How To Plan for a One Night Stand! | The Thirsty Sisters #28

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What is Nina's No. 1 tip to rock a great one-night stand? Any definite no-no going into one-night stands? In this week's deep-dive into all things relationship, The Thirsty Sisters spill the tea on one-night stands and their starter pack to get the night going. Tune in to find out!
00:48 Topic of the day
02:48 Who should not do one-night stands?
08:49 Nina and Sylvias’s definition of one-night stands
10:30 Who can do a one-night stand?
11:59 Stop-gaps of one-night stands
17:31 The Thirsty Sisters one-night stand starter pack
24:26 Rules of one-night stands
31:46 How do you choose the other party?
34:35 How you should behave during one-night stands
40:05 Walk of shame
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[@TheThirstySisters]

Ahh the notorious one night stands. That taboo phrase most Asian women shy away from, either due to stigma, or being unsure of how to approach a no strings attached situation. We've all heard horror stories, but seldom "what if I'm interested"? Fret not, we've got your back with a starter pack this episode, its not that different from an army outfield one 🦹‍♀️ Let us know your "outfield" essentials in the comments below 💄👄

[@yexinxin5588]

😀💖CuteSylviaCute💜😀 💙我爱你💚 💛You are getting more and more cute everyday💖😉😉😉😍😍😍💜💙💖💚💛💜👄👅💋👄👅💋👄👅💋💌💌💌

[@yexinxin5588]

😁💖Sylvia💜😁 💙In my opinion one night stand is quite a shy topic and many people is shy to talk about it💚 😉😉😉😍😍😍💜💙💖💚💛💜👄👅💋👄👅💋👄👅💋💌💌💌

[@malita354]

Bring mouth wash.

[@cashmerehazel21]

I think this is a comprehensive guide and starter kit. One thing I wish you'll talk more about is the "horror stories". Not just the part about STD, pregnancy, kidnapping, but also the part about blackmailing, robbing, having others talk openly about your private moments and parts, having a one-night stand partner that suddenly became clingy etc.

[@itscloudyinside]

One tip I have for anyone going for a ONS, ESPECIALLY when you've been drinking, be aware of where your partner's phone is. Make sure they are not picking up their phone halfway and the camera is pointed right at you. They might be trying to take a photo/video of you without your consent. So if you don't intend to have your sex face being spread around on the internet; *if got flash, phone must smash.*

[@lydiat5819]

Never go to your house because you don't know whether he will become a stalker. Never go to his house because you don't know whether he has installed video cameras. But best of all, never do it because you don't know what kind of disease he may pass to you. Sigh, live is boring. 😁

[@jaceeeee33333]

Love that you both talk about such controversial topic in depth! Please do more! Maybe like pre- martial sex, abortion, fostering and adoption etc.

[@Chloe-dl3lh]

A good way to hide your underwear in your bag is to use those metallic candy container. Like eclipse. Just keep the container when you finish the sweet then wash it and you can put your underwear inside. Good for period too. But if you have the same sweet in your bag (like another box you are eating from), make sure you separate them by putting them in different bag compartment (:

[@TheThirstySisters]

Great tip! ❣️

[@myblueberrymuffin14]

Nina so funny! And she gives very legit advices. Sounds experienced

[@shuhui8493]

“If you cannot separate, then don’t connect.”😂

[@Flastew]

Love your videos, you are always so open and honest which makes the topics fun and educational.

[@boomboom1258]

My starter kit:: feminine wipes, perfume, condom, charger and money, and for me personally, eye brow pencil lol

[@peien]

I was gonna listen to this is spotify but the minute sylvia said her hair is tearing I had to come and watch it here.

[@sylsylchan]

Hahahaha it looks smooth though right 😂

[@yexinxin5588]

@@sylsylchan 💖💙💜爱💜💙💖 💖💙💜爱💜💙💖 💖💙💜爱💜💙💖

[@mymemorieslane]

Nina sound so experienced 😂

[@sohfunny]

Very informative guidelines Sylvia & Nina. Though i no longer require this as I'm married but it's really good for younger audience :) Keep up the good work! :):)

[@VanDrew9]

listening on 0.5 speed on Spotify of both u is so funny, especially on this topic , anyway ! always love Nina especially on Among Us livestream ! You go girl CEO Sylvia !

[@yuuwei4915]

Can we have an episode of the horror stories?

[@thaomyyy]

yes another one

[@beverlymendonca7597]

my one night stands always start and end with the refrigerator!😅

[@tsunaide]

Hair tie to secure the underwear should be part of the essentials 😂

[@bluemush86]

Loved the podcast, great tips. 😂 walk of shame, saying hi to family. Hotel would be best, enter & exit and safer too.

[@lusiaandini7453]

several times listen to your podcast in youtube and decide to listen in spotify, you guys, soo funny

[@an_xon]

thks tts yall gave some awesome advice and tips doing the whole fist bump and thumbs up at the lift at my next ons

[@Lololol555x]

I strongly do not recommend ons and for me I'll never do it. But if people who are keen, I strongly do not recommend going to the person house. And especially letting the person know you are going their house in advanced. Idk, maybe I too paranoid. But too many sick ass out there already install camera in their house to film. Some record to watch for personal entertainment. But most will leak and share. And worst case, they will use that to blackmail you for money. So hotel is the best option and best is hourly rated. Use and go. Don't enjoy a moment and suffer a lifetime of the aftermath

[@lilaznkid4ever]

I wanna see the full recording of the original take! Please upload for our entertainment please!!!!

[@sammy8730]

My ex and my current partner watching this 🥺👀. Boi you tryna cheaattt

[@rachelkh20]

Horror stories part 2 to this topic!

[@viajaycay]

My horror story? I bring her home. We do the deed. She stays over. The next morning she wants a relationship

[@agsh5]

so why the recommendation of 3 ONS that sylvia mentioned at the start of the video? she said she will explain why later but i didnt get it. did i miss it out?

[@edwinsherifflee1934]

Nina is just awesome.

[@BlehShit4Eva]

I listen to podcasts in the mornings and was waiting for new episodes. Why release in the afternoon ! Hahahaha

[@sylsylchan]

What time is better??!

[@BlehShit4Eva]

@@sylsylchan hahaha ! Just kidding ! Anytime is good ! I can always listen tomorrow morning ! Looking forward 😃😃

[@yexinxin5588]

@@sylsylchan 💖💙💜爱💜💙💖 💖💙💜爱💜💙💖 💖💙💜爱💜💙💖

[@yapsweeleng]

Wow!! Thanks 😊 for this tube!! Helps a lot for many .... yes, I love my bolster and NO ONS to stay over. Chill larrrr ..... 😋

[@andytanex]

Please Nina come and Clear my Room! XD

[@rayheng3619]

Nina sounded so experience in this area 😌 Anw, for guys pov, try not to use those super thin condoms even though some ladies like it ,as the chances of it breaking is literally higher. Then end up have to ask her to take the pill , which I guess you don't want that. (Plus it messes up her menses cycle ) Try to bring along lub (if you can) cause sometimes some lady are just dry. - Always bring more than 1 condom with you as you may need it for more than 1 round. Not being sexist here , but make sure you see the lady's V properly before you off the light and insert in . Got once I ate someone and after that I immediately run to the toilet , puke and wash my mouth cause it tasted so bad. (Suspect her to have vaginal yeast infection )

[@ivegotajarofdirt1534]

Why does it hurt to watch her combing( how do you spell it? ) her hair

[@kookie4950]

so funny FML HHAHAAHHAHA

[@BareInterior]

Just bring to hotel la, then no need to say bump into anyone or no stalker potential. Simple

[@LuueeJanice]

Hahaha good one. Never knew this needs planning.. 😁😁😁

[@junjunx1989]

Will u guys talk about foreplay only after no before what kind of foreplay females / guys like.and things to do before doing the deed t o make it more enjoyable

[@junjunx1989]

The way Nina talks can go school.give presentation it is like the full package a from A to Z. U know

[@etherial9000]

Can't stop laughing 🤣

[@danieltan1040]

I finally understand what TTS is about, their 500 shades of guilt. Watching for a different reason now.

[@danieltan1040]

Ok, I'm a different person now and I see that I was wrong. Please be restored iron ladies.

[@leonardlim2248]

Nina is like the SME of ONS

[@ricvettelll]

Gurl why it aint on spotify :^

[@sylsylchan]

It is! open.spotify.com/episode/32tMceEp3jeSMxV6KcF3iY?si=gwPlXH5gTcKNKKLwcb5glQ

[@yexinxin5588]

@@sylsylchan 💖💙💜爱💜💙💖 💖💙💜爱💜💙💖 💖💙💜爱💜💙💖

[@beverlymendonca7597]

also AWESOME VIDEO YALL!!💜💜🥂🥂

[@kohyewher5687]

Hi sylvia and nina

[@user-ch7gk2qz6q]

"that is also very true"

[@josiah1056]

Hmm, if you’re advocating for one-night stands yet drawing a line for those in a committed relationship or marriage, do you think that the habit of sleeping around with different people can just be stopped upon entering a committed r/s? Can a person who is used to having sex with multiple partners be satisfied with just one, just because a commitment is made? There’s a reason why sexual partners should be limited. People are greedy and will always want more, once they have a taste of it. To remain ethical and committed within a r/s, people shouldn’t indulge their sexual appetites.

[@alonecozydot195]

They are not advocating did u fin watching the video

[@josiah1056]

@@alonecozydot195 They didn’t explicitly advocate for it but they were implicitly implying that it is okay to do so. My argument is that it isn’t okay in the first place, so that sexual desires are kept in their place when people enter into a committed r/s.

[@moviemaster455]

Nina can be an independent youtuber!

[@phatkuyavlogger4000]

nice vlog

[@cklee88]

Nina is well experienced ;)

[@Rainbowsquishy123]

How about having flings ?

[@libraries144]

my starter pack, PANTY LINER, makeup remover, makeup, shorts

[@gummyypeach]

Why panty liner

[@BuayaJess]

Absolutely.. so I when put on my panties again it’s not THAT dirty.. if I don’t have my panty liner I’ll just not wear my panty at all hahha

[@libraries144]

@@BuayaJess samee all the juices left inside wont stain the panty

[@SkyeCH]

So @thethirstysisters, his place or hotel?

[@alexiluffy216]

i'm 15 and my bf ask me for one night stand thingy so thanks for this !! 🙏🏻 🙏🏻

[@encesolezera506]

hes not your bf then. he's a jerk whos just using you to have sex with you. because if youre saying he asked for literally 'a one night stand', as soon as you wake up. he gone gone. lmfao. just have a safe intimate relationship.make sure he treats you right and give u gifts. doesnt have to be expensive gifts. make sure he wants to be with you NOT just for SEX.know your worth.

[@watermelonhelk]

15? Sis I hope you're joking

[@alexiluffy216]

@@watermelonhelk why would i

[@tcruise77]

@@alexiluffy216 woi... 15 is underage. If your bf is over 18yo, that statutory rape. If convicted is whipping woi. 15yo not the time to explore yet. 1st time pain like hell oh...

[@BluuKiss]

Indeed 15 yr old is really not a good time to explore such things. You will have your opportunities in the future but 15 is too early!!!

[@nurulshahidarusli5327]

Tell us the horror stories too!!

[@joshuachia4542]

Bring a mint not a tooth brush and leave smelling good

[@lillatte1099]

nina: I- I- I just feel- ad: *the world is entering an economical recession*

[@rklehal395]

So funny enjoy

[@annieteo7169]

I am not for one night stand. 1) religion, 2) too dangerous. Whether your place or his place, he could be a stalker or psychopath, 3) he could be a carrier of STDs or AIDs. 4) either you or he living with parents, what would they or your parents think of you or him ?? And if you into a series of one night stand, you will not take relationship seriously.

[@danieltan1040]

Nina, have you ever been to a women's social club in SG, where women can help women to find guys to court while they engage in activities that most biological females find more fulfilling than sex, rather than relying on witchever lady who seems the most alpha in a very small social circle?

[@yexinxin5588]

😉💙可爱💚💖陈思华💜💛可爱💙 💖為什麼要對你掉眼淚難道不明白💜💙是為了愛要不是那有情人眼淚最珍貴💚💛一顆顆眼淚都是愛都是愛💖💜Don't you understand why I drop my tears for you💚💙It is all for love all because the lovers tears is the most precious💛💖Every single drop of tears is for love all for love💜💙I cry whenever i think of you💚💛I miss you so much💙💖Sylvia Chan💜💚I love you so much💛💖我很爱你💜😀😀😀😍😍😍💜💙💖💚💛💜👄👅💋👄👅💋👄👅💋💌💌💌

[@nurulnazuha20]

I had my one night stand but I kept my virginity all the time. I don't feel like giving my all to them. But, there was this one guy, I fell in love with him, oh god he wasn't supposed to be one of them because I wanted more and he didn't. I want him to myself, including emotional connection. I was being greedy and I still feel the same way towards him. I never thought I will end up like this, what is it that he has and I dont, I keep asking why him. I can choose whoever I want to settle down or something but he stucked on my mind

[@reezalguy]

anyone here ever regret having one night stands ? if you have, is the one night stand worth the risk of regret ?

[@zhizian]

Heard thats how all relationshisp starts in Iceland.

[@hashimoto33217]

Fucking funny lah the podcasts :):)

[@mrpolarbearrrrr]

Can see that ever since watermelon helmet started dating, Sylvia has opened her floodgates.

[@hanyuan7]

If you prepare so much already right, then it’s not exactly a one night stand already. It’s a one month stand

[@wete6787]

thats what im saying lol one night stand should not be prepared.

[@Elroided]

Can we have more horror stories :)

[@tcruise77]

How to know/ask a girl if she's down for ONS without offending her/ turn her off? 😁 Put condom in the car? Heat won't damage the condom overtime meh??? Aiyah wear condom for bom bom no syiok la. Skin-skin sensation is diff ler 🤣🤣🤣 Wow, SG girls mmg open-minded sia. I likey... 👍👍👍

[@lz_3487]

hii! noc

[@kohyewher5687]

Ooo first one hi guys

[@theblisteringdessamar8282]

I think polyamorous relationships are becoming more accepted. After being in a long term serious relationship, I gravitated towards an open relationship.

[@yexinxin5588]

😁💜陈思华 Sylvia Chan💖😊 💙我爱你因为你很美很可爱💚💛I like you💖😀😀😀😍😍😍💜💙💖💚💛💜👄👅💋👄👅💋👄👅💋💌💌💌💌💌💌

[@yexinxin5588]

😀MyLovely💖Sylvia Chan 陈思华💜😀 💙我很喜欢你💚💛你好美💖💜You are very cute💚💙You are always the one to create so many videos to entertain everyone in this world💛💖Thank you very much💜💙Today I prepare this song to entertain you to thank you for all the videos you create that keep me entertain during the tough times I'm going through while living in Singapore💛💖This song is one of my favourite english songs from Ne-Yo Because Of You specially dedicate to you only💜💙I watch NOC videos because of you💛💖I watch The Thirsty Sisters Podcast because of you💜💙All because I love you very much 💖Sylvia Chan 陈思华💜💚Ooh-oh-oh, oh-oh, oh-oh💛💖Oh-oh-oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh-oh-oh💜💙Want to, but I can’t help it, I love the way it feels💛It’s got me stuck between my fantasy and what is real💖💜I need it when I want it, I want it when I don’t💙💚Tell myself I’ll stop everyday, knowin’ that I won't💛💖I got a problem and I don’t know what to do about it💙💚Even if I did, I don’t know if I would quit but I doubt it💛💖I’m taken by the thought of it💜💙And I know this much is true💚💛Baby, you have become my addiction💖💜I’m so strung out on you💙💚I can barely move but I like it💛💖And it’s all because of you (All because of you)💜💙And it’s all because of you (All because of you)💚💛And it’s all because of you (All because of you)💛💖And it’s all because💜💙Never get enough💚💛She’s the sweetest drug💖💜Ooh-oh-oh💙💚Think of it every second, I can't get nothing done💛💖Only concern is the next time I’m gon' get me some💜💙Know I should stay away from, 'cause it's no good for me💚💛I try and try, but my obsession won't let me leave💚💛I got a problem and I don’t know what to do about it💖💜Oh, even if I did, I don’t know if I would quit but I doubt it💙💚I’m taken by the thought of it, hey💛💖And I know this much is true💜💙Baby, you have become my addiction💚💛I’m so strung out on you (Strung out on you)💖💜I can barely move but I like it (I like it)💙💚And it’s all because of you (Oh, all because of you)💛💖And it’s all because of you (All because of you)💜💙And it’s all because of you (All because of you)💚💛And it’s all because💖💜Never get enough (Never get enough)💚💛She’s the sweetest drug💖💜Ooh-oh-oh💙💚Ain’t no doubt (No doubt, hey), so strung out (Strung out)💛💖Ain’t no doubt (There's ain't no grain of doubt, oh), so strung out (Hey)💜💙Over you, over you (You), over you (You)💚💛Ooh-oh-oh💖💜Because of you💚💛And it’s all because of you💖💜Never get enough💙💚She’s the sweetest drug💛💖And I know this much is true💜💙Baby, you (Baby, you, you, you) have become my addiction (My addiction)💚💛I’m so strung out on you💖💜I can barely move but I like it (Oh I like it, yeah)💚💛And it’s all because of you (All because of you)💖💜And it’s all because of you (All because of you)💙💚And it’s all because of you (All because of you)💛💖And it’s all because💜💙Never get enough (Oh never get enough)💚💛She’s the sweetest drug💖💜She's the sweetest drug💙💚This song ends here...I hope you enjoy this song I specially dedicate for you only💛💖Sylvia Chan 陈思华💜💙I love you very much💚💛我永远 Love You Forever💖😍😍😍💖💙💜💚💛💖👄👅💋💜💖💙👄👅💋💚💛💖👄👅💋💜💙💚💌💌💌💙💚💛💌💌💌💖💙💜

[@beckham48]

An’t people scare about aids and sex related disease or sex tape

[@yexinxin5588]

😀MyCute💖Sylvia💜😀 💙I always dream of you at night and if I can only meet you in my dreams, I rather remain in my dreams forever and never wake up to face this cold and lonely reality without you💚💛I always cry whenever I wake up because I can't see you anymore💖💜 I miss you very very very much💚💛I love you very very very much💖😢😢😢😢😢😢💜💙💖💚💛💜💌💌💌💌💌💌

[@danieltan1040]

I think as a Hungry Brother, I'm really hungry for uncensored male companionship, even though sometimes I want to be a bio-daddy with a woman. The stands I go through sometimes is so that I can find one that clicks. Why need to go for more, like you gals, everytime want to get preggers with some unlucky dashing guy's sperm? It's 2020, straight men can have fun with guys more than women, because it won't lead to unfortunate pregnancies! Davids, receive your Jon's covenant with you!

[@Memoir92]

First

[@DragonScorpio31]

I cannot.. sorry.. thumbs down..

[@pb-ir3gd]

I love this podcast and all but to be honest Nina is so awkward at times like she just repeats whatever Sylvia says in her own phrasing like uh?? Like literally repeating a point right after Sylvia stated it. AND seriously I noticed that she NEVER fails to mention owning a car and the fact that she can drive blah blah in every single podcast (im srs go and listen) like someyimes it’s not even that relevant at all but she still tries to include it like STAHP Idgaf about u and ur car Ok apart from that the podcast is awesome and the content is great. Sylvia is carrying the entire podcast ngl

[@pb-ir3gd]

in this case it’s about the condom stash issue like why must ur friend have a car to have a condom stash? Can’t u have a friend who carries a pouch of them around?

[@joanneng9145]

Guess it's cos Slyvia is more dominant and her boss

[@pb-ir3gd]

@@joanneng9145 yeah I get it but she lacks a bit of the originality that Sylvia has like she isn’t quite capable of coming up with impactful points or like good jokes idk

[@Chirlgurl]

@@pb-ir3gd hmm i think you're referring to when nina reinforces some of sylvia's points. which i personally think is ok because they are trying to educate through conversations in a relatively casual setting - much like how we would in our everyday lives. i don't think it's fair to say that she lacks originality altogether because there are multiple points during this (19:50, 22:00, 25:20, 27:00, 32:38 etc) and every video that sylvia gets impressed with and reinforces nina's points as well. i am impartial to both of them - i watch this for entertainment & education. regarding her car - yep i have noticed it too, but could just be an achievement she's proud of or wants to inspire listeners to work towards? after all, it is viewed as a status symbol (whether it is green or not is a different consideration!). just wanted to share my thoughts!

[@pb-ir3gd]

@@Chirlgurl yep definitely agree with u! about it being a status symbol and possibly something she’s proud of for achieving on her own and stuff but I’d rather she just say it than like “humble brag” (not quite that but something along the lines of it) and keep bringing it up every now and then in every podcast, almost seems deliberate haha. And especiallh since we all know how expensive cars are in Singapore, not everyone can afford them. It triggered me a little in this episode when she said that one should have a friend who has a car to keep condoms and I just thought that was completely unnecessary man