How to move on from a Plutonic obsession in synastry

Some tips and suggestions for breaking the tie of Plutonic obsessional desire and moving on into a better and freer life that is about you!
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[@honeybfly1980]

I hate how I feel that his energy blocks me from other relationships but my energy doesnt block his life

[@bestforyouall]

Same here

[@Sonic_sorceress]

cut the fuckin cords and banish it bitch.its simple . u got the power to do.

[@trs_4612]

@@Sonic_sorceress resource ? I did one cord cutting but still not working fully. There is one that calls on Samael but I’m scared of him

[@fancylyrics.]

Same here Girl!! 😭😭 are you the moon or the house..??..

[@thealchemist0000]

This was so apt for me in from 2016 to Jan 2019. The moment We broke up I received 4 major job offers these were Fortune 500 companies. I don’t know what I was blocking for myself in life.

[@theastrojunkie]

“Recognizing what it is about this particular person that has us so HOOKED, because those are the parts of US we need to be investing in, those are the parts of US that we need to be developing, those are the parts in US that we need to loving, instead of seeing that in another person and deciding to love it through them. We see our potential in another that’s what plutonic relationships are about.” -JEWEL 💎 WOW! This is so true it makes me sad but at the same time this is sooo enlightening and something I will always keep in mind whenever I want to begin obsessing. THANK YOU !! ♥️

[@Quasihamster]

Definitely. All obsessing aside, my precious Scorpio from back then, they did show me the person I wanted to be. Not only is my Pluto in Scorpio, but I also have the north node in the 8th. The obscure, the occult, the mysterious, death... that's what my soul chose to work out this lifetime, apparently. That's a merit that will remain for as long as I live, and it also means I wasn't completely mind-sick. There was a part of soulmatehood that was genuine and true. We did call each other good friends after all, probably not without a reason.

[@gear14]

it's the potential thing that you see, once you achieve that thing you're so obsessed within yourself they are no longer interesting

[@DIGITALHomeKrafts]

Ahhhh

[@patrickjohn885]

One of the things I love about astrology is learning that this kind of thing can happen to anybody. I remember learning that even Princess Diana had a Pluto type obsession with a certain man. She tried calling him over 300 times with no response and she only stopped when she was threatened with a restraining order.

[@andromeda1903]

i have been to some excellent therapists that helped me after weeks of talk, but your videos have helped me see the root of my problems so quickly! thank you so much for these amazing videos! much love to you!

[@JewelMayberry]

+palehoney79 My 💓 to you also. I send you my good thoughts and energy.

[@luciantempest1291]

Realizing I had spent more time going over and over old stuff than the time we were together. Wasting that time with my head in the past rather than accepting, learning and looking for new experiences. Wasting that time I could have spent on myself, been goal focused instead of looking for ways to hurt myself over and over. I am heavily plutonic and its easy to get caught in the trap of rummaging through rubbish. Its good to know I will always fall into this hole but can learn to pull myself out quicker everytime

[@lessandra602]

‘The passion will always be there’ and that’s enough. It doesn’t require any action to stay involved just acceptance

[@breakingcycles741]

The worst is when they have their pluto aspecting all of your personal planets but your pluto doesn't aspect any of their's. It is so unrequited and heartbreaking. Like how could I have all of this obsession and deep feelings for someone and they literally don't feel anything at all? It's the worst and takes a toll on your mental health and self esteem.

[@Riyaaaa__621]

Exactly Same in my case 😢

[@sonvous0]

Are you two close in age? How are you feeling now? Did it get better?

[@sterling1386]

Very, very difficult to leave/get over. Cord cutting is a great idea. Passion so strong there are no words. Emotional torture equally strong. It is an addiction. The withdrawal is so hard. Excellent vid, Jewel. The longing, yes. The grief. The hook, the great passion. 15 years of this addiction.

[@leslie848]

Yes, indeed. Please keep in mind that you can will be able to move on. The other person is not what you really need. But we are convinced at this stage, the longing.... Focus on what what your deepest desires. It's in you and you alone NOT the other person.

[@hanahodzic4157]

My professor of Shakespeare was always repeating the sentence: "Longing is belonging." After a Plutonic encounter, I could fully understand what he was talking about. Once you realize you actually belong to someone else, that's an instant wake-up call.

[@iloveyoutothemoonandback]

I dont understand?

[@thaomirys]

⁠@@iloveyoutothemoonandbackI think she was trying to say that once you realize you “belong” to someone it’s a big red flag 🚩 because we actually cannot and should not belongs to anyone but ourselves. I think that what she means by wake up call. The sense of losing yourself and obsessing over another human it’s as dangerous as any other type of addiction. It requires a lot of work, maybe work for the rest of your life, maybe you will never get over that craving you have… but you got do what you got do. Period.

[@angelwhisper239]

The memory of great passion has to be something that we can live with..... Amen 🙏

[@TheAnetteB]

I used hypnosis therapy to cut the ties with my ex. In the hypnosis session I asked him to forgive me for every misdeed ai had done, and then I forgived him (in hypnosis) for what he did to me. And with the help of an angels sword of fire I cut the cords between us. It was SO relieving! I felt lighter afterwards, it was almost physical. I've done a lot of what you said as well (new hair color, loosing weight, moving to another place...) and it really helps. But you need to cut that cord and to forgive to be able to heal properly. I'm a heavy weight Scorpio/8th house type and I don't let go easily.

[@trs_4612]

Scorpio stellium here too. Which angels did u call? Hypnosis therapy? Can u do it at home

[@TheAnetteB]

@@trs_4612 I call on Michael the Archangel, and hypnosis therapy is best done by a certified hypnosis therapist, and that is my best recommendation. Go for one who makes you feel safe and has papers/authorized papers on his/her wall. Don't want an amateur to mess with your braincells!

[@trs_4612]

@@TheAnetteB thank you for the response !

[@NeptunesGlory]

I found that looking at it from a psychological perspective works and trying to remain objective. Throwing yourself into something really helps as all that pent up energy is looking for an outlet and your minds so focused on your love situation; there needs to be balance mentally. Self love meditations, rituals, prayer, crying, self love, self acceptance, mindfulness, distractions, laughing, being thankful, attitude of gratitude, self honesty, aura cleansing baths, change hair colour and style, exercise, give something up like smoking to practice mental self control, positive affirmations, journal writing. I could probably go on but I think the point is about distraction and if it's something positive then it's win win all the way. Self love and forgiveness is the gem in all of this. Being honest that it's really just an obsession and ego based although painful helps you to realise it starts and is healed within you...you have to let yourself off the hook and know there's approx 7 billion other chances at love (lol) and you deserve to be happy. However really you are in control of your own happiness and it's true what you said in your Venus conjunct Pluto video, it's about what you can give and not what you can get. Insecurely grasping or longing for the other person to heal a part of ourselves we can heal ourselves. Maybe it's about turning the obsession inwards. Maybe it's really all about self acceptance, seeing what drives us and whether it's healthy and re-channeling into something more positive and as always in everything self love. I have Pluto conjucnt Venus in Libra and dated a guy with the same placement in Scorpio, for 2 months. We split up following an uncovering of a secret and his immaturity (I'm trying not to be bitter lol). However we work together, so it's a challenge! But it's been 1 month now and I've learnt so much. It's also as much about transformation as anything else. Sorry, I'm a chatterbox at times. What can I say your video was inspiring. p.s. I love your tights 😊

[@shawna0004]

I have Venus square Pluto in my natal chart. I have become romantically obsessed many times in my life. In the beginning, the only thing that would fix it was to find the next thing to become obsessed with but now that I’m older, and it has become clear that my most recent obsession doesn’t give a damn about me I have learned to call back my energy and reinvest it in myself, I am learning to become obsessed with self-care and manifesting my own dreams because when you invest in yourself, you never lose.

[@crystaleyesvision7055]

Many years ago I was in relationship like this. My ex sun is trine to my pluto. And my ex sun is in pieces and my pluto is in scorpio. And it has been very painfull for me to move on from this relationship because I was almost obsessed with my ex. I was always thing about him it was like I put my own life hold. You can move on from a plutonic relationship but you will never forget about that love that you use to share with this person. The best thing is just to stop having contact to the person and do some good things for yourself. Start working out or find something to focus on or else you get stuck.

[@shiawaseninarou]

Would you consider making a video about Pluto through the houses?

[@pedrolopez9703]

wow this is very much what i experience when i am in love. its like an all consuming flame. very accurate! But i have grown so much from this position its crazy. i have accomplished so much in my life concentrating the sexual energy on myself and how to transform my life. Completely had to die psychologically to be reborn stronger literately this is how i envisioned the process and it was intuitive way before i knew any of my astrological aspects. i think it helps that i am a plutonic/ venus person.

[@ctwolfe72]

Great video. I have come out the other side of a mid life plutonic obsession. For me, I realized the person of focus served as a catalyst for needed change in my life. My life is so different now, and I am weary, but I pray incrementally wiser. Thank you.

[@meidigoh]

What was helpful to me: was building meaningful connections and friendships with other people. And being in a band: being in a weekly creative, joyful process with other people, so I would be out of that other place for a while and be reminded that there is more. And having a life and self affirming goal to work towards: for me that was writing my own music and making that into an album: to project and collect my own specialness: my own Voice, into a place, and hearing it myself and sharing it with other people. Like saying: I exist: this is who I am☆

[@RomiBach]

It helps to keep saying to yourself this is where you end and I begin! The constant 'US' that a Platonic relationship brings is super subtle and suffocating! Thank you for creating this video you're helping a lot of people!

[@Totes_Masc]

I have a Libra sun, Scorpio Venus and moon in cancer with Pluto in Scorpio 😬😬😬 Anyone I meet that is a year or two older gives my sun conjunct their Pluto. I’ve had so many of these. The worst one was 5 years ago. It was an internal street fighter to move away from this obsession, to do it, I had to make daily conscious choices and habits with strict discipline to shift my focus on to move away. It was not easy much like giving up a heroin addiction. I wish I had seen this content back then. The tips mentioned are helpful, i can say each time gets easier, we get to know ourselves and realise when we are engaged in power games. The best advice I can give anyone is to drop the rope. You are playing a game or tug-of-war with yourself. You look silly, the object of your affection can see this, have some dignity and move on. You’re the only one playing your game. The road is long and in the end you’re only playing against yourself.

[@fearless6374]

I decided to cut it off 2 days ago, it hurts a lot but I’m more than ready to heal and walk away from this toxic relationship. Thanks Jewel you’ve helped me in many ways ❤️

[@autumnhairopoulos9460]

This is a great video! I've survived a 13 year Plutonic relationship...everything you said is correct...it is like death & la petite mort (the little death, ha)

[@IsraelTorrellas]

dude, your pluto videos are so refreshing and eye opening, and a little funny just because what you speak is so true... finally someone who understands me... I would have never known it was my pluto that I wanted someone else to understand or recognize in me...

[@EarthAngelHeals]

Wow jewel.. you’re such a great psychologist and therapist 🥲💞🔥

[@Moonladyify]

I have a few strong Pluto aspects but also very strong Neptune aspects that I believe dominate more, so I have had these relationships all of my life including those with family members. Most recently, I 'escaped' (what a choice of words, lol) from a Plutonic relationship with a person with 5 planets in the eighth house and stronger Pluto placements than myself. It was a whirlwind!! But because of my Pluto, I also helped him see parts of himself as well. He says that 'he learned so much about himself from me' and that I was his unofficial therapist. He taught me how much I end up in codependent relationships and that includes family and friends...I am still working on healing that within myself. My Neptune energy wants me to focus on others and help them first. So, long story short, I moved back to my home country, changed jobs and am now focusing on painting, meditation and Reiki, which is helping. I still get the urge to call him and make amends, but I know this is for the best. Thank you for your videos. x

[@lessandra602]

Experiencing the senses, after being involved in the ‘plutonic realm’. Changes of scenery etc. You’re truly very good at what you do. Always awakening these thoughts for me

[@SheaButterBallin]

You are spot on! I have a stellium in Scorpio. Sun at 6 degrees, Pluto at 7, Venus at 16, and Mercury at 28. Smh I can't even begin to explain my past relationships *sighs*

[@elityler1]

Jewel, in all her practical wisdom, has provided us with videos for during and after our Plutonic relationships! Thank you. Super on point.

[@Michael7Communique]

This is good direction. I can relate to the mention of having all of this time available. This is where you can fall off the wagon and fill it up with the same old behavior or try new things. In my case it had to be a lifestyle change to healthier diet, exercise meditation practices as well as being more conscientious about how I relate to others and become less assuming.

[@sarazink2237]

I am so grateful I found your channel at a time when I needed it the most! I have never experienced a relationship of this intensity. I completely lost myself and it almost took me to the brink of insanity! Thankfully, I awoke to the reality just in the nick of time. I’m not yet where I need to be but I’m no longer controlled by obsession and pain. I am determined to take my life back and use the lessons I am learning to develop strength and greatness within! Thank you Jewel for your work! I don’t think I would have made it this far without your guidance and teachings! I hope to get a consultation soon so I may better understand my path and journey! Thank you Lord for waking me up!! 🕉🙏🏻✨🌸💓🪐🌟

[@shiawaseninarou]

Thank you, Jewel. This was extremely helpful. You obviously understand what it's like to experience one of these relationships. I can't even talk to my best friends about these feelings because they automatically seem to think I'm crazy. I've been focused in on this other person for a few years now, ever since I met him. We come from completely different social groups, he's almost 10 years older than me, and he's an alcoholic (Venus/S. node in Pisces). It's stupid. I know it's stupid. But I still hope that one day he will at least admit that he feels what I feel because to me it's so strong. It feels fated; very karmic. But I know it wouldn't be a good relationship and that I should let go. I never even thought of chord cutting, but that's a great suggestion. Thanks again.

[@melanieeccles2320]

currently in an extremely plutonic relationship. He has heavy pluto and I have heavy pluto and on top of that, our synastry has both Moon square pluto and Moon conjunct pluto. I seriously appreciate you making videos about these relationships because they are no joke and they hurt like hell. Your videos give me hope that I can break away. Youve given me comfort as well when I find that nothing comforts me except that person which is actually not true. Like you mentioned, our happiness does not stem from that other person and hearing you say that brought me comfort and hope. Thank you again

[@bestforyouall]

I remember doing the ceremony about cutting the cord and that was such a sad moment for me. I even cried with sadness about letting him go 😞

[@user-hl4rg1lu2b]

Thank you so much for making this video! You've given words to ideas I've only been able to vaguely think about. Your advice about grounding and distraction is extremely helpful. The summer after we broke up, I was fortunate to be able to spend it with my mom in her cabin. Being in the country in nature was very healing at the time, and allowing my mom to help me through that pain ended up making our relationship stronger, a blessing I never expected. It's been over a year since my we broke up, but the only thing that helps me not think about him is staying busy, busy, busy.

[@MR-ei3ms]

Thank you so much. I've been running around in my head for the past 3 years trying to figure out what it is I feel, or trying to make sense of it, to even try to begin to get over it. These twenty minutes helped me so much, thank you, I've cried healing tears of recognition and now know where to go from here 💕

[@natashas4395]

I have to admit that I think I am in the early stages of a Pluto obsession (I am still bit confused if I am for certain). Last year I connected with a man on a social network site. We felt immediately attracted to each other and have many common interests. He lives overseas from me and we have not met yet, but both plan to at some point. I have never felt this way about another person...EVER. It's such a weird and compelling feeling that I still cannot wrap my brain around it. I came to discover that we have many Pluto contacts (his Pluto square my Venus, my Pluto conjunct his Moon, his Pluto conjunct my Uranus in the 1st house, his Pluto Sextile my Moon and Trine my Mars). I am constantly thinking about him, fantasizing about him, looking at his pictures. This is VERY unlike me as I have always remained a bit detached in relationships (Venus in Aqua). Thankfully, I do have other "outlets" which includes meditation, drawing, volunteering for non-profit organizations, and exercise.

[@ivanavucinic8512]

Jewel, thank you so much for this video, so insightful and helpful! For me the most significant thing is this realizing the passion and feelings will always be there without interpreting this person as "the one" or trying to force it out of the psyche, which we know never works and actually can make it worse.

[@scorpiorising178]

Jewel, thank you so much for this video!

[@desertwaters_808]

It is SO APPRECIATED that you discuss HOW to go about it, what to expect/how to feel. I'm finally healing from a Pluto conjunct sun/Pluto opposite sun situation and it's so important to be concious that you must fill the vacuum!!! I'm working on that right now and it can be tricky for sure, but I intuitively knew this would be the work. Thank you so much 🙏🏼💜🙏🏼

[@starrycrown]

The Venus-activity is a great idea for helping with The Big Move On. Fun to contemplate....Thanks!

[@edwardduda4222]

Thank you! 'Cause all my relationships have been plutonic!

[@Blackstreak8]

Big 🤗 hugs!! Thank you for this important content. I’ve been in a few of these challenging relationships & have gotten good at releasing these types of obsessions.

[@xnmelives]

The message is helping me right now SO deeply. I can let go now because I am gaining some clarity and understanding on the root of the intensity and using it to grow. Thank you for putting this message out there!

[@Drell90]

Glad I watched this when I did! I'm going through a plutonic relationship right now.

[@katarinayousif5202]

this video made me cry. but definitely helped. I'm so plutonic I hate it. your so understanding I just love it

[@MsLaBajo]

I know I have complained about your tone in past videos but only bc I really want to connect with what you say. I know there is so much wisdom in your words. Thank you for this video! You have so much compassion, realness and truth telling and I can feel your empathy and kindness here. Thank you so much! 💖❤️

[@Trendspottify]

Thank you. I needed to hear this. You have an amazing talent. 🙏✨🤗

[@YaYa-gy6rn]

Amazing! Never thought I would find this information. I've been in a very plutonian relationship for about 6 months. He has to move, he was only in a temporary position so we have to part ways. This information speaks to me. Thank you sooo much.

[@igut214]

Can I just say that you literally described how I feel? It's been 3 yrs and I feel isolated from others and dead inside. I left but I still think about her and she is still thinking about me. I still stalk her sometimes. It's even terrifying. I cannot connect with anyone and the only pleasure I remember is when I was in a relationship with her. She has her pluto conjunct my north node, opposite my venus which is conjunct my South node and also her moon is opposite my North node and conjunct my venus and south node. Her neptune is in an aspect with my venus too. What you're saying is so spot on. I think I'll use it, maybe I'll be able to have normal relationships with ppl again bc all I've known were plutonic ones

[@sziami09]

You cannot contact her again? I had the same plutonic obsession with a guy but later we came back together again. I just could not let him go. It was impossible.

[@TheAnetteB]

I used hypnosis therapy to cut the ties with my ex. In the hypnosis session I asked him to forgive me for every misdeed ai had done, and then I forgived him (in hypnosis) for what he did to me. And with the help of an angels sword of fire I cut the cords between us. It was SO relieving! I felt lighter afterwards.

[@pumpkin3731]

Thank you so much Jewel. Your wisdom has changed my life.

[@m3lly41]

I didn’t think I was actually a plutonic person because I don’t have any major planets in Scorpio. But then i learned my chart ruler is my 8th house cancer Jupiter. And then Pluto Lilith and Juno in Scorpio. I was heavily in deep with a Scorpio moon mars and Pluto. Our 3 plants were exactly conjunct to the same degree. It was so hard to move on. So hard.

[@shereadsshescries1457]

Absolutely super great video! Thank you. I have a video idea relating to this. Warning signs someone may become obsessed with you, or that you may become obsessed with them. If there are a combination of aspects that are especially bad, and might wake you up if you see it for yourself.

[@asdff7279]

We see our potential reflected in another when we have a lot of Pluto going on

[@meowed]

THANK YOU FOR YOUR WISDOM!!!

[@kaitlinclark7300]

Had this in synastry with a person my age - sun square Pluto which he had natally. My Saturn on his Venus (retrograde) which he also had natally. In addition to much happy awesome synastry. He was like sunshine for me. Still working to move on after ten months post end. It was beyond brutal to lose that warmth. Even though it was rough emotionally more often than it was joyful, I would have chased and worked to suss out that light (potential) I initially saw for perhaps years. A breakup however was the right move. The dynamic was wrecking our personal health. Your video is spot on and I just appreciate that someone really understands this - put fabulously into words, thanks!

[@DenaJaq]

So helpful! Thank you Jewel!

[@sylviawiese1816]

Thank you for providing me with personal relevations.Knowing puts me somewhat at peace with them.Having venus closely sandwiched by Pluto and Uranus in the natal chart has created havoc throughout my life.x

[@libbygates4649]

Excellent advice! Thank you so much.

[@tygerseye3]

thank you so much for this. :) much love to you.

[@dominique7269]

Right on the money Jewel, thank you. I’ll be okay, eventually.

[@daffy0383]

thank you so much. I ve been itching to cut my hair and become a red head. I need a fresh start badly. but I am still going through the slow death processed.

[@hiverchaud]

His Pluto is in my 5th house which already houses my natal Pluto, my Leo moon falls in his 8th house. His natal Leo sun is also in his 8th house. We are both obsessed with each other but I have managed to resist him at all costs despite being single for the past 2 years and him following me up and down these 2 nightclubs on separate occasions. He stares at me constantly when I'm dancing and once even followed me into the coat closet area of the dance studio that we both attend. He is physically attractive but on a logical, rational level I know that he is not the right guy for me based on the things that he has told me about himself. I no longer talk to him because he has mistreated a couple of my friends and humiliated a handicapped girl on the dance floor. I still feel his intensity and energy as well as the tension in the air when I see him at the dance studio. I am proud of myself for having the inner strength to resist the urge of getting involved with him despite the fact that because of him, I am now dealing with my buried inner trauma which includes rage and feelings of inadequacy and abandonment that I didn't even know that I had until he brought out these feelings inside me through a series of negative intense experiences that we had together at the dancing venues. Unfortunately this obsession is like a drug and I have been thinking about him 9 months and counting. I hate it! I have done the cord cutting hypnosis twice that was spoken about in the video and it seemed to have worked for a few days but now the obsession is back with a vengeance after him and I crossed paths at the studio. This is a nightmare!!

[@krinka1458]

It's a great service you're doing

[@goindeepernow]

I’m watching oblivion and just realized it is a great example of a story where the man plays persephone. I only know this because I’ve watched these plutonic relationship videos of yours a number of times during the process of my disengagement from a very long plutonic relationship. It’s so hard for Pluto when you leave. Eventually she understands.

[@daisyg8384]

Very very helpful, thank you ! ❤

[@sgon20]

You are spot on! A god sent

[@friendsrecommend]

What a great video! Thank you Jewel! My pluto is in scorpio and I do have a moon in leo in the 8th house. My partner on the other hand has his venus in scorpio in the 8th house and a moon in cancer in the 4th house. A very strong attraction.

[@jeskad1716]

love it jewel, thank you very much! assisting deeply...❤

[@JewelMayberry]

+JESKA D Good luck to you, my friend ❤️

[@jeskad1716]

+Jewel Mayberry ❤ thank you, all has now been seen for what it is, truly as youv said he's just assisted me to see what I need to invest more in, how beautifull... to know it's never the other that's going to fulfill us, we must first be fulfilled within self, also had some lilth action with this guy, I stand in such thankfullness for it all with no grievances he has truly just triggerd the rememberence of my true self :-) P.s if you feel to do lilth in the signs I would love to hear it! thanks again jewel, I really see alot of great reflection in you!

[@milagros6284]

so true!!! good video!!

[@goldie88gl]

Your Channel Was Recommended From Another KZbinr. I Never Knew What This Was Or The Actually Name Behind It. It's Not A Good Feeling. I Want Out This Energy. I'm Gonna Try That Cord Cutting, Lol. Because It's Something I'm Not Doing Right. This Video Is Very Helpful. Thanks💛

[@MAzurburg]

I wish this video had an additional like button so i could hit it again

[@tamargain7103]

jewel you are such a clear adviser

[@JewelMayberry]

I appreciate that. 💓

[@IntheMOMENT22173]

so very helpful. i got off track but you helped me find my way back home.

[@JewelMayberry]

+Road Runner ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@shell88ish]

This video sure came around at the right time. This fits my relationship to a tee - 28 years of it -We've been separated for ten years.....and it still isn't finished! He has his pluto conjunct saturn in leo - my ninth house opposite my moon conjunct venus in my third. I don't know his exact time of birth. We are now selling a house we co-own and it's going to be very interesting.........So many crucial decisions i feel I need to make right now - 2nd saturn return. Thanks for the wisdom!

[@niki.goddess]

I’m a scorpio rising, lilith and pluto in scorpio in the first and venus in cancer in 8 and experienced a relationship for two months with a scorpio sun and pluto and venus in scorpio. It was very beautiful, but very damaging to eachother.. i am still finding my way out of it, after ten months but healed a lot already thanks for these insights

[@krinka1458]

I have moon sq Pluto and Scorpio rising. I was going through my Saturn return and my husband refused to give me validation for my neediness. It tore us apart. I wish I could say that we worked it out in the end but no. Once I realized it was both him and me, I divorced him. I've been single since. I still have the need to latch onto people but I'm doing it in healthier ways. I want to be honest about my insecurities up front when I feel them. I'm being vulnerable with friends and family. I claiming my opinions and needs. I'm not asking people to fill that void once they know. They can choose to be supportive but if they choose not to then it's on me to self sooth. And I've noticed that when I associate with my first feelings openly, people really appreciate it. Those that don't will make it known and I'll do my best not to burden them. If I need me time, I take it. I feel plutonian without anyone's help. My childhood wounds are mine.

[@wendyneptune5268]

Very helpful and hopeful video.

[@ScorpioRsg]

Very helpful. Thank you.

[@torreneumon1974]

Great talk...very good information...

[@sharicejohnson3578]

I'm really glad I watched this going through this right now im exhausted.

[@adriennesuydam791]

Thank you Jewel.

[@maureentillie5671]

I see this video is not recent but was on my recommended videos. I was in a very plutonic relationship, only 3 months. Pluto venus, mars, moon, nodes aspects. My Saturn also conjunct his south node. I had almost a kundalini awakening after meeting him. It was intense. Due to Saturn I believe we were restricted from staying together. I still think about him but understand why and realize I need to pay attention to myself more.

[@robertmitchell7357]

YOu are pretty good. I am an astrologer, and I think most astrologers dont know anything. I am pretty Plutonic and you are right.

[@JewelMayberry]

Most astrologers don’t understand astrology. I agree.

[@xaresv]

I had a 6 years relationship on and off with 6 pluto aspects. We burn on fire many times, we love each other in crazy way, I went across continents and I loved him the same intense way for the 6 years, I'm sure if I see him again today I still will feel as if we belong to each other ....but recently I had a sun square pluto with a guy that I didn't know that well...and the depth of that feeling of falling in love with him like if my heart chakra was on fire ....I never experience that before ....sun square pluto, even with no other pluto aspects is by far the most strong feeling of falling in love with someone you will ever experience....very painful though....like if someone took your heart from your chest when you break it....

[@bestforyouall]

Try pluto moon conjunction 😞

[@e-comexpert4697]

@@bestforyouall Try pluto square moon; pluto square sun; pluto trine venus doulbe whammy; pluto conjunct ascendant; pluto trine sun; saturn square pluto; and sun conjuct moon + sun conjunct venus on top :(

[@abdulmateenmaher6956]

@Xu.. definitely agreed with you there!

[@abdulmateenmaher6956]

@@bestforyouall tell me more about it. How was your experience?

[@misterbaghead]

If you’re obsessed with someone please try to recognize how much PAIN you are causing them!

[@JewelMayberry]

+misterbaghead Good Point.

[@sitibear]

That’s the thing when we are obsessing we have no idea how much pain we could be causing them. Unless we put ourselves in their shoes and ask ourselves what if we are the one being obsessed / stalked on?

[@trs_4612]

Huh?

[@sterling1386]

Not if they're a Narcissist and you are an Empath. They enjoy the pain YOU are in by being obsessed with them.

[@truthseeker4076]

Hi Jewel. Your work is so awesome! I think I am going through one of these right now. I have pluto 20*09* in my sixth house. What does that mean??

[@Dianne327]

🙏 Thank you! ❤️

[@user-mk5dv5bx9o]

I really worked on self-love, and I honestly had an epiphany about unconditional love when south node was transiting my 12th house. Once I realized I was not giving unconditional love by expecting love/devotion/sex in return, I was able to have a much healthier connection with my person and then see that they were just a human and not the key to my fulfillment in life.

[@yaelkarni]

Thank you so very much

[@tabou9856]

His vs mine Pluto conjuncts ASC Pluto opposite SUN Pluto conjuncts MOON Pluto opposite VENUS Pluto opposite MERC Pluto opposite JUP His vs mine SUN sq Pluto URANUS sq Pluto MARS sq Pluto MOON trine Pluto VEN trine Pluto His moon conjuncts my mars opposes my SATURN and conjuncts his merc His own VENUS sq his Pluto. I feel like this relationship is purely plutonic. I had to delete him off social media. The games were too much and and honestly just feel like I’ve been used. He is very hot and cold. I’m very obsessed about him and I wonder if the feeling is mutual. He tries to make me jealous but at the same time see through it as if he does care and is testing my reaction. It’s too much intensity to play it just cool and friendly.

[@uddhisonke1628]

My moon is in Virgo, I'm on my way to rationalise these Pluto aspects :D

[@Natalie.-1]

Thank you so much

[@dbdb9806]

This shit is so true. Story of my Venus Pluto transit last year. Headed for the progression of the two.

[@ciggytwiggy]

Really needed this. I've only known him for 2 months. And I'm drowning just knowing I have to cut him off. Moon (me) opp Pluto (him) and add on moon sq lilith on both sides. Pray he will keep his distance and I will be resolve.

[@frhythms]

Indeed !

[@jadelarson213]

You explain SO MUCH!!! Can you explain Pluto opposite Pallas? I can't find enough info.. I guess it's at 17 cancer and I'm confused regarding the asteroid

[@everod6699]

I'm moving to another department at work so he can get out of my head

[@jaimearnold1038]

This series is really inspirational, thank you for making these. If Neptune is in first house and Pluto in 10th (Both how you're viewed by others) what would you say that could mean about the person? (Asc is Capricorn, mc Scorpio)