How to overcome bullying, being bullied AND how to STOP getting bullied forever.

My intention with this video is to give you clarity, perspective and direction to not only make this possible, but to turn it into your benefit too.
Welcome to this video, I’m Tom from the Alive Academy.com, After having grown very fast around the age of 12, I was being laughed at and was bullied for being so skinny that my joints were actually thicker than my limbs.This was the birth of my very low self esteem and feeling of unworthiness.I tried many things to hide my low self esteem, literally behind layers of clothing.Until one day, on the bus from school, a kid yelled very loud through the entire fully packed bus, that my other pants were sticking out underneath my pants. The entire bus starting laughing at me.Being unmasked felt like wanting to disappear.Then I restlessly searched in my head for ways to not be laughed at or not being bullied anymore.So I learned everything about fitness and nutrition, I become obsessed to become bigger and stronger.Later in life I realised my hunt to become strong and big, was just out of fear for being laughed at again and just another mask of pretending for feeling small, weak and unworthy on the inside...
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[@andreasreinhardt5992]

I took up boxing and took revenge on my bully. I broke his nose and gave him a concussion. For that I was thrown out from school. Luckely no more bullying in the new school. Not proud or anything, but it helped me a lot. Kids are the biggest jerks in my experieces.

[@goodnight3663]

@@cacomelon4768 cap lmfao

[@rtc4805]

@@cacomelon4768 true. We should use psychological warfare

[@irinapina8420]

I just found a bag with poo in my son's school 😢 he is just a soft kid and I am so pissed some fucking heartless kid would do such thing

[@doctorx1924]

@@cacomelon4768 it doesn't always work like that. In my case the bullies got physical with me first so I had no choice to defend myself. A lot of bullies are violent and will challenge you to a fight when you stand up to them. That was at least the case for me when I was growing up.

[@airc0nditi0ner84]

@@irinapina8420 what does a bag of poo have to do with bullying?

[@JK-cz6bu]

Some bullies don't move on by ignoring. Some only stop when confronted or with pain or leverage...humiliation or other fear

[@doctorx1924]

Agreed. When you are in school ignoring them won't work especially if they are violent. You have no choice to fight back but in most cases the bully is going to target somebody who is smaller and physically weaker. Sometimes the bully can make a mistake on their target. I saw it happen once in my hschool there was a small kid who was 5'7 and got attacked by a tall kid who was 6'6 and ripped. The kid who was 5'7 ended up whooping the 6'6 kid's ass. What all of us didn't know was the 5'7 kid was a kick boxer.

[@PeteS_1994]

When you confront them you break the illusion of them viewing their selves as better than the people they bullied. Also are you truly ignoring them. To be fair, it's really hard to actually ignore someone, not responding isn't the same as ignoring if it shows in your body language.

[@renegadeace1735]

@@doctorx1924 that's such a good story, I couldn't learn to fight because my parent's wouldn't let me

[@doctorx1924]

@@PeteS_1994 agreed not responding is not the same as ignoring. The bully can tell you are frustrating by your body language and facial expressions even if you remain silent.

[@doctorx1924]

@@renegadeace1735 I believe for a boys the most important investment you can make as a parent in their development outside of academics is teaching them self defense. By that I mean parents should sign their kids to take up boxing and weight lifting the moment they can start doing it. It will build confidence and allow them not to live in fear.

[@atultrivedi5814]

Tips to not to get bullied 1. Build confident stand tall 2. Make eye contact with them 3. Be fit fit people are less likely to bullied 4. Don't show them that you are hurt Bulliing is not good for mental health sorry for my English this is not my native languge

[@KoiGivesUp]

Is their any advice to stop bullying or picking on the weak?

[@mmommo10]

thx

[@devon2rich]

@@KoiGivesUp Get bigger I guess

[@audhumbla6927]

ive been tall and confident and fit and emotionally strong , my whole life. I still got buillied, at home, by my mom, and then everyone else also due to her manipulation, in school, in adult life, in several jobs....................... i got beaten several times etc. so no, those dont work, at all.

[@manpreetlakhanpal9720]

Bullying almost destroyed my life. I am still reeling from the impacts of it.

[@yamisaify4886]

Hope it gets better

[@ankushdhawale4628]

Go to energy healer or hypnotherapist ....for further healing

[@idk-oi1ls]

Me too i even have to take meds so i can leave the house

[@manpreetlakhanpal9720]

@@ankushdhawale4628 pseudoscience

[@ankushdhawale4628]

@@manpreetlakhanpal9720 nope no pseudo.......have far more effects than alopathy med....and without any sideeffects .....the therapy takes time but have an effects on our personality

[@shedevi7446]

I personally think that we cannot justify bullies, when an action is wrong it is wrong, the victims of bullying suffered so much and it remains stuck in them for years and years

[@ayushmohanjena1476]

Actually i am watching this for my friend.... When I see him bullied I don't feel good I tried to help him out but I couldn't find anyway so I was getting irritated and sad..... But I can't leave him get bullied everyday..... Thanku I can now show this video to him or try to convince him in this way..... U really helped him... And responsibilitie from my head... Thanku so much...

[@omarel-kilany8783]

Same

[@dobbsmill3676]

Yes me too. Watching for a friend

[@ankushdhawale4628]

👌👌

[@legendarygaming5045]

Kick the guy's ass who bullies your friend or let your friend kick his ass, this works no cap

[@daron6616]

I see a bully as a kind of psychological energy vampire. Like a traditional vampire, a bully needs to feed on another’s energy to keep themselves fed. Negative emotions like Fear, anger, sadness are the energy they feed off of. However, it it short lived as It fills them for a time, but eventually they get a craving for more. Then, they’re looking for new victims or going back to the same people they’ve previously preyed on as an energy source. In short, they’re living unfulfilled lives as they either cannot or haven’t learned how to properly produce true authentic self fulfillment from within. That’s why I think they keep doing it. 🤔

[@tiffanybloke9076]

You know what. I agree with this. It's hard to explain because it starts to sound a little sci-fi, but I do believe when you're bullied as an adult, it's a form of a succubus energy. It is demonic and my only advice for people who are being targeted is to protect your energy. Say it one time, leave or fight but stop the transference. Once you end it, dont keep replaying it in your mind, send them love and forget about them

[@pppp67567]

Sounds like a Narcissist or Psychopath.

[@Flyingtaco82]

I was bullied daily in school, and also at home. I grew up to marry a man who tried to kill me. Go figure.

[@tdk427]

oh my... i hope u are doing better now. I am sending a bit of love.

[@Flyingtaco82]

@@tdk427 Yes! Thanks!

[@jurassicpork8944]

Wow I'm sorry I pray that you will have a better future

[@shalyfemusic]

Hope you are doing alright 😥

[@carlitobrigante404]

Hope you are doing better and god bless

[@dariancoleman7184]

It helped me change my perspective. Going through bullying I now realize I went through that due to them being jealous and in pain cause they couldn't embody my light. But also to stop a bully is to speak up for yourself.

[@hasbullchik]

True

[@djrelentle2027]

And also beat the shit outta them!!

[@AmirGTR]

It didn't help me change perspective, it just confirmed my current thoughts. Unfortunately this doesn't provide a final solution, because bullies are not just in school, they're also in business, dating, friendship and even family.

[@Dan-ek5oc]

Then change the things u can change about the things they bully u for and the things u can’t change u just need to realise u can’t so why bother worrying about it

[@AmirGTR]

@@Dan-ek5oc Or I can eliminate them from my life. Which is what I've done.

[@mmommo10]

you can add churches, sports clubs,

[@dikacrushngcrushmo6329]

Greatest revenge is being successful

[@danielheartfire614]

It is indeed all about the bully. Some bullies do not let up though and will attack if you do not stop them. Most bullies need to be responded to by notifying authority, a lawyer and law enforcement. And if they lay a hand to you physically, beat them half to death. Bullies are criminal souls!! Demonic people. They are always cowards for only a coward bullies.

[@user-kf1in1sw7h]

True they are f$$king sico paths

[@hhariomm]

Life is worse when your friends are those bullies

[@sakautiesa1589]

YES, bro, i'm in the same situation. At first they be like "very nice" but after that they start to bully me and they think it's a joke.

[@hhariomm]

@@sakautiesa1589 tip - If you are stronger than them thrash them / if you are weak then start working out to thrash them !

[@ninjapirate123]

this means theyre not your friends

[@Tiger_the_Gunner]

Great words - "Bullies love attention, but they hasn't learn how to ask for it" 👏🏽 Thanks man 💚

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[@ammarasajjad9220]

Thank you for this video, I truely can relate that how it feels to be laughed at infront of a crowd and endurance of it repeatedly by multiple people.

[@Nnowwa]

I have an advice just cuss them out in front of everyone that's what I did sure I got suspended but when you come back they ain't gonna mess with you

[@Azad-Hind-Ball]

Nah Man i stabbed his hand but still they keep bullying me I FRICKIN STABBED HIS HAND

[@ankushdhawale4628]

@@Azad-Hind-Ball the person said in rhis video is right follow some advice by watching 3 4 times this video plus go to councellor for further help

[@legendarygaming5045]

@@Azad-Hind-BallWhat? What is this? You stabbed his hand and you think that is enough? stabbing someone's hand isn't gonna do nothing to no one. You have to punch the guy in the face

[@IinesySankka]

It did help. Thank you so much. Some people will still drive me insane because they are too lazy to want to change and accept kindness, instead resorting to the only thing they know, which is anger. You need a lot of patience when dealing with these people.

[@pablogreene6886]

I was bullied at school during the mid 90s by a boy who also said he wanted to become my friend as well. It was really bizarre and strange. One minute he was all nice to me inviting me to his family home etc then the next day he was hurling horrible insults in my ear telling me I should kill myself etc. I reported this to the teachers but nothing much was ever done about it.

[@polishherowitoldpilecki5521]

I ha disimular experience.

[@pppp67567]

This sounds like the early behaviour of a future Covert Narcissist or Psychopath.

[@personalaccount5296]

Thank you. I was bullied in class last year for about 6 months. I was also bullied when I was 7 and 9 years old. I have been through a lot. Now, I am looking to change my perspective and stand up for myself the next time I get bullied.

[@woefelrebirth2176]

You think that's alot...

[@legendarygaming5045]

Kick your next bully's ass

[@gopinath3596]

Person affected by bullies actually start to think themselves as weak and lose self confidence and self esteem.. most painful thing is they suffer by huge fear and wherever they go they cant speak with people freely. This makes other people's to see the affected person as weaker one. So the affected person will start to attract new bullies again...

[@doctorx1924]

Bullying happens at all levels of life but it's the worst when you are in school since kids don't have to be held accountable for being violent. When you are an adult and attack somebody you can be charged with assault and have a criminal record. That doesn't really start to sink in for a lot of kids until they are out of hschool or when they enter college. I remember my first few weeks of college seeing kids get arrested for fighting. Bullying can be handled much better once you are out of school since there is much more to lose on both sides for the bully and the potential victim. If the bully is some random street thug the best thing to do is just walk away since you are not going to see this person ever again. If the bully is someone you work with and they try to insult you just remain calm and stare them down and make eye contact and tell them "This joke/insult was inappropriate and shows your lack of professionalism." If you do it the way I said it will make the bully uncomfortable and they will back off. I know this works because I have had a few encounters at jobs I worked at in the past where I have addressed bullies this way.

[@austinsy8056]

I’ve noticed the majority of bullies are street thugs that’s personally what I’ve experienced and so did my friends 🤷🏻‍♂️ it was always bullies that condone the gang life

[@dealerG]

Bullies sometimes think too much of themselves as well, and in this case they need to be humbled.

[@_katie_park_]

Thank you so much I’m going through a rough time in highschool and this video helped me change my perspective. I’ve always had trouble standing up for myself but now I see them as insecure and weak they don’t affect me as much

[@legendarygaming5045]

The one who bullies you, kick his ass publicly. Kick his ass so hard he shits himself

[@stargirlabi_111]

same! i wish i knew u irl so we could be friends lol. its rlly hard sometimes yk?

[@yugiwitastick]

I shouldn’t even be watching this. I was bullied a few months ago and I can’t get it out of my head.

[@ninjapirate123]

are u still bullied

[@esstown]

I'm so sorry to hear you went through this. I think sometimes people bully just because they are jealous. It doesn't make it any easier though. I wish these things did not happen. Not that it truly matters in the end, but it just so happens you are a very good looking man and I am sure you were a lovely child as well.

[@The.Grim.Geek.27]

Thank you for making this, it's better than what they say at school!

[@PikaCraft_2004]

I know I wish pleaple who heart our feeling can feel us 😭😭

[@rtc4805]

Those people have ruined my entire year 7 so I ruined there’s in year 8 and by the end of it they were expelled

[@yukihykiya7375]

Yeah tomorrow is the first day of this fu***** school I'm just Bruhhhhhhh

[@jonasholmer4161]

I was bullied my self and one of the hard facts that i still dont really know how to deal with is that the bullies did not know why they where bulling me they where just hurt them self. The anger still remain and the disapointment in my self for letting it happen to me because i could not defend my self. Also the fear it happens again.

[@JK-cz6bu]

It's awful that we punish ourselves for being bullied but we do. Sometimes we are outnumbered, don't know how to respond or if it's worth it to respond...or bbn if it will make it worse. I feel that we are angry that our view of ourself (strong and not going to be bullied any longer) is beaten by someone who does it and we let it happen....it's a terrible way to judge and punish ourselves

[@jonasholmer4161]

@@JK-cz6bu not sure what your trying to say here but its just a fact that i did not react to the one that bullied me and therefor is partly responsible for the action that asshole did. And that really suckes that i was so passive that i did not even kick there ass or something. Knowing that is what hurts the most.

[@itsmequeenbee235]

@@jonasholmer4161 Anyone who bullies is simply nor a man not a woman they're little boys and little girls trapped outside and inside their appearance. Next time if someone messes with you again call them what they truly are. I'm so fed up they're way too immature. They don't pay our bills, they don't give us food, nor do they know the kind of shit we been through. These bullies NEED to grow up.

[@_katie_park_]

I’ve got bullied countless of times before and brought up my confidence. But when I got into highschool I lost a lot of friends and felt like no one loved me. And that’s when my self esteem weakened and when i felt defendless against these mean girls

[@ninjapirate123]

how old are u now

[@digitalstudies7780]

I appreciate your insight. Thank you for your time and dedication.

[@coolbean1872]

I expected this to be some kinda “just man up and beat the hell outta him” type video but this was really helpful

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[@Melibond64]

Thank you so much for sharing this short and to the point explanation about our False Selves... your videos have truly changed my Life

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[@Melibond64]

@@alive-academy Yeah! That's a very good way to put it :D ❤🙏

[@anthonysquire1241]

Thanks for doing this video. I can relate to it a lot.

[@eliteluxurymeditations950]

Great video thank you! I can totally relate to putting on an image for approval but really feeling small and fragile on the inside And I have also been on the receiving end of bullying and internalizing the pain they were trying to pass. But it feels good to feel stronger in who I am... I am able to see things like that and not react much anymore!

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[@LizHKHCM]

Subbed and liked. Thank you for a short yet powerful video Tom.

[@KatrinaDancer]

I'd rather stand up to a bully than ignore them and cause them to move on to a weaker target.

[@samyakchhajed]

This video will work great for everybody, thanks Tom!

[@alive-academy]

With pleasure! Thank you too ♥️

[@ashleycox5145]

Wow you're right thank you so much for sharing this 🙂👀😀😄🙂

[@JakeSenn]

Great video Tom, thanks for sharing your personal story

[@alive-academy]

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[@sinenkoalexander]

Agreed, not showing a reaction to bullying is probably the best defence.

[@ontoyoualways9183]

Many situations this can't be done. There is so much at stake.

[@johnsonoutdoors8117]

I did that now I have a hard time being friends with people because I got so good at it now it effects all my emotions without trying

[@yugiwitastick]

I’ve been doing that my whole life and nothing good happened.

[@johnsonoutdoors8117]

@@Kingsan1a for me after a while I just stopped caring, I also had suicidal thoughts, but I was never able to do it, something else that helped me was focusing on thinking about the person that cared. You can get through this.

[@Kingsan1a]

@@johnsonoutdoors8117 yeah I understand that but idk how to deal with bullies, u see if I tell my teachers those bullies call me childish and everyone else stop talking to me because they think I'm too sensitive and I don't have any good friends either who support me in tough times, how do u deal with this?

[@Remichi.NetworX]

This man is a legend.

[@PegasusBYU]

No offense, but as I was growing up and was constantly bullied by classmates, the teachers gave me the same stupid advice “They’re only doing it to get a rise out of you. Just ignore them and they’ll stop!” Guess what? 12 years of trying to ignore them NEVER WORKED. They would just continue at every opportunity (while I valiantly tried to ignore them). After a while I figured it was just an excuse the teachers gave, so they could ignore me, rather than actually doing something. So, what does work? Getting someone on your side that threatens them. It’s the only thing that bullies understand.

[@user-xz8kc7je4c]

I know that feeling man, in my middle school all 9 years i spent were almost full of bullying i was bullied for many reasons, even the teachers sometimes were making fun of me in some way and they just said ignore them as an excuse....

[@johnsonoutdoors8117]

@@user-xz8kc7je4c I didn’t even get an excuse I just got ignored for 7 years

[@doctorx1924]

When it comes to bullying teachers are just like wardens in prison. Just like wardens they are not going to do anything about it when you get attacked. The only thing that works against bullies is violence or the threat of violence. Nothing else will work on them. This is the cold hard truth that schools and administrators don't want to address.

[@mmommo10]

I agree

[@kananiseven]

Or telling them off. Telling them when are they going to get a life and leave you alone already. They look like little kids behaving the way they do. It takes courage but it's not impossible.

[@ddl4374]

This is such a very moving, beautiful, valuable video. I'd like to m note that some extreme bullies bully because they feel I an overwhelming determination to Destroy anybody who blocks them from whatever they want in any way even when what they want severely harms others around them.

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[@kaspian9724]

Thank you, very insightful video

[@MC-8]

This was super engaging! People always have something nasty to say. But I think your advice is good, however, sometimes it's good to stand up to them and tell them to stop

[@tasteoffood123]

Sir thank you I still get little fear by bullied this video gave me some courage

[@faithwins6214]

Ive noticed as an adult women, the bullies are suffering too. Many have experienced childhood trauma or poor parenting themselves. They also need to seek help, along with their victims. Ive seen a few bullies who engage in self harm practices or have been suicidal themselves. As a parent, it’s tough watching your children get bullied and trying to seek help from authorities will only lead to more bullying for your child. Speaking from personal experience, the child could grow resentful towards the parent trying to help. Based on cultural environment, the parent could indirectly or unknowingly bring harm to the child. It’s hard for the victims and parents. We live in a culture where bullying is glamorized as the “cool crowd”; making children think this behavior is normal or should be acceptable.

[@cryptoguy533]

A physically strong person never gets bullied, bullies always look for a weak target, period

[@user-qe7bt9dz1l]

Bullshit, I’m bigger and stronger than all my bullies but they didn’t care. They still bullied me because I suffer from freezing up in confrontations. No matter how tough I am everywhere else, in a direct confrontation my body just locks up and I can’t do shit no matter how hard I try. It’s been that way my whole life and I think it came from my dad bullying me since childhood. Nothing seems to get rid of it and bullies prey on that weakness in me no matter how much strength I have. It’s like my kryptonyte.

[@David-bn1jo]

Im rlly thankfull that you made this tysmm

[@alive-academy]

Thank you! 🙏

[@sydneycurtis3938]

I am always getting bullied and I'm tired of it 😪

[@GL1FE]

It’s exactly what people need to do if they were bullied as a child , is not focus on the exterior which they sadly tend to do because they are still seeking external validation. Speaking from experience and your video was very wise.

[@legendarygaming5045]

No what to do is to kick their ass

[@prachlit_singh]

Thanks for your help.

[@lv-ow9gm]

Today I was at gym and 2 girls entert over my in the bathroom and after that they started laughing at me because of my weight(Wich is normal) and now I am sad

[@sarrajgkajdk7840]

Girl the same thing happened to me today. I was at the store and this one guy started laughing and saying that am fat . I came home crying

[@lv-ow9gm]

@@sarrajgkajdk7840 this is sad:(

[@violettavendetta6490]

I'm sorry this happened to you! It must have felt very degrading. But calling skinny girls skeletons isn't very nice either !

[@lv-ow9gm]

@@violettavendetta6490 I know but they said that themselves,They told me that they are skeletons and would never wanna be fat like me.

[@samuelealmonte2868]

This is the reason why i was getting bullied even though im good at skateboard and videogame it's because im way too nice everyone even if they are mocking at me.

[@sakshamchoudhary9203]

Sane here brother but u know what I learned MMA after I was bullied for one year then after my vacations were over I was ready to kill not joking they again tried to beat me up but this time I kicked one guy in the head and took down other guy and broke his elbow joint I the other 3 bullies ran away I was suspended for a month but my respect was increased in the school and other people who were getting bullied came to me for help and I helped them now there is no bulling in the school and I have become the same sweet and humble guy again

[@samuelealmonte2868]

@@sakshamchoudhary9203 oh man your story is just like from the movie btw I'm not getting bullied nowadays because I learn how to be good in a right way and everyone knows that I can because the last time someone bullied me i punched him in the abdomen and he cough so hardly and honestly I have pity on him because for me I don't want fight I only want a peace.

[@atultrivedi5814]

@@samuelealmonte2868 don't worry brother same thing happenees i too became too good to people but get bullied back

[@eeichholtz7519]

It helped me gain confidence but my bully and his friends went too far with well… my personal life… the way my family works and I kinda feel like I gotta defend my family now

[@alialkresh6052]

very helpful thanks johnny👍🏿

[@cmason5203]

You are a wise man.

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[@ioanmariushortopan5767]

Thank you a lot.Love you man hope u r ok peace ✌

[@hayden7540]

My friend visited our house where he found I was gay & he told everyone at school I can stress this enough, I get beaten/bullied every other day for being gay.

[@yamisaify4886]

Hope it gets better

[@legendarygaming5045]

Kick the shit out of every guy who beats you

[@prachlit_singh]

My classmates bullied me a lot they best me also.. i am now 23 these traumas still horrify me.i m suffering from anxiety and depression and i have eyes problems too . Sometimes I feel very hopeless. My childhood with my toxic parents have beeen very hostile .😥😥😥.ny father used to be very angry and he physically abuse (beating) me . This Lead to my low self esteem and i was like surrendered in front of bullies.😑😑😑... I today saw dream in which i was bullied.😥😥😥

[@xdxboxjaja]

sorry to hear that :( im hoping that you'll get better

[@doctorx1924]

Judging by your name you are a Sikh. I'm also a Sikh but not a Gursikh . Did you wear a turban growing up and didn't you grow up in the US? That would give me a better understanding of what you are dealing with since I'm an Indian American who was born and raised in the US I have a good idea of the shit you had to deal with.

[@legendarygaming5045]

I'll tell you what to do, you are gonna track them down and kick their ass so hard he shits himself and cries. Its the only way to find inner peace. Trust me. No cap.

[@kartikeshsinghrajput5246]

Please keep up the good work ❤️❤️

[@jamiewilliams829]

My fiances neighbour has been bullying us for just over a year and the covid lockdown has made it worse as he can't seem to focus on his own life.

[@deadeyeduncanfromkotor7836]

That's called narcissism

[@reginamckinney5482]

Thank you

[@Higgzbonez]

As a African American and raised as a Muslim I caught hell thought school.. I'm 35 now and those memories still haunts me til this day..I don't think I'll ever get over it until I get even with them all

[@legendarygaming5045]

I"ll tell you what to do, track those bullies down and go kick the shit out of them. Only then you will found inner peace. Trust me

[@polishherowitoldpilecki5521]

Same. 4 years of my school life. Memories haunt me.

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[@felipealem6590]

I loved it.

[@J.horselover]

this really helped I hate getting bullied I always get bullied.

[@ninjapirate123]

do u still get bullied today

[@barbie9776]

My soon to be 13 year old daughter recently lost her group of friends. She is so sad and I feel helpless. I have no idea what to do or say. This little girl is going into a change to a boy. I definitely didn’t judge I told my daughter we accept everyone. I encourage her to support her. Now she is the one who got everyone to stop talking to her and mocks her in class. I told her she is doing it to feel better about herself since she’s not happy with her self. I’m a hands on mom. Her mother never was with us when the girls would hangout. I would pick her up drop her at her house. Bought her food stuff when we went out. It angers me how can she backstab my daughter after all she’s supported her in her transition. Because she can’t tell her own mom the truth she told my daughter about wanted to change into a boy.

[@jum3503]

i thought distance learning would solve this but it made it worse😭😭 i wish i die

[@talaal-jabakhnji6606]

I'm always here for you, you were found for a reason, don't let others put you down, I believe in you and will pray for the situation to get better (be gone)

[@Tiznado]

What i took from this video is to not be scared to stand of for yourself and when a bully makes fun of you, don’t get offended and make fun of them back. They want to see you suffer, so if you find a way to make them suffer instead, you win.

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[@mrpanda2972]

I always watch when I have bad day at school, I have the same story when he was a kid, I trying to overcome that, 😞😔😭

[@abdulmumin6251]

My brother I've tried everything its still happening keep me in your prayers

[@krayko-uz5uf]

thank you

[@_katie_park_]

What really sucks is that my school has this counselor that specifies for bullying but he doesn’t actually do anything, he looks at the letters but never answers back. Also the teachers don’t care, only some of them. Well they can’t do much either way

[@ninjapirate123]

what country do u live in

[@waylonjenninz]

Good video, thanks.

[@alive-academy]

Thanks for sharing your support! I'm glad you like it!

[@maria-melek]

I was bullied by 2 classmates when I moved schools in elementary. Nobody really did anything and my mom did very little, though this one classmate always stood up for me. The following school year I began to feel anxious and sad, in the morning's I'd go to the restroom and cry, the following school year I became depressed...flash forward to middle/high school it became depression and anxiety and suicidal thoughts and ideation, insecurity. And I acted tough or unbothered since young, still do. But I realized that it wasn't the bullying/bullies that made me that way, it was the fact that I felt so alone and unwanted that made me feel like I always had to look out for myself and trust no one. I must also say that ever since I was bullied I never felt like I really had friends or belonged, and it took me some time to realize because every time I tried to talk or get the pieces together someone (esp my mom) they never gave me the chance to let them out.

[@legendarygaming5045]

KICK. THEIR. ASS.

[@polishherowitoldpilecki5521]

Same, Especially with anxiety and depression. I have problems socializing right now.

[@hollow1119]

thx you really help me

[@alive-academy]

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[@randomraindrop]

Honestly, I decided to watch this video because I'm afraid of being bullied again, all the past experiences are enough, I don't want to be left alone again, to be injured again, to get into all the stuff to "punish the bullies" and see nothings happening I start high school in less than 2 weeks, I don't want to be bullied anymore But when you say to don't show any feelings, I truly know I can't, my mind can't, my body either I'm too sensitive, I know everything about me will be a reason to be bullied and disrespected, and it will affect me either way I'm scared of what's going to happen

[@madinasarwary1176]

If someone bully why can we can't call police

[@alive-academy]

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[@vanjaxy9222]

Right. I was bullied in high school because of my small hight and I know now that they were hurt from the inside. It is easier to critisize others and draw attention away from them than look inside the heart and cope with their own problem. I found you in my critical moments of life and learn with open heart. And you know what? It works. You have a point because you learnt from your experiences. I am so glad that I found you Tom. Sending love

[@alive-academy]

It is you who took the step!

[@rocky-ol2tn]

Tq very much

[@emii-tq3kr]

Bruh i am literally getting bullied for nothing im just minding my own business and the bullies just have to say something about me which leads to depression

[@mohdfarhankhan3906]

Mee too 🥲

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[@pianovocal]

very good video

[@Zak-dm1pi]

Thx

[@sherika4363]

I’ve been bullied by the same group of girls since 2017 , I almost killed myself because I thought I was the things they were calling me. I’m glad I didn’t! I’m meeting new people, I’m a senior in college and I have a great job in the hospital!

[@ninjapirate123]

so how old are u now

[@sherika4363]

@@ninjapirate123 27

[@ninjapirate123]

@@sherika4363 so this means back in 2017 u were 22 and you were bullied in college, I thought college students are nicer and respectful to each other than high school students

[@gh0stronica]

share this video! a world with less bullies is a world I want to live in

[@shwetabhgangwarviewer5132]

I am very short . This is the reason for getting bullied . Unfortunately I cannot change it.

[@user-rl1ks7py9z]

I get bullied because of my race

[@sarrajgkajdk7840]

@@user-rl1ks7py9z they are racists monsters. I get bulied because of my religion and culture

[@yugiwitastick]

Usually whenever I get a haircut I get bullied.

[@gplaymobile7015]

I feel better

[@gamezathome5327]

Honestly thank you, I get bullied everyday bc I go to a religious school even though I am not very religious compared to others so even though they don’t pick on me about that I can tell it is bc of that. I am 12 and my school has started this thing we’re your have to scream out every one’s name and when your a bully you find some sort of reason for who you hate so you can call out there name and it can really bring you down, I have started calling out my name with them and it is really helping. I am just waiting for there next tactic though so I can cry myself to sleep again

[@mmommo10]

churches are some of the worst places to be bullied.....I've been a part of 3 now.....

[@mariashumyatsky264]

too late the damage is done I was bullied at work Custom Ink and it broke me. It was done by several people including management. I made me sick, depressed... it led to very harming things. I think I was hated beause I was fulfilled, happy, healthy, honest, direct and a good worker... however I did not have the consciousness to realize that some people could hate me for it...

[@cissin1281]

Thinking. Social hierarchies. Pecking order. Putting down the already low. :( Life is cruel.

[@ryanfirst7336]

I get bullied by people they say why did Colton which is me rob the bank because he wanted to be wanted and they all call me gay.

[@superhexo6371]

Hey, my friend became bully to me when he started friending with other bad people on our school. I still dont know why he would do that? We were best friends he never had alot of confidence too.. I still remember to this day how i helped him how to gain friends when he asked me. But as i said he became friends with another bad people that i think they made him feel like im the bad one. After this video i gained confidence too! I told the teacher and my old friend got kicked out of the school.. oh gosh i miss old him.. :(

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[@shawncourtney7998]

i’ve never been a bully in school and I’ve always stuck up for kids that I saw were being bullied, but I’m worried that my anger and aggression is turning me into a bully... How do you know if you are a bully..? My oldest daughter just told me she feels like I bully her.. it broke my heart, I asked her why she feels that way. She replied to me that that I get so angry all the time and says I’m scaring her.. I apologized idk 🤷‍♂️ what to do.. I don’t want her to feel this way. But sometimes dads yell.. Will you please give me advice on this situation.

[@Tarasyoutube]

How old is she? Try to say what you're thinking and be more vulnerable without raising your voice. Sit down to talk. Eat regularly.

[@shawncourtney7998]

@@Tarasyoutube she is 6.

[@Tarasyoutube]

Having kids happens to evolve us to who we are meant to be. Time to expand into a gentler guy. 😘🧚‍♀️🏄‍♀️👨‍👧💞

[@Tarasyoutube]

Ask her how it would feel to her if you didn't yell, I bet shell say something you'll treasure.

[@joshuaokokpujie1521]

Omg something you said clicked with me. "They just want love and attention but don't know how to ask for it" So an easy way to resign a bully is to give them you unfiltered, unconditional love and attention, show them the light to the world then leave c: What do you guys think? Just got this idea, makes sense in my head but might not neccesarily be effective

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[@joycebrett8364]

My daughter is in a house off camus with two other girls. They started to be mean to her recently. They threw her stuff all over the bathroom and put her clothes from the dryer behind the dryer. She is 20 years old and we paid 3500 for the semester at this house. She feels like she can't leave her room. They trashed the house when they had a sorority event of some kiind and then complained when they had to clean up and said that she didn't do enough cleaning, which my daughter denies. She says they don't eat and they read aloud the calories of her groceries. What do you think of this and what shouid we do? She is a 5 to 6 hour drive away.

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[@xlxlxlx123]

I cut off my bully / toxic friend completely. But see this guy from time to time. It still bother me. Felt like I should have confronted and dealt with him in the past so that I have closure.

[@mmommo10]

best to just move on....try to talk to them or reason with them it just get worse. you did the right thing!

[@endsdoubkefilms5497]

Thamks you realy help me from geting bullied

[@chuckmaxon3727]

Just ignore or let it go in one ear and out of the other are things that were said to me as a boy. However, if we need to ignore then it means that we care, if we care what is being said it gives power to what is being said. I found that becoming arrogant, even a bit condescending helped me. To say "I am just as good as that bully" isn't saying much about our self worth. No, indeed, I am "better" that that bully... I don't have to put others down to build myself up. To say "I am good enough, smart enough and people like me" (from SNL) doesn't do the trick... no I am more than smart enough, I am better then just "good enough" and frankly... I don't care who likes me. Sure I want to "get along" but that doesn't mean that I need to be seeking the approval of others to do so. I was bullied by my family, class mates and just about anyone I met as a 10 year old boy. By the time that I was 12 I was expelled from school and was said to be "retarded". This ended with me being placed in a juvenile home for 18 months. I was around young criminals and thugs. However, it took me a few weeks to realize that I was smarter than most of them (my iq was tested and found to be 136). I had an epiphany and knew that the problem wasn't me... it was my mother, brother, uncle, teacher and class mates. No I wasn't the dummy that they said that I was. Love yourself is the key... just as you are.

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[@deewhiddon9860]

And I need to get over it

[@idk_r7887]

They just won't stop I don't know what to do.

[@ninjapirate123]

Who won't stop tell me the name of that person and what country u live in

[@zackmorrison207]

6 bullys at school likes to beat me up and one day I pulled the boss of the bullies pants and i ran fast as I could and they chased me. The 6 bully caught me and the leader of the bully said we gonna beat you up. I spited on the leaders face and ran they chase me again and they were really angry they didn't catch me this time.

[@legendarygaming5045]

You ALWAYS have to beat up the leader, he is the strongest of the group everyone listens to him. You knock him out. The fight is over. Everyone's scared of you know