How To Rediscover Yourself

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@AJM_ALL_DAY Жыл бұрын

I had this video in my watch later playlist. I have been on this year+ long journey of healing and recovery due to things in my past. I'm a people pleaser and will easily sacrifice my well-being for others wants and I have been growing in that area to do better for myself. The biggest thing I've come to find is the pressure I put on myself to stay along this unfulfilling path of doing things I find out that I don't like from my father's pressure of finishing what I started. I've found this specifically in the major that I am taking/schools that I go to, and more. My mother is also somewhat in the same boat of influence but in other areas of my life. I know deep down inside that there is something greater for me despite the emptiness and just plain confusion I have been dealing with for the past years. I am truly blessed to have listened to this video. Because even though it didn't cure my issues, it laid out a decisive plan for what to do next. And quite frankly, to face my fears of being who I truly want to be despite what the world, society, and what my family thinks. Because at the end of the day if I lose, I gain experience, and if I win all everyone would say is congratulations and I knew you could do it. Thank you, Mr. Banks, and I hope and pray blessings upon your life and everyone else who is in my same position.

@Titan_Bravo Жыл бұрын

Watching you is always an inspiration. Hearing your words, even when it’s hard to admit them to myself, is a dose of wisdom packaged perfectly. Thank you.

@RonaldLBanks Жыл бұрын

Wow, thank you Nicole! I’m happy you’re enjoying my videos and getting a ton of value from them!

@AuntieAprie Жыл бұрын

Just pick something and pursuing it ❤ whew 😥 I needed this down to earth conversation. So much is in the air right now.

@va1445 Жыл бұрын

This is incredibly insightful. Now my kids are grown etc. I have no idea where I want my life to go, who I want to become and even what I like to do! Your message speaks to me and is so timely. Much appreciation!

@RonaldLBanks Жыл бұрын

I love that this video reached you at the perfect time Valarie! Use this to rediscover you! The third step I mention, “pursue something” will be a game changer for you! You got this!!

@willowbei 11 ай бұрын

Your comments about pursuing something encourages me to share this experience: From the time I was in my late teens, to about 5 years ago, I was always fascinated by Bonsai. I finally too the plunge. I took a Bonsai class, created a Bonsai, did it again the next spring, and the spring after that. At home I looked around my yard for trees that nature had planted, which I could turn into Bonsai. I watched a number of Bonsai KZbin Channels. I bought some (inexpensive) tools and some supplies, and shopped thrift stores for pots that could be useful. After loosing two plants in two years, and asking myself if I was getting value from my experience with Bonsai, and being honest with myself, I decided that I was no longer willing to put the effort, energy, time, and money into this hobby. After I made that decision, it felt like a weight had been taken off my shoulders. I do not regret giving into my life-long fascination with Bonsai, because I now know the pleasure of Bonsai, as well as the pain. This just was not "right" for me, and I had to let it go. Thanks you for sharing all you share. Peace.

@kaitlinross4348 Жыл бұрын

Crying was the LAST thing I thought would happen during this video! When you said the days of neglecting your interests and curiosities ends today my friend, I really felt that and I’ve never even heard you speak prior to this video. This is the first video I’ve come across. “prioritizing our interests is our way of making a committment to our selves” I’m putting this on my fridge

@nicoledais4129 Жыл бұрын

1:45 🖐🏾 for sure!

@cathylynnpietranton Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Ron for your ideas, tips, and insights.❤ When I always 12 years old I love to sing and wanted to be a singer. When I was a teenager I wanted to get married and be a mom. Well I got married that didn't work out but I ended up with one child a son whom I love very much. Now I'm taking up reading it's becoming a passion.

@BeeBaldwin Жыл бұрын

I am currently working on reconnecting with myself this summer (teacher)! 🍓

@RonaldLBanks Жыл бұрын

You totally got this Brie! Yes take this break away from the kids at the school to reconnect with you!

@amyli092 Жыл бұрын

This video is something I didn't know I needed until now. It really is difficult sometimes to not live on autopilot... Also, I love what you said about fun and how it doesn't have to stop in adulthood. I guess this means it's all just part of a balancing act. Thank you for this video, Ronald!

@lissetsanchez5316 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Ronald! I needed this as I am at a crossroads in my life.

@toshanicholecollection Жыл бұрын

✋🏾I love listening to you! You are so articulate with your words and knowledge. I feel like I'm listening to an audiobook every time I watch your videos! Love this! Keep up the great work👊🏾I'm waiting for you to become an author 🙌🏾

@Naswillshine Жыл бұрын

This is so good. Reinvention has been ringing in my brain for a while. I even just made a tik tok about it. This provided a lot of great prompts and things to think about.

@kirklandsmith9865 Жыл бұрын

I’ve missed you! This was timely !

@RonaldLBanks Жыл бұрын

I’m still here my man! Lots of new content coming. I’m glad you enjoyed this one though! I’m very happy it reached you!

@DamienCH 10 ай бұрын

🖐️ I’d like to thank you 🙏🏻 Ronald. I’ll be implementing these strategies.

@elizabethingram9784 Жыл бұрын

Hi! I’m really glad I found your channel. You have such a nice delivery style. I look forward to seeing more from you. Will be diving into your core values worksheet and decluttering advice. I graduate from college this Sunday, and my life is not yet my own! Looking at my life with fresh eyes now. 😅

@RonaldLBanks Жыл бұрын

First off… CONGRATULATIONS!! 🎉 Proud of you Elizabeth! Now is definitely a great time to reset. I graduated college in 2015 and I started my decluttering journey in 2016. So I was in your shoes once upon a time. Hey if you ever have any questions, don’t hesitate to reach out. I want to grow with you on this journey!

@elizabethingram9784 Жыл бұрын

@@RonaldLBanks Thank you, you're very kind. :)

@EricCWilson Жыл бұрын

Very insightful! Recently starting my youtube channel is definitely another step for me in my journey!

@nicoledais4129 Жыл бұрын

As always, Thank you for this Ronald! So simple yet so profound and impactful❤ Thank you🙏🏾

@christyler975 Жыл бұрын

Thanks as always. Inspirational.

@LivingProcess Жыл бұрын

Brilliant as always 💚 thank you values are a key

@danalawrence8272 Жыл бұрын

You are wise beyond your years!😊

@RonaldLBanks Жыл бұрын

Thank you Dana! I’m glad you enjoyed this video!

@amonralice Жыл бұрын

Thank you. You opened my eyes. ❤

@RonaldLBanks Жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful Alice!

@Icebearkjc1 Жыл бұрын

I've always wanted to be an artist and writer, even when I was younger. Thanks Ron ❤

@RonaldLBanks Жыл бұрын

Writing is an amazing skill to build! I love it! I’m rooting for you my friend.

@abandcalledwoof Жыл бұрын

👋🏾 told my family I wanted to be an artist when I grew up. Appreciate your insight and videos man. Gratitude 🙏🏾✨

@RonaldLBanks Жыл бұрын

Love it man! Keep growing on your journey!!

@tyronewilliams4779 Жыл бұрын

Very helpful

@loraraicheva3644 Жыл бұрын

OMG , i need to write down on paper that the fun doesn't stop when you are an adult and I should stick it to my forehead 😉 it felt like you slaped me on the face when you said it 😢 but in a good way . Thank you 🙏

@nancymosby7369 Жыл бұрын

Such insight😊

@RonaldLBanks Жыл бұрын

I’m happy you enjoyed this Nancy!

@zennoodle Жыл бұрын

Being an adult Is a trap. While I always wanted to be in law enforcement the fun factor quickly faded as I slowly aged. Some people adult too hard and those years of wide eyed wonderment go out the window. I try to wake up with appreciation like the first time I stayed up all night just to watch the sunrise or create new experiences. The key is learning even in microdoses so that way life will be constantly fulfilling.