HOW TO RESPOND TO DISRESPECT (EP. 86)

[@jerameowens4560]

"Was it disrespect or was I offended?" Absolutely love that, the two can easily be mistaken! Great convo!

[@skyllarskitchen]

It's Duke's Osuofia in London T-shirt for me such a classic🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@destinedbykay340]

This was a well needed conversation. Being offended can look like being triggered, and to check disrespect, obtain a certain level of emotional intelligence dealing with others.

[@NnamdiAzih-yn8ty]

Powerful episode fellas. Strong message here. "Cant be disrespected if you haven't laid down the ground rules." I know I been guilty of this. I'm sure many other also needed to hear it.

[@prncsthg7]

I discovered this podcast a few months ago through The Spicy Life with Spicy Mari and I was immediately drawn to the way these men express themselves. It inspires me to grow into the kind of woman, my man would speak about with this same depth and admiration. Thank you, gentlemen. ❤

[@beu2543]

Whew! There is a thin line between offense and disrespect. This episode is right on time for me guys. You’d be surprised how many people don’t know how to go about this situation. Please keep this up 🙌

[@sheis.theone]

This just confirmed to me that I'm way more emotionally mature than I give myself credit for..

[@MaliktheG0at]

Nice and Neat needs to get to 100k by the end of the year.

[@Thegiftofkay]

Congrats to Duke & Chanel! Wishing you blessings & prosperity🎉

[@J2FatherOf3]

I like the concept of “Stay below your girl.” That “space” will NEVER lead to progress!

[@allthingsjoy4049]

I have 40 minutes before I start work, perfect podcast to start my day. Nothing but love for you guys and blessings to you all and and everything y’all doing. 🙏🏾

[@alltimecompilations4089]

There’s an element of cultural bias and growth is learning that we all view the world through different lenses. Being open to learn for all parties is crucial. The older we grow the more our biases are ingrained.

[@clarkkent4991]

Thanks guys!!! Again ALWAYS good to see some brothers getting that growth. Regarding disrespect. For me it’s allllll about intent. I’m excellent with picking up what a person is putting down. Fun fact…. As I get older I noticed that my tolerance has changed and my empathy has evolved. In addition my classification method for determine what I believe to be disrespectful has changed as well. But it all comes back to intent for me. Take care and be safe brothers.

[@SignedSteph]

If you know you can’t handle yourself while under the influence, with all the dangers in this world, why not enjoy the night without alcohol? Maybe don’t drink to the point your disoriented? How can you admit to feeling a certain way for your own decisions you make? But you win for the reaction to your love ones. I respect and feel you on meeting your partner with love. I feel that, we’re all on that path. I like how you all try your best to work through life. It’s reality. You all aren’t a “moment men”. You think past that.

[@heyerikan]

Hey everyone, I just wanted to share that the Nice & Neat set is really awesome. The couch color, the monochrome backdrop behind Omar, the color edit of the video, etc. Nice job production team. And thanks for improving the sound 😊🙏🏾

[@gregorybadgley]

One of the best podcasts I've come across

[@kimchikimchi1251]

I love that you all are having more events. Building community is so important especially for men.

[@jonesgirl06jone7]

When he said, "ay yo look" 😍😍😍owwww🤣🤣 no disrespect to your girl!🤣

[@leonpierre6810]

Great conversation gentleman. A lot of feeling disrespected comes down to intention and you have to weigh where the intent comes from. Jalon and Duke are just like me if someone goes low with me we going to hell together which is why I avoid those situations lol

[@sejiroagosa]

Another Banger…This Was Needed And Major, Especially For Men Because Of The Ego (One Of The Cores Of Our Emotions) We Posses, Which Can Get In The Way Of Us Making More Logical & Sound Decision When Addressing Disrespect. Great Job Fellas👌🏾

[@ashley691]

Absolutely loved this episode. It came right on time. I loved the transparency and the vulnerability during some of the moments.

[@foreverjaliyah3579]

“I cant make anybody feel like there doing more than what there doing outside there will house ” deeeeep

[@dionaisej]

Loved this episode. So much wisdom. I feel like these are good things for woman to consider too around disrespect because we’re more likely to take it too far.

[@kalami2010]

Jalon never misses. I always love his takes.

[@keithkalane4324]

Got alot of value and insight on this topic around disrespect. Loved the topic around distinguishing the difference between feeling or being disrespected and being offended

[@biancamaitre4544]

Jalon basically saying you go low I'm going to hell respectfully 😅😅😅. If you push me there

[@NYKIRA]

this is a great conversation, love how reasonable you all are and how the guy in the white t kept throwing curve balls

[@gemigemz]

Duke’s T-shirt😂 u weren’t raised in an African household if u haven’t seen that movie.

[@NiceAndNeatThePodcast]

😂😂😂

[@cinqueh]

This one of them ones!!🔥🥃

[@carmellabrown3335]

I believe and hitting gnats with sledge hammers need to be on a shirt lol. I loved this conversation and at 29 minutes that insight was so needed. Sadly, I relate to Omar when he said " loved ones".

[@francisw3456]

Per usual, GREAT DIALOGUE and breakdown on this topic. Definitely some Ah ha moments. I know personally I have a sharp tongue and could use the work in understanding its impact on my spouse and others. #workinprogress

[@brandonbowers2932]

I was once disrespected at a past job. I working in a residential facility and one of the patients there had a nanny for their children. I was speaking to a colleague and she was within earshot of the conversation. Afterwards, the nanny approached me and stated, “You speak well for a black guy.” I responded, “Oh you’re one of those?!” The lady was Hispanic, who spoke broken English herself by the way. I reported her and most times since then, she was nasty with her interactions. Long story short, sometimes when people disrespect you, knowingly or unknowingly, there are opportunities for teachable moments. To teach them how to treat you and to teach them who you are and who you ain’t. 😎

[@ryawhitt9710]

I haven’t even watched this yet but I’m so glad y’all made a video about this! Being from the Eastside of Detroit one thing I don’t play is disrespect! Mouth get real crazy off the disrespect, don’t try me. I want to get better though!!!

[@taylormason3252]

This is good guys

[@TaperTim.]

This podcast is greatt

[@keys8885]

This is good b/c you guys provide a lot of wisdom for men to operate positively in their relationships but this is helping us just as a man individually. Thank you I have been waiting on content like this again

[@ECVIDS999]

This was a really good one

[@MartyMar-yk1ik]

Thank you guys so much for this!

[@djonmcternan]

Really enjoyed this, it was a very informative listen & definitely made me reflect - setting clear boundaries is so important, it took me a while to come round to the conclusion that setting boundaries and standing your ground is absolutely essential ! Knowing your people & their capacity is a topic that should be spoken about more and something that is EXTREMELY important to remember, you can’t always impose your capacity of love,patience etc. onto anyone else, it’s all subjective based on life experience

[@quanaehamilton6160]

Intentionality matters!

[@ConnectionsAreEndless]

Great conversations Kings as always 🔥💪🏾

[@gaillastof8851]

Everytime I see an upload, I click PLAY. LOVE YOU GUYS 😊

[@Delonta1221]

Great convo. Lots of perspective.

[@randyvixamar3072]

great episode at a perfect time. I’m like Duke and Jalon. I’m respectful and operate respectful If you know that and disrespect me. I could match it or be worse. 💯

[@Leonie94]

I love this episode I resonate with Jalon’s point of view the most. I’ve always responded back with love and correction in trying to teach that other partner how to not only move with me but in general. Takes a lot for me to disrespect back I have a lot of self control over my emotions. But if you take me there and I’m out of character we are for life.

[@Thegiftofkay]

THIS EPISODE RIGHT ON TIME!!!! Let me grab my popcorn😅

[@kimchikimchi1251]

Jalon sounds like a scorpio 😂

[@NiceAndNeatThePodcast]

He is 😂😂😂

[@ShannonTheDesigner]

Mad facts

[@Christian900]

This was dope !

[@summerrain6125]

40:00 thats smart Jalon

[@breannstewart9123]

This information was very helpful. However, I wish you guys would’ve spoke on this topic from a perspective of friendship and dating as well. ❤️.

[@Jovialjay86]

This was sooooo good.

[@RatchetStudios]

i love this show!!

[@zerotomillions1016]

Words matter. No one can respect or disrespect you that hasn't inspected you and became either respect able or not respect able. The word disrespect is a combination of the prefix "dis" which means "to take away", the prefix "re" which means "back or over, and the word "inspect" which means to "view" or "judge". So the word disrespect ACTUALLY means: to take away respect after viewing, judging or inspecting over and over. Muppet News Flash: if you get disrespected it's because of how people see you or judge you after inspecting you. If they disrespect you, somehow they came to the conclusion in their mind, either consciously or unconsciously, that you are NOT worthy of respect. Most MEN in that situation will try to blame the disrespect on the other person. Rather than becoming offended he should ask the question: why do you think I not worthy of respect? This conversation is especially important if, as a man, you are disrespected by your woman or your children. If you are not respectable, they won't be respect able. Brothers, respect is NOT a right. You have to earn it. YOU are the one who make the people who view you judge you to be respectable. YOU have to lead them to become respect able or able to respect you. If they don't, then it's not on them it's on you.

[@cesarm3236]

I appreciate this comment. Real eye opener in addition to the video! Really needed this

[@MizzAsiaMonique]

Sooo where y’all been???

[@237supportyourown7]

Please bring Caesar Chukwuma on here !

[@SharmonJarmon]

where can I find the intro song?

[@NiceAndNeatThePodcast]

Xaroc - pledge of allegiance

[@queenqueenqueen2797]

Dope

[@Rising_Sun444]

So I have a question, Is it disrespect if your significant other doesn't introduce you to their " female friends"? Example if you and your partner are out and you partner see someone that they know right. They stop to talk with them but don't acknowledge you at all. Do you feel disrespected or offended? Also another example family comes over but doesn't speak or acknowledge you but speaks to your partner. How would you feel?

[@ariesk]

loved it

[@YaBoyNick21]

“I’m not the one”

[@ethershakur4768]

Yessir😊

[@terrigriffin8101]

The problem is people that disrespect you don't care that they've disrespected you. How do you handle that?

[@godsfav]

Answer: dont

[@UniversityofU]

Luke 17:1

[@VirGoat_Tee]

Excellent excellent episode, the three of you alwayss deliver with quality, thought-provoking content 💪🏾🎉 I def wanna highlight Jalon’s point of pausing and choosing to meet disrespect with LOVE versus even meeting u there in the first place 👏🏾 - that one is powerful🤌🏾❤️❤️!!