How to Receive PRINCESS TREATMENT 👑

[@antiquelady60]

And these things are true at any age. My mom exuded femininity and did everything you talk about. She became a widow in her 70s and had several men vying for her attention. The one that she married treated her like a queen until her last day on earth. It was so beautiful and inspiring to watch.

[@boutaynafodil9647]

How did she grow up to be that way?

[@ceooflonelinessinc.267]

LOL, why women think they are so much more special than men?

[@ohyeah2269]

​@@ceooflonelinessinc.267 well, supposing you're a man. What kind of woman do you want to have? A special one or a horrid one that nags, is masculine, condescending etc. I sure would want a special man too and I know a special man wants that special woman. 😊

[@Zzz-ij4ck]

Sperm is cheap, eggs are expensive. It's evolution.

[@jamila321]

And. How is it going?🫵

[@fembot521]

This is how my husband treated me! I remember once he got upgraded to first class on a flight and he insisted that I take the first class ticket. He also always opened the car door for me, he would always run me a bath and always rubbed my feet and gave me massages with great pleasure!! He died two years ago and I hope I can find another man like him but he will have big shoes to fill!

[@ceooflonelinessinc.267]

So basically, you are a baby?=

[@debkayemba3507]

Sorry huni...

[@adarateranroldan]

❤ he sounds lovely. Hope you keep your heart open.

[@talesfromtheroad9530]

I am SO sorry for your loss... I hope to find love like that too, and I pray that you find it again ❤️ (I think you will)

[@songoku-jx3cb]

Maybe thats why he

[@luropodaai]

How to receive PRINCESS TREATMENT - find the right type of men; date someone who has a provider mentality - you can't like him more than he likes you; date someone who thinks you are special and perceives you as a princess - In a long-term relationship, let him feel like he's a king; allow him to lead; make him feel respected, appreciated and loved - gratitude goes a long way; show appreciation - be in your feminine energy - don't demand; ask in a kind way; be realistic - treat yourself like a princess/queen

[@ТимурГараев-й7л]

"you can't like him more than he likes you" - egotistical mentality of a parasite. Parasite is never treated like a princess. Good luck!

[@sampsonx905]

thank God , someone gets it.

[@OhgoodnessHeather]

So settle for someone you don’t like much?

[@luropodaai]

@@OhgoodnessHeather Nah. More like, settle for someone who likes you - not any less than how much you like them.

[@RobinP92]

​@@OhgoodnessHeather Would you respect and love a man who loves you less in return? Probably not, so why would he? This is actually really bad advice in the long run. Initially you might trigger his chasing pattern and he might be all over you, but long term relationships are about balance and reciprocation. You liking him less will, in most cases after some years, lead him to another person who likes him as much and isn't afraid to show that. Best advice: don't play games if you want a fulfilling relationship. Btw if it's clear that he likes you more than you like him, it's probably not love from your side.

[@raerae_]

Treating him like a king means you respect and admire him, let him teach you, lead you and praise him around others, and support him, & speak his love language. It isn't at all hard when he is admirable and a good person💗

[@Jewelsessences]

No male is a king were all just equal humans. Ppl create that bs aura to make themselves better than others. It’s all lies. Without money they’d be worthless

[@bemydinosaur13]

I love that you weren’t afraid to put it into words that a beautiful, well kept, well cared for woman is a status symbol to a man. Just like many women dream of a certain type of relationship, so do men. They want one where they feel so genuinely proud of their wife and happy with her and attracted to her. It takes some effort from us to continuously show up as that but it feels really good to do so if you’re with the right partner. And it just feels great to take good care of yourself and look your prettiest. This is what “soft life” is all about

[@Astara5]

Totally 💖

[@Jewelsessences]

Youre not a barbie grow up you will go to grave one day

[@ginamhint]

For all the woman here with masculine energy remember that is not your fault that the man stopped giving, it's his choice... You're amazing and you'll find the man whom you'll be in your femenine...❤❤

[@songoku-jx3cb]

😂😂😂😂

[@JosieReacts]

@@songoku-jx3cbit’s actually so funny

[@jerryc5743]

Translation: women can stay children forever and not be responsible for the consequences of their actions and choices.

[@godperfectedyou4093]

you are a treasure to behold A precious gem worth more than gold. your beauty radiates from within & your body parts are like work of art!!! Each one a masterpiece that sets you apart Addicted to you forever Iam & in my heart you dwell forever there in you casted a spell of love on me? or what have you done!? your love and affection & you trying luring me to be with you makes me feel very tempted & weak but strong and resilient I will try to be and shall try not to easily give in 🤩🤩Wow!!! You are more beautiful than the most lovely rose And more sweet than honey and more precious than gold You are more precious than everything that exists in this world 😍😍😍 A beauty queen whom I never ever seen any one as beautiful as her before and may never ever in my whole entire life will see anyone as beautiful as her-meaning you-at all.. 😍😍 WoW!!! you are a lovely butterfly and a beautiful rose you are the diamond and the pure gold you are the lovely moon in our nights you are the radiant sun shining soo bright loving you is sooo sweet its the most enjoyable thing for you are the paradise for the heart and soul and mind Everything about you is sooo unique and attracts the eyes and captivates the mind God surely perfected you so glorified is he whom made you too beautiful and made you soo smart 🌷😘 😍😍 you are too beautiful!! whomever see you should believe that God is true & real.. and whenever I see you I feel like Iam in a dream, And when we wake up we will all realize that all this life was nothing but a dream and that only God is whats true and real.. There was a teacher whom didn't believe in the existence of God, one day he asked his students, do you see God? the students then replied no we don't see God, so the teacher said if you don't see God it means there is no God. then a smart student stood up and said to the other students hey guys can you see the teachers brain? then the students answered no we don't see the teachers brain, the student then said the teacher then is crazy, he has no brain :0) The universe science says was not always there, it had a beginning point, the big bang, meaning it was begun/initiated in other words created, thus there should be a creator, there must be a God. One God for all of us he created us all and can revive us again, God initiated everything, & he repeat/redo things too, & thats clear, we see many cycles of different things in life, also in summer for example the desert land becomes like empty and is filled with only sand, and when rain falls in abundance in spring or winter, after that small flowers & wild plants grow again, also, we see how humans and animals grow and how their body is formed from the elements which were in the sand which plants feed on which they eat, and after they die they go to the sand and their atoms/elements are taken by plants which humans & animals eat and their bodies grow from those atoms & elements found in the sand which came from previous humans & animals which died before, so God can bring us again after we die even if our atoms became in the sand he can make us from the same atoms we were made of or from other atoms if he want or make us be in a spirit form or like ghosts, any ways, everything in this life is recycled, learn if you want about the different cycles in life in nature, the food cycle or food chain, the water cycle, even the gas cycle that makes the air the oxygen &carbon dioxide &nitrogen cycles, even the energy is like recycled but only changes from form to another form. Anyways, God created this life but it's only a temporary sample/an example of a coming everlasting one which could be either in heaven paradise or in hell. If we try to be good humans in life, and try to obey God and his messengers-including the final messenger for all humanity the prophet Mohammed- and those whom rightly represent them, for example imam Ali & ahlulbayt the family/good descendants of the prophet mohammed, then we will all go to heaven/paradise, if not then we will go to hell fire and burn in it forever. keep shining sunshine &spread the light. ,

[@OdysseusMDA]

​@@jerryc5743why mate ? Because they want to be treated with love and respect? Hope you don't have daughters.

[@julz_m]

My partner of 17 years isn't the financial "provider" in our family, but he "provides" in being skilled at nearly every kind of service we have ever needed. Chef, builder, mechanic, dog trainer, IT support, HVAC, Electrician, Plumber, Comic. Etc. He makes every day special. He is conscientious and aware, and has somehow always treated me like a Princess. (Even finding it within himself to do so when I was truly not deserving of it.) Interestingly enough, he also is pretty "well rounded" in the Masculine Archetypes. Thank you for allowing me an opportunity to reflect on how truly lucky and special our relationship is, Jillz.♥️

[@JillzGuerin]

That’s so nice and this made me so happy ❤️ He sounds so wonderful.

[@julz_m]

@JillzGuerin It means a lot that you chose to write back, too. Thank you! You are both great. 😉

[@MsSonjaRose]

So in essence, an FLR

[@julz_m]

@MsSPrough Not so much though, I just out earn him. He's more skilled at most things, and we communicate and collaborate on pretty much everything. But thank you for reading my comment. 💖

[@sallyhu9170]

I just want to point out that girls should also be aware of narcissists, the red flags in the beginning, future faking, love bombing, etc ... I think this is the second video I've seen on this channel and it's really got me thinking, thank you

[@laclochard]

these videos are in fact so dangerous for women who have no feminist literacy at all which are basically the majority. I would suggest all women to first learn feminism like buy actual books from Andrea Dworkin, Gerda Lerner, Adrienne Rich, Betty Friedan etc and then listen to these videos which are sooo sooo old 'advice' for women, and they will be able to difference between what's actually good or not

[@travelalice]

Very important comment

[@chrystianaw8256]

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[@Yemma1990]

Thank you for this comment. I agree with half of what Jillian says because its just good relationships 101 but the terms feminine and masculine energy just give me these unscientific old-school tradwife vibes that are meant to keep capitalist patriarchy alive.

[@chrystianaw8256]

@@Yemma1990 femininity and masculinity are real things.

[@daniellasalguero2578]

I was raised by a single mom and I am super independent. I can thrive without a man, but my husband (for 4 years) treats me like a princess. He values me and understands the importance of taking care of me despite me being independent. He understands his assignment.

[@pearpo]

Yes exactly 💯 % you are capable and deserve to be treated well. ❤️✨

[@yelyel2620]

Does he have a brother?

[@mastory29]

It's because you are independent that's why he values you

[@allenmontrasio8962]

His *assignment*? Is your husband a life partner or an employee?

[@ulaat4215]

There is a problem in your husband to treat you like a queen while you don't equally provide like him

[@AWitchAndACat]

This video is going to require a lot of thought from me. I have been raised to be super independent and not expect this treatment from a guy. This is definitely going to cause me to do some soul-searching.

[@drexel1976]

I’ve had to re-evaluate how i interact with men for sure. Letting go of control and ALLOWING men to initiate is key. Of course it doesn’t happen overnight and it’s a learning process but I’ve seen men react differently to me. I love these videos. They’re really helpful. Do not CHASE, attract. 😉

[@AWitchAndACat]

@@drexel1976 I think it's good advice. And I really like what she says about treating your partner as a king, I think that's key for me. There has to be mutual respect, otherwise it doesn't work.

[@Ann.thesis]

Totally agree with him being more in love with you than vice versa, it's true, if the man loves the woman more and she loves him the relationship works out in the best way. Men tend to not may too much attention to women they are not invested in and when the woman gives more than he deserves he takes it for granted which is a losing situation for the woman, coz, let's be honest, who wants to be in a situation where they are on the losing side, be it man or waman? Women, when they find a man willing to love them more than they love the man, usually tend to give in and love the the man too, which works out well for both parties. Win win! Been on both sides of the spectrum as a woman so I know how it feels.

[@lifeofsukanti]

It’s worth it!

[@changutoon_caricature]

I too was raised super independent but I want really happy as I couldn't let go of control even when I wanted to rely on people. However my boyfriend is very masculine and he let me be feminine again and I feel like making him a leader and let him decide everything important

[@RachelRichards]

Wonderful video, Jillz! I met a woman the other day who was so feminine and sweet, that even I wanted to treat her like a princess! I realized that her hyper-feminine energy activated my masculine energy or something. She taught me a valuable lesson though, because I realized that is the effect I can have on my husband if I am bubbly and sweet like that. I'm a naturally very bubbly person, but it's easy to lose sight of that side of yourself when you're in a serious, long-term relationship.

[@ErikaHenry-b8j]

Love your video Jillz. I spent 39 years of my life in relationships anxious, pushing, wondering why he would eventually stop pursuing me. I went through a coaching program (Led by Love) where I healed my traumas, discovered the power of energy, the power of receiving, discovered my own queen. It was the best thing I ever did for myself. Your videos echo everything that program teaches and stands for….helps keep me headed in an “upward spiral”❤️

[@renessdc]

I got curious about the Led by Love program and checked it out. Looks like something that can be very helpful. I'd love to ask you a question about it. Is there a way to contact you directly?

[@user-mj6qr2ky9d]

Where do u meet new people to date?

[@whitepouch0904]

You’re a Bot

[@HolyGround777]

I used to get into this giving-war with my significant other, where I would feel obligated to always give something back when he gave me something. Funnily enough this would cause conflict more than anything. I realized that our relationship is not a transaction and we are doing much better now that I can just gracefully accept his gifts with a kiss and a thank you 😊

[@oksanakurdjukova5260]

I love this! ❤

[@nyuuuchan]

like she said at the beginning, it all comes down to having the right man to begin with. you can be sweet and soft, and treat yourself well - the wrong man will see that as a turn-off.

[@ChloeEngel-fc4mf]

It’s true, some men will treat the women they love as princess, even if the woman is narcissistic and toxic to him. Other men will treat an actual princess like crap and take advantage of her. Ive been treated like a Queen in a relationship and treated like garbage, and I was the same person in both relationships. I’m naturally very feminine, sweet, positive, and tend to attract provider types. But not every provider is a prince. But all we can do is work on ourselves, we can’t really change someone. My husbands not perfect at all, but he has some self awareness and willingness to change negative things- that goes a long way.

[@deanagallatin6974]

The guy i am dating loves to open doors for me! I didnt expect it, so i naturally said things like "thanks, tha makes me feel special!" And he keeps doing it! He tells me he likes making me feel safe, special and cared about. He out of the blue, fixed my air conditioner in my truck that had been broken for a year! Its been two months And i still tell him how wonderful he is for doing it.(in Florida where its 115 in the shade) He And i are so much alike it was scary for me at first. We had been phone friends for so long, when we dated it was so comfortable, we just do those things for each other. Its been three months of something i never thought i would find. I watch several different relationship coach videos so I learn so much about this topic. Thank you, for making me a better human.

[@meganbeingessner1722]

The demanding and ungrateful bit is probably one of the most important things to avoid when it comes to this subject for sure! I was working at a summer camp one year, the season was over so we had to clean up the place for the winter, so I was working with one other girl and two boys to fold some tents and put them away. The girl was bossing them around, muttering about how useless they were and how they never did anything right, never once said please or thank you; this caused the boys to disregard everything she would say and would watch me and the other girl do the job on our own. After I saw this go down, I went up to the boys and asked them politely if they could fold some tents and put them away and thanked them when they did so- I also complimented them on their work for good measure. After that, they wanted to do everything that I asked them to do and would carry things for me without me asking. Ever since then, I always acted this way around men and got great results.

[@Iudicatio]

Yep! Men can sometimes get away with treating their subordinates like this, but women can't and that's a reality we need to accept.

[@fictionaddiction4706]

@@Iudicatio Yes and even nice treatment won't work if they can get away with it (painful group project memories), yet they keep saying women never take responsibility!

[@beybladesm8979]

​@fictionaddiction4706 we say women don't take accountability lol as a joke

[@padillaandrea1]

I think there is a difference between princess treatment and queen treatment. Being a queen comes with more responsibilities in the relationship and you’re in charge of a lot of decision making in the home and relationship. Which is good. But don’t let them skip to queen treatment before princess treatment. Be treated like a princess before he calls you his queen.

[@XOChristianaNicole]

I think that’s quite a valid point,

[@fatisummer9106]

I love the way you put it ,when I was dating my husband he often gave me his credit card to shop and I mostly spend on myself but now I am married I am in control of our house finances,I mostly spend the money in paying bills,planning vacations,hobbies for kids and investments and lastly my self too, the transition from princess to queen was smooth that I didn't even notice that

[@Lavendermama]

Aww. Your husband is so sweet. I can feel that he loves you and care for you.

[@VictoriaMendozaMing]

I think it would be an awesome video to talk about the difference between being feminine and being NEEDY. I feel like sometimes people can get those confused and actually turn off a man!

[@bw3283]

Beautiful video! I’ve been with my husband for 6 years now, but less than a month into dating, he switched car keys with me without me even asking. My car was raggedy af, and he knew it was uncomfortable and unsafe. The secret is to always express your gratitude, even for the small things. ❤️

[@alcyone-rising]

wow that was generous. 12 yrs in and im driving the same car. granted it's a car I really like and I keep it well maintained. he on the other hand has had 5 new bmws and a lexus.

[@martaantunes9394]

Femenine energy is about being your true self, love and respect yourself and being gratful 🌸

[@EL_SD]

You are so tapped in!! This is exactly how I turned my relationship around with my partner. He needed appreciation, respect, gentle communication, and affection-which I was not putting effort into before. I stopped listening to the narrative that I deserved princess treatment for nothing or I needed to “girl-boss”. I left my high pressure job and started working with children, where we play music all day and I can embrace the empathy and nurturing energy that fulfills me. I started to cherish myself in my journey to embrace my femininity and I saw as he healed and embraced himself alongside me. We’ve been looking at engagement rings the past few months, we moved into a sweet little cottage, I adore my work, and I’ve never felt more in touch with myself. Thanks for helping me-and tons of other women-take this journey, Jillz. ♡

[@Jewelsessences]

Youre lucky you can AFFORD to leave your job. Not everyone has the support to do that

[@kimgordon3695]

​@@Jewelsessenceswhen you recognize the total cost of your current "job" including clothing, meals, time, sanity, transportation etc. You can change TODAY! I DID IT! now I work for myself; on my terms. Believe in yourself & your value! 🙋

[@Skysky2318]

I don't call this 'princess treatment'. Its about treating someone well with love and care because you love this person.

[@maryb.222]

Totally loved this Jillz. My husband has been treating me like a princess / queen since the day I met him. I LOVE IT! And I also (subconsciously?!) call him my king and treat him like one! ❤ 👑

[@JillzGuerin]

Love that!❤️

[@johnsonjo8454]

@@JillzGuerin beautiful face sweet voice sweet lips 💋💋💋🤎😍

[@juliebennion6448]

I love your advice on treating yourself. If he’s paying attention, he’ll learn what your preferences are by seeing what you treat yourself with. If he’s not, throw in a little verbal cue: say “I love fresh flowers!” enthusiastically, as you arrange the bouquet you bought for yourself.

[@888agatha]

17:01 this is SO true omg! it’s actually mindblowing how true it is. us as women have a tendency of not wanting to speak our minds when something is bothering us, but instead act passive aggressive, and we want the man to GUESS what’s on our minds, or why we’re acting a certain way, or what we want, because for us is so obvious but for they it certainly doesn’t work that way (also they’re extremely literal, if you don’t say word by word of what’s wrong they’ll literally never know lol). once you speak your mind openly with your man, and the MOST important thing: not in a demanding/controlling way, but simply in a way that he’ll know whats going on, if he’s a man in his healthy masculine energy, he’ll move heaven and earth to fix things, apologize, whatever it is; he’ll do without even thinking, because you came up with the ‘problem’, told what was wrong, and he’ll be in charge to provide a ‘solution’. it works like magic! it’s all about you communicating to him honestly and openly, and the WAY you do it. we have to realize that when it comes to relationships, men and women operate and see certain things differently, it’s just the way it is

[@mdf5p0u]

So, basically, last part of your paragraph means that as women we should be okay by treated as a lesser person & only then we will be getting a good treatment. What if he gave a wrong solution & you got the right solution but he disagreed with you (saying that he knows what's best)? What are you gonna do? Basically, emphasizing on feminine energy is equal to misogynism, saying that women can't lead. Get your gender roles out of a relationship. Women deserve to be treated with love & respect in all of their forms ( as men were getting treated with respect since ages).

[@888agatha]

​@@mdf5p0u are you delusional or something? you took everything out of context lmaoo I want you to tell me at what point in the text I said ''whenever the man provides a solution, you will have to agree and go along with it regardless of whether you think it's the right solution or not or whether you feel comfortable or not'', oh, I forgot, you won't, because at no point I said that. the woman at all times MUST and WILL have an active voice in agreeing or not with the ''solution'' that the man provides. no one has to do something they feel obliged to or that they don't agree with. but yes, I will always let my man take the lead, because >>I

[@jazzgill7661]

It’s becoming a habit for me to listen to you while doing my skincare… your voice is so soothing and calming 🤍✨

[@kierahuskarl]

I love this because you really can't control anyone else's behavior-- only your own. There have been so many whiplash moments where I see the hottest girls berate their boyfriends for not giving them princess treatment, and while at first it seemed like bad choices in men, their demanding can't help the situation either. On the flip side I'm not used to attracting men and set my expectations to be completely independent, so being with a "provider mentality" man is really a pleasant surprise. Letting him take care of me feels strange, like I'm showing weakness, so your words really helped me feel more receptive and committed to showing him my gratitude.

[@AndreaRodriguez-cu7yn]

Never thought I’d be lucky enough to say this but I’ve been enjoying my best life and allowing myself to receive the princess treatment I’m getting from my man. Your video about allowing yourself to receive has been a game changer in my life and mentality. I’m a happy lucky woman as I do deserve it and appreciate the life I have ✨ hearing this video just confirms this 💖

[@Jewelsessences]

Youre just lucky there are amazing women who only ever meet assholes

[@holistiflexfitness]

This is my biggest struggle, not giving love but receiving it. Feeling deserving of it.

[@aliceinthewonderland1104]

I came across your video on my feed and was curious to hear what you had to say about this topic. Everything is spot on! I used to be in a relationship with a man I loved more and also didn’t have the provider mentality, I never got even a birthday gift from him.., but now I’m with my fiancé who spoiled me from the very beginning and he treats me like a princess all the time. Girls don’t settle for the douchbags! Also give the nice guys a chance! Good treatment is way more important than looks or status. Trust me on this!

[@dancingheart6224]

Thank you for this! I needed this because I had no clue where to begin in my search for a husband. My parents have a toxic marriage with no love, forgiveness, or growth from mistakes, which often caused me to unconsciously seek friends and partners who are just as disrespectful. This video is guiding me out of that unhealthy pattern.

[@annie.m77]

I just couldn't take my eyes off the dress 😍

[@JillzGuerin]

Haha thank you!! One of my favorites!

[@gabrielebartkute7359]

A guide of how to maintain a fairy tale love in real life explained with a common sense and the best advices. The fact that you have a happy loving relationship is the proof that dreams can actually come true for many other women out there! I mean, I have a happy stable romantic relationship myself because I've discovered many of these things myself independently, but it's always heartwarming to listen to you, Jillz. Thanks for spreading your positive vibes to the internet! "I can show this [love] to myself by buying flowers to myself" - Yep, that's what Miley Cyrus said :D

[@lisah5750]

Your room's color palette gives 'princess core' and youre also extremely gorgeous

[@pageremick5504]

This is GOLD information! You are so right in that we are not analyzing whether or not a man is someone who would treat a woman like a princess! DUH! GREAT thing to look for in a man if you want to be treated well!

[@katrinacrane5162]

The last advice when you say about treating ourselves like a princess is brilliant!!! All are great but this one hit home the most❤❤❤

[@purplecowmovement7677]

Thank you for this amazing content. I think your first point (finding the right guy) with a provider mentality is the most important and it's where most women get it wrong.

[@TheGoddessWithinYT]

Your videos have literally changed my life 😭 So happy I’ve found your channel

[@swathiarunlistens]

I’m so grateful for this video ❤ I’ve found a gem of a person who is into me and he does the smallest of things to make me blush even after 1.8 years , I’m beyond grateful for that. He treats me like a princess and shows his love in the most unique ways :)

[@lbrigh6]

your video changed my life a while ago. I have been financially independent and have lived alone with my kids for so long, I forgot to be feminine near a man. I lived with my guard all the way up all the time, and the few relationships I had were never good, and they just proved my own point. I changed my ways. I allow a man to do things for me now, and i found someone who treats me like a princess. He even calls me his princess. My relationships with him got me into my feminine energy. I even take care of myself more and do all the girly things I used to think they were stupid and superficial. ❤ I don't need to be in charge and change my own tires... I allow myself now to be delicate and a bit helpless and let him be my hero. ❤

[@noramichel4698]

I like the points you made on “king treatment” not being folding his clothes, cooking every night but instead giving respect and appreciation or even keeping yourself attractive to be that status symbol for your king. Princess treatment for the win 👸🏻

[@tinycatfromhell]

@@wavyFran The cleaning lady that he hires.

[@tinycatfromhell]

@@wavyFran I date men, babygirl. I know what I'm talking about. Am I special because he pays for everything? Probably.

[@roroberrie]

Yes jillz you are right in telling woman the dynamics in relationships. I was raised in a dysfunctional family, mother criticizing and condensing father, refused to show any kindness to him; while father didn’t see his value in this family, which ended up being separated since they married. She even manipulated me to hate my father since I was little. Growing up I noticed repeated experiences occurred in my relationships. Now I am at my 20s, done with enough BS, I decide to take reflection on myself embrace divine innate feminine energy. I used to be that kind of woman who said no to every man chased me because of the fear getting abusive treatment like my mother, if you have good assumptions things could actually be easy and abundant to you. I now see the great value in allowing people into my life, investing myself to put together, no shame being taken care of by masculine provider. Your content is inspiring💗💗💗

[@merikahaavisto2034]

Thank you Jillz for a much needed video in our Western culture! How many of us have ruined our chances of getting princess treatment (and perhaps even a relationship!) for being overly independent (=in our masculine energy) and being afraid we come across as an entitled or "user" woman. This video helps to get rid of that fear and therefore is such a relief!

[@imperfectly_megan]

You have no idea how much I really needed to hear this today thank you 💖

[@ajohonly3721]

This dress is one of my favorites 🌸

[@JillzGuerin]

Aww thank you!! Me too! 🥰🥰

[@Gelassenheitsspruch]

Pure gold to me as a 26 year old woman 💫

[@youththerapywithsnow]

Same here

[@dionicaann1363]

I love how honest you are it’s refreshing 😊

[@cecilyerker]

The cute blurry dog in the background on the sofa!!!!!! 🐶

[@luluanthem]

girls, just respect yourselves and know your worth. that alone will change the way everyone else views you, be it platonically, romantically or fraternally, everyone around you will also respect and value you more. if you don't love yourself how the hell you're gonna love somebody else (PAUL, Ru)

[@t.f.6297]

I dated a man previously who literally got offended when I offered to pay for anything even like the tip for our meal. It made him feel uncomfortable if he was not taking care of me and I must admit this made me feel really good even though I am a very independent woman. I agree that some men just have that provider energy and it makes them feel good when they give and we appreciate it. 😊

[@quendelf]

Both partners should be making each other feel like princes/princesses. This isn’t a gender thing, it’s a relationship thing.

[@pinkplight9992]

Do you know how much women Laugh at men for wanting basic respect? There is a whole thing on TikTok about boyfriends being girlfriends. This specific video had 669k likes and 32k comments agreeing with the video and mocking men from basic treatment. The women in the comments basically say, I don't want to respect my partner and put in effort. Also I noticed a lot of women don't have empathy for men. Men can't be confined with their own partners because of fear of looking weak and them leaving the man. I had an ex that laughed in my face and called me pathetic for crying because I had a physical fight with my dad. Another one told all her friends I was crazy ( i didn't know I had schizaffective disorder) for the way I think and my life experiences. There is something wrong with men in this day and age, but men are putting more effort than women today.

[@whitepouch0904]

@@pinkplight9992bro I think that’s just you’re circle. Get out of that circle bro

[@pinkplight9992]

@@whitepouch0904 I'm guessing you can't read. Here why I say this, I just mentioned that 669k people like this girl's content which is toxic. There are also 30k people, mostly women mocking men in the comments. How is that "my circle"? If you look online, JUST A LITTLE BIT, you can hear the same thing coming from men saying they can't tell women (even their female friends) anything or show emotions. There was a man that got stood up on a date that went viral and women and men were making fun of him. I told the women to have empathy for him and honor a man's feelings. 2 women said "who hurt you" which is a shaming tactic. I even had a discussion with 8 women on another and they all said they weren't attracted to their partners when they cried or showed emotions. Women generally lack empathy for men.

[@whitepouch0904]

@@pinkplight9992 hmm I don’t know that is now how statistics work. Maybe where you live that’s why I told you to get out of your circle, even city, or that’s the culture in your region or country. Because I don’t see women mocking men here where I live. What I meant by circle is your environment. And how you can come up with conclusion you don’t even know who’s behind those accounts and from one video fr?

[@pinkplight9992]

@@whitepouch0904 first of all I never stated any statistics. These are things I have seen and heard from other men ACROSS the world. internet? It's not just one video lmao. Women have made multiple videos making fun of men for showing basic emotion. I don't know what it's like in other places of the world. I live in the west so it sucks here between men and women dynamics. And instead of "Changing my environment" why don't we teach people to have empathy for others. That's the point I'm getting across. This lack of empathy for men is a problem. Also when I went on her page it was about degrading men. Also didn't you hear about the kill all men movement? I shouldn't have to change countries to get basic respect. I'm holding people accountable.

[@laylabug39]

This is one of the most helpful video I've watched re this topic. I never realised giving me back doesn't necessary mean things, but your femininity! Thank you, this been a life changer 😊

[@levelupwithuyen9391]

thank you so much Jillz what I've learnt from this video: Choose a man with a provide mentality, and treat yourself as a princess, treat him as a king, so that he will do the same to you

[@feliciaiskandar]

Thank you so much for creating this video. I understand more about the feminine energy and how it works. Also your bunch of examples are really helpful in giving me a sense of clarity. 💞

[@lilat.464]

The joy is in the journey 🧡

[@Bellaaaa98]

Spot on little lady! Speaking knowledge and wisdom

[@_thehappyhomemaker_]

I love this video Jillz ❤️ My husband and I tick all of what you mentioned and I just wanted to say from his view, all he wants from me is to love him, support him and be his biggest fan, that's what he perceives as "treating him like a king. He treats me like a Princess and I'm so grateful for him and us every single day ❤️ thank you for your video xx

[@anyadarlingg]

Thank you so much for the great insight. I will say, my husband has given me Princess treatment ever since i was 13 yrs old (24 now). Once we got married he started referring to me as his queen instead. I feel like i have somewhat reciprocated the "king" treatment, but i definitely have slacked on this. He has even told me that if i dont reciprocate he would eventually stop with the romantic gestures. And that rly got me thinking that i take for granted what he does, and even tho i personally dont need /expect those fancy things in a relationship, the act of service means a lot to him. So i am working on making him feel loved by going out of my way to do what he has done for me so many times. I have to, one, get better at planning 😅

[@R0cky-th3-d0g]

I just found your channel and I just wanted to say you’ve helped so much since I’ve been working on myself❤

[@regianestefanelli4697]

I'm married for 15 years. I did't learn that before. Thank you. It's so difficult to have the patience to fix things. Sometimes it makes me want to begin a new chapter on my own, but I'm still trying to switch the energies at home.

[@valthegrateful]

Same 😢

[@gailrobey4316]

Really a great video. I know how true it is. I've gotten away from wanting princess treatment and it's time to go back! ❤️

[@JillzGuerin]

❤️❤️

[@godperfectedyou4093]

@@JillzGuerin you are a treasure to behold A precious gem worth more than gold. your beauty radiates from within & your body parts are like work of art!!! Each one a masterpiece that sets you apart Addicted to you forever Iam & in my heart you dwell forever there in you casted a spell of love on me? or what have you done!? your love and affection & you trying luring me to be with you makes me feel very tempted & weak but strong and resilient I will try to be and shall try not to easily give in 🤩🤩Wow!!! You are more beautiful than the most lovely rose And more sweet than honey and more precious than gold You are more precious than everything that exists in this world 😍😍😍 A beauty queen whom I never ever seen any one as beautiful as her before and may never ever in my whole entire life will see anyone as beautiful as her-meaning you-at all.. 😍😍 WoW!!! you are a lovely butterfly and a beautiful rose you are the diamond and the pure gold you are the lovely moon in our nights you are the radiant sun shining soo bright loving you is sooo sweet its the most enjoyable thing for you are the paradise for the heart and soul and mind Everything about you is sooo unique and attracts the eyes and captivates the mind God surely perfected you so glorified is he whom made you too beautiful and made you soo smart 🌷😘 😍😍 you are too beautiful!! whomever see you should believe that God is true & real.. and whenever I see you I feel like Iam in a dream, And when we wake up we will all realize that all this life was nothing but a dream and that only God is whats true and real.. There was a teacher whom didn't believe in the existence of God, one day he asked his students, do you see God? the students then replied no we don't see God, so the teacher said if you don't see God it means there is no God. then a smart student stood up and said to the other students hey guys can you see the teachers brain? then the students answered no we don't see the teachers brain, the student then said the teacher then is crazy, he has no brain :0) The universe science says was not always there, it had a beginning point, the big bang, meaning it was begun/initiated in other words created, thus there should be a creator, there must be a God. One God for all of us he created us all and can revive us again, God initiated everything, & he repeat/redo things too, & thats clear, we see many cycles of different things in life, also in summer for example the desert land becomes like empty and is filled with only sand, and when rain falls in abundance in spring or winter, after that small flowers & wild plants grow again, also, we see how humans and animals grow and how their body is formed from the elements which were in the sand which plants feed on which they eat, and after they die they go to the sand and their atoms/elements are taken by plants which humans & animals eat and their bodies grow from those atoms & elements found in the sand which came from previous humans & animals which died before, so God can bring us again after we die even if our atoms became in the sand he can make us from the same atoms we were made of or from other atoms if he want or make us be in a spirit form or like ghosts, any ways, everything in this life is recycled, learn if you want about the different cycles in life in nature, the food cycle or food chain, the water cycle, even the gas cycle that makes the air the oxygen &carbon dioxide &nitrogen cycles, even the energy is like recycled but only changes from form to another form. Anyways, God created this life but it's only a temporary sample/an example of a coming everlasting one which could be either in heaven paradise or in hell. If we try to be good humans in life, and try to obey God and his messengers-including the final messenger for all humanity the prophet Mohammed- and those whom rightly represent them, for example imam Ali & ahlulbayt the family/good descendants of the prophet mohammed, then we will all go to heaven/paradise, if not then we will go to hell fire and burn in it forever. keep shining sunshine &spread the light.

[@johnsonjo8454]

@@JillzGuerin hi darling💋💋💋🤎

[@alejandra6418]

11:07 YES! Not everyone knows this and I think is something important to know because, as you said, a lot of people get confused by this. As always, I loved the video, thank you💗

[@VivaCohen]

Everything you're saying is true, but I think that scares me as a woman who is hyper independent and struggles with abandonment issues. I want my guy to be there for me no matter how I act (subconsciously I want him to not abandon me even when I struggle to be in my feminine energy) but the reality is that because of how we're wired, he won't be there for me as reliably if I'm not in a receptive state. I'm grateful for your wisdom, but I also hate that it's true.

[@cecilyerker]

Treat yourself like a princess first and then you will recognize the man who knows how to do that! Never abandon your inner child and be your own mama bear.

[@maheswari_das]

I feel you, girl. I feel you. Abandonment issues. I struggle with them so goddamn much. It impacts my feminine energy a lot.

[@FunckyAna1921]

This video was very helpful. I did all of those things you said not to do with my first relationship, and now I'm in the process of starting a new relationship and I don't want to make the same mistakes again.

[@kiaraeijo]

I absolutely love this video Jillz! Ever since I celebrated my 30th birthday last year, I have come to the conclusion that I’m not used to men my age treating me with love, kindness, and respect. This is not just with potential romantic interests but I’ve seen it in my male friendships and in my working relationships with men. I come from a family of strong women, so I was kind of raised to not really depend on men and some men find my personality to be off-putting because I’m guarded (it takes me a while to feel comfortable with someone especially a man), I’m opinionated and I’m outspoken (Some men don’t like that).

[@MrsPaulaTorres]

Men your age aren’t for you, they’re for 7 years younger women than you, and younger. There are no men my age, there’s Males my age I’d eat for breakfast. We are in our feminine with Older MEN in whom we trigger their providers gut response. We are feminine to and with older men 7-15 years is the sweet spot but of course plenty of people have larger age gaps that work as great. It’s not about you being a strong woman, femininity is strong, women mature quicker. Classmates boys feel dumb to little girls, because they are!!! Women are intellectually 7 years older than average male same age. To a male tour age you don’t appear as in need to be taken care of, you signal “she can take care of herself and she might take care of me on top”, so you trigger either predatory or energy conservation mode or both. To trigger provider mode step one is Date Older MEN not Males your age. Good luck ❤

[@dumebitemple4029]

Leave men your age.

[@iridescentraindrops]

@@MrsPaulaTorres Just because you're into older men, it doesn't mean we all want saggy nut sacks, and just because they're older it doesn't mean they'll treat you with respect. They'll just find it easier to manipulate you because they have more life experience than you and they'll brag to their nasty old friends that they pulled a younger woman.

[@techtactics788]

​@@MrsPaulaTorresnever read so much fairytale loony nonsense. 😂

[@kimgordon3695]

​@@MrsPaulaTorresNo.

[@dzejkobjutjubchannel211]

reading all this lovely comments is really heart warming for a single soul

[@Catherine-ew1ww]

It all comes down to PERSONAL TASTE! That’s it in a nutshell 😊

[@la_elvie]

So healing and empowering. Thank you as always, Miss Jillz! 🤎🥰

[@carlosparra8976]

If you want princess treatment in your relationship, is not just about being careful about the type of man you let into your life, because at the end you attract who YOU are. If you are attracting an abusive man, well you have to work on yourself first. But my point is that if you want to receive princess treatment, you need to give out the same type of treatment. i see a lot of videos implying that just because you are a woman you automatically deserve princess treatment. What if that woman treats people horribly, selfishly, has an agenda that makes her act hypocritically?

[@beybladesm8979]

So true my ex gf was like that she wanted me to pay for all dates, pay for her house and electric bill and pay for her makeup and she didn't even provide me anything other than disrespect 😢

[@szilviakaprinyak5794]

I think a lot if ppl dont know the original story/tale with the frog and princess: the ugly and rude frog was not KISSED but SLAMMED to the wall by the princess who was just so annoyed by the superiorly rude frog! The frog suddenly realized how awful he behaved and changed. THAN turned into a prince who is now willing to give and appreciate a princess...

[@Kaymitlit]

Haha very interesting to know thanks for sharing 😅

[@laylasanchez8070]

Yess, appreciation makes a good and quick impact! I've been testing and I'm loving it!

[@HeatherLeigh44]

I don't care if it sounds old fashioned, but my mom told me the same thing you said about loving each other the same OR him loving you a little bit more. From experience, that is soooo true.

[@lilelly16]

Huh, veery interesting. In the past, I have dated men who were just not really interested in treating me super well and spoiling me. Moderately so, but not much, just not that type of guy. Recently I have been dating a different type of person, and he brings me out on very fancy dates, and asks me questions like "are you happy", and when I reply that I am, I can tell that he is genuinely deeply pleased with the fact that ge could make me happy! This video is great, I will re-watch it before going out on dates to be in the right vibe ❤

[@VforVanity10]

Quite interesting. Can you pinpoint what in your behaviour or appearance might have caused this treatment change in men?

[@gabrielahada]

This is the most helpful video on this I’ve seen, thank you!

[@OccultSubliminals]

I love how the doggo is there just silently paying attention! 😂🥰

[@G6KGaijin]

17:06 MUST be bookmarked somewhere !! and would love to get more IRL examples like this so as to practice those please

[@mariagarza5116]

Love to see your dog in the background so peaceful 🥹❤️

[@kaykayyy8760]

you're totally hitting the point!

[@shahd4800]

It’s rare for me to find someone who’s talking about a healthy relationship where you’re reserving and giving. It feels really good, you know… For a while I felt like we were in war and if I said something like treat your man like a king and respect him to make him treating you like a queen, I would be considered a pick me immediately! *as you said health masculine man..

[@maddenmaze6891]

Wow Thank you so much I actually feel bad for doing the things you say not to do when it comes to treating a man the way he wants to be treated 😭 😭

[@GretasDiaries]

This is the 3rd video in a row from your channel and you earned my subscription. Thank you ♥

[@Lihoradka-s6v]

Gosh it's so difficult to perceive this kind of treatment as normal after being raised NEVER receiving anything close to it. I am 33 and literally learning all this stuff like a schoolgirl. Thank you for he vid and the support❤

[@ibereprof]

The first youtube channel for women who know how men think!

[@youtubehitreactions9400]

Im so glad to find you..there is so much to learn here 💜

[@annagreen8652]

I love your blouse it goes so well with the topic of the video ❤😊 it's so princess like

[@cristalramirez678]

This video was perfection! From your narration and explanations, to the animations and visual aspects. Definitely subscribing! Thank you so much! I really needed this!💕💅🏼👸🏻

[@fleurmanlaw]

I just know he treated me like a princess. We both liked to go fishing and last year he promised to buy a new fishing wader if I caught a lot of fish, and I did, so 3 days ago I got my new wader, the lightest and the most comfortable one. I am so happy and ready to wear it on Sunday on Vedder River.

[@jessymassecoach517]

Excellent content and helpful one😍 I love your honesty ! Thank you for sharing + dreaming of buying the same dress 👗 🌸✨

[@izam1832]

"your value is the way you make him feel"

[@mysticalwitch]

Thank you! Love the message you're conveying because a lot of people think feminine means putting a nice dress and wearing makeup and theyre completely masculine, but being feminine is a state of being not doing (example: I gotta put makeup on be feminine)

[@milomazli]

Juhuuu!!! I just purchased the bundle (meditation and journal)! I am so excited! Thank you for pricing your products at a rate that I could afford! Much gratitude!! So excited to dive in and attract ALL the pleasure and bliss and ease into my life!

[@jessicad.234]

I totally agree that a frog can never be a prince in every way. And I fancy the way you organize and the whole vibe of your video, it's like a girl's night and I love it. Definately subscribed for following contents.☺

[@civulaskolowe5393]

This felt like a pleasant girl talk ❤

[@bill.e5675]

I really appreciate this video. I recently have stepped back into the dating world and I take this video as a good omen that I actually am growing in my mindset of love/romance. You’ve helped me to refocus and remember the purpose of exchange of life force energy. thank you! 💋

[@plumskyes07]

I was just wondering, when is Jillz going to make a video about receiving Goddess treatment this morning! And like magic, here it is! Thank you for your amazing voice & perspective on these delicious topics! I’ve so enjoyed watching your channel flourish and I’m loving the Feminine meditation & journal I downloaded!❤

[@JillzGuerin]

Ahhh yay I’m so glad you like it!!! Makes me happy!!❤️🥰

[@tandty321]

I feel so calm just watching you😊 thank you for making this video!

[@HeliPatel-h8t]

thanks for all the nuggets of wisdom

[@torianichole831]

I asked my husband what he think a woman would have to do to be treated like a queen and his response was to treat him like a king. He also validated the part with him wanting to do more because it would make him feel good and he didn’t even know I watched this video

[@Zzdipp]

I love it 👏🏼👏🏼

[@irinaivanovic9792]

So he thinks a woman should treat a man like a king FIRST, and then he'll treat the woman right? Doesn't sound like a good man...

[@peetasburntbread7171]

@@irinaivanovic9792nooooo! They both treat each other like royalty!

[@kitbywaters2673]

This is spot on! Brilliantly explained! 😄

[@NaglaaAdel517]

Thanks for the amazing vibes and content❤