how to master ✨quiet confidence✨

EXIT your shy girl era
📌 timestamps
0:00 - intro
2:47 you don’t need to 'be more'
7:03 embrace your quirks
9:56 act like you’re correct
11:37 don’t rely on people to believe you
13:28 create your own identity
16:07 say no more
18:25 master the deep convo
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[@raider394]

This is what an introvert actually is not the antisocial people in today’s time have deemed it to be 🤝 great video

[@ChristinaAaliyah]

FACTS

[@phs15]

I saw this quote that's something along the lines of, "Fools speak because they feel like they have to say something, wise people speak because they have something to say."

[@ellouisebadger849]

This video! I've grown up to feel I'm not enough. Not funny enough, not loud enough, not interesting enough. I'm tired of it because quiet people do bring value to the table

[@ChristinaAaliyah]

literally me, it's exhuasting

[@catherine.rezzuto]

i've found with quiet confidence comes this subtle leadership skill. once you do a certain action people will notice and follow your example. sometimes being the observer, whether that's at work or in your friend group, can help build up natural leadership qualities because you will know when to speak up, when to advocate for others, and have a firm grasp on how others communicate and in turn that helps you communicate better with that individual.

[@Delulu_Charm]

I love throwing stuff away too, I feel much cleaner when my room is like empty, someone gets me😭😍❤

[@Sxyin]

this video resonated with me so much omg every single point ESPECIALLY THE ENCYCLOPEDIA i will literally be scared to say anything if i’m not confident in being 10000% correct also i have a deeper monotone voice sometimes and i’m scared if i don’t sound bubbly and high pitched that people are gonna think i’m uninterested or being mean 😭😭

[@stella.thursday]

literally found ur channel 5mins ago and I FEEL SO SEEEENNNN w this vid 😭 omg

[@ChristinaAaliyah]

when my channel finds the right ppl >>>

[@moonchild5799]

I love this ❤ I have the feeling that a lot of people think that you can only be confidence when you're extreme loud, extravert and talkative, but I think most confident people are in fact more on the quite side because they know that they are worthy and don't feel the need to impress anyone. Confidence is a feeling of accepting yourself just the way you are

[@ChristinaAaliyah]

that last line >>> 'confidence is a feeling of accepting yourself just the way you are' i couldn't agree more!

[@ellouisebadger849]

You're just a minimalist if you like an empty space. I love having a clear out too 😊

[@ChristinaAaliyah]

that's the word! i just love the aesthetic

[@thesecretsheholds]

HERE IN 30 SECS AND TSYMM NEEDED THIS ILYSMM

[@ChristinaAaliyah]

you were quicker than me lmaoo

[@evazts1379]

I relate so much to your quirk about throwing things away. I'm always on a quest to chuck things out of my room even though it's almost empty, and I've done a declutterung on my clothes like 10 times there's literally no more thigs that i can throw away😂😂

[@ChristinaAaliyah]

FINALLY someone who gets me 😭😭

[@lessthangraceful]

Me too 😂🥰

[@trapicheena726]

I still have trouble with the “act like you’re correct” because even though I know something I say is right, I still add “I think” at the end. I honestly hate that I do this, but ig I’m just scared to be seen like an arrogant person. I’m an indecisive person and have low self confidence, so I tend to act submissive to the other person I’m talking too. This was a bad choice to do because when I do better than a coworker, they become competitive and try to bring me down. Watching this video made me realized that I’m not forced to talk to my coworkers when work is slow.

[@Tapy0ka545]

You’re growing so fast :o!! I only subbed a few weeks ago and you were around 16k and now you’re already over 25k, keep it up

[@ChristinaAaliyah]

ikr!! it's crazy 😭 i didn't realise this sort of stuff resonated with so many ppl

[@zunnyyyday]

i automatically subscribed 10 mins in, girl u just described my problem rn😭

[@user-ng2es5fy7b]

i love your advices please don’t die

[@asapbaby9275]

Its insane you pinpointed EVERYTHING in my life. I am in utter shock. Thank you for this video.

[@kennedisuniah7119]

a good example of this is mimi vs. Samatha on love island, mimi has a lot of the quite confidence and sam is a bit louder and extroverted but not necessarily as confident.

[@samtheham1280]

LOLLLL having 9 of the same shirt is giving a bit of the tism ngl😭

[@ChristinaAaliyah]

what do we think of the new set up!!

[@sofiachahbounia.]

strangeee but cozy❤

[@Abroadgirl915]

Without the mic it looks like I am having a conversation with my close friend / older sister and they are giving me advice lol ❤

[@Jiminsboost]

Thank you for this video and also as an introvert myself i feel like it’s not so hard for us to be confident when we are with the right people but than when we are around people we don’t know it’s like we shut down because we don’t know what to say or we feel that we won’t fit it. And sometimes we don’t and it’s okay to remove yourself from the situation or the group. But when I was in middle school I was antisocial and shy but then when I was around my friends I would be talkative so I think the older I got the more introverted I became and the less talkative I became as well. And by the way I love your accent 💕

[@ChristinaAaliyah]

exactly!! we become so animated and bubbly around the right people, and then the opposite around other people. imo all that matters is you keep those people close, bc it doesn't matter what acquaintances or strangers think, only what you think and the ppl close to you! 💕

[@Jiminsboost]

@@ChristinaAaliyah thank you and so true 🥹💕

[@shalomchika5004]

I appreciate your vulnerability. It's relatable, and i've done the needful(subscribed).

[@TrinityHopkins-bn2df]

Oh my goodness, I just discovered your channel and I'm in uni right now in nursing and I'm obsesseddd

[@SleepySabASMR]

I love throwing stuff away and I love wearing the same things everyday 😭twinsies

[@TheBestBreadEver]

I found your channel 2 minutes ago and it's so good!! These are actually helpful videos

[@HoneyduckXD]

Tysm I needed this 😭

[@sfmmmo7599]

Thank u for ur videos girl! 🫶✨️

[@ChristinaAaliyah]

ofc

[@userfum]

this is literally what i've been looking for

[@ChristinaAaliyah]

we're made for each other

[@specsinmotion]

i feel like we would be such good friends, i love your energy

[@ChristinaAaliyah]

we would for sure 😎

[@angelapina]

this video was amazing

[@Sxyin]

omg i feel like we’re so similar, i’m also only child parents divorced and likes to yap only when i want to 😭

[@katherine5340]

I love your videos, they are very helpful!

[@ChristinaAaliyah]

than you katherine, this means more than u know

[@electriss5111]

You just described me in the first 40 seconds🤩

[@Duck_Tales-FOR-YOU.]

Your content is amazing!

[@ChristinaAaliyah]

this means so much

[@nellajoensalo2316]

As an autistic person I find your friends comment super funny, because I totally wear ”the same” outfits all the time, lol.

[@ChristinaAaliyah]

haha it's just so reassuring to know i don't have to worry about what i'm gonna wear

[@kylie0110]

why tf did u EXACTLY describe me at the begginning

[@christinaregi3546]

Another fab videoooo!!!

[@ChristinaAaliyah]

my bestie !! thank you 💘

[@lincolnmcloud8460]

Hey I really liked this video. I know I learned a lot of confidence and how to build it up. Ideally I would like to implement all of these different exercises to better improve my confidence; but the one I want to focus on the most is just saying no.

[@Clxxdyyyyyyy]

You kinda remind me of a cartoon character. Same outfit everyday, almost empty room, ridiculously pretty. You just are a cartoon character

[@ChristinaAaliyah]

this made me laugh idk why 🤣🤣 thank you 😭

[@LeticiaPessoaa]

great content, watching your videos makes me more aware and less emotional about the phase I'm going through and motivates me to continue!! I only ask that the next videos have subtitles, as English is not my native language and sometimes the lines are too fast, I still love your videos!!

[@ChristinaAaliyah]

thank you Leticia! i can definitely upload subtitles in my next ones :)

[@Izxir]

I love ur content

[@ChristinaAaliyah]

i love u 2

[@uiohfiuszohda]

i needed this, i can't be social even if my life depends on it, love you queen

[@ChristinaAaliyah]

here for u 🦋

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[@millysmanifestations]

congratulations on getting your degree! So proud of you miss doctor!!! ahh that’s so big👩‍⚕️💚💚

[@ChristinaAaliyah]

thank you!! i can't believe it's all done, officially an adult now

[@doveslizleskiss2956]

literally was taking notes from that video, thanks so much for the advice. little question here: any tips on being respected by everyone? can i just delulu into it, and go in conversations with the mindset of ''i'm already respected''? xoxo

[@ChristinaAaliyah]

omg i'm literally planning a video on this. it's gonna be called something like 'don't aim to be liked, aim to be respected' or something like that. i've come to realise people respect you A LOT when you care more about approving of yourself vs seeking approval. but i'll elaborate more in the video. but yeah, like you said, defo walk in the room, confident af, you approve of yourself, you don't need anyone to validate you, win or lose, you always have your own back, you don't need anyone's validation 🙌

[@Jd1156]

Wow dope content keep growing🔥🔥🔥

[@Briianswrld]

The fact that I scrolled to see ur thumbnails is hilarious

[@ChristinaAaliyah]

hehe

[@user-jd3fh3sq5p]

Your face and your speech is sooooooooo beautifulllll wow 🫂🦋

[@ChristinaAaliyah]

you're so kind, thank you 🦋

[@chrisaguilar2681]

Imma shoot my shot here. Does anyone want to go out on a date soon lol? Los angeles local here

[@CYBER_FunkER]

Stoicism

[@ChristinaAaliyah]

amazing philosophy

[@2909XX]

I thought your "throwing away things" quirk was funny but why do you do that do you think? 🤔 I understand the clothes thing I identify with that it makes sense. Great video as always, glad you started a KZbin channel.. valuable content 💪🏆🫡

[@ChristinaAaliyah]

i think i get scared having too much stuff, like my worst nightmare is being a hoarder 😭🤣

[@2909XX]

@ChristinaAaliyah This is very interesting 🤔

[@hungrychat7304]

Nah those girls were weird asf

[@Babygirl758]

steve jobs wears the same thing everyday

[@ChristinaAaliyah]

right ?? if it's good enough for steve it's good enough for me

[@Babygirl758]

@@ChristinaAaliyah i read somewhere intelligent people do that to save time in the morning trying to figure out what to wear

[@lifeisthisway]

you give me so much hope, you can’t imagine… it’s like i’m listening to a future, wiser version of myself. I’m in med school right now, and throughout first three years of it all my personality was literally studying. Only recently I discovered that i also have other things i like to do 😆 Great video, as per usual 🩷

[@ChristinaAaliyah]

aw girl 🥹 you've got this !! med school has that affect on a lot of us 🥲 it's a slow process to unlearn but you can absoluelty thrive in your exams and irl too!