How to Overcome Rejection - Reduce the Fear of Getting Rejected

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[@eddiecaseras9419]

Bro, you are the man!

[@takumereny2841]

1.Give yourself time to grieve 2.start moving out(soul searching)/self actualization 3.reframe the rejection 4.never stop trying 5.law of average

[@MhmdChatila]

I don't get rejected by girls Cause I don't even have the balls to talk to them

[@xdrighteous5898]

Mhmd Chatila same

[@callmequeen7039]

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[@freddyadongo5896]

With you mate

[@callmequeen7039]

Freddy Adongo Thank you :)

[@TVC15ohoh]

Dude, why? There's nothing wrong with you that doesn't apply to all of the rest of us. You're a decent looking guy and you're obviously on the intelligent side of the spectrum because you look at videos like this one. You're letting your fears dictate what you will and will not do. I know it's hard to overcome one's fear(s) but I discovered a long time ago a way to make fear disappear - step into it. When I was in my 20's I decided to become a mobile DJ and I started by working for the fraternities and sororities at UCLA and USC. I remember more than one occasion when I drove to where the fraternities are and sat in my parked car, paralyzed with fear, unable to get out. "They're gonna say no. I'm not going to get any work. They're gonna look at me and tell me to fuck off." But I mustered up the courage to open the door and step out of my car - and into my fear. And what happened? As soon as I stepped out of my car, I could feel the fear dissipate, like steam disappearing into the air. And as I walked toward the fraternities, my courage gathered momentum and as I walked into each of them, I felt confident and worthy of their business. Did I get every job from every fraternity I went to? Of course not. But I got a bunch of them and I worked successfully as a mobile DJ for 11 years, doing all sorts of gigs, until I decided to move on to something else. Your fears are giving you excuses to not go out there and connect. You're letting them run your life. Dude, I don't even know you but I know that you have no good reason to not go out there and try to connect. Will every girl you ask out accept your invitation? No, of course not. But there will be those who will. Work on elevating your feelings of self-worth. Where are your insecurities coming from? Who told you that you were undesirable or worthless? Who the fuck are they? I can assure that whatever shit people told you about you and how inferior you are were not reflections of YOU, they were reflections of THEM. THEY were the inferior, worthless ones who were trying to make themselves feel better about themselves by trying to put you down and undermine your sense of self-worth. You are a much better person than you give yourself credit for. I know it. It's high time you accept yourself and all the good things you are, for there is much that is good and even great about you. Trust me but even more importantly, trust yourself and have faith in yourself.

[@christianrodier3381]

Rejection is common. I just tell myself when I am rejected that my happiness doesn't depend on the person rejecting me.

[@ContinualImprovement]

I’m used to rejection. My card rejects me all the time.

[@soka4197]

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[@Awesome5]

How to overcome rejection-10000 views How to get girlfriend-6 mil views

[@superpasi7315]

Awesome 5 dude he just uploaded the fucking video

[@Awesome5]

just wait it wont get as much as views as he got on the girlfriend ones.

[@diegonehorta]

and definitely this one has way more quality of advice than the others

[@Awesome5]

yea i agree wit u

[@pinkharmonica1312]

@@superpasi7315 a year later, still has 56k, and the dude had almost 2 million subs lol

[@rach2345]

This is a great video. Every time I get rejected I tell myself there's something seriously wrong with me and go into a downward spiral. But obviously this is so wrong, because if your happiness depends on someone else's opinion, you'll never really be happy.

[@missionentertainment454]

Rach madam u r looking very sexy

[@fynnsvideos]

You never try you never know. Worst thing that can happen? She says no. And then? You’ll be sad for a couple of weeks or months and then you’ll move on in live. What if you don’t ask her out? Well you will probably regret that shit for half of your life. So what’s better? Chance of success+couple of weeks if it doesn’t work out or no chance of success at all+ regrets for months if not years. I mean I think anybody can answer that question.

[@JonBonesJones84]

Spheo -- What about the social awkward moments? Like being in the same place as the girl. That has to be worse than anything at all. It makes the situation so frustrating

[@abdullahannan]

Its harder when your the only lesbian. And your crush is your ONLY friend, and you've known each other since grade two

[@GetPsyched]

Rejection is so sad hard to overcome. In large it can be because its so personal like you said its a hit to our own personal value. We want to feel needed and wanted, we want to feel desirable and when we are rejected it can often feel that this all erodes. Understanding our own worth and integrateing with groups that appreciate us can be really helpful after rejection. Thanks for this!

[@kelo6654]

Yeah but the fcked up is thing when you already have a depression since years and you have to deal with rejection...i mean your self esteem is already on the lowest point before the rejection...and afterwards...well...complete downfall

[@masterobama2143]

kelo 66 true

[@pisserones-7019]

kelo 66 yep thats fcked up

[@lyricsvideozone9437]

Broo, I totally feel you... at least a hug for you now! I deal with the same issue, my parents tell me that I have no idea about depression, but they have no idea how wrong they are.... . I struggle with porn addiction, and also that shit keeps me away from girls, and also loneliness.... I have some acquaintances whom I would care for, but they live far away, and this hurts af.. I'm also not motivated at all mostly, i dealt with lots of toxic " friends " ( ohh, fuck them... ) and sometimes still dealing with. I'm a loner, and mostly all I can do is just to sit at home: PC ->loneliness -> PC -> loneliness -> watching movie -> loneliness.... I'm literally disgusted by loneliness... With that being said, I would tell you to better risk yourself, because, based on my experiences even though I'm fucked up, I can tell that you'll better risk , fail, get rejected, then after regreting it from not doing it! Others laughed at me whenever I tried something, but that's how stuff work unfortunately... Lastly, my goal for this year is to let go of that fucking porn, to start being more confident and high self esteem in fron of womans/people, to not be naiv like I used to be, and to get rejected than regrets. I know how it feels like to be down like all the time, but for me, even If my life is kinda fucked up, I can't enjoy almost nothing, being sad, depressed & lonely, I'd still choose to try & suffer now and then hopefully getting a better life, than regreting and not doing anything at all! Now I don't wanna tell you like others that oooh, everything will be alright, or it will be better soon... no ! Just to be ok when you fuck up, when others judge/criticize you ! Happy New Year and be strong!

[@willieodea4941]

What you gotta do is never get too attached to a girl unless you know it's going to work that way you won't be as upset after rejection

[@caropedraza4241]

""They are like alchemists. They have transmuted the dense base metal of rejection into gold, or opportunity". I simply loved this part. This video spoke to me on different levels. The channel is getting deep!

[@MentorMase]

Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs From Most important to least: Physiological: Hunger, Thirst Safety Social: to be loved and to love Esteem: Self-Esteem Self-Actualization: Goals, Desires

[@AscendedMasculine]

Great perspective on this!

[@joegongora2200]

Jim Morrison said; Women seem wicked when your unwanted, streets are uneven, when your down. But Jim Morrison also said that when your down; The Music Is Your Only Friend. As you mentioned perhaps they didn't deserve you . At any rate it's time to move on because life moves on and it certainly doesn't stand still. Very cool info which shows things from different perspectives. It's sad that this info, Y-Tube, and the internet didn't exist in 1980. One had to go to book stores to buy books on the subject. But life is worth living & rejections are part of life.

[@abryepenez124]

Everyone that gets rejected by people having negative thoughts should overcome that. Everyone that gets passed over by negative people should be motivated by rejection. What I'm saying is that you shouldn't let rejection make you give up whether you're dating, doing business, or doing anything else.

[@nickolaslogalbo]

This is exactly what i needed right now. Thank you for posting. I feel like i can pick my self up and be productive again

[@indridcold8433]

It is impossible for me to ever be rejected again, from 8 August 2000 and still going. I deleted everyone from my life that day. I can no longer get emotionally devastated, be taken advantage of, nor be abused anymore.

[@colinsiegler8626]

This was a very well written video. I don't usually like KZbin videos but you deserve it man.

[@kaylaharris7139]

All of my rejections in life have made me into a stronger person. I'm glad I went through it.

[@missionentertainment454]

You are looking very sexy

[@kaylaharris7139]

Mission Entertainment thank you

[@missionentertainment454]

Respected Kayla madam you are from which country...

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Mission Entertainment What country would you think I'd be from?

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Are you from USA

[@muzeairal6387]

I don’t know how old this guy is but did a fantastic video that goes straight to the yeast.

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Man youre the best drawer of the whole universe

[@jasontang9192]

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[@danielgriffiths3291]

It took me 2 months to force myself to ask her out and she said yes. First date in like 9 years. Well she didn't show up. A year later I asked another girl out after the same trying to get the balls to ask her. We had coffee several times and then she started asking me to pay her cell bill. Then that's all it turned into. It took me 9 years with the last girl. I then got used for money by the next one. Why the fuck should I ever try to go down that road again?

[@YourNickIsTaken]

I admit, i have a lot to learn from this video and i have to change. Thank You.

[@legofanatic29]

Honestly thank you for making this video. I recently was rejected by a girl I fell madly in love with and every thought was about her. I thought everything was going amazing and then she rejected me. I’ve been a literal mess the last couple weeks trying to play it off cool but this video definitely helped. If she passed me up maybe I did dodge a bullet.

[@nickvandenberg4244]

I would've loved this perspective when I was younger when , I had the biggest fight with myself

[@GrowthMindsetChannel]

this video is full of gold, good job my man

[@xdrighteous5898]

Awesome vid rejection happens every day

[@albertortega7160]

I get rejected romantically a lot. I have a hard time getting over the rejection. Girls have really negative reactions towards me. I stopped trying to date women. I still have a hard time though even finding a job.

[@thyyobuthelezi3525]

whow😢 I almost cried watching this.. 😥

[@storewarrior]

thanks for making this Video! This really helps me a lot because i'm shy partway because of the fear of rejection. So now i'll try some tips and hope i can improve...

[@mattig89ch]

What might make an interesting video in the future, is ways to increase your self esteem and/or your self worth. Interesting video, keep up the great work!

[@blackmane1993]

thank you for this wonderful video i have learned and i am not a fear no more

[@Fabi954]

That's why I subscribed to this channel! This was very helpful! Thank you!!!

[@666nadia1995n]

This video is perfect! Thank you!

[@missionentertainment454]

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[@Kakarott2023]

Damn, that was sooo helpful. After watching your videos i always feel so inspired and that i can be the next president! Lol, no but serious. Thank you and go on with your beautiful content. I am missing the signature melody in the video.

[@husseinkangomba8297]

man this video change the way i see things man

[@amitshakyawar9260]

You change my life today

[@nathanx.675]

This whole improve yourself after rejection thing I think it works for a rejection at work or promotion but not really for a relationship.... If a girl doesn't like you there's really not much you can do to change it...

[@tomsongeorge8343]

It gave better hope to my life !

[@axelrosete3744]

Nice video, man! Pretty awesome content that must be known to others. Keep up the good work.

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I love that you talk fast 😄🤩

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Amazing info on this video. Your videos have become deeper. You could take it a bit slower, maybe break the video in two or something, but the info provided is very useful. Thanks!

[@xdrighteous5898]

This helped so much

[@djw3707]

Great video. Thanks for sharing this information.

[@vanaphill2454]

If you know your worth, rejection means nothing!

[@Spinocroc123]

You really saves me there PP!

[@JoannaCubana]

Thank you for this video. It helped me greatly...🎊🎊🎊🎊🎈

[@rafaelgavilanes7340]

Amaizing Video, Thank you so much!

[@elisha_benner]

Nice Video. Keep it up

[@xdrighteous5898]

Thanks practical for the love your so good at this physiology and all that stuff

[@chibay99]

Great video!!!

[@jackleapple2925]

this is such a good video!

[@bart132]

at 10:30 he just says, stalking is the way to go guys :)

[@edh7353]

Where are you from? Your English is so understandable

[@LittleLulubee]

He sounds American

[@edh7353]

LittleLulubee yeah but where? America has a lot of accents

[@LittleLulubee]

It just a standard American accent. Could be from many states.

[@lunarsix1981]

I told her I don't wanna be ur friend be my lover or find someone else to be ur Friend. (Brother).

[@junkjunk2493]

good stuff jammed w info

[@shawnb3744]

Oh. So preemptively rejecting didn't make the list. Back to the drawing board I go...

[@subashparajuli2135]

Please make a video on 'How to Stop Ruminating?'

[@wayne2242]

Great content 👍

[@prismart_xvi9163]

Great vid. Do you draw the illustrations on your videos? Or is it an edit?

[@Catratusful]

Incredible video thanks

[@superpasi7315]

Is there a psychological reason the girls in your thumbnail always have blue eyes?

[@LittleLulubee]

Blue eyes are pretty :)

[@colinsiegler8626]

Statistically blue eyes are the most favored eye color.

[@abdallaalamin2314]

This helps alot thnx for this man ☺☺👍👍👍👍👌

[@vaultvon2126]

Just about the right time.

[@alonsofernandez1]

Brilliant!!

[@vinsmoke4541]

She said she loved me......now she is with someone else having the best time of her life and pretends like I dont even exist

[@deathhazared380]

Lay off the anime, it’ll help you.

[@strayble]

she lied to me then left me for the guy that's abused both of us for the past year, that she insisted was no issue. Hang in there bud, I'm here with you

[@tempestandacomputer6951]

DeathHazared Yep, as harsh as it sounds.

[@karma05x]

The funny thing is,i dont even get to the Friendzone...well yeah

[@mrtexasstrut]

The script for this video was excellent, your writing and delivery has improved a lot recently

[@commonideas5456]

Do you know why do you never see elephants hiding up a tree?😒 Because they are really good at it

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I have been learning English through your videos. So it would be nice if you put cc on videos pls

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👍👍 your words work

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Your videos are really really creative and meaningful, something which is not easy to find these days in internet. Keep up the good work and teach us more we support you👌🏻❤️

[@zeus9902]

thanks

[@nipponfraser2383]

That is some good shit!

[@DarkClarity]

A question : there’s this girl that I like, but she obviously doesn’t like me back neither does she dislike me. We’re just friends that aren’t too close. should I tell her how I feel about her or try to build a closer relationship first?

[@DarkClarity]

Ofc I’m scared shitless of being rejected and not be able to even build that closer relationship because she would put a clear distance between us.

[@yorbendw5035]

My first thought would be to try to come closer. If this works : lovely !! You can, if you can and want, move on I think. If not, than I hope you guys can still be 'friends' ... I went for it immediately. Didn't work. But, to make you even more indecisive (sorry, I know) : every girl is different. Do what your heart tells you to do.

[@Quicktwosteps]

Just like being a GOAT, being forgetful. Huh, you lost a game? When you're a GOAT, you won't remember that you ever lose. Huh, you got rejected? If you are a thick-skinned GOAT, you won't remember ever getting rejected.

[@beyourself4996]

That’s are great video but people need thinking carefully before they do what’s they do and if they do then be available about it . :)

[@JohnM...]

How to overcome rejection, from women = don't ask in the first place. Social acceptance is NOT NECESSARY. I went through 5 years of university studying math, and graduated having spoken to less than 10 people - once each. If you have to be around other people to feel like your life is worth living, then it's not, it's worthless.

[@rrisbaeaf8599]

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[@TheJchip]

Did you even watch the vid?...

[@AliexFolgueira]

I still get mad every time time a get a not positive comment lol it is like I'm wired be mad about any comment that is not positive lol good thing it only last a minute

[@Woahhhitsmonica]

Just in time !

[@Leggs013]

You Girls don't even try to meet a guy! You expect us to do everything in our Country!

[@Woahhhitsmonica]

Leggs013 I give a guy a hint or an easy way to show them that I am interested conversing :) Or I take a deep breath and go up to the guy *

[@ShotaxNinja]

Even my opinions get rejected

[@abdullahkhalil1402]

Hey man, THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS😍

[@strawl9528]

You reject them first before they reject you. ( it all serious I thought your videos)

[@gsmspnj1]

"Now factor" channel for rejection. What do you think would that work too?

[@blackpearl1t]

My fav vid thank u

[@xWingzTV]

@Practical Psychology Have you actually done the Rejection Therapy yourself?

[@PracticalPsychologyTips]

Yep, more than once too

[@saifal-qalawi6956]

I know some people will probably reject me,but i still ask anyway which can cause me alot of bad stuff,but i cant suppress the urge,Help

[@guysunderthecity6126]

Lov ur vids

[@ykc4638]

Will you do a video on how to have big dreams or imagination

[@PracticalPsychologyTips]

Working on a video about goals and how to set them realistically but large enough you aren't capped by your own brain :)

[@debramottram4979]

Rejected YESTERDAY SAD

[@yashnaik9820]

Is it necessary to do job before starting business. I mean want to do business but my family background is not business type. So is it necessary for me to do job for a successful business?

[@mgtowphilippines8164]

What IF your a sociopath?

[@Official_Suave]

I agree 👍

[@mariasasac2514]

I was rejected with my crush..

[@missionentertainment454]

Maria madam u r so sexy

[@missionentertainment454]

Hiii

[@carnoises86]

2nd like, first comment!

[@bhimlalshrivasta1370]

Hello

[@PracticalPsychologyTips]

Hey, hope you enjoyed the video :)

[@get_creative6192]

Can u do a video on how to ask a girl out, or building up self of steam. Somthing like that If not thanks

[@yorbendw5035]

Get_ Creative Some people advice me to drink something and then go. But I think it only works in the bar ... :P

[@get_creative6192]

How do I start small