How To STOP Being Taken For Granted - The Real Reasons People Don't Appreciate You (Painful Lessons)

[@OwenCookSelfHelp]

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[@eunjijung4657]

As a lightly autistic person myself, I so agree with how you try to please other by giving everything you have. I have done that my whole life, leading to a life of getting taken for granted, being underestimated, and feeling abandoned. I resonate with what you're saying about the validation see-saw. I've always tried to undersell myself to get validation from others. It truly sucked. I'm working on giving myself my own validation as well as not begging it from others. Thanks for your great work.

[@4Mikes4Mindset4]

*yeah or yes​@MotivationVideos2525

[@OnYourMarkgitsitGooo]

I dream of that day when I can see the other camera guy filming the other camera guy filming Tyler..

[@victorenock]

dimensions

[@JamieStenhouse]

Tylermensions

[@AntoniKrokodyl]

You mean the other camera guy filming the other camera guy filming the other camera guy..? What you said we have seen before. :)

[@One777i]

I would actually like seeing that

[@Droque_tv]

META

[@alexurlaub7504]

People Value what they work for 2:30 People take things for granted (tourist attraction for locals) 4:16 What is the human nature mechanism behind this? 5:09 PT II 5:19 people dont want to profit from your knowledge (only share if you are asked to by them ;) ) 7:02 Concentrate on the vibe 8:36 everybody is on his or her own jorney and want to figure out things by themselves 9:06 definition of social vibing 9:21 overoffering and disconnected from the vibe 11:04 projection of your need for information (whats not bad) on the outer world leads to lower vibing 11:32 making the world better not necessarly correlates with beeing happy 11:48 Key Question - What is a good (social) vibe and how can I create this? 13:41 consequences of good vibes 14:16 we think, we have to climb on the top of the mountain, while in fact, the information is in the internet (probably) - but if you are not ready for the solution (RAS), you wont value it ... :-D 15:03 small summary 15:10 State of Conciousness 15:40 PT III 15:51 2 important elements 16:03 first element - we value what we invest in 16:12 if you put energy into something, you are terrified to loose it 17:00 second piece 18:25 Mind is not able to be present in the moment, unless we train it 18:40 its biological base line - it drags you into the future 20:19 Gratitude is also something you have to train 23:32 in a psychological sense - we cant handle presence and gratitude 24:56 PT IV 26:56 recognize the validatoin subworld 27:16 one reacts more than the other (blueprint principle) 27:38 flip the dynamic 29:14 its all about innerstate / social proof state 29:35 overt and implied social proof 29:44 summary of the things you can do 34:15 we tend to overwhelm, if we feel we are not good enough 37:04 your attention is earned 39:06 PT V 39:57 you will value, what you've worked for - so if you do the work (meditation, trauma release etc.) you are able to validate the fruits of it (kind of a paradoxon:-D) 41:01

[@zachvizion]

thank you! Peace, love, and prosperity1

[@centanhotbox84]

thanks

[@Breyzipp]

You just lost value by doing that! 🧐😎 j/k thanks!

[@126Natethegreat]

Good for when I rewatch. You're a legend.

[@lilteddyfragrancereviews7272]

This is awesome

[@gambarusso]

Allowing people to prove themselves is such a powerful concept that has helped me connect more with people. After I give them a chance to play their role, and they feel like they've contributed, the conversation goes up a notch in the energy scale and all of a sudden we seem more connected. Thank you Owen.

[@OnYourMarkgitsitGooo]

I love this guy. Whenever you listen to him and what he talks about, you can feel this genuine energy that vibes with you consciously and subconsciously. Youre awesome man.

[@paradigmarson9586]

vibrations over 9000Hz

[@macioluko9484]

He's able to be with the average guy's energy even though his energy level is far above average. That's a rare trait.

[@chikifree]

this is totally valid. but the older i get, the less damns I give about having people chase me. At this point, anything that feeds the ego is eliminated from my life.

[@chikifree]

@@DanyDev yeah totally get that too. I identified heavily with the video though as I used to care so much about people liking me. Over time, I discovered, the more I tried, the less results I got. Now, I try to be genuine and just myself. It has helped attract real and down to earth people to my life quite effortlessly honestly. Still love these videos. Expands my perspective alot.

[@shitmandood]

"Anything that feeds the ego is eliminated" What does that even mean? So you're saying if you want to read a book, then you won't read it because that would feed the ego? Or that if you want to eat some ice cream, you can't? You must be the unhappiest person on Planet Erf.

[@chikifree]

@Psychonaut hey bro I never said I dont have one. Im working on reducing it as much as I can. Peace out ✌

[@Antonio_Todd]

Dude..facts.

[@NickOloteo]

@@shitmandood reading a book is a sign of humility.

[@ryansalazaracosta2596]

This video is a ahá moment to me, this happens to me all the time, all my life. but didnt event know there are those reasons. Thank you. Im not a native english speaker and you talk so fast that I have to rewind many times because it's worth it. And the city that you show is beautiful also.

[@ert01234]

You give people your time and they won't appreciate, even if you have good content. You give good energy and people get draw into you. And if someone doesn't, you wont give a f*, because there will be others vibing with the same energy as you. It's like energy and abundace feeding each other in a spiral.

[@DJRick313rd]

yep, good energy and good vibes are the motto!

[@Paul-cy9ej]

This video directly solved and unlocked the most miserable problems I was having with my family. I am so grateful. Where else would I hear this incredible content? Thank you so much Tyler. I hope you realize what a massive difference you make. You just made a huge one in mine and I'm just one person, watching one video. A follower for a long time though and you've been a major positive influence throughout. Words can't express.

[@WhoIsHyped]

The universe is testing me. This could not have come at a better time. Thank you

[@donaldbolson2753]

@@Aliens-Are-Our-Friends2027 Abraham Hicks

[@subliminaltester7000]

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[@alf3071]

always being tested

[@HolisticHealthWithHarry]

@@alf3071 its a psrt pf life lol

[@mansondevil33]

Tyler "I can go on for hours about this" Durden

[@jimmyfallon2484]

Please dont start that shit

[@mansondevil33]

@@jimmyfallon2484 Jimmy "Please dont start that shit" Fallon

[@alexleal2634]

They want the vibe not the knowledge. Thank you Mr. Tyler 🙂

[@dillenbeck16]

Hey Tyler I am really grateful for this free content you release. Lately you have been talking about investment and how if I had PAID to watch this video I would obviously be way more tuned in and receptive to ideas. I remember that point now when I watch these videos and I really try and appreciate the content as if I had paid for it. 42 mins of free teaching with sick editing and scenery! Man thank you!

[@Rus1anHuseynov]

The importance of being present to the moment is probably the most important one, because it gives you awareness of the REAL WORLD( and not the one, which we create with our thoughts) and help you to TRULY UNDERSTAND and LEARN other things( knowledge, princeples) faster. It is so shoking and make me sad, when I try to teach all this princeples and knowledge to my friends and they don't TRUELY GET IT, BECAUSE OF LACKING AWARENESS AND PRESENT ENERGY.

[@JK-iz7is]

You became an excellent speaker, Owen! Whenever I hear you talk, I feel like everything will be okay after all. I just want to give you the heartiest hug!!

[@JK-iz7is]

@nlpjohn I´m fucked! :(

[@paradigmarson9586]

@nlpjohn We're not seeking to take power from him; we're just praising him because we like him and it makes us feel good.

[@OwenCookSelfHelp]

Endless Motivation 2.0 is LIVE! www.endlessmotivationblueprint.com/em - Owen

[@kevindm1588]

Awesome!

[@alexisgarcia-pl5on]

Your amazing tyler, you've changed my life, a ton! With all your video's and RSD Products. Dont listen to the hate, So many people are narrow minded, Live, reproduce, and pass on whatever u can to your children. Then die. Don't listen to the hate. KEEP ON GOING TYLER!!!

[@cryptofun5011]

You do want to Meditate in an Ashram, you are just delaying it with entertainment, with your intense energy, you can go very deep in to Meditation, your mind knows it and it's not allowing you and it will not make it easy for you, you might need some more time but when you come to a point you understand that all the game was fun and stupid and you want something death can't take from you, you are ready, till then, keep doing what you are doing, i wish that day comes to you when you put all the energy you have to know the life inside you and look at it deeply.

[@abhinavnair2093]

Good job Tyler ...this was a really good video

[@prisecariuvladrobert866]

Hey owen love your content, can u make a fideo about ways to add fun to an interaction ;)

[@aleksandarj.8369]

Tyler be our king of this small planet, you deserve it

[@steveglushchenko1771]

This is pure gold, so many new things said on seemingly beat-down topics, make people ask for what you have instead of just laying it down and making it look cheap. Learn how to sell yourself, people will appreciate it when you don't act out nice out of your needs, focus on the vibe, otherwise it's predictable too, learn to love yourself and be comfortable in your own skin, develop inner and outer strengths at the same time, there's no magic pill anyway, we're all losers by default, it takes work on yourself to become someone that you and others will value, high status men like Owen will stop being such if they abandon good habits that got them there. Thought from Elliott, you can see both good and bad results in months not immediately, so get used to delayed gratification and stop pursuing momentary pleasures like porn games sugar etc. It's a long comment and looks like I'm over offering but I'll remember this better

[@Fatima-fs2pk]

This is the best video I’ve watched in so so long. Really needed this. Thank you Tyler.

[@goodstory5890]

This is great. I used to always go and visit my family and friends till I recognized that I was the one making myself available while everyone else wasn’t, so I stopped. And when I did, suddenly I’m the one who is at fault.

[@JulienHimself]

Amazing video man!!! The content is NEXT LEVEL! 🔥👊

[@valcanton1726]

really nice pulling spot on top of an empty parking lot with a really nice view

[@GlennYarwood]

@@Travellahh who hurt you? :/

[@chris420blazeit]

Halo effect right here

[@TheJustbristol27]

Shut up Julian

[@unitedstatesirie7431]

your a GOOD AMERICAN !

[@kostis_alexas]

The amount of wisdom this guy has amassed... wow... What an inspiration for an 18 year old like me.

[@ChessMasteryOfficial]

I'm not sure are you aware how much you are helping us, but it's huge! :D

[@josephpweaver]

I'm 32. Just went through around five years of mental suffering. Enough is enough. Thank you for all of your content, Owen/Tyler and everyone else instructing RSD. I'm going to be a pick up artist and I'm going to start enjoying my life, getting back to my old unique self (but way better) and doing whatever the fuck I want in life including losing all this weight and getting fit. I just need to chill out, get present whilst also building up the courage to "jump into the ice cold water." I'm also going to come out to Chicago in January from Michigan to see some free tour and I'm gonna work on saving up for either a bootcamp or some hot seat content.

[@flor.7797]

People take you for granted if they can predict your behaviour to be good but they will avoid you if they predict it to be bad.

[@LuisDiaz-ot8ux]

Just bought my ticket for the 4 day self help seminar in LA, excited to meet you in person. Thanks for the great content as always!

[@vernon121]

Tyler is the genius in social dynamics in our time.

[@Bruno13371]

I'm glad you're sharing all of this stuff with everyone. I really appreciate it.

[@jacedjohnson3541]

Your videos are popping up just when i need them. Ive been taken for granted so many times. I am going to use your videos to work on myself. I have a specific situation i need to get over

[@Horseluvver]

I always thought doing what I myself would appreciate would mean others would appreciate me. It always ended with my being completely taken for granted. Right now I'm detailing a car for someone who tried to set my price. I'm gonna set my price (I'll add the expense of my cleaners & etc. that'll at least make it fair) but crap like that makes it hard to have to deal with people. I'm gonna have to watch this a few times...learning 'The Purpose of DNA' was easier for me than this is, lol. I didn't know anyone else went through this.

[@jerrymasek4602]

I can't like this video enough, I am socially challenged and this video has soo many breakthroughs. Tyler you are absolutely one of my mentors and inspiration in life.!

[@ascending8220]

Jerry Masek he'll probably be one of the most important people of the 21st Century

[@SuperPenguin5495]

34:15 refer to this for entire video/ solutions to the title

[@stanisgmi]

"Logic is a function of being unhappy" - that was a brain-opener. What a golden nugget. He's got a point about the nerds who are overly scientific and logical. Somehow I never saw it that way - but he has a strong point. You can easily find the struggling chode if you look into most nerds enough.

[@Horseluvver]

This is the video I've been looking for. Never heard of anyone who's gone through the EXACT same things I'm going through now.

[@xavierlopez6545]

I know I’m only one of many, though you and your work has completely changed my life, I used to be just like you; (you know when you sucked at social interaction) Now I feel like I’m on fire, and can do whatever I want to do in life because of your work

[@JesusChrist5000]

I am the same way! I like to share information, facts, insights with people. And i find that many times people get pissed off, maybe my insights are bursting their reality bubble? But I have noticed that the more feminine a person is, the more they appreciate and are impressed with insights and facts. So my insight I would like to share now is that if you sense that someone has a feminine or yielding personality, then offer your insights and facts with them.

[@yoyodunno]

JesusChrist5000 I find that sometimes when people are sharing lots of facts and insights with me they seem like they are trying to sound smart and gain my approval, making them seem a little insecure. Even though they may just be excited to connect and share info, it just comes off weird unless that is what the vibe is. I love sharing info too so I think I have the same problem, but nowadays I don’t try so hard to give info unless the person is receptive or enjoying it

[@JesusChrist5000]

@@yoyodunno hmm interesting,. i never thought of that, but it makes sense. My dad in particular would always get really annoyed when I shared knowledge and insight with him. Next time someone shares info and insights with me, i will take note to examine the way I am feeling about it at the time

[@Artjoms_BLACKW00D]

Tyelerrrrrrr i Love youuuu, Keeeeeep posting this Gold so i can brain-wash my head with your voiceeeeeeeee, Yesssssssssssssss save us. On a real note thanks for the awesome content, i always get hooked on your voice to keep hearing those gold nuggets to become a better version of myself, thanks bro.

[@amenostalgique]

You are saving humanity

[@usaisbeastly]

The quality of your videos in terms of information and the value you give is unbelievable. Wow i cant believe that these videos are free... Thank you!

[@sugarrwaterpurple]

"LESS IS MOOHRE M8" -Tim -Owen

[@justingoolcharan7121]

So initially I was a bit skeptical about the switch to mostly self development, but this is actually magical. He’s taking the same game concepts (qualification/people only value what they’re invested in) and showing you how it applies not just to game but to daily life and being valued overall. And this has been my experience ultimately, learning game concepts basically lead me down a road of self development which ultimately improved my entire life. Hats off Tyler! 👏🏽

[@OwenCookSelfHelp]

Appreciate it bro, if you liked this, wait till you see what's coming. Tons already recorded, being edited as we speak -Tyler

[@davidtolle9533]

Bro. I don't even need a personality in the winter because for some reason my Jacket (yes I know it's capitalized) gets me attention. The sweet nectar of validation. My shallow cup overflows with contentness, so much so that I believe everything will be okay even though that same cup, that cistern, the chalice of life, in other seasons, has chasms. A blackhole of neediness. Chasing, mostly subconsciously, the approval of any and all things. A leech. A disgusting slug leaving behind a toxic sludge of negative energy in my wake. But the jacket...the jacket of magic. The modern era wizard robe, comforts me. Dissolves away any insecurity and allows the true self to shine through. Spreading "good vibes" like a healthy tsunami of springs water quenching the thirst of a parched dessert turning the wasteland into a tropical paradise. Thank God for winter. So thankful for that jacket

[@Sonuahlawat20]

Thank you so much.After watching this vedio; I have felt like Universe has given me that anser which I have asked To Universe. Thank you my Angel.Stay blessed..love you

[@paradigmarson9586]

I'm grateful to Tyler, Julien, Max and RSD for making so many high-quality videos and manifesting their Light in the public spheres.

[@ErvinMitchell]

This video series has really been closing that gap. The Meta stuff is a gift from God. Thanks pops

[@mememaker9146]

Wow totally me. The truth is the truth. Today is Easter Sunday. I now realize Jesus was harmed because he tried to push his help on people that did not want it. He should have let people see his social proof and internal validation and allow people to come to him. He was feeding pearls to swine or teaching those that were not ready. So sad that you cant just give fully because you can.

[@micropengiun8556]

Love him or hate him he’s speaking facts...

[@HolisticHealthWithHarry]

Only love here bro! 💚

[@improvementgoals]

I have a theory that one of the reasons why we tend to always think about the past or future and never get to the present moment is for survival reasons. Maybe out ancestors always had to make sure an animal doesn't kill him etc... that's just a thoery but seems resonating for me

[@improvementgoals]

Just saw that tyler actually says kind of the same thing in the rest of the video lol

[@OwenCookSelfHelp]

Question: Do YOU get taken for granted? What behavior would you change to stop that from continuing? Huge issue here.... -Tyler

[@Ahukim]

Tyler I just wanna say thank you so much for making this video. I believe this is one of the main lessons I came here to learn and you are helping me with it. Thank you I love you 😘

[@Alexhvx]

Been on both sides, Some people have been obsessed with me and I took them for granted, and I've been obsessed. But when I'm really hooked on someone it's really difficult to be grounded. I seem so off when I'm trying to control my emotions

[@joet6814]

I think you just have to stick to you're own schedule you know, in life, not really let people come and mess with you're life plan. Not making yourself available on a whim, or just because its "them". Being true to yourself and valuing yourself and what you really want over what you think or feel the other person wants/needs. People that chase "invest" in you always value more your attention than those that don't. Most times anyway, and those that are not willing to fight for you aren't really meant for you I feel. So as much as you would maybe like the image of them to be in your life, maybe truly deep down its not what you really want or need, like once you achieved it, maybe you wouldn't be so happy. Kind of rambling off.... its basically what you're saying in your video anyway. Appreciate you Tyler.

[@danieldelgadovaz]

Usually i dont feel good enough when socializing with people with a higher status than mine. I feel like im being wierd so i guess they feel it too. In this case, the behaviour that i would have to change would be the subconscius chase of validation from these people (?) i guess i would have to increase my self love/validation, gratitude ,etc... Bonus: Also i realized a pattern that occurs a lot with my relationships: When people first like me, and we are friends and stuff, eventually always something happens and their "love" starts fading untill they find some excuse to be mad at me or start ignoring me. Its like the friendship had an expiration date. Have this happened to you guys?

[@joet6814]

@@danieldelgadovaz that's basically what Tyler is talking about.... the goal, but in reverse, what's happening to you. Notice it when it starts happening, and think why it may be happening, you are probably making yourself too available, being too nice.... not valuing yourself enough. At the end of the day, the most important person to you should be YOU, not the other person. As much as you like them and as difficult as this is sometimes.... you really have to develop a kind of deep selfishness, but it's a good kind of selfishness, a healthy kind. Self respect.

[@coreyr.1012]

I am so grateful for your content 🙏. This video totally resonates with me. It is crazy how synchronistic watching this video tonight after literally venting to someone about how all my life I've always had to "hard sell" any value I try to give to someone and how they never appreciate it and how frustrating that is. Including a gal I've been ignoring at work who is now trying so hard to get my attention when she had it for the last 6 months and didn't appreciate it. As well as reflecting on my value proposition and how I believe I'm worthy of so much and have so much to offer the world yet the evidence says otherwise; it's been driving me mad. This video had offered me great insight. I'm not sure how to act when I stop giving people unsolicited infromation or ideas or value. I'll have to really try to focus on vibeing.

[@OwenCookSelfHelp]

Something we all go through bro. Take the lessons! -Tyler

[@tannernail7919]

Thanks for doing what you do. You’ve helped me a lot over the years with FREE videos. I appreciate it.

[@JesusHComedy]

41:00 I love how there’s airborne toxic event singing “we are. We are. We are timeless. Timeless. Everything we are.”

[@Rus1anHuseynov]

Owen, listen, first of all thank you for everything man. Can't emphasize how grateful I'm for the job you're doing. Man, I so amazed about the fact, that all these videos coming out exactly when I need them. It is like magic. There must be some universal energy that connects the dots. I'm sure you are aware of it too. Anyway, thanks again. See you someday. It is gonna be great)

[@msshubham619]

With this much experiential knowledge, Tyler would have been declared a Guru in India.

[@GrubKiller436]

You make my reality feel wonderful, Tyler. And I mean that technically... your energy makes me feel wonder for the magnitude of this world. Thanks, mate.

[@ErvinMitchell]

Saw this once before and didn’t really get it. Saw it again and I’m blown away

[@rath8028]

This was really hard for me to hear. I just recently ended a relationship where I put in more effort simply because I thought that was the right thing to do. This relationship had a decent amount of issues, but the core was good. I felt from the beginning I was "dating down", so I thought it was a lesson for me that I might need to end up with someone who isn't physically as attractive as me in order to humble myself a bit. So naturally, I put tons of effort and time into this girl, over time.. she realized I was always going to be around. So things ended. I realize now that I really shouldn't date someone I am not super attracted too because it makes me feel like I need to put more effort into them for the sake of being a good man. I guess she'll come when it's time. Thanks again Tyler, much love!

[@OwenCookSelfHelp]

Really happy it made an impact, and that you're learning -Tyler

[@ls28harry]

Sounds like he really cares about us.

[@GrubKiller436]

Who knows, really? But it doesn't matter. This world is simple: take it or leave it. Tyler knows this. As he once said, at every moment, all we're thinking about is: "How does this affect me?" It's not a good or bad thing. But it is how it is.

[@ls28harry]

@@GrubKiller436 Good point.

[@fusion5329]

A example of getting knocked in to the present moment more than anything else, is a life or death situation, at that time you forget about the past and the future it doesn’t matter anymore, only the now matters

[@vimukthikarunaratne9937]

Boom! The content in this video is off the charts! My faith is restored.

[@Wtizreal]

This is Tyler in his prime. Being able to talk about several deep topics (spirituality, technique based skills, human nature) and being able to link it to the bigger picture

[@centanhotbox84]

i wanna see a video with Tyler around celebrities. All this talk about social proof and value would be funny to see if he is more popular than a celeb in a venue lmao

[@moscoenterprise8586]

The shots of the city do look really cool, so i guess the trip was worth it)

[@tylerhartt7064]

Why did i cry when he said look at your hands and to just be present.. Jesus i need to improve.

[@jlrmb70]

Just what I needed for those opportunistic people who tries to take advantage on everybody

[@jabrone1975]

Wow... Thanks Owen. It's incredibly cool that you've become so good at communicating these super valuable paradigms. It's a joy to listen to your work, brother!

[@VQLT7]

I think this video is the one to finally get me off my ass to see Tyler live. So many gems in this guys head. Long time fan but this video hits a nerve with all the past trauma i have

[@DarkSight97]

you truly desserve more views and more likes cuz you are doing so much for people. I really wanna rate this 10/10 your so honest and loving and have great topics means alot wish you the best. Following rsd for a long time now and its just getting better everyday.

[@10010011001100110101]

Its all about suspense!

[@janh3827]

What’s your thoughts on people who think having a social life and hanging out with friends is a waste of time Just work and make money and more money Friends just use you and see what you have to offer them and if you have nothing to offer they don’t want associate with you What’s your thoughts

[@xd-yf5gq]

Imagine you have a million dollars right now, but you have no one to hang out and try new stuff with. What would you do?

[@xd-yf5gq]

Would you be friends with someone that doesn't add value to your life in any way?

[@xd-yf5gq]

My point is that life is really just enjoying the experience. And that 'passion', 'money' and 'love and friendship' are just ways to add value to the journey and what you are experiencing. It's easy to get lost in the 'ways' that we forget the actual goal of experiencing a happy life. So don't forget that.

[@canobenitez]

@@xd-yf5gq living with mediocre people leads to mediore results, we are the average of the 5 people with the people with hang out most. So there is nothing wrong with being selective with who we spend time with.

[@owenlisowski3033]

Thanks for your time. I will send it in. VIBES.

[@gfkluy]

Love you Tyler ❤️ Thank you for everything, you have no idea how much of an impact you're making on people's lives.

[@pacibaco]

Society fosters these issues I swear ! If we all had less of the meaningless and more of the truth we’d be far happier

[@takingsoulss]

oh golden video really. that guy was me so many times. e.g. last month when i wanted to motivate my brother to join me in the gym and many other occasions. thanks tyler

[@El-sb1vm]

15:38 dude these buildings in the back look so amazing (especially the green and red one)

[@viktordunaew5119]

Had the same problem. Thank you a lot for that video !

[@flyer2757]

Owen thank you so much. You opened my eyes and brain again

[@dylanpulvermacher9970]

Thank you one of the first vids I wached of yours you said read the power of now. So I did, and a new earth. And so many more!!! Just took on Madison's boss program!! Thank you for all your hard work!!

[@lakshaysethi9362]

1:04 casually walks through a silver gate for broll - love this guy

[@OwenCookSelfHelp]

Lol ya I want the people of a city to know that I came there, so try to walk around the landmarks and get it recorded -Tyler

[@Francisco-wb5we]

For some reason im loving these videos even if they're not full-on pickup stuff.

[@OwenCookSelfHelp]

Thanks, ya just expanding the application of our many years of content -Tyler

[@Monkey-pq5zt]

your videos are really helping me out, much appreciated

[@bigwiggles]

Charlotte! Wooo! I attended the free event for this and the paid event Sunday! Great stuff. Thanks for coming to Charlotte Owen.

[@jude_210]

It's Tyler time

[@frenchiegonewild7264]

Yessss

[@InTheCircl]

The talk from 28:00 ,I've felt that. Both sides of it.

[@ladybug6055]

If you do something do it from your heart and you can do something in secret but do more for yourself. Don't do crap because you think you need to do things to be liked or viewed in a certain way. Most importantly be the best you and sometimes being the best you will have you telling people no or to f*** off as well or say it in a way that's not rude but if being harrassed than be no one's punk!

[@aleexgomeez]

Hey man i just want to say thank you from the bottom of my heart, i just found you channel 2 weeks ago and in this little time span you have changed my life i dont even know what else to say or how to give you something back but i wish your success multiplies by 100x love you bro and thanks again

[@emanuel_soundtrack]

Exactly. We will change that. Is the revolution of the angels.

[@tobyhendricks9951]

It's insane that people usually charge to give advice like this. Thank you.

[@eatmoveandbehealthy5068]

It's amazing how far we're off since negging was the shit.

[@Shari_Tejp]

TYLER! Your words are like molly to my brain. I just want to thank you for being so genuine and honest. Can't wait for more content like this! Love you bro

[@thenightsinger6107]

Thanks for your honesty Tyler.

[@VishalChomal]

The Orange bearded Santa is offering good inputs. Like this video. Keep it up ..ho ho ho. :)

[@stilnessspeaks8104]

This video came for me at the perfect time! Thanks dude.

[@hassan7524]

Tyler, you can become a successfull comedian, you have natural talent. Love your videos btw. And I really like listening you.

[@francisemv1788]

aight fam, i'm feeling that

[@patrickjade9349]

Sometimes I think, gee it would be nice if the camera guys could resonate finer with tyler. But honestly I think it kind of makes it more relatable when you have to walk with someone in opening themselves up... yet they say nothing through the entirety of your talking monologue for imaginable dialogue with the 4th audience. Yeah I feel you though. I walked into a room and ended up channeling myself well into it. I ended the night by seeing a really high status guy. I decided to fan boy and ignore the vibes I could actually hear and feel that I was to add value to another guy... yet I blatantly chose to fan boy for a fake goal I set for myself- to meet this high status Male figure. Took myself for granted. And gave that guy chodey vibes. Hope that guy can forgive me for my insolence. I can forgive myself for my own settling on lower expectations of myself and ego gratification.

[@MrGreenhorn1000]

Awesome video, Tyler. Just what I needed🤔. I will take it in like its worth a million!!

[@ErvinMitchell]

Amazing vid. Learn more and more each time I watch. Charlotte looks beautiful!

[@budgieterminal7426]

some cool people ignited my curiosity towards you. things you've learned so conscious and smart. thanks alot!

[@viktorsocial]

Good video. I agree with all the things pointed out about the Sea-Saw / Give-Take environment.1 thing tho - i found that you could even go past that and go deep within the other person where these dynamics become even irrelevant. They do still exist, but they are not the most important thing. Like you kind of connect as spirit to spirit, spul to soul, even these seasoul dynamics feel low vibration and low vibe. Like we only accept pure connection, not give and take. We are one.. i very much appreciate your insights and work though:) it's levels ❤