How to Respond to Racism in the Workplace

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Crucial Learning

Crucial Learning

3 жыл бұрын

Joseph Grenny, coauthor of "Crucial Conversations", shares tips for navigating racial bias in the workplace using facts, curiosity, and humility. For more information on learning the skills you need to speak up when it matters most, visit www.crucialskills.com/saythat.

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@AC-kl8gi
@AC-kl8gi 2 жыл бұрын
I complained about racism on my job and was fired.
@purposemoyo1873
@purposemoyo1873 2 жыл бұрын
Eish shame sory
@n.m.3760
@n.m.3760 Жыл бұрын
It's unfortunate. Sorry. If you complain about racism then you are seen as a "troublemaker".
@moezenoe7170
@moezenoe7170 Жыл бұрын
This is when you needed to go to the EEOC. KNOW THE LAWS OF THE STATE OF WHERE YOU RESIDE, & LET NO ONE VIOLATE YOUR CIVILAL RIGHTS.
@Alan_walker_fan_
@Alan_walker_fan_ Жыл бұрын
Same buddy
@LeagueofherownCT
@LeagueofherownCT Жыл бұрын
Same
@wisdomspeaks2010
@wisdomspeaks2010 2 жыл бұрын
I just googled how to handle racism because of a situation I just experienced 💔 it’s heartbreaking and unfair.
@krosex4073
@krosex4073 2 жыл бұрын
My manager purposely dropped something on my head yesterday at work ( while I was the only black person/woman there to make all the other colleagues laugh. We have it hard out here.
@sierrrrrrrra
@sierrrrrrrra 2 жыл бұрын
stay strong
@krosex4073
@krosex4073 2 жыл бұрын
@@sierrrrrrrra ❤️
@aaronfung7743
@aaronfung7743 Жыл бұрын
not even a joke is dangerous racism
@Famemusicoffical
@Famemusicoffical Жыл бұрын
Same …
@sweetcutecoolgirl
@sweetcutecoolgirl 9 ай бұрын
I can’t deal with the racism at work anymore. I’m always a target of bullying no matter where I work… I’m really depressed. Nobody is there to protect me… speaking out will get me more in trouble..
@user-jr8ou8ui8m
@user-jr8ou8ui8m 8 ай бұрын
Hey girl. What is happening? Remember all black people r going thru it
@DominiqueWilliams-ue3rx
@DominiqueWilliams-ue3rx 6 ай бұрын
I'm sorry baby girl
@kimtaro9575
@kimtaro9575 6 ай бұрын
Sorry you're going through that, I hope you can find a workplace where you don't have to deal with that BS.
@EYRM9
@EYRM9 6 ай бұрын
If anyone is racist to you or disrespects you always remember this: “So the last shall be first, and the first last” _ Matthew 20:16 But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment. _ Matthew 12:36 Jesus meant here that people that look down on you and make you feel less will be less for eternity this life is only temporary, what matters is the eternal result and how you're going to be there based on the actions you take here. This life is just like destiny shopping for your next life. No one can defeat GOD.. it's GOD. always remember that when someone looks down on you
@Jayyspeakz522
@Jayyspeakz522 5 ай бұрын
It happened to me recently… when you as a black person stands up to a racist your seen as aggressive. It can make you feel suicidal at times like you don’t want to live because not only are you facing lack of love outside the job, you getting abused there too 😕
@T1Oracle
@T1Oracle Жыл бұрын
Record everything. Dates, times, what was said, who was there, and keep all of your receipts. You will have to be the strongest person in the room, as you will be on your own most of the time. Regardless, recruit every ally you can. You will need them.
@stellasole3720
@stellasole3720 2 жыл бұрын
This just happened. And I asked my manager how to respond in a workplace setting / language & they were useless.
@n.m.3760
@n.m.3760 Жыл бұрын
Being the only visible minority, it can feel like you're held to a higher standard and you are scrutinized more. Alot of it is so subtle too. For instance, any mistakes you make is seen as more "serious" and "magnified" with harsher punishments. Whereas, the white coworkers who make exact, same mistake are given a pass ("Oh, it's a learning curve.", "Oh, it's no big deal. Everybody makes mistakes. They're only human."). It's almost like you have to work 10x harder than white coworkers just to prove yourself.
@SuperKarineka
@SuperKarineka Жыл бұрын
Definitely agree with that
@nandhan6637
@nandhan6637 Жыл бұрын
i experience the same everyday :(. im in germany where 99% are whites... i made a bad choice choosing this country...
@kampanchannel
@kampanchannel Жыл бұрын
@nan dhan God damn! I dont envy you. I been there.
@sebo641
@sebo641 Жыл бұрын
@@nandhan6637 you went to europe and most people are european. What did you expect to be different? Now that doesn't mean anybody has a right to be racist but it's completely normal that germans in germany are germanic people
@amareshkaimal2972
@amareshkaimal2972 Жыл бұрын
@@sebo641I mean the dude regrets it
@MsNPee
@MsNPee 3 жыл бұрын
thank you, from a black woman who constantly experiences this and ignores it for job security, whose constantly being sought out by wittiness's who want to lend a shoulder behind the perpetrators back ...owing to discrimination i'm presently in the process of training three individuals to take my position at work as per the story in my 20+ professional life - instead i shall have a frank none heated discussion then walk out- moving forward i now know how to approach the situation before it gets to this stage so thank you for broadening my mindset
@abdullasaeed4028
@abdullasaeed4028 Жыл бұрын
Monkey
@johngoldschmidt4297
@johngoldschmidt4297 Жыл бұрын
@@abdullasaeed4028 Terrorist
@danieljoesphlivelife6884
@danieljoesphlivelife6884 3 жыл бұрын
We've all been there says clint eastwood
@krissykirkness7150
@krissykirkness7150 3 жыл бұрын
lmao
@colinchou8946
@colinchou8946 3 жыл бұрын
There is such thing as racism towards white people
@yukiruikuta6500
@yukiruikuta6500 3 жыл бұрын
@@colinchou8946 there is.
@pinknotebook
@pinknotebook 2 жыл бұрын
LMAO
@WesAppe21
@WesAppe21 2 жыл бұрын
White dude advising you on how to respond to racism from white people lmao
@JazzGaming26
@JazzGaming26 Жыл бұрын
I've had my experience with a racist co worker a few years ago. They decided to say the n word to me and I reported it to a manager right away. At first all they really did was put us on opposite shifts/days which is only a temporary solution. Before this incident I was very nice to this person. After that incident I stopped helping that person and stopped telling them when their break was. Months go by and she got fired for an unrelated incident and I got promoted.
@terribletallrus6520
@terribletallrus6520 Жыл бұрын
Karma 👏
@AC-kl8gi
@AC-kl8gi 8 ай бұрын
Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉🎉😂
@user-jr8ou8ui8m
@user-jr8ou8ui8m 8 ай бұрын
She shudve been fired for racism
@JazzGaming26
@JazzGaming26 8 ай бұрын
@@user-jr8ou8ui8m I agree. Unfortunately because I couldn't provide any proof they had to take it as a he said/she said thing. But after that I made her job 10 times harder by not helping her with anything. Karma did eventually catch up to her though.
@ljljlj9263
@ljljlj9263 3 ай бұрын
🙌🏾🙏🏾But GOD!! Just had this situation happen, keep me in your prayers for this same outcome! 🧘🏾‍♀️
@goodday-zy2br
@goodday-zy2br 2 жыл бұрын
Good point sir, I'm from a minority who is a citizen who never felt I belong to the US, and now I'm in the process of migrating for good.
@SeraphicSorcerer1
@SeraphicSorcerer1 2 жыл бұрын
As a white person trying to help stop racism and help stop POC from the unnecessary harassment and disgusting discrimination this video really helps. In future I’ll put this method into action!
@glxzzygobbler953
@glxzzygobbler953 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you
@baddidea4820
@baddidea4820 8 ай бұрын
Let’s be clear as a white person you’re inherently racist and still to this day benefits from the system gets better in your favor, so please stop right there and don’t act like you’re an ally because you’re not. This video is insulting by nature to have a white man tell anybody about racism is a joke even the words touchy as if it’s a touchy, touch and go situation, when dealing with racism is insulting you’re not an ally the best thing you could do is just shut up and mind your business
@sylvialyall6757
@sylvialyall6757 8 ай бұрын
As a white person, I want to thank you for caring to give this advise.
@teascobie6557
@teascobie6557 7 ай бұрын
the video is useless because we all know if you call someone out on being a bigot YOU will get targeted and lose YOUR job and all employees will turn against you. If you're okay with this outcome by all means speak up.
@paulsharp6559
@paulsharp6559 5 ай бұрын
Yeah, well good luck with that. Sometimes it’s best to act like you didn’t even hear it. Treat it like it’s a piece of shit and walk around it.
@shriverfam230
@shriverfam230 2 жыл бұрын
I'm working a job where I'm treated poorly because I don't speak Spanish , by the Hispanic workers , which is everyone except me . Wtf is wrong with people .
@SuperKarineka
@SuperKarineka Жыл бұрын
"herd mentality" it is just ignorant. Sorry to hear that
@newtechnoblade
@newtechnoblade 2 ай бұрын
You suppose to be treating them bad.
@jasonpigott972
@jasonpigott972 10 күн бұрын
I’ve experienced this as well they think they are special bc they speak Spanish last time I checked the commons language here is English so fudge them!
@BrianDonato
@BrianDonato 3 жыл бұрын
Overcoming racism is not emphasized enough nowadays - I just put up a deep video on my channel on some strategies to overcome racism. I encourage everyone to tackle the topic productively and not negatively. Got to bring original thought to the table.
@wayneferrell160
@wayneferrell160 2 жыл бұрын
I get a kick out of people who this sort of thing comes from telling you how to respond to what they say 🤔
@qbeautiim9374
@qbeautiim9374 9 ай бұрын
I’m going through this now. It’s a horrible feeling. I grew up in diverse environments and this is the first time I’ve ever felt racism.
@EYRM9
@EYRM9 6 ай бұрын
If anyone is racist to you or disrespects you always remember this: “So the last shall be first, and the first last” _ Matthew 20:16 But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment. _ Matthew 12:36 Jesus meant here that people that look down on you and make you feel less will be less for eternity this life is only temporary, what matters is the eternal result and how you're going to be there based on the actions you take here. This life is just like destiny shopping for your next life. No one can defeat GOD.. it's GOD. always remember that when someone looks down on you
@PetitMusic
@PetitMusic 2 жыл бұрын
I showed the guy next to me always ranting about Asians the whistleblower link of our intranet page and told him should I ever hear another racist comment I would make a HR case and he would be gone faster than he can blink.
@wizdomtrust1596
@wizdomtrust1596 2 жыл бұрын
People of all walks are failing to realize/acknowledge that the most racist acts aren't the names called. It's the double standard. I am one of the members of this Trust, and the state of Michigan has recognized me as a genius, and yet in most of my conversations, before I have a chance to respond it is assumed that I am ignorant, or cannot comprehend the conveyed concept. I observe how these same people have conversations with my non-African peers and the conversation isn't laden with negative presumptions. Until this changes there is no progress, and it should not be this difficult for humans to treat people based on their actions and their actions alone. I understand that some of you may respond in a way that requires me to interact. I most likely will not. I WILL ONLY respond IF AND ONLY IF you are willing to come to my production studio, and let us make you black for 6 months while we film what happens.
@user-tu2ce4lw4w
@user-tu2ce4lw4w 9 ай бұрын
@jessicaras4540lol get out of here with that babble the elite wrote fir you
@IntegraProsper
@IntegraProsper Жыл бұрын
SO I WALKED INTO MY SUPERVISOR'S OFFICE AFTER HE INTERVIEWED A GUY. HIM & A MANAGER WAS TALKING & I HEARD THE MANAGER SAY TO THE SUPERVISOR "SO ARE WE GOING TO HIRE HIM ?" THE SUPERVISOR STATED "THAT BLACK KID WITH THE DREADS ? HELL NO, THEY'RE ALWAYS STEALING." THEY BOTH LAUGHED, THEN TURNED TO ME AS IF I WAS SUPPOSED TO HOP ON THE BANDWAGON. MY FACE WAS EMOTIONLESS. I WALKED RIGHT BACK OUT & WENT TO WORK. I WAS FIRED THE NEXT DAY BECAUSE I CLOCKED IN 1 MINUTE EARLY. L...
@Ad-Lo
@Ad-Lo Жыл бұрын
😮
@angelaxu110
@angelaxu110 3 жыл бұрын
I’m Chinese, what my dad taught me: unless you can over power that person like your boss, be a boss to him. Otherwise, there’s nothing much we can do. 🤷‍♀️
@Gyum-gk8nc
@Gyum-gk8nc 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, the younger generations should take care of it just fine. Their innocence tackles the issue better than anything else.
@thejamericanexperience2757
@thejamericanexperience2757 3 жыл бұрын
@@Gyum-gk8nc Younger generation mirrors the footsteps of the older, no different.
@Gyum-gk8nc
@Gyum-gk8nc 3 жыл бұрын
@@thejamericanexperience2757 The older generations always get humiliated. Younger kids hate humiliation. If someone's mom wore something weird and doesn't care about it, her kid might not want to wear it anywhere and will most likely always try to avoid it. Same goes for racism. Kids care too much about what their peers think.
@alannajackson1433
@alannajackson1433 2 жыл бұрын
Wow. Weak personalities think this way. You never have to "just deal with" ANYTHING
@wizdomtrust1596
@wizdomtrust1596 2 жыл бұрын
@@Gyum-gk8nc Would you be willing to participate in a 6 month case study? Our production studio will use make-up, masks, and paint to make you black and we will film you carrying on this way for 6 months filming what happens.
@virtualtrider3707
@virtualtrider3707 3 жыл бұрын
my head boss is racist but he dose it really well i need help :(
@Honestly100
@Honestly100 3 жыл бұрын
My co worker and surrounding are racist, I m sad too
@stunnerkumah
@stunnerkumah 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@littlekittyonaroof
@littlekittyonaroof 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry! If you can get out of there and report the incident. If it happens next time try to document it for your safety, and so your perspective can be seen.
@Melodiio
@Melodiio 2 жыл бұрын
I hope things are better for you im so sorry ;; i agree definitely document and see if you can go over him if not please get out of there and report it. dont be afraid to have friends or family call in to complain as well once youre out or gather co workers to help support you if youre there
@LOVE4INDIETV
@LOVE4INDIETV 2 жыл бұрын
Why I do I have to deal with racism just to get a check, this happens in every workplace, it sucks!
@ellewoods9396
@ellewoods9396 Жыл бұрын
Take advantage of technology and the web and work from home, start a business and streams of income you control.
@Chillingisbae
@Chillingisbae 10 ай бұрын
⁠@@ellewoods9396is there a way I can private msg or email you please, regarding making money from the digital space? Thanks
@chadnasir6387
@chadnasir6387 3 жыл бұрын
I wish I had your phone number . We are experiencing racism in our workplace to a large group of people . I think I should say something, but no one else is willing to say it
@Melodiio
@Melodiio 2 жыл бұрын
i hope everything is better! it can be a lot to speak out but i know theyd really appreciate it if you did just to know there is someone else who cares in a time thats so scary
@trinity1252
@trinity1252 2 жыл бұрын
what can you do at school I kept dealing with racism and was tired of him and punched him in the face that’s how simple it is they will never say anything again
@sierrrrrrrra
@sierrrrrrrra 2 жыл бұрын
A W E S O M E
@rocketman1969
@rocketman1969 2 жыл бұрын
Spot on. Thank you so much, sir!!
@fightemploymentdiscriminat9836
@fightemploymentdiscriminat9836 2 жыл бұрын
Crucial Conversations is excellent! Thanks for the tips.
@immasoxfanbaby
@immasoxfanbaby Жыл бұрын
Mate it's childish behavior to me. Either talk about it together or ignore it to let it pass. Great video to create some needed dialogue. Thanks for sharing this with us
@user-gr8ym7zm8b
@user-gr8ym7zm8b Жыл бұрын
Tanks a lot, real helpful tips.
@ACR7791
@ACR7791 2 жыл бұрын
This guy said "we've all been there" I almost fell off my chair
@shuffledworldtarot
@shuffledworldtarot Жыл бұрын
😆😆😆😆😆😆
@alejandromarquez5565
@alejandromarquez5565 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing
@KUNUx1
@KUNUx1 2 жыл бұрын
The most simple way beat their ass up after work .
@ellewoods9396
@ellewoods9396 Жыл бұрын
My solution was to create my own wealth streams which require zero direct human interaction. For everything else I choose AI or the internet to avoid dealing with biased humans. If I have to deal with humans I research and find the least biased human to work with. Navigating this world of hateful trash humans is like a game of chess.
@Doggin27
@Doggin27 Жыл бұрын
True.
@kidstalent9691
@kidstalent9691 5 ай бұрын
I am a doctor. In the last 26 years of working in UK, didn't have any problems because I was in job with stagnant career growth. But now, when I have got a job with good career growth prospects people are being really unfair. When it comes to provide facts that I have the necessary knowledge like passing the exam, I am spot on. I have passed the exam. But there is a stupid system of colleagues need to provide anonymous feedback. People are putting in really toxic comments about me being quiet etc etc, Yes, I just focus on patient care and not gossip around. This is being a issue. I almost feel like putting and as you said, I am thinking of generating wealth streams which doesn't require human interaction. But I have to start from scratch as other than being a doctor, I don't have any other skills.
@celsoprincipal351
@celsoprincipal351 Жыл бұрын
whats the name of this music in video ? thanks. Like
@budiartitia5730
@budiartitia5730 3 жыл бұрын
ah i have once, in my 29yearsold. in that time, "anak lo juga bakal ga ngerasa walopun di kremasi", even unborn and unmarried, i just saying, oh the one bloodline who should terminate what ever her husband jobs (dont try to use active land for funeral then). think my wise-kind of bloodline is no longer needed, they know about trunk bloodline give her birth wisely line. they used it for a business covered by "youngest daughter of mantan pangdam yang jadi Notaris/PPAT.", and make my mom paying it, so i said to them, its not my mom that you know that super rich, its me you provoke cremate who hyper rich. save by felt sadly and already had abortions is not belongs to another nations, even you (I already) told horse .. donkey is one of perhiasan krn kakimu lemah untuk berjalan sejauh itu, their words still there. (report after meeting for lower the price) is Indonesia.
@ARDG89
@ARDG89 2 жыл бұрын
lol I love racism in the workplace it helps me weed out the ignorant people easier. "you speak really well" "you don't act black" "I have the black card, I'm blacker than you!"
@roninwhitehawk8627
@roninwhitehawk8627 Жыл бұрын
Your fucking lucky I don't know who you are
@Boxofcrap
@Boxofcrap 2 жыл бұрын
I get the hint that you have to feel disgusted first? What if you don't mind it? That's the problem. Also, this comes from a position of power, the powerful usually do not care about racism, because victims of racism mostly do not have power. Black people in America experience racism from White, Brown Yellow, tan, and other black people!! How do we get to have a passive aggressive conversation with our bigoted/racist/prejudice co-workers who quite often hold power over us in this miserable cycle?
@ellewoods9396
@ellewoods9396 Жыл бұрын
Build your own income streams. You have tons of ways to generate income and wealth without dealing with anyone.
@jonhi1
@jonhi1 2 жыл бұрын
You know what? Document and Submit to HR if HR isn't doing anything? Submit to the EEOC They will launch an Investigation
@tijuanaclark812
@tijuanaclark812 2 ай бұрын
Im dealing with this now and know 2 others that are too. I have been called out of my name twice. I addressed it and now she has tagged another higher up to try to take me down every time I disagree with her. And where's my boss, quiet, because he doesn't like this type of stuff. Where is the president, quiet. Its ok, I have a track record of success and I have receipts on the incidents that have happened. All truths will be exposed 1 way or another because there are atleast 2 other people with similar stories.
@andrewparker2371
@andrewparker2371 2 жыл бұрын
Great..... that solved everything
@ayshahopson949
@ayshahopson949 2 жыл бұрын
I did all of this and was still fired
@orionemperor5319
@orionemperor5319 2 жыл бұрын
Don't worry sister. They are all the same.
@SevenEllen
@SevenEllen 2 жыл бұрын
@@orionemperor5319 Wow, you've met everyone in the world? Amazing. I'll only come to you for bountiful wisdom from now on.
@AC-kl8gi
@AC-kl8gi 2 жыл бұрын
It happened to me too.
@Tavera12
@Tavera12 Жыл бұрын
Good advice
@TheTakyytakyy
@TheTakyytakyy Жыл бұрын
I'm Muslim and happened to me I did react in emotional way and I lose it and I still don't know what to do . Still single me up from the crowd I talked to HR so I can move out but still not approved yet
@priscillalawless5718
@priscillalawless5718 Жыл бұрын
I am experiencing it right now in my job, I guess. The person is not saying a bad word but her tone and attitude are always condescending towards me. I am hoping that my situation improves.
@atlantageorgia3975
@atlantageorgia3975 Жыл бұрын
That’s good advice
@iknowcharley5
@iknowcharley5 3 жыл бұрын
tbh i just learn how to deal with it, there’s nothing that i can do about it so why cry and complain?
@RyanHicksQ
@RyanHicksQ 3 жыл бұрын
This statement is very bothersome. There's something you can do, report it. Speak up even though it's difficult and uncomfortable. You can do it
@louisehaines8688
@louisehaines8688 2 жыл бұрын
Yea it feels like your helpless and you just have to deal with your emotions.
@wizdomtrust1596
@wizdomtrust1596 2 жыл бұрын
That's so weak.
@orionemperor5319
@orionemperor5319 2 жыл бұрын
@@RyanHicksQ if you are white then please do understand that it's easier said than done. That's all I am going to say.
@Alex-dk8dl
@Alex-dk8dl Жыл бұрын
I'm white and have to deal with racism every to get a check and would 100% get fired if I say anything. My coworkers openly say horrible, racist things about white people and make fun of me for my race to my face. I'm nothing but nice and respectful to everyone around me. WHITE PEOPLE EXPERIENCE RACISM TOO. NO ONE NO MATTER WHAT RACE THEY ARE SHOULD EVER HAVE TO DEAL WITH RACISM.
@protitikhan3861
@protitikhan3861 4 ай бұрын
The racism at my work is directed to me only when no one else is around and I can't prove it. It's always my word against theirs and they are married to the boss. Also I have faced racism in other departments of the same institution and the result is always that they stand with the racists. So...that's why I don't say a damn thing. I need my job.
@drunkdonutboy
@drunkdonutboy 2 ай бұрын
The worst part is its almost always subtle
@xephren6557
@xephren6557 3 ай бұрын
this happened to me at work and i started yelling at the person who was racist and i got a promotion
@markeyosef1579
@markeyosef1579 4 ай бұрын
Most of the time racism isn't what someone say. Its an action.
@etalasu
@etalasu Жыл бұрын
When I work for premium retail I was face with a rad sit supervisor
@HandS-Studios
@HandS-Studios Жыл бұрын
How is a white American giving advise on how to deal with racism? I am so confused. Is it mockery? or an inside joke☹
@MrSivram28
@MrSivram28 2 ай бұрын
lol. this white man is no different. He is racist himself
@pocketchange6010
@pocketchange6010 3 жыл бұрын
your boss and the other supervisors could have used the "N" word, might not like jews and argue with you about other religions and might not like poor people, or Latinos or Asians and still at work people would either stay quiet or quit which are both acceptable but are wrong solutions...your boss might not even like themselves or might think they are the supreme specimen of the human race...that is what it means when people are like that...it fills you with anger...it disgusts you...but it is better to not get in an argument it is not worth it...it is not worth wasting your time with bad emotions
@kynchan3332
@kynchan3332 2 жыл бұрын
There is racism in work but it is not a problem because if you are the wrong colour you won't get hired, so there is no racial dynamics in the workplace. I found this out at the accountants, solicitors and other professional services in the small town. So I also found adopting the same attitude was helpful. But being a landlord the need to deal with many people is ever diminished by the use of agents and I have no idea who gets given the work etc. Often there is no need to see anyone, it is email, phone, text or letter. But now we get lectured on how wrong it is to discriminate. I say I am just using the same attitudes I encountered as a young man. Why was it acceptable then and it is not now? The people that refused to hire in the past should be destroyed not I - I am just continuing what they did to a lesser extent - by refusing to hire the children and grandchildren of the people who didn't hire me. And to add salt to it all the grandparents and parents try to lecture me about how wrong it is - oh the irony. What these older people mean is it is alright for them to do it to people like me, but it is wrong for me to do it to their own. So I hear things like times have changed, please, I was only doing what everyone else did, I'm sorry. Please be the better man and know we have more rights than you.
@skepticbb93
@skepticbb93 2 жыл бұрын
Meh. I'm a senior professional and I'm ok if we as a society must throw the occasional righteous face punch, depending on how severe the "words" were. Because this is the only language that certain people are open to hearing.
@Ad-Lo
@Ad-Lo Жыл бұрын
😂
@thecatgirl9568
@thecatgirl9568 3 жыл бұрын
Help me here, my friends are language racist :(
@user-qx8ut5gm8z
@user-qx8ut5gm8z 3 жыл бұрын
Just excercise bro
@ChristopherWard-kx2iz
@ChristopherWard-kx2iz Жыл бұрын
👍
@scottmarsh2991
@scottmarsh2991 Жыл бұрын
I’m beat down by the term BossMan. I don’t think the young men saying it have seen as many adventure films from the 1930s as I have, so they’re probably completely oblivious to the fact that BossMan is English for Bwana. I wish I could strike a bargain: don’t ever call me BossMan, and I won’t ever make you wade through a crocodile-infested river with my suitcase on your head. Do we have a deal?
@illermenace
@illermenace 7 ай бұрын
And if you do that, that means they've got the reaction they wanted out of you, no go directly to H.R.
@EYRM9
@EYRM9 6 ай бұрын
If anyone is racist to you or disrespects you always remember this: “So the last shall be first, and the first last” _ Matthew 20:16 But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment. _ Matthew 12:36 Jesus meant here that people that look down on you and make you feel less will be less for eternity this life is only temporary, what matters is the eternal result and how you're going to be there based on the actions you take here. This life is just like destiny shopping for your next life. No one can defeat GOD.. it's GOD. always remember that when someone looks down on you
@nickharley2344
@nickharley2344 2 жыл бұрын
Sue!!!!
@Honestly100
@Honestly100 3 жыл бұрын
And thAn ????? Racist is still there what do we do than ???????
@MadM4F14
@MadM4F14 11 ай бұрын
I complained about racism and got played down. They kept the guys, i never went back.
@user-qm8bc4bu1t
@user-qm8bc4bu1t 7 ай бұрын
True I feel this way too
@EYRM9
@EYRM9 6 ай бұрын
If anyone is racist to you or disrespects you always remember this: “So the last shall be first, and the first last” _ Matthew 20:16 But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment. _ Matthew 12:36 Jesus meant here that people that look down on you and make you feel less will be less for eternity this life is only temporary, what matters is the eternal result and how you're going to be there based on the actions you take here. This life is just like destiny shopping for your next life. No one can defeat GOD.. it's GOD. always remember that when someone looks down on you
@elijahmatthew5270
@elijahmatthew5270 3 жыл бұрын
Or they only have a certain race of people eligible for Certain positions
@colorlight9702
@colorlight9702 3 жыл бұрын
They have go
@michaelbowen9653
@michaelbowen9653 3 ай бұрын
Now in 2024 all the job posting i see require you to speak spanish, how is this legal? ive worked in the oildfields all my life till i had a stroke in 2017 i cant do the work anymore so minimum wage or warehouse jobs are all i can do but still today after applying for work since 2021 i have not found any jobs that will hire me unless i speak spanish wtf is going on?
@shaunoldridge1962
@shaunoldridge1962 9 ай бұрын
Really? I wonder how often he has faced it? It is called historical, organizational/institutionalized racial discrimination. According to my CUltural Competency book, book on social policy.
@EYRM9
@EYRM9 6 ай бұрын
If anyone is racist to you or disrespects you always remember this: “So the last shall be first, and the first last” _ Matthew 20:16 But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment. _ Matthew 12:36 Jesus meant here that people that look down on you and make you feel less will be less for eternity this life is only temporary, what matters is the eternal result and how you're going to be there based on the actions you take here. This life is just like destiny shopping for your next life. No one can defeat GOD.. it's GOD. always remember that when someone looks down on you
@EricaYE6
@EricaYE6 Жыл бұрын
Oh, yeah. That's gonna work these days. This ain't the 1950s. I say let people hang themselves with their words. Record them and sue.
@gborowme
@gborowme 2 жыл бұрын
I am in Louisiana, I will be fired if I say something. Speak up 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@orionemperor5319
@orionemperor5319 2 жыл бұрын
Dude, don't worry we have exact same problem here in UK. The management and HR are all white so don't expect anything from them.
@Manuqtix.Manuqtix
@Manuqtix.Manuqtix Жыл бұрын
I’m like 😡 Mmmh I’m going to deal with this racist
@codyburk8523
@codyburk8523 2 жыл бұрын
Facts don’t care about your feelings!
@chillfluencer
@chillfluencer 8 ай бұрын
With the fist.
@EYRM9
@EYRM9 6 ай бұрын
If anyone is racist to you or disrespects you always remember this: “So the last shall be first, and the first last” _ Matthew 20:16 But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment. _ Matthew 12:36 Jesus meant here that people that look down on you and make you feel less will be less for eternity this life is only temporary, what matters is the eternal result and how you're going to be there based on the actions you take here. This life is just like destiny shopping for your next life. No one can defeat GOD.. it's GOD. always remember that when someone looks down on you
@thelastdaybreathinginetern1385
@thelastdaybreathinginetern1385 3 жыл бұрын
.... You can't tell me about racism as a white person.
@StreetfighterU
@StreetfighterU 3 жыл бұрын
You're silly
@thelastdaybreathinginetern1385
@thelastdaybreathinginetern1385 3 жыл бұрын
@@StreetfighterU Thank you silly dilly
@sausthabbirsinghtuladhar1729
@sausthabbirsinghtuladhar1729 3 жыл бұрын
he's just trying to help
@thelastdaybreathinginetern1385
@thelastdaybreathinginetern1385 3 жыл бұрын
@@sausthabbirsinghtuladhar1729 I dated what I said. No leave me alone!
@wizdomtrust1596
@wizdomtrust1596 2 жыл бұрын
@@sausthabbirsinghtuladhar1729 Anybody trying to help should come to my production studio and be black for 6 months.
@yneebet9574
@yneebet9574 15 күн бұрын
Just don't care if nobody touches me words don't break me cus i know who am i .
@submissions72
@submissions72 2 жыл бұрын
Great how to survive racism from a white man. Just what I need!
@Alex-dk8dl
@Alex-dk8dl Жыл бұрын
What an racist statement!
@submissions72
@submissions72 Жыл бұрын
@@Alex-dk8dl but it's true though what can a white man offer me in how to battle racism?
@allyadoe9802
@allyadoe9802 2 жыл бұрын
The notion of RACE was not created by black people. There is only one race, the human race and science is clear about that. There isn’t such thing as black, Asian or white genes. We all come from a common ancestor who began life in the plains of Africa. Some walked out of Africa, lost their melanin which was no longer required to protect them against the UV from the sun, the texture of the hair changed too. For some black people there is still is a feeling of bitterness and resentment because of both historical and current attitudes and discrimination. The notion of race began when a famous or infamous (depends if you are white or Black) Portuguese chronicler named Gomez Eanes De Zurara commissioned by the then king Afonso V of Portugal to write a book in 1450 in which he lumped all the people of Africa together and described them as inferior and beastly, however we should know that at that time, some of the most sophisticated cultures in the world were in African. Follow the money; a few years later the Portuguese started the Atlantic slave trade. Even today 2022 some people believe that it’s ok to mistreat another person because they look different. Religion or no religion, let’s practice kindness. That’s the only way to have peace within. People who have no conscience and no remorse in doing harm to others will have a hard time finding peace in their lives whether in sleep, in their dreams (or nightmares) or in the paranoia and fear that casts dark shadows across their waking moments. Let’s look at history, even now, what are the implications of choosing the darkness? When we choose the darkness over the light we might win a few battles but we can never win the war. When we choose the light we will always win the war. We have tried and proven over time immemorial that wars and division always fail. Why not try a different path and work for peace, starting with ourselves. Try kindness and compassion and love for our human family and see what fruit that bears.
@raminshaghaghi9698
@raminshaghaghi9698 2 жыл бұрын
haha the place I live this method doesn't work. The community is sick
@lowereastsideastrologist7769
@lowereastsideastrologist7769 Жыл бұрын
I'm not rrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrracist
@chung9125
@chung9125 5 ай бұрын
I said just like you said, "I heard you said ___ did I hear it right?" She replied with "oh psst you know I didn't mean that" and made me a sensitive Asian who makes White people racist lol maybe I am glad I didn't get fired for it ha
@Kaleb2shifty
@Kaleb2shifty 9 ай бұрын
Im a child at a school then a stranger said i thought chinese are smart then goes boarder line racist on asians
@user-qm8bc4bu1t
@user-qm8bc4bu1t 7 ай бұрын
Chinese and Koreans are the only real Asians, so they are obviously ignorant. I'm from a minority group so the hatred is far worse but I'm growing weary of countries that act out in a bigoted way. They hire my nationality national origin or other mixed majority groups but they don't hire minorities which is getting really sad. I finally burst out in tears today after the nth injustice. Instead of hiring by competence they hire incompetent then everyone wonders why I'm shy and have low self esteem. Life is abuse is what I've learnt.
@EYRM9
@EYRM9 6 ай бұрын
If anyone is racist to you or disrespects you always remember this: “So the last shall be first, and the first last” _ Matthew 20:16 But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment. _ Matthew 12:36 Jesus meant here that people that look down on you and make you feel less will be less for eternity this life is only temporary, what matters is the eternal result and how you're going to be there based on the actions you take here. This life is just like destiny shopping for your next life. No one can defeat GOD.. it's GOD. always remember that when someone looks down on you
@zeb1
@zeb1 2 жыл бұрын
racist its funny ngl
@baldeepgill7916
@baldeepgill7916 Жыл бұрын
Presenter is a Caucasian American talking about racism 😂
@BellaRose-hj2bb
@BellaRose-hj2bb 7 ай бұрын
I'm the only white person. The hate is real!!
@EYRM9
@EYRM9 6 ай бұрын
If anyone is racist to you or disrespects you always remember this: “So the last shall be first, and the first last” _ Matthew 20:16 But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment. _ Matthew 12:36 Jesus meant here that people that look down on you and make you feel less will be less for eternity this life is only temporary, what matters is the eternal result and how you're going to be there based on the actions you take here. This life is just like destiny shopping for your next life. No one can defeat GOD.. it's GOD. always remember that when someone looks down on you
@wsciekypalestynczyk793
@wsciekypalestynczyk793 2 жыл бұрын
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