ONCE A DOG, ALWAYS A DOG? (EP. 56)

[@kimchikimchi1251]

Duke is so well spoken and thoughtful with his commentary. I could listen to him talk all day.

[@MercadezMichelle]

I think experiences train people, each person you meet plays a role in your training.

[@xolanihlone5793]

It's refreshing to see brothers come together and impart knowledge and wisdom amongst each other and to the rest of us. Shout out, from South Africa 🇿🇦

[@ericawalker5712]

Can we get Jalon's mic fixed I can only hear him in one ear, but all in all good episode guys!!!!!

[@crystalrubbie9383]

man i thought it was only me looool

[@YXtraTV]

Very true..one of the mics been like that for a while now in some of the previous episodes… i think it can be worked on in post production.

[@Selfloveandhappiness]

Thought it was only me. Almost made a doctors appointment

[@LaKae444]

Ohhh… Not even halfway through, and this is guud 😂 Jalon does a good job of moderating & having them expound on certain POVs Whoa!!! Major key Duke. 🔑 #discipline

[@valariowhite1273]

“Bro” *long pause* “a dog is a dog forever” had me weak 🤣

[@EarlTheGirl]

A lot of women convince themselves that they’re dating a man but in return he’s not dating her. When Duke spoke on uncovering those characteristics of discipline & family structure .. a lot of woman never get to that stage of learning a “dog” because he’s not even open to letting a woman he’s not actually dating get to know him on a deeper level! Men in their dog stage usually make it very clear through their actions and their energy that this ain’t that. We as woman not only have to put out the right energy but also be able to identify when the energy is not matched & move on.

[@sarahturtle3270]

Yes yes and YES! Really good explanation

[@instrinsiclove]

Duke confirmed my #1 factor I look for in men I date- discipline. And I respect Duke so that says I’m on the right track haha

[@charliahstarks1071]

This podcast is really therapeutic for me 😂. I’m working over the computer participating, listening and taking everything in at the same time 🍷

[@19nvo]

Hey Duke what you said about discipline was superb and 100% facts

[@compelledbycandice4235]

Enjoyed the episode! I would've LOVED to hear Omar elaborate on why he said it wouldn't work if a woman slid in a man's DM's and "picked him 🤣His response was too quick and very strong 🤣🤣

[@nicki919]

i just wanna say i really needed this self check thank you for the realness y’all bring. i’m onto bigger and better things

[@lucendawebb7204]

My understanding of what Omar was saying about “a dog is a dog” is that one can possess that trait but that same individual can choose not to act as such. That’s like saying under certain circumstances women can be perceived as “crazy” but I, for example, can choose not to go there. It’s in me though, but I’m not going to allow myself to get to that point. And that comes with growth, it involves maturity. I also don’t believe a woman can change a man, and vice versa. A man’s heart can only be change by himself. The ability to change should never be dependent on another flawed individual. That’s what I believe.

[@shakeya_shambrea]

Now this conversation was amazing! Duke be giving it to us. The way he puts things into prospective! That’s the wisdom on the Holy Spirit. I know Chenel mind gotta be on 💯 to be in his presence every day !

[@Keoanteblackamore]

Y’all gave so much free game this episode ✍🏽 Watching from Michigan

[@Ellenelcyy007]

Always a vibe ! Intro song is definitely a hit !!!!!!!! Much love !

[@EarlTheGirl]

Right I need the link to the intro song.

[@Ellenelcyy007]

@@EarlTheGirl here you go !! >>> XAROC - pledge of allegiance

[@allthingsjoy4049]

“A dog is going to do what a dog can get away with” interesting. I don’t think I agree but love y’all podcast. Definitely been giving me insight on how men think and just different perspectives to consider. Thank y’all.🙏🏾

[@Momentswithelizabeth]

That was an interesting point. Made me think is that why people continue to cheat because they know they can or nothing will happen.

[@Momentswithelizabeth]

Or like a guy is going to always ask you to Netflix and chill. Besides taking you on an actual date.

[@travelwithshak3469]

Fr Fr I enjoy this podcast. I live in Mexico City and all my homeboys are back in the US so it’s cool to tune into these convos

[@watchmelinerose]

This was a GOOD conversation. So-so-so good. I wanted to hear Omar elaborate more on why he believes a woman sliding in a man's DMs wouldn't work out long term. Lol. I think it's no different from a woman "choosing".

[@MercadezMichelle]

The example given, both women picked you. However, one considers you a dog the other doesn’t but you’re still the same individual they both picked. One woman has to accept accountability for picking you but the other one doesn’t. Did one woman make you change in the process or did you decide to change for one woman but not the other? Yea I’m going to need a part 2 on this episode 😂🤣

[@lililovesbeauty100]

Always learn something new ! My favorite podcast fr !

[@1dyce2]

I definitely wrote down I wanted a disciplined man and other characteristics . Often times we lack intention when dating or looking for a relationship/partnership however it’s easier to attract what you have defined you desire

[@sarahturtle3270]

Love the video! Very thought provoking conversation. I still lean towards, like duke said, checking the abstract characteristics of a man. success looks different for everyone and what one woman may see as success I can see as a red flag. I also as a woman look at other women’s character when she’s choosing men and through maturity can see if he truly is a dog or she’s not taking accountability for her choices.

[@devineelegance84]

Thank you guys for sharing. great advise to women to work on our energy. Very pratical information . I look forward to seeing you guys and hearing your prospective. Thanks for investing in us.

[@ariesk]

I like that duke find a man that’s discipline wow that’s facts he has patience and he’s has respect for himself shesshh 👑 I don’t believe all men are dogs

[@Momentswithelizabeth]

You have to teach people how to treat you. That's how I'm rolling in 2023.

[@kie_loh_loh8260]

Paused @ 2:27 to answer. I think men CAN be dogs when they aren’t with someone who makes them FEEL like they want to be better and change. Though I think people should do it for themselves (change for the better) but most cases it takes someone to see something in you that you didn’t/don’t see within yourself for you to WANT or BELIEVE there’s better within. *tunes back in*

[@KandiTheSweetLife]

So happy I found your podcast! You guys are very informative ❤

[@Momentswithelizabeth]

The value they place on themselves. Dang.... I can kinda agree. It's more like we do feel of value but not acting like it.

[@LayelleTee]

Yes Jalon! Speak!

[@tierrasardine562]

Surely it’s so much love flowing my way to you fellas for this one ❤️

[@237supportyourown7]

Hey I really love y'all show! Please have Caezar Chukwuma on next as a guest.

[@treceiow1056]

You guys should try to get 19 keys on this show

[@DHenny]

Duke does it for me !!!!

[@shakeya_shambrea]

Jalon hair cut is 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@randyvixamar3072]

episode was great I understood each one of your different perspectives. great topic

[@GodVindicates]

I've always said this, men pick, that's why it's absolutely ridiculous to approach a man... you're wasting your time sis.

[@jaelashae511]

YES! This! People look at me crazy when I say I don’t shoot my shot… it’s unnecessary when you’re dating with intention.

[@GodVindicates]

*Men pick initially ( and of course as women, we can accept or dismiss his pursuit)

[@GodVindicates]

@@jaelashae511 absolutely!

[@Regankr85]

Life changing gems 💎 thank you

[@KiaraParkr]

This is so helpful

[@kie_loh_loh8260]

*comes back seconds later* because he can be a DOG for her but a MAN for HER. *tunes back in again*

[@yaniquefrancis429]

Much love

[@iammarlishia5233]

Great episode guys! Definitely needed. I gained a lot of knowledge 🙂

[@Leng282]

Thank You. Beautiful episode ❤

[@itsbrittoneil]

You can meet a discipline man and he still step out and lie and be a so on so called “dog” I’ve seen it first hand by experience! A man who has discipline doesn’t always mean he ain’t lie cheat or step out in his GF or even fiancé

[@Me-px7js]

Hmmm, the meaning of disciplined means not stepping out I think. If a man who has made a commitment steps out, he’s the opposite of disciplined it seems

[@DHenny]

Omar literally described a dog and tried to compare it to a human being that is labeled a “dog” 😂

[@starttheconvopod]

Great point on men have seasons. Also an outstanding point on discipline.

[@DHenny]

I Absolutely commented asking about a cousin or brother 😂

[@sparkwill5337]

Dukes face when Omar said they all dogs

[@mekeriefrancis3077]

Duke’s comments 💯

[@Delonta1221]

I think Omar was arguing the difference between a dog and a wolf, a boy (immaturity) vs a man (maturity), a follower vs a leader

[@Leeeiggh]

I love Jalon!

[@lavidalovely8898]

Thanks for the episode

[@TheKaRenaLee]

When Duke had that little intro I thought they were bringing the girls out . *sigh* lol still love it

[@jaelashae511]

Absolutely love love love this episode 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@kameshaewing9746]

Keep up the good work

[@belledelemos9615]

Awesome episode

[@Wholisticbohoo]

This was soo good 💥💥💯,Jalon please fix the mic...

[@ShannonTheDesigner]

There should be an episode on “teach”

[@intentionalgreatness]

Golden nuggets all the way through. #discipline

[@daniellemason8481]

Much appreciated

[@monquiemc4935]

Educational

[@Abovedlaws]

My Answer Is All Men Are Dogs, cuz at the right time and right moment, the Cat will Get “Hit”😂 Whether He In Love or Not. A Men Can Have Self Control For So Long..

[@kendrick8749]

Someone on Twitter said Women got so tired of men becoming dogs they became pigs🐽🐷🐖. I hate it here😂

[@DHenny]

I think women pick men. In the way that men constantly shooting their shot it’s not until that women picks you to pursue her but then down the line the man picks if she the one he wanna stay with 24:49

[@GodVindicates]

I think Omar is redefining the term Dog (which is cool) but not related to how women use the term or more so not speaking to the negative connotation connected to the term "dog"... (Duke redirected that)..granted I'm only 13+ minutes in so we'll see how this conversation goes...

[@starttheconvopod]

A women can change a man but she should never expect that he will change.

[@sarahturtle3270]

Question to Nice&Neat regarding the convo on men having fathers. I think as human beings we operate in both our feminine and masculine energy, women more so feminine and men more so masculine, and of course there are exceptions. So my question is, for men who did grow up in single parent homes, just the mom, why aren’t they more in tune with their feminine energy? Not saying they need to act feminine but where is the masculinity coming from?

[@herspecsTV]

Good Convo! I don’t think a woman can change a man. I think a woman just like anyone else can influence a man but the man has to make a decision to change or not. I don’t want to change a man. If I meet, get to know you and become interested, that’s for a reason. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with someone being influenced and evolving. However for the sake of this convo, I’m not trying to change a man that is a “dog”. Keyword, “IS”. No. Not interested.

[@mrsphylpie7629]

Women can initiate that they are interested but ultimately the men will still pick from the choices that are initially there.

[@RainaD]

I’m just seeing this episode, and I must say Jalon, YOU knew the men as “good men” because you aren’t in the realm of being in a relationship with them. No one knows anyone or what happens behind closed doors. However, I agree I don’t think all men are dogs BUT all men are CAPABLE.

[@quintonnelson926]

It’s crazy hearing that perspective on the approach women should take coming from another man 😮‍💨😮‍💨 s/o @Duke !!

[@faycali6938]

💚💚💚

[@Anonymous-cl2es]

I don't think men should be compared to dogs bc dogs are loyal and protective, most men are neither 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@kendrick8749]

🐕 woof woof

[@DHenny]

Omar hateeee being wrong he will Drag his opinion to fit and it don’t fit

[@misshun1933]

Umm maybe in this episode, they just don't agree which is rare. But generally I find him extremely open minded and fluid with his thoughts.

[@Abovedlaws]

If Men Choose, Why Do You Still Have To Ask Her To Be Your GF?

[@kie_loh_loh8260]

💭I think experiences train us. (Proceed)