How To Never Run Out Of Things To Say: Tyler's 3 Secrets To Keep A Conversation Going

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Owen Cook

Owen Cook

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@OwenCookSelfHelp
@OwenCookSelfHelp 5 жыл бұрын
Transform Your Life with www.blueprintreloaded.com/ Working hard lately! TONS of new videos coming. I'm also working on a new platform to host our CLASSIC content! It's expensive and amazing, so tons of time going into that. I also included my lovely ex girlfriend CJ Sparxx in today's vid -- follow her at instagram.com/cjsparxx -- we are still great friends years later, and she is a huge supporter of this community. I always felt bad I never promoted her Instagram when we were together. So tried to make up for it here by including some footage from a previous trip that we took (and then mixed it with footage from this year's trip). Be sure to follow her, she's one of the funniest people I've ever met, and say hi to her for me. Have fun! -Tyler
@geekaleek
@geekaleek 5 жыл бұрын
*Thank you so much Owen!*
@ap9291
@ap9291 5 жыл бұрын
Tyler think you’re getting better and better at the new style of vid. Loved this one, lots of useful, applicable advice, and an inspirational ending - “claim it” Love & respect from northern England 👊💕💯
@dankie6716
@dankie6716 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks fam. Eagerly waiting for the Classic content platform thingy :)
@OwenCookSelfHelp
@OwenCookSelfHelp 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks everyone. The heartfelt outreach about the classics means a lot to me. I put my entire 30's into it, so trust me, no one feels it more than myself. We are putting something special together, will just take some time. But it's coming -Tyler
@Jjsr3
@Jjsr3 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Tyler, I'm truly forever grateful for the value you and your team are continually spreading. Again, it means so much, cant wait to see what the future holds, I know its gonna be bright!
@dbsk06
@dbsk06 4 жыл бұрын
1. Everything I say has value purely bc it comes from me 2. Your perspective has value 3. Stop needing to be perfect 4. Make something boring interesting - cadence 5. “Release muscles” 6. Don’t rely on external validation - sense of internal worth is everything
@grant-lannin
@grant-lannin 5 жыл бұрын
I'm a copywriter and used taking notes on this vid as my morning write. Thought I'd copy & Paste for you guys. Also summarized in my own words at the end. Why did I do this? Because I am hungover and drinking coffee while watching this on a Sunday morning, lol. Went out last night, got hammered (i know, i know), puked on shirt, still pulled with puke on shirt, and now drinking coffee. Great weekend. Anyways... Here's notes. Tyler Tips: Beliefs you need to cultivate: 1) Everything you say has value because it came from YOU. You are worthy of holding someone's attention with you speech (and making them wait while you pause). Here's the crazy part: they will actually be GRATEFUL to be in the presence of someone who is comfortable enough to take time when they speak. AKA HIGH VALUE. 2) Everything you say has value because it's YOUR life’s perspective. Each person (even you) has a unique "energy signature" that is them in their entirety. We each have our own stories, own experiences, own focuses, etc. And these things merge together to form the person that is you. Nobody else has that same, literal-one-in-7-billion combination as you. Be courageous enough to share yourself with the world. Someone has to do it. Why not you? 3) Doesn’t matter what you say - it’s how you say it. Hold someone's attention while talking about ripping a leaf. Get them to stop what they're doing and light up like a christmas tree on the most boring of subjects. With good tonality, conviction, facial expressions, and high-level energy, people will want to hear you speak about anything. Tyler is a living example of this. 4) Let it go and see what arises like a magic 8 ball. Take a moment and think of 10 random words. Say them out loud. For me: monkey, jellybeans, silver, coins, coffee, mariokart. Where did these words come from? Who cares. Call it a higher power. Open yourself up to letting your higher power speak the words for you. Just BELIEVE those words are perfect, and they will be. It's not so much there's a "perfect thing to say"... but we need to consciously stamp every word that comes out of our mouths with the "THIS IS THE PERFECT THING TO SAY" belief. and it will become that. 5) Release muscle - sort of like 8 ball. Meditating helps a lot with this. When you are stifled, you are worrying about so many things, consciously and subconsciously. How you look, repercussions of social failure, how safe environment is, etc. Let it go. Release. Chill. You're good. Realize you're a dot on a floating rock and that your little social problem in some random bar is not a big deal. Overcome it by minimizing it. 6) Become aware of what your biology is doing to you. When we get negative social feedback in a new environment, our biology begins to feel threatened and the "I'm unsafe in this new environment" biological circuit kicks in. Become aware of the unsafe brain kicking in, and consciously re-create your social reality when you feel it creeping in. This can also be viewed as a type of "in-field meditation", IMO. When it happens, become aware, open another set, try again, and get a positive social feedback loop going despite any feedback you get. Use your CONTROL MUSCLE to let the Winner effect take hold of you, and then use your RELEASE MUSCLE when flow is initiated. 7) DEPENDANCE / NEEDINESS IS RUINING YOU. This may sound "self-helpy" on the surface but it is actually the CORE and FOUNDATION of being strong socially. You NEED people to give you a good response. Why? You NEED to live up to other people's standards. Why? Why do you need your best shirt when you go out? Why do you need the perfect haircut to be successful? Why do you need to make 100k/yr before you pull? Become aware of the blocks and limits you're creating for yourself & let go of them. Life is right now. Become the person you want to be right now. Stop waiting. Stop being needy. Fix yourself emotionally, unwind your strings, and see clearly. Summary: Someone who can't talk forever has some "unwinding" to do, and questions to ask. To make it as simple as possible to understand: You can't talk forever because you are valuing someone else higher than yourself. Once you learn how to value yourself more or as much as the person you're talking to, the rest comes naturally. EZ example: You can talk for years to your little niece, but not to the guy you're trying to make a business deal with. Real summary: Love yoself
@exnihilonihilfit6316
@exnihilonihilfit6316 5 жыл бұрын
Just what I was trying to find in the comments! :) Thanks, man!
@grant-lannin
@grant-lannin 5 жыл бұрын
@@exnihilonihilfit6316 Of course bro
@DagelijksDenken
@DagelijksDenken 5 жыл бұрын
Great summary my friend. Go crush your week of copywriting!
@bassiebassie3417
@bassiebassie3417 5 жыл бұрын
Thx broo awesome job ill come back to this comment many times💓
@tareqalzubaidi8459
@tareqalzubaidi8459 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks How can i copy this info?
@5MinuteSchool
@5MinuteSchool 5 жыл бұрын
I'm impressed the cameraman was able to walk backwards for so long without falling over...
@OwenCookSelfHelp
@OwenCookSelfHelp 5 жыл бұрын
He fell a bit but we covered it with B Reel. Largely amazing walk he did tho! -Tyler
@AlexLoskutov666
@AlexLoskutov666 5 жыл бұрын
Plot twist : the camera man was actually walking forward, Owen was just talking backwards the whole video
@kvothe1417
@kvothe1417 5 жыл бұрын
always the same. camera men of tyler are op
@GiianniR
@GiianniR 5 жыл бұрын
@@AlexLoskutov666 Why does this seem more likely?
@AXharoth
@AXharoth 4 жыл бұрын
@@AlexLoskutov666 stfu haha
@spol
@spol 5 жыл бұрын
Let's leave this life with as few regrets as possible.
@OwenCookSelfHelp
@OwenCookSelfHelp 5 жыл бұрын
Ya good to think that -Tyler
@HolisticHealthWithHarry
@HolisticHealthWithHarry 5 жыл бұрын
💙💜💚
@gcg8187
@gcg8187 5 жыл бұрын
@MarsHolst20 hell yes!!
@cappiz
@cappiz 3 жыл бұрын
"Better to regret what you did than the things you could've done."
@AliColak
@AliColak 5 жыл бұрын
This mindset helps with singing as well. Release release release, the less you try to control, the more control you have
@OwenCookSelfHelp
@OwenCookSelfHelp 5 жыл бұрын
Good and yes same here! -Tyler
@HolisticHealthWithHarry
@HolisticHealthWithHarry 5 жыл бұрын
Yep definately bro, also singing amd needed to talk loud/shout in a club expells a shhit tonne of harmful mucus from the nose and lungs
@mannywood9900
@mannywood9900 5 жыл бұрын
100% man
@rochefort6121
@rochefort6121 5 жыл бұрын
YOU BLOW MY MIND. This man is literally serving us the secret to life! Thank you so much
@OwenCookSelfHelp
@OwenCookSelfHelp 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks! -Tyler
@ZE7379
@ZE7379 5 жыл бұрын
Came here to say Thanks...4 almost 5 years working hard and now i am FREEEEE , just watching the videos...theres nothing like being free...thank u Tyler...thank u so much...
@OwenCookSelfHelp
@OwenCookSelfHelp 5 жыл бұрын
Apppppreciate it and congrats! -Tyler
@t5396
@t5396 2 жыл бұрын
Trying to be perfect shows that you care too much. 7:25 1. everything that you say has value because it comes from you 8:27 2. everything you say has value because it is your perspective. You're adding value. 9:24 3. Lower the bar for how good it has to be. It's not what you say, it's that you're interested in it. That's what matters. Your interest. You don't have to be perfect. In fact, stop trying to be perfect. 25:12 everything you do should be aimed toward avoiding being dependent and needy.
@JulienHimself
@JulienHimself 5 жыл бұрын
AMAZING video, man!!! Curshing it! 🔥👊
@OwenCookSelfHelp
@OwenCookSelfHelp 5 жыл бұрын
Tnx bro! -Tyler
@DaeDaeTV
@DaeDaeTV 5 жыл бұрын
I miss puppet master julien 😕😔
@CrimeSceneChronicles
@CrimeSceneChronicles Жыл бұрын
OWEN IS THE GOAT!! HIKING AND GIVING A FREE MOTIVATIONAL SPEECH?! INSANE WORK ETHIC!!
@vikramharsoliya8280
@vikramharsoliya8280 11 ай бұрын
Owen...you really changed my life..The day when i found u and julian ... It changed me completely. Thank u
@zachprice355
@zachprice355 5 жыл бұрын
OG fans remember the hot girl and waterfall from tylers older video
@OwenCookSelfHelp
@OwenCookSelfHelp 5 жыл бұрын
Yes commented on this in the pinned comment - CJ Sparxx on Insta -Tyler
@ministerc.politics4305
@ministerc.politics4305 5 жыл бұрын
OG? nah, that is a pretty recent video for us that have been following rsd from the beginning 😄😋
@centanhotbox84
@centanhotbox84 4 жыл бұрын
TIMESTAMP NIGGAS!!!!
@jimhendericks
@jimhendericks 4 жыл бұрын
Communists say no more hot girls.
@Nobody-eu5qn
@Nobody-eu5qn 4 жыл бұрын
Never thought I would come back after all these years, but here we are. Thank you, Owen, I will always owe you one.
@primetime0144
@primetime0144 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this grounding tutorial. I needed this. I've been on a journey that's similar to your early days. My brain unlocked this summer for about 3 months and I felt my winner effect after a long time. It was fucking amazing. After picking up many girls and conversing with many people and overcoming the depression I easily found a girlfriend. After becoming obsessive and being dumped by her I lost my winner effect and my brain re-locked. I ABSOLUTELY CAN NOT WAIT TO GET THAT FEELING BACK AND KEEP IT THIS TIME. Thanks for pushing me back in the right direction.
@dereklee2945
@dereklee2945 5 жыл бұрын
I love that you said everybody’s energy is like a unique snowflake. It’s so at odds with the character you named yourself after who would literally tell people “you are not a beautiful or unique snowflake.” 😂😂 definitely shows a lot of growth over the last 20 years
@d.josephm.thorne-curtis9817
@d.josephm.thorne-curtis9817 5 жыл бұрын
I've seen you do a few videos on how to never run out of things to say. This one absolutely resonates with the viewers.
@blink182fanatico
@blink182fanatico 5 жыл бұрын
You're actually helping me Tyler. It's like you've heard me, known me and spoken to me before. Everything you've said is answering questions I have always had about the things I need to work on. Thank you so much for everything!
@OwenCookSelfHelp
@OwenCookSelfHelp 5 жыл бұрын
Good stuff, that's the goal! -Tyler
@thatfitnessky
@thatfitnessky 5 жыл бұрын
Don't worry about the "perfect" thing to say. Just be authentic. People can sense that shit.
@4Mikes4Mindset4
@4Mikes4Mindset4 5 жыл бұрын
Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Consistent gym visits can correct so many things to begin with. Practicing what I just preached.
@DESTRAKON
@DESTRAKON 5 жыл бұрын
*real**
@Oh_its_Mike
@Oh_its_Mike 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah, i'm always hesitant to be confident and honest...especially when it's a sort of negative thought or something thats likely to cause confrontation. It does leave me with a feeling so palpable that i swear people can feel it too. But i never know if i would be better off saying fuck it and being 100% honest because it's true to my beliefs/feelings or if i should just avoid the conflict entirely because it's a waste of time and energy.
@retardedphil
@retardedphil 5 жыл бұрын
@@Oh_its_Mike read Letting Go by David R Hawkins...
@centanhotbox84
@centanhotbox84 4 жыл бұрын
k gonna tell ppl i gonna kill myself
@frenchiegonewild7264
@frenchiegonewild7264 5 жыл бұрын
God I love you man
@arpitbinjwa840
@arpitbinjwa840 5 жыл бұрын
This works. guys i applied it whatever tyler said in this video and got the results you're only one step away from that experience and that feeling which tyler was talking about. All you need is just courage to speak up.
@BrainztormProductions
@BrainztormProductions 4 жыл бұрын
For some reason I always come back to this particular video, I have to watch it every now and then, it's so inspirational to me
@kyleharr10
@kyleharr10 4 жыл бұрын
I just watched this before meeting up with a girl and it was extremely helpful. I think his point of not trying too hard is very very important to emphasize. Thanks Owen! You're the man.
@juliansteur
@juliansteur 5 жыл бұрын
I love how in the last couple minutes no one even so much as looks at you... all this “caring about what others think” is so much in the mind! Great video by the way Owen🤘🏻🔥
@OwenCookSelfHelp
@OwenCookSelfHelp 5 жыл бұрын
Crazy right, that's why I do it here! -Tyler
@Fadlife_League
@Fadlife_League 3 жыл бұрын
It is actually insane how insightful this information is, I would really wish more people understood these basic principals
@Ayjay12345
@Ayjay12345 5 жыл бұрын
We are all born perfect.It is external influences like media and people we know who make us think otherwise.
@DESTRAKON
@DESTRAKON 5 жыл бұрын
Everyone's perfect for their own life, not the one made by social narratives
@patrickbrio2896
@patrickbrio2896 3 жыл бұрын
It's crazy that I've listened to this advice thousands of time, but after I grow of see something work out in the real world, rewatching the video I learn things I didn't know before
@TheBanterCity
@TheBanterCity 4 жыл бұрын
Don't oversell or be too good Just have regular talk Everything you say is awesome.
@TheBanterCity
@TheBanterCity 4 жыл бұрын
Your Perspective has Value. (Celebrity) Lower the bar Making boring interesting Talk Gibberish, let go, don't get in Your own way. Release muscle flow
@Czypu
@Czypu 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tyler, love how you hustle to make and keep the quality videos, cheers from Argentina
@OwenCookSelfHelp
@OwenCookSelfHelp 5 жыл бұрын
I used to live in Ricoletta and Palermo for three months. Cheers! -Tyler
@Babeoftheabyss
@Babeoftheabyss 5 жыл бұрын
These atmospheric/retrowave songs you started incorporating in your videos are the shiznet. Adds another level of enjoyment for me. Keep it real Tyler!
@musicbyarron
@musicbyarron 5 жыл бұрын
Owen man, thank you again, it's so hard for me at times because I easily forget the practical stuff when it comes to basic skills. It's quite funny really, as an artist I totally understood when you said in previous videos how you struggle not to fall into that "giver" category all the time. And that really got me hooked on self-help again after following the dating stuff for years before, to the point where even my family ask how it's all going and what i've learned from you guys! They ask this because I used to (still often am) very shy, anxious, awkward, feeling like i don't fit in, and if it weren't for you recommending the Power of Now in one of your (much older) vids I think five years ago, and for teaching me how to view life in a healthier manner, it's pretty likely that I wouldn't be here. You and the other RSD guys actually helped me to become aware of things so much to the point where I no longer needed my anti-depressants, and no longer self-harmed. I'm so grateful. I definitely fall under the "destructive artist" as Julien calls it (haha! xD) and each day is something new that I have to work on, and which strangely enough, keeps me grounded and focused on my bigger and smaller goals in my now hilarious life. A HUGE THANK YOUUU :D
@SuperVigilante007
@SuperVigilante007 4 жыл бұрын
Wow man incredible video!! Thanks for sharing !!!
@SelfImprovementClips1
@SelfImprovementClips1 2 жыл бұрын
Owen changed my life.
@emekabronson8697
@emekabronson8697 5 жыл бұрын
The Robert Sapolsky reference keeps guys like Tyler at the top of heap when it comes to 'social reprogramming'. Bravo. #alphaIQ
@crossoutmobilewkd7185
@crossoutmobilewkd7185 Жыл бұрын
If you sound passionate enough about it, anything I say is gold
@kmartinez670
@kmartinez670 4 жыл бұрын
This content is free.... Thank you Owen.
@tareqalzubaidi8459
@tareqalzubaidi8459 4 жыл бұрын
Internal value is important Thanks
@Openyourmindbruh
@Openyourmindbruh 4 ай бұрын
Low key one of the best videos
@theglowstonecraft7100
@theglowstonecraft7100 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, it completely changed me the next day.
@doctorhannah_
@doctorhannah_ 5 жыл бұрын
The poor cameraman who had to do this whole hike backwards 😂
@wj77wj
@wj77wj 2 жыл бұрын
Never enough of you! thanks.
@matteobernardo3357
@matteobernardo3357 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Owen, You’re a living Legend 🙌
@fitzgeraldarias5458
@fitzgeraldarias5458 3 жыл бұрын
Deeply rooted..Self worth..i see is it more of me just being myself and also convincing myself to be more in the moment?
@jamesharvey1670
@jamesharvey1670 5 жыл бұрын
Always posted just as I need them!!
@darksidessj25
@darksidessj25 5 жыл бұрын
For some reason, charisma does attract women. I am very charismatic and whenever I talk like Tyler here, girls are like WTF? Give me those emotions baby. I love being this way and I figured out over time that you can turn it on or off at will. Using your body to express yourself is how you do this. Pay attention to Tyler's body language and how he speaks with gestures. This is charisma at its highest form. A girl that I am dating said how do you fucking do talk like that? I simply said practice, honey.
@OwenCookSelfHelp
@OwenCookSelfHelp 5 жыл бұрын
When you understand what someone else experiences, and get outside your insecurities, you realize people are sensitive to ENERGY -Tyler
@darksidessj25
@darksidessj25 5 жыл бұрын
@@OwenCookSelfHelp Thanks for the reply Tyler. I use to be super insecure and now I just let things FLOW and bring positive vibes to everyone. I've noticed huge differences in my social interactions when I bring the charisma so I just decided to leave it on at all times lol.
@Rohsga
@Rohsga 2 жыл бұрын
Yow owen I just wanna say thank you for all the years you've been unconsciously helping me throughout my life. Keep it up. Ps. You helped me on my first break up like 5 or 6yrs ago, and now. Freshly single from a 2yr relationship.
@muzwot9603
@muzwot9603 5 жыл бұрын
Tyler 100% spot on again here.
@nivsaar2182
@nivsaar2182 5 жыл бұрын
Another great content video by owen! , it really opens my mind, a pure truth, no fillters or bullshit there isn't a secret for success, it's all about the same urges and natural behaviour we have as human beings. greetings from israel
@OwenCookSelfHelp
@OwenCookSelfHelp 5 жыл бұрын
Yes awesome! -Tyler
@Zwiebelkiller
@Zwiebelkiller 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video, owen! You speak truth.
@OwenCookSelfHelp
@OwenCookSelfHelp 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks!! -Tyler
@JaekeoliF
@JaekeoliF 5 жыл бұрын
These videos are a blessing. I’m very grateful. Each new video made is so helpful. Thank you Thank you Thank you 🙏🏾
@wisdomisawesome5934
@wisdomisawesome5934 5 жыл бұрын
It’s is all about what opens up the brain. We can be in an illusion that we are living happy but are is just turned off. We numb our brain with too much stimulus. We must grow out of this and expand our brain to fail. Fail is to grow just as Julian said. Just because your experience is negative it isn’t bad,instead be happy that your about to grow. You are gonna grow by failing no mater what. By failure you open the brain even more. By socializing we joke and create a euphoria affect with our friends that we are at home and love each other with no judgements Also opening our brain. We can all feel this. Feel when the brain is open and when it is closing it is what can creat the vibe we love in.
@OwenCookSelfHelp
@OwenCookSelfHelp 5 жыл бұрын
Yes exactly -Tyler
@wisdomisawesome5934
@wisdomisawesome5934 5 жыл бұрын
Tyler what really hit it home for me, was the part you said that you were obsessed with socializing because of that feeling or euphoric experience you get when the environment is your friend. I love for you to say that more and I hope you have a good day.
@patricklongshanks378
@patricklongshanks378 5 жыл бұрын
I shook the Magic 8 ball, and it came up “BALLS”. Thanks a lot Jeffy. And yea, this is definitely the area I’m stuck at: feeling safe to be charismatic. I’m just not sure how to get my brain to turn on. I feel like I understand the problem, but I just continue to clam up again and again. Very frustrating! I try to remind myself to be more silly. It’s a work in progress.
@chr1staki
@chr1staki 5 жыл бұрын
Get your heart to turn on 💓 We got you, bro
@retardedphil
@retardedphil 5 жыл бұрын
It's not getting your brain to turn on, and you can't remind yourself to be more silly. You have to let go of whatever suppressed emotions are harboured inside yourself that are stopping you from being carefree. How? Read Letting Go by David R Hawkins.
@gcg8187
@gcg8187 5 жыл бұрын
@@retardedphil bro this is the real deal ^^
@sterlthepearl1000
@sterlthepearl1000 2 жыл бұрын
To win one has to expect to win, plan to win, and prepare to win.
@dvt32
@dvt32 5 жыл бұрын
The concept of "internal value" seems cool and all, but how would one ACTUALLY go about achieving it? 🤔 I understand that one shouldn't rely on external circumstances to feel confident and social, but what are the PRACTICAL steps to achieve this?
@goldernie
@goldernie 5 жыл бұрын
You don't think you have value? 🤔
@MovieMonkez
@MovieMonkez 5 жыл бұрын
I feel internal value is provided through taking action on things that fulfill you
@Kitty21337
@Kitty21337 5 жыл бұрын
By making meaningful goals for yourself and seeing yourself progress towards them. As you achieve more and have experience failing and pushing through it to succeed you become more confident and value yourself more. Define "meaningful" any way you want but it's better if the goal doesn't just help you but those around you. Negative emotions are signs of problems that need to be fixed or things you need to learn. Hard work and persistence is not only rewarded materially but emotionally, so get to work.
@howtobadass
@howtobadass 5 жыл бұрын
@dvt32 if you want to know the Answer.... buy the 1997 seminar bundle
@emil6581
@emil6581 5 жыл бұрын
The practical steps are letting go of what's telling you that you're not confident internal to begin with. View it like this: I am already fulfilled and confident etc, but something has convinced me that I am otherwize. You will REALIZE internal value as you let go of everything that tells you otherwize. I would suggest you to go watch julienhimself's videos to get a better grasp around this. I am personally on his program called Transformation Mastery Academy which is all about letting go of traumas, negative beliefs and anything that keeps you from living an authentic, healthy and happy lifestyle.
@Jameszlin
@Jameszlin 5 жыл бұрын
Fantastic vid and I'm glad you kept going to get out of the darkness! This vid + the truth about successes (1,3,4) are my faves. Had my brain turned on in different periods and it is simply phenomenal how natural you become and everything you say is just gold!
@justgraves8761
@justgraves8761 5 жыл бұрын
Crazy!! Thanks for this brother. I will apply! Peace & much continued success!
@Lightflames85
@Lightflames85 5 жыл бұрын
Ty Tyler you really know how to make one think. Last time i wented out i had a good time just forgetting about impressing people and just saying here i am. But ended being played by i girl i asked out 5-10mins after she asked me to follow her and her girlfriend. that hurt a bit. But other then that i feeled more free then i have been i long while.
@jinkim4190
@jinkim4190 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for allowing me to discover Ulrich Shnauss.. amazing
@OwenCookSelfHelp
@OwenCookSelfHelp 5 жыл бұрын
He's great -Tyler
@S-u-r-e-n
@S-u-r-e-n 4 жыл бұрын
Very important video!!! Thank you so much Owen!
@benjaminmcgrand5961
@benjaminmcgrand5961 3 жыл бұрын
One of the best videos ever
@rmusab
@rmusab 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks Tyler for such useful insights!
@yoloswag6242
@yoloswag6242 3 жыл бұрын
Dude literally just talked about the exact freaking thing I'm experiencing. It's madness. Especially when he talks about "this environment is safe" mindset. Toxic friends cam fuck up your mindset.
@thelightinallofus4649
@thelightinallofus4649 5 жыл бұрын
Update to one of your all time GREAT vids imo. So greatful for this you have no idea Owen. Thanks.
@renecruz2217
@renecruz2217 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. 🙏🏻
@BrainztormProductions
@BrainztormProductions 5 жыл бұрын
I reckon this is his best video so far, defs worth a watch
@OwenCookSelfHelp
@OwenCookSelfHelp 5 жыл бұрын
Appreciate it! -Tyler
@jjokocha4937
@jjokocha4937 4 жыл бұрын
Nathaniel Branden. The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem - the great book for boost self-confidence
@stagbeetle195
@stagbeetle195 3 жыл бұрын
Keep Rockin Owen! Best video I've seen from you in a while. Thank you!
@bfoon1217
@bfoon1217 5 жыл бұрын
Listen man, this is one of the Best videos I watched lately. So Thanks. Really, Thanks. From a nerdy introvert out there 👍
@darwininoa6124
@darwininoa6124 4 жыл бұрын
Literally saving my life rn, thinking i was just not the same person
@barrygomez5968
@barrygomez5968 7 ай бұрын
Love you man!!
@franciscosevilla4099
@franciscosevilla4099 4 жыл бұрын
Love you man! Keep it up, you're changing people
@Acsion42
@Acsion42 5 жыл бұрын
I wonder if this effect could be engineered? Consider a service where you plant maybe a dozen people in a crowd, then have them go up to the customer and get them primed for brain activation.
@4Mikes4Mindset4
@4Mikes4Mindset4 5 жыл бұрын
I gave a guy 10 dollars who opened a door for me yesterday getting coffee looked just like the current owen. Good advice or deeds of kindness I will tune into.
@trevkam
@trevkam 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you I love you.
@OnTheEDge2011
@OnTheEDge2011 5 жыл бұрын
Very nice, this was a very rich tutorial. Thank you
@TheLounge-1
@TheLounge-1 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve become so fuckin alpha in all areas of my life by going out. Thanks Owen 😊
@mopargears
@mopargears 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Tyler, thank you bro!
4 жыл бұрын
thx for the tips... great content! I discover you yesterday!
@BrianLife
@BrianLife 5 жыл бұрын
Unbelievable! Such valuable message, Gold! . So much value!
@OnTheEDge2011
@OnTheEDge2011 5 жыл бұрын
You do a great work thinking about this so important things. Congratulations and thank you
@DESTRAKON
@DESTRAKON 5 жыл бұрын
*"Do you ever secretly wish that I would just tell you everything to say for the rest of your life ._. "* That made me laugh way harder then it should've
@DESTRAKON
@DESTRAKON 3 жыл бұрын
@pedro GUNZ ceballos word
@ScreenFax
@ScreenFax 3 жыл бұрын
Great video! Best I’ve seen on this topic
@superseiyan
@superseiyan 5 жыл бұрын
Hi any watchers. How get clean, modern (non corporate) background music like at the beginning? Love the content as always that this pulled me in 🙂 🎶.
@BasedBrothers
@BasedBrothers 5 жыл бұрын
Would be amazing if you made a video on regret. Would be very interesting to hear how to handle this emotion from your perspective. You change lives for the better thank you Owen
@OwenCookSelfHelp
@OwenCookSelfHelp 5 жыл бұрын
I have one coming shot in Asheville -Tyler
@BasedBrothers
@BasedBrothers 5 жыл бұрын
@@OwenCookSelfHelp Fantastic! looking forward to it, bless.
@TheAndrewEdmonds
@TheAndrewEdmonds 5 жыл бұрын
-This is beautiful. Thanks for the awesome scenery! Audio is fantastic. -Thank you for doing research into where the best success comes from!
@OwenCookSelfHelp
@OwenCookSelfHelp 5 жыл бұрын
Appreciate it -Tyler
@lovepeaceunity1010
@lovepeaceunity1010 5 жыл бұрын
I remember you teaching us this stuff at the hot seat bro, great refresher
@rafaelteixeira6084
@rafaelteixeira6084 5 жыл бұрын
I think I love this guy
@rochefort6121
@rochefort6121 5 жыл бұрын
I know I do lol
@OwenCookSelfHelp
@OwenCookSelfHelp 5 жыл бұрын
Appreciate it guys -Tyler
@LakeAllfredLuigi
@LakeAllfredLuigi 5 жыл бұрын
Pure gold awesome text just what I needed
@beefjerkyfleisch
@beefjerkyfleisch 5 жыл бұрын
i love you tyler
@OwenCookSelfHelp
@OwenCookSelfHelp 5 жыл бұрын
You too! -Tyler
@Yatone
@Yatone 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this piece of gold. Looking forward to your next uploads. Peace
@dr1nkm1lk
@dr1nkm1lk 5 жыл бұрын
thank you owen
@OwenCookSelfHelp
@OwenCookSelfHelp 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks! -Tyler
@ryangenereaux1922
@ryangenereaux1922 5 жыл бұрын
Such an epic story! Thank you! I have been in this state when I have felt safe with people I trust, and also while doing improv. A place where I feel that there will be no negative life consequences of my actions. This is where pure creativity lies, I find.
@markw999
@markw999 5 жыл бұрын
I've been experimenting with the Mr. Rogers technique a bit lately. He almost demanded intimacy from people by asking deeper level questions, usually about their childhood. You get mixed results, but surface level conversation is boring the hell out of me anymore. I don't care how you make a living unless it's really, really interesting. I assume you're from somewhere and almost every girl has been told their eyes are pretty, hair is beautiful, nose is cute, etc. "If you wake up at 2am on a Tuesday, what do you think about?" is way better. Usually gotta share first of course, but once you open it up, it can be pretty interesting.
@OwenCookSelfHelp
@OwenCookSelfHelp 5 жыл бұрын
Interesting -Tyler
@markw999
@markw999 5 жыл бұрын
@@OwenCookSelfHelp Occasionally. Or humiliating - LOL. Not much in between. FWIW, hasn't gotten me too far yet. Calibration was never my strong suit.
@carlosmaldonado8487
@carlosmaldonado8487 4 ай бұрын
Skipped to the "most replayed" part and it didn't disappoint😏 22:09
@BrianLife
@BrianLife 5 жыл бұрын
Watching a 2nd time! Wow! Thank you T!
@KristofJean
@KristofJean 5 жыл бұрын
Incredible video, thank you!
@OwenCookSelfHelp
@OwenCookSelfHelp 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks! -Tyler
@MithunPenheiro
@MithunPenheiro 5 жыл бұрын
Incredible video man! So nuance and on point! Would love to hear your knowledge about having an internal sense of value! That would be great! Keep it up!
@OwenCookSelfHelp
@OwenCookSelfHelp 5 жыл бұрын
Appreciate it! -Tyler
@aminahmadi7581
@aminahmadi7581 2 жыл бұрын
6:42 If everything you say is perfect it means that you care too much.
@joelsimmers2767
@joelsimmers2767 5 жыл бұрын
love hearing slowdive in the background ;)
@OwenCookSelfHelp
@OwenCookSelfHelp 5 жыл бұрын
Ya always try to find music that matches -Tyler
@ucingtigatiga
@ucingtigatiga 5 жыл бұрын
Tyler words is much more chewable when hiking liking this
@OwenCookSelfHelp
@OwenCookSelfHelp 5 жыл бұрын
Woooo chew me! -Tyler
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