about those adult things, we would be happier and have softer hearts

[@lilacghoste8366]

​@@Amlo589for man? So woman should be weak ?

[@knutolavbjrgaas1069]

Those women who dont want to submit to their husbands forget that they didnt/dont HAVE to marry a guy they wouldnt willingly submit to. As a guy who wants to get married, I need to focus on becoming a man that a woman would willingly submit to. If I'm not, I can't expect anyone to want to marry me.

[@Vulpesune]

I don't think that's the point. Ephesians 5:21 is about submitting to one another. It is about trust and strength unto each other as you would have the same to God. Woman want *equal* treatment, not the slaving submission some twist the passage to mean.

[@knutolavbjrgaas1069]

@@Vulpesune did you comment on the wrong comment? You seem to be answering something I didnt write 🤔

[@Vulpesune]

@@knutolavbjrgaas1069 No, I meant to answer this one. I think the emphasis on submission is being over-stated. I'm a married man and my wife is Catholic (I don't have a particular church affiliation but am generally Protestant.) You are equals, a team. I think the focus should be less on the submission and more on being a partnership, because the emphasis on submission leads to this one way-thinking, rather than an equal, loving partnership.

[@knutolavbjrgaas1069]

​@@Vulpesune Neither me nor the woman in the video claims it should be any kind of one way thinking. In my opinion, the demand paul puts on husbands is much more difficult. I am called to lay down my life for my wife(if i get married someday) and love her like Christ did the church. I need to focus on what im called to, and a wife needs to focus on what shes called to. This particular video was about a wifes calling so that is what i mentioned in my comment. Also, submission does not mean bowing to a tyrant or 'doing what youre told' no matter what.

[@sumdood7410]

@@knutolavbjrgaas1069sadly, lots of Christian’s are feminist’s and it’s deeply ingrained globally.

[@HoopsAndDunksVideos]

I don't know many women that would follow Ephesians 5:22 even listening from the husband and knowing it's the Word of God, they will still say - I will not submit! with so much defiance.

[@ramon2260]

I don’t recall ever agreeing with anyone pertaining to marriage biblically I agree with u 100 percent what your saying , spot on sister , this is wisdom ,meekness , self control speaking truth in love and so much more . Keep up the great work Alice . Will be praying for you.

[@Lavazza81]

It's not uncommon, women purposely choosing weak men to marry so they can control them... I've witnessed a number of times, It's extremely toxic and it never ends well. God's law is there for a very valid reason. What's worse is that I know one particular woman who claims to be very religious and she's destroyed her husband's life and also lead her son to severe levels of anxiety... It's heartbreaking seeing it

[@AntiSewingCircleChristianity]

We call that the average marriage.

[@eltigreriver3108]

верно. сам был свидетелем такого невезучего браку у друга, при этом ещё ничего не закончилось.

[@marcogawa]

You’re right girl. I hope I can find someone like you. Amen!

[@Humourous_Pie]

What about what God calls you to do or does that come last?

[@paulraines9635]

Keep striving to be the man you can be and seek out a woman that will submit to you. Being a husband and father is God's highest calling for you.

[@B-Y9]

Keep up with the Truth sister. You understand the truth because you see it in the spirit. Those who are just religious will always be against you (against the truth) thank you for the revelation and light

[@Phonix463]

Your videos are apart of my journey back to Christ and my creator as a man in later twenties. Many things I already knew deep down but needed it reinforced from a different voice .I subscribed to your newsletter and you have my thanks.

[@aaronbrooks4091]

This is so on point! My wife and I just got finished with this "debate" at a church discussion concerning the exact same topic and scriptures. Humility is absolutley drained in this new modern church. Submission is worse than a curse word. It's amazing that women want a "man of God" or "God-fearing man" - obedient to God, but they want to skip over the plainness and soundness of the Order of God and heirarchy of God, Which is Christ, man, woman, children. This should be one of the easiest things to do. Wives submit to your husbands, husbands submit to Christ. Thank you for this simplicity of discussion.

[@MrEliasdl]

Tell me about it. They have women and men so screwed up. My wife has accused me of twisting words for reading black and white instructions in the Bible.

[@FoodieQueenBee]

@@MrEliasdlsounds like my husband, he demands submission but it needs to be earned. How wife submit to husband if he doesn’t treat her right? We both have jobs, I cook, clean, taking care of kids, pay bills too

[@MrEliasdl]

​@@FoodieQueenBeesubmission comes with your agreement to marry him. The man earned it by getting the woman to marry him. Otherwise the woman is not a helper but an out of control liability with the direction God is calling him to go.

[@rbunor]

I totally agree with you. Thanks for speaking about this! Most women don’t understand their roles in marriage. God bless you.

[@eliashachem7378]

I hope this message makes a good influence on the women who see it . May God bless you.

[@DockSchrem]

My wife is into New Age, without knowing it. She thinks, she is a Christian, but somehow outside the Holy Church. I argue sometimes. As long as she stays, I will put up with her. Today she said something which gave a chill. She asked me what I am in my relations with God. I replied: I am fallen human I hope Jesus will forgive me and let into heaven. She asked, "When exactly did you fall down?" It was chilling, as if the Satan spoke trough her lips.

[@Laza_Rey]

Tell her that, be honest, is your wife

[@dotheyfloat9961]

And if Christ spoke through your lips, what would he say. He wouldn't identify as a fallen human. You are right though, "you" are a fallen human.

[@DockSchrem]

@@Laza_Rey Actually she kind a got it. She was surprised of herself. The whole topic was the reincarnation. I explained to her, even it was true, God doesn't revealed it on purpose. Most probably, because with our fallen nature we would have misused it, in a way that we would not strive to God, and wait for next live to do so. What she did is just another way of misuse of the reincarnation, which set us apart from God again. I think that she finally got it.

[@DockSchrem]

@@dotheyfloat9961 I can not get your point. I saw and listen somebody trough whom Jesus Christ spoke. It is profound experience. It was the last hours of my beloved mother. She changed, she become some how happy, to be joyful in your lat hours, surrounded by your crying children and husband, one can be only in one way. She already felt His presence. I asked her to forgive me. She replied " I had fogave you, before you did anything wrong." Who says that? No human, in any case. I am blessed, I felt All Mighty and I did not missed it. It is blessing.

[@paulraines9635]

Christ was clear in His instructions. If she will not come back to Him and submit to you, it is your duty to abandon her.

[@AggroGaming]

Thank You Alice, God has helped you understand what many men and women has lost, I pray that the lord keeps protecting you amongst many, and that many understand the message

[@nmpro8666]

Alice, you really are a virtuous woman. Amazing-a rare find of a woman (wife?!) on this Earth. I agree 100% that most women who diligently go to church do not like what God says in Ephesians 5:22-24. When they hear it, right away, women want to discuss verse 25. I’ve tested this with so many women myself, and just like you, I’m shocked.

[@HonggangYan]

Sister, you are gold. Don’t be frustrated with the argument. We support you.

[@joecool2759]

I agree with your interpretation of Paul’s scripture. Many modern couples have spineless husbands . Along with many wives who sexually and emotionally blackmail many God fearing men. Due to modern culture and laws it’s even encouraged. Many women and men confuse Submission with Surrender, they are not the same thing. God has given women incredible power just as much as men, that’s to make their husbands either heroes and protectors or monsters. I think another confusion is that many modern women think that if they submit that means they are lesser than men in God’s eyes which is not true in the slightest. Jesus revealed himself to a woman (Mary) first after he resurrected and entrusted her to deliver his message that he has risen to the disciples who were men, during a cultural period in Israel where a woman’s testimony was worth 1/4 of a man’s. Women have progressed the church like no other some as wives, queens, missionaries, nuns(Medieval Era), doctors, scientists just like men but they all understood one thing it’s their roles that God assigned them it was to devote themselves to their families and husbands as God commanded and when they followed God wonderful things came out of it. God loves us all equally but we all have our roles as designed by God for our good and his glory. Praise thanks be to God through our Lord Jesus Christ for his majesty, wisdom, intelligence and leadership. I love your videos keep going I’ll be praying for you. I live in Asia and I’m doing my best to help build the church and I’m about to marry a God fearing Filipina who loves me and I love her and we both want to grow together. I love your video and pray for you as well God bless you .

[@AdeelKhan-uu2pv]

Amen! God bless you're marriage

[@chrisanok9283]

But what exactly did Jesus say to Mary after the resurrection?? Go tell the brothers... im not saying woman are less than men. I'm saying we can't use Mary as symbolic of the first preacher on Jesus resurrection . That's nor preaching. That's evangelism . It's what the apostles had ALREADY been doing

[@litjellyfish]

What you bring up with Submission vs Surrender is KEY. As you say many confuse those words. Ex. a man who commands his wife to do something that she really dont want. If she do that she is not submissive, she as you say surrender. If a man build trust to the woman with her heart submit to his will and guide. That is submission. Many men in this comment seem to think that hey should be "the boss" over the women, when its not about that.

[@joecool2759]

@@chrisanok9283 I agree 100% that is biblical I’m not trying to advocate Egalitarianism that’s a heretical position.

[@cosmic_seabunny]

@@litjellyfish Exactly! It seems even the woman in this video doesn’t understand the context of the scripture 😅 It leaves such a bad taste in my mouth but then I remember the men in my church are all godly people and always put others first! And because of that I want to be on board with they wanna do and support them! That being said, I am still known as the “helper” so if I see any guy (doesn’t matter their status) doing something stupid or unbiblical I’m GONNA say something! I’m not going to stay quiet why they act like fools 😂 and I definitely wouldn’t let my husband act like that. I still love him and respect him ofc but I’m not going to let that slide.

[@JarardKenneth]

I'm glad that you shared this, sis. Blessings to you for being obedient, bold, and honorable.

[@Blackwingsss]

They leave every man they can't control... good luck.

[@daboe2035]

Masculine women do. Strong men are not attracted to masculinity.

[@nixermwyt]

They also leave the man they control

[@Blackwingsss]

@@nixermwyt Lol true.

[@j.a.s6266]

And remember... They will leave you for the same reasons they liked you in the beginning. Lol

[@grizzlymcgill4117]

time to fly then (literally)

[@RegisNdeTene]

your understanding of this topic is very clear, i get that same issue when i speak to the sisters, the brothers are completely subjugated by their women, and the women will have none of it as soon as you bring this subject up. They don't like to be led. But it's not surprising, you look for the fruits of the spirit and that fruit is submission to God. So i don't waste my time arguing with women and men who disagree with this verse.

[@Numinalis]

We need more godly women like you!

[@Humourous_Pie]

@@Numinalis This is why women get abused because of sinful men can be corrupted by their sin. Meanwhile she is a woman who will graciously wait in faith for him to change. Instead he drugged her and then cheated on her. She ended up drowning trying to take a bath unaware that he drugged her. The church they attended stood by and did nothing. What kind of love is this?

[@jadedrac0]

Oh man don’t be surprised when you confront the Jezebel spirit in these women how viciously it will come out of them to attack you.

[@javelinblue5414]

My wife left me for the Church counciilor's son, Church knew about it, did nothing. Never really stepped back in a church since then.

[@davidthewitness]

I pray the Lord comforts your heart but you are called to submit to Christ and not the church That's part of what is in Ephesians 5 That being said..respectfully you are the one who chose her so I think you have a responsibility for who you chose not who the church chose for you If you didn't take enough time to study your wife to know where her allegiances lie then at least hopefully you will do so next time on Grace and peace to you

[@javelinblue5414]

@@davidthewitness Or.....the Church should be enforcing Biblical marriage. C&$#&.

[@fuzzy_wuzzy45]

@@davidthewitnessamen

[@BochuJay]

Dang.. your church should’ve put those two under church discipline..

[@adaptivegamer9905]

@@davidthewitnessI understand what you mean bro, but women (and men) can put up such a great facade for so long even after marriage then a year or even 3 years later the facade drops OR her “feelings” change “the spark is gone” etc. so it’s not the we choose wrong (ofc we do) but even when we thought we chose correctly we get screwed over. It can be very jarring & give someone a nihilistic mindset especially when the church you we expect to uphold the Word doors nothing about it.

[@Johnwick-07]

Thank you for taking time to become wise through your pursuit of God. May God continue to speak to you and fill you with more wisdom. My wife did not see what she was doing to our marriage and now she seeks the desires of this world. I have used this challenging time to grow closer to God and my children.

[@BrianSalazar-kn5ng]

“Feminism “ and secularism plagues the church, a lot of success driven talk etc. I need to fear God more.

[@CNYCNY1]

Good stuff, not many dare to speak the truth. Keep going. The majority has been led astray in this woke generation

[@cartoonrush5660]

They don't know what submission means biblically or how husbands are supposed to lead, so they try to create an egalitarian relationship to "stop abuse of power" because men don't know how to lead. This is easily answered by watching a John Piper video on submission. I'm glad to see you take your faith seriously and hope you continue growing to be more like Christ. But be careful of teaching others scripture outside of an evangelism context. God doesn't play around with people representing him in a teacher role. James 3:1: Not many of you should become teachers, my brothers, for you know that we who teach will be judged with greater strictness.

[@Rileyed]

Your profile says “your mom” and you are worried about this young lady not being a good representation in her teachings? Irony? 😂

[@cartoonrush5660]

​@@Rileyed Thank you for telling me about that. This account was made before I started trusting in Jesus as the only way into heaven, and I haven't checked the description of my account since I wrote it.

[@AntiSewingCircleChristianity]

A lot of times it’s not even about “knowing how to lead”. Some women damn near have Oppositional defiant disorder. Some are just too prideful to submit. Some were too coddled as children.

[@GoWithJesus]

Great Message of enCouragement & ImProvement!!!! (Thanks aGain!!!!)

[@liuton2005]

I grew up without a father because my mother divorced him while he was working abroad. I moved to a different country and had to face everything by myself, and learn everything by suffering and pain. Now I have a 4 year old son that I cannot see, just one hour a week because the mother of my son says that I am crazy for reading the Bible and refusing the cough shot. All the women in my life, except for my grandmother, have been a sorry disgrace for a human being.

[@gambit_toys6554]

1 hour a week? That's too little. Fight for your rights! Good you believe and refuse the sh0t

[@tobys4618]

I have just found you, and I see the sprit of God speaks through you, wisdom beyond your years. I’m 45 and have never been married. I have had a long road of learning through my years. And still am learning every day in my service to God. You are right in your stance, and know you are supported. Keep going! 👍☺️

[@baruchasriel1948]

Dear Sister Alice, from afar I only pray for you, that the LORD's faithful love will always be with you 🤍❤️🩵💜💚💙🧡✝️🙏

[@BamBamBAMCrypto]

You go girl! I like your convictions. I got your back.

[@tsouth-315]

Respect, love, prayers from our family in New York and The Philippines. 🫂🙏🏻

[@NEXUSLUKE]

Thank you for having the courage to stand up for the truth of the scriptures in a difficult environment. God bless you sister. Hold fast.

[@popcornn00]

oh man you are a gem! I pray that I find a Godly woman like you.

[@darkdefender6384]

Pure fire! You are my new favorite person!!! Thank you for posting this!!!

[@nadiavlasyuk5838]

GOD BLESS U SISTER!

[@erikevenson4303]

You have solved the whole world issue these past few decades. Women and men tend to forget this. You are going to make an amazing wife someday and I am a tad jealous.

[@JoshAwang]

I am so amazed by your wisdom and boldness, and the eloquence you speak with.. it has to be the great work the Lord has done in your life Alice... I am just gobsmacked... I've heard so many pastors and preachers and motivational speakers over 40 years as a Christian, but your 30 min content is so dense with wisdom and such liberating truths from above, it feels like I've listened to an entire series

[@willierobison1148]

I'm a pastor you are 100% accurate in your teaching

[@willierobison1148]

You are accurate and precise about who is to submit to who

[@adebowalegbenga4316]

I didn't really feel like commenting ...and by the way I subscribed. Weldone sister, it took me a while to know the purpose of marriage but when I did it's exactly as you state it here .. Keep the candle burning, the Lord is your strength 💪

[@peteypete9357]

Sad that this happened at your congregation. They need more maturity and experience of Christ

[@kcb514]

I stumbled across this video and was amazed to hear reasoning and wisdom beyond your years. God bless and guide you.

[@garynealjr]

I remember my father in law told me that he was the head but his wife was the boss. Strange. Imagine Christ telling the church that He is the head but the church is the boss.

[@Ex-Introverts]

Cant believe so much Wisdom at this age. You are gifted. God Bless You.

[@scammersnightmare]

Heard about "submitting" many times. You did bring up a novel point that I never consider. That time, book of Acts, wives might be thinking Christ is the number one and they don't care much about their husbands. Sex is an important part of covenant relationship. If that part not fulfilled, the men might look around or being unhappy, leading to divorces. That breaks the heart of God. I always like how you are brutally honest about your thoughts. Breath of fresh air. Don't worry about being right all the time or worry about the comments. Just seek God first and gaze upon His beauty and be satisfied in Him. We are called to be His sheep, not the "know it all". These foolish sheep follow their Shepherd till the end. We are foolishness to the world but wise in His eternal kingdom. Keep it up sis! Btw, are you planning to share your testimony?

[@tewkewl]

This is the #1 reason men are unhappy and cheat.

[@chrisanok9283]

But you shouldn't teach if you don't know what your teaching. Paul even said to not be many teachers since judgment is greater for them. I'm not directing this at her, just in general

[@scammersnightmare]

@@chrisanok9283 Please pray for one another as we follow His command. Love God and love people. I do see the danger of being very spiritual and not loving people, in which I am guilty of. Pray for one another.

[@amvalleyshan]

Thanks for standing up and speak out!

[@del10krejoicing9]

Im single and Im glad that people like you are speaking up about this! Its a shame that we call ourselves chrisntans and yet the WOMEN wont just do something as simple as being a submissive WIFE and WOMAN, THE WAY GOD MADE YOUUU. Its sad that this sister has to be the one to say it cause if we say it were misogynist all of a sudden! How far has the church fallen. As it was in the days of noah so shall it be at the coming of the son of man! Be ready and repent especially all you WOMEN no matter who you r

[@daminiel1]

This woman is wise!!! May God bless you Alice

[@1q2653]

10:45 They probably keep silent because they have learned that there is no point in arguing. The only language many women understand is when the man leaves.

[@F-4PhantomII]

Young lady, you are a true Christian & a most precious pearl full of wisdom & grace... listening to you speak the real undistorted truth brought tears of joy to my heart...God bless you in your walk with the LORD because you are without doubt a woman of the most high God almighty...such a pity that more women don't have the truth as you have.. I'll add that most men have become a disgrace by relinquishing their proper Godly authority to protect the women against the snares of the devil. Satan has corrupted the church & fostered spineless ignorant men to lead many into the pits of hell... I'm so ashamed to see what has happened to God's people...

[@repanthongsangs857]

this is ( reality) modern generation, your great video please keep going...........💌 sis

[@harryepstein3629]

Nice--- you're so smart Alice. I really appreciate you, your heart, your spirit, your intelligence, and your wisdom. I've only just discovered your channel- and this is the only podcast of yours I've watched or listened to so far- but I can see you're someone I'm gonna want to listen to a lot. God bless you, for your good good heart and soul ❤

[@ethansevilla1395]

I agree with your statement the most marriage you see should've not have started. Marriage requires two selfish people to be selfless.... that is an impossible task for most people today.

[@blackgold4291]

MOST WOMEN HAVE BEEN WITH THEIR HUSBAND... THEY JUST LISTEN TO THE SERPENT AND LEAVE... ADAM DIDN'T LEAVE EVE AND SHE "CHEATED"... THERE'S NO SUCH THING AS GF AND BF...

[@rommelriot]

Hi Alice! 💛 Onto the first minute and 51st second of your video, I'm pausing now.... subscribing, read your profile description/message & i am an immediate follower... I love the way you speak... I'm excited to see Christians coming from a non-Christian prominent country.... It gives me hope that many more will be saved around the world....! I'm so excited to watch more of your videos about God & the Bible ... I'm still struggling with my ways, but whenever I see people like you, I'm so excited to be much closer to God.🎉❤

[@frankiecal3186]

The reason for this is that the man dosen't submit to his wife but God. It goes God,Husband,Wife,Kids in that order the father is the instilling the word of God in the family. Nowadays you have it all backwards and wrong with the wife leading the house hold without god.

[@chrisduckettMusic]

I just come across your channel with this video I love how at the end you listen to the Holy Spirit and chose to have a brake before speaking walking in the Holy Spirit such a very encouraging message God bless

[@yllatusmuna]

There's a _funny story,_ hear this: Many couples are attending a marriage conference. The topic is "The headship of man in marriage." After the speech, the keynote speaker says: Every man who is truly the head of the household, please gather upstairs. The ones who are pushovers, gather downstairs. Only one man comes upstairs. The leader says: I'm happy to see there's at least one strong man in our community. The man replies: Can I go home now? My wife said she was going to give me sex if I come upstairs.

[@AntiSewingCircleChristianity]

😂😂

[@michaelcarlin777]

Amen. YOU , miss, are a RARE diamond 💎. Loving your content! God bless!

[@edyounot55]

I always hear women talk about how they're more spiritual and all, and how they get visions and dreams. So, I ask them to share with me as they understand it; WOW are they off in left field. Women are spiritually sensitive alright, to SATAN; but they refuse to admit this and so they get themselves into all kinds of witchcraft.

[@AntiSewingCircleChristianity]

Prelest

[@armywithbanners2458]

Its 50/50,they can be either more spiritually sensitive to God or Satan..

[@yuyutwenty1576]

I want to commend you for boldly sharing the topic. I see that although you look young, you explain this topic wiser and deeper than most people, and that your sharing is the truth of the Word of God. I was praying to know more about men & women (husband & wife) and family matters that God led me to your channel. I also understand that some women had gone against you, as it also happened to me when i try to answer men and women different roles in a family to my woman friend and she didn't like it. I love to hear that a woman is teaching this matter, as many women need this truth of the Bible, as well as men nowadays. The world with its feminisme has messed up men & women (family). My prayer is that God will increase you more and more in all understanding and wisdom of Hos word and His heart, that your channel will influence more women & men to go back to the biblical truth about marriage, family and husband wife matters. God bless you. I think you are needed for such a time like this. Thankyou. Note: I hope my english expresses correctly what i am trying to say. 😊

[@paulx7620]

No women, know peace.

[@SteedWillTravel]

Most inspiring video I’ve ever seen. Not because I’m a man but because of what God expected from both in the relationship. Wow. Thank you

[@bayani7626]

In this world of hook up culture, where can I find a woman like you?

[@TheSinlessAssassin]

Church.

[@ComedyCringetonCompilation]

pray

[@moxine_]

In China

[@embun1945]

@@moxine_ bull.

[@BrianSalazar-kn5ng]

GOD

[@JamesQuirk-t1b]

Your wisdom as a child of God preserves hope and truth for every soul who listens with a humble heart. Be strong in the LORD, you are a gift and a light for those in darkness. God Bless you for your faithfullness and wisdom beyond your years.

[@daltonyon]

These women don't follow the bible, but the world culture

[@aitharel3009]

It is more than encouraging to see you stand firm in the scripture. It's not always easy. I have not seen such a down to earth video that is so close to home on many points and I thank you for that. I also remember hearing a sermon on this in the last few months and think it would also be encouraging for you to hear. I'm not sure how to send it to you, as I'm not sure I want to link it here, it is not meant to be "public" (For an actual genuine reason), but I think it would be very apt, as it touches on most if not all of these points you have outlined here.

[@johnw3922]

From a man's perspective, I have noticed women who think things should be "equal" between husband and wife are the most miserable. Men and women have different roles to fulfill and what brings men the most fulfillment is being the protector and leader of the family, while women tend to hate both of those roles and would rather be a nurturing and caretaking role.

[@thomasbredewold]

Again great teaching. Thanks so much for your choice to be in Gods camp and spreading His wisdom!

[@farmerfootball27]

They were bullying you because their livelihoods were threatened. The way their marriage works would have to completely change forever if they accepted those verses from the Bible. They fear giving up the control. They're scared

[@fleucpl1779]

This woman is priceless a treasure.

[@daninspiration4064]

The reason I agreee to break up with GF.

[@blakeavila4409]

A gf is just another man’s future wife

[@lexzenis2544]

@@blakeavila4409 ...and subsequently ex wife.

[@johnx140]

​@@blakeavila4409that man's a fool then

[@lovelyloaa]

You have put words that I have been trying to figure out for years. Thank you ❤

[@lankonthungezung9360]

modern women will never accept this. lol

[@yamuthaho]

yes but they will die out and the conservative people are the ones having kids and families and building a future meanwhile modern people aren’t having kids to pass their beliefs down to.

[@scottsjwellfire3901]

as long as the husband is following the Word. Great job... Stay strong.

[@TheSonOfGodWorshipsTheFather]

The head of the woman is the man, the head of every man is Christ, the head of Christ is God. (1 Corinthians 11:3) *Jesus is the Son of God.* Jesus is a servant; the Son of God worships the Father. When Jesus was on the cross, he said, "My God, My God, why have you forsaken me?". (Matthew 27:46) "Why call me good? None is good, except God." (Matthew 19:17, Mark 10:18, Luke 18:19) The head of every wife is her husband, the head of every man is Christ, the head of Christ is God. If your husband tells you to sin, you are NOT to do it. We are supposed to follow the laws of the land, if your husband tells you to commit a crime, you are NOT to do it. (1 Peter 2:13-14) ⚠Some people want to argue about the name, the message is more important than the name.