"don't entertain people because you're needy." sooo truueee.... yes. So hard to do but yes.
@letstalk22027 жыл бұрын
this is so crazy i wrote the list and saw that non of the guys ive been going crazy over have anything i want lol
@ShanaJahsintaWalters6 жыл бұрын
Now you can focus on the men who match your list.
@carmenwg5 жыл бұрын
Yesssssss
@entitled76655 жыл бұрын
Wow! Light bulb moment for me...I get it now
@kiddohstephy45794 жыл бұрын
Same here.I just cut the communication.
@layparisss4 жыл бұрын
Such a shame so many of us have mothers who didn’t teach us SHI!t Thank God for KZbin
@clarahammer21124 жыл бұрын
hello dear do you need any help I. can help you out it worked for me.. whtsap me let's chat better.,,,
@clarahammer21124 жыл бұрын
whtsap....+1...(213).375...6251....me..,,
@luanagebre9212 Жыл бұрын
They didnt know
@biggstepperb6700 Жыл бұрын
Like seriously!!!
@shaunkwl Жыл бұрын
They didn’t have men to teach them!
@Blackdiamond929_4 жыл бұрын
Don’t settle even when you “feel “ lonely 😊🙃🙄
@clarahammer21124 жыл бұрын
hello dear do you need any help I. can help you out it worked for me.. whtsap me let's chat better.. .
@clarahammer21124 жыл бұрын
whtsap....+1...(213).375...6251....me....., ...
@charlita258 ай бұрын
It will always backfire 💣
@tajthegreatone93266 жыл бұрын
Leaving a bum dude, finding your video, getting a new job and working on myself has made a wonderful and huge difference in my self esteem! I can't thank you enough!🤗
@VondaBoo9 жыл бұрын
I did this and had the list for a loooooooong time...I didnt have the stars...LOL!!! He is NOW present...woot woot!!!
@SheRaSeven19 жыл бұрын
+Virgo Rising yay!!!! ! Im telling u !! Love it glad u got him!
@starrababy37885 жыл бұрын
“I’m confused, send it back!” That’s all I needed to hear. Thanks girl, you’re the female friend I’ve always needed but never had 💄
@artisticagi11 ай бұрын
1:51 If you are approached or come into contact with someone who does not have these qualities, automatically dismiss them. _show the universe that you trust that your manifestation is physically coming_
@alanalene5 жыл бұрын
I know this is an older video but I’m listening to everything in order and I’m so happy to have seen this one. I always tell my friends I rather wait for what I deserve than to just get anything because I know I won’t be happy long. Your videos are everything to me
@Withloveariaxo7 жыл бұрын
girls let me tell you... manifesting works! but we must be careful what we put on the list! last year I decided I wanted a handsome 10/10 business man that was financially successful. it was the most ridiculous criteria....and he presented himself to me anyway! here's the caveat: this type of man is NOT someone interested in marriage and emotional investment. with him came qualities that I liked and definitely disliked. i might not know everything i want in a man, but i know the more important ones to look out for.
@P_Belle6 жыл бұрын
Airi - THANK you! commitment comes from HIS emotional attachment, not the female being a trophy. (Trump, OJ...vs Will Smith, Obama)
@heatherschaeffer76256 жыл бұрын
You happened to meet "Prince Charming" let me explain. Princes Charming or Charmless, is the type of man who will usually wine and dine you at higher end establishments, buy you fancy gifts, expensive suits, he will be clean / OCD, and usually have a sports car. He may either live with his parents, mommy controls his life, or another figure is behind the curtains watching your every move and especial his. He is usually, very immature, self - centered, and thank your lucky stars you never had a family with this type of man. Prince Charming men, when they find out their girlfriend of many years or wife is pregnant they become very childish become overwhelmed and scared. As a result, they will suggest to their lady the following: never tell my family, I will take care of the trouble to abort the baby so he does not have to face the world with the news, adoption is always an option, and if he does stick around he will not get his hands dirty changing diapers. A lady I new years ago married this type of man had two beautiful twin girls with him. Yes, they need a lot of care when they were born being only 3 pounds each. Daddy, on the other hand needed his rest for work so he moved in with his mother to avoid his crying infant daughter and avoid the responsibility of helping to clean up their messes. As a result, daddy found a new princess at the bar and brought her home to mommy and forced the mother of his twins to pay rent. Surprise, she trust her princes to put the house in both their names when in actuality the CASTLE belonged to his first wife MOMMY! Fairy, tales do not always come true/ get you learned from your fairly tail. Best wishes Taylorsage3929
@SheIsFearfullyWonderfullyMade5 жыл бұрын
Awesome advice!! Money is important but loving, kind, generous, emotionally stable, etc are VERY important
@lisabuckner2435 жыл бұрын
Miss954 oh.... They can't be financially established and generous if they don't have money!
@leeslyrose4 жыл бұрын
Yes, don’t be too vague and not too specific because the universe is a trickster lol and it will be like: well you didn’t specify. Trust me, I asked for an older guy and the universe gave me a bf 14 years older than me 😳😳😳like universe I said older but not by that much
@youaremagick59355 жыл бұрын
I just made my list. I'm ready for my husband
@dumitruedelean595 жыл бұрын
How did it go?
@chinadoll49634 жыл бұрын
@nefari any progress?
@msinvincible20004 жыл бұрын
Your comment is 1 year old, so we'd like to know if it worked :)
@saiuizgg75994 жыл бұрын
How's it going for you girl?
@hajarhajar89063 жыл бұрын
How’s it going?
@gloforfitness2 жыл бұрын
Im starting my manifestation today. I want mine ginger,tall,loves to work out,financially stable,generous,educated,loves to travel,he will be so much in love with me,he will want kids,he will make a great dad and husband. When I finally get him,I will update you guys.
@kalimistakidou9103 Жыл бұрын
Any updates?
@LeahBayaka9 жыл бұрын
YAAAAAAAS!!!! Shared. So on point and I have been removing, unfriending and clearing house like a nobody's business. I now believe in the power of being clear because I have the results of women who do this... stop with the emotions and start thinking ladies lol... Thank you! Shared!
@melindaharris32617 жыл бұрын
Yes!!!
@AlchemyOfLife6 жыл бұрын
Leah Bayaka I literally manifested my wife lea😍 seeing your Tag and this video made me so happy. You can really manifest specific partners like I desired her specifically I didnt make a list like this but I know it works 100%
@zioncarter88665 жыл бұрын
why do we need to clear house
@kayyoung92425 жыл бұрын
@@zioncarter8866 get rid of pp and situations tht are not positive
@manifestingvlog15049 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing. A few days ago I looked at my relationship and made a list based on what I am experiencing and don't like. I wrote the opposite to what i don't like. And trust me when I was done I felt a difference in me to the extent that I don't intend to tolerate these negative experiences any more.
@SheRaSeven19 жыл бұрын
+Manifesting Vlog lol good for you!!
@joybliss99707 жыл бұрын
Manifesting Vlog Q
@milano8887 жыл бұрын
shera can you please do an updated video on how to attract a specific person into our life
@ShanaJahsintaWalters6 жыл бұрын
+Manifesting Vlog, good for you. I know you got this.
@NthabisengNgomane2 ай бұрын
I wrote my list a few hours ago and I needed to hear this. I don't even know how this video popped up but im grateful. Thank you for this
@missybella90464 жыл бұрын
Literally brought tears in my eyes. 38 and embracing and acknowledging myself 4 the great, beautiful woman I am. I always felt bad or thought I wasn't enough to set standards on men due to numerous factors. Your direct approach and seeing how u got your dream husband has made me realize I deserve a great, loving husband.i will no longer give time to grown boys. Done helping "fixer uppers" grow then they do me wrong. Done loving arrogant, nonempathic, abusive business men. NO MORE!
@clarahammer21124 жыл бұрын
hello dear do you need any help I. can help you out it worked for me.. whtsap me let's chat better.....,
@clarahammer21124 жыл бұрын
whtsap....+1...(213),.375...6251....me..,
@mamamoonie4 жыл бұрын
I have not even written down my manifestations for my husband and I'm already seeing synchronicities through commercials 🤯👍💍
@briana143336 жыл бұрын
Yessssss.. I'd rather be single than settle. I'm having a lot of fun dating and taking myself on dates in the meantime. Like you said, all is mind. Thanks, SheRa!
@Nika-yx7mi6 жыл бұрын
If you’re not playing the game then you’re getting played!! All men are the same. You’re too nice and they will take advantage of you. Leave you broke and broken.
@Essenceofme36 жыл бұрын
Kali Palmer yep you told the truth right there!
@ShanaJahsintaWalters6 жыл бұрын
So very true.
@lionsskyblue4425 жыл бұрын
@Makeup Minion If you can't beat them....
@kchism15 жыл бұрын
Gotta pick your poison
@DebraCTrialByFireProductions5 жыл бұрын
Maybe its best to be specific before you have a clown in your box taking you to Chucky Cheese. Stop the insanity
@christinawalthall9696 жыл бұрын
This beautiful woman right here is doing the Lords work! lol
@deessemm79705 жыл бұрын
Christina Walthall Amen
@lailatbarbie18844 жыл бұрын
I’m telling you!!!!! I love her so much!!!
@Royalempress883 жыл бұрын
No. She does witchcraft. What Lord do u serve?
@theluxuryminimalistraveler9 жыл бұрын
this video is SOO timely. I am using this to manifest my "perfect" lifestyle....working a demanding high paying job vs working in a position that allows me to focus on my hobbies and interests. I almost got suckered into applying for a "great" job that most people would love knowing darn well I have NO interest in working 10+ hours a day and being too exhausted to do anything else when I get home. It can be difficult at times to not let the influences and expectations of others get in the way of what I TRULY desire. Thanks for keeping me on track!! xoxo
@skyygoddezz8 жыл бұрын
You are on point my dear! Real talk and saved a lot of us thousands in therapy. Thanks
@Simplythetruthfulone5 жыл бұрын
"She like dem losers, don't even get up". Was this the guardian angels talking? I love this🤣🤣🤣
@TAJATee5 жыл бұрын
She's not lying DONT BE DISTRACTED BY THE FINE CUTIES. THAT DONT MEET YOUR QUALIFICATIONS!!!!! IT WILL LAST LONGER THAN THE LIE THAT ITS TEMPORARY IN YOUR HEAD!!!!!!! THANK U SHERA I WISH I FOUND U YEARS AGO!!!!!!!!!!!😰
@a_la_drinah3 жыл бұрын
Truth
@babyc.30153 жыл бұрын
Financial Stability ⭐ Financially literate ⭐ Educated ⭐ Older ⭐ Likes travel/working out Has hobbies Same humor 5'10 Same values Intelligent
@brendacrawford57442 жыл бұрын
YASSSSS!!!!
@brendacrawford57442 жыл бұрын
Thank U!!
@seniimonroll Жыл бұрын
Literally my list 😭😭
@shineegirlfan Жыл бұрын
Did you meet him??
@spokazimnyani202011 ай бұрын
@@shineegirlfanI'm wondering too😂😂
@bravesoul77774 ай бұрын
Im right there- id rather be alone than be with someone i dont really want. Lesson learned
@ms.a8064 жыл бұрын
Shera I know I am years late but this is my absolute favorite video from you. I have replayed this over and over to remind myself that my manifestation is coming.
@Jewelsessences10 ай бұрын
So many of us know exactly what we want & are focused & don’t settle but YEARS go by & we never manifest it
@aliyarahman854 жыл бұрын
I loved your message of clarity and self worth. Thank you
@gerrimiller66075 жыл бұрын
Dang.... I’m going to write a list so I can get me my Boaz. Oh wow girl🌸 you are a beautiful soul. I’m happy you have a lovely marriage and love 💕 your personality
@saiuizgg75994 жыл бұрын
How did it work out for you?
@GuerlyneBel6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this post beautiful queem👑. i made a list last year!!! I have been Visualizing,manfestating & I know and believe before this year ends He will be arriving!! 💕💕💕💕
@EmeboFavour6 жыл бұрын
Guerlyne Bel hope you are not too specific and you also have the quality that kind of man would be possibly looking for too.....so that your manifestation would be fast
@BlissfulBundlesgiftshop6 жыл бұрын
I keep attracting men with no car. What's going on Sis?????? lol
@meers24685 жыл бұрын
😂 little bit funny
@anonymousone54525 жыл бұрын
I had this same problem. Answer these 2 questions and I'll tell you what to do next: (1) do you have a car? (2) whats the first thing you think about when you think about a man with a car?
@Nokss_204 жыл бұрын
You like to walk alot 😂😂
@thebeautygoddess91954 жыл бұрын
😁😁😁
@schnioula4 жыл бұрын
*Try Kanye‘s workout plan!* 😁 „You might bear to pull you a rapper, a NBA player, Man, at least a dude wit' a car“ 🚗
@MsVakong6 жыл бұрын
I've done this and it definitely works. The only issue is I was not specific enough so I got some qualities I really didn't want also. I'm tweaking my list and will actually write it down this time.
@stockyguru5 жыл бұрын
Yeah it does work.I got a job like this
@mahaalotaibi83525 жыл бұрын
Dating nowadays especially for marriage is getting so difficult I'm feeling really low lately and hopeless and depressed it's been 5 years of being single.. I've always had high standards marriage #1 but it seems gay people are having way more luck than straight people in 20th century. Men are addicted to self pleasure and married to their job and their "boys" friends it's horrible..
@mstwelvedeadlycyns5 жыл бұрын
Like sheraseven1 says never give it up or give up
@hisroyalhighness77785 жыл бұрын
Maha Alotaibi how
@deessemm79705 жыл бұрын
NunuDiamondz baaaam!
@NA-vt6mz4 жыл бұрын
Try minder app
@saiuizgg75994 жыл бұрын
How are you doing now?
@valeriethebeautifulsoultv41793 жыл бұрын
“Don’t settle”💎
@LVStarrTV8 жыл бұрын
Great manifesting advice! I love all your videos on both your channels!
@MonShizuka1237 жыл бұрын
100%👍👍 on point, it helped me a lot. This made me realise what I have been doing wrong !!! Thank you!! You should be a relationship coach!
@boitumelokeabilwe946 Жыл бұрын
Define your goals..what is it that you want about this person.. more of the kind of job you want.
@Shayycraft_3 жыл бұрын
I just remade my list, better than my last one and not too detailed. I will dismiss everyone who’s not my list.
@clarahammer30413 жыл бұрын
hello dear do you need any help I. can help you out it worked me.. whtsap me let's chat better.+1"""(8"""3"""1""") 6"""1"2"""2""""8"""8"""6""
@sabounji6 жыл бұрын
Many are stating it ver very very very CLEAR and BOLD that they do not want interferences in private lives and DO NOT want to deal with GROUP. So each should stick to their own kind. There is not much to be marketed or to be attracted to from the first place. Watching others asses or back does not save criminals because the entire world watches inside each and single home, streets, cities etc etc............ When, where ,what, who and , what is going on. Things are made clear.
@NatashaRaisorGlam7 жыл бұрын
You give wonderful advice. Thanks for your videos.
@ShanaJahsintaWalters6 жыл бұрын
SheRaSeven, your videos are just timeless.
@oia58822 жыл бұрын
Oh my, now and back then, you're such a beautiful feminine inspiration💗 Thank you so much, Shera🦋💕
@ah117856 жыл бұрын
can't believe ive now discovered this channel. I normally watch your othwr one. new subscriber on this!! luvin it
@kirakeynow8 жыл бұрын
I love you so much! Thanks for your wisdom! I make so many mistakes and then i'm wondering why i dont have luck with men loool
@ShanaJahsintaWalters6 жыл бұрын
We can change our luck with men.
@veronika.vrablik5 жыл бұрын
girl preach , much needed this morning , love your energy
@Blue-gw4ft Жыл бұрын
I was needing this so much. Thank you ❤
@heatherschaffer94062 жыл бұрын
I have not watched y videos in a hot minute. I am sharing y videos with others that need to level up. I also want to wish y and y family a very fruitful and blessed new year.
@ShevetteJackson7 жыл бұрын
The universe going to say sit down she's just playing. Lol 😁😂😂😂
@odessaclark4882 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for keeping me focus!
@ee5286 жыл бұрын
I swear you have a video for any and every topic under the sun and not only :-)))
@IDEALCONFIDANT6 жыл бұрын
This is such a great video. Thank you for sharing your wise insight! 🙏🏾
@moniquemoonlight80385 жыл бұрын
Beautiful Thank you for sharing this one This was so on point
@aDiamonda2 ай бұрын
i am grateful for you Shera ♥
@jordangarcia97485 жыл бұрын
This video came at the perfect time ;-) Thank you so much !!
@BoudoirBoutiqueNC4 жыл бұрын
Bless you Muva! You deserve all of your success.
@Miskito3 жыл бұрын
Love your energy!!
@phineashenshaw6 жыл бұрын
This goes for anything. I have wasted money and time on people and things that I settled for, only to wind up with what I really wanted after accumulating a boneyard.
@gloriamwelu3900 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Sheera.❤
@sherrita85827 жыл бұрын
you're too funny,enjoyed it and learning
@letstalkwithdeedee70919 жыл бұрын
doing my list tonight!
@saiuizgg75994 жыл бұрын
How did it go? Did you settle down with the man that you wanted to?
@nancyxtay8 жыл бұрын
Excellent advice!
@TosyaChan5 жыл бұрын
Lol I have a story about this. I've manifested the exact guy I wanted. My list was full of details: he needed to be a slim attractive ginger, his favorite color is white, etc etc etc, and I expected him to transfer to my school this exact year (I was about to go to 9th grade). EVERYTHING came true except he didn't transfer that year, but the following year when I was in 10th grade.
@hazelbaby80815 жыл бұрын
_ wow that’s amazing
@liorasitelman18564 жыл бұрын
Favorite color is white? Lol why does that matter?
@Jeniffer618674 жыл бұрын
@@liorasitelman1856 because she's a kid 😊
@ShevetteJackson7 жыл бұрын
Thank you I love your videos . You so straightforward and you telling the truth. 😁😁
@mr.debonair78405 жыл бұрын
I ❤️ your videos because you ALWAYS speak the truth👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾!!
@RoseAStarr-ws6uf3 жыл бұрын
That’s me rn lmaooo I do not care anymore! After watching you, I refuse to settle 🙃
@annmariepowell-brooks60106 жыл бұрын
I so like your message girl...God bless you...I wil stay focus... #gratitude
@shakiraghaff93395 жыл бұрын
Oh my ..this is so what I needed to hear
@lacefrontstbmoth5 жыл бұрын
I'd love to know what was on Shera's list. Anyone watching, please comment below what's on your list. I need ideas!
@Jeniffer618674 жыл бұрын
That's great content by Shera. Love her.
@clarahammer21124 жыл бұрын
hello dear do you need any help I. can help you out it worked for me.. whtsap me let's chat better.
@clarahammer21124 жыл бұрын
whtsap....+1...(213).375...6251....me..
@iFaerySorcière4 жыл бұрын
I am so grateful for Shera ...
@ebonyhale39748 жыл бұрын
I just love your mind!!!
@HeadfulofHair3 жыл бұрын
sis said a WEEK later. come thru with the message
@clarahammer30413 жыл бұрын
hello dear do you need any help I. can help you out it worked me.. whtsap me let's chat better.+1"""(8"""3"""1""") 6"""1"2"""2""""8"""8"""6""
@YahhGirlJazz3 жыл бұрын
I made a list but idk if I’m suppose to put their nationality or what skin tone I want them to be?
@antisocial_socialite8 жыл бұрын
How long was your list? I did this and mines was looooonnnngggg. ...lol. I think I gotta narrow mines down to the top 20 most important things.
@bigvictory143Ай бұрын
stick with the list ❤❤❤
@katiataggarta19144 ай бұрын
This is the video that made me discover Shera !!!!!!
@IamKarryanne7 жыл бұрын
send it back send it back 😂😂...i been playing myself, no more!
@Beautifulmorning-fo2ey8 жыл бұрын
LOL, Thank You for this Information, I enjoyed this video!!!
@mzniecy60122 жыл бұрын
These are things I will teach my daughter if I ever have one
@anonymousbee5 жыл бұрын
love you Shera 🌌💖
@littlewing10238 жыл бұрын
I loooooveeee your videos!!!! 😣😣😍😣😣😣😍😍😆😆😄😄😄😄 you're like my #witchmomgoals
@plumpnfit3 жыл бұрын
What do y’all put for looks? How specific to be?
@clarahammer30413 жыл бұрын
hello dear do you need any help I. can help you out it worked me.. whtsap me let's chat better.+1"""(8"""3"""1""") 6"""1"2"""2""""8"""8"""6""
@LOADING...o.o.o3 жыл бұрын
I like her old videos.
@clarahammer30413 жыл бұрын
hello dear do you need any help I. can help you out it worked me.. whtsap me let's chat better.+1"""(8"""3"""1""") 6"""1"2"""2""""8"""8"""6"
@freyawinterbourne23209 жыл бұрын
@SheRaSeven19 жыл бұрын
+Freya Winterbourne you are welcome!
@mlfitness676 жыл бұрын
Great video and advice
@manalani37246 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much....love your video.
@Starboythecosmicwitch9 жыл бұрын
Great Video!
@SheRaSeven19 жыл бұрын
+hekterios thank you! :)
@bettycoleman30126 жыл бұрын
You have the best videos
@lindseyblohan40415 ай бұрын
Amazing video.
@LynLyn3733 жыл бұрын
Hi Shera7 what were your non-negotiable on your list of qualities your man needed to have?
@imaniscript6323 Жыл бұрын
I NEEDED THIS 🎉
@najmaabdulahi20626 жыл бұрын
what if I met him 2 months ago but I never show him again because I run from him scare to love and I don't know where he lives. don't know nothing about him but I keep thinken about him🤔
@Incognito_Icon Жыл бұрын
They always say….you’ll never get that!🙄
@MaryMary-zh3tn5 жыл бұрын
Hello gorgeous. Love your feedback ♥️. What if you have already done the list two years ago and you manifested eveeeerything on the list except that this man does not persue you? 😏😏Moving on to another man right?
@yaninamiller57115 жыл бұрын
Girl,I can't believe they still ask that question ,because you have already beat that horse to death in so many of your videos.
@victoriavintage95685 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your videos....
@lisar915r95 жыл бұрын
Hi there. At what point in your dating life did you know that your husband was "the one.". Thanks
@JennyBhattacharya8 жыл бұрын
my neediness messed up everything -_-
@saiuizgg75994 жыл бұрын
Oh girl :c how is it going now?
@JennyBhattacharya4 жыл бұрын
@@saiuizgg7599 going great. Thanks
@divyapinge84074 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this! I am on several dating sites and have made a very long and specific list of what I want in a partner. Does this mean I should talk n give a chance to every guy who approaches me to see if they fit the bill? Most times the initial profile itself doesn’t connect with me?
@clarahammer21124 жыл бұрын
hello dear do you need any help I. can help you out it worked for me.. whtsap me let's chat better.
@clarahammer21124 жыл бұрын
whtsap....+1...(213).375...6251....me..
@Dmoon12349 жыл бұрын
hi. thanks for the video. I created a list a long time ago. nothing happened. should I enhance the process?
@jrmetmoi9 жыл бұрын
Stick with it as much as possible and don't give others any passes. Do you think your list is too specific though?
@Dmoon12349 жыл бұрын
+jrmetmoi I have a lot of intrinsic values on my list. I am constantly revising and meditating on it.