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Kackie Reviews Beauty

Kackie Reviews Beauty

Күн бұрын

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@k.nelson9043
@k.nelson9043 Күн бұрын
In the sea of vlogmases (sp?), giveaways, gift guides, and general bullshit across my feeds, Kackie coming through with some realness which is ALWAYS in season. Thank you for all you do!!
@kackie
@kackie Күн бұрын
Thank you for being here! Truly!!
@Sabrina-LosAngeles
@Sabrina-LosAngeles Күн бұрын
💯💯💯
@silverpebble1
@silverpebble1 Күн бұрын
Absolutely ADORE the maximalist ear, nail, necklace & ring situation you're bringing us today. It's as though you are the salty wise Christmas tree we all need. You're a small shiny bauble-encrusted tonic in a weird and baffling world.
@kackie
@kackie Күн бұрын
I'm obsessed with this. Thank you SO much 🎄🎄🎄
@silverpebble1
@silverpebble1 Күн бұрын
@@kackie PLEASE continue to jingle(-also subtly jangle) all the way so we can see what the heck on toast is HAPPENING to us on the internet. Your astonishing ability to accessorise has given me such welcome festive dopamine alongside the wisdom that I now want your nails on my actual tree.
@phoenixmassey
@phoenixmassey Күн бұрын
@silverpebble1 well said! I agree! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@debrabaker6021
@debrabaker6021 14 сағат бұрын
I watch for the jewelry.
@sosexymagazinerobinwatkins8467
@sosexymagazinerobinwatkins8467 3 сағат бұрын
Aries Innovation 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👋🏾 Fellow ARIES here🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@MelissaReneeWho
@MelissaReneeWho Күн бұрын
GAWD I CANNOT LOVE THIS ENOUGH. The amount of times I’ve almost clicked DELETE on all social media accounts this week is unreal. I’m so over everyone trying to look the same and i don’t get it. Growing up in the 80s and 90s we just loved to express ourselves, sure there were trends and some sameness, but not to this degree. The level of hate if you don’t conform is insane. I appreciate your channel so much and crave the depth that you bring. Love makeup too, but i crave the in depth conversations. Thank you and please keep making videos that make us think and grow! XO
@corilewis
@corilewis 23 сағат бұрын
Love this conversation. I’m frustrated by how quickly platforms discourage creativity by changing your algorithm completely after one random search. I could search ‘monkeys’ once and suddenly my whole feed is wildlife. It’s like CHILL let me be curious in peace! It doesn’t mean all my interests and hobbies have completely changed! And it’s insidious because it will stop showing you content from creators you love and watch all the time. I wonder if there’s a way to get around this…
@dbbsharkey
@dbbsharkey 21 сағат бұрын
I've tried just hovering the mouse over the thumbnail and reading the subtitles until it's finished. Takes time and concentration but at least it prevents 40 monkeys showing up at your front door lol x
@AbigailFaulkner-kv3ei
@AbigailFaulkner-kv3ei 12 сағат бұрын
Capitalism has always been sold to us as the only path to innovation and progress, when in reality, it mostly generates uninspired copies of whatever is generating the most profit at any given time. Capitalism and creativity have always been at odds with one another because it doesn't respect CREATING for the SAKE OF CREATING. We all need to stop worrying about how to monetize our creative pursuits and just start making shit because that's a huge part of being a living human being. This shit has me seeing red, but thank you for this - it's an important topic and no one talks about it. Kudos. ❤
@AbigailFaulkner-kv3ei
@AbigailFaulkner-kv3ei 12 сағат бұрын
Also, "populism isn't a philosophy, it's a marketing strategy" - fuuucking brilliant. Again, thanks for giving us 25 minutes of something thought-provoking & real in a sea of phony garbage. 🫶
@EmmaAbigail-p5w
@EmmaAbigail-p5w Күн бұрын
I gave up social media completely for a few months about 6 years ago and it was the reset I needed to see it for what it is. I now check in enough to have a sense of what FB, instagram, TikTok, etc. are like but try to avoid getting sucked in. I appreciate commentary like this that gives the lay of the land without my having to waste my time checking in on it.
@lauralalone
@lauralalone Күн бұрын
It’s perfect that you posted this on Sunday because I feel like a received a delightful sermon from the church of Kackie. Thank you for this!
@SBTemples
@SBTemples 8 сағат бұрын
Also, THANK YOU for acknowledging that curiosity is a good muscle strain and is uncomfortable. As a decade of political science major with human rights and restorative public policy minors (yup, doing nails helped partially pay for many a headache and despressing quarter 😂) you summed up beautifully the struggle with being confronted with things outside one's comfort zone not being bad but opportunity for growth and critical thinking. One of my favorite initiating brain puzzles: our professor gave us a Czech story about a man who put himself in a cage and starved himself to death as a self-described art instalation. We were asked to discuss amongst ourselves if it was indeed "art." Next day, we all had conflicting feelings and answers, only to then be presented with "how do we define art? What is considered of value culturally, and now how do we look at a culture asking for protection or restitution of said art and how would they go about pursuing it? For example, after WW2." It took a week of classes and it was messy, but the discussions and challenges were honestly a beautiful struggle. I think a lot of that had to do with nuance and no singular right answer. It emphasized the process of exploration and struggle as valuable and not merely the dominant outcome. ❤
@egle2864
@egle2864 15 сағат бұрын
"A trough of information" really sent me for some reason. But yes, agree, curiosity is key! All the social media has become so unbearably boring, I have largely disengaged. Reading is much more interesting, and I'm so sorry school ruined reading for so many people. I firmly believe that more often than not someone who "doesn't like to read" just haven't found the right genre or topic to read about. There's so much weird and wonderful stuff out there! Relatedly, I recently watched a video on KZbin about how gen Z find hobbies "cringe", and... are gen Z okay?
@wiredayan9719
@wiredayan9719 21 сағат бұрын
The curiosity monologue deserves its own video!!!
@OhCydney01
@OhCydney01 Күн бұрын
I love how the siren breaks went from sadness to happiness 😂
@kackie
@kackie Күн бұрын
🤣
@Soleils
@Soleils Күн бұрын
We are not just our brain or our body. We need to experience mind body and soul and the internet doesn't always get us outside and sharing joy.
@heatherLcharron
@heatherLcharron Күн бұрын
I'm sure I've said it before, but I need to say it again: your channel is LOVELY! Every time I see a video of yours pop up, I click instantly and am never disappointed. You are far and away the top "beauty influencer" in my eyes. Simply blair a close close second. Everyone else miles behind in terms of helpfulness and enjoyment to watch. Please don't ever leave us 😂😂
@jazcb-x1l
@jazcb-x1l Күн бұрын
And the hits keep on comin’! Another thought provoking video. I remember your recent video where you recounted your grounding and clarifying trip to Arizona. I live in Arizona and completely relate to that energy. You mentioned that we all have “the empty”… it’s true. But I have to say that some of the only times I feel “full” are when I’m in the back country here in Arizona. There’s something fulfilling about the wilder aspects of this state and the way it sparks my wider curiosity is something I haven’t experienced since childhood. I had been feeling weird about the 2025 predictions and end of year wrap ups and I couldn’t put my finger on why but this really encapsulates the feeling I’ve been having. Thanks again for this! 🥰
@shannonloveofficial
@shannonloveofficial 23 сағат бұрын
YES. Just subscribed. The internet needs this message-thank you! So well articulated. I'm not sure if I'd have connected the idea that critical thinking (as you say, curiosity) is essential with the idea that it's essential for happiness. YES. Marketing at it's finest. Such an important sell, rn. I've been working (and reworking) my own first YT video, and it's making me crazy because I'm so bad at it. LOL. Another truth gem of a takeaway: the reason I think I'm stubbornly trying to do this thing I am very bad at is because I'm not stretched, not curious, not challenged by anything in my life. I worry what this means for the quality of my initial videos, but my plan is to follow the breadcrumbs and make the crappy content, anyway, to unlock the good stuff. LOVED this. TYSM.
@gabrielafernandez2061
@gabrielafernandez2061 23 сағат бұрын
Thank you for organizing your thoughts about this topic and sharing this content. Seeing your growth through the years as a creator and making a living off what you translate very well that sparks your joy is inspiring. From color theory, to detailed product experience, to just your POV, without sharing all of your life, but sharing the best of your self with us, thank you ! Excited for more 🎉
@HikingWithHenry
@HikingWithHenry 22 сағат бұрын
I just love your engagement and wellspoken rant! You're such a fresh breath on MY feed! So, I can't really relate (see what I did there? Lol!), but then I'm gen X so I knew life before the internet. Sending lots of love to everyone, have a wise Christmas! 🎄 Oh, and Kackie, I just love your style! It suits you well! Please stay your colourful self on all aspects 💖! Lise 🌿
@shannonrolfes5171
@shannonrolfes5171 Күн бұрын
I love Kackie Kommentary! Things that make me think always make me happy!
@bolboretadelume
@bolboretadelume Күн бұрын
I love this kind of video, Kackie! I think what you're saying has a lot to do with fostering critical thinking in oneself. Critical thinking is connected to curiosity because it requires you to ask yourself questions about yourself and the world around you, sometimes very uncomfortable questions, such as "Am I bias regarding X matter (my words/actions)?" The way many people either accept anything they hear/see like an absolute truth or discard it completely is scary. It's very hard to develop critical thinking when the algorithm keeps pushing on you the same things over and over again and without any context whatsoever. You're right that we have to expose ourselves to different viewpoints and experiences. Well, I could go on and on, but that's enough :) Keep being your "bleeping" weird self, Kackie! 😍
@prettyvacant1977
@prettyvacant1977 23 сағат бұрын
Touching on the complexity of the Luigi situation, Leeja Miller did an excellent video speaking on this recently. Highly recommend that video and her entire channel to anyone who is interested in thought provoking content.
@wiredayan9719
@wiredayan9719 21 сағат бұрын
Added to queue
@tdsollog
@tdsollog Күн бұрын
OMG…. As a neurodivergent person, when you were talking about “nothing”, I thought of “The Never Ending Story”…. Then you mentioned it. Wow. ❤
@kackie
@kackie Күн бұрын
Yes!!
@lisadgingersnaps9843
@lisadgingersnaps9843 16 сағат бұрын
Rhymes that keep their secrets will Unfold behind the clouds And there upon a rainbow is The answer to our never ending story ❤❤
@emilym7650
@emilym7650 Күн бұрын
Around this time of year my local fire department takes a couple of trucks out, blasting sirens to get everyone's attention, with someone dressed as Santa waving from the last vehicle in the line. Every year, without fail, I greet the sounds of this mini parade with the utmost annoyance, thinking"For G-dsake, what is the purpose of all this racket?" before remembering that it's December, and even though I am neither a small child nor have any, I can still (a bit grudgingly) appreciate the joy this little tradition brings. I'm wondering if perhaps they have a similar tradition where you live?
@kackie
@kackie Күн бұрын
Yep
@SueK2001
@SueK2001 17 сағат бұрын
And every year I’m thinking “omg what has happened?” before remembering that it’s Santa on the back of the fire truck 😂
@sandragrumet
@sandragrumet 22 сағат бұрын
Watching you and Theresa is Dead (both recently discovered) is sparking me. You are similar enough to me that I feel safe and it’s enjoyable, but different enough to cause me to perk up and listen with curiosity and in a growth mindset. Brilliant. You are brilliant.
@SBTemples
@SBTemples 8 сағат бұрын
Love this video, Kackie! Your realness is always like water in a desert. ❤ Our feeds cater to our desire to be perceived as "good" rather than inspiring our curiosity to challenge ourselves, explore new ideas, or find community. At times, it feels that both marketing and our consumption patterns have changed community to being an amorphous concept we "subscribe" to rather than participate and create within. It makes our actual engaging and nurturing relationships, community, and pursuing critical thinking feel like an act of reclamation and resistance.
@littleninja71
@littleninja71 Күн бұрын
Yes, thank you! I feel like I've fallen into a boring rut of sameness. My brain needs new, challenge, and experience. Not consumption - especially of 'feeds' - THAT was an eye opener to think of what the net is 'feeding' me! Thanks Kackie!
@humptydumpty-ln4gt
@humptydumpty-ln4gt 23 сағат бұрын
Excellent video, Kackie! May I add that the you tube algorithm only works if we ourselves provide data to it? I personally DO NOT. In this way, there are zero algorithms applying to me and I am in total control of what I watch. It is easy to do so: simply do no log on you tube or if you absolutely have to - for instance, to write a comment - set up your account to deactivate everything (search history, play history etc.).
@theelletrain4775
@theelletrain4775 20 сағат бұрын
I recently did this! At first I thought this is so weird, what have I done, but now I love it. Much better - I’m seeking out what I truly want to see.
@queeneternal
@queeneternal 22 сағат бұрын
I didn’t know I needed this as much as I did. ADHD here and I hate discipline but know I need it, deeply. Really appreciate this video and you for putting it out there! All I wanna do now is go play with molding clay or read lol. Turning off the screen and building that discipline through a schedule that makes time for curiosity and creativity is my way back. ❤❤❤🎉
@Iquey
@Iquey 11 сағат бұрын
24:00 oh! Very similar to The Never Ending Story is the book, A Wind in The Door! The evil Nothing was the Ichthroi. I read that book in maybe 5th grade. It was really cool.
@MusingOnBeauty
@MusingOnBeauty 23 сағат бұрын
Is it ok to post a light comment under such a complex topic? Because I LOVE YOUR SHIRT, Kackie. Thanks for the thought provoking ideas ❤
@hotninjaentrepreneur
@hotninjaentrepreneur 9 сағат бұрын
I love it so much when you go that direction Kackie ! Thank you for this.
@flamingoart4164
@flamingoart4164 20 сағат бұрын
I'm pretty new to your channel, but I enjoyed this video and I'm glad you posted it. It feels like a lot of people sense this ennui and dissatisfaction with the internet; I've seen a growing amount of content about it. I've been thinking a lot about it, too. There's something I've noticed in a lot of videos (and TikToks), and I'd like to share this with you and anyone reading. All this overstimulation eats up our dopamine, and leaves us feeling exhausted and crappy, even if all we did was scroll. A common thread in doomscrolling, whether it's about politics, or the manosphere, or moral panic... is panic. There's a sense of urgency and stress. Has anyone else noticed how high, and fast, creators' voices go in videos? It's not yelling, but it almost is. Imagine talking like that, or consuming such content, all day. That's exhausting! I've found that in this video too. I've found it in the way I talk. This panic-talk riles me up, and probably everyone else, too. Then I just feel tired and crappy after that. Remember life before the internet? It was slower, and less angry. Ranting was the sign of a problem; it wasn't normal. I hope everyone can be mindful of slowing down this season. It's just what the internet, and capitalism, doesn't want us to do.
@melissa.deklerk
@melissa.deklerk 20 сағат бұрын
I am sitting working on a Sunday night and listening to your video. And I need to listen to it again. Thank you for making this absolutely wonderful antidote to the normal year-end content. This was what I needed to hear tonight.
@lisgelfling1031
@lisgelfling1031 Күн бұрын
Thanks for taking the time to illuminate us plebs. Some excellently relevant texts for a deeper understanding of the commercialization and commodification of the masses (yes, the masses, not the objects the masses save their hard earned pennies to purchase): Guy Debord's "Society of the Spectacle" and Walter Benjamin's "The Work of Art in the Age of Mechanical Reproduction." All there be brighter days ahead? Let's hope so - and let's do something about it. Be critical of the content you consume, the products you buy, how you use them, the waste you're contributing to, the people you surround yourself with, in the same way we are mindful of aging and body image.....it's all connected! We're all connected! The butterfly effect 🦋
@lisgelfling1031
@lisgelfling1031 23 сағат бұрын
Two more suggestions if you really wanna stretch those neurons: anything by bell hooks, and Antonio Gramsci's work on the concept of Cultural Hegemony. Expose yourself! 📚🗺🌍🌎🌏
@stephanielynn6459
@stephanielynn6459 Күн бұрын
thank you for your videos Kackie 🖤
@andohlea
@andohlea 11 сағат бұрын
12:34 💥…when you said, “growth is incredibly unpredictable”, I was like, “ooochy ouchy mouchy…🥵”. So so true…when we grow and aren’t paying attention we tend to not learn and just be shocked that things have changed around us when in fact we changed too. What a mess we have made of this all. I’ve come to realize that sincerity is just about the best thing I see in all beings…it makes me laugh, it gives me hope, it makes me so proud and in awe…but it also makes me so so sad when I recognize a sincere lack of curiosity in us humans (self included)…as it is heartbreaking, especially since the consequences are literally life and death. Thank you for your content…I am boycotting most of the companies you review but really enjoy your sincere synthesis of color, texture and delivery 🙏☺️
@melissawoods610
@melissawoods610 11 сағат бұрын
Please more of this content is what we NEED!!!
@bigwildonion
@bigwildonion 23 сағат бұрын
I'm retraining myself to read and think, and it is hard but worth it. Something that helps me is to have both the paper book and the unabridged audio version. When I can't sit still and make my eyes read any more, I switch to audio and move around for a while. It really helps me get all the way to the end of books.
@stacybrewer3812
@stacybrewer3812 13 сағат бұрын
Gotta say: I’m very new here, but I’m so glad I came! You sold me on the vehement defense of intellectual curiosity and its inherent value. I always try to push myself to that level of discomfort that refines or outright changes my thinking and I appreciate others who do the same ❤
@zutalors109
@zutalors109 20 сағат бұрын
I came here for the beauty but am staying for this. Kackie you have an intelligent and fun perspective that I continue to learn from. I love your corner of the interwebs so much!
@lorindav5549
@lorindav5549 17 сағат бұрын
I literally wrote a list this morning about me and the internet. How it affects my life, my relationship with myself and others. Am I content being spoon fed whatever the algorithm spits out. What do I do the fill the space that the habit of the internet has become? Oh, there's more, plenty more, like exercise, blah, blah, blah but mostly it was about, Is this who I am and am I content with that. Obviously not, but sometimes you just gotta write down those bigger questions about defining your own self and your purpose.
@erinlee7216
@erinlee7216 Күн бұрын
The total BS from the election made me turn off so much of what I followed and get curious. It has been wonderful! Thank you for a great video, as always!❤
@MiceQueen
@MiceQueen 4 сағат бұрын
Love this so much! I really really enjoyed the video and your thoughts on social media and especially the appeal of curiosity and following interests! I really needed this kick to explore on my own more than just land on the couch being fed by endless stupid reels.
@harvestcheddar0
@harvestcheddar0 23 сағат бұрын
I was just about to talk about the manosphere and how our desire for curiosity plays into that but you just got there! It’s hard, because we see people like Andrew Tate say crazy things, but he will keep a grain of truth in there, like the fact that many young men feel unsatisfied with their lives, to catch their attention. People have this isolated and lonely feeling so they start listening to Tate, and only Tate (or people like him as the algorithm feeds this content to you), and over time they’ve been incremented into crazyville. It’s so heartbreaking when you knew someone smart and kind and then you see them again and they are in delulu land. It’s actually dangerous. I’ve been loving your videos like this. The one about how Gen z needs to label everything was also very thought provoking.
@emilyawood
@emilyawood 21 сағат бұрын
Your nails are giving vintage Christmas lights and I love it
@nancybrewer5871
@nancybrewer5871 10 сағат бұрын
Kackie darlin', I hope to all the powers that be, ever were or ever will be, that there are masses of people who understand what you are saying. You have hit the nail {or one of them) squarely on it's dumb little head. The whole phenomenon is REALLY frightening. The "feeding"of absolute pablum to an entire generation is something that I would have expected to find in a dystopian graphic "novel".I do not ever mind when you veer from enhancing the surface to taking on what lies beneath. Unless we deal with problems of this magnitude it won't really matter what color blush we have on! Thank you for holding a light and speaking the unvarnished truth. You are far more than a beauty blogger. We NEED you!
@stacyleiter651
@stacyleiter651 20 сағат бұрын
By all means, let's eschew true expertise because someone says you can't trust experts then promptly convinces you they're an expert that can be trusted. That circular logic hurts my brain.
@isabeloliveira1105
@isabeloliveira1105 2 сағат бұрын
Usually the videos that open your eyes are a bit uncomfortable to watch. You mentioned so many important topics that for sure this was both needed and slightly uncomfortable. Yesterday or the day before I was very aware of the dopamine need, I kept scrolling and changing the tv channel and… NOTHING! it was the perfect moment to stop and just look around and ground. Thank you for bringing content that really means something (still love the make up though 😅)
@helencottingham5024
@helencottingham5024 Сағат бұрын
Ah I knew there was a reason I felt so instantly comfortable watching this channel. It’s because you, like me have seen Neverending Story a million times. It is basically my religion. The book is also great.
@ajeveaux
@ajeveaux 2 сағат бұрын
Capitalism doesn't want us to feel uncomfortable because it makes us question things. We need to get used to being uncomfortable in our realities again, so we can actually create the means to change them. I love your channel because it provides beauty content with critical thinking. It was one of the best discoveries I made this year on the internet.
@kackie
@kackie 2 сағат бұрын
Thank you so much for being here
@sparkybish
@sparkybish 11 сағат бұрын
I’m so bored with all content on scrollable media being an ad or ragebait. As a result, I end up spending very little time scrolling.
@cararosen893
@cararosen893 15 сағат бұрын
The main thought I had watching this was how much I love your sit down conversations talking about life and things that are bouncing around your brain lol. Being a makeup and hair stylist I obviously adore makeup convos but this content from you is my bread and butter and is certainly loved and appreciated by me ♥️
@sarahwhite7656
@sarahwhite7656 20 сағат бұрын
I love your channel so much! When I can finally bring myself to delete all my subscriptions to beauty creators I’m going to have to keep you.
@bombaychand
@bombaychand Күн бұрын
This is so lovely coming from a channel like yours especially after the election and the continued nonsense and dehumanization that is happening in the US. The curiosity fueling collective liberation and moving into community is truly what I think we'll get us through these next few years if we do.
@tc7909
@tc7909 16 сағат бұрын
Feed, trough, 1984. Truly, I loved this video. Definitely needed and welcomed.
@Iquey
@Iquey 11 сағат бұрын
"its a feed because we're being fed." It's why they call it SLOP!
@lw7735
@lw7735 Күн бұрын
Wow thanks Kackie! This video made it click why I don't enjoy TikTok. Of course I am grateful for AI and the Internet because when I do come up with a question it is there to answer it but I also like to be in control of the "next" thing. I enjoy reading and try to alternate what I read, fun murder mysteries, self help (because we can always improve), something smart (Tipping Point about how little things add up was fascinating ), and classic literature (original Dracula is out and about during the day, where did the turning to ash in the sun come from?) I don't know how an algorithm could curate a TikTok that hits all those notes and allows me the time to digest and question.
@charlottegasp4018
@charlottegasp4018 18 сағат бұрын
The internet is endless and I can no longer enjoy the all-you-can-eat buffet.
@charlottegasp4018
@charlottegasp4018 18 сағат бұрын
I just want my doggy bag of hash browns and to go home. (This is my equivalent)
@kellydunworth3689
@kellydunworth3689 23 сағат бұрын
Wow! This made me super emotional!!! I am so curious how you see one's wounds / traumas (one's need to escape / cope -- a feedback loop, like any addiction... it spirals whether it's from over watching content, over-purchasing, etc.) fits into your thoughts shared in today's video. I kept wondering about how maybe curiosity could have actually become the heart type of pain - and the driving force of escapism in this way, as opposed to the "stretching the brain" type of struggle.... that actually stimulates and feels good once you start the chase.
@vskob1234
@vskob1234 19 сағат бұрын
Thank you for bringing up so many topics that we have been completely lied about in the past few years!!!! Social, political, 30 sec tiktok videos that promoted hate and violence and no facts or truth, just rage bait, disgusting!!!!!
@kathleenkaffeine8696
@kathleenkaffeine8696 Күн бұрын
Thank you for this. I had to learn this lesson this year too. It's made me a lot 'happier' (I know that's a relative term) when I push myself to explore and do offline activities that are in line with my personal goals and values.
@LotusesGalaxyOcean
@LotusesGalaxyOcean 16 сағат бұрын
Curiosity leads to reality or truth which is always complex and unpalatable because it is not catered in agreement to you.
@elissae3280
@elissae3280 Күн бұрын
It’s a trough 😂🤢… yup. Thanks for sharing your thoughts with such wit, humor and humility! The honesty is much appreciated
@yanagoldman5525
@yanagoldman5525 22 сағат бұрын
I just want to express how much I LOVE this video! Every word of it. I will probably be quoting it.
@snailscourge9873
@snailscourge9873 23 сағат бұрын
Hear, hear!!! A place I always find the good curiosity stretch is art history content - and in my garden.
@Lighthouse1852
@Lighthouse1852 18 сағат бұрын
1. Hunger for flattery, ego, pandering, reassurance that it's fine to stay ignorant in our cocoons: spot on! 2. The human brain is a bundle of contradictions. Yes, we crave authenticity and connection. But we also love getting swept up in narratives, even when it requires that we turn a blind eye to our powers of observation, skepticism, and facts we wish weren't true. Families live for decades in denial about a loved one who does harm. Reality shows depend on audiences buying into a false belief that the drama is real and that we "know" these people. It's scripted. We don't know these people. (Even now that we've seen enough post-airing updates, we willfully play along with the scripts anyway, as with Santa Claus.) In another example, this election cycle was heavily about "feels" instead of facts that we know or could easily verify - if we wanted to. We didn't. We want to be validated, more than we want the truth. We want to believe we have special insight into what's "really" happening. We claim to want earnestness in our elected leaders - and yet when a knowledgeable, sincere speaker seems boring/buzzkill-y compared to people selling a cooler narrative, we reject the boring one. We must like being duped. "Professors" like Harold Hill flourish to this day. And each time the truth comes out later, we still feel entitled to righteous indignation. I vaguely remember when news outlets switched from taglines like "the news" - meaning, summaries of confirmed facts on newsworthy developments - to phrases like, "News that matter to *you!!!*" It normalized a trend to ignore news that didn't immediately hurt us, personally. A shockingly low level of general information became acceptable, even among the well educated. Slow-developing disasters catch us off-guard. We resist the effort of asking questions, remembering and learning. It didn't help that popular culture (maybe one of the negative legacies of the mostly positive Oprah) transferred psychological counseling terms to uses where they didn't apply. We began to treat the words "feel" and "know" as if they're equally valid - in all contexts. But "I feel like" isn't equally OK in science, history and current events. Opinions aren't facts. Perhaps this indifference to chasing down facts even when they lead to uneasy discoveries, emerged just before Stephen Colbert coined the word, "Truthiness." 19 years, yikes. Before Millennials can clearly remember what normal news felt like. (Imperfect and blind-spotty as news was, accuracy was the yardstick by which a news source was judged.) 2. The grim stuff you've laid out is what social media designers deliberately built in, using the planet's most sophisticated tools from psychology, neurology and engineering. The motivators, the attention magnets, the simulation of authenticity, the "feed". All of it. To make sure they wouldn't be stopped before the platforms became ubiquitous, they produced questionable research, swore "commitment" to protecting our youth and civic space from lies and abuse. And poured enormous sums onto our political classes to make sure the wizard would stay safely behind the curtain. Mission accomplished. 3. Whenever an influencer tells the camera, "I wouldn't accept this sponsorship if I didn't honestly love this brand," those words make me instantly disbelieve it. Because AI and talented sales persons have perfected the simulation of authenticity. The "hook" words and gestures can be studied and mimicked. There's no way for a viewer to fact-check. It takes years and my own testing for me to have any faith in an incentivized creator's words. I accept that making a channel viable requires PR merchandise and sponsorships, but the tension bred by a conflict of interest can't be eliminated. It takes constant vigilance. I tend to skim over the sponsorship portions, except perhaps when creators spell out that they bought (some of) those products with their own money long before the brand proposed a sponsorship. Example. Except for the giant channels, beauty creators can't possibly afford to buy 5 LED masks to review. But they can say, "When I bought my Brand XYZ mask at a Sephora sale 18 months ago, I researched several brands and this seemed like the best price/feature combination at that time. I've updated my research, and while I still like mine it seems like Brand B and Brand C look very comparable on paper. Brand C and F came to me in PR. Here are some differences that might steer your choices." 6. This Grinch wishes you happy holidays anyway.
@chrystynalapychak986
@chrystynalapychak986 20 сағат бұрын
Bravo. It's a tool, not an end in itself.
@Lyvvie
@Lyvvie 21 сағат бұрын
I always let my kids be bored. When they were on school break, without the structure, I let them be bored because from boredom comes creativity to fill the space. They would make costumes for their toys, they made stop action videos, they climbed trees, and created languages. Let yourself be bored and give up on the social media for a few days and eventually the brain will light up and entertain you. Or sleep! Maybe you';ll sleep.
@yaelberger8
@yaelberger8 18 сағат бұрын
Love this. Thank you, Kackie. Please never stop yapping on the internet ❤️
@rachelernest8811
@rachelernest8811 12 сағат бұрын
There is a reason that life long learners often have a very fulfilling lives.
@SophieKopf
@SophieKopf 7 сағат бұрын
It's the title that got me haha! I found a few really good channels this season to watch as my comfort food and just unsubscribed to the consumerism pushing other bs. One is Alexa from Lex Face It she is bringing back old YT days and Iove it. And my absolute comfort food this season is Kevin Lee Jacobs. Everyone is welcome ❤ Have a very Merry Christmas!
@brookie_cuqui
@brookie_cuqui 22 сағат бұрын
Nearest body of water 😂
@minic1194
@minic1194 8 сағат бұрын
Kackie gives such intelligent stoner vibes and I love it (compliment btw)
@kadyrogers12
@kadyrogers12 20 сағат бұрын
It’s like you grabbed me by my whole face and turned me to see truth. We all need the cleanse.
@jerris-glennbooth902
@jerris-glennbooth902 21 сағат бұрын
Being pressured by society and this capitalistic system to have a set plan-go to college, get a job, follow the “right” steps-forces you into nothingness. It kills curiosity because you’re just following a script instead of figuring out what you actually care about or who you really are. Curiosity is the opposite of that-it’s what keeps you alive, questioning, and learning. Without it, you’re just existing, not living.
@jerris-glennbooth902
@jerris-glennbooth902 21 сағат бұрын
I remember being in college, being so lost. Mostly because, I was pushed into it. As most are, it wasn’t a dream or a goal, it was a standard. An absolute.
@actartine
@actartine 19 сағат бұрын
I so appreciate your weird effing self, Kackie! Please keep talking about this stuff in addition to the makeup and color theory videos ❤
@Lei-Mar
@Lei-Mar Күн бұрын
This was the sort of remarks that made me follow you. I don't hit the follow button very often, since I'm watching from... Cuba!. I love your content! Keep up the good work. (This is my first comment on KZbin 😅 although I've been here for a very long time)
@NiinaSKlove
@NiinaSKlove 21 сағат бұрын
Please make more of these videos. I certainly crave them. ❤❤
@patsyroyal
@patsyroyal 23 сағат бұрын
This was so refreshing and thank you!
@asimplegarden7503
@asimplegarden7503 11 сағат бұрын
There’s just too much stress right now to think this hard. I’ll catch your next video. Have a great night.
@somacarr7528
@somacarr7528 15 сағат бұрын
One can also refuse to eat from the trough!
@k.w.6304
@k.w.6304 17 сағат бұрын
Logical fallacies, like bias confirmation, feed into populism.
@SharrellKline
@SharrellKline 22 сағат бұрын
I'm just scrolling past so many creators I'm subscribed to because of the cookie cutter sameness. I know it's REALLY hard to come up with new content. But all jobs are like that in some respect! There are days, weeks or months of repetition and sameness. The struggle in ANY job is to keep the spark alive. To find a new way of doing something. To strive for improvement. Creators seem to think they're above that challenge and need to dupe each other just to make money. YOU ARE EXACTLY RIGHT that we are looking for innovation and new ideas. We are looking to be engaged and exposed to creativity. Show us the mistakes! Show us what to do when something doesn't work like we planned or goes wrong in application! When you mix things up and try something different with what you already have.
@kackie
@kackie 22 сағат бұрын
Thank you! This is so insightful. I find that so much, creators I used to appreciate are now spreading their complex ideas across more videos making each video less valuable. TLDR; this meeting could've been an email.
@sarahmongano4944
@sarahmongano4944 13 сағат бұрын
The TED talk I needed. Thank you ❤
@katieharris7219
@katieharris7219 23 сағат бұрын
Yes! I would also add that curiosity-to-critical thinking skills have been suppressed in younger generations once "teaching to the test" became THE metric in schools. It has made the masses ripe for the dystopia at hand. Also, The Neverending Story reference: 🤯 YES! YES! YES! ❤❤❤
@user-qw2xy9fm8m
@user-qw2xy9fm8m Күн бұрын
I've been trying to train my algorithm to stop giving my the sameness to moderate success. Any tips for chasing curiosity on the internet in the face of algorithms?
@kackie
@kackie Күн бұрын
Omg yes start watching science and physics videos.
@humptydumpty-ln4gt
@humptydumpty-ln4gt 22 сағат бұрын
@@kackie You too? 🙂
@nomytheone
@nomytheone 20 сағат бұрын
it’s gonna take me a minute to stop thinking about your “feed” comment. I recently learned about Manufacturing Consent (the book) and am still processing the newly revealed reality of things in the info space..
@amyswygert4532
@amyswygert4532 Күн бұрын
I love this so much. So very true. All of it.
@aliciadeer9074
@aliciadeer9074 Күн бұрын
Curiosity calls to healing, as well. They are synergistic forces.
@elizabethevelyn7125
@elizabethevelyn7125 15 сағат бұрын
This is deeply smart, Kackie
@sarahroot3650
@sarahroot3650 21 сағат бұрын
I love listening to you talk
@kelley5816
@kelley5816 Күн бұрын
I’m here for all of it. I love these talks, Kackie. Your channel is YOU, and that’s why it’s engaging. We love you back! I hope you are having a great holiday season with loved ones! Also, I need to thank you for putting me on to Allies of Skin. Growth factors in skincare is my new favorite thing! 😂 I am also loving their peptide and ceramide lip balm. Love youuuuuu! 💗
@WendyRoth-r3c
@WendyRoth-r3c 23 сағат бұрын
Thank you for this video. It’s my idea of “high quality content”. Also, it’s wise to remember that human beings created, designed, & executed computers & all of their capabilities. Algorithms & AI were designed as tools to assist us. If we give them control over us that’s totally on us. Only use what you want when you want and learn how to control what you choose to use, ie: the KZbin algorithm feeds off of history. Shut it off occasionally (or forever) & it looses its “power”.
@emilyawood
@emilyawood 21 сағат бұрын
Seriously though I was going through my watch later list and there were about 15 tutorials for “soft glam makeup” and I thought, do I really need to watch all of these?
@hannahlapham4638
@hannahlapham4638 23 сағат бұрын
Highly recommend listening to the audiobook Entangled Life read by the author Merlin Sheldrake. He opens the door to let you see his wandering thoughts and imagination as he describes his life's work studying fungi and how it is entangled within every aspect of our lives.
@intothedermis
@intothedermis 4 сағат бұрын
I love you so much. I only just discovered you through your colour theory videos. They were excellent by the way. I will rewatch them again and again and again. I love your energy too. You're so good at explaining these complex topics using words I have to look up the meanings of 😂 hope you have a lovely Christmas with your beautiful family 🎉
@debjgee
@debjgee 12 сағат бұрын
You nailed it!
@AlisonIvy
@AlisonIvy Күн бұрын
You are a treasure, Kackie.
@MsXrayTech.
@MsXrayTech. 22 сағат бұрын
Hello there, Kackie! Wow! says it all!!! Such a great, honest video. I love that you are so real and genuine, it means a lot when I want to watch a video on something that I am interested in and passionate about. I do not have a feed on my KZbin because I deactivated the history settings. I am not on Snapchat, Instagram, X, Facebook, etc., all of it is too dramatic, fake, politicized, commercialized, gaslit, and brainwashed for me. I want to stay updated with knowledge of whatever the latest developments may be but on the other hand I want to be in control of what I consume. I, personally strive for my own individualistic personality. On a different note: I love ❤ your nails! Can you tell me the colors, I don’t need specifics, lol, just colors in general. I love the color scheme, it’s pretty!!! Merry Christmas 🎄 Sent with luv🙏🏻💕💕💕
@monikachlebowska6269
@monikachlebowska6269 22 сағат бұрын
Holly crap. I forgot how and why I have distaste for marketing bullshit. Thanks for reminding us all.😂
@emmydove6885
@emmydove6885 3 сағат бұрын
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