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@warequalspeace425 жыл бұрын
Pat you are awesome dude. Transitioning out of the military was one of the hardest things I've ever done. They really don't do a good job at helping you adjust to civilian life and I struggled for 4 years. The hardest part of transitioning to a civilian job was the lack of leadership, and work ethic of the people around me. It is absolutely mind blowing how some companies still operate. Multi-tasking and efficiency are hard to find. Zero team atmosphere or having each other's back. People show up late/call off all the time, no one gives a shit about doing a good job or doing it the right way. We had so much structure in the military. Everyone had a job to do and you knew the job of those above and below you. In addition, when those above me asked my opinion or wanted to know about a problem, you were honest and the problem got fixed, because if a problem wasn't fixed, people died. In the civilian world, a lot of higher ups ask your opinion but then aren't ready for the honest feedback. I got let go from the first job I had after I got out because I "wasn't a good fit for the company". The only thing I did wrong, was tell my foreman the truth when he asked, and he didn't like hearing the feedback. I didn't even do it disrespectfully. I identified a problem and even gave suggestions on how it could be fixed. Let go 45 days later at my evaluation because I was the only person who ever spoke up. Was a wake up call for me. The other hard part was that the qualifications didn't exactly transition either. So all I could say was "I have experience with something similar. But they never allow you to learn on the job or anything else. A lot of employers don't understand how adaptable we are or how fast we can learn something to get the job done.
@regularguy92195 жыл бұрын
Got out in 2013 due to an IED blast and injuries I sustained. Frankly I’ve been struggling since then. This could be a good topic for you to cover as well. All the best.
@linp36325 жыл бұрын
I got out 6 years ago, happily married, managed to go through university without government help and got a business degree. Now we have a startup business and living in Australia. Life is great. Would I ever go back as a commisioned officer? No way! As far as I see, the biggest issue in military is a lot of toxic leadership, and overall a bad culture. I hope things are getting better.. Before I ETS'd They told me the economy was bad, and there is no jobs.. They said you are not going to fit in easily and this place is your "home" Best thing I can say, I enjoy the freedom as a civilian, it took me 1 year to deprogram, I am a happy boy, I believe in Jesus=God. Anyways, God bless and you can do anything with God's grace, peace.
@justanotherguygeorge1285 жыл бұрын
Glad for you man. The decision i think is the best.
@linp36325 жыл бұрын
@@justanotherguygeorge128 stay out of drugs, excessive drinking, and parties. Put your focus on the right direction and you will find a peaceful journey ahead. All the best. Blessings
@DEXEvolution5 жыл бұрын
Yeah man, too true. It doesn't matter whichever military you serve, higher ups of all ranks continuously buy into really digusting leadership and management practices that just frustrates the heck outta you. The office politics Tai Chi in military organizations (don't know about PMCs) is insane, thought of joining my country's military but eventually realized that being stuck in something like that is just a drain on your brain
@linp36325 жыл бұрын
@Brandon Martin Crabs in a bucket mindset. They are too scared of competing with people in the real world for life and income. Government offers the stability in exchange for a miserable life (slave). But, that's not to say with a good mindset and upright values, you can achieve and enjoy a great military carrer. Although I think its rare to find, as life is really hard around a lot of people who don't seem to be smart.
@justanotherguygeorge1285 жыл бұрын
@@linp3632 Thanks man i appreciate. After a while you know that you hold the keys for your life.
@TheStrategicKeys5 жыл бұрын
*Thank you for this Pat!* I have a number of active duty buddies that are interested in getting out, but don't know how to make the transition without feeling like they have to completely start over. You are always an inspiration with the messages you bring, and you helped inspire me to start my own channel. *YOU ROCK!*
@christinavaldez82365 жыл бұрын
Great advice, thank you. I am sharing this for my nephew Alex who is currently serving in the Navy on the USS Lake Erie cg-70. Love you Mijo, so proud of you!
@menumlor94325 жыл бұрын
Much needed. I plan on transitioning out in February 2021. I have a couple of things that are trying to sway me to stay in or out. #9 resonants with me.
@foundationsales47455 жыл бұрын
Hello Patrick I’m Cliff a member and one of the Admins of the entrepreneurs of valuetainment group on Facebook. I live in Orlando Florida I truly enjoy the content you put out it has been of great help to me and others who have been blessed to hear your work. Thank you and continue to feed us with more
@mockingmediocrity38345 жыл бұрын
Reach out to influences is my big take away One of the fastest way to grow in any business is by reaching out to influences and providing them with value When bigger influences see that you are trying to help them,they will help you back in return
@danielmorgan73685 жыл бұрын
Pat I am a Navy sailor been with you and PHP since the humble beginnings of PHP and you are an awesome influence.
@menumlor94325 жыл бұрын
Much needed video. To many times have I heard my fellow Marines try to get back in active duty after leaving. They plan to get out of the military but never planned what happens after they get out. Always thinking short term.
@samuelsantiago12365 жыл бұрын
This video nailed exactly what I am going through right now. I got out May 2019 and I am literally in the middle of all the challenges you spoke about. It is easy to just give up after a little bit of resistance from the universe but we have to go in long term. Thank you for the video, Pat. I’ve been wanting you to make a veteran video for a while. I’m glad you made it and I can apply it to my life during my transition.
@doramckinney13572 жыл бұрын
Hello, Testpoint is currently looking to fill the position of remote data entry clerk, $50/hr (part-time/full-time), we feel you would be an asset to the firm filling the vacant position. As part of our program called Heroes@Home, which is our way of celebrating our military heroes who defend our freedom, high consideration will be given to military spouses and veterans. Reply as soon as you get this so an interview can be scheduled. Regards,
@smedina66345 жыл бұрын
Would have never guessed this guy was Army. I got out in 2017 and I finally found a passion in psychology and the fire service. Working at getting my degree, working in human services for people with disabilities and volunteering my time in a fire dept. It ain’t easy but life is so much better because of the military and I will always be grateful and in debt to it. Great video Pat!
@28MUSE5 жыл бұрын
I am concerned too💟 Quite a different video you made this time. Good!! making diverse content. Awesome
@ncherise745 жыл бұрын
Agreed!!!!
@muhammedashwackmoossa33695 жыл бұрын
Mr.patrick you are doing a great job. Your concepts are pretty clear and well defined.I urge you to do a video on hong kong protest that we see these days very badly....
@Guns_and_Outdoors_Channel4 жыл бұрын
Great video and information❗️ You nailed it.
@m_kamalo945 жыл бұрын
Veterans do A LOT for our countries, they deserve to have an easy transition into the real world.
@TheStrategicKeys5 жыл бұрын
*ABSOLUTELY!*
@tommiller58535 жыл бұрын
It's not something y'all can do; we gotta do it for ourselves. Everyone has to make that change - some easier than others.
@dgjFOURlife4 жыл бұрын
I'm assuming u aren't a vet.
@johnscott73865 жыл бұрын
Patrick is an absolute legend my goodness
@hmb88015 жыл бұрын
Even I as a conscript who finish the service in less than a month in Iran , I found this video useful . Thank U Patrick.
@seatravel85365 жыл бұрын
Patrick, excellent video, you eluded to it. The biggest issue I had was "dialing it down". As a PJ everything mattered with intensity. Suggestion to all, turn the intensity into effort and keep the failure is not an option attitude.
@gameshady15 жыл бұрын
Thank You for you time and the value you share here with us! Have a FANTASTIC DAY !!
@TheStrategicKeys5 жыл бұрын
*PBD is an inspiration!*
@TerryWadeThompson5 жыл бұрын
I served for 24 years with multiple deployments and recently retired. It's not as easy to transition as you think. It's a complete mind shift that takes a bit of time to get used to and there are things I still struggle with. Although the military has helped me develop knowledge and skills, thank God for being an Entrepreneur because the knowledge and skills I have developed during that process (although different than the military) have helped me stay focused.
@sinlifemedia47595 жыл бұрын
This is extremely informative and deep. You make really good videos
@jimsarge3id3595 жыл бұрын
Great Advice!
@jonasyracheta21855 жыл бұрын
Mad props on this video. Respect it.
@richarddzeble36765 жыл бұрын
Everything you're saying in this video is very true,my dad is in the military and he is in a mess right now,I will not be like him because I have great mentors like you...thank you for contents you provide us
@richarddzeble36765 жыл бұрын
@Lteo Hrnt thank sir for the advise
@Bulldog4205 жыл бұрын
I have a very high veteran population where I live. Thank you for the tips on how to harness this power, as I need the work ethic of a vet on my team.
Veterans offer a lot to any company or business with the skills, knowledge and leadership they bring. As a Veteran, I did the same as what many others do but wore a uniform most of the time.😉
@linsjoin5 жыл бұрын
1.5 subs congrats , well done and keep them coming.
@eliasbatista41945 жыл бұрын
Wow men i love your videos
@divyamurugesan55575 жыл бұрын
Insightful and inspiring 👍☺️
@TemporaryRelased5 жыл бұрын
I thought that you need to leave military first to become a veteran..
@AtlantiXYL5 жыл бұрын
I use regular time even when I was in the service with no problem.
@michaelberrios44765 жыл бұрын
KZbin really needs the Salute emoji! Thanks for the video... sir 😆
@herp_derpingson3 жыл бұрын
Good information but it does not tell me how to recruit with military veterans as an employer.
@crelix38635 жыл бұрын
Patrick congrats for 1.5 milion entepreneurs that You got on youtube
@பிரேம்குமார்-ப4ழ5 жыл бұрын
Nice your speeches
@chuchu365 жыл бұрын
Hong Kong needs you and the advice now 😉
@chrissithlord47605 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. I am 12 months out before transitioning.
@archivaldoWillyCast4 жыл бұрын
Crazy. I'm planning to transition by civilian life to military.
@johnnorman21105 жыл бұрын
I got the one foot in, one foot out problem... needless to say, I'm looking into re-enlisting.
@GCHUSTLEHAWAII5 жыл бұрын
One problem I see is when the military spouse is so comfortable living the military life, the dreams of the person serving is not a priority. My friend was miserable for years and wanted to open up a fight gym but his wife is constantly giving him crap about getting out
@americansteele11745 жыл бұрын
Cuz she banging chad and jody while hes paying for it smh
@UncleSaif5 жыл бұрын
Hey Airborne Daddy, don't forget the Coast Guard.
@BumzyFritz5 жыл бұрын
Atleast were in the thumbnail right? 😂
@taylorwalston15 жыл бұрын
Is that Ayrton Senna or Micheal Schumacher in the background? Solid Choice of Icons
@redstreet80125 жыл бұрын
It's probably better to get a military job that can be used in the real world like, I.T, mechanic, air traffic control etc.
@tommiller58535 жыл бұрын
Yes and no. I am a former Avionics Specialist. I stopped bothering with aircraft once I got out of uniform (the civilian FCC test and ongoing requirements were too expensive given the relatively low salary/return you got for it.) I did however take all that electronics training and turn that into a job as an electrician (maintenance, not journeyman), which led me back to being an electronics tech, which led to an EE degree, which... ...however, as time goes on, your skills have to adapt. And change. And improve. And sometimes, where you end up is nothing like where you started.
@aquilatempestate95275 жыл бұрын
Don't risk your life for the ruling class kids. They wouldn't die for your business plans.
@circuscase2 жыл бұрын
where did the DUI come from?
@lament6664 жыл бұрын
What are your thoughts on Reservists applying these points?
@leonoradompor87065 жыл бұрын
I am the chief of staff of the Legion of Mary,batallions,armies of Mary !
@craigrobertsonmsc.62605 жыл бұрын
Why do I never see anybody wearing two watches.....................
@masterguerrero28055 жыл бұрын
fitbit?
@thelionprince45305 жыл бұрын
Second is most definitely never a watch. Mine is a fitness tracker.
@amirhalaji69545 жыл бұрын
بهت افتخار میکنیم
@levisilk39005 жыл бұрын
25 September!!!
@brisonhill42365 жыл бұрын
Mr David I received a bcd from the Marine Corp and I wanted if u know how I could get it upgraded
@erikisbaum5 жыл бұрын
There is a form you need to fill out and submit it.
@brisonhill42365 жыл бұрын
@@erikisbaum I did that just wondering how long it takes to hear from them
@leonoradompor87065 жыл бұрын
I am the Virgin Mary !
@shawnreed48595 жыл бұрын
Just chew civilians out like boots and tell them your the captain now. It worked for me.
@tommiller58535 жыл бұрын
LOL.... yeah, no.
@sansankambou70995 жыл бұрын
It's not average Man... It's common Man.
@tayloztv30365 жыл бұрын
Hi Pat I love your work and have been learning from you for a long time now!! Valuetainment inspired me to take action on my own career❤️💯 I have started a new KZbin channel on high performance strategys and was wondering if anyone who sees this comment could give me some feedback on how to improve my channel!! Love💙📈
@ncherise745 жыл бұрын
What's your channel?
@thelionprince45305 жыл бұрын
If you gonna promote your channel at least drop the name bro 😂. How are we supposed to check it out.
@tayloztv30365 жыл бұрын
ncherise74 Andy GG Taylor
@tayloztv30365 жыл бұрын
TheLionPrince 😂😂true.. it’s Andy GG Taylor
@ncherise745 жыл бұрын
@@tayloztv3036 okay. Going now.
@BumzyFritz5 жыл бұрын
Just out of curiosity, what was the starting position you got hired for with Morgan Stanley? Thanks in advance!
@leonoradompor87065 жыл бұрын
God commissioned the Virgin Mary to crush the serpent in the end times and Mary is victorious !
@purplenurp55905 жыл бұрын
dam i cuss a lot that's going to be hard to fix
@hayati63745 жыл бұрын
why are so many americans in the military? Do the have a special status in society?
@TC-firstclasscloser5 жыл бұрын
😁 😊😩🤨😏🤔😣😌🙃🧐😝🙁😡🤗🙄😬😐 my many phases since getting out 3yrs ago 😂
@TnACoinZ5 жыл бұрын
#RothchildEpsteinConnection
@freddysmash3 жыл бұрын
As a veteran, I would never work with this guy. His mlm is purely a pyramid scheme.
@throttlebrah3 жыл бұрын
Naah, he's not doing MLM
@summerflashsale81255 жыл бұрын
You are so far behind nv the currency collapse! Its 100% going to happen or ww3. It shows that the hungrier you are the more you read the more you know. Looks like I've out paced you now because when you got big you got lazy. Understanding the bond market and negative rates is key moving forward.